Project Alpha

He was born the year World War II ended — a child of a rebuilding Britain and a generation learning to survive. Alfred Calvert Gerrity grew up in a nation of rationing, discipline, and pride. But decades later, after a broken marriage and a life filled with regret, he found himself in the Saudi desert… holding a Bible that would change everything.In this deeply moving Soul episode, Alfred shares how his selfishness, failure, and guilt became the very ground where God rebuilt his life. From the collapse of his marriage to the quiet of the wilderness, his story reminds us that it’s never too late for redemption, and no distance is too far for grace to find you.If you’ve ever wrestled with regret, guilt, or the haunting weight of your past — this conversation will open your eyes to the mercy that still waits in the desert.⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 – Born as WWII ends & life under rationing06:00 – Empire, Israel, and prophecy: a bigger story41:30 – “I married out of deceit” — the choice that broke us49:00 – Divorce, guilt, and the paralysis of regret54:00 – A gift Bible and a job in Saudi Arabia58:00 – “Taste and see” — the decision to test God1:00:00 – Psalm 4 & the jukebox: false gods revealed1:06:00 – The knock on the door: surrendering the last idol1:10:30 – What true character and conviction mean in a man1:20:00 – Advice to my 15-year-old self & choosing solid friends🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction, and calling.🎧 Available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#ProjectAlpha #Faith #Resilience #ChristianPodcast #Legacy #PurposeDrivenLife #SoulPodcast #Fatherhood

I was a mega womaniser. I never had one girlfriend — I had many. Now I’m a pastor... and I still don’t trust myself.”In this brutally honest conversation, Benoit Bobgam-Moussy — born in Martinique, raised in Cameroon, and now living in the UK — shares how God transformed his life from lust and chaos to love and purpose.We talk about identity, discipline, fatherhood, and why true freedom comes only with boundaries.This episode isn’t about perfection — it’s about surrender.If you’ve ever battled temptation, identity, or shame, this story will open your eyes to grace in a whole new way.⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 - Struggles with Identity and Belonging02:22 - Benoit's Journey: From Martinique to England06:08 - Cultural Transitions and Identity Crisis12:05 - The Role of Faith in Identity18:37 - The Search for Meaning and Purpose25:59 - Navigating Life's Challenges and Mentorship32:45 - The Importance of Self-Management and Time Respect38:12 - Reflections on Youth and Mentorship44:32 - Marriage and Personal Growth52:11 - The Role of God in Personal Transformation01:00:21 - Legacy and the Future🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction and calling.🎧 Available on YouTube & everywhere you get your podcasts.#ProjectAlpha #Womanizer #Pastor #FaithAndRedemption #FromLustToLegacy #ChristianPodcast #GraceStory #IdentityInChrist #FatherhoodMatters

“Doctors were on strike—my father died.”At 14, that tragedy pushed Dr. Ife to medicine. Decades later, he became a consultant psychiatrist, earned a PhD at King’s, and now serves as CEO of NHS Oxleas—after battling discrimination, self-doubt, and doors slammed with, “We won’t employ people like you.”⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 – The Night My Father Died During a Doctors’ Strike05:00 – Boarding School at 9: Discipline, Labour & Lost Childhood10:00 – A Strict Father, Family Name & Pressure to Succeed15:00 – Depression at 14 & My Mother’s Sacrifice to Survive20:00 – Why His Death Pushed Me Into Medicine25:00 – Discrimination in the UK: “We Won’t Employ People Like You”30:00 – The Case That Changed My Career: Not Schizophrenia35:00 – Rising to NHS CEO: Faith, Resilience & No Gossip Leadership40:00 – Faith vs. Laziness: Why Christians Must Do More Than Pray45:00 – Mad or Bad? Murder, Mental Illness & the Courtroom🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction and calling.🎧 Available on YouTube & everywhere you get your podcasts.#ProjectAlpha #NHS #MentalHealth #Psychiatry #Leadership #FaithAndWork #MedicalEthics

“Girls like bad boys.” That’s what she believed… until heartbreak, distance, and faith rewrote her story.What happens when your plans for singleness, your “type,” and even your list to God get turned upside down by love you didn’t expect?In this unfiltered conversation, we share our 10-year journey: growing up in two different worlds (Nigeria & New York), the breakups that almost broke us, the long-distance love that tested us, and the faith that finally anchored us. From heartbreak and red flags to family approval and cultural clashes, this is the story of how we almost gave up — and why we didn’t.👉 If you’ve ever wrestled with the tension between attraction and wisdom, or wondered how to know if someone is truly “the one,” this story will speak to you.⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 Introduction03:00 Growing up in Nigeria vs. New York07:00 Expectations of becoming a doctor, lawyer, or engineer10:00 Heartbreak & depression before meeting each other14:00 “Girls like bad boys” — attraction vs. wisdom21:00 Meeting at a wedding: first impressions27:00 When God closed the wrong doors32:00 Surviving long-distance & building trust38:00 Family approval, red flags & legacy45:00 Our first date and Facebook “likes”51:00 Butterflies vs. real commitment56:00 Why we almost broke up🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more raw stories of faith, family, and legacy.🎧 Available on YouTube & everywhere you get your podcasts.#ProjectAlpha #GirlsLikeBadBoys #ChristianMarriage #FaithAndFamily #LoveAndLegacy #GodlyRelationships #MarriageUnfiltered

"Even if you preach forever, I’d rather die a Muslim."That’s what Pastor Dele Balogun once told a Christian brother… until one encounter with God changed everything.Today, Pastor Dele is the Special Assistant to the General Overseer (Admin) of RCCG, a professor, and a pastor. But his story begins in a polygamous Muslim home with 23 siblings, fierce persecution from his father, and the temptations of academic success. From rejecting Christ to becoming a voice in one of the world’s largest churches, his journey is one of faith, obedience, and legacy.If you’ve ever wrestled with calling, temptation, or trusting God in uncertainty, this story will challenge and inspire you.⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 Growing up in a Muslim polygamous home05:15 “Preach forever—I’d rather die a Muslim”08:15 My father threatened to beat my pastor12:15 Peer pressure, seduction & resisting temptation16:15 Why pastors aren’t angels21:15 The lie I heard about lawyers25:15 From lecturer to pastor: leaving certainty for calling31:15 Facing fear: obeying God or dying young34:15 How to know if God is really calling36:15 Betrayal & why you can’t over-trust people39:15 Don’t jump into action without God42:15 The temptation to relocate abroad43:15 My 2 greatest lessons for young pastors🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction and calling.🎧 Available on YouTube & everywhere you get your podcasts.#ProjectAlpha #FaithOverFear #RCCG #FromIslamToChrist #ObedienceToGod #FatherhoodAndFaith #LegacyBuilders

Families are breaking, fathers are silent, and culture is louder than truth.This isn’t just a personal story — it’s a wake-up call. Silence is no longer an option.In this raw conversation with Sam Oladende, we uncover what it means to grow up as the “favorite child,” lose both parents at 11, fall into silence, and fight through grief, hustle, and immigration. Now a new father, Sam shares why fatherhood, family, and faith are under attack — and why men must rise to protect the next generation.If you’ve ever wrestled with silence, identity, or the weight of family expectations, this story will speak to you.⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 Favored child or spoiled child?07:40 Losing Mum at 11 — grief begins13:30 How grief shaped silence and escape20:20 The weight on fathers no one talks about25:45 Why family is the enemy’s first target31:10 Speaking out vs. staying silent37:20 Communities, culture, and shaping legacy44:25 Becoming a new dad — joy and fear50:20 Doing you vs. losing you57:00 Advice to the “favorite child”🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction, and calling.🎧 Listen on YouTube & everywhere you get your podcasts.#ProjectAlpha#FatherhoodMatters#MenSpeakUp#FaithAndFamily#frompaintopurpose #LegacyBuilding#BreakTheSilence

What happens when you grow up in a polygamous family, wrestle with faith in an African Indigenous church, then migrate to the UK as a missionary — only to face the challenge of leading multicultural churches as a black pastor?Dr. Israel Olofinjana’s story is one of faith, identity, and resilience. From the prayers of his mother in Nigeria to planting churches in the UK, he reveals what it means to confront racism in the church, bridge cultural divides, and fight for intercultural theology that reflects heaven’s vision of unity. His lived wisdom is a guide for anyone asking how faith, culture, and justice intersect today.If you’ve ever wrestled with identity, migration, or the future of the global church, this conversation will change the way you see faith and leadership.⏳ CHAPTERS00:00 Intro01:51 Growing up in a polygamous family13:21 From Indigenous church to Pentecostal encounter22:51 Migrating to the UK as a missionary25:51 The shock of a secular Britain30:06 Why Nigerian-style evangelism doesn’t work in London33:51 Multicultural vs. Intercultural churches explained37:01 The challenge of being a black pastor40:26 Sacrifice, adjustment, and leadership tension43:36 Intercultural marriage and ministry46:15 Why prayer alone won’t build intercultural churches47:46 Racism in the church and how to address itDr Israel's website: https://israelolofinjana.wordpress.com/CMMW: https://cmmw.org.uk/The Book "Polyphonic God": https://amzn.eu/d/0Cnxnrw🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction, and calling.🎧 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#PolyphonicGod #InterculturalChurch #AfricanIndegenousChurch #ChristianPodcast #Theology #SoulPodcast #PurposeDrivenLife #Identity #Pastor

What happens when your father is physically present but emotionally absent? For Timidayo, that painful reality became the fuel to become a different kind of father — one who refuses to disappear from his children’s lives.In this powerful conversation, Timidayo shares how a praying mother shaped his destiny, how he broke a generational pattern of late marriages, and why he risked everything — even resigning from a banking job with only ₦2,000 left — to secure his family’s future. His story is about legacy, faith, and the courage to live as a present father in a world where they are vanishing fast.If you’ve ever wrestled with absent fatherhood, generational cycles, or the fear of stepping into your calling, this conversation will challenge and strengthen you.⏳ CHAPTERS00:00 Introduction03:36 Growing up as the last-born07:55 Can you effectively discipline a child without beating?19:03 The weight of a family name28:59 A praying mother vs. an absent father35:10 Why presence matters in fatherhood40:16 Choosing the wrong career path47:52 Breaking family patterns in marriage51:59 Is there a requirement to think about marriage?54:44 Quitting banking with ₦2,000 left01:02:35 “Nothing is impossible” — his life mantra01:09:19 Final words: Life is in phases🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction, and calling.🎧 Available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#ProjectAlpha #Fatherhood #Resilience #ChristianPodcast #Legacy #SoulPodcast #PresentFather #IntentionalLiving

She lost her father as a child. Her mother, widowed with nine children, sold everything to keep them in school. She hawked food in the streets to survive. Then, just when she could repay her mother’s sacrifice, tragedy struck again.This is the raw, unfiltered story of a woman who endured poverty, loss, betrayal, and the cold unknown of a foreign land — yet built a legacy of resilience, faith, and purpose. From polygamous family tensions to raising four children in two continents, her journey is a masterclass in unshakable love and God-centered grit.If you’ve ever wrestled with hopelessness, wondered if the pain would ever end, or questioned whether your sacrifices matter — this story will speak to your soul.CHAPTERS00:00 – The mother who shaped everything03:55 – Father’s death & a life-changing loss07:49 – Mother's Stroke, Financial collapse and starting over17:05 – Discipline, love, and building foundations22:42 – Surviving poverty after father’s death28:43 – Why she refused to repeat her childhood35:43 – Marriage, resilience & early struggles42:41 – The gift of generosity — even when broke47:10 – Meeting her husband against all odds54:04 – Leaving Nigeria for the UK56:56 – Sleeping on a mattress in a church hall01:02:37 – The job interview that changed everything01:09:33 – Life lesson: Hold on to God🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction, and calling.🎧 Available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#noturningback #Motherhood #ProjectAlpha #Faith #ChristianPodcast #Legacy #SoulPodcast #PurposeDrivenLife

He was told he might never walk. Then he was bullied, mocked, and written off. But Tumi Sotire found purpose in the pain—and now he's changing the world.Tumi Sotire, founder of The Black Dyspraxic, shares his raw and redemptive journey—from being diagnosed with dyspraxia at age 4, to surviving brutal bullying, to becoming an award-winning health economist and global advocate. In this powerful episode, he opens up about battling shame, discovering his faith as a lifeline and wrestling with the identity-shaping nature of disability. Through Scripture, family, and sheer resilience, Tumi chose purpose over pity—and now stands as a role model for millions.If you’ve ever wrestled with identity, rejection, or what it means to be “enough,” this story will break and build you.⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 - Intro: From Dismissed to Mission03:32 - The Diagnosis05:18 - What is Dyspraxia?06:53 - How His Parents Helped Him Navigate The Diagnosis20:57 - The bullying years28:48 - “They set a dog on me”31:16 - Why confidence must be rebuilt daily32:58 - Getting real about career barriers36:36 - Advocacy, purpose & divine timing39:32 - Wrestling with healing vs. identity50:10 - Finding a wife who sees your soul1:00:28 - Final word to parents & younger selfWant to share your story and inspire others to live an intentional life, full of wisdom? Please fill this form: https://forms.gle/baNcNzyZLXxHa5Rd9🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction, and calling.🎧 Available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#Faith #Fatherhood #Resilience #ChristianPodcast #Legacy #SoulPodcast #PurposeDrivenLife

He carries one of the most powerful names in modern Christianity—but behind the honor is a lifetime of hidden battles, leadership scars, and a commitment to serve when no one’s watching.Pastor Richard Adeboye opens up about growing up without a father, the grit of his single mother, and the unexpected moments that confirmed his calling. From a student leader to Assistant Continental Overseer, his journey is marked by deep sacrifice, family devotion, and spiritual clarity. But carrying the Adeboye name came with pressure, betrayal, and the need to lead with character—not charisma.He shares what it really costs to stay humble in high places, how to love your family while carrying a church, and what to do when those closest to you break your heart. Through it all, he proves that real leadership is forged in fire—and led from the heart.If you’ve ever wrestled with spiritual disappointment, leadership loneliness, or the burden of legacy—this conversation will help you heal, refocus, and keep going.⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 – Introduction10:09 – “My Wife Will Not Suffer”16:32 – Betrayed by Fellow Pastors27:01 – A Pastor Dies of Bitterness32:50 – What the Name Adeboye Demands36:48 – How to Lead Volunteers With Heart40:31 – Fathering Through Presence🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction, leadership and calling.🎧 Available on Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#Faith #Fatherhood #Resilience #ChristianPodcast #Legacy #SoulPodcast #PurposeDrivenLife #Leadership #SpiritualDiscipline #Sacrifice

Rejected by a bride’s father because he wasn’t on Google.Vikram wasn’t building a brand—he was building credibility. In a culture where marriage is often arranged, reputation is everything. So when one family Googled him and found nothing, they ghosted. His solution? Build a website. And it worked.This funny-yet-eye-opening story uncovers the tension between modern love, ancient customs, family pressure, and digital status. From arranged proposals to pregnancy loss to building a future for his daughter, Vikram’s journey is one of silent resilience, partnership, and redefining manhood in today’s India.⏳ CHAPTERS00:00 - Introduction01:37 - They Rejected Me Because I Wasn’t on Google12:37 - Falling in Love After the Wedding14:21 - Losing a Baby & Holding Back Tears19:47 - Redefining Marriage Roles & Gender Equality28:00 - Why His Daughter Doesn’t Miss Him — And That’s the Point🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more global stories of faith, family, and purpose.🎧 Available on Youtube, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#Marriage #Fatherhood #IndianCulture #Resilience #SoulPodcast #PurposeDrivenLife #ModernManhood

What if the thing you loved most was the very thing keeping you from God?Pastor Olufemi believed he was already a Christian — raised in church, wearing a gold necklace gifted by his grandmother. But when he lost both chains and the Holy Spirit whispered, “You have another god,” everything changed.In this soul-awakening conversation, Pastor Olufemi shares how a necklace became his idol, how nearly 200 church-goers realized they were unsaved, and why true Christianity begins where religion ends. He also opens up about his surprising call to political leadership in the UK and the urgent need for believers to occupy positions of power with integrity and purpose.If you’ve ever wrestled with the difference between religion and revelation — or questioned whether you’re truly born again — this conversation will confront you, convict you, and call you higher.⏳ CHAPTERS02:41 - The Necklace That Became His God11:36 - The Night 200 “Christians” Got Saved22:30 - What the Church Got Wrong About Salvation33:12 - Is Jesus Really God? A Personal Revelation55:09 - Why He’s Running Toward Politics, Not Away🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction, and calling.🎧 Available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#Faith #Fatherhood #heaven #christian #ChristianPodcast #Legacy #SoulPodcast #PurposeDrivenLife

At just 14, Pastor Adedayo Phillips lost his father—and with him, everything they had. From private schools to begging for public school admission. From comfort to chaos. In this gripping conversation, he opens up about grief, fatherhood, purpose, and the power of joy beyond pain.🔑 In This Episode, You’ll Discover:How he went from legacy to loss to leadershipThe moment he realized he had to “become a man”Why presence—not words—is the most powerful comfortThe true definition of success (hint: it’s not money)How grief shaped his faith, purpose, and identity⏱️ Chapters:02:36 – Thrust Into Manhood at 1418:25 – What a Father Really Is24:53 – “It’s Too Late to Leave Jesus”36:05 – How to Comfort the Grieving46:49 – What Real Success Looks Like🙏 Drop a comment if this touched you.📢 Share with someone who needs hope.🎧 Subscribe for more powerful conversations on faith, family, and legacy.#FaithAndPurpose #Fatherhood #ChristianPodcast #GriefAndHealing #Legacy #Masculinity #EmotionalResilience

What happens when faith is forged in fire—through military discipline, spiritual confusion, and a divided home?Born in a Nigerian army barracks to a Muslim father and Christian mother, Pastor Titus shares a powerful journey from spiritual warfare and crippling low self-esteem to bold prophetic purpose. This isn't just a testimony—it's a web of discovery of identity, fatherhood, legacy, and the resilience only God can build.🔑 In This Episode, You’ll Discover:How military-style discipline shaped his worldviewThe devastating effects of legalistic church teachingsHow his mother won her family to God—without a single argumentDreams and divine encounters that revealed his callingWhy self-belief and God’s voice must work together⏱️ Chapters:00:00 – Raised in Barracks: A Multicultural Identity20:40 – Low Self-Esteem from Religion, Not the World28:43 – Legalism, Guilt, and God's True Voice43:10 – Living with a Muslim Dad, Christian Mum1:07:06 – Why You Shouldn’t Marry an Unbeliever1:24:00 – Advice to His Younger Self📢 Subscribe for more stories of faith, fatherhood, resilience, and legacy.#Faith #Fatherhood #Legacy #Resilience #Masculinity #SpiritualWarfare #ChristianPodcast #ProjectAlpha

What do you do when the unimaginable happens?From legal chambers to the pulpit, Pastor Richard’s life was one of purpose and impact—until one phone call changed everything. In this powerful and deeply moving episode, Pastor Richard shares his journey from a loving childhood in Ibadan to becoming a respected legal mind, church planter, and father. But the moment that tested everything? Losing his beloved wife unexpectedly… just hours after they had prayed together.This is a story of grief, God, fatherhood, and calling. It’s about how faith doesn’t exempt you from pain—but gives you the strength to stand when everything falls.If you’ve ever asked, “Why, God?”—this conversation will minister to your soul.⏳ Chapters00:00 – Introducing Pastor Richard: Father, Pastor & Legal Expert13:14 – What My Father Taught Me About Life19:22 – “They Won’t See It Yet”: Parenting in a World of Conflict25:20 – The Day My Wife Died: A Loss That Shaped Me37:10 – What to Say (and NOT Say) to the Bereaved46:44 – Why I Plant Churches & Release Leaders58:25 – Final Advice: Never Outgrow Being God’s Child🔔 Subscribe for more raw, soul-stirring conversations about faith, fatherhood, and finding God in life’s hardest moments.🎧 Available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts & wherever you listen.#FaithStory #ChristianPodcast #GriefJourney #WidowerLife #Fatherhood #ChurchLeadership #Bereavement #ChristianMen #RCCGUK #MinistryJourney #PurposeDrivenLife #SoulPodcast #NeverOutgrowBeingAChild

From skipping school to play in the streets… to becoming a doctor across three continents — Dr. Ken’s story is nothing short of miraculous. Born in the chaos of Warri, Nigeria, and raised in the harshest streets, he defied every odd: depression, academic sabotage, racism, corruption, and poverty. But what changed his life forever? A spiritual prophecy… and a prayerful mother who refused to give up.He was six years old selling eggs just to pay school fees. He failed medical school twice because he refused to bribe his dean. He battled thoughts of suicide. Then God stepped in.This is a raw, redemptive journey of resilience, faith, injustice, and a man determined to rewrite his future. If you’ve ever faced failure, doubt, or delay — this episode will heal something in you.⏳ Chapters00:00 – Growing Up in Dangerous Warri, Nigeria12:38 – “Buy Your Fresh Eggs!”: The Moment That Changed His Life21:10 – Corruption in Medical School: “Give Me This or Fail”30:13 – A Job Offer Without Interview – A Miracle in the Caribbean39:51 – Becoming a GP in the UK: Racism & Resilience55:35 – Dr. Ken’s 3 Life Lessons for Anyone in the Dark🔔 Subscribe for more real-life stories of grit, God, and growth.🎧 Available on Youtube, Apple Podcasts & wherever you get your podcasts.#FaithStory #Resilience #FromStreetsToSuccess #ChristianPodcast #MentalHealth #GodsTiming #NigerianDoctors #RacismInMedicine #Legacy #MiracleJobs #PurposeDrivenLife #SoulPodcast

From refusing sex-for-settlement to enduring months in detention — Emmanuel’s story is a gritty, spirit-led journey of integrity, fatherhood, and faith under fire. Born in Nigeria, raised in a disciplined Christian home, Emmanuel walked the tightrope between street smarts and spiritual legacy. But nothing could prepare him for the trials ahead: denied visa extensions, faced with deportation, separated from family, and mourning both parents from afar.At his lowest, a woman offered him a way out: just sleep with her. He chose detention instead.This is a testimony of unshakable conviction, raw manhood, and the cost of standing for what’s right in a world that rewards shortcuts.If you’ve ever wrestled with temptation, identity, or legacy — this one’s for you.⏳ Chapters01:30 – “Remember the Child of Who You Are”05:00 – When Discipline Meets Temptation13:00 – Parenting with Legacy in Mind22:00 – Turning Down Sex (More Than Once)27:00 – Explaining God’s Truth to Your Kids32:00 – Choosing Detention Over Compromise37:00 – Surviving the Immigration System by Faith44:00 – When Both Parents Died and He Couldn’t Attend50:00 – Starting Over After 5 Years of Silence01:03:00 – Building Legacy Through Presence, Not Just Provision01:10:00 – Final Message: Walk the Talk. Know the Word.🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more real stories of courage, conviction and calling.🎧 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#ChristianManhood #FaithTestimony #Fatherhood #Legacy #Masculinity #UKImmigration #Obedience #Detention #ChristianPodcast #Resilience #PurposeDrivenLife #SoulPodcast #UnshakableFaith #ChristianFather #ProjectAlpha

From being denied childhood play to leading tech teams across continents — Tunji’s story is a raw, faith-filled journey of fatherhood, resilience, and obedience. Born in Nigeria, he grew up under the close mentorship of his father, self-funded his Master's Degree in China despite not knowing the language, and later found himself leading a global career rooted in faith and grit. But his most powerful moment? Becoming a father — just when his faith was running out.If you’ve ever wrestled with purpose, parenting, or God’s timing… this is the story you’ve been waiting for.⏳ Chapters00:00 – Raised in a Christian Home, Trained in Business04:00 – Learning Leadership & Empathy Through His Father’s Business16:00 – Why Modern Parenting Is Failing Children19:10 – When Faith Isn’t Inherited: Choosing God for Yourself22:40 – Self-Funding His Master's Degree in China27:32 – Studying & Working in China as a Foreigner37:50 – Culture Shock: From China to the UK41:51 – Getting Married Late and Facing Infertility45:39 – “When We Stepped Out of the GP, She Said We’d Be Pregnant Next Time”46:50 – A Tearful Father’s Testimony of God’s Faithfulness50:02 – Final Life Lesson: Hold Unshakable Faith🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more life-changing stories.🎧 Available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.#Fatherhood #FaithStory #ChristianPodcast #Resilience #GodsTiming #MiracleBaby #TechLeadership #SelfMade #SoulPodcast #PurposeDrivenLife

From one room in Lagos to leading a tech team in the UK, Ifeoluwa’s story is a powerful mix of resilience, faith, and family. In this episode, we explore his journey from teaching himself code in Nigeria to building a purposeful life as a tech leader and devoted father. This is a story about self-belief, the power of mentorship, and raising children with intentional love and legacy.👉 Subscribe for more inspiring stories🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and hit the bell to stay updated!—📚 Chapters:00:00 – Introduction to Ifeo Lue's Journey05:57 – Growing Up in a Large Family11:58 – The Impact of Upbringing on Career Choices18:02 – Fatherhood and Its Influence29:52 – The Loss of a Mother and Its Effects35:29 – The Impact of Maternal Influence39:35 – Sisterly Bonds and Family Dynamics43:43 – Father-Son and Father-Daughter Connections48:08 – Raising a Daughter: Lessons Learned01:05:07 – The Pursuit of Excellence and Future Aspirations—🎧 Also available on Spotify, YouTube, Apple Podcasts & all major platforms.#TechJourney #Fatherhood #FaithAndFamily #FromLagosToUK #Leadership #IntentionalParenting #Resilience #PodcastInterview #AfricanTech #SelfTaughtDeveloper #RaisingDaughters #LifeLessons #SoulEpisode

In this conversation, Bennet Morka shares insights into his life as an InfoSec specialist and a devoted family man. He discusses his upbringing in a Christian household, the importance of family, and his parenting philosophy that emphasizes love, discipline, and open communication. Bennett reflects on various aspects of family life, including the challenges of navigating school transitions for children, the critical role of communication in maintaining strong family relationships, and the importance of resilience in the face of tragedy. He shares personal experiences of loss and the strength found in faith and community. The discussion ultimately encourages listeners to focus on their relationships and personal growth.👉 Subscribe for more inspiring stories⸻🎧 Also available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts & all major platforms.#ChristianFatherhood #FaithThroughHardship #IntentionalParenting #GodlyMarriage #FatherhoodJourney #ChristianFamilyValues #HealingThroughFaith #RaisingGodlyChildren #FaithAndResilience #MarriageWithoutPlanB

In this candid episode, entrepreneur Richard Allen shares how he went from local market hustles to building a 7-figure Amazon business. He dives deep into parenting, trust in partnerships, setbacks, scaling, and finding meaning beyond money. Whether you’re starting out or contemplating your next big leap, this is packed with honest advice and powerful reflections.🎙️ Key Topics:Building trust in business and familyOutsourcing, scaling, and navigating setbacksSelling a business: negotiation and strategyThe future of AI and post-exit clarityFulfilment vs. financial success#Entrepreneurship #Podcast #Business #WorkLifeBalance

God Told Us About Our Daughter Before She Was Conceived | Isaac AdejuwonIn this Soul episode, we sit down with Isaac Adejuwon as he shares his powerful journey—from growing up in a polygamous household in Nigeria to becoming a DevOps engineer with a master’s in cybersecurity in the UK.Isaac opens up about childhood moments that shaped his diplomatic nature, his early interest in politics, and how those experiences ultimately led him to discover his true passion in tech. He also speaks candidly about marriage, fatherhood, and the spiritual lessons he’s learned along the way.This episode explores the power of faith, family, and purpose—and how trusting what God has said can guide us through even the most uncertain seasons.Like and follow for more!

In this episode of Soul, Dr. Tosin Obata shares his remarkable story—from his early days in Nigeria to navigating academia and eventually building a successful property empire in the UK. He opens up about the struggles and triumphs of switching careers, the role of faith in his decision-making, and how he balances entrepreneurship with family life. This is a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration, guidance, or courage to pursue purpose over comfort.CHAPTERS:00:17: The Journey Begins: From Academia to Entrepreneurship03:01: Navigating Life in the UK: Cultural Adjustments and Academic Success06:06: The Shift: From Academia to Real Estate08:54: Finding Financial Freedom: The Side Hustle Journey12:00: Balancing Act: Time Management and Prioritisation14:55: Scaling the Business: From One Property to Many18:11: Lessons Learned: The Importance of Focus and Adaptability30:41: Scaling Beyond Expectations32:45: The Importance of Systemisation33:42: Balancing Family and Career34:39: The Decision to Leave Academia37:30: Navigating Financial Challenges40:00: Learning from Setbacks46:58: The Role of Faith in Business51:32: Managing Family Dynamics57:13: Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs

Soul Episode 05: What Happens to Boys Without Fathers? A Psychiatrist’s Powerful StoryIn this hard-hitting episode, we go beyond the scoreboard to tackle a different kind of challenge—what happens to boys growing up without a father figure? Dr. Adebayo Erinfolami, a top psychiatrist, shares his journey from a tough childhood to becoming a leader in mental health.We break down the mental game of father absence, the importance of strong role models, and how nature vs. nurture shapes character. Plus, we explore the pressures men face in today’s world—from masculinity and emotional expression to the deep connection between mental health, culture, and resilience. This is a conversation every athlete, coach, and teammate should hear.🎙️ Hit play and join the conversation.#GameOfLife #MentalStrength #FatherhoodMatters #Mindset #MensMentalHealth #AthleteMindset #StayStrong #Podcast #WinningMentality

Soul Episode 04: The Truth About Raising Kids Today - Legacy Starts at HomeRaising kids today can be overwhelming, but it's crucial to remember that legacy starts at home. In this video, we're diving into the truth about raising kids in today's society, from the importance of setting a good example to teaching valuable life skills. We'll explore the challenges of modern parenting and provide practical tips on how to raise confident, compassionate, and responsible children who will make a positive impact on the world. Whether you're a seasoned parent or just starting your parenting journey, this video is for you. So, let's get real about raising kids today and start building a legacy that will last for generations to come.Chapters:00:00 The Science of Parenting10:07 Building a Legacy20:02 Conditioning vs. Freedom in Parenting29:57 Emotional and Physical Presence in Parenting36:35 Creating Comfort for Open Conversations39:02 The Importance of Freedom and Guidance in Parenting42:08 Balancing Work and Family Life46:50 Investing Time in Family Relationships51:53 Building a Legacy Through Family Values01:02:09 Understanding Your Family Vision and Goals01:08:58 The Role of Family in Legacy BuildingSubscribe for more deep conversations that connect science, soul, and the stories we live every day.

Soul Episode 03: Teaching by ExampleFatherhood is more than just a title—it’s a responsibility that shapes generations. In this episode, we dive into the unspoken truths of parenting, breaking generational cycles, and the lessons we learn along the way.We explore what it truly means to lead by example, make tough decisions, and raise children in a way that prepares them for the future. From discipline and financial wisdom to the role of extended family, this conversation sheds light on the challenges and triumphs of being a present and intentional father.Whether you’re a dad, an expectant father, or someone seeking wisdom on parenting, this episode is for you. Tune in and discover how to navigate fatherhood with confidence, love, and purpose.🔹 Topics Covered: • Redefining fatherhood and breaking generational patterns • The balance between discipline and guidance • Teaching financial wisdom to children • The importance of early foundations in parenting • Learning from mistakes and growing as a father🎧 Listen now and join the conversation!#Fatherhood #ParentingPodcast #DadLife #RaisingLeaders #ModernParenting #BreakingCycles #FamilyFirst

Soul Episode 02: Join me as I sit down with Tayo to discuss the challenges of balancing work, ministry, and family life. We dive deep into the importance of setting boundaries, being intentional, and prioritising what truly matters. If you're a busy dad struggling to manage your time effectively, this conversation is for you.Learn how to create work-life balance while maintaining strong relationships with your family and faith.Notes:(01:00) Introduction to the Guest (Tayo) and Topic: Work-Life Balance(02:39) Guest's Background: Work, Ministry, and Family(03:52) Challenges of Managing Work, Ministry, and Family(04:48) Being Intentional with Time Management(06:56) Creating Quality Family Time and Adjusting Priorities(08:28) The Importance of Regular Conversations in Marriage(10:12) Stretching the Imagination to Maintain Conversations(11:14) Breaking Down Time Allocation Between Work, Family, and Self-Care(15:16) Dealing with Work Stress and Keeping It Separate from Family Time(18:20) Resigning from a High-Pressure Job for Better Work-Life Balance(21:24) Setting Boundaries: Avoiding Work Phones and Laptops at Home(23:14) Knowing When to Walk Away from Work to Prioritize Family(24:15) Setting Expectations About Work-Life Balance in Job Interviews(26:30) Balancing Church Ministry and Family Responsibilities(29:35) The Impact of Work-Life Balance on Raising Children(31:16) Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways🔔 Subscribe for More Episodes→ / @myalphaproject 📲 Follow on Instagram for Daily Motivation → / @my_projectalpha

Soul Episode 01: Join Adejuwon and I on this heartwarming journey as we share the surprising joys of early fatherhood. From the initial struggles to the life-changing lessons, Adejuwon open up about his personal fatherhood journey and the challenges that came with it. Discover the modern fathering truths that no one tells you about, and how embracing these challenges has made him a better father and person. Whether you're a new dad or an expectant father, this video is for you. Learn how to navigate the fatherhood journey with confidence, patience, and love._Notes:(00:30) Introduction(01:02) First Emotions Being a New Dad(06:06) The First Child is Always so Special(07:01) Finance: The No.1 Source of Worry for a New Dad(13:50) The Baby is Here! Emotions?(16:41) Balancing Work and Family Life is Hard!(21:45) Being In the Moment(24:54) Changing Dynamics: Effect on Relationship With Wife(30:56) Love vs Like(36:26) It Takes a Whole Village to Raise a Child!(41:36) Faith is The Ultimate Thing(42:33) Few Tips for New Dads🔔 Subscribe for More Episodes→ / @myalphaproject 📲 Follow on Instagram for Daily Motivation → / thevictordina

Spirit Episode 01: A devotion on the book of Proverbs chapter 1 verse 1. A study of the wisdom of King Solomon applicable today! _ Notes: (0:00) Introduction (05:34) My favourite verse from Proverbs 1 (08:20) The 4 Greatest Lessons (The 4 Ls) (08:34) The First L: Listen (12:44) The Second L: Learn (18:05) The Third L: Limit (24:44) The Fourth L: Lead _ Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/I77Lk4Zh5vQ 📲 Follow on Instagram for Daily Motivation → /thevictordina #proverbs #kingsolomon #morningdevotion #devotional #bible #wisdom #busydads