Shat Chat

hey y'all! today we are chatting all about this New York Times article "My Husband Had an Affair, and I Divorced Him. Should Our Kids Know Why?" by our favorite: Lori Gottlieb! we unpack our own perspectives on this topic, drawing from our experiences as children of divorce.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronchlisten on apple podcasts and spotify!

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about growing pains and how people can fulfill a need in your life for a specific period of time. We'll also discuss how you change and go through different phases in any kind of relationship.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about a reddit thread where a young person is being pressured by their recently divorced parent to attend an extended family holiday event. this brings up some interesting questions: how much say should a kid have in this kind of situation? is it always best for them to just go along with it to avoid conflict? or are kids sometimes just being insensitive when they don't want to participate?Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronchlisten on apple podcasts and spotify!

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about the term “grey divorce” and while the name might make you think it's about a complicated or unclear divorce (grey area) it actually refers to divorce after the age of 50 – when those grey hairs might be starting to show! Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronchlisten on apple podcasts and spotify!

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about whether or not it is okay to have your step father walk you down the aisle, thanks to an Ask The Therapist article by the New York Times and Lori Gottlieb.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronchlisten on apple podcasts and spotify!

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about marriage - why even get married? what is the difference between a relationship with all of the legal paperwork in the eyes of the state and a long term committed relationship without it?   a question sent in by our long-time listener and fan: Erin Connelly!  Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronchlisten on apple podcasts and spotify!

hey y’all! today we're chatting all about living alone after divorce, inspired by the article 'This Is What I Learned About Life After My Marriage Ended' from Apartment Therapy. we'll discuss what we noticed our parents taking on during that transition and how those experiences shape our lives now.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronchSubscribe to our YouTube channel: @shatchatpodlisten on apple podcasts and spotify!

hey y’all today we’re chatting about how going through key developmental stages helps us understand who we are and what we want—making us less likely to face a full-blown midlife crisis. we’re diving into the stages we should go through (according to passages by gail sheehy) and how growing up as divorce kids might disrupt them. When we miss or delay important emotional milestones, how does that shape our future? Are we more likely to experience a crisis, or do we see it coming a mile away?Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about reconciliation and what that might look like for kids who are going through divorce. do you hope for it? do you not? is there false hope? does it feel worse to hope for it when deep down you know your parents arent actually going to get back together?Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronchlisten on apple podcasts and spotify!

hey y’all! welcome back - season 2 episode 1! in honor of valentine's day we are chatting all about love! but mostly love in female friendships - how lucky we feel to be surrounded by so many amazing women, women who have allowed us to be vulnerable, women who are constant and show up in our lives every day and women who accept us no matter what our life may look like on any given dayGive us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are celebrating ONE year of Shat Chat, complete with our favorite episodes and what we are thankful for as we go into the holiday season.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about parents one upping each other and whether or not we as children of divorce noticed it or felt that it was uncomfortable.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about how each of us fights, handles arguments and conflict, and whether or not that stems from how we experienced fighting throughout childhood.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about when your parents should call it quits and when they should stick it out !!Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about marrying young and if that has any correlation to the possibility of getting divorced.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about our european travels from our favorite food and drinks to sights and of course the wedding!Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about being in school, after-school activities, and how that looks or differs as children of divorce.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about eloping vs an extravagant wedding with 200+ people and if either one is more likely to result in divorce.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about the most common reasons couples get divorced based on a Forbes article.  check out the full article here: https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about influencer divorces and how it would be to split up while being in the spotlight, what that means for your “fans” and how much or how little should you share.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about the foster dogs we’ve had and what we can learn from them as it relates to being a child of divorce. making sure we are showing them love, consistency, and trust.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about our relationship dealbreakers, which we have separated into 3 different sections: behavioral health, lifestyle, and communication. a topic brought to you by our very own, eric thompson (or as y’all know him thompy)!Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about letting go. letting go of control over other people, reclaiming control of ourselves, and how that looks for both of us as divorce kids but as people with different approaches to it.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about having an infinite capacity for love, how brave it is to love, and how all love has some sort of an expiration date. all thanks to a youtube series called diary of a ceo. this episode highlights a divorce lawyer, james sexton, and his take on love (we are specifically speaking about the section on love and loss)Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about relationship timelines and we touch on how long each of our parents dated before they took the next steps.how long should you date before getting engaged, and how long should you be engaged before you get married? is there a right answer? according to brides.com most couples date for 2 -5 years before getting engaged and are engaged for 12- 18 months before getting married.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about monogamy. is it actually natural for humans? we share our thoughts on monogamy and how it relates to choosing lifelong partners and divorce.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about our friend's marriages, our family’s marriages, what works in those relationships, what doesn’t, and what we will bring into our own long-term relationships. an idea brought to you by eric thompson or as you all know him, thompy!Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about dating our parents, what’s comfortable and familiar, and how that plays into our own dating life.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about the safe parent vs the high conflict parent, both terms we heard about in a tiktok video and related to in our upbringing having divorced parents. Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about shut up rings, a term we heard about in a tiktok video. we have all heard of promise rings, right? a ring given to your significant other that basically says "i plan to propose to you sometime down the line, and i WANT to be with you." a shut up ring is the complete opposite of that. Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about a song called “highlights” by sasha alex sloan (shown to us by mal) and how it relates to divorce. AND we FINALLY went to COJO!!!Take a listen to the song: https://music.apple.com/tr/album/highlights/1727095970?i=1727095974https://open.spotify.com/track/0xvkTfdXvK7f1bOZ98ekbH?si=7dc6b80734534819Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! thanks to our first piece of snail mail from our number 1 fan, erin connelly, we are chatting all about the best ways to support your friends and family going through divorce.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about dads, why we love them, and why they are so weird (we mean this lovingly)!Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about carrie, samantha, miranda, and charlotte: the leading ladies of sex and the city and the iconic relationships they had.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about an essay called “The Kinder, Gentler, Nobody-Moves-Out Divorce” by Jordana Jacobs read by Maya Hawke on the Modern Love podcast with The New York Times.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about whether or not we show signs of being a child of divorce, thanks to a buzzfeed listicle. aka ana and hannah realize they are just dale & brennan from step brothers. Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about gravitating towards a certain parent or sibling during and post divorce.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about how we navigate family events when both of our parents are going to be present.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! in honor of mother’s day this sunday we are chatting all about moms and how much we love them!Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are talking about how we feel loved based on last episodes topic of feeling safe, seen, supported.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are sharing our thoughts on a question someone wrote into Jana Kramer asking about her and her ex’s relationship and how it effects their kids AND a statement made by Farrah Abraham (from 16 & Pregnant) on Bunnie XO’s podcast, Dumb Blonde Podcast regarding her parenting choices. Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we chatting all about the parent child relationship and how it evolves overtime.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are giving our opinion on a sub reddit post: Am I The Asshole for not getting upset when my parents told me they were getting a divorce?Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about all of the after school activities we had as divorce kids.AND we have a VERY special SECOND guest….drumroll please 🥁Hannah’s little brother, Zach Savinar !! Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we’re chatting about birthdays and how we spent throughout the years, and our horoscopes. do we actually identity with them?Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we’re chatting all about love. soulmates: romantic and platonic, love at first sight: is that actually possible and chemistry: what even is good chemistry? and how do you make a marriage last?Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we’re chatting about divorce kid terms like ex, step, and having different last names. Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about attachment styles: how ours were influenced by our childhood and divorces, and the ways they effect our relationships now.wondering what your attachment style is? take the quiz: https://www.npr.org/2022/02/09/1079587715/whats-your-attachment-style-quizGive us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting about the best time to get divorced (from the kids perspective). kids: is it when you’re fresh out the womb? when you're in high school? when you're in college? is there ever really a “right” time?Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch

hey y’all! today we are chatting all about some qualities divorce has equipped us with for all that life throws at us.Give us a follow on Instagram!@shatchatpodAna: @anamharveyHannah: @savi1968Music & engineering: @philbronch