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Time to put the focus back on yourself and your goals. I know we were taught that we should put our men on a pedestal. However I am here to tell you NO. Put yourself on a pedestal

The one thing I wish for you this year is to achieve and experience complete peace of mind.

I think a lot of us imagined our 30s would look a certain way.Stable career. Clear direction. Confidence. Maybe even feeling like we finally have life figured out.But for many of us, our 30s actually bring something else entirely: an identity shift.In this episode, I talk about the strange transition that happens when you start outgrowing old versions of yourself ,your old mindset, your old priorities, even parts of your personality.It's confusing, uncomfortable, and sometimes even funny.But it might also be the beginning of becoming the person you're really meant to be.

Chopping it up with my favorite host of all time about 2025. Relationship and personal growth and losses and gains .

Why do we always need to downplay our power or feel like we are doing too much?

In a world where people are sheep, be the odd one out! Become obsessed with you.

Losing a friend can hurt just as much as losing a partner, but nobody prepares you for it.

If there is one thing that doesn't lie and always is trying to save you from being around bad spirits or jealous people is your intuition. Lets unpack signs and ways that we can stare clear of jealousy etc.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for spending money on yourself, or if you grew up believing you always had to settle for less, this episode is for you.

We all say we want to be consistent, until we realize it's basically doing the same thing over and over without immediate result(sad I know). In this episode I'm breaking down the things that can help you be more consistent.

How to turn the boring everyday parts of your day into things you look forward to.

Why do women get shamed for wanting nice things or up keeping themselves?

Is the soft life really about peace or just spending more ?

SPECIAL EPISODE & COHOST !!!How does your healing season affect you ?

Society's timeline is fake and you're not behind in life ,let's release the pressure .

Always doing it alone isn't strength ,it's surviving .

1. Love yourself first!2. Be Authentically you3. Block him/her and DONOT unblock4. Trust your intuition 5. Save your money6. Donot be cheap to yourself7. Unlearn poor/broke mindset8. Never stop learning 9. Be Kind to yourself10. Do onto others as you would want them to do onto you.11. Heal from your trauma12. Wear that dress today13. Always assert your boundaries14.Leave the first sign of disrespect15. If he doesn't ask you to be his gf , you are single16. Do not refriend an exfriend17. Do not be afraid to love or try again.18. That girl is probably not your friend.19. Your value is not in your cart20. Cherish your mom21. Love on who loves on you.22. Be okay being alone23. Smile more24. Not everything deserves a confrontation or reaction.25. Never lose that inner child26.Its okay if you don't like the color pink27. You do not need buy or have everything , everyone has. 28. Figure out what makes you, you. 29. If you are thinking of leaving your hometown , DO IT!30. Start over and rebrand as many times as you need to. 31. Remind yourself of your growth.

Why do we minimize ourselves ? Let's talk about reclaiming space , presence and our voice.

external Glowups are fine and dandy but what's really going on ,on the inside ? Lets jump into this episode ...

Let's stop equating spending and consuming with self-worth. You're not missing out on anything especially not in your cart.

Childhood neglect can fuel a constant hunger for validation in adulthood.

Why do we fear stillness,silence and being alone with our thoughts ?

Why do we choose emotionally unavailable people ? Let's talk about it .

Picking fights , procrastinating , ghosting good things , Lets talk about it...

What drives insecurities and jealousy? What makes you feel like others have it better than you or turns you into being a hater? Lets chop it up

Stop speaking ill of yourself even in the sense of a joke . Our tongue carries so much power over our life .

Never stop making time to pour into you. What changes can you make physically , mentally , spiritually to your betterment today ? For 2025 make you, your next and best project.

Be loud about you. Be loud about your goalsWalk into rooms like you know you got this !

This is a very personal episode and topic that I touched on today. Very often we get so caught up in accomplishing the next goal we forget to enjoy the ride or the process. So today I am super proud and know that I am making Little Chichi so proud. I urge you today to enjoy the process and the period between the you today and accomplishing you goal.

As we navigate our early and late 20's we lose friends and we gain friends. However one thing that we do need to lose is friends that secretly donot like us. So ask yourself is that person your friend or your foe?

Please donot allow people's demons or troubles to overtake you and become your own .

Let's get rid of the people pleasing and doing everything just because we do not want to be the odd one out. It's alright to say NO and you do not owe anyone that explanation . You do you link https://www.googleadservices.com/pagead/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChsSEwi-vr7KjaaMAxWFmYMHHZSAMakYACICCAEQDxoCZWY&co=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwqIm_BhDnARIsAKBYcmsPiOD0z3arkfuq5I6XBoFLzRP-j0TpLg_E4MD86FTJv6nfB_YoWaoaAqeNEALw_wcB&sph=&ohost=www.google.com&cid=CAESVuD2eIEAh7QBTSJOWaUw70_ZywicY2REzJy-Zbk5JD4k_v9TkdqIIMGro3BqiPfpo5D4BDTLX2cgAXX2qjVIIUwI4EKldr8G_8A0Xlvf6fd7u3Ed3xK_&sig=AOD64_0PhDYU7iqZtdWCHd9ZiQDC1-dPJQ&ctype=70&q=&ved=2ahUKEwjQyLbKjaaMAxWU-gIHHY98GpsQwg8oAHoECAgQEg&adurl=

Please binge watch that series and eat that comfort food if you need to today. Unlearn the always on grind mode culture and spend time making sure you are your best self today .

Dedicated to Angela Maria

Siri , play " Love yours by J. Cole" When you look in the mirror make sure you are proud of you and know that you are truly your own competition.

Showing up as your best self everyday is the greatest thing we can do. However showing up over and over in a place that is no longer serving you is not what you need to be doing .If the table no longer serves you its okay to get up and leave, better is probably around the corner.

Oversharing has got to be one of the most detrimental things to our well being . Learn to only share things after they are done . Is lying okay ? No . However people cannot ruin or be envious of what they don't know.

Caring what people think about us should be the last thing on our minds. If your presence makes someone squirm , I advise you to do whatever it is some more . Be so confident in you that it makes insecure people uncomfortable

FOMO?Keeping up with God knows who.Focus on you!

 Difference of a friend/ acquaintanceA friend is someone with whom we have a deep emotional bond, trust, and loyalty. They provide us with support, share common interests and activities, and play a significant role in our lives. On the other hand, an acquaintance is someone we know casually, with limited interaction and shared experiences.

Validation :Recognition or affirmation that a person or their feelings or opinions are valid or worthwhile.

In a world where everyone wants to fit in and follow the norm. Please find you .Find what makes you , you . Dress like you want , wear your hair like you want and most importantly do that thing you want to do regardless of what everyone thinks.

Is it important for us to be mindful of what we are thinking or attaching ourselves to?Is it okay to adapt just for the sake of fitting in ?Chitchat with your girl about it

Who cares how many likes or supporters you get . Do it anyway!