Rece’s Pieces

There are three main ways people who have been betrayed respond, I will talk about them all on this episode

My personal story on my kids and how we had to reframe our thinking to overcome the hard news of them losing their vision

This is my story and faith testimony

Sharing my thoughts on the idea of the great void and trying to save people from it

I want to share a personal story 12:20 in the episode but it is based in religion so if that bothers you please skip that part. Before that I will be talking about what ifs and the games we play with that. And after, how comparison is a thief of joyThese are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

I am fascinated by human psychology and these two cases in pop culture and how people have responded or how Blake’s team has responded has me thinking. I will share my personal thoughts on this. These are my thoughts and opinions and all alleged

Why do people brag, especially those who are in affairs or started their relationship this way? Well let’s talk about why people brag, and dive deeper into the reasons someone who married their affair partner would brag more

Why do we need to rebuild? How we rebuild our selfs and marriages makes all the difference

I’m responding to a mistresses comment that was left on a TT video and explaining why they do things like this, I also transition into modern love and why most of it is hunger not love

We cover anxious attachment in its basic form and how and why people might self sabotage

This episode we dive into avoidant attachment style and what it looks like in relationships

I will talk briefly about partner poachers, what they are, why they do this, but more importantly why it’s still very much the person who’s married responsibility to stop it from happening

A short breakdown of where I’ve been (4:00) and than we talk about the rewriting of history and how to stop doing it if you are the wayward

My mom share about her journey of being married to a narcissist and some of the struggles to leaveThese are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

My mom dives into my delusional thinking and what it was like on the outside looking in. These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

Therapy it so important and helpful, but a bad therapist can cause further damage, lets dive into this…These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

How to know the difference between narcissistic traits and true NPD, and did/does your spouse have NPD, traits or just reverting back to teenage behavior due to an affair These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

I will be answering a few of the questions you guys had on instagram. What makes a woman want to be a other woman/ mistress Delayed shame and guilt from the betrayer/cheaterHow corporate America plays into ego and affairsRuminating These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

Covering two topics today. First why often when the faithful betrayed fights for so long they can crash out and feel “done” once thing calm down and get “better.” Second I will start to explain how or why a person who cheats can still have love for their spouse. These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

We talked about partner poachers and why it happens. But the after math is often people confused about how this happens. I will be briefly explaining psychological abuse and why it’s so confusing and hard to recover from. These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

What are partner or mate poachers and why is it important to talk about it. I will be talking about tactics used by these people and why it’s important to understand what they do and the strategies used. These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

My opinion on what I’m seeing in the Justin/Blake/ Ryan case, things I’ve noticed, and what others have brought up. All my opinions. Rage bait and why it needs to be stopped or unmonetized. (17:15) The woman who’s kid was unable to attend the school’s Valentines party, my thoughts on that situation and what I’m seeing in the moms reactions ( all my opinion 24:40) These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

Boundaries are a complex and important part of all relationships, especially our romantic ones. But they are extremely hard to define. I will take about a very brief description and why it’s important to work with a professional on learning how to have boundaries. These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional

We are who we hang around, let’s dive into why who we surround ourselves with is important These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional.

So much to say on this nuanced topic, today’s episode we will jump into my thoughts on the deeper reasons why this happens. This is not excusing affairs, but this is an explanation on why I believe it happens These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional.

I understand many can’t comprehend why me, of all people, would go to bat for the faithful/ betrayed spouses so hard. On this episode I will tell you or rant a bit on why that is. These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional.

I made this before the past podcast and thought I lost it, but I found it. There will be a few repeats in this though. Enabling keeps us from healing, and holds us back, and when we are doing something wrong we often look for those who will validate our poor behavior. Even therapists can enable, so it’s important to know what to look for in healing. These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional.

This is just an insight to things I’ve thought about and struggled with. I’m inviting y’all into my thoughts about how I almost quit TikTok but a few chance encounters helped me realize I needed to stick around

This is my pop culture, outside my normal content podcasts. I have a different perspective on this whole lawsuit and I think it’s good to think outside the box with these things. Join me in talking about an experience I had with sexual harassment and how it can look very different than people think. These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional.

Anger often stems from a deep cause, and that cause is usually fear. Let’s dive into what that is, and why that is and ways to help These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional.

What is belief perseverance and why does it goes hand in hand with enabling? Well here I’m going to introduce y’all to the term and share what it is, why it’s dangerous and why it goes hand in hand with enabling. These are my thoughts, opinions and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional.

What are some of my recommendations as to how to heal if you are the wayward. It’s hard to navigate so many conflicting feelings, these are some of the ways I find helpful in the healing journey. These are my thoughts, opinions, experiences and advice. This is not meant to take place of a trained professional therapist. Please if you need more help seek out a well trained professional.

Limerence versus love versus affair fog. What are these things and why are they all different? And why do people in affairs often have limerence not love. Why is affair fog different? Let’s dive inAgain these are my thoughts and my opinions and experiences on these topics. Please seek professional help if you’re in need of more information or help

Our subconscious is much more important and in-tunto out deeper issues. On this episode I will talk about some of my personal story of how I learned not every trauma is built on painful experiences, and why it’s important to identify these things.Please understand these are my stories, thoughts and advice, and I am not liable for what any individual does with these words/thoughts and advice.

On my IG a few people asked me questions. This question is something I get asked often. Why are they ( the wayward) so mean to faithful?

My introduction. Ask me questions on Instagram for now. I hope I can figure out the bugs of podcasting