The Knowing... A Life in Stories Podcast with Jesse de Leon

Do you struggle with overcoming grudges or finding meaningful conversations that truly resonate with your soul? In this episode, Jesse De Leon dives into the necessity of forgiveness and the importance of spiritual growth in our everyday lives. 🕊️ Jesse breaks down how gossiping can hinder our progress and how practicing the art of listening can open doors to unexpected friendships and new opportunities. From his recent encounter with a fighter pilot to his personal tips on maintaining a healthy, balanced lifestyle, Jesse provides a roadmap for anyone feeling stuck or searching for direction. If you need a gentle nudge to let go of the past and embrace a future filled with peace, this episode is for you. Learn to silence the noise, focus on your potential, and cultivate stronger bonds with those around you. Subscribe to The Knowing, join our YouTube channel, and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for more stories! 🚀✨   00:00 Introduction and Podcast Vision 01:12 The Power of Confession 03:50 Trusting the Holy Spirit 05:55 Overcoming Lingering Grudges 08:21 The Dangers of Gossip 11:20 Mastering Active Listening 13:13 The Fighter Pilot Story 14:38 Making New Friends 15:19 Skincare and Health Tips 16:59 The Importance of Reading

Host Jesse de Leon dives deep into the spiritual and emotional journey of coming out of the "dark closet" and into a life of authenticity. Using the story of King David and his own powerful experience in the confessional, Jesse explains how fear often acts as a barrier to our true purpose. 🕯️ This episode offers a compassionate roadmap for those struggling with guilt or feeling like a "perpetual liar," proving that your perceived imperfections are exactly where God's light wants to shine. Join us for a discussion that is as liberating as it is heartfelt. 🙏   Subscribe to the podcast, join our YouTube channel, and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for future content.   00:00 Introduction to The Knowing 01:05 Facing the Darkness of Shame 02:18 The Power of Vulnerable Confession 03:32 Lessons from the Anointing of David 05:40 Overcoming Fear and Running Toward the Roar 07:22 Living as Children of Light 08:21 Jesse's Journey: Coming Out of Secrecy 09:44 Healing Through Family Acceptance 10:45 Breaking Free from Addiction 12:15 Understanding Unanswered Prayers 13:40 The Freedom of Being Known by Friends 15:10 Men and the Courage to Love 16:15 Defeating the Shadows of Self-Loathing 17:35 Choosing to See the Heart of Others 18:10 Conclusion: Walking Together in the Light

Join Jesse de Leon for an uplifting discussion on the art of giving—not just of your resources, but of your time and your heart. Jesse reflects on his recent experiences supporting family and friends through the grieving process, offering a masterclass in "brutal honesty" vs. "loving truth." He shares a touching story about encouraging a widow to find her inner light and reminds us that love doesn't die just because a body does. This episode serves as a roadmap for anyone looking to deepen their relationships through intentional listening and selfless acts of service. Whether it's helping a neighbor or simply holding space for a friend's tears, you'll learn why every "little bit" of yourself you give matters more than you know.   Subscribe to the podcast and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for future content.   00:00 Introduction to The Knowing Podcast 00:52 Welcome back with Jesse de Leon 01:13 Asking the Question: Are You There? 01:39 Supporting a Sister Through Grief 02:29 The Sacred Power of Tears 03:32 Finding the Holy Spirit in Mourning 04:42 The Intuition of Visiting Family 05:22 Healing Properties of Nature and Gardening 06:44 The Importance of Energetic Reset 07:54 Listening to Strangers and Loved Ones 08:38 Honesty vs. Delivering Messages with Love 10:00 The Impact of Small Monetary Gifts 10:25 Honoring a Life at Funeral Services 12:23 Finding Hope in Lasting Love 13:49 Drawing Strength from Community Support 15:34 Why Memories Never Truly Fade 16:58 Actionable Steps for Meaningful Connection 17:49 Final Encouragement and Closing Remarks

Jesse de Leon gets honest about doubt, grace, and the emotional weight of guilt in this powerful episode of The Knowing. He tackles the hard questions: Why does God allow suffering? Why do we struggle to forgive ourselves? And why is faith so challenging even for believers? Through stories about family, missed goals, personal slumps, and everyday setbacks, Jesse reminds us that belief doesn't require perfection—it requires hope. He explains how shame keeps us stuck, but grace allows us to rise again tomorrow. If you've fallen short in your fitness, relationships, faith, or purpose, this conversation will help you release the heaviness and move forward with courage.   ✨ Subscribe now and follow @the_jesse_de_leon to stay connected for future episodes.   00:00 Why Is Faith So Hard? 01:15 What Is Faith & Grace? 02:30 The Gift You Can't See 03:25 Why Do Bad Things Happen? 04:30 Understanding God's Permitting Will 05:40 Parenting, Love & Letting Go 07:00 Faith During Life Transitions 08:45 Even the Disciples Doubted 10:20 Give Yourself Grace 11:30 Does Faith Mean Giving Up Fun? 12:45 The Power of Self-Forgiveness 14:15 Breaking Free From Shame 15:30 Falling Short of Goals 16:45 Slumps, Support & Accountability 17:45 Run Toward the Struggle 18:45 Receiving Unseen Grace 19:40 Start Again Tomorrow

How much are you willing to invest in your future health and happiness today? Jesse de Leon opens up about the reality of turning 62 and why he believes you are your own best investment. This episode dives into the crucial intersection of financial planning and physical well-being, urging listeners in their 20s, 30s, and 40s to start planning now. Jesse discusses the "rainy day" realities of home maintenance, the transition from expensive vintages to $15 wine gems, and the importance of whole foods over statins. He offers a vulnerable look at the ups and downs of entrepreneurship, admitting to times of overspending and the discipline required to course-correct. By looking at retirement through the lens of spirituality and common sense, Jesse provides a refreshing perspective on aging with grace and intention.   Subscribe to the podcast and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for more life stories and inspiration.   00:00 Introduction to The Knowing Podcast 00:48 Facing the Reality of Retirement 01:13 Feeling Young While Turning 62 01:34 Health and Diet as Investments 02:14 Defining "Enough" for Your Future 02:48 Calculating Real Retirement Expenses 04:13 Lessons from My Younger Years 04:47 Creating an Expenditure List 05:15 Financial Discipline for Self-Employed 06:05 Investing in the Stock Market 06:55 Advice for the Next Generation 07:44 Being Vulnerable About Financial Mistakes 08:24 Cutting Costs Without Losing Quality 09:46 Navigating Social Security and Medicare 10:30 Seeking Advice from Financial Experts 11:23 Power of Community and Feedback 12:05 Health Habits for Longevity 13:00 Identifying What Makes You Happy 13:58 Take Action and Final Blessings

Feeling unsafe during a conflict usually leads to one of two things: explosive anger or total withdrawal. Jesse de Leon explores the middle path in this moving episode, documenting his journey from "shutting down" to standing his ground with grace. Jesse discusses the importance of eye contact, active listening, and the bravery required to call out inappropriate behavior in real-time. Whether it's a sibling, a partner, or a lifelong friend, the people who matter most deserve your honesty, not your absence. Tune in to hear how Jesse navigated a heated debate to reach a place of mutual respect and renewed trust.   Subscribe to The Knowing and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for more life-changing stories.   00:00 Welcome to The Knowing Podcast 00:48 Power of Empowering Conversations 02:00 Crucial Conversations Book Review 03:00 Childhood Impact on Communication 04:00 Tools for High-Stakes Talking 05:10 The Christmas Eve Conflict 06:45 Managing Anger and Confusion 07:50 Addressing Conversation Hijacking 09:25 Value of Vulnerability 10:45 Breaking Old Habit Patterns 11:55 Handling Abrupt Communication 13:40 Learning Assertiveness Skills 15:05 Repairing vs Running From Conflict 16:40 Role Models in Communication 18:15 Healing Relationships Through Action 20:25 Staying in Important Relationships 21:40 Final Thoughts and Resources

  Stepping into a room with confidence doesn't mean you are without fear; it means you are acting despite your doubts. Host Jesse de Leon explores the fascinating gap between how the world perceives us and how we truly feel inside. After a period of feeling uncharacteristically down, Jesse rediscovered his spark by challenging himself to meet one new person every day—proving that most people are just waiting for someone else to be brave enough to say "hello" first. This episode offers a refreshing look at finding joy in the mundane, from hot cocoa on New Year's Eve to the power of a well-fitted pair of Wranglers. Join us for a discussion on why spiritual health and internal joy are the ultimate foundations for a life well-lived.   Subscribe to the podcast and follow @the_jesse_de_leon on social media for future content.   00:00 Introduction to The Knowing 00:46 Defining True Confidence 02:03 Observing Confidence in Public 02:58 ChatGPT Definition of Confidence 03:47 Projecting Images vs. Reality 04:20 A Low-Key New Year's Eve 05:58 Overcoming Post-Holiday Depression 06:58 Starting Resolutions in October 08:02 Overcoming Social Anxiety 09:02 The Power of Saying Hello 10:05 Confidence Beyond Designer Labels 11:51 Don't Let the Car Fool You 12:48 Finding Joy Within 14:05 Prayer for Minnesota and Compassion 15:03 Final Blessings and Farewell

In this episode I talk about what Christmas means for me, the highs and the lows of coming home for the holidays, how giving doesn't have to cost a thing, and more.

In this episode I talk about love, trust, expectation, control, sexuality, and Jesus.

In this episode I talk about the importance of expressing that which we are thankful and grateful for.

In this episode I talk about temperance, what it means, and how we use this gift of the Spirit to manage our alcohol consumption, eating, shopping, exercising, and even sex. Exercising moderation is a beautiful thing. "Everything is always working out for me." by Aaron Wdowin on Instagram at coverthree Cover Three | Brain Health

In this episode I talk about my meal prep plan for the week, what it consist of, the amount of meals I eat per week, and that meal prepping doesn't have to be boring, overwhelming, nor restrictive.

In this episode I talk about my fitness goals, BMI test scores, and my personal workout plan.

In Memory of Charlie Kirk. In this episode, I talk about getting on the other side of a difficult-crucial conversations with peace, love , and grace. Books mentioned in this episode: Crucial Conversations: Tools For Talking When The Stakes Are High Healing The Child Within - Charles Whitfield

In this episode I talk about what gray hair means to me, and whether or not to continue coloring the gray.

In this episode I suggest we share the fire/gifts that live within us to inspire Gods love with the world.

In this episode I talk about how not communicating leads to isolation, mental health wellness, and leaning on those who love us for support. Mark Gresser's Instagram @Trek4youthmentalhealth

In this episode I talk about the importance of being aware of how we communicate with people around us… Do we help them to feel heard, listened to, safe?

In this episode I talk about the importance of a spiritual life, leaning on the right people for consult and mentorship, modeling good behavior, and road rage.

In this episode, I talk about the importance of sharing our faith in how we live it through our acts of kindness, joyfulness, charity, and inclusiveness.

In this episode I talk about trust, trusting love, and trusting God.

In this episode I talk about Loneliness, what Jesus and the Holy Spirit have to do with it, and how loneliness can lead us to making decisions we otherwise wouldn't make.

In this episode I make mention of our new Pope Leo XIV, why I got fired by my tennis coach and what  I was meant to learn from this experience, and how being grateful is better than complaining.

In this episode I talk about Pope Frances and his message to the world, and on how we can live each day serving and loving one another.   Products mentioned:  Celtic Sea Salt Himalayan Sea Salt Theraderm Clinical Skin Care EMK Beverly Hills Skin Care  

In this episode I talk about how the mindset of understanding can strengthen our relationships.  

In this episode I talk about and answer the questions on: Why do I do the podcast? How can I get rid of my inflammation? Metagenics - https://earthsaversonline.metagenics.com/rapid-relief What youthful tips do you have for me? Yooj - https://a.co/d/iLaZq55 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/mLI4FrE9tuU

In this episode I share another personal confession and I talk more about the confessional.

In this episode I talk about the Lenten Season, what Lent means, and how it's a good time to get rid of an old, bad habit.   Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/HWRsp1zU3wU

In this episode I take you into the confessional with me, I talk about one of my confessions, and share the gift I receive from that moment.

In this episode I talk about the insecurity of how I feel when someone asks me my age, why I feel I look as young as I do, and what is my beauty regime. Products I use: Theraderm skin care, EMK Beverly Hills, organic coconut and vitamin E oil.

In this episode I talk about leaving behind our ego, our fear, and our insecurities, as we boldly face the angst and the excitement of saying  a fervent hello to 2025 and a somber goodbye to 2024!

In this episode I talk about remaining hopeful as we move into 2025.

In this episode, I talk about what Christmas means to me, the angst  of Christmas, and one of the many special sacraments of the Catholic faith.

In this episode I talk about how the gift is in not giving up.

In this episode I talk about birthday celebrations, why they're important, and ladies who lunch!

In this episode I talk about Gods grace, what it means, and how it correlates with our memories.

In this episode I talk about dust mites, what they are, and are we sleeping with them.

In this episode I talk about the power of prayer, the importance of staying the course, and how it brings us closer to Him.

In this Episode I talk about sacrificial love, what it means, and how special it is for our soul.

In this episode, I talk about life and its twists and turns. 

In this episode, I talk about the niceties men in your life like to hear.

In this episode I talk about the importance our position and roles as men, plays in our family, in our friendships, and in our communities.

In this episode I talk about trusting when we feel Gods calling us to serve even when it doesn't work out the way we had planned.

In this episode I reference the beautiful and profound quote "You must be the change you want to see in the world" by Mahatma Gandhi.

In this episode I talk about the importance of the virtues compassion, mercy, modesty, and humility and how adapting and practicing these virtues will bring joy into our daily life.

In this episode, I discuss how we are not who people say we are but rather we are who God says we are.

In this episode I talk about procrastination, how it affects me, and what I discovered about why I procrastinate.

In this episode I touch on and talk about my faith and spiritual side, an experience which brought me closer to God, and the insurmountable joy I now feel!

In this episode I talk about love, where it began for us, how we evolved in our experience in love, and how to really learn to love ourselves, that we might allow and invite God and others to love us.

In this episode I talk about why it is important to have good manners, and how good manners can place you ahead of the competition.