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Y'all… this one is a true redemption story. I sit down with Terrence Ogden, who went from addiction, jail, and near-death experiences… to completing a 1,046-mile ruck across Texas. After being introduced to opiates at just 11 years old following a traumatic accident, Terrence found himself stuck in a cycle of heroin use, jail, and survival mode… even stealing a tire off a car just to get to rehab. The turning point? A man with "TRY ME" tattooed across his neck… who saw something in him… and extended a helping hand.   In this episode, we talk about: The moment he realized it was death, jail, or change Why asking for help was the hardest (and most important) decision How doing hard things rewires your identity & beliefs What a "ruck" is... and how it led to a 1,046-mile solo journey across the entire state of Texas in 40 days Why your darkest days can become your greatest asset   If you've been feeling stuck, burnt out, or unsure what you're capable of…   This one will shift something in you.     RESOURCES:  WEB- https://officialprojectgrit.com/ IG- https://www.instagram.com/officialprojectgrit/     CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  IG-  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  FB-  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  WEB-  www.JanDatu.com      00:00 From Addiction to Survival Mode 02:10 The Accident That Changed Everything (Age 11) 05:30 Jail, Heroin, and Hitting Rock Bottom 09:45 The Moment He Chose Change 12:30 "Try Me" — The Man Who Changed His Life 16:20 Why Asking for Help Was the Hardest Thing 20:45 Doing Hard Things & Identity Shifts 25:30 Jan's Breaking Point Hike Story 32:00 The Power of Pushing Past Your Limits 36:30 "Your Darkest Days Are Your Greatest Asset" 42:00 Stories from the 75-Mile Rucks 50:00 The 1,046-Mile Texas Ruck Begins 58:00 Loneliness, Pain, and Mental Battles 1:06:00 The Spiritual Moment That Changed Everything 1:15:00 Breaking It Down: The "Next Tree" Mentality 1:22:00 What Really Matters in Life 1:30:00 The Medicine Wheel (Mind, Body, Spirit, Emotion) 1:38:00 Final Takeaways + Rapid Fire Questions  

If you've ever been stuck in your head… overthinking, spiraling, pushing emotions away… and then wondering why they come back louder… this episode is your emotional reset toolkit.   This is a power-packed COMPILATION episode featuring practical, real-time LIVE DEMOS of emotional processing tools you can start using today.   Inside this episode, you'll learn how to: ✨ Stop overthinking and reconnect with your body ✨ Understand what your emotions are actually trying to tell you ✨ Process anxiety, stress, and overwhelm in real time ✨ Break the cycle of burnout before it compounds ✨ Shift from mental chaos → emotional clarity in minutes   We walk through live, step-by-step exercises, including: The CALMS Method (a simple framework to process emotions through your body) The Psychological Sigh (a science-backed breathing technique to calm your nervous system fast) EFT Tapping for immediate stress relief during high-pressure moments How to complete the stress response cycle instead of storing it in your body Simple, in-the-moment tools you can use between patients, at work, or mid-meltdown   This isn't theory. This is do-it-with-you, try-it-today emotional health work.   If you're feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, anxious, or disconnected… this episode gives you real tools to take your power back.   💬 Because the goal isn't to avoid emotions… It's to understand them, process them, and move through them.   ****COMPILATION TOOLS FROM EPISODE: "Boundaries, Burnout & Becoming Ourselves: The Loz & Baz Conversation" ***** CHECK OUT FULL TWO PART EPISODES HERE:  SPOTIFY LINK PART I APPLE LINK PART I   RESOURCES: Rock Solid - Loz & Baz https://www.instagram.com/rocksoliduk/  https://www.youtube.com/user/rocksolid4lifetv    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    ⏱️ TIMESTAMPED CHAPTERS 00:00 – Why your mind is lying to you (and what to do instead) 00:39 – Stop suppressing emotions… here's what actually happens 01:11 – What emotions really mean (fear, anxiety, anger, depression explained) 02:00 – Why avoiding emotions makes them louder 02:42 – The shame spiral: "I knew better but still did it anyway" 03:14 – Introducing the CALMS Method 03:28 – Step 1: Becoming Conscious of the emotion 04:19 – Step 2: Locating emotion in the body 04:35 – Step 3: Giving the feeling shape, color, and form 05:03 – Step 4: Measuring intensity (0–10 scale) 05:29 – Step 5: Listening… what does the emotion need? 05:55 – Reframing self-talk and inner dialogue 07:07 – Step 6: Movement (how to physically process emotion) 08:11 – Step 7: Completing the stress response cycle   09:10 – Why "weird" emotional processing actually works 10:21 – Real-life tools for stress during work shifts 10:27 – The Psychological Sigh (science-backed nervous system reset) 11:39 – EFT Tapping for instant calm 12:50 – Micro-practices you can use between patients 13:10 – Getting out of your head and into your body 13:59 – Real-life experience with tapping and emotional release 15:27 – Rediscovering yourself outside of work 16:28 – Reconnecting with what you loved as a kid 17:35 – Letting go of productivity guilt 18:03 – Identifying limiting beliefs (and where they come from) 19:55 – Creating a new reality vs. new perspective 21:46 – The first step in burnout recovery 22:13 – Why you MUST calm your nervous system first 23:19 – The 3 dimensions of burnout (based on research) 24:57 – Emotional burnout: losing confidence and self-trust 25:25 – Mental burnout: cynicism, negativity, irritability 26:35 – Practical reset for mental burnout 27:57 – Rewiring your internal language 28:55 – Processing stress in minutes instead of days 29:20 – End-of-day reset rituals (shower, cold exposure, release) 30:44 – Why getting uncomfortable builds resilience

This isn't a dramatic TV scene from The Pitt… This is what's happening in real ERs… EVERY SINGLE DAY… In this compelling interview, Trauma ER nurse Michelle shares her journey through the healthcare system, highlighting systemic issues, the emotional toll of nursing during the COVID-19 pandemic, and her passion for advocacy for healthcare reform. Discover insights into the realities faced by frontline workers and potential pathways for change. In this heartfelt conversation, Michelle shares her experiences with workplace violence in healthcare, the systemic challenges faced by nurses, and her unwavering dedication to making a difference. Discover insights on mental health, safety protocols, and the importance of community support in the healthcare field. In this episode, a trauma ER nurse shares what it's actually like to be: physically assaulted at work left unprotected by the system and sent right back into the same environment… the next shift We talk about: what workplace violence in healthcare REALLY looks like why charges often go nowhere… even when it's a federal offense what happens when your "abuser"… is your job and the moment she went toe-to-toe with a hospital CEO Key Topics:  Systemic issues in healthcare and hospital management The emotional and psychological impact of nursing during COVID-19 Advocacy and leadership in healthcare reform Workplace violence in healthcare Mental health and coping strategies for nurses Systemic challenges and safety protocols in hospitals And yet… In the middle of all of it… she still calls this work an honor… This is the side of healthcare the public doesn't see. And once you hear it… you can't un-hear it…   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  IG-  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  FB-  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  WEB-  www.JanDatu.com    Chapters 00:00 Introduction to ER Nurse Michelle 03:56 Michelle's Nursing Journey and Early Experiences 11:04 Navigating Nursing School During COVID-19 15:52 The Emotional Toll of Nursing 19:41 Coping with Death and Patient Loss 24:44 Mental Health Challenges in Healthcare 29:35 Finding Support and Therapy 31:27 The Healthcare System's Flaws 36:38 Ethics vs. Profit in Healthcare 42:35 Advocating for Change in Healthcare 47:58 Confronting Leadership: A Personal Account 01:00:25 Staffing Challenges and Solutions 01:04:49 Building Strong Team Dynamics 01:10:32 Experiences with Workplace Violence 01:16:11 The Impact of Violence on Healthcare Workers 01:22:07 Advocacy and Coping Mechanisms 01:29:09 The Personal Stakes in Healthcare Advocacy 01:31:29 The Importance of Compassionate Care 01:34:50 Reflections on the Nursing Journey 01:36:50 Mandatory Safe Staffing: A Game Changer 01:40:19 Pursuing Higher Education in Nursing 01:41:18 Legacy of Care and Compassion 01:43:52 The Power of Advocacy and Change 01:52:47 OUTRO 

What does it actually mean to "play the game" in travel nursing… and what does it cost you long term? In this episode, I sit down with longtime ICU Travel Nurse Tyler turned mental health provider who breaks down both sides of the story: 👉 how he built a highly successful travel nursing career 👉 and how that same hustle led to burnout, PTSD, and losing his empathy   We get into the real, unfiltered strategies that helped him stand out as a travel nurse: how he built strong rapport quickly on new units how he became someone people wanted to extend (even in units he didn't originally work in) what makes a nurse more likable, trusted, and valuable and the biggest mistakes new travel nurses make when entering the field   But we also talk about the darker side of that grind… Because the same system that rewards you… ALSO exploits your compassion.   We unpack: how picking up extra shifts "just for a little while" turns into years of burnout the hidden dangers of overtime compounding over time what "moral injury" in healthcare actually looks like and why so many nurses don't realize they're burned out until it's too late   We also go deep into his personal mental health journey: the moment he realized he had lost his empathy the PTSD symptoms that showed up after working through COVID what it was like experiencing flashbacks and emotional shutdown and the exact mindset shift that helped him start healing   We also touch on: mental health in men and why so many avoid getting help the role of mentorship in navigating nursing careers and why therapy was a turning point in getting his life back on track This episode is part career strategy, part reality check, and part healing conversation. If you're a nurse trying to figure out how to grow your career without burning out… or if you're already feeling the weight of it all… this one's for you.

Why do so many high-performing nurses feel stuck, exhausted, and disconnected… even when they're doing everything "right"?   In this episode, Jan sits down with Eli Bowman, speaker, author, and NLP practitioner, to unpack how unconscious mental patterns quietly run our lives and why burnout often has less to do with workload and more to do with living out of alignment with who we really are.   Eli explains how most people are unknowingly operating on mental autopilot, repeating the same behaviors, thoughts, and emotional loops. The result? Burnout, frustration, and a constant feeling that something in life just isn't working.   Together, they explore the concept of pattern interruption, a powerful way to disrupt unconscious programming and regain control of your mindset, energy, and direction.   For nurses still carrying the emotional weight of the pandemic, Eli shares practical ways to release tension, reconnect with joy, and rediscover what actually makes you feel alive.     This conversation dives into: • Why burnout isn't always about your job • The unconscious patterns shaping your life • How authenticity impacts fulfillment • Why "checking out" never fixes burnout • Practical ways to reset your mind and reclaim your energy     Key Discussion Topics • What NLP reveals about unconscious behavior patterns • Why living inauthentically creates burnout and dissatisfaction • The psychology behind "pattern interruption" • Why many nurses still feel the emotional impact of the pandemic • The difference between checking out vs truly resetting your mind • Rediscovering joy through childlike "core phase" experiences • Practical ways to break mental loops and regain control of your life • Why authenticity is the foundation of fulfillment     If you've ever felt stuck in a life that doesn't fully feel like yours anymore… this episode might help you find your way back.     RESOURCES:  The GOODS- https://75mind.com/ WEB- www.elibowman.com IG- https://www.instagram.com/eli.bowman/    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  IG-  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  FB-  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  WEB-  www.JanDatu.com 

Most of us don't avoid healing… we avoid feeling. Therapist Kalona Stone explains why trauma stays stuck in the body, why emotional numbness is so common among healthcare workers, and the simple practice that can help you start processing what you've been carrying. Including a live emotional processing exercise you can try yourself.   Together we explore: • Why avoiding emotions often keeps trauma stuck • The difference between thinking about feelings and actually feeling them • Why healthcare workers often suppress emotions to survive their jobs • The long-term impact of pandemic trauma on nurses and healthcare professionals • Compassion fatigue and how to avoid absorbing everyone else's pain • Simple practices to reset your nervous system during a stressful shift • How to release emotional weight at the end of a difficult day • Why healing isn't a one-time event but an ongoing process   Kalona also walks through a live guided emotional awareness exercise, demonstrating how anyone can begin reconnecting with what their body and emotions are trying to communicate.   RESOURCES:  IG- https://www.instagram.com/kalonastone/ WEB-  https://stonebalancetherapy.com/    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  IG-  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  FB-  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  WEB-  www.JanDatu.com   

Why are nurses walking off the job in record numbers? What happens when the "buck stops at the nurse"… every single time? If you've ever wondered why nurses are ACTUALLY striking… this is the episode that explains what most headlines miss. Zac Shepherd, RN (Writer, Nurse, FIGS Ambassador, Aya Nurse Fellow) has worked across the country as an ICU nurse and travel nurse, including some of the hardest-hit regions during the pandemic. In this conversation, we go beyond surface-level narratives and unpack what's really happening at the bedside. We talk about: • The "responsibility creep" in healthcare and why the buck always stops at the nurse • Why nurses are often seen as a "cost" instead of a value driver on hospital balance sheets • The disconnect between the business side of healthcare and clinical reality • Why we need more bridges between executives and bedside clinicians • The emotional weight of caring deeply in a system that doesn't always protect you • The hidden ways nurses dissociate to survive • Why Zac believes never stop caring is the real superpower   We also get into the rise in nursing strikes across the U.S., pay transparency, travel nursing, social media's role in workforce awareness, and what has fundamentally changed since the pandemic. And in one of the most powerful moments of the episode, Zac shares how he hopes to be remembered — not for followers or money, but for empathy, integrity, and living true to his values.   If you're a bedside nurse feeling the strain… If you've felt the moral weight of not being able to give the care you want to give… This episode will make you feel seen. Because behind every strike sign is a nurse who just wants to care safely.   RESOURCES:  IG- https://www.instagram.com/zacshepherdrn/?hl=en  LinkedIn-  https://www.linkedin.com/in/zac-shepherd-rn-38862029a/   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  IG-  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  FB-  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  WEB-  www.JanDatu.com   

Burned out… or neurologically overloaded? This episode offers both neuroscience-backed clarity and real-world strategies to restore cognitive capacity and resilience. If you feel fried, scattered, or emotionally reactive lately, this might not be a mindset issue. It might be a system error in your nervous system. In this episode, I sit down with MJ Gordon, globally recognized high performance strategist, speaker, and founder of The Level Up System, to unpack what's actually happening inside the brains of high achievers who feel fried. With nearly 20 years of certified performance strategy experience, MJ has worked with over 3,000 businesses, Fortune 500 companies, award-winning actors, and brands including the NFL Super Bowl XXXVII, Michael Jordan, New Balance, Adidas, and FitBody Bootcamp. Her science-forward, practical content has generated over 140 million lifetime YouTube views and features on platforms like Nerd Wallet, The Minimalists Podcast, and the Discovery Channel. But this conversation isn't about hustle. It's about capacity. We explore the intersection of ADHD, OCD, neurodivergence, dopamine overstimulation, and nervous system dysregulation and why so many nurses and high performers feel emotionally reactive, mentally scattered, and inconsistent across different areas of life.   MJ breaks down: • Why chronic fight-or-flight blocks executive function • Non-genetic ADHD trends in women • Dopamine overstimulation from phones and frictionless rewards • How cortisol dysregulation and adrenal fatigue impact focus • OCD, AuDHD, and how neurodivergent brains process stress • Why mindset work fails when physiology is ignored • How cortisol dysregulation and inflammation impact cognitive load • The difference between mindset work and bottom-up nervous system repair   She also shares tactical tools, including: • 5-minute "buffer resets" • Scheduling texts in advance (goodbye forgotten birthdays 👀) • "Progressive Flow" instead of forcing meditation • Silent car rides to unload mental friction • The "Later Lists" to offload cognitive clutter • A 3-bucket Life Audit framework (You | Others | Do) • A decision-scoring algorithm to reduce overwhelm • How to "unsubscribe from urgency" without compromising performance If you're a nurse, healthcare worker, or high performer feeling mentally fried, this episode offers both neuroscience-backed clarity and real-world strategies to restore cognitive capacity and resilience.   RESOURCES: IG-  https://www.instagram.com/marinjayden/ WEB-  https://www.mj-gordon.com/ YouTube  https://www.youtube.com/user/Marin8d APP -  https://apps.apple.com/us/app/level-up-with-mj-gordon/id6749461796   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  IG-  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  FB-  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  WEB-  www.JanDatu.com    entrepreneurship, personal development, stress management, health, biomarkers, neurodiversity, resilience, mindset, wellness, first responders, neurodiversity, parenting, bio-optimization, self-care, mental health, nursing, stress management, holistic living, personal development, emotional safety

Burned out… or neurologically overloaded? If you feel fried, scattered, or emotionally reactive lately, this might not be a mindset issue. It might be a system error in your nervous system. In this episode, I sit down with MJ Gordon, globally recognized high performance strategist, speaker, and founder of The Level Up System, to unpack what's actually happening inside the brains of high achievers who feel fried. With nearly 20 years of certified performance strategy experience, MJ has worked with over 3,000 businesses, Fortune 500 companies, award-winning actors, and brands including the NFL Super Bowl XXXVII, Michael Jordan, New Balance, Adidas, and FitBody Bootcamp. Her science-forward, practical content has generated over 140 million lifetime YouTube views and features on platforms like Nerd Wallet, The Minimalists Podcast, and the Discovery Channel. But this conversation isn't about hustle. It's about capacity. We explore the intersection of ADHD, OCD, neurodivergence, dopamine overstimulation, and nervous system dysregulation and why so many nurses and high performers feel emotionally reactive, mentally scattered, and inconsistent across different areas of life.   MJ breaks down: • Why chronic fight-or-flight blocks executive function • Non-genetic ADHD trends in women • Dopamine overstimulation from phones and frictionless rewards • How cortisol dysregulation and adrenal fatigue impact focus • OCD, AuDHD, and how neurodivergent brains process stress • Why mindset work fails when physiology is ignored • How cortisol dysregulation and inflammation impact cognitive load • The difference between mindset work and bottom-up nervous system repair   She also shares tactical tools, including: • 5-minute "buffer resets" • Scheduling texts in advance (goodbye forgotten birthdays 👀) • "Progressive Flow" instead of forcing meditation • Silent car rides to unload mental friction • The "Later Lists" to offload cognitive clutter • A 3-bucket Life Audit framework (You | Others | Do) • A decision-scoring algorithm to reduce overwhelm • How to "unsubscribe from urgency" without compromising performance If you're a nurse, healthcare worker, or high performer feeling mentally fried, this episode offers both neuroscience-backed clarity and real-world strategies to restore cognitive capacity and resilience.   RESOURCES: IG-  https://www.instagram.com/marinjayden/ WEB-  https://www.mj-gordon.com/ YouTube  https://www.youtube.com/user/Marin8d APP -  https://apps.apple.com/us/app/level-up-with-mj-gordon/id6749461796   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  IG-  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  FB-  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  WEB-  www.JanDatu.com     

In this episode, I sit down with my former travel nurse Em Herman for a raw, honest, and surprisingly hopeful conversation about moral distress in nursing, burnout recovery, queer identity, and the unexpected growth that comes from stepping outside your comfort zone. And how CHEESE can be the secret weapon to love! Em shares what it was like to start nursing at 19, grow up in the profession during COVID, and navigate the emotional weight of morally distressing patient situations where expectations, social barriers, and systemic limitations collide. We break down what moral distress actually looks like at the bedside and how her hospital's ethics committee is proactively working to support nurses during super emotionally taxing shifts.   We talk about: • What moral distress in nursing really means (and how it impacts patient care) • Why ethics committees may be the future of sustainable nursing leadership • Emotional regulation between patient rooms • The "5-minute word-vomit" strategy for surviving hard shifts • Recovering from people-pleasing in healthcare • The confidence boost that comes from travel nursing (especially for introverts) • Overcoming imposter syndrome after years in practice • Leadership's role in burnout and unit culture • Being queer in nursing and reclaiming identity • Facing hate and discrimination outside the hospital • The courage it takes to come out in the South • Finding love unexpectedly on a travel assignment • The benefits of being partnered with another nurse • How to actually leave work at work   We also get honest about pandemic trauma, the lingering emotional toll many nurses still carry, and why proactively supporting nurses during shifts isn't optional if we want safe patient care. This conversation is about growth. About confidence. About learning to set boundaries. About finding the unit that fits you instead of shrinking yourself to fit the unit.   If you've ever: – Felt emotionally drained after a morally complex case – Struggled with imposter syndrome – Considered travel nursing but felt terrified – Questioned your identity or authenticity in healthcare – Wondered if there's a better way to survive bedside nursing This episode is for you. Because the more we take care of nurses, the more we take care of patients.   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    moral distress in nursing travel nursing travel nurse confidence nurse burnout emotional regulation for nurses ethics committee healthcare nursing leadership queer nurse LGBTQ nurses bisexual nurse imposter syndrome in nursing COVID nurse experience bedside nurse support nurse mental health people pleasing in healthcare nurse work life balance finding love as a travel nurse healthcare burnout recovery

In this episode, I sit down with my former travel nurse Em Herman for a raw, honest, and surprisingly hopeful conversation about moral distress in nursing, burnout recovery, queer identity, and the unexpected growth that comes from stepping outside your comfort zone. And how CHEESE can be the secret weapon to love! Em shares what it was like to start nursing at 19, grow up in the profession during COVID, and navigate the emotional weight of morally distressing patient situations where expectations, social barriers, and systemic limitations collide. We break down what moral distress actually looks like at the bedside and how her hospital's ethics committee is proactively working to support nurses during super emotionally taxing shifts.   We talk about: • What moral distress in nursing really means (and how it impacts patient care) • Why ethics committees may be the future of sustainable nursing leadership • Emotional regulation between patient rooms • The "5-minute word-vomit" strategy for surviving hard shifts • Recovering from people-pleasing in healthcare • The confidence boost that comes from travel nursing (especially for introverts) • Overcoming imposter syndrome after years in practice • Leadership's role in burnout and unit culture • Being queer in nursing and reclaiming identity • Facing hate and discrimination outside the hospital • The courage it takes to come out in the South • Finding love unexpectedly on a travel assignment • The benefits of being partnered with another nurse • How to actually leave work at work   We also get honest about pandemic trauma, the lingering emotional toll many nurses still carry, and why proactively supporting nurses during shifts isn't optional if we want safe patient care. This conversation is about growth. About confidence. About learning to set boundaries. About finding the unit that fits you instead of shrinking yourself to fit the unit.   If you've ever: – Felt emotionally drained after a morally complex case – Struggled with imposter syndrome – Considered travel nursing but felt terrified – Questioned your identity or authenticity in healthcare – Wondered if there's a better way to survive bedside nursing This episode is for you. Because the more we take care of nurses, the more we take care of patients.   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    moral distress in nursing travel nursing travel nurse confidence nurse burnout emotional regulation for nurses ethics committee healthcare nursing leadership queer nurse LGBTQ nurses bisexual nurse imposter syndrome in nursing COVID nurse experience bedside nurse support nurse mental health people pleasing in healthcare nurse work life balance finding love as a travel nurse healthcare burnout recovery

If you've been feeling exhausted, wired but tired, irritable, foggy, gaining weight despite doing "everything right," or stuck in survival mode… this episode will reframe everything you think you know about hormones and dieting. Dr. Cody Golman, hormone reset expert and creator of the Fast 40 Program, returns for a deeper dive and introduces the framework overview of his methodology, breaks down how insulin resistance, cortisol dysregulation, and dopamine-driven eating patterns are quietly hijacking women's energy, metabolism, mood, and sleep. And no, this isn't another calorie-counting conversation. We talk about: • Why "feeling good" can actually be an addiction • How emotional avoidance drives sugar cravings • The hormone ripple effect behind fatigue, brain fog, irritability, and hot flashes • Why Ozempic and quick fixes miss the mental and emotional piece • How insulin, cortisol, estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, leptin, and ghrelin all work together • What actually happens in the first 7 days of a true hormone reset • Why menopause is dramatically easier when you're metabolically flexible • The mindset shift from survival to thrive Dr. Golman explains how shifting from sugar-burning to fat-burning can dramatically improve: • Energy levels • Sleep quality • Hot flashes • Brain fog • Fat loss • Mood stability • Emotional resilience He also shares the deeper philosophy behind his work: your body is not broken. It is always striving toward health when given the right inputs. If you're a nurse or high-performing woman running on fumes, this conversation connects the dots between physiology and personal development in a way that's empowering instead of shame-based. Because this isn't about shrinking your body. It's about becoming an active participant in your life again.   ⏱️ Episode Highlights 00:00 Why avoiding emotions fuels hormone dysfunction 08:15 Insulin resistance explained in plain English 15:40 Cortisol, stress, and why survival mode wrecks metabolism 22:30 The dopamine addiction cycle and emotional eating 31:00 What happens during the first 7 days of a hormone reset 38:45 Fat loss vs. weight loss and why it matters 44:10 Menopause, hot flashes & metabolic flexibility 51:00 Survival vs. thrival mindset 58:00 Where to find Dr. Golman & the Fast 40 Program   RESOURCES:  https://fast40weightloss.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@drcodyhealth  https://www.instagram.com/dr.codygolman/    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    Hormone reset for women Insulin resistance Cortisol imbalance Women over 35 health Menopause hot flashes Metabolic flexibility Fat loss vs weight loss Ozempic alternatives Burnout recovery Energy and brain fog High protein breakfast Chrono nutrition Stress hormones Dopamine and sugar addiction

Working as a nurse wasn't on this farm boy's radar. His world was cattle farming, living close to the land, and understanding hard work in a completely different way. But love has a funny way of rerouting your life… In this episode, we sit down with cattle farmer turned ER nurse, Micah, whose journey into nursing was inspired by watching his wife serve as an Emergency Room Nurse Practitioner and witnessing the impact she made every day. What started as admiration turned into a calling for more meaningful, purpose driven work… and led him straight into the intensity, trauma, and humanity of the Emergency Room he grew to love. We talk about what it's really like to be a male nurse, the double standards that come with being a "murse," and how masculinity, caregiving, and dark humor intersect in high stress clinical environments. He shares how working through the pandemic changed him forever… including the frustration of hearing people dismiss COVID like it was exaggerated or fake while he was facing mass patient deaths, shift after shift, carrying the emotional weight that healthcare workers are still unpacking. We also get into life outside the hospital… because for him, healing does not happen under fluorescent lights. It happens back on the farm. With cattle. In nature. In quiet. In grounding work that reminds him who he is beyond the badge.   This conversation explores: • The transition from cattle farming to ER nursing • Being inspired by his wife's work in emergency medicine • Wanting more purposeful and impactful work • The emotional toll of ER trauma and patient loss • How memorable patients reshaped how he lives today • Facing mortality and the mindset of "tomorrow isn't promised" • The male nurse experience and unspoken double standards • Pandemic trauma and feeling unseen after everything healthcare workers carried • Dark humor as a coping tool in emergency medicine • Why life outside the hospital is essential for mental health • Nature, farming, and physical work as nervous system regulation • Career transitions and how his ER background helped him move into pharmaceutical sales • Using clinical experience as leverage in non bedside healthcare roles This episode is about staying human in a profession that can harden you. It's about identity beyond nursing. It's about purpose, perspective, and remembering to actually live… not just survive your shifts. If you've ever questioned your path, felt the weight of patient loss, or wondered who you are outside of healthcare… this one will hit home. CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    ER nurse, emergency room nursing, male nurse experience, murse perspective, nurse burnout, healthcare worker trauma, pandemic nursing, nurse mental health, coping as a nurse, life after bedside nursing, nursing career transition, pharmaceutical sales from nursing, finding purpose as a nurse, work life balance for nurses, nurse resilience, nature and mental health, trauma informed nursing

Working as a nurse wasn't on this farm boy's radar. His world was cattle farming, living close to the land, and understanding hard work in a completely different way. But love has a funny way of rerouting your life… In this episode, we sit down with cattle farmer turned ER nurse, Micah, whose journey into nursing was inspired by watching his wife serve as an Emergency Room Nurse Practitioner and witnessing the impact she made every day. What started as admiration turned into a calling for more meaningful, purpose driven work… and led him straight into the intensity, trauma, and humanity of the Emergency Room he grew to love. We talk about what it's really like to be a male nurse, the double standards that come with being a "murse," and how masculinity, caregiving, and dark humor intersect in high stress clinical environments. He shares how working through the pandemic changed him forever… including the frustration of hearing people dismiss COVID like it was exaggerated or fake while he was facing mass patient deaths, shift after shift, carrying the emotional weight that healthcare workers are still unpacking. We also get into life outside the hospital… because for him, healing does not happen under fluorescent lights. It happens back on the farm. With cattle. In nature. In quiet. In grounding work that reminds him who he is beyond the badge.   This conversation explores: • The transition from cattle farming to ER nursing • Being inspired by his wife's work in emergency medicine • Wanting more purposeful and impactful work • The emotional toll of ER trauma and patient loss • How memorable patients reshaped how he lives today • Facing mortality and the mindset of "tomorrow isn't promised" • The male nurse experience and unspoken double standards • Pandemic trauma and feeling unseen after everything healthcare workers carried • Dark humor as a coping tool in emergency medicine • Why life outside the hospital is essential for mental health • Nature, farming, and physical work as nervous system regulation • Career transitions and how his ER background helped him move into pharmaceutical sales • Using clinical experience as leverage in non bedside healthcare roles This episode is about staying human in a profession that can harden you. It's about identity beyond nursing. It's about purpose, perspective, and remembering to actually live… not just survive your shifts. If you've ever questioned your path, felt the weight of patient loss, or wondered who you are outside of healthcare… this one will hit home. CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    ER nurse, emergency room nursing, male nurse experience, murse perspective, nurse burnout, healthcare worker trauma, pandemic nursing, nurse mental health, coping as a nurse, life after bedside nursing, nursing career transition, pharmaceutical sales from nursing, finding purpose as a nurse, work life balance for nurses, nurse resilience, nature and mental health, trauma informed nursing

What happens when a Pediatric Critical Care nurse with 18 years in the game pulls back the curtain from BOTH the bedside and the supervisor seat? In this eye opening and surprisingly fun conversation, Nurse Jen Lea (CVPICU, Peds ER, Flight Nurse, RN Supervisor, Nurse Injector) shares the real signs of burnout nurses miss, the trauma healthcare workers carry, why many say they wouldn't show up the same way for another pandemic… and what actually helps nurses stay human in a system that can wear you down. Jen's honesty, humor, and grounded insight make this one feel like happy hour with a nurse friend who's been through it, learned the hard lessons, and is now trying to make the system better for the people coming behind her. Jen brings a rare dual perspective: She's lived the trauma exposure at the bedside and now sees the system from the leadership side… watching what newer nurses struggle with, how team culture impacts burnout, and why retention is becoming harder than ever.   In this episode, you'll hear: • HOPE for the last few single folks out there!  • HOW to think about signs from the universe • What leadership sees that staff nurses don't (and vice versa) • WHY many nurses say they wouldn't show up for another pandemic • The rise in violence toward healthcare workers • Trauma bonding and fitting into nursing units • Lateral violence and how nursing culture is changing • Early signs you're burning out (before total collapse) • Practical ways she protects her mental health now • Finding work that gives energy back instead of only draining you • Why choosing yourself is a skill nurses have to learn • What needs to change if we want nurses to stay This episode isn't just about being tired. It's about what breaks nurses… what saves them… and what leadership sees that the staff doesn't.   RESOURCES:  https://www.instagram.com/skinbyj_e_n   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com  ✨ Leadership perspective ✨ Flight nursing experience ✨ Pediatric critical care lens ✨ System-level insight ✨ Culture of guilt in nursing ✨ "Nurses wouldn't show up again" pandemic sentiment ✨ Workplace violence reality ✨ Practical burnout prevention ✨ Early-warning signs nurses ignore ✨ Transitioning into work that restores energy  

What happens when a Pediatric Critical Care nurse with 18 years in the game pulls back the curtain from BOTH the bedside and the supervisor seat? In this eye opening and surprisingly fun conversation, Nurse Jen Lea (CVPICU, Peds ER, Flight Nurse, RN Supervisor, Nurse Injector) shares the real signs of burnout nurses miss, the trauma healthcare workers carry, why many say they wouldn't show up the same way for another pandemic… and what actually helps nurses stay human in a system that can wear you down. Jen's honesty, humor, and grounded insight make this one feel like happy hour with a nurse friend who's been through it, learned the hard lessons, and is now trying to make the system better for the people coming behind her. Jen brings a rare dual perspective: She's lived the trauma exposure at the bedside and now sees the system from the leadership side… watching what newer nurses struggle with, how team culture impacts burnout, and why retention is becoming harder than ever.   In this episode, you'll hear: • HOPE for the last few single folks out there!  • HOW to think about signs from the universe • What leadership sees that staff nurses don't (and vice versa) • WHY many nurses say they wouldn't show up for another pandemic • The rise in violence toward healthcare workers • Trauma bonding and fitting into nursing units • Lateral violence and how nursing culture is changing • Early signs you're burning out (before total collapse) • Practical ways she protects her mental health now • Finding work that gives energy back instead of only draining you • Why choosing yourself is a skill nurses have to learn • What needs to change if we want nurses to stay This episode isn't just about being tired. It's about what breaks nurses… what saves them… and what leadership sees that the staff doesn't.   RESOURCES:  https://www.instagram.com/skinbyj_e_n   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com  ✨ Leadership perspective ✨ Flight nursing experience ✨ Pediatric critical care lens ✨ System-level insight ✨ Culture of guilt in nursing ✨ "Nurses wouldn't show up again" pandemic sentiment ✨ Workplace violence reality ✨ Practical burnout prevention ✨ Early-warning signs nurses ignore ✨ Transitioning into work that restores energy  

Burnout in nursing sometimes shows up uncontrollably sobbing watching old ladies have fun at a Zumba class, numbness, isolation, and the quiet belief that this is just how life is now. In this deeply honest episode, ICU nurse Emily shares what it was really like to work in a Level I Trauma ICU fresh out of nursing school, the emotional toll, the depression, the moments that nearly broke her, and the dark places she didn't know how to talk about at the time Emily opens up about the invisible weight nurses carry, the pressure to keep pushing, and the toxic belief that working harder will somehow make it hurt less. She also shares the BIGGEST turning point that served as a wake up call that prompted her to decide to choose herself, find a path that restored her love for nursing, and reclaim a sense of hope, purpose, and joy she thought was gone for good. This episode is for the nurse who feels trapped, exhausted, and needs a dose of HOPE.  Emily's story is proof that you can go from depressed and numb as an ICU nurse to vibrant and LOVING your career again, and that there is life, meaning, and fulfillment on the other side. The overarching takeaway is HOPE… Through her very raw and generous sharing of her journey to get to the other side of depression   In this episode, you'll hear: What ICU burnout ACTUALLY looks and feels like when you're deep in it Why "just take a walk or go do something fun" isn't helpful advice for burned out nurses The TOXIC MINDSETS nurses hold that keep them burned out The power of MANIFESTING and having an EGO DEATH The solution that SAVED HER LIFE and restored her sense of purpose How depression and burnout can quietly take over your life Why leaving bedside doesn't mean you failed nursing How hope returns when you stop suffering alone • • Choose your own adventure and COME BACK TO LIFE!   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com  nurse burnout ICU nurse burnout nurse depression healthcare burnout recovery leaving bedside nursing nursing mental health burnout recovery for nurses hope after burnout ICU nurse mental health alternative nursing careers

Burnout in nursing sometimes shows up uncontrollably sobbing watching old ladies have fun at a Zumba class, numbness, isolation, and the quiet belief that this is just how life is now. In this deeply honest episode, ICU nurse Emily shares what it was really like to work in a Level I Trauma ICU fresh out of nursing school, the emotional toll, the depression, the moments that nearly broke her, and the dark places she didn't know how to talk about at the time ****HEADS UP AUDIO is a little weird up to MINUTE 8:12 then smooths out***** Emily opens up about the invisible weight nurses carry, the pressure to keep pushing, and the toxic belief that working harder will somehow make it hurt less. She also shares the BIGGEST turning point that served as a wake up call that prompted her to decide to choose herself, find a path that restored her love for nursing, and reclaim a sense of hope, purpose, and joy she thought was gone for good. This episode is for the nurse who feels trapped, exhausted, and needs a dose of HOPE.  Emily's story is proof that you can go from depressed and numb as an ICU nurse to vibrant and LOVING your career again, and that there is life, meaning, and fulfillment on the other side. The overarching takeaway is HOPE… Through her very raw and generous sharing of her journey to get to the other side of depression   In this episode, you'll hear: What ICU burnout ACTUALLY looks and feels like when you're deep in it Why "just take a walk or go do something fun" isn't helpful advice for burned out nurses The TOXIC MINDSETS nurses hold that keep them burned out The power of MANIFESTING and having an EGO DEATH The solution that SAVED HER LIFE and restored her sense of purpose How depression and burnout can quietly take over your life Why leaving bedside doesn't mean you failed nursing How hope returns when you stop suffering alone • • Choose your own adventure and COME BACK TO LIFE! CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com  nurse burnout ICU nurse burnout nurse depression healthcare burnout recovery leaving bedside nursing nursing mental health burnout recovery for nurses hope after burnout ICU nurse mental health alternative nursing careers

If you've been replaying mistakes, being hard on yourself, judging yourself for not keeping up, or feeling like a shell of yourself… If you can stand to give yourself grace... this episode is for you. In this solo pep talk, Jan offers a compassionate reminder for nurses and healthcare workers who've been running on empty. This episode isn't about fixing yourself or pushing harder. It's about softening the inner dialogue that keeps you stuck in survival mode. These are the same conversations Jan has with herself on the days she feels heavy, stuck in a disempowering dialogue, or burned out… the kind that gently lift your face out of the mud and back toward the light. Think of this episode as a pep talk, a pause, and a hug from afar when you need extra kindness. Topics Covered Letting go of shame, guilt, and unrealistic expectations Nurse burnout and emotional exhaustion Compassion fatigue and pandemic trauma Harsh inner self-talk and perfectionism Survival mode and nervous system overload Self-compassion as burnout recovery Mental health support for nurses This Episode Is For: Burned-out nurses and healthcare workers Anyone who needs to give themself some grace and self-compassion  Nurses still carrying pandemic weight Anyone stuck in survival mode Nurses who needs a kinder inner voice Anyone who needs a hug and wants to just FEEL LOVED ON    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com 

In this episode, Jan sits down with Dr. Mina, a Harvard-trained, board-certified dermatologist with over 20 years of experience, to break down what actually matters for skin health versus skincare. Designed especially for nurses and healthcare professionals under chronic stress, this conversation tackles aging skin, collagen loss, retinoids, sunscreen, red light therapy, and the overwhelming wave of TikTok and Instagram skincare misinformation. If you're noticing changes in your skin after 35, night shift, burnout, or sleep deprivation, this episode offers dermatologist-approved guidance without the hype. Dr. Mina shares why skin health is deeply connected to lifestyle, stress, sleep, nutrition, and hormones and why many popular skincare tools and products are overhyped at best and misleading at worst. Together, Jan and Dr. Mina unpack common skincare myths around gua sha tools, facial rollers, collagen creams, red light devices, and buzzy ingredients, while clarifying what actually supports long-term skin health. The conversation also explores how burnout, night shift work, high cortisol, and sugar consumption impact skin aging, why prescription retinoids and sun protection remain the gold standard, and how nurses can simplify their routines without falling victim to fear-based marketing. This episode is an empowering, science-backed reset for anyone overwhelmed by skincare advice and just wanting clear, trustworthy answers. RESOURCES:  https://www.theskinreal.com/  https://apps.apple.com/in/app/the-skin-real/id6748411628  https://www.youtube.com/@drminaskin  https://www.instagram.com/drminaskin/  CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    TAKEAWAYS: Dr. Mina emphasizes the importance of skin health and its impact on overall well-being. Real skin has pores, and perfection is not the goal. Navigating skincare myths is crucial to avoid misinformation. Red light therapy can be beneficial but must be used correctly. Retinoids are highly effective for boosting collagen and improving skin texture. Collagen is essential for youthful skin, and its production declines with age. Lifestyle choices, including diet and stress management, significantly affect skin health. Makeup can clog pores but is generally safe if used properly. Regular skin cancer screenings are important for early detection. Prioritizing self-care is essential for healthcare workers, especially nurses.   CHAPTERS: 00:00Introduction to Dr. Mina and Her Expertise 02:51The Importance of Skin Health vs. Skincare 05:47Navigating the Sea of Misinformation in Skincare 08:26Understanding Skincare Tools and Their Effectiveness 11:22The Science Behind Red Light Therapy 14:08Decoding Skincare Ingredients: Retinol, Collagen, and More 16:53Practical Tips for Effective Skincare 24:07The Importance of Collagen in Aging 29:19Boosting Collagen: Tips and Treatments 33:18Understanding Collagen and Its Role 38:03Makeup Myths and Skin Absorption 39:40Impact of Stress and Lifestyle on Skin Health 43:17Resources for Skin Health and Wellness   Topics covered: skin health, skincare myths, dermatology advice, retinol vs retinoid, sunscreen, collagen loss, red light therapy, nurses burnout, stress and aging skin, night shift health, Harvard-trained dermatologist

If you're a nurse or healthcare professional struggling with weight gain, low energy, hormone imbalance, or burnout, this episode will change how you think about weight loss. Jan sits down with Dr. Cody Golman, hormone reset expert and creator of the Fast 40 Program (lose 14 to 30+ pounds in 40 Days), to unpack why most traditional diets, fasting protocols, and calorie-deficit plans fail women, especially nurses under chronic stress. Dr. Golman explains how many popular weight loss programs are actually disrupting hormones, keeping women stuck in sugar-burning mode, inflamed, exhausted, and frustrated. In this conversation, Dr. Golman breaks down the difference between being a sugar burner vs. a fat burner, how stress and burnout impact metabolism, and why weight loss is not about willpower or eating less, but about resetting hormones and metabolism. He also shares why fasting and male-driven diet models often backfire for women over 35, leading to poor sleep, cravings, brain fog, and stubborn weight. Together, Jan and Dr. Golman explore what it really takes to support hormone health, regain energy, and create sustainable fat loss without starving yourself or burning out even more. If you've tried "everything" and feel like your body is working against you, this episode offers a completely different lens and a hopeful path forward.   RESOURCES:  https://fast40weightloss.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@drcodyhealth  https://www.instagram.com/dr.codygolman/    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    TAKEAWAYS Dr. Golman's journey from army tank commander to healer. The traditional healthcare system often focuses on symptom management rather than root causes. Hormonal imbalances can be exacerbated by popular weight loss programs. Women often struggle with weight loss due to male-driven diet systems. Being a sugar burner leads to various health issues, while fat burning promotes better health. Stress can switch the body from fat burning to sugar burning. Eating on time is crucial for metabolic health and self-care. Many people are disconnected from their hunger signals due to dieting. Fasting can lead to long-term fat storage rather than weight loss. Real food is essential for proper nutrition and health.   CHAPTERS: 00:00Introduction to Dr. Cody Golman 04:39The Journey from Army to Healing 07:09Understanding Hormonal Imbalances and Weight Loss 09:37The Impact of Diet on Hormones 11:59Sugar Burners vs. Fat Burners 14:17The Role of Stress in Weight Management 17:03Emotional Processing and Health 19:26Chrono-Nutrition and Thriving vs. Surviving 26:22The Importance of Self-Care for Nurses 29:05Understanding Eating Patterns and Hunger Signals 31:09The Myth of Caloric Restriction 33:47Resetting Metabolism and Hormones 39:01Common Dietary Mistakes and the Role of Fruit 43:54The Age Factor in Weight Management 46:49Final Thoughts and Recommendations

In this conversation, Jan and nurse Rebecca explore the multifaceted world of nursing, focusing on Rebecca's extensive experience in the ER and flight nursing. They discuss the emotional toll of the profession, the importance of self-awareness, and the challenges of burnout. Rebecca shares her journey through various nursing roles, the unique demands of flight nursing, and the bizarre and intense cases she has encountered. The conversation emphasizes the need for nurses to compartmentalize their experiences and maintain a strong sense of self to thrive in such a demanding field. In this conversation, Jan and Rebecca explore the emotional challenges faced by nurses, particularly in the ER, and the importance of support systems and self-care. They discuss the impact of having a supportive partner, the healing power of nature, and the necessity of maintaining a life outside of work. Rebecca shares her experiences and insights on navigating the complexities of nursing, emphasizing the need for authenticity and connection in both personal and professional relationships.   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    TAKEAWAYS Rebecca has been a nurse for about 13 years, primarily in the ER. She experienced burnout and took a break from nursing after personal losses and COVID. Flight nursing requires extensive education and hands-on experience. Critical access nursing involves high acuity cases with limited resources. Rebecca emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in nursing. Compartmentalizing experiences helps nurses manage emotional tolls. Many patients wait too long to seek help, leading to critical situations. Bizarre cases in the ER often become routine for nurses. Cultural sensitivity is crucial in nursing practice. Rebecca believes everyone is where they are meant to be at all times. Freedom to be where you're at is crucial. You can learn from mistakes; it's part of growth. Support systems are vital in nursing. Treat patients like family for better care. Emotional challenges in nursing are real and impactful. Self-care is not a luxury; it's a necessity. Nature has healing properties that rejuvenate the soul. A supportive partner can enhance your career. Being real and authentic is what matters most. Nursing requires a balance between work and personal life.   CHAPTERS 00:00Introduction and Background 02:09Rebecca's Nursing Journey 04:31Navigating Burnout and Life Changes 06:54The Breaking Point 12:01Transitioning to Flight Nursing 16:49Intense Experiences in Flight Nursing 21:13The Reality of ER and Flight Nursing 24:07Bizarre ER Stories and Experiences 31:12Bizarre ER Stories and Animal Cases 35:49When to Go to the ER: Common Misconceptions 42:18The Importance of a Strong Sense of Self 50:50The Role of Battle Buddies in Nursing 57:34Emotional Challenges in the ER 01:02:01Dealing with Patient Aggression 01:05:40The Bizarre Nature of Emergency Room Work 01:06:58Sustaining Energy in the ER 01:07:22Finding Balance: Hobbies and Outdoor Adventures 01:09:17The First Camping Experience 01:12:18The Healing Power of Nature 01:15:02The Importance of Supportive Relationships 01:15:49Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth 01:19:51Rapid Fire Questions: Travel, Policies, and Future Plans 01:26:49Legacy: Being Real and Genuine    

In this heartfelt conversation, Jan sits down with Christina, a veteran labor & delivery nurse, to talk about the realities no one warns you about in nursing, especially in L&D. Christina pulls back the curtain on the emotional weight of caring for moms and babies, navigating high-stakes decisions, workplace bullying, and the moments that nearly made her walk away from the profession altogether. Together, they explore what it really takes to stay: anchoring back to your "why," protecting your mental health, setting boundaries so the job doesn't consume your life, and finding ways to unload the stories nurses carry long after a shift ends. Christina also shares wisdom from her personal life, including rediscovering herself as an empty nester, prioritizing self-care, and choosing family and joy alongside a demanding career. This episode is an honest, grounding reminder for nurses who feel stretched thin that you don't have to quit to breathe, and you don't have to carry it all alone.   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    TAKEAWAYS Nursing is like riding roller coasters, full of ups and downs. Experience in different nursing fields enriches perspective. Labor and delivery nursing is not just about joy; it involves significant challenges. Most mothers today are dealing with health complications during pregnancy. Lifestyle factors, including diet and stress, contribute to maternal health issues. Complications like preeclampsia are becoming more common in pregnancies. Emotional resilience is crucial for nurses dealing with difficult situations. Support systems at home are vital for managing the emotional toll of nursing. New nurses should approach their roles with humility and a willingness to learn. The future of nursing may involve more integrated care models for mothers and babies. Many early career nurses struggle with perseverance. Having a support system in healthcare is crucial. Passion for nursing can inspire the next generation. Travel nursing can be a fulfilling career choice. Balancing family life with a nursing career is challenging but possible. Support from partners is essential for traveling nurses. Travel nursing can offer more family time than staff nursing. Night shifts require adjustment and self-care strategies. Burnout is a common concern among nurses. Cultural practices can significantly influence childbirth experiences. Continuous learning is vital in the nursing profession. Experiences with multiple births can be both challenging and rewarding. Mental health support is necessary for healthcare workers. Creating a community for nurses can help alleviate stress. Open communication about mistakes can improve healthcare culture. Rediscovering oneself after children leave home is a journey.   CHAPTERS 00:00Introduction and Context of Nursing Experience 02:54The Journey into Labor and Delivery Nursing 06:02Challenges and Realities of Labor and Delivery 08:51Understanding Patient Health Trends 12:02The Impact of Lifestyle on Maternal Health 14:59High-Risk Pregnancies and Complications 18:01Navigating Difficult Situations in Labor and Delivery 20:47The Emotional Toll of Nursing in High-Stakes Situations 25:55Navigating Emotional Challenges in Nursing 28:36Compartmentalization: Balancing Work and Home Life 31:34Learning from Experience: What Not to Do 33:55Transitioning into Labor and Delivery Nursing 36:50The Evolution of Labor and Delivery Practices 40:18Family Dynamics in Nursing Careers 45:47The Passion Behind Nursing: A Personal Journey 48:37Travel Nursing: Balancing Family and Career 56:02Surviving Night Shifts: Tips and Tricks 58:42Understanding Burnout in Nursing 01:00:34The Influence of Celestial Events on Labor and Delivery 01:02:44Cultural Practices in Childbirth 01:04:50Learning from Experience in a Teaching Hospital 01:06:11Challenges of Multiple Birth Deliveries 01:08:56Supporting Nurses' Mental Health 01:10:54The Importance of Peer Support in Healthcare 01:12:47Creating Community for Healthcare Workers 01:15:10The Need for Self-Care in Nursing 01:17:45Rediscovering Identity After Parenthood 01:19:57The Journey of Personal Transformation 01:30:44Legacy of Love and Compassion

Summary In this heartfelt conversation, Jan sits down with Adonia, a travel nurse with seven years at the bedside, to talk about what it really takes to survive and stay human in nursing. Adonia shares why she chose nursing in the first place, how COVID and high-acuity environments shaped her, and what burnout looks like when you're the kind of nurse who always puts others first. She opens up about navigating bullying in the OR, holding emotional boundaries, and finding ways to protect her mental health without losing her compassion. Adonia reflects on the moments that keep her going, including unforgettable patient cases, small miracles, and the deep fulfillment that comes from caring for people when they're at their most vulnerable. She talks honestly about self-care, advocating for yourself in a system that often expects nurses to be robots, and why remembering your "why" matters when you're questioning whether you can keep going. The conversation also weaves in her personal life, travel nursing adventures, and the legacy she hopes to leave, offering reassurance, validation, and grounded wisdom for nurses who are tired but still deeply called to care.   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    TAKEAWAYS Adonia has been a nurse for seven years, starting in ICU before transitioning to travel nursing in the OR. The COVID-19 pandemic significantly impacted nursing practices and personal well-being. Self-reflection and self-care are crucial for nurses to avoid burnout. Travel nursing offers flexibility and opportunities to explore different healthcare environments. Advocacy for patients and colleagues is essential in the nursing profession. You have many options in nursing before giving up. Operating room experiences can vary greatly between facilities. Patient connections are vital for emotional resilience. Miraculous recoveries can be a driving force in nursing. Coping with difficult outcomes is part of the job. Emotional resilience is crucial in high-stress situations. Balancing personal and professional life is challenging but rewarding. Advocating for nurse well-being is essential for retention. New nurses should not be too hard on themselves. Creating memorable experiences with family is important.

In this conversation, Jan and Dr. Rishma Walji explore the themes of reinvention, emotional regulation, and decision-making. Rishma shares her journey from being a naturopathic doctor to focusing on writing and podcasting, emphasizing the importance of being relatable and approachable. They discuss the concept of 'chosen loss' in the context of making significant life changes and the need to recognize both real and perceived constraints. The conversation also highlights the importance of visioning who you want to be and how to untangle emotions to make clearer decisions. Rishma introduces the idea of tethering to maintain focus on long-term goals and shares insights on coping mechanisms for emotional regulation. In this conversation, Rishma Walji ND, PhD, discusses the importance of coping strategies, self-compassion, and emotional health. She emphasizes the need for proactive coping mechanisms, the significance of recognizing emotional capacity, and the challenges of dealing with grief and loss. The discussion also touches on the importance of establishing boundaries in caregiving, the role of rituals for emotional protection, and the dangers of compartmentalization in high-stress environments. Rishma shares personal experiences and insights on navigating hard conversations, managing expectations in healthcare, and finding enthusiasm for life amidst challenges. EPISODE RESOURCES: https://livingxo.com/rishma https://livingxo.com/podcast/ https://www.instagram.com/livingxo/?hl=en https://www.linkedin.com/in/rishma-walji   CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    TAKEAWAYS Rishma emphasizes the importance of being relatable and approachable in her practice. She discusses the emotional heaviness of working in fertility and how it impacted her decision to leave her practice. Rishma highlights the concept of 'chosen loss' when making significant life changes. She explains the need to recognize both real and perceived constraints in life. Rishma advocates for intentional decision-making and understanding one's emotions. The importance of visioning who you want to be and how you want to show up in life is emphasized. Rishma discusses the process of untangling emotions to make clearer decisions. She introduces the concept of tethering to maintain focus on long-term goals. Rishma shares insights on coping mechanisms for emotional regulation. The conversation touches on the need for personalized approaches in coaching and decision-making. Coping strategies can be categorized as proactive or reactive. Self-compassion is crucial for emotional well-being. Recognizing emotional capacity helps in managing stress. Grief should be addressed rather than avoided. Establishing boundaries is essential in caregiving roles. Rituals can help protect emotional space. Compartmentalization can be useful but should not be long-term. Managing expectations can reduce stress in healthcare settings. Auditing coping strategies can lead to better self-awareness. Finding enthusiasm for life is a continuous journey. Chapters 00:00Introduction and Background of Dr. Rishma Walji 05:46Understanding Chosen Loss 11:55The Process of Decision-Making 17:52Redefining Success and Identity 23:58Flexibility in Goals and Self-Care 31:12Understanding Decision Constraints 37:47Navigating Evolving Constraints 45:17The Process of Updating Oneself 51:25Long-Term Visioning and Its Importance 57:25Coping Mechanisms and Emotional Regulation 01:02:12The Role of Self-Compassion in Coping 01:03:33Building Capacity for Coping 01:05:00Recognizing and Addressing Emotional Capacity 01:06:09The Importance of Self-Talk 01:08:04Navigating Grief and Loss 01:10:22Learning from Past Experiences 01:12:29The Power of Self-Love and Acceptance 01:13:17Tolerating Hard Situations 01:15:32Separating Thoughts and Emotions 01:17:28Establishing Boundaries in Healthcare 01:19:48Creating Emotional Boundaries 01:21:40Rituals for Emotional Protection 01:23:45Transitioning Between Emotional States 01:27:37Preparing for Family Interactions 01:29:27Buffering Emotional Energy Before Home 01:30:44Understanding Family Dynamics and Emotional Responses 01:31:07Proactive vs Reactive Coping Strategies 01:33:44Setting Expectations in Healthcare Relationships 01:36:14Compartmentalization as a Coping Mechanism 01:39:48Addressing Root Causes of Burnout 01:44:00The Importance of Self-Kindness 01:46:35Creating a Life of Enthusiasm and Purpose

In this engaging FUN and PRACTICAL conversation, Loz and Baz share their journey from meeting in a gym to building a successful business together. They discuss the importance of emotional health, the impact of burnout, and the process of rediscovering one's identity.   Through personal anecdotes and insights, they emphasize the need for setting boundaries, understanding mental versus emotional health, and the ongoing journey of personal growth. Their story is a testament to resilience, love, and the power of connection. In this conversation, Loz and Baz discuss their experiences with bipolar disorder, emotional health, and the importance of understanding and managing emotions. They introduce the CALMS method for coping with anxiety and stress, emphasizing the need for movement and emotional processing. The discussion also covers burnout, particularly in healthcare professionals, and the significance of language in shaping mental health.   They share practical tools and techniques for emotional regulation, the importance of being present, and the impact of stress on physical health. The conversation concludes with insights on personal growth, business advice, and the legacy they hope to leave behind.   RESOURCES: Rock Solid - Loz & Baz https://www.instagram.com/rocksoliduk/  https://www.youtube.com/user/rocksolid4lifetv    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com      TAKEAWAYS Burnout TOOLKIT Loz and Baz met in a gym and quickly connected over shared interests. Their relationship evolved from a chance meeting to a long-lasting partnership. They emphasize the importance of emotional health over mental health. Burnout can lead to significant personal and professional changes. Rediscovering one's identity is crucial for personal fulfillment. Success should be defined individually, not by societal standards. The journey of understanding mental health is ongoing and complex. Communication and support are vital in relationships, especially during tough times. Personal growth often comes from challenging experiences and breakdowns. Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Loz discusses the impact of hormonal changes on bipolar episodes. Understanding emotions is key to emotional health. The reaction gap helps in responding rather than reacting. Recognizing patterns in behavior can lead to change. Stress impacts our physical health significantly. Burnout has different dimensions: mental, emotional, and physical. Segmenting work can help manage emotional burdens. Breathing techniques can aid in stress relief. Tapping can be an effective tool for emotional regulation. Being present is crucial for mental well-being.   SUMMARY In this engaging conversation, Loz and Baz share their journey from meeting in a gym to building a successful business together. They discuss the importance of emotional health, the impact of burnout, and the process of rediscovering one's identity. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they emphasize the need for setting boundaries, understanding mental versus emotional health, and the ongoing journey of personal growth. Their story is a testament to resilience, love, and the power of connection. In this conversation, Loz and Baz discuss their experiences with bipolar disorder, emotional health, and the importance of understanding and managing emotions. They introduce the CALMS method for coping with anxiety and stress, emphasizing the need for movement and emotional processing. The discussion also covers burnout, particularly in healthcare professionals, and the significance of language in shaping mental health. They share practical tools and techniques for emotional regulation, the importance of being present, and the impact of stress on physical health. The conversation concludes with insights on personal growth, business advice, and the legacy they hope to leave behind. titles   Chapters 00:00Introduction and Background of Loz and Baz 11:31Transitioning from Fitness to Emotional Health 21:55Understanding Burnout and Its Impact 24:27The Importance of Emotional Health 25:23Navigating Crisis and Seeking Help 30:00The Wake-Up Call: Reevaluating Life Choices 34:53Rediscovering Identity Beyond Work 42:59The Rollercoaster of Mental Health 50:47Understanding Mania and Its Effects 52:41Navigating Manias and Hormonal Changes 54:47Understanding Emotional Health and Responses 57:10The Reaction Gap: Responding vs. Reacting 59:03The Wake-Up Call: Recognizing Patterns 01:00:16The Complexity of Human Emotions 01:03:16The CALMS Method: Processing Emotions 01:06:25Metabolizing Emotions Through Movement 01:14:48Stress and Its Impact on Health 01:20:41Dimensions of Burnout: Understanding the Symptoms 01:25:22Understanding Burnout: Mental vs. Physical 01:28:20Language and Narrative: Shifting Perspectives 01:29:48Coping Mechanisms for Healthcare Professionals 01:33:46The Importance of Presence in Caregiving 01:37:59Breathing Techniques and Stress Relief 01:40:42Tapping Techniques for Emotional Regulation 01:44:09Resources and Community Engagement 01:49:04Advice for New Entrepreneurs 01:51:19Legacy and Life Lessons

In this engaging FUN and PRACTICAL conversation, Loz and Baz share their journey from meeting in a gym to building a successful business together. They discuss the importance of emotional health, the impact of burnout, and the process of rediscovering one's identity.   Through personal anecdotes and insights, they emphasize the need for setting boundaries, understanding mental versus emotional health, and the ongoing journey of personal growth. Their story is a testament to resilience, love, and the power of connection. In this conversation, Loz and Baz discuss their experiences with bipolar disorder, emotional health, and the importance of understanding and managing emotions. They introduce the CALMS method for coping with anxiety and stress, emphasizing the need for movement and emotional processing. The discussion also covers burnout, particularly in healthcare professionals, and the significance of language in shaping mental health.   They share practical tools and techniques for emotional regulation, the importance of being present, and the impact of stress on physical health. The conversation concludes with insights on personal growth, business advice, and the legacy they hope to leave behind.   RESOURCES: Rock Solid - Loz & Baz https://www.instagram.com/rocksoliduk/  https://www.youtube.com/user/rocksolid4lifetv    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com      TAKEAWAYS Burnout TOOLKIT Loz and Baz met in a gym and quickly connected over shared interests. Their relationship evolved from a chance meeting to a long-lasting partnership. They emphasize the importance of emotional health over mental health. Burnout can lead to significant personal and professional changes. Rediscovering one's identity is crucial for personal fulfillment. Success should be defined individually, not by societal standards. The journey of understanding mental health is ongoing and complex. Communication and support are vital in relationships, especially during tough times. Personal growth often comes from challenging experiences and breakdowns. Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Loz discusses the impact of hormonal changes on bipolar episodes. Understanding emotions is key to emotional health. The reaction gap helps in responding rather than reacting. Recognizing patterns in behavior can lead to change. Stress impacts our physical health significantly. Burnout has different dimensions: mental, emotional, and physical. Segmenting work can help manage emotional burdens. Breathing techniques can aid in stress relief. Tapping can be an effective tool for emotional regulation. Being present is crucial for mental well-being.   SUMMARY In this engaging conversation, Loz and Baz share their journey from meeting in a gym to building a successful business together. They discuss the importance of emotional health, the impact of burnout, and the process of rediscovering one's identity. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they emphasize the need for setting boundaries, understanding mental versus emotional health, and the ongoing journey of personal growth. Their story is a testament to resilience, love, and the power of connection. In this conversation, Loz and Baz discuss their experiences with bipolar disorder, emotional health, and the importance of understanding and managing emotions. They introduce the CALMS method for coping with anxiety and stress, emphasizing the need for movement and emotional processing. The discussion also covers burnout, particularly in healthcare professionals, and the significance of language in shaping mental health. They share practical tools and techniques for emotional regulation, the importance of being present, and the impact of stress on physical health. The conversation concludes with insights on personal growth, business advice, and the legacy they hope to leave behind. titles   Chapters 00:00Introduction and Background of Loz and Baz 11:31Transitioning from Fitness to Emotional Health 21:55Understanding Burnout and Its Impact 24:27The Importance of Emotional Health 25:23Navigating Crisis and Seeking Help 30:00The Wake-Up Call: Reevaluating Life Choices 34:53Rediscovering Identity Beyond Work 42:59The Rollercoaster of Mental Health 50:47Understanding Mania and Its Effects 52:41Navigating Manias and Hormonal Changes 54:47Understanding Emotional Health and Responses 57:10The Reaction Gap: Responding vs. Reacting 59:03The Wake-Up Call: Recognizing Patterns 01:00:16The Complexity of Human Emotions 01:03:16The CALMS Method: Processing Emotions 01:06:25Metabolizing Emotions Through Movement 01:14:48Stress and Its Impact on Health 01:20:41Dimensions of Burnout: Understanding the Symptoms 01:25:22Understanding Burnout: Mental vs. Physical 01:28:20Language and Narrative: Shifting Perspectives 01:29:48Coping Mechanisms for Healthcare Professionals 01:33:46The Importance of Presence in Caregiving 01:37:59Breathing Techniques and Stress Relief 01:40:42Tapping Techniques for Emotional Regulation 01:44:09Resources and Community Engagement 01:49:04Advice for New Entrepreneurs 01:51:19Legacy and Life Lessons

What if the biggest thing holding you back isn't your circumstances, but the story you've been telling yourself about who you are?   In this episode, Jan talks with international speaker and best selling author Rick Torrison to explore how identity, trauma, and language shape the way we experience our lives, including self-worth, challenging limiting beliefs, and overcoming self-sabatoge. Together, they unpack how limiting beliefs are formed, why the stories we tell ourselves matter, and how healing begins when we learn to consciously rewrite those stories. This conversation is especially powerful for anyone navigating personal growth, emotional healing, or feeling stuck in old patterns they're ready to outgrow.       RESOURCES:   https://ricktorrison.com/  https://www.instagram.com/ricktorrison/    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    TAKEAWAYS Rick emphasizes the importance of community and support in personal growth. He shares his journey of overcoming trauma and limiting beliefs. The significance of faith in guiding one's purpose is highlighted. Rick discusses the impact of language on self-perception and behavior. He encourages listeners to challenge their norms and beliefs. The role of relationships in shaping personal growth is explored. Rick shares practical steps to identify and overcome limiting beliefs. He emphasizes the importance of self-declaration and positive affirmations. The conversation touches on the challenges of parenting and its impact on personal growth. Rick encourages listeners to embrace their stories and use them for growth. Step into this space and give this energy a try. Sometimes we gotta get out of the weeds. It's not like we get to this destination of figuring it out. You were created for so much more than what you are living in. You need to believe that you're worth it. Life isn't over. You didn't do it that time. You have to be your first priority. You can take the pen and write your story. You are meant to have an impact. You don't have to do this all alone.     CHAPTERS   00:00 Introduction and Background of Rick Torrison 11:28 The Impact of Personal Trauma on Beliefs 22:52 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth 24:43 The Turning Point: A Willful Choice 30:46 Challenging Limiting Beliefs 38:21 The Power of Language and Declarations 46:13 Choosing Pain: The Pathway to Freedom 50:28 Rising Above the Weeds 51:48 Tools for Navigating Life's Challenges 53:47 The Power of Belief and Self-Worth 55:41 Recognizing and Overcoming Self-Sabotage 57:24 The Importance of a Reset Button 58:49 Owning Your Value and Worth 01:01:10 The Role of Self-Care in Service Professions 01:02:19 Processing Abuse in the Nursing Field 01:03:31 Understanding Others' Brokenness 01:05:49 Finding Value in Your Existence 01:08:49 The Impact of Nurses on Patient Care 01:11:31 Restoring Joy and Purpose 01:14:39 The Power of Connection and Support 01:16:57 The Journey of Choice and Sacrifice 01:20:01 Unconditional Love and Its Impact 01:23:39 Navigating Life's Challenges 01:26:57 Writing Your Own Story 01:31:04 Legacy and Lasting Impact

What if the biggest thing holding you back isn't your circumstances, but the story you've been telling yourself about who you are?   In this episode, Jan talks with international speaker and best selling author Rick Torrison to explore how identity, trauma, and language shape the way we experience our lives, including self-worth, challenging limiting beliefs, and overcoming self-sabatoge. Together, they unpack how limiting beliefs are formed, why the stories we tell ourselves matter, and how healing begins when we learn to consciously rewrite those stories. This conversation is especially powerful for anyone navigating personal growth, emotional healing, or feeling stuck in old patterns they're ready to outgrow.   RESOURCES:   https://ricktorrison.com/  https://www.instagram.com/ricktorrison/    CONNECT WITH JAN DATU:  https://www.instagram.com/jan.datu1738/  https://www.facebook.com/JanDatuPhoto/  www.JanDatu.com    TAKEAWAYS Rick emphasizes the importance of community and support in personal growth. He shares his journey of overcoming trauma and limiting beliefs. The significance of faith in guiding one's purpose is highlighted. Rick discusses the impact of language on self-perception and behavior. He encourages listeners to challenge their norms and beliefs. The role of relationships in shaping personal growth is explored. Rick shares practical steps to identify and overcome limiting beliefs. He emphasizes the importance of self-declaration and positive affirmations. The conversation touches on the challenges of parenting and its impact on personal growth. Rick encourages listeners to embrace their stories and use them for growth. Step into this space and give this energy a try. Sometimes we gotta get out of the weeds. It's not like we get to this destination of figuring it out. You were created for so much more than what you are living in. You need to believe that you're worth it. Life isn't over. You didn't do it that time. You have to be your first priority. You can take the pen and write your story. You are meant to have an impact. You don't have to do this all alone.   CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction and Background of Rick Torrison 11:28 The Impact of Personal Trauma on Beliefs 22:52 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth 24:43 The Turning Point: A Willful Choice 30:46 Challenging Limiting Beliefs 38:21 The Power of Language and Declarations 46:13 Choosing Pain: The Pathway to Freedom 50:28 Rising Above the Weeds 51:48 Tools for Navigating Life's Challenges 53:47 The Power of Belief and Self-Worth 55:41 Recognizing and Overcoming Self-Sabotage 57:24 The Importance of a Reset Button 58:49 Owning Your Value and Worth 01:01:10 The Role of Self-Care in Service Professions 01:02:19 Processing Abuse in the Nursing Field 01:03:31 Understanding Others' Brokenness 01:05:49 Finding Value in Your Existence 01:08:49 The Impact of Nurses on Patient Care 01:11:31 Restoring Joy and Purpose 01:14:39 The Power of Connection and Support 01:16:57 The Journey of Choice and Sacrifice 01:20:01 Unconditional Love and Its Impact 01:23:39 Navigating Life's Challenges 01:26:57 Writing Your Own Story 01:31:04 Legacy and Lasting Impact

Welcome to Resuscitate, the podcast created for every nurse who has ever quietly fallen apart while holding everyone else together. So, HEY! I'm Jan Datu, former travel nurse recruiter, life coach, and your new sanity sidekick... this show was born from one hard truth: It is a form of human torture to suffer alone. And far too many nurses are doing exactly that. This podcast is your permission slip to choose yourself again.     Every week, Jan brings you:  Raw, real conversations with nurses who have been in the trenches  Stories that normalize your struggle and lift the shame you've been carrying  Experts in therapy, wellness, dermatology, mental health, and more  Mindset shifts and practical tools to reclaim your energy and reorient your life  A "happy hour with a good friend" vibe — messy truths, laughter, honesty, and heart If you've been dragging yourself through shifts wondering how much longer you can do this… If you're craving a space where someone finally gets it… If you're ready to disrupt the patterns that are breaking you… This is your place. This is your breath of fresh air. This is your comeback.   Hit subscribe so you never miss an episode. Share this with your unit, your battle buddies, and any nurse who needs hope. Connect with me on Instagram: @jan.datu1738 Welcome to Resuscitate. Where nurses come back to life — one honest conversation at a time