Spiritual Capital: Between Self and System

When I spend money on makeup, I’m not just buying a product.I’m also giving up something else—time, energy, and sometimes real experiences.For me, the return can be very short:a few minutes of looking better, or a quick compliment.But the cost can be much bigger:travel, movement, and things I actually enjoy.So this is not about confidence or courage.It’s about trade-offs.In this episode, I talk about how I think about cost, value, and what I choose to prioritize.Not a conclusion—just a way of looking at things.

In this episode, I explore how dignity is shaped not only by family and relationships, but also by systems, structures, and resource distribution.Through personal family stories, my grandfather and grandmother’s lives, and my own academic experience, I reflect on how people are shaped—or blocked—by structures they cannot control.I introduce the idea of structural trauma and spiritual capital, and ask a deeper question:What does it mean to hold dignity when the system does not give you a place?This is not just about success or failure.It is about how people survive, break, adapt, or rebuild meaning in an unstable world.

In school, at work, and in society, we are trained to be “competent people,” not truly capable people.But when rules, paths, and stability disappear, what skills do we actually have left?In this episode, I share my journey—from university and the workplace to life in a foreign country—and explore how systems shape human behavior, limit judgment, and why we must practice making decisions, taking responsibility, and creating our own paths in uncertainty.If you want to know where real security comes from, and how to grow your own capabilities beyond systems, this episode is for you.

Ever wondered why some people seem to thrive while others work just as hard but struggle? In this first episode, Meixin dives into spiritual capital — the hidden set of abilities that determine your success in the real world.From early lessons about work, morality, and “being proper,” to discovering how entrepreneurs quietly master risk, human networks, and uncertainty — this episode explores why society often undervalues certain skills and how you can recognize and grow your own.Follow along for stories, insights, and reflections on risk, decision-making, trust, and action in uncertain environments. Perfect for anyone curious about human potential, entrepreneurship, and navigating life beyond conventional rules.

一直形单影只？觉得生活没有意义？缺乏社交大脑萎缩？社交锻炼大脑强过数理化吗？有人天生不那么需要社交吗？应该有哪些社交活动？

善意的谎言真的善意吗

强暴大都是熟人侵犯，熟人强暴始于侵犯内心的界限，但只有真的认识自己的价值，并且能有100% 确信这价值从何而来，才能守住自己的界限。