RLM Podcast

There will always be someone there for you, no matter how abandoned you feel. But, the more you push others away, the less other people are going to want to help you and be there for you.

Before you can BE great, you have to believe that you're able to be great. Greatness isn't immediate, it takes time.

Be fearless, but don't allow yourself to believe that being afraid is weak.

You are incomparable to anyone. Become the person you wish to become, but do it in your own way. Adopt your won style. There are 8.1 BILLION people in this world! You are a unique human!

If you are hurting, healing, feeling, letting someone go, or starting a new chapter and learning to open your heart back up again, this book was meant to find you when you needed it most. This Was Meant To Find You (When You Needed It Most)is Charlotte Freeman’s second book and was written to resonate deeply with the ones who seek comfort in reading the right words at the right time. It’s for the ones who are learning what it means to choose yourself a little more each day and be gentle with yourself through all phases of your journey. Order book here

You choose your path in life. But once you get to the spot in your life where you have to make those choices, that is the moment you can't turn back. You can only go forward. So choose wisely.

According to the Bible, destiny is God's purpose for our lives. It is what God has ordained for us to become in His divine will and wisdom. Destiny is also our God-given future. We are a faith-based podcast. Our beliefs are backed by our faith. We stand strong by our messages.

Inherent to our existence is that we learn, adapt, and grow. Health, happiness, and longevity are the payoffs for this. Since our biological evolution is the foundation of our existence, the purpose of our lives is to continue to "evolve" during our lifetime by learning and growing.

Love is an odd thing. I [Eli] believe that love is a broken art, which is why it works. Love requires effort, dedication, and yes, pain. Love is a promise that should only be made if you mean it. As a kid, and to this day, I have always been afraid of love. I feared that the price of love would always be greater than the reward. Now...I've learned that love requires us to be willing to give up everything for the ones we love. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLtrF5_ExQ2qS5tCcRDeE82Txg7iw91C6

If no one else says it to you, then I will.

Love is a beautiful emotion that comes naturally to us. It is not just a feeling but a commitment we make to someone. It is a promise we make for life and should be chosen wisely. So, let us always remember to cherish and honor the love that we give and receive -Eli Detter

Mindset is a way of thinking; your frame of mind. Your mindset is a collection of thoughts and beliefs that shape your 'thought habits. In turn, your thought habits affect how you think, and what you feel and do. Your mindset impacts how you make sense of the world and yourself.

If you aren't yourself, you aren't being truthful. Don't allow this world to warp who you are.

Take life as it comes. There will be hardships, and there will be good times. Take it in stride.

Don't be wasteful with your life. Be wise, and be kind.

Do not allow this world to force you to be anything. Be unique, and evolve.

Don't be kind to others in hipe that you'll be famous. Be kind, because you want to, because it's the right thing.

Choose your friends wisely.

If you want to change yourself without losing who you are. Keep your integrity, but don't be afraid to change so that you can better help others.

In this episode of the RLM Podcast, Eli Detter discusses the concepts of hope and faith, exploring their differences and implications in our lives. He delves into the feelings of hopelessness and faithlessness, emphasizing the importance of making moral choices. Eli argues that making the right choice is often more challenging but ultimately leads to a more fulfilling life. He concludes with a message of love and acceptance, reminding listeners that they are valued regardless of their past actions.

In this episode, Eli Detter discusses the concepts of Stoicism and desensitization, exploring their implications on personal emotions and responses to trauma. He reflects on his own experiences with emotional numbness and the importance of self-control in navigating life's challenges. The conversation highlights the importance of striking a balance between experiencing emotions and maintaining rational responses, ultimately advocating for a healthy approach to emotional expression and resilience.TakeawaysStoicism is about living virtuously and controlling responses.Desensitization can lead to emotional numbness.It's essential to experience emotions fully, rather than suppressing them.Emotional responses can be a safety net but may hinder growth.Goals should not limit one's potential for achievement.Resilience is key in facing life's challenges.Self-control is crucial in managing emotional reactions.Logic and practicality should guide actions, not emotions.It's healthy to feel a range of emotions, including sadness.Finding balance in emotions is essential for personal growth.Chapters:00:00 Welcome Back and New Beginnings00:56 Understanding Stoicism04:13 Desensitization vs. Stoicism09:53 The Struggle with Emotions19:58 The Role of Goals and Resilience30:02 Finding Balance in Emotions

Kicking off Season 4 with this episode, produced by the RLM Podcast in collaboration with the Foxhole Frequency Podcast, hosted by none other than Chris Maynard JR.

Eli sends a message from a year ago.

Ladies and Gentlemen, the 2-year-long journey of the RLM Podcast has come to an end for now. Enjoy this final episode.

This episode is a masterpiece of insight and thought on how we as a society and as individuals define success.

In this episode, Eli discusses the importance of allowing ourselves to feel authentically, without caving to society's standards.

In the episode, Eli Detter and Junior Abiola discuss the importance of not allowing yourself to be left behind and learning to choose yourself.

In this episode, Eli Detter and David Ennis discuss how important it is for us to retain our value in life, as well as how sometimes our lives are unnecessarily busy, and it's important to take a break sometimes.

You need to be able to fight for those you love, but also remember to fight for yourself.

Life ain't fair. There's no explanation for the things that happen. Hunger, poverty, death. All these things happen every day. But we MUST NOT LOSE HOPE. THERE IS STILL LIGHT IN THIS WORLD, SO WE MUST FIGHT FOR IT. Take care of yourself for others, and they will take care of themselves for you.

In this episode, Eli Detter continues through Charlotte Freeman's book.

In this episode, Eli reads a couple of passages of Charlotte Freeman's book: "This Was Meant To Find You", which is a book filled with inspirational messages about self-improvement, and self-advocacy.

A returning guest star, David Ennis, and Eli Detter discuss the importance of leaving a legacy, and how true leaders are more focused on the success of those around them.

In this episode, Eli discusses the how we should first focus on loving ourselves, and seeking out those who love us and the we can love.

If you are hurting, healing, feeling, letting someone go, or starting a new chapter and learning to open your heart back up again, this book was meant to find you when you needed it most. This Was Meant To Find You (When You Needed It Most)is Charlotte Freeman’s second book and was written to resonate deeply with the ones who seek comfort in reading the right words at the right time. It’s for the ones who are learning what it means to choose yourself a little more each day and be gentle with yourself through all phases of your journey.

Take 5 minutes with us, as we explore the beauty that is this planet.

Don't allow yourself to be disillusioned. The best you can ever do is be your best at what you're doing. The world will not open up for you if you don't do the work. You can do great work in this world, let no one keep you from that

In this episode, Eli talks about the mentality that while you should always strive to succeed, with success comes pain and heartache.

Progress not perfection means focusing on what you've already achieved and being proud of your work toward a goal even if it's not 100% perfect. Remind yourself that it's okay if you make mistakes. Focus on all the hard work you've already done and celebrate those achievements.

Eli speaks about the importance of staying humble and being more worried about what they DO with what they have. Share what you have, dream big but stay realistic.

In this episode, Eli Detter and returning Evan Haines discuss the polarization in America due to politics, and the importance of realizing politics are everywhere, when they don't need to be.

In this episode, Eli discusses his path to joining the United States Marines, and how he has grown over the years.

In this episode, Eli Detter discusses the importance of learning to be a leader by studying under others' leadership, as well as the importance of the rules and guidelines put in our lives.

In this episode, Eli Detter and Logan Pennell take to the studio to discuss the power photography carries, and its ability to bring people together.

Frank Schwarz (aka DarkHelmet), and our own Eli Detter (aka Granola), are members of an organization known as F3. F3 is a free peer-led workout and faith-based organization encouraging male community leadership. In this episode, Granola and Dark-Helmet share their opinions on how leadership can be utilized effectively and virtuously.

In this emotional bonus episode, Eli discusses the importance of living a life of authenticity, love, and making sure we take care of ourselves before we worry about how the world views us.

In this episode, the RLM Podcast welcomes back a former guest star, David Ennis, to discuss the importance of not letting fear get in the way of achieving our goals.

In this brief episode, Eli discusses the importance of leading a simple yet adventurous life, and how to live life with flexible planning.

In the first episode of the RLM Podcast's fourth season, Eli discusses the importance of your work reflecting your character, achieving goals instead of chasing dreams, and solving problems rather than complaining. The RLM Podcast wants to give a shoutout, and welcome Harrison Ott as our new graphic designer!!