Same Same but Different

We're not sure if anyone's still reading these days, but you gotta agree that it's hard to put a good book down! Derek and Philip re-visit their favorite volume of hypothetical suppositions to reveal how similar or different they are, when presented a potential scenario. What’s the role of governments in daily life? How likely are either when it comes to changing professions and/or moving to a different country? Well, wouldn’t you like to know! #sgtwins #thebookofquestions #chitchat #talkcocksingsong #samesamebutdifferent #podcast #gaysians

Derek and Sammi are back! After talking about her drag past, this episode is dedicated to the hit movie that’s streaming on Netflix now, inspired by her life. Sammi answers Derek’s questions, revealing stories that were never shared elsewhere! What does she cook for her mom? Is the portrayal of her character on screen too “nice”? What happened during the Golden Horse Awards that she attended in Taipei? Time to get a behind-the-scenes peak! #agoodchild #reallife #reellife #gay #filialpiety #dementia #podcast #interviews #gaysians #samesamebutdifferent #chitchat #金馬62 #台灣

Derek and Sammi are back! After talking about her drag past, this episode is dedicated to the hit movie that’s streaming on Netflix now, inspired by her life. Sammi answers Derek’s questions, revealing stories that were never shared elsewhere! What does she cook for her mom? Is the portrayal of her character on screen too “nice”? What happened during the Golden Horse Awards that she attended in Taipei? Time to get a behind-the-scenes peak! #agoodchild #reallife #reellife #gay #filialpiety #dementia #podcast #interviews #gaysians #samesamebutdifferent #chitchat

We’re back! Did you miss us? Derek channels his inner Oprah and sits down to #kiki with drag queen extraordinaire, Sammi Zhen! She’s spent the past 27 years of her life dedicated to the art of Drag, and we had the chance to talk to her about the craft. From how drag threatens romantic relationships to her experience being a regionally-famous drag performer, she did not hold back with her answers to Derek’s questions! Are you ready to eat what she’s #serving ? #dragroyalty #spillingtea #realness #fabulous #chitchat #samesamebutdifferent #podcast #interviews #singaporedrag #gaysians

We’re back! Did you miss us? Derek channels his inner Oprah and sits down to #kiki with drag queen extraordinaire, Sammi Zhen! She’s spent the past 27 years of her life dedicated to the art of Drag, and we had the chance to talk to her about the craft. From how drag threatens romantic relationships to her experience being a regionally-famous drag performer, she did not hold back with her answers to Derek’s questions! Are you ready to eat what she’s #serving ? #dragroyalty #spillingtea #realness #fabulous #chitchat #samesamebutdifferent #podcast #interviews #singaporedrag #gaysians

Curious what a pair of Gaysian Twins talk about when they are bored and boozing? Listen on!

Fengshui, astrology, tarot and the Occult… are just a few things that the twins are going to talk about this episode! While Derek and Philip are used to #spillingtea, how do they feel about fortune telling by reading tea leaves in a cup? With the close of 2025, what will 2026 witness, according to a blind Bulgarian mystic? Between these two daddies, who has a bigger issue with the idea of non-scientific predictions? All these and more on this episode! Are you ready to have your fortune told? #babavanga #woowoo #froufrou #trends #future #forecasting #samesamebutdifferent #podcast #gaysians #twinsies #fortunetelling #2025 #2026 #soothsayer #nostradamus

Hope you’re hungry, coz Derek and Philip are serving up a brand new episode, so you better be eating it all up, no crumbs! The twin daddies now turn their attention to the wonderful world of drag, scrutinizing snatched faces and sickening outfits, while asking critical questions such as: what do they like about the local drag scene? How has/will it evolve in the future? What does the success of global drag mean for queens here in the +65? Check your lace, strap on your Louboutins, and time to sashay into this episode! #mother #shedonealreadydonehadherses #rupauldragrace #babyqueens #paintedforthegods #samesamebutdifferent #podcast #gaysians #twinsies

It’s the year-end holidays, so there’s no better time to discuss vacation flights than now! Derek and Philip unpack their luggage filled with both roses and brickbats about cheap airlines that nickel and dime you for everything… and then some! Which airline scarred Philip for life when sometime totally unexpected happened? Does Derek even take that many budget airline flights? When will they even consider taking one in the first place? Tray tables up, fasten your seatbelt, put on your (noise cancelling) headphones, and tune in! #cheapthingsnogood #goodthingsnocheap #flyingisnothalfthefun #defyinggravity #cattleclass #twinsies #samesamebutdifferent #scootairline #budgettravel #gaysians #podcast #samesamebutdifferent

Ready to dig into more Daddy Issues? The twins talk about food again, but this time round, singling out Japanese brand/chain restaurant Saizeriya to dissect why it has managed to weather the F&B storm in Singapore. What do they think about this casual ‘Italian’ restaurant? What’s Derek go-to order? How does Philip feel about its offerings? No napkins needed, because they are going to eat it all up, no crumbs! #nomnomnom #cheapandcheery #diningout #qsr #eatoutoptions #twinsies #gaysians #samesamebutdifferent

Fast Fashion is great, but what about something that’s TOO fast? Derek and Philip are back for a brand new season which they’re calling “Daddy Issues”! Each episode they explore a ‘News of the Day’ and cast their (bifocal) eyes on something that bothers them. In this season-opener, they talk about SHEIN’s new physical shop in Paris, unpack all of the controversies associated with it, while sharing their personal experiences with the app. Get your fingers ready and add (this episode) to cart!#cheapfastnotgood #shittyshein #toocheap #hellno #landfill #twinsies #gaysians #podcast #samesamebutdifferent #gaydaddies

It’s time to close the Season, and what better way to do that than poking into the Book of Questions! Derek and Philip are back for the last time this season to ponder how they would react to hypothetical situations, based on the Questions. Who would cheat in a test, given half an opportunity? What happens after if either of them drove and killed a dog in an innocent accident? Sit down, open your ears and get your book ready… because reading is what? #fundamental #hypotheticalquestions #askandthyshallreceive #spinthewheel #whowhatwhenwherewhyhow #vulnerable #gaysians #thebookofquestions #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies

What’s In-N-Out, but not a burger joint? Why, it’s Derek and Philip’s Trend Alert! In this episode, the fabulous twins cast their queer eyes on the gay world, both past and present, to declare what the hottest trends are right now in Sports, Fashion, Travel and Relationships. Take note! Otherwise, you will risk looking and sounding like a clueless lame queer who doesn’t know the difference between Hyrox and CrossFit… we don’t want that now, do we?#twinsies #trending #samesamebutdifferent #podcast #fashiontrends #gaysians #dressinggay #musictrends #traveltrends #fitnesstrends #relationshiptrends #gaysians #arianagrande #chapellroan #dualipa

Is that an iPhone in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?! In this new episode, Derek and Philip go deep, long and hard into the world of Adult Entertainment! Fantasy fulfillment and releasing needs are the focus, as they talk about p*rn studios from the yesteryears, performers that turn them on, and new adult content creators and what it all means in terms of new ways to get your rocks off! Join them in a threesome... you know you want to!#chudai #gaysians #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #swipeleft #onlyfans #adultentertainment #pleasureseekers

Is that an iPhone in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?! In this new episode, Derek and Philip go deep, long and hard into the world of Adult Entertainment! Fantasy fulfillment and releasing needs are the focus, as they talk about p*rn studios from the yesteryears, performers that turn them on, and new adult content creators and what it all means in terms of new ways to get your rocks off! Join them in a threesome... you know you want to!#chudai #gaysians #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #swipeleft #onlyfans #adultentertainment #pleasureseekers

If you’re a gay man looking for a casual hook-up, or just someone who’s curious how gay apps are different to straight ones, you’ve come to the right place! Derek and Philip cover the past, present and future of gay dating in this episode, moving from IRL indiscretions to digital dalliances, while demonstrating how 2 specific mobile apps (Grindr and Jack’d) work, in the brave new gay world! Fascinated? Come on in!#datinglife #gaysians #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #swipeleft #grindr #jackd

To #DILF or not to DILF, that is the question… and Derek and Philip has the T! The twin #guncles are back, and they are casting a discerning eye on a group of local male celebrities in their daddy era, while pondering: where do these fine men rank on the DILF Meter? From 40-year old new entrants to nearly-Grandpa well past 60, no one’s safe from their ratings and remarks! Tune in to find out who’s top (of the list) and who’s (pig) bottom! *wink*#twinsies #podcast #samesamebutdifferent #singaypore #gaysians #daddies #hotornot #listicle #allegedly #hotgoss #spillthetea

Another SG60 #listicle! Happy National Day! What’s red, white and contains 20 points? Why, it’s Derek and Philip’s final countdown list, of course! In this episode, the twins call out 10 aspects of life in Singapore, and express what they want to see less (ie ‘red’) or more (ie ‘white’) in 2026 and beyond. From Jack Neo and Steven Lim, to local fashion and civil unions, they sing praises and spew vitriol in equal measures, in between sipping Mimosas while toasting SG60! #seeingredandwhite #sg60 #ndpsingapore #podcast #vodcast #singaporestyle #toomanycafes #okboomer #stopcmio #civilunion #socialmedia #singaypore #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #gaysians #nationaldayparade

Another SG60 #listicle! Happy National Day! What’s red, white and contains 20 points? Why, it’s Derek and Philip’s final countdown list, of course! In this episode, the twins call out 10 aspects of life in Singapore, and express what they want to see less (ie ‘red’) or more (ie ‘white’) in 2026 and beyond. From Jack Neo and Steven Lim, to local fashion and civil unions, they sing praises and spew vitriol in equal measures, in between sipping Mimosas while toasting SG60! #seeingredandwhite #sg60 #ndpsingapore #labubu #podcast #vodcast #stevenlimsg #jackneo #mediacorp #socialmedia #singaypore #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #gaysians #nationaldayparade

Another SG60 #listicle! Happy National Day! What’s red, white and contains 20 points? Why, it’s Derek and Philip’s final countdown list, of course! In this episode, the twins call out 10 aspects of life in Singapore, and express what they want to see less (ie ‘red’) or more (ie ‘white’) in 2026 and beyond. From Jack Neo and Steven Lim, to local fashion and civil unions, they sing praises and spew vitriol in equal measures, in between sipping Mimosas while toasting SG60! #seeingredandwhite #sg60 #ndpsingapore #podcast #vodcast #singaporestyle #toomanycafes #okboomer #stopcmio #civilunion #socialmedia #singaypore #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #gaysians #nationaldayparade

Another SG60 #listicle! For every evergreen crowd-pleasing classic like “Home”, there are countless other National Day Parade (NDP) theme songs that fall by the wayside in terms of popularity, for better or for worse… which is why Derek and Philip are dedicating this episode to sieve through a list of 10 songs that have been condemned by the general public, to ask a critical question - Sing it OR Sink it? Let’s see how much they are “same same” or “different” by way of their opinions! #singsangsung #sg60 #ndpeeps #ndpsongs #dickles #ndpsingapore#singaypore #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #gaysians #nationaldayparade

Singapore’s pop culture has come a long way from its days of being a “dessert” in the late 1980s, as the national focused on economic progress, at the cost of developing its artistic soul… and there are receipts to prove it! Derek and Philip turn their attention to pop culture in Singapore from the 1990s onwards, and share a top-10 list of moments that are undoubtedly iconic! No cap, you do not want to miss this, #forrealforreal! #singsangsung #gogglebox #sitcoms #dicklee #mtv #sg60 #singaypore #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #gaysians

Singapore’s pop culture has come a long way from its days of being a “dessert” in the late 1980s, as the national focused on economic progress, at the cost of developing its artistic soul… and there are receipts to prove it! Derek and Philip turn their attention to pop culture in Singapore from the 1990s onwards, and share a top-10 list of moments that are undoubtedly iconic! No cap, you do not want to miss this, #forrealforreal! #singsangsung #gogglebox #sitcoms #dicklee #mtv #twinsies #gaysians #samesamebutdifferent #podcast #vodcast

From “Disneyland with a Death Sentence” to “the little red dot”, Singapore has certainly been a destination of immense appeal to both regional and international leisure visitors… but for how much longer? Derek and Philip look inwards in this new #SSBD episode to comment and explore how the Singapore Tourism Board @STB_sg can revitalize visitorship to this little island we call home! #sg60 #singaypore #passport #wanderlust #homeground #welcome #kthxbye #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #gaysians

From “Disneyland with a Death Sentence” to “the little red dot”, Singapore has certainly been a destination of immense appeal to both regional and international leisure visitors… but for how much longer? Derek and Philip look inwards in this new #SSBD episode to comment and explore how the Singapore Tourism Board @STB_sg can revitalize visitorship to this little island we call home! #sg60 #singaypore #passport #wanderlust #homeground #welcome #kthxbye #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies #gaysians

Paying tribute to the 60th Anniversary of Singapore’s nationhood, Derek and Philip dedicate their very first episode of Season 3 to something that almost all Singaporeans are obsessed with - Food! They spill the “tea” and call out 10 F&B trends that they have observed, from luxury brands offering cafe experiences to pre-mix cocktails from the tap @draftland, and everything else in-between. Are you ready to have some “food” for thought, with a side of wit and humor? #nomnomnom #glugglugglug #livetoeat #trends #hottakes #gaysians #thebookofquestions #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies

Paying tribute to the 60th Anniversary of Singapore’s nationhood, Derek and Philip dedicate their very first episode of Season 3 to something that almost all Singaporeans are obsessed with - Food! They spill the “tea” and call out 10 F&B trends that they have observed, from luxury brands offering cafe experiences to pre-mix cocktails from the tap @draftland, and everything else in-between. Are you ready to have some “food” for thought, with a side of wit and humor? #nomnomnom #glugglugglug #livetoeat #trends #hottakes #gaysians #thebookofquestions #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies

Time flies when you are having fun! Having done 9 complete episodes for Season 2, Derek and Philip bring back the Book of Questions to close the series, before they return for Season 3! From time traveling to thoughts on Humanity, nothing is off-limits as they delve into the Book to answers questions that are at times fun, interesting or just plain weird! #hypotheticalquestions #askandthyshallreceive #spinthewheel #whowhatwhenwherewhyhow #vulnerable #gaysians #thebookofquestions #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies

Time flies when you are having fun! Having done 9 complete episodes for Season 2, Derek and Philip bring back the Book of Questions to close the series, before they return for Season 3! From time traveling to thoughts on Humanity, nothing is off-limits as they delve into the Book to answers questions that are at times fun, interesting or just plain weird! #hypotheticalquestions #askandthyshallreceive #spinthewheel #whowhatwhenwherewhyhow #vulnerable #gaysians #thebookofquestions #samesamebutdifferent #twinsies

Coming across the classic card game sparked the inspiration for this episode, as Derek and Philip deconstruct the notion of family, whether you are born into one or you belong to one of your own choosing! What does Derek believe to NOT be ‘family’? How far back have the twins tried to retrace their lineage? Does Philip favour the born and chosen family equally? Unlike family secrets, this is one thing you can definitely talk to your relatives about, so let’s get started! #heyfam #nucleus #relatives #chooselove #therapy #samesamebutdifferent #gaysians #twinsies

Coming across the classic card game sparked the inspiration for this episode, as Derek and Philip deconstruct the notion of family, whether you are born into one or you belong to one of your own choosing! What does Derek believe to NOT be ‘family’? How far back have the twins tried to retrace their lineage? Does Philip favour the born and chosen family equally? Unlike family secrets, this is one thing you can definitely talk to your relatives about, so let’s get started! #heyfam #nucleus #relatives #chooselove #therapy #samesamebutdifferent #gaysians #twinsies

Grab your punch card, clock in, and let’s get to work! Derek and Philip share their professional experiences and detail in this episode their post-schooling years in the workforce. Between the two, who believes in “hard work”? Who’s been laid off literally months after graduation from university? What do they both think about their “identities” at work? This is not a Zoom meeting, so cameras are optional, but attention is mandatory!#corporatedrag #overrated #meaning #purpose #climbingtheladder #ratrace #workisbroken #gaysians #twinsies #samesamebutdifferent

Grab your punch card, clock in, and let’s get to work! Derek and Philip share their professional experiences and detail in this episode their post-schooling years in the workforce. Between the two, who believes in “hard work”? Who’s been laid off literally months after graduation from university? What do they both think about their “identities” at work? This is not a Zoom meeting, so cameras are optional, but attention is mandatory!#corporatedrag #overrated #meaning #purpose #climbingtheladder #ratrace #workisbroken #gaysians #twinsies #samesamebutdifferent

Class is in session, kids! Open your books and take note of what Derek and Philip are sharing, as they recollect their past as nerds in school, as well as their present experiences as adult learners. What was Derek up to whenever he was on NUS campus? What did Philip major in for his Bachelor’s degree? What is the one thing they wish for Education in the future? No tests will be administered after this episode, but feel free to share your notes! #reading #fundamental #booksmart #streetsmart #grades #gaysians #twinsies #samesamebutdifferent

Class is in session, kids! Open your books and take note of what Derek and Philip are sharing, as they recollect their past as nerds in school, as well as their present experiences as adult learners. What was Derek up to whenever he was on NUS campus? What did Philip major in for his Bachelor’s degree? What is the one thing they wish for Education in the future? No tests will be administered after this episode, but feel free to share your notes! #reading #fundamental #booksmart #streetsmart #grades #gaysians #twinsies #samesamebutdifferent

Pose! Are you ready for your close-up? Derek and Philip, though cut from the same cloth, have different sartorial views, and this is the episode for you to not just hear, but see it as well! On top of sharing looks and signature pieces that they like, they delve deep into their fashion past: how did Derek become a fashion model? Why was Philip doing ‘drag’? How do they feel about fast fashion? To paraphrase the eternal words of Edina Monsoon, this will be “Absolutely Fabulous”!#runway #clothesmakeththeman #designer #luxury #dressforsuccess #gaysians #twinsies #samesamebutdifferent #pursefirst #fashionisto

Pose! Are you ready for your close-up? Derek and Philip, though cut from the same cloth, have different sartorial views, and this is the episode for you to not just hear, but see it as well! On top of sharing looks and signature pieces that they like, they delve deep into their fashion past: how did Derek become a fashion model? Why was Philip doing ‘drag’? How do they feel about fast fashion? To paraphrase the eternal words of Edina Monsoon, this will be “Absolutely Fabulous”! #runway #clothesmakeththeman #designer #luxury #dressforsuccess #gaysians #twinsies #samesamebutdifferent #pursefirst #fashionisto

From the small screen to the big, Derek and Philip continue on from last week’s episode, to delve deep into around another visual art form - the movies! They share some of their favorites from the past, what got them hooked on arthouse movies in the first place, and what they would love to see more (or less!) of in the future of the cinematics. Pull up a (Director) chair, settle down and listen in… #movingimages #soundtrack #makingmoviemagic #madlove #cinemas #asiancinema #filmfestivals #Singapore #twinsies #gaysians #samesamebutdifferent

Did “video” really “kill the radio star”? Derek and Philip may not know the answer, but they pressed on from their last episode on pop music to focus on TV content in this episode! Listen as they share how they were part of a groundbreaking TV show in the 1990s, and they discuss how certain TV series in the past can be problematic when viewed in today's light. What genres are Derek obsessed about? And what show is Philip begging the producers to bring back? Only one way to know for sure! #ingeneration #tvhosts #pioneers #cringe #idiotbox #tvscreen #entertainment #gaysians #samesamebutdifferent

Turn up the volume, because the twins are back in this episode to talk about all things to do with Music! Derek and Philip go on a sonic sojourn to cover everything that gives them aural pleasure. Learn which instrument Derek tried (and failed) to pick up, which is the first cassette tape that Philip bought, and whether they feel any modern-day artistes are truly original! #singaporemusic #hearhear #singsong #xinyao #idols

Turn up the volume, because the twins are back in this episode to talk about all things to do with Music! Derek and Philip go on a sonic sojourn to cover everything that gives them aural pleasure. Learn which instrument Derek tried (and failed) to pick up, which is the first cassette tape that Philip bought, and whether they feel any modern-day artistes are truly original! #singaporemusic #hearhear #singsong #xinyao #idols

"Birds do it, Bees do it..." now it's time for the twins to do it! . Enter Derek’s and Philip’s audio boudoir, and let them whisper all things to do with the wonderful world of gay s*x! Everything will be revealed in this borderline-explicit session, from top to bottom (and side)! Do s*x workers deserve respect? What is “gay for pay”? Is gay s*x really “depraved”? There’s only one way to find out! #positions #turnon #bodilyfluids #kissingandtelling #gaysian #samesamebutdifferent #topbottomside #edging #hushhushblushblush

"Birds do it, Bees do it..." now it's time for the twins to do it! . Enter Derek’s and Philip’s audio boudoir, and let them whisper all things to do with the wonderful world of gay s*x! Everything will be revealed in this borderline-explicit session, from top to bottom (and side)! Do s*x workers deserve respect? What is “gay for pay”? Is gay s*x really “depraved”? There’s only one way to find out! #positions #turnon #bodilyfluids #kissingandtelling #gaysian #samesamebutdifferent #topbottomside #edging #hushhushblushblush

Everybody say "love!" It's the premiere episode of the second season, as Derek ad Philip take a closer look at romantic relationships that they (and the people around them) have had. The wonder twins share their thoughts on dating, long-term partnership and marriages. Hear Derek's thoughts on civil unions, while Philip defines the terms of an "open relationship" with his partner. Love is a many splendid things, and like all good things in life, they are most happy to share! #loveislove #partnership #gaysians #Singayporeans #swiperight #kissfrogs #gayrelationships #gaymarriage #LGBTQIA+

Everybody say "love!" It's the premiere episode of the second season, as Derek ad Philip take a closer look at romantic relationships that they (and the people around them) have had. The wonder twins share their thoughts on dating, long-term partnership and marriages. Hear Derek's thoughts on civil unions, while Philip defines the terms of an "open relationship" with his partner. Love is a many splendid things, and like all good things in life, they are most happy to share! #loveislove #partnership #gaysians #Singayporeans #swiperight #kissfrogs #gayrelationships #gaymarriage #LGBTQIA+

Everybody say "love!" It's the premiere episode of the second season, as Derek ad Philip take a closer look at romantic relationships that they (and the people around them) have had. The wonder twins share their thoughts on dating, long-term partnership and marriages. Hear Derek's thoughts on civil unions, while Philip defines the terms of an "open relationship" with his partner. Love is a many splendid things, and like all good things in life, they are most happy to share! #loveislove #partnership #gaysians #Singayporeans #swiperight #kissfrogs #gayrelationships #gaymarriage #LGBTQIA+

Curtain call! This episode closes our podcast's first season by sharing more about the twins: who they are and how they think feel and act. They look to The Book of Questions to explore hypothetical situations and discuss what their responses might be. From 'God Complex' to being a 'fly on the wall', nothing's off-limits! So why don't you join them to see if your answers are going to be 'Same Same But Different'? #thebookofquestions #twins #q&a #the6ws #perspective #samesamebutdifferent #podcast

Come for the sights, stay for the scene! Derek and Philip put on their pink sunglasses and strut #pursefirst into Asian cities outside of Singapore, to spill more (milk) tea on hotspots across Thailand, Vietnam, Hong Kong and China! Derek explains why consuming alcohol is pointless at Bangkok circuit parties, Philip laments the plight of aging gay men in North Asia, and they both hypothesize why Vietnam is 'flying the freak flag' high and proud! #gaysian #lgbtqia2s+ #travel #gaymen #holiday #gayasiancities #bangkok #vietnam #hongkong #shanghai

Gather round, hunties! In this episode, Derek and Philip sip champagne and dive #pursefirst into the rabbit hole that is the gay scene in Singapore, over the span of more than 20 years. Listen in as they rate the nightlife and sex / sauna venues in Singapore; hear them 'toot or boot' queer community events (toot!) and gay men dressing straight (boot!); discover how and why Singapore was (for a short while) the "Gaysian" clubbing capital; and what Derek really thinks about "gay friendship". #gay #gaysingapore #community #gayherstory #lgbtqia2s+ #alltnoshade #forrealforreal #

(This is the vodcast version of episode 7 (part 3 of 3), enjoy!) We're stepping in 2025 #pursefirst and shedding our emotional baggage! In this special episode, Derek and Philip dig deep to share their coming out experiences to themselves, each other, as well as to various people in their lives. These fab fags delve into intimate details on being gay, 'straight acting', why Derek believes in not asking questions if one ain't ready for the real tea, and how Philip burst mom's final hope of being the only 'straight' son to carry the family name. This is going to be an introspective and vulnerable episode, so pour yourself a drink and make yourself at home, coz they most certainly did!