Sex, Lies & DM Slides

So, today is very sad day as it's the final episode of Sex Lies & DM Sllides. We've love, love, loved doing the podcast, so today we're taking a look back at various topics we've discussed over the last 2 years - from long distance relationships, to age gaps, to our secret single behaviour. Thank you so much to all our incredible listeners over the years, we couldn't have done this without you! I'm sure you'll be seeing lots of content with us both in the future, but for now, thank you and enjoy!! xxxxx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we are diving into the world of digital body language and what are texting green and red flags. We find out what the experts have to say about good and bad body language during a first date and also, what we'd personally put up with during the early talking stages of relationships. But first, let's have a catch up and chat about all things disney!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

So, as the seasons are changing and our skin is trying to adapt, we thought we'd chat about our health and beauty secrets for today's bonus. We're revealing our favourite skin care products, Saff gives away the incredible health hack she learnt during her PT course, and finally, we're giving our hot takes on the latest crazy beauty trends! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we're talking about a couple of dating trends we've been seeing -winter coating & cuffing season. But first, we're catching up on Saff's recent Maldives trip and Ana's night sleeping in a bed with 5 people?! We then work out what exactly winter coating is, decide whether we'll be jumping on the trend, and we'll also be breaking down the many stages of cuffing season (and there's A LOT)! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today is a veeerrrry exciting episode, as we are joined by Love Is Blind UK's Catherine Richards!! Catherine spills the tea on everything that went down on the show - from how she became a contestant, how the process works, what it was like seeing Freddie for the first time, and how the relationship quickly broke down. Catherine also has some shocking revelations about Freddie and what REALLY happened after the wedding, you don't want to miss this! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today is a veeerrrry exciting episode, as we are joined by Love Is Blind UK's Catherine Richards!! Catherine spills the tea on everything that went down on the show - from how she became a contestant, how the process works, what it was like seeing Freddie for the first time, and how the relationship quickly broke down. Catherine also has some shocking revelations about Freddie and what REALLY happened after the wedding, you don't want to miss this! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

For today's bonus, we are deep diving into what we believe classifies as cheating and what we think is acceptable behaviour! Is it cheating if he likes another girls instagram photo? Watches porn every night? What if he offers to walk a girl home and gives her his jacket to keep her warm? We discuss it all! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're back with one our favourite types of episodes - dating dilemmas!! Before we get into all your questions and relationship problems, Ana shares a hilarious voice note that she recieved from her mum that morning! Next we tackle all your dilemmas - from how to get out of the talking stage, to dealing with mummy's boys, to dating the heir of Richmond sausages?! And finally, we share our car crash stories and bizarrely, there's a lot.... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's bonus episode we're talking all things AUTUMN - did you guys also know that 'Autumn' is Saff's middle name?? We're chatting about which colours are in this season and what trends we'll be jumping on. We also discuss our perfect autumn dating ideas, from mulled wine at markets to Harry Potter themed wilderness walks. What're your favourite autumn trends and date idea?! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

So, after a quick catch up about our recent dates and our experiences dating naked (if you know you know), in today's episode we are talking about reunions and friendship breakups! Although we don't care so much about Oasis' reunion, we DO have a lot to say on friendship breakups and how they compare to romantic ones. We also need you guys to help us find Ana's ex best friend - where is Katie?! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hey guys! We’re back with another bonus episode and today, we’re revealing the habits with need to break - the main one being doom scrolling! We reluctantly reveal our screen times and discuss how our doom scrolling habits have been getting out of hand! Also, Ana is testing Saff on her knowledge of TikTok trends and we try to get to the bottom of why all these old videos are resurfacing of us? Can anybody help?! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we're revealing some of our secret single behaviours and how long it would take us to show them to who we're dating?! We hear all about Ana's manspreading and Saff's surprising way of disposing of her contacts lenses. Also, has Ana recently been love bombed or should we have a little faith in this potential love interest? Let us know your thoughts in the comments or on our socials @sexliespodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we’re diving into the fascinating (and sometimes frustrating) world of dream cheating. It’s more common than you think, but can you really be annoyed at your partner for something they did in your dream? We explore whether our subconscious might be trying to tell us something and how those tiny thoughts from the day creep into our dreams. Plus, how do you deal with the lingering anger the next morning? And the importance of writing your dreams down before they slip away. Join us as we unpack the mysterious realm of dream cheating! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re back from traveling the world, and we’ve got so much to share! In this episode, we’re giving you the inside scoop on our adventures in Mykonos and Ibiza, including the weirdest story we’ve ever experienced involving vomit and a suitcase (you won’t believe it!). We also gush over the Greek gods—err, we mean men—Ana encountered, including the time she was chatted up by an actual knight. Meanwhile, Saff is embracing her wholesome, not-caring-for-men era. Join us for a fun, chaotic, and unfiltered catch-up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we’re back with one of our favourite types of episodes - answering YOUR dating dilemmas! And this week, we’re tackling some brutal topics and offering some serious advice…What do you do if you have chemistry with your bff’s boyfriend? How to deal with an ex getting back in contact? And finally, what do you do if your new partner is keeping you a secret from everyone? Tune in to hear our hot takes! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we’re back with one of our favourite types of episodes - answering YOUR dating dilemmas! And this week, we’re tackling some brutal topics and offering some serious advice…What do you do if you have chemistry with your bff’s boyfriend? How to deal with an ex getting back in contact? And finally, what do you do if your new partner is keeping you a secret from everyone? Tune in to hear our hot takes! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sooo, today we’re finally talking all things Brat Summer (and turns out Saff has been embracing hers before Charli even came up with the phrase?!) We talk about the craziest things we’d do on a date and we start our preparations for our Ibiza trip! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we’re diving into the tricky world of relationship comparisons. Would it be strange to have an argument and then post about it online? We explore why we compare our relationships to others, especially when social media only shows the highlight reel. We also fantasise about our dream proposals—would we drop hints, or let it be a surprise? Plus, Ana shares the details of a reading that predicted she’ll have a baby in 2025. With relationships being so accessible now, is it too much? Tune in for an honest discussion on love, comparison, and modern romance. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we tackle the big question: do you have to be fully healed to date again? We explore what it truly means to be healed and why some people find it hard to hop from relationship to relationship. What is this "healing era" everyone talks about, and why is it easier to heal when you hate somebody? We also discuss the signs that you might not be ready to date again and whether searching your ex on socials counts as a red flag. Join us for a deep dive into the complexities of healing and dating. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week, we dive back into the 36 questions to fall in love quiz, exploring some thought-provoking and fun topics. From whether we rehearse phone calls to whether we'd prefer to retain the mind or body of a 30-year-old, we get deep and personal. Plus, Ana gives us a quick update on her cruise adventures—did she manage to book that couples massage, and why do these eager guys keep flocking to her? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we’re diving into the world of flirtationships and what happens when they move from DMs to real life. Ever had someone slide into your DMs and a flirtationship that only exists there? We’re sharing your responses and stories. Ana spills on the time she left after 10 minutes because of a major catfish—have you ever been catfished? Plus, we debate whether Instagram is actually the biggest dating app out there. Join us for a fun and revealing episode! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re back with another episode full of juicy dating dilemmas! Today, we’re discussing everything from sleeping with someone in the friendship group to not having sex with a partner for 10 years. What’s it like to sleep with a new partner right after a relationship? How do you handle time differences in a long-distance relationship? Plus, dealing with a boyfriend’s mum who doesn’t like you and the tricky situation of an ex wanting to be friends. Tune in for our hot takes and advice on these complex scenarios! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we're diving into the age-old dilemma: meeting the right person at the wrong time. Saff shares her two different approaches to this tricky situation. Is it just an excuse or a coping mechanism? Do you believe there's ever a right time? Ana weighs in on whether it's all situation-dependent. Plus, we explore the fascinating invisible string theory. Join us for a deep and thoughtful conversation on timing in relationships and what it all really means. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we're tackling a hot topic: are dating apps on the decline? We debate whether they're an amazing way to meet people or just a platform for judging someone by their photos. What would work (and what wouldn't) if a guy approached you in real life? We share our thoughts on whether it's harder to find a genuine connection on apps. Plus, Ana spills the tea on whether her cheesy chat-up lines have worked and Saff explores if running clubs are the new hot spots for dating. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, we're diving into the world of feminine energy! What does it mean to give off feminine energy, even if sometimes we sit with our legs spread? We'll explore the concepts of light and dark feminine energy and debate if embracing feminine energy is reviving outdated roles. Plus, when dating, do you tap into your feline energy? And, of course, we discuss our dream dates! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re back with another juicy episode! Ana just got back from her wild trip to Bali and Saff’s been living it up in Berlin. Bali was party central, but Ana didn’t go on any dates there... because she had one right before her trip with a finance bro she matched with on Raya! Raya’s been working wonders for Ana, and today she’s reading out her messages (with a little help from Saff, of course). Plus, we’re diving into the latest Love Island drama and Saff shares her thoughts on the cheating scandal. It’s an episode you don’t want to miss! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re BACK with our absolute FAVEEEE kinds of episode. Yep, you guessed it - it’s YOUR dating dilemmas. And boy oh boy do we have some shocking ones for you today… from ‘Should I date my exes mum (?!)’ to ‘What is an acceptable body count to have?’ We answer them all! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's that age old debate made popular in the hit movie When Harry Met Sally. But why are we still questioning it to this day? Today, we discuss if men and women can ever really just be friends, or whether they will always end up being romantically involved. Plus, Ana shares her own experiences on this topic. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Celibacy is something we've been wanting to talk about for a hot minute! After seeing that #celibacy has 78 million posts on TikTok, we knew we had to give our hot take on the topic. Today, we discuss all things celibacy, our opinions on it and whether we've ever taken a period of celibacy... by choice or not! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's finalllly the summer - the weather is weathering, England are doing well in the Euros and things are looking up. AND hot girl summer is upon us! Today we reminisce about our previous hot girl summers, holiday we've taken together and our plans for this summer too. Plus, we talk about if our holiday romances and give our tips on how to have a hot girl summer.Got a hot girl summer story? DM us @sexsliespodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are back with another one of our absolute FAVE episodes! Yes, you guessed it: we are answering MORE of your dating dilemmas. In today's episode, we discuss what to do when your boyfriend of 10 years doesn't want to have sex with you, tips on dating with anxiety and how to deal with it when a boy says ‘I like you but I’m not ready.' Plus, we give our hot take on one of your more *gross* dilemmas. You'll have to listen to find out! As always, these are anonymous and we aren’t dating experts, we are just giving you our opinions on your questions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Have you ever heard of the 'Three Loves' theory? Today, we discuss the idea that you only have 3 loves in your life: the first love, the intense love and the everlasting love. We give our hot take on whether we believe this theory AND we discuss how many times we've been in love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We've been wanting to talk about the different attachment styles in dating on the pod forever and some of these really resonate with us! From anxious attachments to avoidant to secure, we discuss them all. Plus, we talk about which attachment styles we think we are or have been in previous relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We absolutely LIVE by manifesting, so we are super excited to be joined today by Roxie Nafousi, who is a 2x Sunday Times Bestselling Author and the absolute QUEEN of manifesting. In this episode, she answers all of your questions on all things manifesting, from how to create a vision board to daily manifestation practices and how you can remove fear and doubt when manifesting your perfect life. Plus, Roxie gives her top tips on how to manifest a relationship.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There are soooo many reality dating shows nowadays that depict contestants falling in love with the potential suitor in *an instant*. This got us thinking… can you ACTUALLY falling in love someone at first sight? We give our two cents on the topic and we reveal if we’ve ever fallen in love with someone when first meeting them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Boundaries are such an important part of dating, whether you just started seeing someone or you are in a long-term relationship. We wanted to break-down some of the different boundaries you should keep in mind and the importance of them - from physical to emotional and more. Plus, Ana opens up about the boundaries she put in place when she was dating her ex-boyfriend. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Have you ever wondered if you actually fall in love someone by asking them a handful of questions? Well a study by psychologist Dr. Arthur Aaron seems to think you can! We take a look at those 36 questions and whether these can help you fall in love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve all come across certain types in our dating lives right? From the bad boy, to spending time with “mr.unavailable” or the classic ‘man child’, we take a look at ALL the common stereotypes in men when on the dating scene. Plus we look at some of the stereotypes that women tend to fall under in the dating world as well. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Going through the stages of dating can be quite the journey (we would know!) So we thought this bonus episode would be a perfect chance to look at dating milestones and how to navigate those big moments, one step at time. From when should you make things official, to when should your meet partner's family and when is the right time to book your first holiday today together as a couple? Plus, we discuss whether being "exclusive" is a cop out Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve been wanting to do an episode on this for ages! Beige flags is a major trend on TikTok atm so we wanted to talk about all the major differences between beige AND red flags. We also discuss some of our own beige flags and reveal some of yours too! Plus Saff gives an update on her trip to LA, and the very “interesting” fact she’s learned about the new gym she is going to. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We wanted get back to basics with this podcast…so thought we'd share some the wild and weird DMs WE have received. From Ana's flirtatious messages from guys, to people sending Saff some very traumatic breakup stories - these are honestly wild! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s that time again! In this episode, we try and answer all of your dating & relationship dilemmas. From what to do if you fancy your housemate, to dealing with feeling left out when being the only single girlie in your friendship group, and how do you navigate the awkward situation if a friends boyfriend starts flirting with you? Plus, we answer the big question… how to talk to your mum if she does not support your relationship? Remember these are all anonymous! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We all had that feeling of literally being *obsessed* with someone, but has a crush ever gone TOO far for you? This bonus episode we take a look at trending terms called unrequited love and limerence - plus we confess if we’ve both ever felt this way before… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re getting pretty deep in this episode! There’s a major trend on TikTok on the topic of the "male gaze" vs the "female gaze"... especially when it comes to dating. We talk about the major differences in what men find attractive compared to women, from dating apps to dress sense and more! Plus, we give tops tips to spice up your dating profiles just in time for hot girl summer. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We wanted to get back to basics and discuss all things DMs! We chat about top tips to slide into someone DM’s, and the weirdest DM’s we’ve ever gotten. Plus, you guys sent in some of the brave way you've slid in... and we were honestly shocked by the responses! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve all been in a situationship, aka not a real relationship and a lot of confusion about where you stand with the other person. This got us thinking... can they actually work and can casual dating ever be a good thing? Plus, we take a look at the major differences between situationships and friends with benefits, and Ana opens up about her own experience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Everyone has things they absolutely would never put up with when it comes to dating, while some people are more open when they are dating someone new. So, we wanted to take a deep dive into some dating non-negotiables, like would you ever date someone who doesn’t want kids to would you date a smoker. Plus, we give our hot take on our non-negotiables. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Since we both met up with our exes recently (just as friends), we thought we would discuss all things break ups and exes. Like can you actually be friends with an ex? Would you ever let one of your friends date your ex? Plus, you sent us some crazyyy break up stories Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We all know our coupled up friends mean well when they give us advice... but sometimes, it’s just NOT helpful! So, we’re turning the tables and gently reminding our friends who are in relationships why certain things are just not useful to tell a single friend. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are BACK from Coachella and boy do we have a lot catch up on! Our trip also got us thinking about all the major differences between America and the UK.. from dating to lifestyle to fashion (trust us, there are A LOT!) Plus, Saff spills the tea on whether she found her soulmate in LA and she addresses rumours about her ex-boyfriend. You won't want to miss this one! x Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices