Remix Reality Podcast

I sit down with my friend Xavier Hunt to talk about the experiences that shaped who he is today. He opens up about grief, identity, and how life not going as planned still led him exactly where he needed to be..

We’re constantly told to slow down and live a soft life, but also to stay disciplined and keep pushing. In this episode, I reflect on the tension between the two and what it actually looks like to find balance without losing yourself.

Have you ever felt the weight of being liked but not truly known? In this episode, I explore the difference between being liked and being seen, why one can still feel lonely, and what it really takes to be deeply understood.

Even when life gets chaotic, the pressure is still on. In this episode, I dive into the invisible weight we carry, the fear of slipping backwards, and what it really means to live with pressure without letting it take over!

In this episode I needed to get real about feeling burnt out, thinking about quitting, and the little things that make me keep showing up in life, work, and honestly everything. I hope my vulnerability can remind you that it's okay if you feel this way too 🤍

From toxic friendships to harmful expectations, we all often cling to pain longer than they should. On this episode of Remix Reality, I explore why letting go can be so difficult!

I couldn’t resist revisiting one of my favorite episodes! it gets even juicer when a surprise guest crashes the episode! We dig into some of your listener submissions to decode red flags, overthinking, and everything in between.

In this episode of the Remix Reality Podcast, I share how faith has shaped my identity and growth, and talk about trusting God with my future, aligning my career with my beliefs, navigating mental health, and building a real relationship with Him beyond religion.

In this episode, I get into the ups and downs of family life, exploring love, boundaries, and the ways we navigate complicated relationships. I read your stories and reflections, highlighting moments of understanding, forgiveness, and connection.

Starting off my favorite month of the podcast by responding to your questions and sharing all things friendships. We go over navigating friendships in your twenties, knowing when to step away, and so much more! Excited to kick this month off with you all!

I am diving into the raw experience of studying abroad in Madrid, Spain! We get into the good, the bad, and the challenging of navigating cultural challenges, and discovering personal growth. Join me for all things about embracing new environments and the unexpected lessons learned along the way.

In my first episode back, I’m checking in on where I’m at mentally and emotionally as the new year begins. I talk about focusing on intentions and how life feels navigating personal pressures, and reminding myself that it’s never too late to start wherever you are.

I'm 21! Join me for a special solo episode of the Remixed Reality Podcast, where I open up about 21 life lessons that have shaped who I’m becoming. I share the real moments, the hard ones, the healing ones, and the ones that taught me the importance of slowing down to achieve true growth. If you’re looking for a genuine, fresh perspective heading into the new year, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I sit down with Lexi Alexander, a track and field athlete aiming for the 2028 Olympic trials. Lexi and I dive into all things track, faith, family, and the things keeping her going on and off the field. I left this interview feeling more inspired and empowered to pursue my goals and much more. Hope you enjoy learning from Lexi just as much as I did

In this episode of the Remix Reality Podcast, I read and react to some Thanksgiving Reddit horror stories, as well as open up about my own Thanksgiving experiences, including the chaotic family moments and the parts that genuinely made me grateful. I talk about why gratitude matters beyond just one holiday, and share some real-life tips for navigating those long Thanksgiving dinners. Sit back, relax, and join me as we dive into all things holiday season.

In this episode of Remix Reality, I open up about the complicated feelings that come with family rejection. I share parts of my own story and how those wounds shaped the way I saw myself. Most importantly, I talk about finding acceptance, belonging, and healing beyond the places where love once felt conditional.

In today’s episode, I’m sitting down with my very first college friend, Kundai. We talk about the beginning of our friendship, the highs and lows of her journey from Texas to California, and the ways we’ve both grown, individually and together within the past few years. This conversation is about friendship, change, and the journey of becoming who we’re meant to be.

In this episode of Remix Reality, I explore the myth of reinvention and what it truly takes to create lasting change. I unpack how our culture glamorizes quick transformations while overlooking the deeper, internal work that creates real growth.

On this episode, I am joined by our first-ever guest, my sister Sara Tombe, who has the chance to speak for herself and share her story. We talk childhood, shifts in faith, and the unexpected twist from her plans for nursing to a career in business marketing. It’s a heartfelt conversation about identity, growth, and stepping into your own voice.

We're Backkkkkk ! Catch up with me as I share a bit about my time abroad so far & more! I keep it real as I talk about the highs, lows, and everything in between as we start off season 2 of Remix Reality ✨

It’s the last episode of the season (!!) and I’m wrapping things up the best way I know how with a warm Q&A all about growth, and the future of the podcast. Think of this as a little catch-up! This season has meant so much to me, and I’m so grateful for every listen, DM, and every moment i got to connect with you all! See you guys soon💗

Are we truly living or just performing for the world around us? In this episode, I reflect on the pressure to appear put together, interesting, and so much more. We dive into the quiet fear that if a moment isn’t documented, it won’t be remembered and how that very fear can distort the memory itself. What happens when we stop trying to make life look perfect, and just let ourselves be in it? Maybe presence, not proof, is what makes something real memorable.

The world will give you every reason to grow cold to let bitterness, burnout, and betrayal harden your heart. But what if holding onto a tender heart is the bravest thing you can do? In this episode, we talk about the quiet resilience of a gentle spirit, the pain and beauty of not shutting down, and why refusing to harden your heart may just be the most powerful thing you can do.

There’s a difference between being looked at and being truly known. In this episode, we talk about what it means to feel seen in friendships and beyond, the good, the hard, and everything in between. From feeling invisible to finding people who truly get us, I share stories about showing up for each other and making space for others to do the same. Because being seen isn’t just about being noticed, it’s about real connection.

We’re getting real about the expectations we place on ourselves and what it actually looks like to grow, heal, and evolve. From the myth of having it all together to the hard truths about self accountability, we’re unpacking the lessons life teaches us, sometimes more than once. We’ll talk about why healing isn’t a linear, how to protect your peace, and what it means to let go of timelines and trust that the right doors will open when they're meant for you. This is your reminder that it’s okay to be a work in progress!

Not every friendship is forever, and that’s okay. This episode dives into why some people are just in our lives for a little while, and how regardless of the length of time, every connection still matters.

Fear will show up, it’s supposed to. Especially when you’re stepping into something meaningful, unfamiliar, or stretching yourself and skills in new ways. You’re scared because it matters to you! But just because you feel fear, it doesn’t mean it’s in charge. In this episode, we unpack how fear masks itself as “logic,” why it gets loud when you're close to something real, and what it actually looks like to move forward anyway. You don’t need to live a life absent of fear. You just need to move despite feeling it. Let's talk about it!

People always say, “Be kind to yourself.” But what if real self-kindness means holding yourself to high standards because you know you’re capable of more? In this episode, we’re flipping the script on self-criticism—learning how to use it as a tool for growth instead of a weapon for self-doubt. We’ll talk about why it’s a you vs. you game, the dangers of relying on external validation, and how successful people critique themselves not to tear themselves down, but to level up. Plus, I’ll break down how to analyze mistakes without losing confidence, why failure is just data, and how to create a self-critique system that actually helps you grow.

Out with the old, in with the new. This episode is all about resetting your space, mind, and habits to step into a season of renewal. We’re talking about decluttering both physically and mentally by organizing your space, curating a healthier digital life, and letting go of emotional baggage. From clearing out your notes app and setting social media boundaries to embracing new routines and self-care habits, it’s time to make room for what truly matters. Plus, we’re reflecting on habits to leave behind—like overcommitting, people-pleasing, and procrastinating on what truly matters. Let’s reset, refresh, and step into this new season with a fresh start . 🌷🌸✨

They say "comparison is the thief of joy," but in today’s world, it feels almost impossible to avoid. In this episode, we dive into how constant comparison—whether in school, work, family dynamics, or social media gradually steals our happiness and sense of self. We explore the pressure to measure up academically and professionally, the weight of family expectations, and how curated online lives make us feel like we’re always falling behind. But most importantly, we discuss how to break free from the cycle of comparison and reclaim joy in our own lives. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough because of what you see around you, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about how to stop measuring our happiness against others and start living for ourselves 💗✨

Faith is a journey—one that isn’t always straightforward. In this episode, I open up about my personal relationship with God, how it has evolved over time, and the struggles I’ve faced along the way. I also talk about my mental health journey and how faith has been a source of strength during difficult seasons.In addition to sharing my own experiences, I answer listener submissions about faith, doubt, and staying connected to God. If you’ve ever questioned your faith, struggled with your mental health, or wondered how to find peace in uncertainty, you’re not alone. Let’s have an open, honest conversation about what it means to seek God, even when the answers aren’t always clear.

What does family really mean? Is it just blood, or does it include those who show up no matter what? In this episode, I dive into your questions about family, from traditions and conflicts to how relationships evolve over time. Plus, I share my own experiences—the good, the messy, and everything in between.

This week, we’re diving deep into the themes of self-love and identity through your words. I’ll be reading and reflecting on your personal submissions—stories, thoughts, and experiences that explore what it means to embrace who we are. From moments of self-discovery to powerful affirmations of self-worth, this episode is all about celebrating the journey to loving ourselves fully!

Love is in the air… or are you ignoring that red flag waving? This "love week", Lili plays part-time Cupid, part-time private investigator as she dives into listener submissions about love, work, and life dilemmas. From questionable dating behaviors to workplace situations, she’s here to help you figure out whether you’re seeing warning signs or just overanalyzing. Tune in for unfiltered advice, stories, some or red flag intervention 🚩

Friendship can be messy, beautiful, and everything in between. I spill my own friendship horror stories, share what I’ve learned about finding real friends, and read listener submissions to give advice on everything from seasonal friendships to betrayal, forgiveness, and reliability. Some friendships shape us, some teach us hard lessons, and some should’ve ended way sooner. Because who you surround yourself with matters! so let’s talk about it and make sure we’re doing it right

Identity is ever-changing, but how much of that change is truly us, and how much is just to fit in? In this episode, we explore the pressure to adapt, the struggle for authenticity, and what it really means to truly know yourself. Lili opens up about her journey of self-discovery, grappling with the struggle to stay authentic while facing internal and external pressure

Ever feel like you're racing against an invisible clock, constantly striving to hit life’s milestones? In today’s episode, we unpack the pressure of society’s timelines and how they can rob us of the present moment. From career goals to relationship milestones, we’ll explore how these expectations lead to stress and anxiety, and offer practical ways to break free. Let’s shift the focus from the future to the here and now, and find freedom in living at our own pace.

In this episode, I take a nostalgic trip down memory lane, exploring the evolution from Musical.ly to TikTok and reflecting on how we've all been along for the ride. From its impact on creativity and connection to the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of the, we unpack how TikTok has changed our lives in many ways. With talks of its potential end, it’s bittersweet to imagine saying goodbye to this app

This episode is all about looking back at 2024—the good, the bad, and the downright messy. I’m sharing my stories, the lessons I’ve learned, and how I’m using it all to set the tone for 2025. I hope that you walk away with a new perspective—or at least a good laugh.

In Episode 1, I share the vision behind this podcast and what inspired me to start it. You'll also get to know a little about me and the journey that led me here—thank you for tuning in!