Still Learning

What happens when you stop living for the male gaze and start seeing yourself the way God does? In this episode, I unpack the shift from seeking validation to finding identity in Him.

Is rejection really God's protection? In this episode, I open up about my personal journey from fearing rejection to embracing it as divine redirection — and why hearing "no" might be the best thing that ever happens to you.

I had to unlearn a lot about purity before I could actually understand it—and in this episode, I’m sharing how understanding God’s heart (not just the rules) completely shifted my perspective.

I've been living on the edge of burnout — and honestly, it's been hard to admit when so many great things are happening in my life. In this episode, I'm getting real about what it looks like to be overwhelmed by good things, why rest is non-negotiable, and how leaning back on God has been the key to finding my way off the ledge.

I’ve been living in an “expectations vs reality” season, and it’s forcing me to reassess what I’m expecting from myself, other people, and even God. In this episode, I unpack how some of my expectations were rooted in perfectionism, insecurity, trauma, and pride—and how releasing them has been freeing.

In this episode, I share my personal reflections on the current climate in America and how reading Isaiah (especially 10:1–4) has kept me both honest about what’s happening and hopeful.

I'm done casually dating in friendships—I'm applying the same intentionality to my platonic relationships that we usually reserve for romantic ones, because friends are also partners in your purpose.

In this episode, I share my honest, unfiltered take on Christian “gray areas”—from drinking and tattoos to secular music, cursing, male-female friendships, and vacationing before marriage—and talk through how I’m discerning what’s conviction, what’s culture, and what’s actually biblical.

We're only a few months into 2026 and I'm already at lesson 35! 😅 In this episode, I'm sharing my "pellets of gold" - all the things God's been teaching me so far this year about taking action, understanding seasons, and knowing when doors are meant for you.

In this episode, I share what it looks like to trust God when His answer isn’t what you prayed for—and honestly, when it hurts. I walk through loss, grief, and surrender in real time, learning how to trust God’s heart even when I don’t understand His way yet.

I realized I've been using "I'm too young" as an excuse to avoid what God's calling me to do. In this episode, I break down what Jeremiah's story taught me about age being an asset, not a limitation—and why you might be ready right now.

In a month that often centers romance, this episode is a reminder that nothing is missing. It invites you to slow down and consider whether love is something you’re waiting for—or something already surrounding you.

Time is a gift, and how we use it matters. In this episode, we explore Chronos vs. Kairos, the dangers of busyness, and how intentionally stewarding everyday time positions us for divine, appointed moments.

Life will always give reasons to be offended, but we still get to choose how we respond. This episode is about learning not to internalize everything, choosing grace over defense, and protecting the softness of our hearts.

In this weeks' episode I discuss how familiarity can quietly block growth and revelation. Sometimes the problem isn’t that something has grown old—it’s that I haven’t let it go.

All was well until...it wasn't. Join me this week as I discuss how to stay hopeful during difficult times in life.

Reflections on growing up as the 'Designated Ugly Fat Friend' and how the movie 'The Duff' resonated deeply with me. I open up about building confidence, navigating relationships, breaking down emotional walls, and the lifelong journey of self-love.

In this episode, I open up about what it means to truly embrace the fullness of who I am. I share my journey of learning to hold space for every side of myself—the joyful, the reserved, the vulnerable, and everything in between.

Before moving forward, it’s important to pause. In this episode of Still Learning, I’m debriefing 2025 — mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. This conversation is about reflecting honestly on the year, recognizing growth, and carrying lessons forward with intention.

In today's episode, we delve into the concept of being in your 'training ground'—a phase of life shaped by challenges, growth, and preparation.

This week, I delve deep into emotional and spiritual burdens and discuss how we can make a difference even when we feel helpless. Even though we live in a world that can often feel indifferent it’s important to reflect on ways to love our neighbor in times like this.

Join me as I share personal stories and insights on how cultural norms have shaped our understanding while advocating for a biblical perspective on manhood and womanhood.

In this episode, I delve into the complexities of dating as an adult, especially coming from an African household where dating wasn't encouraged until you’ve 'made it' professionally. Join me as I explore cultural influences and the challenges of modern dating.

In this episode, I share how facing frustration and setbacks in my life has actually deepened my trust in God, helping me see challenges not as obstacles, but as purposeful setups for growth and greater things ahead.

If you’ve ever wondered how to spot your own blind spots or what self-awareness really looks like in real life, this episode is for you. I’m sharing my honest journey of navigating self-awareness—messy moments, aha realizations, and gentle encouragement for anyone still learning along the way.

In this episode, I discuss my recent move and the challenges of starting my nursing career, sharing how I'm navigating new routines, handling anxieties, and maintaining a positive mindset in this period of growth.

In this episode, I open up about how my friendships have changed since college and share what I’ve learned about being intentional and nurturing connections as life evolves.

In this episode, I share my journey of faith and patience in landing my current nursing job, emphasizing how obedience to God and trust in His timing led me to an opportunity that was truly meant for me.

Welcome to Season 2 of Still Learning! 🤎 I thought post-grad life would look like a European summer… but instead it looked like moving back home, long study days for the NCLEX, waiting on God for a job, and rediscovering the beauty of what’s been right around me all along. Not what I planned… but exactly what I needed.

A heartfelt reflection on the lessons, growth, and grace God has shown through the first season of Still Learning — and a glimpse at what’s coming next.

In this vulnerable episode, I open up about navigating grief after losing my dad and invite you into a conversation about God's tender love that meets us even in our deepest pain.

A grace-filled reflection on worth, stewardship, and becoming someone who multiplies what God has entrusted.

In this episode, we explore the beauty and purpose of life’s rainy seasons—why we need them, how God uses them for growth, and the hope they carry for what’s coming next.

In a world that praises hustle, this episode invites you to pause and honestly check the condition of your heart, mind, and soul.

Knowing you're a good investment is one thing—this episode explores how to honor that through intentional stewardship.

In this episode, I share how I’m navigating the uncertainty of post-grad life with peace and hope, trusting that everything God has for me is already prepared.

In this episode, I’m sharing my honest heart on singleness—how it’s never been a waiting room for marriage, but a sacred season where God has grown, stretched, and refined me in the most beautiful ways.

In this episode, I’m sharing my experience on a service trip to Charlotte, North Carolina, where I partnered with Life Connections to learn about restorative justice, breaking cycles, and the power of renewal. From hands-on work to deep conversations with incarcerated individuals, this trip reshaped my understanding of justice, transformation, and what it truly means to serve like Christ.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the powerful truth that God is a God of Regardless—unchanging, unwavering, and faithful no matter our circumstances. If you've ever struggled with trust, doubt, or feeling like your situation is too far gone, this conversation is a reminder that God moves not because of conditions, but because of who He is.

Our words carry power—the power to build or break, to heal or to harm. In this open and honest conversation, we dive into the weight of our words, how they shape our reality, and why God calls us to be cautious, not careless with what we speak over ourselves and others.

Are you the wake-up call someone needs? In this episode, we dive into the urgency of waking up the spiritually asleep, the power of consistency, and how being a wake-up call leads to empty tombs. It's time to step into your spiritual authority—because lives depend on it!

There’s a tension that comes with being set apart—when you realize you no longer fit where you used to. In this episode, we’re talking about how to navigate that shift, find peace in the discomfort, and thrive in the calling to live differently. Choosing to be set apart is a daily decision, but it’s always worth it.

Emotions are not the enemy—they are indicators, not dictators. In this episode, we dive into the beauty of emotional regulation, what it truly means, and how we can surrender our emotions to God rather than being controlled by them.

Our bodies were never meant to be defined by the world’s standards—they belong to God. In this episode, I open up about my personal journey with body image, food, and exercise, and how surrendering to God’s truth has transformed the way I see and care for my body.

In this episode of Still Learning, we explore The 3 P’s—Posture, Position, and Pivot. I’ll share how heart posture shapes purpose, why a shift in position can redefine your path, and the power of discerning when to pivot.

In this episode, we dive into the dangers of people-pleasing and how it can steal our true identity. I share my personal journey of breaking free from the need for validation and learning to embrace authenticity in Christ.

Navigating life after graduation has me facing the weight of uncertainty—where to live, finding a job, and stepping into adulthood. In this episode, I talk about the anxiety that comes with the unknown and the peace I’m finding by trusting in the One who is known. Let’s dive into how faith anchors us when the future feels anything but certain.

In this episode, I share a recent epiphany that opened my eyes to how I’ve unknowingly lived according to the world’s definition of who I am instead of the truth found in God’s Word. Together, we’ll explore how societal standards and false narratives take root in our hearts, how to recognize them, and steps to walk confidently and authentically in the identity God has given you. You were created on purpose, for a purpose—so let’s embrace the truth and start living boldly in it.

In this episode, we’re reflecting on the lessons and growth 2024 brought into my life. Join me as I dive deep into the challenges, victories, and takeaways from the past year—embracing the power of reflection before stepping into a brand-new chapter.

In the first episode of Still Learning, I’m sharing how my “yes” to God became enough. From stepping out in faith to starting this podcast, I’ll dive into the journey of trusting His timing, embracing the unknown, and allowing Him to lead. Let’s reflect on how saying “yes” can open doors we never imagined.