Soulblaizers Podcast

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Aggresive Stances:  3, 7, & 8 - move into the problem - solve the problem - oriented toward the future Withdrawn Stances: 4, 5, & 9 - Back up in messes or conflict - why 5's and 9's can be mistyped because both are withdrawn Dependent Stances: 1, 2, & 6 - taking in information from the situation - can sometimes move in and look aggressive - can sometimes withdraw and back up from the situation

In todays episode, we explore the intriguing concept of Enneagram subtypes and their significance. Subtypes are based on our instinctual patterns, consisting of three categories: social, one-to-one, and self-preservation.   Each individual possesses all three subtypes, but one tends to be dominant while another supports it, and the third becomes a blind spot.The primary subtype is our go-to strategy, while the secondary subtype complements and reinforces it. The blind spot refers to the instinctual aspect that we struggle with or overlook.   1. Social Subtype: The social subtype is focused on one-to-many interactions, seeking engagement within a larger group. It complements primary relationships by participating in social activities that support those connections.   2. One-to-One Subtype: The one-to-one, also known as the sexual subtype, has nothing to do with sex but emphasizes deep, one-on-one connections. This subtype prioritizes individual relationships and thrives in a primary partnership.   3. Self-Preservation Subtype: The self-preservation subtype revolves around self-care, ensuring personal well-being, and maintaining basic needs. Individuals with this subtype prioritize their own physical and emotional safety.   The goal of understanding subtypes is to achieve a balance among the three instincts.This involves consciously working on the blind spot and finding equilibrium between primary and secondary subtypes.5.   Subtypes can change over time, especially in response to significant life events or shifts in the environment.While most people don't fully move out of their blind spot, intentional work can help address and balance it. Understanding Enneagram subtypes provides a deeper understanding of individual differences within each Enneagram type. Recognizing and appreciating the various subtypes can lead to better communication and empathy among individuals.

Understanding the Enneagram: Mistyping   Your Enneagram number comes from your own internal motivation. So, Amanda and I could do the very same things and even seem very similar, but our underlying reasons, our only-known-to-us rationale for doing that thing, is always going to be different. That's right. Amanda is coming from the perspective of a Type Seven, where she wants to have options and keep everything open. On the other hand, I approach things from a place of needing to feel competent, understand, and have the information to make a decision. It may look the same from the outside, but our motivations are distinct. It's common to want to type our friends and family, but what we should do is have a conversation and give them the tools to understand the Enneagram. We can't force it upon them just because we're excited about it. Self-discovery should be a personal journey. Absolutely. If you find yourself thinking your spouse or partner belongs to a particular type, it can be useful to reflect on how you perceive your relationship. But remember, it's essential to keep the focus on self-reflection. Typing someone else often leads to mistyping.   So, what is mistyping? Essentially, it occurs when we fail to uncover the core fears, desires, and lost childhood messages of a person. If we only look at surface-level behavioral characteristics, we are prone to mistyping. Some types may struggle with vulnerability and authenticity, preventing them from embracing their true Enneagram type.   That's true. It's crucial to go beyond surface observations and delve into deeper motivations. As a rule of thumb, if discovering your Enneagram type makes you uncomfortable or even nauseous, it might be an indication that you're on the right track.   Let's take Type Three as an example. If you're a Three and you're addicted to being seen as successful and a winner, it can be challenging to give up that persona. Similarly, for women, societal expectations often reinforce certain roles, like being the best helper. A Three may resist acknowledging their true motivations because it feels vulnerable and exposes their desire for external validation.  Absolutely. Another example is Type Sixes who don't want to think of themselves as negative or pessimistic. They may believe they're doing everyone a favor by constantly anticipating potential problems. However, in reality, they are wasting valuable energy on hypothetical scenarios that rarely come to fruition. Mistyping can also occur when we only see someone in specific contexts or under certain circumstances. For instance, if we only see a friend in a relaxed environment, we may assume they are a Type Nine. But when they are in a professional setting or under stress, we witness a completely different side of them, revealing a different Enneagram type. That's right. People can adapt their behavior to fit different situations or adopt a specific mode under stress. It's important to recognize that we may not have a complete understanding of someone's Enneagram type based on limited observations.   Self-reflection plays a significant role in understanding our Enneagram type. For example, as a Type Five, if I feel confident in a leadership role, people who only know me in that context may think it's my true nature. They might be surprised to learn that it's just one aspect of who I am.   It's essential to approach the Enneagram with humility and an open mind. Avoid labeling others and instead focus on self-discovery. By understanding our own motivations and fears, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and our relationships.   Recap Mistyping occurs when we fail to uncover the core fears, desires, and motivations of individuals in the Enneagram system. It is important not to try to type other people but rather encourage self-reflection and provide them with tools to explore their own Enneagram type. Mistyping often happens when we focus on surface-level behaviors or fail to recognize the complexity and adaptability of individuals in different contexts. Embracing vulnerability and self-reflection is key to discovering our true Enneagram type and understanding ourselves better. Remember, the Enneagram is a tool for personal growth and self-awareness, and mistyping can hinder the journey of self-discovery.  

In todays episode of The Soulblaizers Podcast, Amanda Ware and Dr. Cara Osborne continue their journey through understanding the enneagram by diving in to where each type goes in stress and growth. Find your number below: Type 1 - The Perfectionist:- In Stress: a Type 1 may exhibit characteristics of a Type 4, becoming more emotionally intense and critical of themselves and others.- In Growth: a Type 1 may integrate qualities of a Type 7, becoming more spontaneous, optimistic, and open to new experiences. Type 2 - The Helper:- In Stress: a Type 2 may take on attributes of a Type 8, becoming more aggressive and controlling, and possibly disregarding their own needs.- In Growth: a Type 2 may assimilate qualities of a Type 4, becoming more self-aware, independent, and in touch with their own emotions. Type 3 - The Achiever:- In Stress: a Type 3 may adopt characteristics of a Type 9, becoming more complacent and avoiding confrontation, potentially numbing their own desires.- In Growth: a Type 3 may embody traits of a Type 6, becoming more cooperative, committed, and willing to acknowledge their fears and vulnerabilities. Type 4 - The Individualist:- In Stress: a Type 4 may display traits of a Type 2, seeking validation and attention, becoming more people-pleasing and dependent on others.- In Growth: a Type 4 may integrate qualities of a Type 1, becoming more disciplined, focused, and able to channel their emotions in constructive ways. Type 5 - The Investigator:- In Stress: a Type 5 may exhibit characteristics of a Type 7, becoming more scattered and seeking distractions, possibly overindulging in activities or ideas.- In Growth: a Type 5 may assimilate qualities of a Type 8, becoming more assertive, self-confident, and engaged with the world around them. Type 6 - The Loyalist:- In Stress: a Type 6 may take on attributes of a Type 3, becoming more driven, focused on success, and possibly neglecting their own anxieties.- In Growth: a Type 6 may embody traits of a Type 9, becoming more trusting, peaceful, and accepting of uncertainty. Type 7 - The Enthusiast:- In Stress: a Type 7 may adopt characteristics of a Type 1, becoming more rigid, perfectionistic, and critical of themselves and others.- In Growth: a Type 7 may embody traits of a Type 5, becoming more focused, introspective, and capable of depth and sustained attention. Type 8 - The Challenger:- In Stress: a Type 8 may display traits of a Type 5, withdrawing emotionally and becoming more secretive, isolated, and intellectually preoccupied.- In Growth: a Type 8 may integrate qualities of a Type 2, becoming more compassionate, considerate, and aware of the needs and feelings of others. Type 9 - The Peacemaker:- In Stress: a Type 9 may take on attributes of a Type 6, becoming more anxious, worried, and seeking reassurance from others.- In Growth: a Type 9 may assimilate qualities of a Type 3, becoming more focused, ambitious, and action-oriented, able to prioritize their own goals and desires. If you have any questions head over to our instagram @soulblaizers where we do weekly Q&A's or feel free to DM us! We put out new episodes every week on Tuesdays and Thursdays so subscribe to be notified! Thanks for tuning in :)

Welcome to today's episode diving deep into the fascinating world of the Enneagram, exploring the nine unique types that offer profound insights into our motivations, fears, desires, and strengths. The Enneagram provides a road map for personal growth and self-awareness, offering a way to understand ourselves and others better. Understanding Different Perspectives: The Enneagram helps us realize that people have different lenses through which they view the world. Each of the nine types sees things from a unique perspective, offering a different way of thinking, analyzing, and experiencing life. By putting on the "glasses" of different types, we can develop empathy and understanding for others. The Goal of Integration: The ultimate goal of the Enneagram is to integrate into all nine types. Integration means being able to see things through each type's perspective and being flexible in our approach. It allows us to have a well-rounded understanding of ourselves and others, fostering personal growth and stronger relationships. Exploring the Nine Types: Type One: "The Perfectionist" - Wants to be good and right, fears making mistakes. Works hard, loves rules, and strives for perfection. Trustworthy but can be critical. Type Two: "The Helper" - Wants to be loved and needed, fears not being wanted. Helps others, focuses on customer happiness. Kind and supportive but may neglect their own needs. Type Three: "The Achiever" - Wants to be successful and admired, fears failing. Ambitious, competitive, and hardworking. Wants to impress others but may struggle with vulnerability. Type Four: "The Individualist" - Wants to be unique and true to themselves, fears being ordinary. Creative and values self-expression. Emotionally deep and seeks authenticity in relationships. Type Five: "The Investigator" - Wants to know a lot and be capable, fears feeling helpless. Research-oriented, innovative, and prefers working alone. Deep conversations but may be reserved. Type Six: "The Loyalist" - Wants to feel safe and secure, fears being abandoned. Reliable, values teamwork, and worries a lot. Loyal but may struggle with insecurity. Type Seven: "The Enthusiast" - Wants to be happy and fulfilled, fears feeling trapped or bored. Full of ideas, optimistic, and needs to focus more. Fun and spontaneous but may struggle with commitment. Type Eight: "The Challenger" - Wants to be in control and avoid vulnerability, fears being controlled. Assertive, protective, and takes charge. Can be confrontational but also protective and loyal. Type Nine: "The Peacemaker" - Wants inner peace and harmony, fears conflict. Easygoing, accommodating, and seeks unity. May avoid conflict and struggle with assertiveness.   Understanding the nine Enneagram types allows us to embrace different perspectives and develop self-awareness. Integrating all nine types helps us grow personally and enhances our relationships. Each type has its superpowers and fears, and knowing them enables us to navigate life with greater empathy, understanding, and personal growth.

Get ready to explore the power of pursuing what truly makes your heart sing in our latest episode of the Soulblaizers Podcast. Amanda Ware and Dr. Cara Osborne embark on a heartfelt conversation about the power of pursuing what brings joy to their lives. The pair dive deep into this meaningful topic, discussing how answering this fundamental question of, "What Makes Your Heart Sing" became the driving force behind the creation of our podcast. Discover how aligning with what makes our hearts sing can unlock unlimited possibilities. Tune in now to find inspiration for your own journey!

Welcome to the Soulblaizers podcast! In this episode, hosts Amanda Ware and Dr. Cara Osborne open up about the delicate art of balancing work life and mom life. Both Amanda and Cara were already moms when they recognized a need in their community and turned it into successful businesses. Amanda embarked on her journey with Hello Holidays, offering exquisite ribbon and expert tree decorating services. Meanwhile, Cara's passion led her to establish a birthing center and explore various other endeavors. Join us as we delve into their inspiring stories of resilience, entrepreneurship, and the challenges they faced along the way. Don't miss out on their valuable insights and discover your own superpower!

Welcome to episode 1 of the Soulblaizers podcast, where co-hosts Amanda Ware and Dr. Cara Osborne take you on an inspiring journey of their entrepreneurial paths. Join them as they share their personal stories, including their origins, family backgrounds, educational pursuits, career transitions, and the successful businesses they have built. In this episode, Amanda Ware and Dr. Cara Osborne delve into their individual journeys and the remarkable experiences that have shaped their lives. They open up about their roots, providing insights into their hometowns and the impact their upbringing has had on their entrepreneurial spirits. You'll also get a glimpse into their educational backgrounds, as Amanda and Dr. Cara share their academic pursuits and any notable milestones they encountered during their educational journeys. From school experiences to college endeavors, they highlight the pivotal moments that have influenced their entrepreneurial mindset. But it doesn't stop there. Amanda Ware and Dr. Cara Osborne reveal the turning points in their careers, discussing the shifts they made and the decisions that ultimately led them to establish their own successful businesses. Their stories are a testament to perseverance, determination, and the power of following one's passions. Tune in to SoulBlazers as Amanda and Dr. Cara bring their expertise, knowledge, and experiences to the table. They are excited to share valuable insights and practical tips on entrepreneurship, empowering aspiring business owners to embark on their own journeys of success. Don't miss this opportunity to be inspired and motivated by Amanda Ware and Dr. Cara Osborne's stories. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or simply curious about the entrepreneurial world, this episode of Soulblaizers is a must-listen.