That'll Be The 'Tism

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That'll Be The 'Tism

We are Emma and Claire, and we are late diagnosed AuDHD and autistic... this podcast is us talking about our journeys, through initially learning about autism (and ADHD) in our thirties to discovering how that impacts us personally, and why our neurodivergent brains work like they do.

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    Episode 28: Crochet Pudding

    Episode 28 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult has arrived.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 28 contains:- Catchups - Hormones, hen parties, Eurovision and Emma's book progress- Main section - Not knowing when to stop in conversations and in life- Autistic trait of the week - Easy overwhelm- Capybaras, bird sleep, bats, Danny DeVito as a unit of measurement, and hold musicCapybara clip: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXrOTYhjaT8/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Our sounds are kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites: - Wobsterly- The look of the drawer- Di Blobber- Make noise in this podcast- A Club Seven- All the creaturesMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

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    Episode 27: Section of Beans

    Episode 27 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult is here!Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 27 contains:- Catchups - work, hormones, birthdays, anxiety- Main section - RSD and the effect on social situations and work- Autistic trait of the week - Memory quirks- Robbie Williams, David Attenborough and animal gas or lack thereofOur sounds are kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites (there were lots this time!):- Plane sailing- Wil Williams Wils- You weren't me?- Get my hair caught- The look of the door- Laura, thanks- Books were Bush- Books were British- Bernie face thing- Treat of the week- Special interest wear- Mice can fall- Cheese monga qualificationMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

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    Episode 26: Mr Lobby

    Episode 26 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult has arrived.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 26 contains:- Catchups - routine changes, gardening, wedding craft updates- Main section - Accents - reasons why autistic people may copy these or use others than their natural one- Autistic trait of the week - Needing to know things- Mr Blobby, Psyduck and the red-lipped batfishOur sounds are kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites (there were lots this time!):- You in a to tea cake- I'm naer today- Ling it up- These bowls- Some bed implants- Like Liz- Mr Ploi- Webster Lee- Side hook's behind me- No's House Party- We're all side duck- Friends or hot foods- I'm reasonably monitor- Well received and rankly soMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

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    Episode 25: Well Received, and Dryly

    It's our birthday episode of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult! 25 episodes! #proudThanks to everyone that's joined us and supported us this past year, we appreciate it so much!Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 25 contains:- Catchups - networking, easter safaris, and Emma's book progress- Main section - our highlights from the past year of our podcast, which sometimes link to autistic traits...and often don't- Bumper animal fact bonanza featuring octupuses, lemurs, potoos, coal tits, bats and more.Our sounds were kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Parenting Business Connections is at: https://parentingbusinessconnections.com/ Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Spoon less or non spoon list- Trish Cade Phobia- Everything that I cook for in coaching- The oldest wee- You do know Quackers Claire- Heat and wheeze- Wipe your other buttons- Dak fruit bath- I'm on a canMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

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    Episode 24: Tonic Tea Cake Sauce

    Welcome to episode 24 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 24 is a spoonless episode (meaning a little less structure than usual) and it contains:- Why we're overwhelmed - work and weddings- Perfectionism- RSD- How our autistic traits have affected all of this- Tunnock's teacakes...if you want one, e-mail us and Emma will* make it happen*Emma MAY make it happen.Our sounds were kindly provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com Yoann Bourgeois' performance about life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_DA3dgRSrw Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Chuck GPT- Lady parent counter- Giant tonics tea cake- I love tonics- My dark minds- Karaoke atman army- An ice bonus- No talk talksMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

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    Episode 23: Warm Sounds

    It's time for episode 23 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 23 contains:- Catch ups/hyperfocuses - Cheese, birthdays, career changes, Emma's book and Formula 1- Main Section - Parenting children and things- Autistic trait of the week - Object permanence- Clownfish, Avon (not sponsored), wedding craft updates, unusual food combinations and mumdrops galore.Our new intro, rave (rey-ve), mumdrop and not sponsored by sound are provided by Audio Imaging Producer Chris, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.com For more information on the documentary Emma is participating in, or to support the project, the Kickstarter is here: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/gigishumgl/how-to-be-different-pilot and it's called How To Be Different.Amy & the Wet Pets: https://www.tiktok.com/@amydoessomestuff Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Wednesday di creamery- Handle my equipment- A new divergent family- Autism versus people- Didn't make the cult- About Yvonne- If it's a doctor- Tearing up cheeser- Concept cheese backer- Hammond bananaMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

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    Episode 22: Laser Affection

    Welcome one and all to episode 22 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult, hosted by Emma Sails and Claire.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Note a couple of Trigger Warnings: at around 05:26 for vomit. 31:50 for a couple of minutes Emma discussed a previous emotionally abusive relationship.Episode 22 contains:- Exciting sound updates to our podcast (thanks Audio producer Chris)- Catch up - Emma's hyperfocus is her book, and Claire has had an overwhelming few weeks.- Main section - Autism and romantic relationships.- Autistic Trait of the week - Pathological Demand Avoidance.- Random factoid of the week - Sloths and cats.Our new intro, rave (rey-ve) and mumdrop are provided by our Audio Imaging Producer Chris Demetriou, and you can find out more about him here: chrisdemetriou.comFor more information on the documentary Emma is participating in, or to support the project, the Kickstarter is here: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/gigishumgl/how-to-be-different-pilot and it's called How To Be Different. Toilet sloth: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQCsV1pFZiU/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites: - Sloth Moss- Jin Goman- Old lady card- Which is luck- Spoon list situation- Anika Author- A new rave club- Brave Top- A room rave- Bush, Brush, Brush- Random factor- Ms. Theoretical CarolMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast! #autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

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    Episode 21: Having Some Jiggles

    Episode 21 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed neurodivergent people trying to adult has arrived for your viewing or listening pleasure.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 21 is a spoonless episode, meaning a little less structure, but it contains:- Emma's exciting documentary news- Data validation (and weird spreadsheets)- Scarfigan progress- Claire's CCTV saga- Emma's National insurance number discovery- The new Take That documentary- What Emma would use a cow for.For more information on the documentary Emma is participating in, or to support the project, the Kickstarter is here: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/gigishumgl/how-to-be-different-pilot and it's called How To Be Different.Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Ms. Theoretical Cow- Floy- Wilma's Mum- Quite far from my mouseMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #neurodivergent #autistic #podcast #autistictraits #traits

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    Episode 20: A Cow's Been Stolen

    Welcome along to our followers old and new to Episode 20 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed/discovered neurodivergent people.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 20 contains: - Hyperfocuses - Cars, weddings and jobs. - Main Section - Tips on communication with Autistic friends, family and colleagues, and ideas for how Autistic people can share their needs. - Autistic Trait of the week - Pebbling. Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Typical Yorkshire Flood - It's a good job, Yuri- I've got two gans- Trait three- It's ping- Ga Rick Ley- Great Poo Break- Mouth wide ribbon- The animals of the wheat- Car peeves Main Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/ Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast! #autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic #audhd #podcast

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    Episode 19: Flut

    Happy New Year! We're back for 2026 with our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed/discovered Autistic people. Welcome along to our followers old and new. Episode 19 is a long one as we sort of did a Spotify Wrapped but for Autistic traits...but we hope you'll grab a cuppa and join us anyway!Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 19 contains: - Post-Christmas Catchup - More about meltdowns - A reintroduction to our podcast for new listeners/viewers - Main section - 10 things we've each learned about Autism and how our autistic traits have impacted us - Big butt starfishPodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites: - Bit of basket - Side oak is the best - Walking Waffle - Peeled in Court - Ray Rate. Traits lists available via Emma's website: https://navigatingneurodivergence.co.uk/ Main Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/ Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast! #autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic #audhd #podcast

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    Episode 18: The Christmas One (Pinch of Soul)

    It's the Christmas episode of our podcast about our lives as late-diagnosed/discovered neurodivergent people! Thank you all for joining us this year, we hope you've found some of our ramblings useful!Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 18 contains:- Intro section - Emma's steam cleaner and ADHD meds, and Claire's use of AI to help curtail a meltdown.- Claire's 'Tismversary.- Main Section - Christmas, and the ways Autistic traits can impact this.- Animal fact corner - Sloths & piano playing octopuses.Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Here's some of our other favourites:- Marble Yeah- Take off the influence- Char Win- Rico Friendly- My first era of Autism- Sloth Acts- Mums unboxing day- Party field- Lost needs sofas- Slot Facts.Festive Rave Music by Maksym Dudchyk: https://pixabay.com/music/techno-trance-the-nutcracker-electro-house-version-dance-of-the-sugar-plum-fairy-173835/Tako the piano playing octopus & his friend Mattias Krantz: https://youtu.be/PcWnQ7fYzwI?si=mYS-GC1cf3HJHcG3Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast!#autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic #audhd #podcast

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    Episode 17: June Spoon

    Thanks for joining us for episode 17 of our podcast about our lives as late-diagnosed/discovered neurodivergent people! This time, we are having a #spoonless episode, and that's OK! This means a less structured version of the podcast, so no autistic trait of the week or hyperfocuses.Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 17 contains:- Why there's no spoons- Emma's ADHD medication experiences in week 1- Claire's routine change, and how this has affected her this week- Was Hitler AuDHD? We watched the new Channel 4 documentary, Hitler's DNA: Blueprint of a Serial Killer and discussed this- Manatee facts, sofa sloths, and things that definitely aren't true about manatee and sloth teethPodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Because of the spoon deficit this week, we only had one other choice! "Prototype Ram's Wedding". We think we chose correctly.Main Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast! #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic #audhd #podcast

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    Episode 16: Susan Whatnot

    Thanks for joining us for episode 16 of our podcast about our lives as late-diagnosed neurodivergent people!Links to where you can find us are here as always:⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 16 contains:- Catch up - Claire's week of increased socialisation, Emma's petrol woes, Claire's petrol wins, and Emma's trip to HyperJapan- Main segment - Accessing healthcare and reasonable adjustments- Trait of the week - Social justice (strong sense of morals).- Lemur v*ginasPodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- Autism verse three- It was a nice tooth- Thinking about with rage- Little bon tart- Rave bone- One of the meats- Your mouse isn't gonna feel any different- Bob Martiner- Techno for an answer- Very divergent people- The maths lady- Liam of v*ginas- An interesting a*al factorMain Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/Autism passport: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/physical-health/my-health-passport Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast! #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic #audhd #podcast

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    Episode 15: Is He Gary?

    Welcome along to Episode 15!Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 15 contains:- Hyperfocuses of the week - Claire's work realisations, and Emma's eventful few weeks (involving dentists, mushrooms, new cars and kittens).- Main segment - Hate in the Autistic community (thanks to AuDHDarcie on TikTok for the rant inspiration (rantspiration?) https://www.tiktok.com/@audhdarcie )- Trait of the week - Naming thingsPodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- Coordination Street- Ferret bombs- Yorksh*terrier- Blue Recommends That- Kerry Badnock- Mabel the MoerMain Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism).Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast! #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic #audhd #podcast

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    Episode 14: Similar to Tom Katz

    After a little break, we're pleased to share Episode 14!Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 14 contains:- Hyperfocuses of the week - Claire's eventful Benidorm trip, and Emma's Minecraft self-care. Also books and Bob Mortimer.- Main segment - ADHD traits versus Autism traits, and how these can be challenging for AuDHDers.- Trait of the week - Food quirks.- Ferret genitals (sorry).Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- This Zuma Complex- She's just a lu- Bruce Jones- Obviously naughty boys podcast- We can't click on things- AuDHD dangle- Big happy T based community- Trya I Think- Weird food chip- Lay a vienetta- Therapy penises- Diamond SoupMake us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast! #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic #audhd #podcast

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    Episode 13: Trish K Phobia

    We've made it to Episode 13 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed #Autistic #AuDHD people! Trish K Phobia is all out of spoons, but at least she showed up. Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ Episode 13 is a spoonless episode, meaning less of a structure to give our brains a break, but expect ramblings about:- Why there's no spoons- Television we've been watching - Paracetamol and autism- Why not knowing about world events doesn't mean we don't care- Mushrooms- Turtles- Anglerfish (and Emma's trip to the Sea Life Centre)- Completionism Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness (and we have to admit, after Trish arrived, we sort of gave up looking for other options). If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- 13 Boys Everywhere in my Life - She Came to the Surface to Diary- Sharon Dotie Parton- Raven in our minds- Vox Chop Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast! #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic

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    Episode 12: I've Got A Bus Cat

    Welcome to Episode 12 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed #Autistic #AuDHD people! In this episode, you probably won't find out what a Bus Cat is, but please listen anyway! Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ In episode 12:The Steps Musical, and our trip to Manchester.Our main segment - RuminationTrait of the week - Struggling to filter soundsFurther workshopping of what may be the world's first Autism Musical, Les Puzzlerables.Elephants, star nosed moles, and Barry from EastendersPodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:Player is not compatibleLay Puzzle AlaBewitched to her on FridayBewitched CulinarySail AvieOlas is talking to the blokeThe Vegas PodcastExternal BowlsThe star knows them allWhen she finishes the Crum PittsMain Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg...Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals, or Autism queries (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far! #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic

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    Episode 11: Bending Off Crabs

    Welcome to Episode 11 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed #Autistic #AuDHD people! This time, we're bending crabs off...whatever that means! This one is a tangent extravaganza, but we do also talk 'Tism occasionally. We hope you like the episode either way! Links to where you can find us are here as always: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism⁠ but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ In episode 11:- Holidays, and how the 'Tism (and ADHD) might affect what we need from a break- Our main segment - Menopause, perimenopause and hormones and neurodivergence (if that's not for you, that's OK and you can skip from about 25:30 - 43:00)- Trait of the week - neglecting needs, and interoception- Planes, spiders (again...apparently we just like them), Benidorm, fruit flies and who would play us in the musical version of this podcastPodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- 'Cause I'm Jingo- Two nights in Burrowing Furnace- Nice censors of the Wind- The Bleeding Beam- M Positive Spider- Motorised Cream- Lay puzzle of Arabic- Jeff & Boring- You & McGregor- Let's puzzle of our bladesMain Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=music&utm_content=231592⁠ Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals (so we don't have to talk about crabs). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far! #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic

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    Episode 10: Les Puzzles

    We're super excited to say we have made it to Episode 10 of our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed #Autistic #AuDHD people! Meet Les Puzzles…we don’t know much about him but we think he’s a distant cousin of Jeff.Links to where you can find us are here as always: https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠ In episode ten we cover: What we've been up to, and our hyperfocuses of the week (work things, meltdowns, Japanese festivals and camping)Our main segment - Avoiding endingsTrait of the week - Temperature sensitivityEchidnas (because we can) Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:Yes, were harmedWasp or bee stinkAn artistic brainMy feet had flowMum lizard, actuallyOne of the owlsRate of the weekLayer her upThank you so much to some godsA different fact about kidneysKnuckles isn’t a kidneyKidneys are called Les Main Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=music&utm_content=231592 Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals. Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far! #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic

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    Episode 9: Pain. And Jeff. (Jeff Motto for Life)

    Welcome along to Episode 9 of That'll Be The 'Tism, our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed #Autistic #AuDHD people! No Jeffs were harmed in the making of this episode, but thanks to Descript, we nearly were.Links to where you can find us are here as always: https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠In episode nine, we'll cover:- What we've been up to, and our hyperfocuses of the week (crochet, Duolingo and...death).- Main segment - pain.- Trait of the week - competitiveness.- Willow Ptarmigans: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLO-F-SCawn/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. In fact, this time it was a combination of two, which made us laugh so much we nearly expired. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- Do you not wanna understand baptism?- Don't take this person there.- Scarf Again- Duolingo lingo- An actual arrive- I like to go 11 seconds- Fat tiny fairy massage- Tiny fury massage- Everything's prime- My throat swollen up- Mat tour was BenMain Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=music&utm_content=231592Make us happy by sending us cake. And nice animals. Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far!#Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic

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    Episode 8: Tiny Furry Massage

    Episode 8 of That'll Be The 'Tism, our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed #Autistic #AuDHD people is here. It's another spoonfree episode from us, so a bit of a random one, but we hope you'll still enjoy! NSFW from 33 - 43 minutes ...sorry!Links to where you can find us are here as always: https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism but why not follow us so you get notified about our next episode?⁠In episode eight, we'll cover:- Why the spoons are gone- Why Autism is not an excuse (and some recent media coverage of a well known person who disclosed their diagnosis this past week)- Lobsters (thanks to Rich Pink for this one) https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNHgqxMvj6V7J-iuvTv/- The Outhere Brothers (slightly NSFW)- Should we get cake for being Autistic?Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- Little deep headings- NT towers/Old Towers- Bulb bulk bit- A free clown has a silver toad- Waterfall this morning- Early naughty memeMake us happy by sending us cake. Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far!#Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic

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    Episode 7: The Bear I Was Waiting For

    Episode 7 of our podcast about being neurodivergent (amongst other things, including some not suitable for work stuff, caution from about 46 minutes onwards!) is here! In this episode, we discuss:- Why Emma doesn't have a fan- The British weather- Hyperfocuses of the week (#pride and all its forms - Emma's coming out story, and Claire's work 'Tism unveiling).- Main section - Energy Management (do as we say, not as we do...)- Trait of the week - Perfectionism- Tangent of the week - and a warning, this one is a bit NSFW...pseudo penises.Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- Talked into yourself- We're using her on a night- Wonder sensitive- Dying in the seed- Well swell that ends well- Little puddles or big pillows- Slowdown Ray- Managing manager levels- No road divergent- That's straight weekMargarita ducks: https://www.tiktok.com/@cheese.and.quacke7/video/7518568091282853134?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7492815047418594838Main Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson: ⁠https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=music&utm_content=231592Let us know if you have anything you'd like us to talk about anything in a future episode (this can include interesting animals, TikToks or food items as well as Autistic things). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far! https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism#Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic #audhd #podcast

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    Episode 6: One Pair Of Shots

    It's Episode 6, as far as we can tell. And apparently most podcasts don't get this far, so yay to us! We'd love to say normal service has resumed, but who wants to be normal anyway? In this episode of our podcast about our lives as neurodivergent people, we discuss:The British weatherClothing issuesToileting issuesEmma's new branding (her hyperfocus of the week)Our main section (stereotypes of Autism)Trait of the week (taking things literally)Pigeons, Pikas and SheepPodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:The mo of the storyAre you a but person?It's a big timeDo you not need a coach?It gets softer every dayGood luck toursTarantula of the weekWe need to talk about peakersPeakers and horror mars12 peak of screechingWhat is gra?Not on top of Nigel, because that would be me.Main Section Rave Music by Peter Bengtsson Plattenberg - PixabayNigel the Pigeon and his lovely Frog Wife: https://www.tiktok.com/@nigelthepetpigeon/video/7515798558470114582?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7492815047418594838Let us know if you have anything you'd like us to talk about anything in a future episode (this can include interesting animals, TikToks or food items as well as Autistic things). Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far! https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetism#Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent #autistic #actuallyautistic #audhd

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    Episode 5: Normalcy Horses (All The Spoons Are Gone)

    We’ve made it to Episode 5, but it’s a different one from us because all our spoons are hiding down the back of the sofa. Normal service will hopefully resume in Episode 6, but in the meantime you can expect ramble chats about:​ Holidays (and why they can leave us needing another one)​ Change (and why that can take time to adjust to)​ Grief​ Date mix ups, and why mistakes are OK​ Mantis shrimps are cool (go and check out Ludo and his human Amy at ​ Duolingo is helpfulPodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness (this time with an added phrase which sums up our current state). If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:​ There was people on the tower​ The bleeding gulf​ Not something I ever thought about in Malawi​ There’s a glamp in place ​ Shaken me to the car​ I remembered the clock has existed​ Very small of things​ Streak birds​ Much is grassier, adiosMake us happy by sending us cake, and animal pictures. Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far! That'll Be The 'Tism | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok | Linktree#Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent

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    Episode 4: Kangaroos Reading Recently

    Here we are with episode four of 'That'll Be The 'Tism'. Our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed #Autistic #AuDHD people is now LIVE! Our fourth episode is definitely taking the phrase 'business at the front, party at the back' to heart - from about 45 minutes in, we deviate from the plan and the result is definitely worth listening to, we'd say! In episode four, we cover:- Eurovision- Our hyperfocus of the week (work things)- Reasonable adjustments in the workplace- Negative self-talk, how and where that crops up and why beating ourselves up doesn't work- Our trait of the week, stimming- Australian wildlife. Yes really.Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- Whisk The Matcher- Your Revision- Absolutely Love Your Vision- Podcast Fantastic- Artistic People Mixed Up With Mice- Link to Ya Ee SlashEmma's book collaboration, Children's Mental Health Matters, is available now!If your Marketplace isn’t listed below, you can go to Amazon and type in ‘Children’s Mental Health Matters, A collaborative project by Cassie Swift’ as it is available Worldwide:Kindle Link: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Childrens-Mental.../dp/B0F1NJSRG1 UK PAPERBACK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1739617959US PAPERBACK: https://www.amazon.com/Childrens-Mental.../dp/1739617959Make us happy by sending us cake, and animal pictures. Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far! https://linktr.ee/thatllbethetismMain Section Rave music provided by Peter Bengtsson https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg#Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent

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    Episode 3: Showing Cheese or Autistic People

    Is three the magic number? Who knows, but episode three of That'll Be The 'Tism, our podcast about our lives as late diagnosed #Autistic #AuDHD people is now LIVE!In episode three, we'll cover:Our hyperfocus of the week - Emma's 40th Birthday shenanigansMasking; how this can present in Autistic people, and how it effects usOur trait of the week (heavily influenced by the hyperfocus of the week!), recharge time.Podcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:Off to hammer computerPeeing was the problemNeither of us are wrappersI've never seen the rumblesLovely long term5000 piece chick sawKate of the weekWhy does the throw always happen?Cheese is a problem.Make us happy by sending us cake. Alternatively, you could just follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). Remember, we love your feedback, so let us know how you're finding the podcast so far! That'll Be The 'Tism | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok | LinktreeMain Section Rave contains music by from #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent

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    Episode 2: Stick On Little Legs

    We did it! We kept to schedule twice in a row #thatllbethehyperfocus Welcome to episode two of That'll Be The 'Tism!In this episode, expect ramble chats about:- Emma’s hyperfocus of the month (her top 40 at 40)- Our paths to recognising the ‘Tism in our lives, and to diagnosis- Secret Pet Giraffes- Our chosen trait of the week (black and white thinking)Resources mentioned:- Exploring Neurodivergence webinars & traits lists - navigatingneurodivergence.co.uk- Book - "Your Child Is Not Broken" by Heidi MavirPodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know! Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:- Demand For Applause- Get Into The Mug- The People Aren't Jesus- It's a Book About Mind- Navigating Near Version Stock Credit.It would be fab it if you follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @thatll.be.the.tism). You can let us know how you’re finding the series so far and we’ll also keep you up to date on future episodes. Music credit for the mid section rave: https://pixabay.com/users/plattenberg-627976/ #Autism #Newpodcast #neurodivergent

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    Episode 1: An Ice Cream Fan Can Only Get Better

    Welcome along to the first episode in our podcast about life as late diagnosed #Autistic #AuDHD people.In episode one, we discuss:Our hyperfocus of the weekOur friendship origin storyNeurodivergent communities, and how these can be helpfulAre geese autistic? Maybe!Our trait of the week - Comfort items; their link to our feelings of safety and how they can help us regulatePodcast easter egg; We've named this episode after our favourite example of transcription silliness. If you spot where in the podcast this cropped up, let us know!Other contenders (if you want to try to spot those too) included:If Sidehook's WatchingWhy we can't blow the podcastLast one to post windYou were already at massThat bold claim boyThis is my fidget of the surgeryNot sponsored by DThat picture of a cow is now youWe'd love it if you could follow us on our socials (@thatllbethetism on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok) where you can let us know if you've enjoyed Episode One and be notified about future episodes. All the things are in our Linktree.#Autism #Newpodcast #Neurodivergent

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

We are Emma and Claire, and we are late diagnosed AuDHD and autistic... this podcast is us talking about our journeys, through initially learning about autism (and ADHD) in our thirties to discovering how that impacts us personally, and why our neurodivergent brains work like they do.

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