The Inside Job

In this episode of the Inside Job Podcast, we explore the concept that individuals are powerful creators of their own reality and experience. We discuss the significant role of choice in shaping our lives and how every decision can lead us closer to or further from the person we wish to become. We examine how unconscious choices, based on deep-seated beliefs and assumptions, can covertly influence our actions and the importance of awareness in recognising and transforming these patterns. In the episode we cover practical strategies for becoming more present, making conscious choices aligned with desired outcomes and employing mindfulness and coaching to upgrade your 'operating system,' to create a more authentic and fulfilling life. We hope you enjoy this episodes, and encourage you to find some space to check in with the two big questions we ask in the episode. Let us know how you get on at [email protected] highlights: 01:39 Unpacking the Power of Choice07:29 Exploring the Impact of Assumptions and Beliefs11:20 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Transformation17:37 Practical Steps Towards Creating Your Reality28:34 Deep Dive into Assumptions and Their Influence35:39 Embodying Your Desired RealityMake sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode we are joining you remotely, as Caspar enjoys his trip to Goa and I'm at home in Brighton. We explore the concept of leadership, not in the conventional sense of leading others in business, but as staying true and authentic to our values.As ever, we talk about our own experience and the courage it takes to make choices that reflect personal authenticity. We leave you with practical steps for discovering and living by your values and purpose, such as reflection, mindfulness practices, and asking yourself powerful questions to guide you.We hope you enjoy this episodes, and encourage you to find some space to check in with the two big questions we ask in the episode. Let us know how you get on at [email protected] highlights: 02:41 Exploring the Importance of Defining Leadership for Ourselves03:36 The Power of Inner Leadership and Personal Choices04:51 Taking 100% Responsibility: The Essence of Inner Leadership07:21 The Journey of Self-Leadership: From Awareness to Action14:03 Mindfulness and Reflection: Tools for Inner Leadership20:53 Values and Choices: The Core of Inner LeadershipMake sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of the Inside Job podcast, we delve into the concept of transformation, exploring its significance and how it can lead men to lead more purposeful, authentic, and fulfilling lives. We discuss the nature of transformation as a shift from one state to another and offer insights into our own personal transformative journeys.The conversation also touches on strategies for navigating this journey, such as gratitude practices, journaling, and fostering an honest relationship with oneself. We hope this episode supports you to get curious about how you're feeling right now and where there might be room for self reflection as a means for gentle transformation. And if you need support with that please get in touch with us at [email protected] highlights: 07:56 The Coaching Perspective: Unpacking Identity and Purpose11:01 Creating Awareness and the Path to Optimal Wellbeing23:56 Why Transform? Understanding the Drive for Fulfillment34:29 Strategies for Inner Transformation43:57 Disrupting Ourselves: The Path to Present Moment AwarenessReferenced in the episode: Buddhist 'father of mindfulness' Thich Nhat HanhMake sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode we discuss the role of courage in personal growth and explore how it's a key component of inner alchemy, the process of change and transformation. We dive into what this looks like practically both on a small scale, like braving a cold sea swim, and larger life-changing breakthroughs, like shifting careers or relocating. Ultimately, we want to show you that living courageously involves choosing to live consciously, intentionally, and in alignment with one's own values, despite the associated fears and discomfort.Episode highlights: 04:21 Recognising the Need for Change13:08 The Sliding Scale of Courage26:37 Living Courageously: A Conscious Choice30:43 Facing Fear and Embracing Failure49:42 The Impact of Following Your HeartIf this episode has called you to work with either of us please reach out at [email protected] and make sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we explore the concept of emotional triggers and how they can lead to personal growth. We chat about how triggers often originate from childhood experiences and can cause discomfort and reactive responses in adulthood.We dive into strategies for managing triggers and invite you to view them as opportunities for expanded self-awareness and as doorways to richer and fulfilling lives.Episode highlights: 05:06 Recognising and Responding to Triggers20:52 The Power of Breath37:23 The Transformational Power of Exploring TriggersIf this episode has called you to work with either of us please reach out at [email protected] and make sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode we dive into the idea of what it truly means to thrive. Inspired by Dave's recent beach walks we share how we've experienced periods of burnout, imbalance, and dissatisfaction, and how we've learned to navigate our life with more intentionality, conscious choices and purpose.If you want to do more than just survive, instead learning to thrive, this episode will show you the practical steps and theory we use with our coaching clients to do just that.Episode highlights: 01:12 Exploring the Meaning of Thriving06:36 The Role of Physical Well-being in Thriving16:43 Creating a Vision for Thriving26:57 The Importance of Conscious Daily Routines28:50 The Impact of Burnout and the Path to Recovery35:57 The Power of Small Changes and Micro AdjustmentsMentioned in the episode:The Aggregation of Marginal Gains theory by Dave BrailsfordIf this episode has called you to work with either of us please reach out at [email protected] and make sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today's episode we're diving into the idea of taking radical responsibility for your life, what that means, and the impact that it has, whether we choose to live with radical responsibility or not. It's our core belief that taking radical responsibility is the ket to living optimally, with ease and authenticity but to do so requires inner work and, as we share our own personal reflections, isn't always easy.This is a potentially confronting episode but one that'll leave you inspired and full of practical ways to start experimenting with taking radical responsibility for your life.Episode highlights:04:12 The Concept of 100% Responsibility13:38 Understanding the Drama Triangle24:59 The Drama Triangle vs The Empowerment Triangle26:17 Radical Love and Responsibility26:46 Modelling Responsibility and Trust for Others31:29 The Power of Intuition and Vision in Decision Making36:27 The Role of Coaching in Taking Responsibility39:33 The Impact of Taking Responsibility in RelationshipsMentioned in the episode:The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership: A New Paradigm for Sustainable Success by Jim Dethmer Man's Search for Meaning by Victor FranklThe Inside Job podcast episode on Optimal Wellbeing The Power of Ted by David Emerald Radical Love: From Separation to Connection with the Earth, Each Other, and Ourselves by Satish KumarIf this episode has called you to work with either of us please reach out at [email protected] and make sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today we delve into the topic of 'Ease'. We discuss our personal experiences of ease and dis-ease, framing both as an embodied experience and as a response to life's challenges.As a bonus we also explore how establishing daily routines can promote ease within daily life and invite you to self-reflect on the presence of ease in your lives too.Episode highlights: 05:40 Understanding Dis-ease and Its Impact17:25 The Importance of Rest and Recovery21:17 Practical Steps to Cultivate Ease21:28 The Power of Morning Routines35:06 The Impact of Environment on Ease43:53 The Role of Mindset and Beliefs51:09 Closing Thoughts and InvitationAs ever, we'd love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected] and make sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode we discuss the concept of purpose in relation to living fulfilling lives. We discuss the connection between optimum well-being and living a purposeful life and share some thought exercises to help you identify your life purpose.Episode highlights: (00:43) Defining Purpose(05:00) Purpose as a Navigation Aid(14:18) Recognizing the Need for Change(18:20) The Connection Between Purpose and Wellbeing(24:19) The Interplay of Purpose and Values(35:31) An Invitation to Reflect and Connect with PurposeAs ever, we'd love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected] and make sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the past couple of episodes you'll have heard us discuss the concept of optimal wellbeing and in this episode we dive straight into what it is, why it's important and how we centre it as an integral part of our lives.  Today Caspar shares his personal journey towards optimal well-being, which emphasises being well in every area of your life. We discuss how being attentive to both physical and psychological health and applying mindful strategies plays a significant role in achieving optimal wellbeing. And we highlight the importance of self-reflection and refinement, having a morning routine, and developing an abundance mindset.We mentioned the Circle of Life (or Wheel of Life) exercise in the episode and here is where you can download it to use in your optimal wellbeing journey.Here are the highlights:09:17 The Dynamic Nature of Optimal Wellbeing22:41 Experiencing Optimal Wellbeing in Everyday Life26:03 The Power of Mindset in Stress Management36:10 Creating a Morning Routine43:52 Slowing Down for Optimal WellbeingAs ever, we'd love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected] and make sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In our second episode we want you to get to know us and why we started The Inside Job Podcast. We explore our ultimate mission and open up about the evolution of the podcast and its intention to provide empowering insights and advice for men. We both elaborate on how the process of inward self-inquiry and 'inner alchemy' can lead to transformation and, as a bonus, share our personal backgrounds and coaching experience, connecting our present roles to a lifelong journey of service to others through coaching.Here are the highlights:00:51 The Journey of Starting the Podcast05:30 The Journey of Inner Inquiry07:58 Dave's Journey to Becoming a Transformational Coach10:10 Casper's Journey to Becoming a Transformational Life Coach17:01 The Importance of Self Care and Mind-Body ConnectionAs ever, we'd love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected] and make sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to the Inside Job Podcast with your hosts, David Evans and Casper Chittendon. We're two Brighton-based life coaches on a mission to help men lead more purposeful, authentic, and fulfilling lives. So let us take you on a journey as we explore what keeps men stuck and discover the empowering beliefs, fresh conditioning, and growth mindsets that lead us to live life to the fullest. What's keeping you stuck? In this episode we explore how working on our 'inside job' is the key to unlocking our potential.Tune into this first episode and get to know us a little better!Here are the highlights:0:58 What is The Inside Job?04:50 The catalyst for starting the podcast11:04 Opting out of our default life14:08 Defining success on our own terms17:04 Finding your purposeWe'd love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected] and make sure you subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.