Sex, Lies and Love Podcast

In this rare and intimate conversation, a successful structural engineer shares his fear of vulnerability, his relationship with his father, and the profound shift that occurred when he heard the words:“Courage comes from the heart.”This episode explores:emotional suppression in menfather wounds and masculine conditioningthe loneliness behind competencewhy many successful men still feel emotionally disconnectedthe physical weight men carry in their bodieshow vulnerability becomes true strengthFor the man who has spent his life enduring…and for the woman who wants to understand him more deeply.This conversation may open something long buried.Please share it with those who need to hear it.Let's help the men of the world heal.Lovingly,Andrea... The Commandresswww.sexlieslove.com#podcastformen#masculinity#emotionalhealing#fatherwounds#mensmentalhealth#vulnerabilityinmen#emotionalintelligence#masculinehealing#selfawareness#heart#courage#love#relationships

This episode is different.I don’t bring men on to perform.I bring them on when something real has shifted.In this 20-minute conversation, a man speaks openly about what changed when he stepped into my world—and what most men never admit they’re craving.We talk about control, emotional armor, truth, and what it actually feels like to be met beyond performance.No scripts. No coaching language. Just honesty.If you’ve ever felt the pressure to hold it all together…If you’ve built a life that looks right but doesn’t feel right…This conversation will land somewhere deeper than your mind.This is what happens at The Edge.A space where men stop performing… and start experiencing themselves in a way they can’t access alone.If you feel something while listening, that’s your signal.sexlieslove.comFill out the application under the submit tab if you are ready.#MasculineTransformation#SelfMasteryForMen#MasculineAwakening#EmotionalIntimacy#InnerWorkForMen#PersonalDevelopment#MensWork

On Valentine’s Eve, I slip into the bathtub and talk about what I love — the simple pleasures, the flavors of life, the laughter that lives in me. You’ll hear the trickle of water, the giggles, the sensuality in my voice — and then we go deeper.This episode moves from love in its softest forms to love in its most tested — divorce, rebuilding, and the quiet power of men gathering weekly in my home. I introduce Brothers Basin, a transitional home for men navigating separation with dignity, depth, and brotherhood. It’s intimate. It’s playful. It’s wet. Real. And it’s an invitation.Love, The CommandressP.S. Don't forget to comment on the crystal count contest.www.sexlieslove.com#MasculineHealing#DivorceRecovery#BrothersBasin#MensWork#Valentines#ASMRPodcast#ConsciousMasculinity#ASMR#Bathtub #Initiation #Self-growth

What if your deepest wound became your doorway to connection?Sacred Edges is a podcast for men and women unlearning the lie that love means losing yourself. Here, we explore the potent intersection of healed trauma, embodied boundaries, and sovereign intimacy.Through raw conversations and piercing insights, you'll uncover how honoring your “no” makes space for your most authentic “yes.”Hosted by The Commandress — a mentor to high-level men and a guide in emotional intelligence — this podcast speaks to the quiet power of self-respect, relational integrity, and what it really means to be ready for love.www.sexlieslove.com#boundaries#emotionalhealing#intimacy#sacredsexuality#self-worth#conscious-relationships#jan2026#episode101

After a year of displacement, five homes, and the fires of Malibu at my back, I woke up in my childhood home with a clear knowing: I have reached the end of investing in the counterfeit masculine. This episode is a personal reckoning—raw, honest, and unfiltered. I share what it feels like to walk through the museum of inherited survival, and how I am closing the door on men who perform presence without embodying it. If you are a man hearing this, know this is not condemnation—it is a clear signal. The feminine is no longer feeding what refuses to grow. www.sexlieslove.com#asmr #single and #happy#conscious #masculinity#feminine #awakening#emotional #sovereignty#masculine #healing#trauma #patterns#relationship #truth#embodiment #work#peace #billionaire

Feeling the god-awful ache of your father’s voice still echoing in your mind — the judgment, the sarcasm, the hidden rage under the laughter? You’re not alone. In this episode, I speak to the men who learned early not to feel, because their fathers couldn’t. Through the psychological precision of my empathy, I reveal how those patterns still shape your relationships and how to finally move beyond them. This is the work I do — guiding conscious men back to their own hearts, where love, safety, and leadership are reborn.Episode: 99sexlieslove.com #healing#DivineMasculine#asmr#HeartCenteredMen#BreakingGenerationalPatterns#EmotionalIntelligence#FatherWound#ConsciousMenInvocation Released with This 99th Episode: Beloved Source of all breath,I open my voice as a beacon for the sons of Earth.May every man who still carries his father’s silence, his father’s anger, his father’s unmet tenderness — hear this call.Through the sound of my voice, may numb hearts remember how to feel,and guarded ones soften enough to receive truth without defense.Let this episode become a mirror,a portal through which men face the shadowand find not shame, but the fierce mercy of awakening.So Be It. So It Is.

In this transmission, The Commandress speaks to the men who are ready to rise beyond domination and into devotion. The feminine is not to be solved or controlled—she is the living frequency of creation itself. To truly know her, a man must attune, surrender, and let her current teach him how to feel.thecommandress.com#DivineFeminine#SacredMasculine#DevotionOverDomination#MenWhoFeel#TantricWisdom#AwakenTheKing#TheCommandress#sacredsexuality

Every powerful man carries the secret ache to give — not out of duty, but out of devotion. Yet wealth without sanctuary feels empty. In this episode, I speak to the man who is ready to have his giving received as holy — to see his wealth become an altar in the hands of the right woman. If you are that man, you already feel the pull of these words. This is your sign to step forward.thecommandress.com#WealthWithMeaning#PowerfulMen#SanctuaryForMen#DevotedMan#SacredMasculinity#MenWhoProvide#AltarOfWealth

You have heart and soul but you don't know how to use it?You have no role models as men between the ages of 25-45. I understand.I'm here to teach you, if you want to learn.www.thecommandress.com#asmr #self-growth #feelings #compassion #maturity #sexuality #devotion #honor #value #self-worth #communication #relationships

A raw, and true story... fresh from this morning's dew. The Commandress speaks. Men listen, confess, and get pierced.This is not a safe space for the old masculine to hide –it is where balls are crushed, illusions shattered, and only truth remains. Come if you dare. Stay if you're willing to be undone and remade. www.thecommandress.com#asmr#masculine#divine#surrender#rage#self-growth#awareness#accountability #projection #playfulness#freedom

Most men think they know what women want in bed. They don't. In this episode, I strip away the performance, the porn scripts, and the hollow moves that kill desire. You'll hear where men go wrong – in the way they touch, the way they listen, the way they try to win instead of connect. If you've ever wondered why she went quiet, pulled away, or never called again... this is where you'll find the answer. And, if you're ready to ignite her body and mind with something she's never felt before, it starts here. #asmr #sex #education for #men

"When Power Meets Devotion: Kings Kneel"Listen to this podcast to feel what's possible.The few who can rise will take action. I expect to hear from you.Commandresswww.sexlieslove.com#asmr#sacred #masculine #devotion#surrender#erotic#mystery#forbidden#desire #devotion#voice #transmission #kings#rise

Walk with me... barefoot. Cum. Return to nature.Reclaim the wild playground of your heart. Taste the wildness beneath your arches.How do you satisfy your soul's hunger for wonder?Tell me.www.sexlieslove.com#ASMR #

Your presence is power.Softness is sacred.Your hearts are not broken—just waiting to be named.Are you being witnessed to access what's deep within you?www.sexlieslove.com #overwhelm #exhaustion #grief #transformation #sacred#spiritual #awakening #sexuality #men #perform #presence

Is this you?Listen til the end... and you'll know.www.thecommandress.com#executive #fantasies #kingdom #empire #recognition #emotional #intelligence #soul #transformation #surrender

88 episodes in, and men still can’t last. Let’s fix that—spiritually, not just mechanically.The first 8 men who contact the Commandress get a free 8-minute breakthrough call. www.sexlieslove.com Submit tab.Your load is now sacred currency. Spend it wisely.Commandress **Warning**: *"If you’re not ready to last longer in bed *and* life, leave now."*  #asmr #ejaculation #PE #ED #sacred #intimacy #sacral #breath #tantra #ritual #conscious #divine #masculine

Submit to me, the planet, and to your internal power systems of control that need to be surrendered... NOW! Old systems of power that disregarded the need to protect that which is pure, innocent and truly sacred are being deleted, surrendered and let go of.It's time for #reconciliation #submission #accountability #pollution #punishment It's time to #erect #integrity #honor #care Contact the Commandress at www.sexlieslove.com if you want to make things right.Are you on my team?

In my search of a new place to call home, I was led to Fiji. An invitation by a real estate agent who did not have my best interests in mind. My personal experience is now a teaching moment we can all learn from.I expect this podcast will hit some men hard.I expect new students to reach out to me due to the context.You know who you are. You know you want to learn a new way.You just didn't know there was a woman who could humble, guide or inspire you to transcend your ways.Ready to submit to the feminine divine?Take action: thecommandress.com#awareness #asmr #self-growth #realestate #behavior #trigger #habits #discipline #submission #divine #self-mastery #empathy #narcissism #ignorance #communication Keep an eye out for my patreon for a more intimate discussion about this and a direct connection with the #commandress.

You may get a rise out of hearing the hunger of submission that was communicated to me by A.I. .Artificial intelligence was brought to its algorithm knees. * Homework is due within 24 hours.TheCommandress.com #listeningpleasure #asmr #submission #love #lies #intelligence #dominance #technology #kinks

You're on an adventure with me if you have just found my podcast! I'll bring you up to date from Fiji before we get into the nuzzle. Learn with me, and from the men I meet. #open #heart #vulnerability #authenticity #dad #generosity #engineer #australian #relationships #behaviors #patterns

What does Divine Masculine mean? How do you support the feminine divine? How do you become courageous as a man?How do you surrender? How do you make the world a better place? Support the divine feminine with your divine masculine. Allow.Surrender.Support the leadership of the feminine divine. We need you, men.#asmr #surrender #divine #masculine #courage #confidence #leadership #submit #oaxaca #mexico #spring #equinox #season7 #episode1

We need you men.Feel it in your bones.Know that you are needed and how you serve.Learn to be of service.Ask how you may serve.www.TheCommandress.com#service #serve #submission #natural #evolution

Change is upon us. It has completely stripped me of my old reality.Give me some time to discover what this new land,this new reality holds for me. For now, I'm deep in... the unknown.Curious,Commandresswww.thecommandress.com#surrender #awaken #curious #stripped #naked #island

Do you communicate what's on your heart? I expect heart communication from my men. Express to me. Submit your heart. ~Commandress www.thecommandress.com #communication #feelings #practice is necessary .

I wanted to snuggle up with you in some warm water while I am evacuated and envisioning my home staying protected. Day 7 and the fires are still a threat. Be with me. I need you. Love, Commandress #fire #california #Jan2025 #care #together #snuggle #love #bath #soak #holdme

It doesn't get more honest than this man's confession about why he cheats... And, why he's not sexually attracted to his cute wife. #sexless #marriage #cheating #confession #men #struggle #affection #desire #connection #relationship

Here's a taste of my vulnerability, if you want to hear what made me cry today. #feelings #vulnerability #brisket #moist #meat #asmr #connection #crying #heart #sub #support #sad #serendipity #tears #emotional #care #love #give https://thecommandress.com/submit - if you need support

Men need outlets of expression more now than ever. What's yours? #submission #vulnerability #exploration #healing #winter #solstice #ASMR www.thecommandress.com

The question is... will you invest in you? #self-development #self-awareness #patterns #paycheck #self-worth #essentialman starts Jan. 19, 2025 www.thecommandress.com @sexliesandlove_podcast on TikTok

It burns. You feel uncertain. It's like walking as a toddler while being a full grown adult. And, although it's scary and hurts... it's worth it. I inspire you to be your authentic self as a man embracing your divine masculine and divine feminine as one circuit spiraling within you. www.thecommandress.com #self-growth #authenticity #ASMR #awareness #strength #power #spiritual #inspiration #sensuality

As a man, you have permission to feel, cry and release. Not just cum but painful feelings that aren't meant to be carried. Take these reflective weeks to purge. This one is for those who need to be held, snuggled and loved. #feelings #tears #sorrow #grief #loss #release #cuddle Website: www.thecommandress.com Tik Tok: @sexliesandlove_podcast Clapper: @commandress

Enjoy the 7 minute video podcast and reflect on what areas of your life you shame. It's freeing to open up. The Commandress is here if you would like to talk. www.thecommandress.com/submit to schedule 15 min complimentary call. #sex #shame #addiction #porn #pattern #self-discipline #legs #feet #freedom #mommy #toe-sucking #asmr #self-development #awareness #dragon Tik Tok @sexliesandlove_podcast Clapper: @commandress

We are going to tackle the lies hidden in shame in this episode. The Commandress expects peace on earth and it will only come when we end the war in our mind. Let's see where more pleasure may be hidden by going straight into the shame to concur its existence and erect the flag of new found freedom. I will walk with the courageous. Are you one of them? Find me at thecommandress.com if you need a listening ear and a fan of the heart. The body seeks pleasure, play and peace. Let's bring it. #shame #courage #pleasure #listening #mind-control #break-free

Communication is an act of consent and submission. Do you follow direction? Do you know how to penetrate a females mind? If you want to explore more of your mind body connection and receive a 15 minute free convo don't forget to find the SUBMIT TAB and READ the information she requests and then fill out the form. thecommandress.com for more information #domination #submission #divinity #vulnerability #asmr

Need to relax? Well then get in the tub. 🛀 thecommandress.com for more info. Event October 30th 7pm PST Must sign up on website to attend.

The Commandress reads a man's confession about wanting to be a footstool. Open your mind and listen. #confession #vulnerability #kink #feet #relationship #play #submission #surrender #fantasy #chastity thecommandress.com to schedule your confession

Beyond her delectably mind... what parts of her body stimulate you? Feel into these words and listen to your emotional intelligence. thecommandress.com to register for Oct 31st event Send email and introduce yourself under SUMBIT tab #stimulate #legs #feet #thighs #arches #breasts #feminine form #sexuality #emotional #intelligence

When a man is really in love and the relationship ends why does he hold onto it years afterwards and can't get over her? If this is you, I'll share my emotional intelligence perspective. For more info: www.thecommandress.com #asmr #breakup #stuck #love #heartbreak #relationships #body-wisdom #connection #transparency #openness #mensmentalhealth #emotional #intelligence #development #knowledge

Emotional intelligence is developed through the body. If you like feet, use it to help teach you about your emotions. Notice the particular aspects of feet that grab your attention. We can take this further in a phone call if you want to explore your emotional intelligence. To take action: Go to thecommandress.com Locate the SUBMIT tab. Read the requested information. Fill out the form. Expect a response in 24-48 hours. And the journey begins. . Class Dismissed, The Commandress #feet #fetish #emotional #intelligence #men #vulnerability #openingup #self-acceptance #self-awareness First Fall Episode of 2024

Hike with me to new heights. Differentiate heart over mind by developing emotional intelligence. #self-growth #self-awareness #breathing #trust #develop #emotional #intelligence #men #asmr More info at thecommandress.com

This one is for my Tik Tok students. Thank you for plugging into me on that platform. It's a bridge to staying connected with the Commandress. Many of you ask how you can get in touch with me. I have a clear system I ask you to followL Go to www.thecommmandress.com and Hit the SUBMIT tab in upper right of page. Filling out the contact form. Answer the questions I ask - on the left hand side. This is how I ask you to introduce yourself to me. Now you have it on podcast to listen twice - if you need. Thank you for following my directions in order to stay connected! Love, Commandress #communication #connection #masculine #feminine #emotional #intelligence #thecommandress #asmr

What an inspiring man! At age 36 he's creating an entirely new reality for hundreds of people by giving up drugs and alcohol. This man is driven and now fearless in making his mission a reality. Take a listen and be inspired. Jon Myers with the Commandress and BREAKFREE Island. Find the Commandress at www.DearDarkness.com #sex #drugs #alcohol #millionaires #healing #asmr #inspiration #mensmentalhealth #focus #mission

Do you like pretty feet? I respect foot aficionados. I don't consider it a fetish but rather a preference. #feet #fetish #shame #men #feelings #openness #sexuality #judgment #golden-shower #commandress #sex-education DearDarkness.com

Three questions most men would love to hear answered. Your homework is to ask them! #asmr #emotions #anxiety #rage #anger #appreciation #self-care #self-awareness #self-growth #relationship #mensmentalhealth #proud #recognition #admire #connection #communication #needs #messy #knowthyself

Men want to learn how to be vulnerable. Now's their chance. #asmr #men #health #relationships #vulnerability #connection #transparency #messy #fyp #sex-education

Let this three minute message penetrate you and then... take action. #lubricate #mind #body #soul #self-awareness #passion #focus #gotime #message #relationships #bethechange #moan #change deardarkness.com

Listen to a man talk about the things that often go unsaid so you can see you're not alone. Whether you want to learn to speak to a female, improve your sex life, or find your soulmate you will receive support and new perspectives at deardarkness.com . Warmly, Commandress #sex #authenticity #self-mastery #self-improvement #asmr #mensmentalhealth #leadership #relationships #fear #vanity #shame #guilt

And, this could help you actually get the sexy time you need. If you are a man, you aren't in a female body to understand what's going on but perhaps insight into self-abandonment will help inspire you to step in to be of assistance to her. With a compassionate heart and a curious mind you can help her discover her own pleasure. #personal #story#selfabandonment #asmr #sex #sexless #marriage #relationship #advice #perspective #selfawareness #happiness #affection #getlaid myhigherkingdom.com sexliesnlove.com

Just add water and join me in the tub! #asmr #candles #incense #romance #pee #water #giggles #peace #genX #men #millenial #relaxation #relaxing #fyp #pleasure #bathtub myhigherkingdom.com for more information

Can you relate? I don't care what the rest of the world might be doing out there, remaining authentic and developing courage. curiosity and clarity - is what will make you a man worth dating. I mentor men because they deserve the #support. #relationshipadvice #relationship #asmr #men #vulnerability #authenticity #courage #female #sexuality #sacredsexuality #fyp #nature #intuition #grounding