TalksAboutyou

Many people talk about love, success, and dreams.But not everyone grows up in a place where their voice is encouraged.In this episode, we sit with Hafsat Abdullahi (Havfy), a spoken word artist from Northern Nigeria, as she shares her journey growing up as a girl in a conservative society and how poetry became her voice.Many young Africans grow up in environments where their voices are not encouraged. This conversation explores identity, girl child education, spoken word poetry, and the realities of growing up in northern Nigeria.She shares how growing up in a conservative society shaped her identity, how poetry became her voice, and how she turned her story into advocacy that now impacts communities across the world.This is not just a conversation about poetry.It is about voice, identity, belonging, education, and the courage to become who you were not expected to be.In this episode, we discuss:Growing up as a girl in northern NigeriaSocietal expectations placed on womenFinding your voice in a conservative environmentHow poetry became a tool for advocacySocietal expectations placed on womenFinding your voice in a conservative environmentHow poetry became a tool for advocacyIdentity, language, and belongingWhy your voice matters, even when no one listensInspiring the next generation of girlsWhether you are a young African trying to find your path, a creative looking for purpose, or someone navigating identity and pressure, this conversation will stay with you.Subscribe for more honest conversations about money, identity, culture, and life in Africa.

Many Nigerians want to invest but keep losing money not because they’re careless, but because nobody explains investing in a way that fits this economy.Inflation is rising.Jobs are unstable.Income is stretched.Yet everywhere online, people are told to “save and invest” like it’s simple.In this episode, Finance Girl shares her real experience of losing all her life savings, what went wrong, and how that painful mistake reshaped the way she thinks about personal finance, stocks, and investing in Nigeria.This is not motivational money talk.It’s a grounded conversation for Nigerians and Africans trying to understand:why investing feels riskywhy popular stocks don’t always mean good investmentshow to start investing with small moneyand how to think about wealth in an unstable economyIn this episode, we discuss:Why most Nigerians lose money investingCommon investment mistakes beginners makeHow inflation affects savings and investing in NigeriaHow to start investing in stocks with small moneyUnderstanding risk appetite (low, medium, high)Why “there is no perfect entry point”How to build wealth the right way — without hypeWhether you’re a student, salary earner, young professional, or business owner, this episode will help you think about money more clearly.Subscribe for honest conversations about money, business, and life in Africa.

Many African entrepreneurs believe their biggest problem is funding.In this episode, Nanna breaks that myth and explains why structure, clarity, and decision-making matter more than money when building and scaling a business in Nigeria and Africa.In this conversation, we discuss:Why most small businesses fail without proper bookkeepingHow lack of structure prevents businesses from scalingWhy investors don't fund "vibes-based" businessesThe difference between head knowledge and scalable systemsWhy founders must separate emotion from business decisionsWhat entrepreneurs misunderstand about equity and ownershipWhen to pivot, when to exit, and when to stay thecourseThis episode is for founders, small business owners, and professionals who feel stuck, underfunded, or confused about their next business move and want clarity instead of motivation.Watch till the end, share your biggest takeaway in the comments, and subscribe for more honest conversations about building real businesses in Africa...Funding agencies in Nigeria, Funding opportunities in Nigeria Nigerian entrepreneursWhy businesses don't scale in NigeriaSmall business funding NigeriaBusiness structure AfricaWhy investors don't fund startups Bookkeeping for small businessesEquity and funding explainedAfrican startup adviceScaling a business in Nigeria

Many people believe the biggest problem facing Nigerian startups is lack of capital. In this episode, John Paul, founder of Activator HQ (formerly Small Starter Africa, challenges that belief and explains why knowledge, skills, and experience matter more than money when starting and scaling a business.In this conversation, we discuss:Why taking a bank loan to start a business can destroy you earlyThe real reason most Nigerian startups fail within 5 yearsThe difference between running away from a job and running toward entrepreneurshipWhy apprenticeship builds stronger entrepreneurs than shortcutsHow to transition from corporate life into business without crashingThe "Valley of Death" every entrepreneur must pass throughIf you're a founder, aspiring entrepreneur, side-hustler, or professional thinking of leaving your job to start a business, this episode will help you rethink your strategy before making costly mistakes.Watch till the end, share your biggest takeaway in the comments, and subscribe for more honest conversations about business, entrepreneurship, and growth in Africa.How do I register a limited liability company in Nigeria online?, What are the best mobile payment platforms for small businesses in Nigeria?, Where can I find business networking events or platforms.

The event industry is often described as "delicate." But Kunmi Ariyo explains why the real issue is not mistakes, but poor communication and unchecked assumptions.In this episode of Talks About You, the Founder of Mirus Events shares lessons from over a decade in Nigeria's events industry.We discuss:• Why clients get dissatisfied• Why assumptions are dangerous• How to manage pressure in high stake environments• What passion really means in entrepreneurship• Why consistency is the true competitive advantage• How customer experience creates long term growthThis episode is essential for event planners, MCS, vendors, creatives, and entrepreneurs.Subscribe for more honest conversations about building meaningful work.

Gambling addiction grows in silence, destroys lives in private, and disguises itself inside what looks like "fun,""small wins," and "just one more slip."In this deeply personal conversation, our guest Ladipo Abiose Akolade, founder of GamblePause Africa opens up about:​ how the addiction started​ the moment it spiraled​ the financial and emotional damage​ the lies, the debt, the shame​ the withdrawal, relapse, and recovery journey​ the impact on family, relationships, mental health and the painful truth behind virtuals, sports betting, odds, and false hopeThis episode is not anti-gambling.It is anti-pain, anti-loss, and pro-awareness.If you've ever placed a bet, know someone who is struggling, or want to understand the psychology behind gambling, this is the most important story you'll hear this year.Share this with someone who needs it.This movement begins with conversations like this.

Joy grew up quiet — the kind of child who spoke more through her notebooks than her voice. Today, she’s a writer with international clients, student success stories, and a powerful journey of courage, rejection, resilience, and identity.In this episode, Joy opens up about• Being the quiet child who found safety in books• Studying mechatronics while secretly loving words• Pitching 100 times and hearing nothing back• Landing her first international $500 client• Building confidence to show up online• Teaching other writers to earn from their gift• The future of writing in a world of AI• Practical steps to make money as a writer• And the honest parts , fear, burnout, and restWhether you’re a writer, creator, or someone finding your voice, this episode will sit with you.Watch, feel, take notes, and share with someone who needs it.

In this episode titled, Gbemi shares an honest reflection on the growing tension between true fitness and society’s obsession with aesthetics.Are we working out to feel better, live longer, and be stronger or are we simply chasing an ideal that was never really ours to begin with?We explore the hidden pressures, the myths we’re sold, and what it really means to prioritize health over appearance.This is a conversation about self-awareness, discipline, and redefining what success looks like in fitness and in life.

We’ve heard the buzzwords."Strong." "Ambitious." "Independent."But behind closed doors, how do these traits really play out in relationships?In this episode, justanigerianman shares the male perspective many shy away from.Do men really like independent women?Or do they feel pressured to shrink in relationships where women lead?It’s bold. It’s real. And it might challenge what you thought you knew.

Can art truly survive in a country where everyone is just trying to make ends meet?In this episode titled "Can Art Survive In A Country (Nigeria) Focused On Survival?" we unpack the quiet battle artists face daily, choosing passion in a place that prioritizes survival. Our guest on this episode is Oluwole Ohunakin, A.K.A AEZ the Artist. No support, no structure, just raw talent and dreams that seem too expensive to chase.If you’ve ever questioned whether creativity still has value in Nigeria, this conversation is for you.

Is there a success formula for entering the entertainment sector as a content creator? Trench Boy Reveals the Untold Truths Behind His Rise in the Entertainment Industry.Everyone dreams of making it big in the entertainment world, but is there a real formula for success? The Trench Boy reveals the shocking truths about what it REALLY takes to break through—beyond the glitz and glamour. From his toughest struggles to the game-changing moments that turned everything around, he opens up about the secrets no one talks about.If you’re serious about becoming a content creator or just curious about what it takes to make it, this is the episode you can’t afford to miss. Prepare for unfiltered truths that could change your career.

What happens when the safety net disappears? When the person we depended on for financial security is no longer there? Too many women experience financial hardships firsthand. Jennifer Chinenye Awirigwe, also known as Financial Jennifer, is an Investment Banker, Chartered Stockbroker, and the founder of The Money Tribe. She explains why relying on men for financial stability is a risk no woman can afford to take and explains what it truly means to build wealth on their terms. Money is power, and it’s time women take control.

 So much of what we believe about health isn’t based on facts—it’s based on myths, social media trends, and whatever gets the most clicks. But how much of it is actually true?In this episode, Dr. Ajidahun Olusina, a medical doctor, digital health strategist, and co-founder of Priv Health, breaks down the medical myths Nigerians swear by and the deeper issues within Nigeria’s healthcare system.No filters. No sugarcoating. Just a raw, honest conversation. Watch now.