Sittin' In A Tree Podcast

Submission in marriage is often misunderstood, misapplied, and sometimes even weaponized.In this episode, we unpack the true biblical meaning of submission, the role of both husband and wife, and how mutual sacrifice—not control—leads to a thriving, fulfilling marriage.If you want a healthier relationship rooted in truth, this episode is for you.

Communication is one of the biggest struggles in marriage—but it’s not just about talking more. It’s about what kind of conversations you’re having.In this episode, we explore how negative, stressful, and routine conversations can slowly create distance in a relationship—and how intentional positive communication can rebuild connection, trust, and emotional intimacy.We also discuss:Why couples start to dread talking to each otherHow everyday stress (bills, schedules, responsibilities) impacts connectionPractical ways to introduce meaningful, positive conversationsHow communication shapes your marriage—and your familyWhether you’ve been married for years or are just starting out, this episode will give you simple, practical tools to strengthen your relationship.

Feeling stuck or bored in your marriage?In this episode of Sittin’ In A Tree, John and Shalon share 5 simple and practical ways to bring fun back into your relationship—most of which you can start tonight.From getting out of your routine to creative date ideas and spontaneous connection, this episode is packed with easy ways to reconnect, laugh more, and enjoy each other again.If you’ve been asking:“How do we make marriage fun again?”“What are simple date ideas that actually work?”“How do we reconnect without overcomplicating things?”This episode is for you.Plus, don’t miss the bonus tip that helps you build spontaneity into your marriage anytime you need it. Stick around at the end for bloopers and outtakes!

What Counts as Cheating? Emotional Affairs, Boundaries, and Rebuilding Trust in MarriageCheating is one of the most searched relationship topics online—but many couples still struggle to define what cheating actually is. Is it only physical? What about emotional connections, secret conversations, or pornography? Where should the boundaries really be in a healthy marriage?In this episode of Sittin’ In a Tree, John and Shalon tackle the uncomfortable but necessary conversation about infidelity, emotional cheating, and protecting intimacy in marriage. They discuss what behaviors slowly pull couples apart, why emotional connections outside the marriage can be just as damaging as physical affairs, and how couples can recognize warning signs before real damage is done.If you’ve ever wondered:What actually counts as cheating in a marriage?Are emotional affairs just as serious as physical ones?How do couples rebuild trust and intimacy after betrayal?What boundaries protect a healthy relationship?This conversation dives into the real issues couples face and offers practical perspective for strengthening trust, protecting intimacy, and building a marriage that lasts.Whether you’re trying to guard your relationship or recover from hurt, this episode will challenge you to think deeper about loyalty, connection, and commitment in marriage.Topics in this episode:Marriage advice • Emotional cheating • Infidelity in marriage • Relationship boundaries • Rebuilding trust • Protecting intimacy • Healthy marriage communication

Communication problems in marriage aren’t usually about the topic — they’re about tone, assumptions, and misinterpretation.In this episode, we share practical, real-life communication tools from 31 years of marriage, including:How tone instantly shifts a conversationWhy “listening with curiosity” changes everythingThe danger of assigning emotions to your spouseHow to pause and reset mid-conflictReal examples of how we still navigate misunderstandingsIf you want fewer arguments and better connection, this conversation will give you clear steps to start improving today.

What if the missing piece in your marriage isn’t just better communication… but more fun?In this episode, we explore three foundational habits that help couples move from surviving to thriving:• Making laughter a regular part of your relationship• Choosing spontaneity over routine• Learning to be playful again as adultsBetween raising kids, paying bills, and managing responsibilities, it’s easy to lose the fun. We talk practically about how to rebuild connection, reduce stress, and strengthen intimacy — even in busy seasons of life.If you want a marriage that feels alive, connected, and fulfilling long term, this conversation is for you.Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode designed to help you build a stronger marriage.

What separates an ordinary marriage from an extraordinary one?In this episode, John and Shalon unpack the five pillars of what they call Super Love:– Sacrifice in all things– Unconditional love as a daily decision– Presence both mentally, emotionally, and physically– Extraordinary in going beyond what’s expected– Revealing new ways to love and serve each otherIf you’re looking for practical, biblical principles to strengthen your relationship and create a fun, fulfilling marriage, this episode is for you.Marriage is more than a commitment on paper — it’s a daily choice.Follow the podcast to never miss an episode of Sittin’ In A Tree.

Many Christian couples enter marriage hearing “don’t have sex”… but never learning what healthy sex inside marriage actually looks like.In this episode of Sittin’ In A Tree, we talk openly about sex, intimacy, communication, trauma, purity culture, and what the Bible really says about enjoying sex in marriage.We discuss:• The difference between intimacy and sex• Why sex can feel awkward or difficult to talk about• How past teaching and trauma affect connection• Should sex be fun?• What Christian couples are allowed to do• How often married couples should have sexIf you want a stronger, more fulfilling Christian marriage, this episode will help you start the conversation.

In this episode, John and Shalon dive deep into what it really takes to grow a marriage. Love isn't something you just "fall" into—it's something you step into and work at every day. The duo explores the paradox of attraction: how the very traits that made you fall for your spouse can sometimes be the ones that drive you crazy later on.In this episode, we discuss:The Work of Love: Why a fulfilling marriage requires conscious effort and "nurturing".Appreciating the Real Person: Learning to love your spouse’s quirks instead of trying to change them.Knowing vs. Feeling Loved: Why understanding that your partner loves you is different from actually feeling it, and how to bridge that gap.Love Languages 101: A breakdown of Gary Chapman’s five love languages and why speaking your partner's language—not your own—is the key to intimacy. TAKE THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES QUIZThe Truth About Physical Touch: Why this love language is about much more than just sex for men.Whether you’ve been married for 30 days or 30 years, join us to learn how to move past "factual love" and into a fun, fulfilling relationship.

Do you feel like every argument in your marriage turns into a competition?In this episode of Sittin’ in a Tree Podcast, John and Shalon talk about how to fight fair in marriage and why trying to win arguments often leads to resentment, disconnection, and unresolved conflict.We cover:Why most couples argue the same way over and overHow “keeping score” damages trust in marriageThe difference between fighting to win and fighting for resolutionWhen to pause an argument—and how to return to it in a healthy wayPractical communication tools for couples who want a stronger marriageConflict is unavoidable in marriage—but damage doesn’t have to be.Whether you’re newly married, have been married for years, or feel stuck in the same arguments, this episode will help you rethink how you communicate and fight in a way that actually strengthens your relationship.🎙️ Listen now and learn how to fight fair without hurting the person you love most.

Having kids changes everything — your schedule, your energy, and often your marriage.In this episode of Sittin’ In A Tree Podcast, John and Shalon talk honestly about what happens to a relationship after kids enter the picture. From exhaustion and unmet expectations to miscommunication and emotional distance, this conversation is for couples who love their kids but feel disconnected from each other.If you’re trying to balance marriage, parenting, faith, and real life — this episode will help you:Understand why marriage feels harder after kidsIdentify unspoken expectations that create resentmentStay emotionally connected during exhausting seasonsChoose consistency over pressure and perfectionStrengthen your marriage while raising a familyThis isn’t about perfect parenting or having it all together.It’s about becoming a team again — even when life feels overwhelming.🎙 New episodes of Sittin’ In A Tree Podcast drop weekly with real conversations about marriage, family, and faith.

**Marriage Isn’t a Fairy Tale… It’s Better (If You Do This)** 💍🔥What *really* happens **after “I do”**? In this episode of the **Sittin’ In A Tree Podcast**, John and Shalon get real about marriage—the work, the expectations, the communication struggles, and the small daily choices that actually build a **fun, fulfilling, and lasting relationship**.If you’ve ever wondered:* Is marriage **50/50 or 100/100**?* Why does the wedding get all the attention, but the marriage gets ignored?* How do you communicate when you *don’t even know what you’re feeling*?* How do you keep connection alive when life is busy, kids are loud, and schedules don’t match?This episode is for you.### 🎯 In this episode, we talk about:* Why marriage takes **more effort than getting married*** The danger of chasing a “fairy tale marriage” instead of building a real one* How **unspoken expectations** silently damage relationships* Why communication (not romance) is the real key to intimacy* Finding **fairy-tale moments in everyday life*** Serving each other instead of keeping score* How to reconnect when you feel like roommates or “ships passing in the night”* Why vulnerability (especially for men) is essential for a strong marriageThis isn’t marriage advice from theory—it’s wisdom from **30+ years of marriage**, real mistakes, real growth, and real hope.👉 If you want a marriage that actually works in real life—not just on social media—this conversation will challenge and encourage you.**Subscribe, like, and leave a review** to help us reach more couples who want a better marriage. ❤️---### 🔎 Keywords / Search Terms:marriage advice, marriage podcast, healthy marriage tips, communication in marriage, expectations in marriage, Christian marriage advice, long-term marriage, marriage struggles, building intimacy, marriage counseling tips, relationships podcast, marriage communication skills, marriage after the wedding, how to fix a marriage, emotional intimacy---### 📌 Hashtags:#MarriageAdvice #MarriagePodcast #HealthyMarriage #CommunicationInMarriage#MarriageGoals #RelationshipAdvice #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp#MarriageAfterTheWedding #LoveAndMarriage #CouplesPodcast

In this Season Premier, John and Shalon dive into what it takes to find and keep the Love alive in a Marriage. Through personal stories and lived experiences, they help you work for the FUN and Fullfilling marriage you desire.

ThIs mini- episode is just an appetizer. Get to know us and a little bit of our story as we discuss upcoming episodes and what you can expect in Season 1. As it usually does with us, the discussion went a little deeper than we had planned. Episode 2 drops January 7th, so be sure you follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode.