The Playful Podcast

In this heartfelt final episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) come together to express their gratitude for the journey they've shared through the podcast. They reflect on their growth, both as individuals and as a collective, as they explored topics like intimacy, relationships, sexuality, and boundaries. The episode is a celebration of friendship, sisterhood, and vulnerability, with each host sharing their personal reflections and the positive impact the podcast has had on their lives. They also talk about the importance of love, communication, and the safe space they’ve created for listeners to learn and grow alongside them._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction to the final episode and Jess’s opening remarks about the journey.[00:02:00] - Ella shares her gratitude for the podcast and how it introduced her to a whole new world of intimacy and boundaries.[00:05:00] - Lisa reflects on her personal growth and how the podcast allowed her to witness her own evolution in polyamory and communication in relationships.[00:10:00] - Jess talks about the initial, innocent start of the podcast, with the idea of making kink collars and how it grew into an exploration of relationships and intimacy.[00:12:00] - Lisa discusses how the podcast has allowed them to be a resource for couples navigating challenges in their relationships.[00:18:00] - Jess acknowledges the vulnerability in sharing their stories and the power of being open and honest.[00:20:00] - Ella talks about her role as the “ambassador” of the audience, asking questions that bring clarity to new listeners.[00:25:00] - The trio reflects on how their journey has impacted their relationships, both individually and collectively.[00:30:00] - Closing reflections on love, sisterhood, and the future projects that the hosts are excited to embark on.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) dive into the topic of consent, the importance of clear communication in intimate relationships, and the phenomenon of "sport squirting." Lisa shares a personal story of an encounter with a man she met through FetLife, where consent, boundaries, and communication played key roles in creating a fun and safe sexual experience. The conversation also covers how some men become obsessed with achieving a woman's orgasm, especially squirting, and the challenges that can arise when the focus shifts away from mutual pleasure. The trio discusses how important it is for women to communicate their needs and boundaries and the impact of clear consent in creating fulfilling experiences._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction to the episode and Jess sets the stage for discussing consent and sport squirting.[00:02:00] - Lisa shares her experience with a man she met through FetLife and the importance of setting boundaries before meeting in person.[00:04:00] - Lisa discusses her decision not to have intercourse with the man initially and how they established mutual consent before engaging in sex.[00:06:00] - Lisa recounts the intense sex they had, including the squirting experience, and how it became an obsession for the man.[00:08:00] - Jess explains the concept of "sport squirting" and how it can become more about achieving a goal than focusing on mutual pleasure.[00:10:00] - Ella shares her thoughts on sport squirting and the importance of focusing on connection rather than performance.[00:12:00] - Discussion about how men can sometimes get too focused on achieving squirting and the emotional toll it can take on women if the focus is not on mutual pleasure.[00:14:00] - Lisa reflects on how she gave feedback to the man, explaining that his focus on her squirting was detracting from their shared experience.[00:16:00] - Jess and Lisa discuss how important it is for women to communicate their boundaries and desires clearly to avoid feeling pressured or used.[00:18:00] - Closing thoughts on the importance of consent, communication, and slowing down in order to build a fulfilling sexual experience._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥•  Daily Mail article (mentioned by Lisa)• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – For after-hours content, workshops, and community access.•  FetLife: A platform for exploring kink and community connections.• OMGYes: A platform where women share how they masturbate, offering educational insights into women’s pleasure and different techniques forSupport the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) explore the power of intuitive touch and its profound impact on intimacy and connection. The discussion contrasts traditional, technical methods of touch with intuitive, present-focused approaches. Jess shares her experiences with intuitive bodywork, particularly with women, and how this method has brought deeper healing and pleasure for both the giver and receiver. Lisa and Ella reflect on their own journeys with touch, learning to slow down and connect more deeply with their partners. The episode emphasizes the importance of slowing down, tuning into the body, and communicating needs to create a truly intimate experience._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction to the episode, Jess sets the stage for discussing intuitive touch and its benefits.[00:02:00] - Jess explains the difference between technical and intuitive approaches to touch and how intuition can lead to deeper connections.[00:03:00] - Ella talks about her experience with slowing down and being more present during intimacy, emphasizing the importance of taking time.[00:05:00] - Discussion on how intuitive touch has helped Ella's relationship, particularly with her partner, and how it has made their connection stronger.[00:06:00] - Lisa reflects on her experience with intuitive touch, particularly when working with men, and how it has improved her ability to be present and more connected.[00:08:00] - Jess shares her experience with a woman who had never received a womb massage and how the process helped release years of sexual trauma.[00:10:00] - The trio discusses how touch can be healing, not just for pleasure but also for emotional release, and the importance of creating a safe space for healing.[00:12:00] - Jess talks about the impact of being present during touch, paying attention to body cues, and the importance of communication with your partner.[00:14:00] - Lisa discusses how slowing down and being present has led to more satisfying experiences in her relationships.[00:16:00] - Closing thoughts on the power of intuitive touch, communication, and presence in creating deep, fulfilling connections._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – For after-hours content, workshops, and community access.• OMGYes: A platform where women can learn about self-pleasure techniques, mentioned for teaching masturbation techniques.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss their experiences with the NJoy toy, a popular sex toy designed to stimulate the prostate and provide intense pleasure. Jess introduces the NJoy toy, explaining how it’s used for both men and women and its effectiveness in inducing strong orgasms. Ella shares her first experience with the toy and how it helped her achieve intense, unexpected pleasure. The conversation expands to include a discussion on circumcised vs. uncircumcised penises, how different men’s bodies respond to touch, and the importance of communication and exploration in sexual pleasure._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction to the episode and a disclaimer for mature audiences.[00:02:00] - Jess introduces the NJoy toy, describing its design and function in stimulating the prostate for both men and women.[00:03:00] - Ella shares her first experience using the NJoy toy with her partner and how it led to multiple orgasms.[00:04:00] - Discussion on the sensation of the toy, including its smoothness, weight, and the pressure it provides to different parts of the body.[00:06:00] - Lisa shares her experiences with the NJoy toy and how it has enhanced her pleasure, particularly in the context of masturbation.[00:08:00] - The trio discusses the differences between circumcised and uncircumcised penises, touching on how each requires different handling and techniques for pleasure.[00:10:00] - Jess talks about how men can be guided to learn how to be touched differently, emphasizing the importance of asking about preferences.[00:12:00] - Ella and Lisa reflect on how they’ve used their experiences with the toy to enhance intimacy and connection with their partners.[00:14:00] - Jess talks about the impact of pleasure and orgasm on relationships, noting that women need more orgasms to improve overall health and well-being.[00:16:00] - Closing thoughts on the importance of exploration, communication, and making time for pleasure and self-care._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – For after-hours content, workshops, and community access.•  NJoy Toy: A stainless steel sex toy designed to provide prostate stimulation, mentioned as a favorite among men and women for its effectiveness and the pleasure it induces.• OMGYes: A platform where women share how they masturbate, offering educational insights into women’s pleasure and different techniques for self-pleasure.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this transformative episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) explore the concept of “opening women up” to connect with their true desires, self-worth, and sensuality. Jess shares her experiences working with clients who struggle with vulnerability, self-expression, and embracing their femininity. Through techniques like guided visualization, mindful touch, and affirmation, Jess helps clients let go of societal shame and reclaim their desires. The hosts discuss the power of creating safe, judgment-free environments, where women can explore intimacy and deepen their self-awareness without fear or guilt._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction to the episode and disclaimer for mature audiences.[00:02:00] - Jess sets the stage for a discussion on how women can open up and embrace their sensuality without shame.[00:03:00] - Ella shares her journey from being more reserved to becoming more open with her partner, partly through inspiration from the podcast.[00:04:00] - Lisa discusses her own experience with self-empowerment, including how she became comfortable with showing her body and receiving positive feedback from men.[00:06:00] - Jess shares insights on how men and women can build trust and intimacy through communication, emphasizing the importance of slow, gentle touch and safe spaces.[00:08:00] - Ella reflects on how her partner has supported her journey, and how she’s learned to communicate her desires more clearly.[00:10:00] - Lisa explains how vulnerability and openness can lead to deep sexual connection, and how she’s learned to ask for what she needs.[00:12:00] - The conversation shifts to discussing aftercare and the importance of checking in with your partner after intimate moments to ensure emotional safety.[00:14:00] - Jess talks about the benefits of allowing yourself to be open, particularly for women who are hesitant about exploring their bodies and desires.[00:16:00] - The trio discusses the ripple effect of sexual empowerment and how it leads to greater confidence in other areas of life.[00:18:00] - Closing thoughts on the importance of creating safe spaces for women to express themselves, prioritize their own pleasure, and step into their power._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – For after-hours content, workshops, and community access.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A tool for understanding consent, boundaries, and mutual pleasure.• OnlyFans: Lisa shares how she uses her OnlyFans page to explore and celebrate her exhibitionist Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this informative episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss vasectomies, addressing common myths, misconceptions, and practical considerations about the procedure. Lisa shares her personal experiences with partners who have chosen vasectomies, explaining how it has positively impacted their relationships and removed the stress of unplanned pregnancy. The hosts explore the benefits of vasectomy as a reliable birth control method and discuss the recovery process, including tips on supporting a partner who has undergone the procedure. They emphasize the importance of open dialogue and mutual decision-making in family planning._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction and disclaimer for mature audiences.[00:02:00] - Jess shares her experience with her partner, who had a vasectomy to ensure they wouldn't have children together, while discussing the process and its benefits.[00:04:00] - Jess talks about the challenges of contraception and the emotional toll it took on her, highlighting the peace of mind a vasectomy provides.[00:06:00] - Ella reflects on her previous experiences with contraception, including the withdrawal method, and how freeing it is now with her partner’s vasectomy.[00:08:00] - Lisa shares her experience with her husband’s vasectomy and how it improved their sex life by removing the stress of unplanned pregnancies.[00:10:00] - The trio discusses the societal stigma around vasectomies and why men should be more open to taking responsibility for contraception.[00:12:00] - Jess talks about how some men may fear vasectomies, while others avoid the process out of uncertainty, and why open communication is crucial.[00:14:00] - The conversation shifts to the broader conversation about STIs and the need for regular testing, especially when having multiple partners.[00:16:00] - Lisa shares her experiences of testing for STIs regularly and the importance of open communication with sexual partners.[00:18:00] - Jess and Lisa reflect on how, despite the challenges, their sexual freedom and connection have been enhanced by these conversations and the decision for their partners to get vasectomies.[00:20:00] - The episode ends with a discussion on setting boundaries, clear communication in sexual relationships, and the importance of being upfront about desires and safety._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – For after-hours content, workshops, and community access.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational tool for understanding boundaries, mutual pleasureSupport the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares an advanced Yoni massage training session, delving into the nuances of providing therapeutic, healing touch. Jess explains that Yoni massage is not purely a sexual experience but a holistic practice designed to help women release tension, reconnect with their bodies, and heal past emotional blocks. She guides listeners through techniques for creating a safe and nurturing environment, including breathing exercises, gentle touch methods, and honoring personal boundaries. Ella (The Virgin) reflects on the power of touch to foster deep connection and emotional release, emphasizing the profound sense of empowerment and self-awareness that comes from engaging with one’s body in a supportive setting._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction to the episode and disclaimer for mature audiences.[00:02:00] - Jess and Lisa share how they set up the private masterclass for male clients, focusing on Yoni worship and external massage techniques.[00:04:00] - Lisa’s perspective as the receiving partner: how the experience made her feel open and receptive.[00:06:00] - Jess explains the importance of non-sexual touch to build trust and relaxation in the receiving partner.[00:08:00] - The contrast between men who are confident and those who are nervous when trying new techniques; Jess provides feedback to help them adjust.[00:10:00] - Lisa discusses how her feedback helped guide the men in improving their touch and creating a more pleasurable experience.[00:12:00] - A detailed look at the different approaches men have to Yoni massage: from trying to mimic sex to using slow, tender touch.[00:14:00] - Jess highlights the importance of going slow and the effect it has on the woman’s body and pleasure.[00:16:00] - Discussion about the feedback from the men after the session, including what they learned and how their confidence improved.[00:18:00] - Lisa reflects on how she has learned to communicate her desires and feedback, and how this helps in both sexual and non-sexual relationships.[00:22:00] - Closing thoughts on the transformative power of learning to touch with care, tenderness, and intention._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – For after-hours content, workshops, and community access.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational resource for understanding boundaries, power dynamics, and mutual pleasure.• FetLife: A platform for kink and BDSM communities.• Pussy Masterclass: A private training session offered by Jess, teaching men the art of YoSupport the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

 In this deeply intimate episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) explore the transformative experience of a Yoni massage and the power of vulnerability in intimacy. Ella shares her experience with Jess, including the intense buildup of sexual energy that led to a profound release through a Yoni massage. Jess discusses the importance of emotional intimacy in unlocking physical pleasure, particularly for women. The conversation expands into body positivity, self-discovery, and the empowerment of women in both private and public settings, touching on experiences of nudity and letting go of societal inhibitions. _____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction and disclaimer for mature audiences.[00:02:00] - Ella shares her experience of struggling with orgasmic release and her emotional journey leading up to the Yoni massage with Jess.[00:04:00] - Jess introduces the concept of the Yoni massage and how it helps women release emotional blockages, focusing on the importance of emotional intimacy first.[00:06:00] - Ella talks about the physical sensations and emotional release during the Yoni massage, including multiple orgasms and squirting.[00:08:00] - Jess explains the technique of the Yoni massage, focusing on gentle, slow touch and feedback from Ella to enhance the experience.[00:10:00] - Discussion about the emotional aspect of the massage, including the heart blockage and how women’s bodies respond when they feel safe and open.[00:12:00] - Ella reflects on how the experience led her to reconnect with her sensuality and the importance of gentle touch.[00:14:00] - Jess discusses her approach to massaging women and the delight of seeing their bodies open up, both physically and emotionally.[00:16:00] - Lisa shares her own experience of giving a Yoni massage, emphasizing the importance of knowing what works for her and being willing to communicate that to her partners.[00:18:00] - Discussion of the power of receiving and how important it is for women to communicate their needs and desires to their partners.[00:20:00] - The trio reflects on the transformative power of vulnerability and being seen, as well as the importance of embracing one’s body without shame.[00:22:00] - Closing thoughts on the importance of body positivity and creating safe spaces for women to explore their sensuality._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast After-Hours Membership: Access to exclusive content, live Q&As, and deeper explorations into intimacy and body positivity.• Jess’s Yoni Massage Services: Jess provides Yoni massages Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Lisa (The Poly Wife) shares her experiences with service submissives, discussing how she is currently attracting men who are eager to please and serve her. Lisa talks about her evolving dynamics, including a recent encounter with a man who is enthusiastic about being her "service sub." She shares intimate moments from their interactions, such as performing tasks and receiving pleasure from his willingness to serve. Jess (The Playful Domme) provides insight into the difference between a service sub and other submissive roles, discussing the deeper layers of submission and the dynamic of a female-led relationship. The conversation also touches on the balance between communication, boundaries, and trust in kink._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction to the episode, including the disclaimer and setup for Lisa’s updates.[00:02:00] - Lisa shares her experiences with two men she’s currently dating and their eagerness to please her.[00:04:00] - The Parking Lot Guy: Story of Lisa meeting a man who offered to help her move and was willing to serve her by performing tasks.[00:06:00] - Introduction to the concept of service submission: Lisa’s experience with a man who eagerly helps her with tasks like cleaning and exercise.[00:10:00] - Floggers and Dragon’s Tail: Lisa describes experimenting with light BDSM play, using floggers and other tools to test boundaries.[00:12:00] - The Shift in Dynamics: Lisa reflects on her past relationship dynamics and how this new experience with service submission feels empowering and refreshing.[00:15:00] - Female-Led Relationships: Jess discusses the concept of female-led relationships and how a true service sub approaches their role with humility and devotion.[00:18:00] - Lisa talks about the contrast between her previous experiences with alpha men and her current relationship with a service sub.[00:21:00] - Lisa reflects on the psychological aspects of being served and how it impacts her sense of fulfillment.[00:23:00] - Lisa’s insight into the trust-building aspect of being in a service submission dynamic and the deeper emotional connection it creates.[00:28:00] - Closing thoughts on how the experience has transformed her understanding of relationships and submission._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – For after-hours content, workshops, and community engagement.• FetLife: Mentioned as a resource for exploring kink and creating profiles in the BDSM community.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational tool for understanding giving, receiving, anSupport the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Lisa (The Poly Wife) shares her experiences in Salt Lake City, where she explores both dating and new BDSM practices. She recounts meeting a potential partner for a spontaneous and playful encounter, which led to unexpected complexities in his open relationship. Lisa also describes attending a hypno-kink workshop, which helped her expand her tolerance for BDSM pain play. She met an experienced "service top" who guided her through an intense, consensual scene involving staples, corset play, and impact techniques. The hosts discuss the importance of trust, boundary negotiation, and aftercare in kink, highlighting how communication and clear protocols create a safe environment for exploration._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Introduction to the episode and disclaimer for mature audiences.[00:02:00] - Lisa shares her Salt Lake City adventures, including a fun date and a spontaneous intimate session in a car.[00:04:00] - Lisa talks about attending a hypno kink workshop and her desire to expand her BDSM tolerance.[00:06:00] - Lisa's experience with a service top and a BDSM scene involving surgical staples, focusing on consent and safety.[00:08:00] - Insights into pain and pleasure dynamics during the scene, including discussions on boundaries and the negotiation process.[00:10:00] - Lisa reflects on the psychological effects of pain and the importance of trust in creating a fulfilling experience.[00:12:00] - The aftermath of the scene, with Lisa’s thoughts on aftercare and the emotional impact of the experience.[00:15:00] - Closing reflections on the growth in her kink journey and how she plans to continue exploring her limits._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – For after-hours content, workshops, and community access.• The Power Exchange Events: Mentioned as events where one of the guest speakers is an expert in electricity-based play.• Hypno Kink Workshop: A workshop focused on incorporating hypnosis into BDSM play.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this playful and informative episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares her knowledge and techniques on edging—a practice that involves bringing a partner close to climax and then easing back to prolong arousal. Ella (The Virgin) recounts her recent experiences practicing these techniques with her partner, describing how it has transformed their intimacy. Jess provides tips on using specific touch patterns, controlling pace, and maintaining a focus on both physical and emotional connection. Lisa (The Poly Wife) joins in, adding her insights on slow touch and attentive communication. Together, they emphasize the power of taking control, building anticipation, and fostering trust through slow, mindful intimacy._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess, Lisa, and Ella introduce the topic and how it connects to intimacy coaching.[00:02:00] – Ella’s Success Story: How using slow, deliberate touch transformed her partner’s orgasm.[00:08:00] – What is Edging? The practice of building up arousal and keeping a partner on the brink.[00:15:00] – Techniques for Keeping Someone at a 7 (Out of 10) Arousal Level: How to bring them close without tipping them over.[00:22:00] – The Role of Breathwork in Edging: Using breathing to extend pleasure.[00:30:00] – Teasing, Slow Strokes, and Power Play: Jess shares expert-level edging techniques.[00:38:00] – How to Make a Partner Beg for Release: Exploring playful control dynamics.[00:45:00] – Final Thoughts & Listener Challenge: The hosts encourage listeners to experiment with edging and see how long they can extend the build-up._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and events: www.theplayfulpodcast.com• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding boundaries, consent, and pleasure dynamics.• Midori’s Teachings on Sensual Mastery – Exploring feminine empowerment through intimacy.• Lisa’s Coaching on Exploring Pleasure & Power Exchange – Helping individuals master the art of teasing and control.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this insightful episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares her journey into intimacy coaching, explaining how her personal experiences in BDSM, sensuality, and empowerment inspired her to help others explore their own intimacy and self-expression. Jess reflects on the transformative power of creating a safe space for clients to discuss desires, boundaries, and personal obstacles. She describes her coaching approach, which combines compassionate listening with techniques to foster trust, vulnerability, and confidence in intimate relationships. Jess, alongside Lisa (The Poly Wife) and Ella (The Virgin), explores the importance of consent, self-awareness, and healthy communication in building fulfilling connections._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess, Lisa, and Ella introduce the episode’s theme of intimacy coaching and hands-on learning.[00:02:00] – Ella’s Experience with the Tantra Chair: How a long-awaited purchase led to deeper exploration.[00:08:00] – What Is Intimacy Coaching? Jess breaks down the process of guided intimacy exploration.[00:15:00] – Ella’s First Yoni Massage Experience: Letting go of shame and fully surrendering to pleasure.[00:22:00] – Why Slow Touch Changes Everything: How small adjustments in pace and pressure transform intimacy.[00:30:00] – Lisa’s Take on Rushing Sex & Why It’s a Mistake: Why most people don’t take enough time to warm up.[00:38:00] – The Importance of Non-Penetrative Pleasure: Exploring sensuality beyond the goal of orgasm.[00:45:00] – Final Thoughts & Listener Challenge: The hosts encourage listeners to experiment with slowing down and trying new touch techniques._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and events: www.theplayfulpodcast.com• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding personal boundaries and pleasure dynamics.• Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski – Exploring female desire and intimacy.• Lisa’s Coaching on Intimacy & Relationship Dynamics – Helping individuals embrace pleasure and deeper connection.• Tantra Chair by Zen By Design – A luxurious furniture piece designed for comfort and intimacy.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this introspective and candid episode, Lisa (The Poly Wife) shares a recent breakthrough in her relationships. She reflects on being in multiple asexual relationships despite her desire for a primal, sexually fulfilling connection. Through conversations with her husband, her doctor, and her close friends, Lisa uncovers a pattern of overthinking, rooted in past traumas and a focus on fulfilling others' needs over her own. Inspired by her journey, she declares her openness to “epic sex” and resolves to let go of expectations and focus on enjoying the moment. Jess (The Playful Domme) and Ella (The Virgin) support Lisa’s reflections, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, breaking free from internalized shame, and embracing joy and spontaneity._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess, Lisa, and Ella introduce the episode and Lisa’s big revelation.[00:02:00] – Lisa’s Reflection: Why she is in multiple relationships but not having the kind of sex she desires.[00:08:00] – Overthinking vs. Being in the Body: How Lisa’s deep mental processing has kept her from fully surrendering to pleasure.[00:15:00] – The Turning Point: Realizing that she has been looking for partners who love to talk but not necessarily ones with strong physical chemistry.[00:22:00] – The Challenge of Finding a Primal Sexual Connection: Why chemistry matters just as much as deep conversations.[00:30:00] – Breaking Free from Limiting Patterns: Learning to say YES to experiences without overanalyzing them.[00:38:00] – Lisa’s First Step: Having spontaneous, no-pressure sex with an old lover just for fun.[00:45:00] – Final Thoughts & Listener Challenge: The hosts encourage listeners to reflect on where they might be overthinking intimacy and adopt Lisa’s mantra: “I’m Open to Epic Sex.”_____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and events: www.theplayfulpodcast.com• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding personal boundaries and pleasure dynamics.• Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski – Exploring female desire and sexuality.• Lisa’s Coaching on Intimacy & Relationship Dynamics – Helping individuals embrace pleasure and connection.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) and Johnny T discuss the principles and experiences of Orgasmic Meditation (OM). Johnny shares his journey into OM, focusing on the practice's transformative impact on personal intimacy, self-awareness, and connecting with partners. Jess reflects on her own experiences with OM, emphasizing the importance of consent, presence, and attunement in creating meaningful connections. Together, they explore how OM encourages people to tune into subtle sensations and energy exchange, offering listeners insights into building deeper connections and understanding their own desires through mindful practices._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess, Lisa, and Ella introduce Johnny T and the topic of attunement in relationships.[00:02:00] – How Jess and Johnny T Met: Their connection through Tantra and how they became close friends and confidants.[00:08:00] – Why Attunement is the Missing Key in Relationships: How men can become more present and responsive rather than relying on scripted behaviors.[00:15:00] – One Taste & Orgasmic Meditation (OM): How this practice helped men and women shift their understanding of intimacy.[00:22:00] – Why Men Struggle with Attunement: The tendency to rely on techniques rather than being present in the moment.[00:30:00] – How Women Can Reclaim Their Voices in the Bedroom: Speaking up early rather than waiting until frustration builds.[00:38:00] – How Conscious Relating Changes the Dynamic: The importance of open communication and setting clear expectations.[00:45:00] – Final Thoughts & Listener Challenge: The hosts encourage listeners to reflect on their own patterns in relationships and experiment with conscious attunement._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and events: www.theplayfulpodcast.com• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – A deep dive into understanding power dynamics, boundaries, and mutual pleasure.• Midori’s Teachings on Kink & Consent – Exploring BDSM and power exchange dynamics.• FetLife – The Social Network for Kink – A space for connecting with the BDSM and fetish community.• One Taste & Orgasmic Meditation (OM) – A mindful stroking practice designed to help attune men to female pleasure.• Lisa’s Coaching on Power & Play – Helping individuals navigate dominance, submission, and boundary setting.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) tackle the topic of fluid bonding—engaging in sexual intimacy without prophylactic barriers such as condoms or dental dams, which allows bodily fluids to mix. Lisa explains her experience and views on fluid bonding within her polyamorous relationships, sharing how she ensures her safety and the safety of her partners through open discussions, regular testing, and setting boundaries. The hosts emphasize the importance of informed decision-making, self-responsibility, and transparent communication with partners when it comes to fluid bonding and sexual health._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess, Lisa, and Ella introduce the topic of fluid bonding and why it’s important.[00:02:00] – What is Fluid Bonding? Lisa explains the definition and why it matters in relationships.[00:08:00] – Lisa’s Vetting Process for Partners: The steps she takes to ensure safety when choosing to fluid bond.[00:15:00] – Understanding STI Testing & Risks: How often to get tested and what tests are important.[00:22:00] – The Reality of STI Stigmas & Misconceptions: Why sexual health education is still lacking and how to destigmatize STIs.[00:30:00] – Navigating Boundaries in the Heat of the Moment: How to set boundaries before intimacy happens.[00:38:00] – Why Open Conversations Lead to Deeper Intimacy: How honesty about sexual health builds trust.[00:45:00] – Final Thoughts & Listener Challenge: The hosts encourage listeners to have an honest conversation about sexual health with a partner._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and events: www.theplayfulpodcast.com• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding boundaries and pleasure.• The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy – A guide to ethical non-monogamy and open relationships.• More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert – Navigating polyamory and relationship ethics.• Lisa’s Coaching on Sexual Safety & Relationship Communication – Helping individuals and couples have open and empowered conversations.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this candid and humorous episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) dive into a detailed discussion about oral skills, sharing personal experiences, preferences, and the techniques that make oral pleasure enjoyable. Lisa reflects on her experiences with multiple partners in her polyamorous journey, discovering new styles and methods. Jess introduces the concept of “bossy oral,” inspired by the “bossy massage” approach, where the receiver directs every step to create a fully customized experience. The hosts discuss the importance of communication in intimacy, offering tips for approaching conversations about sexual desires and boundaries in a playful, non-judgmental way._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess, Lisa, and Ella introduce the topic and share their own embarrassing intimacy moments.[00:02:00] – Jess’s Internal Monologue During Oral: Overthinking scent, time, and the horror of needing to fart.[00:08:00] – Lisa’s Unexpected Squirting & Farting Story: How an awkward moment turned into an unexpectedly sexy experience.[00:15:00] – Why We Overthink During Sex: The social conditioning that makes us feel self-conscious about bodily functions.[00:22:00] – How to Laugh Through Embarrassing Moments: Turning awkwardness into playfulness and deeper connection.[00:30:00] – What Men Really Think About It: How most partners don’t care nearly as much as we do.[00:38:00] – Tips for Staying Present & Confident During Oral: How to relax, enjoy, and focus on pleasure instead of stress.[00:45:00] – Final Thoughts & Listener Challenge: The hosts encourage listeners to embrace their bodies and let go of shame—one awkward moment at a time._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and events: www.theplayfulpodcast.com• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – A deep dive into consent, pleasure, and boundaries.• Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski – Exploring the science of female pleasure.• Lisa’s Coaching on Body Confidence & Sexual Empowerment – Helping individuals embrace their bodies without shame.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss the Netflix show "How to Build a Sex Room," exploring how intimate spaces can be customized to fit personal desires and comfort levels. Ella, new to many BDSM concepts, shares her fascination with the show, which has inspired her to think about creating her own sensual space. Jess and Lisa share their thoughts on incorporating playrooms, discussing practical elements such as sensory textures, Tantra chairs, and pervertibles (everyday items used creatively for play). They reflect on the broader message of normalizing sensual exploration, with Jess emphasizing the importance of maintaining boundaries and connection._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess, Lisa, and Ella kick off the episode, setting the stage for a juicy conversation about creating intentional spaces for intimacy.[00:02:00] – Netflix’s How to Build a Sex Room – First impressions and why the show is sparking important conversations about pleasure.[00:05:00] – Transforming Your Space: How environment affects intimacy and practical ideas for enhancing the mood.[00:08:00] – Bringing Kink to the Mainstream: The importance of representation in media and normalizing pleasure-focused discussions.[00:15:00] – Lisa’s Thoughts on Polyamorous Representation: Reflections on a polycule featured in the show and how mainstream media portrays non-monogamy.[00:25:00] – Overcoming Judgment & Embracing Pleasure: Discussing societal conditioning, relationship dynamics, and how women are often taught to prioritize their partner’s pleasure over their own.[00:33:00] – Jess’s Bold Confession: A personal story about desire, boundaries, and standing firm in what she wants.[00:38:00] – The Power of Asking for What You Want: How clear communication and confidence can transform intimate experiences.[00:41:00] – Final Thoughts & Listener Challenge: The hosts encourage listeners to explore their own intimacy desires and make small, intentional changes in their spaces._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and events: www.theplayfulpodcast.com• Netflix: How to Build a Sex Room – The show that inspired this episode’s conversation.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – A deep dive into giving and receiving pleasure with awareness.• Tantra Chair – Sensual furniture designed for deeper intimacy: www.tantrachair.com• FetLife – A social networking site for people interested in kink, BDSM, and alternative relationships.• Lisa’s TiSupport the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) catch up after some time apart, sharing personal stories about boundary-setting, relationships, and self-reflection. Jess opens up about finding joy through her work and navigating her own boundaries after a challenging month. Lisa shares her decision to take a break from dating for the summer, focusing on self-care and intentional connection. The conversation touches on themes of asserting boundaries, dealing with challenging relationships, and embracing self-care as a powerful act of self-respect and growth._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Introduction: Jess, Lisa, and Ella welcome listeners back and set the tone for a juicy catch-up.[00:02:00] – Magnetism & Manifesting Lovers: Lisa shares how past lovers are showing up all at once, and the surprising power of relaxed attraction.[00:06:00] – Setting Boundaries & Saying No with Confidence: Jess and Ella discuss the art of filtering out draining relationships.[00:10:00] – Sacred Sexuality & Sensual Embodiment: Jess reflects on her desire for a partner who aligns with her work and life’s calling.[00:14:00] – The Power of Letting Go: Lisa explains how stepping back and leaning into feminine energy creates space for men to show up.[00:20:00] – Lessons from Past Lovers: The group discusses how reappearing exes reveal unhealed patterns and lingering desires.[00:30:00] – Celebrating Abundance & Owning Desire: How self-worth transforms intimacy and life opportunities.[00:45:00] – Wrap-Up & Invitation to Listeners: Jess, Lisa, and Ella challenge listeners to lean into their pleasure, set bold boundaries, and trust their desires._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content and workshops.• Betty Martin’s The Wheel of Consent – Understanding consent, boundaries, and pleasure dynamics.• Midori’s Teachings on Sensual Mastery – Exploring confidence and sensual connection.• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife) – Relationship insights and real-life polyamory experiences.• FetLife – A platform to connect with like-minded individuals in the kink and intimacy community.• Shibari Master Rina Trevi – Sacred ropework, power exchange, and deep trust-building.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this introspective episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) reconnect after a brief hiatus to discuss the joys and challenges of “living our best lives.” Jess reflects on her recent choices, including her experiences with balancing career ambitions, relationships, and self-care. The hosts share how they aim to embrace a life driven by passion and purpose, questioning traditional definitions of success and security. Lisa talks about her journey of embracing ethical non-monogamy and balancing her relationships with self-respect and authenticity. Together, they explore themes of vulnerability, personal growth, and the courage to pursue a life that aligns with one’s true self._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:05:30] – Kicking off the celebration convo: What does it mean to truly celebrate yourself?[00:12:45] – Lisa shares a story about a major life change and how she made space for joy amidst it.[00:20:15] – Jess talks about a past struggle with embracing her achievements and shifting her mindset.[00:26:50] – The importance of hyping up your friends—why celebrating others invites more abundance into your life.[00:32:00] – The Champagne Challenge: Encouraging listeners to take a moment to honor something they’ve accomplished this week.[00:35:45] – Closing thoughts: shifting from competition to compersion—embracing joy without jealousy._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: www.theplayfulpodcast.com – Access after-hours content, community discussions, and upcoming workshops.• Gabby Bernstein Podcast Interview: A referenced moment celebrating a fellow podcaster’s achievement.• TikTok & Social Media Handles: Encouragement for listeners to engage and celebrate wins online.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) dive into the importance of identifying and asking for what we truly desire in relationships, intimacy, and personal growth. Jess shares her experience of launching a retreat called "The Temptress," focusing on helping women explore empowerment through seduction and self-expression. The hosts discuss how self-discovery, setting boundaries, and confidently expressing desires can transform relationships. Lisa opens up about her journey of learning to ask for her needs within polyamory, while Jess and Ella emphasize the impact of honesty and clear communication on maintaining healthy dynamics._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess sets the tone for a deep conversation on self-expression, confidence, and sensuality.[00:02:00] – Jess’s Healing Journey: From being shamed for her seductive energy to reclaiming it as a gift.[00:08:00] – The Temptress Retreat: How a misheard word led to the creation of an event centered on feminine magnetism.[00:15:00] – Seduction as a Superpower: How attraction, confidence, and desire are all deeply interconnected.[00:25:00] – Lisa on Empowered vs. Disempowered Pleasure: How many women settle for ‘good enough’ instead of what they truly crave.[00:33:00] – Magnetism & Receiving: The difference between chasing and attracting the love, pleasure, and experiences we desire.[00:40:00] – A Personal Challenge to Listeners: Jess and Lisa encourage women to practice asking—without shame, without apology._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and intimate coaching.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – A framework for understanding giving, receiving, and pleasure dynamics.Midori’s Teachings on Seduction & Sensual Mastery – Tools for stepping into feminine power.• Power Priestess Retreats – Jess’s upcoming sensual embodiment experience for women.• FetLife – Mentioned as a resource for those curious about expanding their desires in safe and informed ways.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) and Lisa (The Poly Wife) discuss the importance of recognizing and celebrating personal achievements, big or small. They share their recent experiences with growth, empowerment, and gratitude, highlighting how often people, especially women, skip over their wins and move straight to the next goal. Jess recounts a “champagne moment” when she celebrated recent accomplishments with champagne and caviar, reflecting on the importance of pausing to honor milestones. Lisa also reflects on her journey, noting how sisterhood and mutual celebration among women create a supportive environment for personal growth. They encourage listeners to celebrate themselves and their friends, reinforcing a mindset of abundance and joy._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess and Lisa kick off the episode by reflecting on the importance of celebrating personal and shared wins.[00:02:00] – Jess’s Transformative Week: How shifting her mindset led to unexpected abundance—new lovers, new career opportunities, and a deep sense of joy.[00:08:00] – Redefining Intimacy & Play: Jess opens up about stepping outside of her comfort zone and embracing new experiences without guilt.[00:15:00] – The Power of Sisterhood: Lisa emphasizes how women uplifting each other creates a ripple effect of empowerment.[00:25:00] – Champagne Moments: Jess shares how she honored her achievements with a personal ritual—champagne, caviar, and deep gratitude.[00:33:00] – Letting Go of Scarcity Mindset: The discussion shifts to dismantling limiting beliefs around love, intimacy, and success.[00:40:00] – A Challenge to Listeners: Jess and Lisa invite listeners to actively celebrate themselves and others in the upcoming week._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – After-hours content, workshops, and events.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding personal boundaries and pleasure dynamics.• Midori’s Teachings on Sensual Mastery – Exploring feminine empowerment through intimacy.• FetLife – A platform for connecting with kink-minded individuals and communities.• Veuve Clicquot Champagne – Mentioned as Jess’s go-to for celebrating big moments.• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife) – Real-life insights on intimacy, relationships, and non-monogamy.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) reflects on her ongoing journey with her partner Josh as they navigate the challenges of polyamory. Jess expresses her struggles with Josh’s desire to have other partners, despite their deep connection and fulfilling intimacy. Jess, Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) explore the roots of jealousy, emotional triggers, and self-reflection in relationships, particularly in polyamory. The hosts discuss the importance of personal growth, self-soothing, and accepting one’s partner without control or expectations. They also emphasize the necessity of building trust, open communication, and inner work in creating a healthy dynamic that respects individual autonomy and connection._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage, explaining that this episode is deeply personal.[00:02:00] – The Hamster Wheel Argument: Jess explains how she and Josh keep returning to the same conversation about his desire for multiple partners.[00:05:00] – Is It Really About Intimacy?: Lisa challenges whether Josh is truly seeking multiple partners for connection—or if it’s a way to avoid deeper emotional work.[00:10:00] – Jealousy as a Mirror: Lisa reframes jealousy as a tool for growth rather than a roadblock.[00:15:00] – Josh’s Struggle with Making Friends: Jess questions why Josh seeks emotional fulfillment through intimacy instead of friendships.[00:25:00] – The ‘Not Enough’ Fear: Jess unpacks her own wounds and why the fear of being replaced feels so real.[00:33:00] – The Work is Yours, Not Theirs: Lisa explains why expecting men to "do the work" can lead to frustration—sometimes, the real work is choosing to accept them as they are.[00:45:00] – Can You Love Them Anyway?: The key question Jess is left with: can she love Josh exactly as he is, without expecting him to change?[00:55:00] – Final Reflections: Ella, Jess, and Lisa process the emotional heaviness of the conversation and how to move forward._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website – After-hours content, workshops, and coaching.• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife) – Real-talk on polyamory and relationship dynamics.• More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert – A deep dive into ethical non-monogamy.• The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy – The ultimate guide to open relationships.• Polysecure by Jessica Fern – A must-read for anyone navigating attachment styles in non-monogamy.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – Understanding boundaries, power dynamics, and authentic connection.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this deep and emotionally charged episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) and her partner Josh join Lisa (The Poly Wife) and Ella (The Virgin) to discuss Jess and Josh’s evolving journey with polyamory. They dive into the complexities of maintaining autonomy, trust, and open communication while balancing individual desires and boundaries. Jess shares her struggles with accepting Josh’s exploration of polyamory, while Josh reflects on his need for freedom and deeper connections. The hosts openly address themes of jealousy, self-worth, and the tension between embracing personal desires and respecting partnership boundaries, making this a heartfelt exploration of vulnerability and growth within polyamory._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess introduces the topic, emphasizing that this episode is an unfiltered look into her relationship with Josh.[00:02:00] – The Push & Pull of Polyamory: Jess recounts the back-and-forth cycle with Josh, the deep love they share, and the struggle to let go of control.[00:04:00] – Josh’s Perspective: Why he feels the need to explore multiple relationships and how that affects his connection with Jess.[00:08:00] – The Fear of Not Being Enough: Ella gets emotional about the idea of sharing a partner and struggles to understand the poly mindset.[00:15:00] – Lisa’s Hard-Earned Wisdom: She reflects on her own journey through polyamory, letting go of control, and learning to celebrate her partners' happiness.[00:25:00] – Trust, Freedom, & The Power of Letting Go: Jess talks about learning to release her grip and embrace the unknown.[00:35:00] – The ‘Not Enough’ Wound: How self-worth plays a role in poly relationships and why comparison is the thief of joy.[00:45:00] – Navigating Communication & Boundaries: The group discusses setting realistic expectations and working through discomfort in real time.[00:55:00] – Final Reflections: What they’ve learned from this journey so far, and how they’re continuing to grow together and separately._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: Access after-hours content, live Q&As, and workshops.• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife): Real-life insights into navigating polyamory.• More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert: A must-read for anyone considering ethical non-monogamy.• The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy: A foundational book on open relationships and radical honesty.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A tool for understanding power dynamics in relationships.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Lisa (The Poly Wife) shares her experiences and insights from her journey on TikTok, where she openly discusses ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Lisa talks about the positive impact of her content, including heartfelt messages from followers who find comfort in her openness. She recounts the pushback and criticism she faces, particularly around traditional societal expectations, yet emphasizes the power of speaking her truth and inspiring others. Jess and Ella praise Lisa's courage and reflect on how her authenticity breaks stereotypes and encourages other women to explore joy, confidence, and unconventional paths._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage for a conversation about speaking truth and breaking societal molds.[00:02:00] – Lisa’s TikTok Journey: How she started sharing about ethical non-monogamy and the reactions she’s received.[00:03:00] – The Power of Representation: Lisa reads a moving message from a follower who finally felt seen.[00:05:00] – Shame, Judgment & Family Opinions: The common pushback Lisa gets and how she responds.[00:08:00] – The Taboo of Women Dating Multiple Partners: Challenging outdated double standards.[00:15:00] – Trailblazing & Visibility: Jess and Lisa discuss how normalizing diverse relationship structures can empower others.[00:25:00] – Overcoming Internalized Fear: The emotional impact of stepping into the public eye and dealing with criticism.[00:33:00] – TikTok as a Platform for Change: How short-form content is reshaping conversations around love, intimacy, and freedom.[00:40:00] – Final Thoughts: The importance of continuing to show up, regardless of societal resistance_____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: Join the after-hours community, workshops, and coaching sessions.• Lisa’s TikTok (@ListenToLisa): Follow Lisa’s journey and her honest take on ethical non-monogamy.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational framework for understanding boundaries and self-awareness.• Statistics on Ethical Non-Monogamy: Lisa references data showing that 17 million people in the U.S. have practiced ENM at some point in their lives.• Books on Relationship Structures:- More Than Two by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert- The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet HardySupport the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) is joined by her friend Harry, who shares his experiences and insights into predicament play—a BDSM technique where one partner is placed in a scenario that makes them face physical or mental challenges, requiring them to fully let go. Harry explains how predicament play can foster a deep level of trust and surrender, describing scenes that use restraints, tension, and balance to create intense sensations and a heightened state of awareness. Jess and Harry discuss the dynamics of dominance, trust-building, and self-discovery in BDSM, with Ella and Lisa posing questions to learn more about these practices from a beginner's perspective._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess introduces Harry and sets the stage for an in-depth exploration of predicament play.[00:03:00] – Harry’s Journey into Kink: How he stepped into his Dom role and discovered the power of play.[00:08:00] – What is Predicament Play?: Breaking down the art of putting a submissive in an inescapable situation—where surrender is the only option.[00:15:00] – The Beauty of Letting Go: The psychology behind why some people crave structured torment and surrender.[00:25:00] – The Role of Trust & Negotiation: How detailed negotiation ensures safety and satisfaction for all parties.[00:33:00] – Lisa’s Anal Hook Excitement: A lighthearted moment where Lisa shares her curiosity and upcoming exploration.[00:40:00] – Negotiating with a Sadist: Jess discusses the nuances of balancing pleasure, limits, and intensity in play.[00:47:00] – Final Thoughts: The importance of curiosity, trust, and playfulness in any dynamic._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: Explore after-hours content, upcoming workshops, and exclusive coaching.• Midori’s The Art of Feminine Dominance: A go-to for understanding dominance and control dynamics.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A framework for understanding how to give, take, allow, and receive in intimate play.• FetLife: Mentioned as a space to connect with kink-minded individuals and explore dynamics.• Recommended Book: Anal & BDSM (Book 3): A deep dive into advanced anal play and its psychological effects.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Ella (The Virgin) poses questions to Jess (The Playful Domme) and Lisa (The Poly Wife) about maintaining intimacy and keeping the spark alive in long-term relationships. Ella shares concerns about aging and energy levels affecting her desire for frequent intimacy, prompting Lisa and Jess to discuss their approaches to balancing multiple partners, maintaining boundaries, and managing emotions. Lisa shares her recent experience with jealousy regarding her partner's connection with another lover, leading to insights on self-reflection and understanding personal desires. Jess emphasizes the importance of honoring oneself, communicating desires, and exploring self-care as a means of sustaining intimacy._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess kicks off the conversation with an invitation to explore seasons of desire and play.[00:02:00] – Ella’s Question on Keeping Passion Alive: How do you keep things exciting when life gets in the way?[00:05:00] – Lisa’s Reality Check on Non-Monogamy: Not all poly relationships involve frequent intimacy—Lisa breaks down the reality of time, energy, and connection with multiple partners.[00:10:00] – Pheromones, Menopause & Chemistry: Lisa experiments with scent-based attraction and questions whether hormonal shifts impact desire.[00:15:00] – Jess’s Perspective on Dry Spells & Seasons of Desire: How life, stress, and even small conflicts can impact passion.[00:21:00] – What Would Please Me Now?: Jess explains how shifting from what’s expected to what would feel good creates new pathways for connection.[00:28:00] – Lisa’s Unexpected Jealousy: How watching two partners connect sparked an unfamiliar feeling—and what she learned from it.[00:35:00] – Reframing Jealousy as an Insight: Instead of seeing jealousy as a problem, Lisa unpacks it as a sign of unmet needs.[00:39:00] – Communication as the Key to Reconnection: The trio shares strategies for talking through shifts in intimacy, attraction, and expectations._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: Access exclusive content, workshops, and coaching sessions.• Midori’s Teachings on Feminine Power: A reference to tools for owning desire and sensuality.• Betty Martin’s The Wheel of Consent: A resource for understanding giving, receiving, and setting boundaries.• Lisa’s TikTok (@ThePolyWife): Insights on non-monogamy, communication, and emotional intelligence.• Aphrodisiac Pheromone Oils: Lisa experiments with pheromones and discusses their effect on attraction.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) recounts her recent "Passionatrix Ignited" retreat, an immersive weekend designed for women to explore empowerment, sensuality, and self-expression through BDSM and intimacy practices. Jess, alongside her mentor Rina Trevi, guided seven women through activities like Shibari (Japanese rope bondage), the use of floggers, blindfolds, and goddess transfiguration rituals. The event provided a safe space for women from diverse backgrounds to connect deeply, explore their desires, and release past emotional burdens. Jess shares heartwarming stories of participants’ transformations, describing how they reconnected with themselves and even brought this newfound energy back into their personal relationships._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess introduces the episode, sharing the inspiration behind Passionatrix Ignited.[00:03:00] – The Power of Women-Only Spaces: How removing men from the room allows women to step into their full selves.[00:08:00] – Shibari as Emotional Release: Exploring rope bondage as a tool for surrender, catharsis, and healing.[00:15:00] – Goddess Transfiguration Ritual: A sacred ritual where men honor women as goddesses and experience deep eye-gazing.[00:25:00] – Josh’s First Kink Play: Jess’s partner Josh enters the scene, experiencing his first taste of submission and impact play.[00:33:00] – The Beauty of Surrender: Women share their personal breakthroughs in trust and vulnerability.[00:40:00] – Final Reflections & Takeaways: The lasting impact of the retreat and what’s next for future events._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: For after-hours content, upcoming retreats, and coaching.• Midori’s The Art of Feminine Dominance: A resource for stepping into confidence and sensual power.• Rina Trevi’s Shibari Workshops: An introduction to the art of Japanese rope bondage.• Betty Martin’s The Wheel of Consent: A foundational guide to understanding boundaries and power exchange.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Lisa (The Poly Wife) shares her experiences at a swinger event held at a private home known as "The Treehouse," where she attended a Kama Sutra-themed swingers party. Lisa recounts navigating boundaries, communication, and the thrill of exploring this new environment with her partner, Luke. She describes the various setups for interaction, including demonstrations and the respectful, consent-focused atmosphere. The hosts discuss the importance of clear boundaries, establishing safe words, and creating a comfortable environment for exploration. Jess and Ella reflect on Lisa’s stories, emphasizing the empowerment found in being open and setting boundaries within such spaces._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage for Lisa’s eye-opening experience at The Treehouse.[00:03:00] - Lisa’s Journey to the Party: Pre-event nerves, partner expectations, and setting clear intentions before stepping into the unknown.[00:08:00] - What Happens at a Swingers Event?: Lisa describes the Kama Sutra theme, demonstrations, and respectful social dynamics.[00:15:00] - Consent & Boundaries in Group Play: The importance of clear communication before, during, and after intimate encounters.[00:25:00] - The Power of Enthusiastic Yes & Confident No: Lisa’s experience setting firm yet playful boundaries while still enjoying the energy of the room.[00:33:00] - Holding Space for Exploration: The group discusses the balance between self-discovery and maintaining integrity in play.[00:40:00] - Lisa’s Takeaway: Encouraging others to explore with curiosity, safety, and self-awareness._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: Your go-to for after-hours content, workshops, and community discussions.• The Treehouse Swingers Club: Mentioned as the private venue where Lisa had her first swingers event.• SDC & SLS Websites: Online resources for connecting with the swinging community.• Secrets Hideaway Resort (Orlando, FL): A well-known adult resort for exploring alternative lifestyles.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational framework for understanding consent, communication, and play.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this powerful episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares her experience on TikTok Live, where she recounted an assault that occurred at a Parisian spa in 2019. Jess describes confronting a man who repeatedly ignored her boundaries, touching her and others without consent. She reflects on the emotions this triggered, including anger at a friend who witnessed her discomfort but chose not to intervene. During her live TikTok story, Jess was flooded with hundreds of men who gaslit, sexualized, and harassed her. Despite this, she stood her ground, with the help of unexpected moderators who defended her. This episode emphasizes the importance of women using their voices, supporting each other, and rejecting the normalization of assault and harassment._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess introduces the episode, framing it as a call to action for women to embrace their power and voice.[00:03:00] - Jess’s Paris Spa Incident: A detailed recount of harassment and her fierce response to the predator, highlighting the power of the dark feminine.[00:10:00] - Toxic Masculinity in Action: Reflections on men’s behaviors and the societal narratives that enable them.[00:18:00] - Going Viral on TikTok: Jess describes the overwhelming response to her live stream, from support to misogynistic backlash.[00:25:00] - Finding Support: The unexpected kindness of strangers who stepped up to moderate her TikTok live and the healing impact of their assistance.[00:33:00] - The Importance of Sisterhood: Lisa and Ella discuss the role of women supporting one another in standing up against injustice.[00:39:00] - Encouragement to Speak Up: The trio reflects on the power of using one’s voice to challenge harmful norms and create change.+_____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: Access after-hours content, workshops, and community events.• Power Priestess on TikTok: Jess’s empowerment-focused TikTok account and community.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A tool for navigating boundaries and mutual respect.• Midori’s Workshops on Feminine Leadership: A guide for women stepping into their power.• Paris Spa Safety Tips: Practical advice for navigating co-ed spaces with confidence and boundaries.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss the dynamics of Female Led Relationships (FLR), where women take a leadership role in decision-making while still honoring their partner’s needs and boundaries. Jess shares her journey with her partner, Josh, exploring an FLR as a way to establish harmony, trust, and clear roles within their relationship. The hosts discuss the benefits of FLR, such as improved communication, reduced power struggles, and deeper support for women’s growth. Lisa reflects on her own experiences in a female-led household and the importance of distinguishing leadership from emasculation, finding balance, and mutual respect._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess introduces the episode and sets the stage for an exploration of female-led dynamics.[00:03:00] - Jess’s Personal Journey: Sharing the evolution of her relationship with Josh and how trust and leadership play key roles.[00:08:00] - Examples of FLRs: Jess describes observing relationships where men fully support their partners' growth and success.[00:15:00] - Navigating Conflicts: The hosts discuss how FLRs reduce power struggles and create clarity in decision-making.[00:25:00] - Lisa’s Reflections on Balance: Lisa shares how finding harmony between leadership and partnership strengthened her marriage.[00:33:00] - The Gatekeeper Role: Jess explains her decision to act as the gatekeeper in her relationship to maintain respect and harmony.[00:40:00] - Final Thoughts: Encouragement to explore FLRs and redefine traditional dynamics in relationships._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: For after-hours content, workshops, and coaching sessions.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A guide for understanding boundaries and roles in intimate dynamics.• Midori’s Workshops on Feminine Leadership: Referenced as a tool for stepping into empowerment.• FetLife: Mentioned as a resource for exploring kink and community in a safe environment.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, "The Hot Mess," Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss Lisa’s recent experiences exploring polyamorous connections and sensual play with multiple partners. Lisa shares her journey of learning to balance emotions like jealousy and excitement, recounting a memorable evening with her play partners. The hosts discuss the importance of open communication, setting boundaries, and how trust among partners can lead to freeing and empowering intimate experiences. Jess and Ella offer reflections on the growth that comes with embracing new dynamics and self-expression within polyamorous and open relationships._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess introduces the episode, emphasizing the value of trust and freedom in playful intimacy.[00:02:00] - Lisa’s "Hot Mess" Story: A detailed recount of her recent threesome experience, featuring respect, pleasure, and unforgettable moments.[00:15:00] - Turning Hard No’s into Yeses: Lisa reflects on how safe spaces and communication have shifted her boundaries over time.[00:25:00] - Sisterhood in Play: The joy and empowerment of connecting with women in shared intimate experiences.[00:33:00] - Practical Tips for Play: From waterproof sheets to organic communication, the group shares insights on creating safe and enjoyable encounters.[00:35:00] - Next Episode Teaser: A sneak peek into "Female-Led Relationships" and what listeners can expect._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: Join the community for after-hours content, workshops, and support.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational guide for understanding roles in intimacy and connection.• Brené Brown’s Work on Vulnerability: Referenced for exploring emotional honesty and dismantling insecurities.• Amazon Waterproof Sheets: Practical advice for navigating playful, messy encounters with ease.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this intimate episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares her experience facilitating a sensual, kinky massage for a couple exploring new depths of their relationship. From setting boundaries to introducing light bondage and sensual techniques, Jess emphasizes the importance of communication and consent in creating a safe and pleasurable environment. The episode dives into themes of surrender, trust, and the transformative power of touch, showing how intentional intimacy can ignite connection and passion between partners._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess sets the tone, emphasizing the mature and educational nature of the discussion.[00:02:00] - The Couple’s Story: Jess shares how she met the couple and their goals for the massage session.[00:08:00] - Creating the Playground: A detailed discussion on setting boundaries, establishing consent, and crafting a safe space for exploration.[00:15:00] - Surrendering Control: The wife’s journey from being a Type A personality to embracing surrender and letting go.[00:25:00] - Sensual Techniques: Jess describes using light flogging, massage oils, and toys to enhance sensation and arousal.[00:40:00] - The Husband’s Perspective: How observing his wife’s pleasure and participating in the session deepened their connection.[00:50:00] - Reflections on Intimacy: Jess reflects on the beauty of being trusted to guide such intimate experiences._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: Explore workshops, after-hours content, and community discussions.• Midori’s The Art of Play: Techniques for creating intentional, consensual intimate experiences.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational tool for exploring desires and boundaries.• FetLife: Mentioned as a resource for finding local kink communities and safe spaces to explore.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this thought-provoking episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) dive into the dynamic world of takers and submissives, exploring the nuances of power exchange and the Wheel of Consent. They unpack the differences between taking and allowing, giving and receiving, and how these roles play out in both intimate and non-intimate settings. Lisa shares her journey of transitioning from an "allower" to a receiver, while Jess reflects on the transformative experiences that come with true service submission. The episode provides actionable insights for listeners curious about embracing their desires and fostering deeper connections through clear communication and consent. _____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage for a conversation about power dynamics, consent, and the joy of exploring desires.[00:05:00] - Lisa’s Reflections on the Wheel of Consent: Exploring her shift from allowing to confidently asking for what she wants.[00:18:00] - The Submissive’s Perspective: Jess discusses the beauty of pure service submission and the devotion it can bring.[00:33:00] - The Caging Ceremony: Lisa shares her experience planning a caging ritual with a new submissive, highlighting communication and trust.[00:40:00] - Power in Vulnerability: The trio reflects on how consent and clear dynamics foster intimacy and empowerment.[00:50:00] - Final Thoughts: Encouraging listeners to embrace curiosity and step into their authentic desires._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: For workshops, community access, and exclusive after-hours content.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A foundational resource for understanding roles in consent and pleasure.• Midori’s Workshops: Renowned for exploring feminine dominance and personal empowerment.• Books:- More Than Two by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert: A guide for navigating ethical non-monogamy.- The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy: A cornerstone text for relationship exploration.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

 Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) take a close look at kink, breaking down misconceptions and presenting it as an inviting and creative avenue for intimacy. From the gentle allure of feather-light touches to the intricate beauty of shibari, they highlight how kink allows for personal exploration of sensation, curiosity, and connection. Jess recounts memorable moments from her time as a dominatrix, while Lisa shares her first experience with needle play and the freeing concept of "not yucking someone else’s yum." This episode encourages listeners to embrace kink as a joyful, empowering space for self-expression and connection. _____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the tone for a curious and playful conversation about kink.[00:02:00] - What is Kink?: Jess defines kink as anything outside conventional sexual norms that brings arousal and excitement.[00:05:00] - Blindfolding Basics: Jess explains how removing sight heightens other senses, amplifying pleasure and connection.[00:18:00] - Lisa’s Shibari Journey: From the sensuality of soft ropes to the gentle sting of nylon ties, Lisa shares her experiences with shibari.[00:25:00] - Not Yucking Someone’s Yum: The group emphasizes the importance of accepting others’ preferences, even when they differ from your own.[00:33:00] - Pervertibles & Creative Play: Everyday items like spatulas and seatbelts take on new life in kink.[00:40:00] - The Joy of Exploration: Wrapping up with encouragement to explore kink safely and joyfully._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: Your go-to for after-hours content, workshops, and links to tools like J-Lube and Warburton Wheels.• Midori’s Workshops: A space to learn about shibari, flogging, and other practices.• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A guide to exploring desires and boundaries.• J-Lube: A highly slippery lubricant often used in veterinary settings, praised for kink play.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares a personal story about an empowering experience in her journey as a dominatrix, where she explored her boundaries while being the receiver in a kink environment. She describes a scene where, surrounded by respectful male submissives, she could set clear boundaries and experience a profound level of care and attention, challenging traditional notions of power dynamics. The hosts discuss the importance of consent, open communication, and self-discovery within BDSM. They emphasize how kink can be a space for personal growth and healing, providing an opportunity to break stereotypes and explore one’s authentic desires in a safe environment._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess introduces the episode and reflects on her dominatrix journey.[00:03:00] - Setting Boundaries in BDSM: Jess discusses the importance of consent and establishing boundaries before play.[00:14:00] - Jess’s Public Orgasm Story: A vulnerable yet empowering moment of receiving pleasure in a safe, consensual environment.[00:18:00] - Service Submission Explained: The trio explores the dynamics of submissives fulfilling a dominant’s desires, from emotional to physical acts of service.[00:25:00] - Lisa’s Submissive Play Reflections: Lisa shares her journey of discovering joy in service and non-sexual acts of submission.[00:33:00] - Redefining Kink & Empowerment: How kink communities foster personal growth, communication, and respect.[00:45:00] - Jess’s Takeaway: BDSM as a tool for empowerment, healing, and creating better human connections._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: For community access, exclusive content, and workshops.• Wheel of Consent: Framework for understanding mutual agreements and personal boundaries in kink.• Midori’s ForteFemme Workshops: Recommended for women exploring dominance and self-empowerment in BDSM.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this humorous and candid episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss the often-overlooked, real-life moments of intimacy, including the occasional fart during oral sex. The hosts share personal experiences and insecurities, exploring how bodily functions and unexpected situations can create embarrassment yet also bring intimacy and laughter. They discuss techniques for staying present, relaxing during intimate moments, and embracing imperfections to enhance connection. This episode encourages listeners to approach intimate encounters with humor, acceptance, and openness, emphasizing that these “real moments” can lead to deeper bonding._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome and Introduction: Jess opens the conversation with humor and honesty about intimacy's unfiltered realities.[00:03:00] - Anxiety During Oral Play: The internal monologues about taste, smell, and being “good enough.”[00:07:00] - Lisa’s First Squirting Experience: Navigating the joys and surprises of discovering new physical abilities.[00:15:00] - Transparency in Intimacy: The liberating power of owning and discussing bodily functions with partners.[00:25:00] - Farting Milestones: Jess shares a funny yet relatable story of accidental farts during passionate moments.[00:40:00] - Body Positivity in Play: Embracing imperfections and focusing on connection instead of perceived flaws._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: For additional resources, workshops, and community discussions.• Wheel of Consent: A framework for understanding boundaries and mutual consent.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this introductory episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) each share their personal journeys, explaining how they came into their respective roles within the podcast. Jess discusses her transformation from corporate life to becoming a dominatrix, finding empowerment through sensuality, and embracing play as a form of self-expression. Lisa recounts her experiences with polyamory, transitioning from a traditional marriage into a polyamorous lifestyle that enhanced her connection with her husband. Ella shares her more conventional background, joining the podcast to explore and understand new aspects of intimacy. Together, they introduce the show as a safe, supportive space for listeners curious about intimacy, empowerment, and self-discovery._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome and Introduction: Jess sets the stage for their journey into intimacy and exploration.[00:03:00] - Jess’s Story: From corporate burnout to finding empowerment as a dominatrix and sensual bodyworker.[00:08:00] - Lisa’s Journey to Polyamory: How her 34-year marriage evolved into a happy, open relationship.[00:14:00] - Ella’s Naivety to Curiosity: A single mom stepping into new possibilities and playful explorations.[00:20:00] - Why This Podcast: How candid, raw conversations with friends inspired them to create a safe space for listeners.[00:25:00] - Introducing Future Guests: Sneak peeks of upcoming episodes featuring diverse perspectives._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: For resources, community access, and exclusive content.• More Than Two: A book on ethical non-monogamy and polyamory.• Wheel of Consent: A framework for setting boundaries and understanding mutual consent.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss navigating New Relationship Energy (NRE) and its impact on personal boundaries, autonomy, and relationship dynamics. They explore how NRE can lead to moments of self-abandonment, where individuals lose touch with their routines and identities as they dive into a new connection. Each host shares their experiences with balancing personal space, setting boundaries, and understanding what they want from relationships. Through candid discussions, they emphasize the importance of self-reflection and open communication in maintaining healthy, respectful relationships, especially within ethical non-monogamy._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess sets the stage for a vibrant discussion on NRE and ENM.[00:08:00] - Lisa’s Weekend of Fireworks: Lisa reflects on the sparks and compatibility with her new lover, contrasting it with deeper connections in her polyamorous life.[00:25:00] - Shibari and Surrender: Jess and Lisa explore the spiritual and sensual aspects of rope play, including Lisa’s recent class and its transformative impact.[00:45:00] - The Cost of Abandonment: Jess shares her pattern of losing herself in relationships and the journey back to her own power and magic.[01:10:00] - Navigating Jealousy and Possessiveness: Ella talks about setting boundaries and staying grounded while dating a partner with possessive tendencies.[01:30:00] - Balancing Multiple Relationships: The trio discusses the challenges of time management, communication, and honoring each connection._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• More Than Two: A book on polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.• Wheel of Consent: Framework for setting boundaries and understanding mutual agreements.• The Playful Podcast Website: For access to community resources, workshops, and additional content.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) provide updates on their relationships, sharing insights into how polyamory, boundaries, and personal growth have shaped their current dynamics. Lisa discusses the shift toward dating single men to avoid relationship restrictions, while Jess reflects on building trust and patience in her partnership with Josh. Ella shares her evolving comfort with asking for what she wants in intimate settings, and the hosts collectively explore the importance of clear boundaries, personal autonomy, and open communication in creating fulfilling, authentic connections._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome and Disclaimer: Jess sets the stage for a reflective and intimate episode.[00:02:00] - Lisa’s Updates: Insights on managing polyamorous rules, dating single partners, and redefining relationship dynamics.[00:18:00] - Jess’s Journey with Josh: Celebrating the joys of a steady relationship and exploring fantasies together.[00:33:00] - Ella’s Reflections: Growth in communicating desires and embracing the playful side of intimacy.[00:40:00] - Tips on Navigating Fantasies: The hosts share practical advice on discussing and exploring fantasies with curiosity and consent.[00:50:00] - The Power of Consistency: Jess and Lisa discuss how consistent connection deepens intimacy and trust._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• More Than Two: A book on ethical non-monogamy and polyamory.• Wheel of Consent: Framework for understanding boundaries and mutual agreements.• The Playful Podcast Website: For access to resources, workshops, and exclusive content.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) explore how to navigate partner fantasies and desires, even when they may not align with one’s personal preferences. Jess shares her journey in supporting her partner’s fantasies, including ways she’s found to engage without compromising her boundaries. Lisa discusses how she navigates fantasy exploration within her polyamorous lifestyle, using communication and creativity to find a middle ground. The hosts emphasize the importance of open conversation, understanding boundaries, and discovering unique ways to support a partner’s fantasies, fostering deeper intimacy and connection._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess sets the tone for an episode filled with exploration and vulnerability.[00:05:00] - Lisa’s Boy Toy Tales: Lisa discusses a long-distance connection and negotiating fantasies with clear boundaries.[00:18:00] - Fluid Bonding Conversations: Lisa shares how to navigate safe sex practices while respecting all parties' boundaries.[00:25:00] - Jess’s Fantasy Exploration: Jess recounts how she leaned into her partner’s fantasy, creating a shared experience of trust and vulnerability.[00:33:00] - The Power of Curiosity: The trio discusses the importance of approaching intimacy with curiosity rather than preconceived notions.[00:40:00] - Leaning Into Play: How small shifts in mindset can lead to profound changes in intimacy and connection.[00:50:00] - Creating Safe Spaces: Jess wraps up by reflecting on how fantasies can deepen relationships when handled with care._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• More Than Two: A book on polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.• Wheel of Consent: Framework for understanding boundaries and personal consent.• The Playful Podcast Website: For resources, community discussions, and exclusive content.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) continue their exploration of oral pleasure, specifically focusing on handjobs, blowjobs, and the nuances of male arousal with insights from Jess’s partner, Josh. The hosts and Josh discuss the importance of understanding male anatomy, different techniques, and personal preferences in intimate moments. Josh shares his perspective on what feels best, how men experience touch, and the value of communication during intimate acts. They also tackle common mistakes and emphasize the importance of patience, presence, and mutual pleasure in enhancing intimacy._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Introduction: Jess introduces the episode and sets the tone for an intimate discussion.[00:05:00] - The Male Perspective: Josh discusses the importance of touch and intent in creating fulfilling intimate experiences.[00:18:00] - Pressure, Strokes, and Sensitivity: Exploring techniques like the “come-hither” motion and the importance of consistency.[00:25:00] - The Power of Communication: How check-ins like “harder, softer, faster, slower” enhance the experience for both partners.[00:33:00] - Overcoming Cock Shyness: Lisa and Ella reflect on embracing confidence and curiosity when exploring male pleasure.[00:45:00] - Team Effort in Pleasure: Jess and Josh share how working together can create a multi-dimensional experience.[01:00:00] - Playful Experiments: Jess and Josh recount their “30-minute free-for-all” experiment, fostering creativity and spontaneity._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• The Playful Podcast Website: For additional resources, community access, workshops, and after-hours content.• Wheel of Consent: A framework for understanding boundaries and consent in relationships.•  Alba Botanica Kukui Nut Oil: Used for massage and intimate touch, available on Amazon.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) tackle the topic of the "Ice Queen"—a term describing women who have become emotionally or physically distant in relationships. They explore the reasons behind this, such as lack of intimacy, mundane routines, and unaddressed emotional needs. Lisa shares her personal journey of overcoming emotional frigidity in her marriage by taking responsibility for her own desires and reconnecting with her femininity. The hosts discuss strategies for reigniting passion, from open communication to exploring intimacy outside traditional norms, with an emphasis on empowerment and self-discovery._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome: Jess sets the tone for an episode that addresses emotional and physical distance in relationships.[00:05:00] - Lisa’s Journey: From a self-proclaimed Ice Queen to rediscovering her sensuality.[00:18:00] - "Warm the Oven" Analogy: Jess shares a powerful metaphor about the importance of preparation and anticipation in intimacy.[00:35:00] - Eye-Gazing as a Game Changer: Lisa recounts how maintaining eye contact during intimacy has deepened her connections.[00:50:00] - Breaking Stalemates: Jess and Lisa discuss overcoming years of relational stalemates with actionable steps.[01:08:00] - The Power of Small Gestures: Touching, holding hands, and non-sexual intimacy as tools for reconnection._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• More Than Two: A foundational book on polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.• Wheel of Consent: A framework for setting boundaries and understanding personal consent.• The Playful Podcast Website: For more resources, community discussions, workshops, and exclusive content.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this candid episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) dive into a discussion about oral pleasure, specifically blowjobs, and share their experiences, techniques, and insights on making it enjoyable for both partners. Lisa talks about her journey from feeling ambivalent about blowjobs to embracing them as a form of self-expression and enjoyment. The hosts explore techniques to make oral sex more pleasurable, emphasizing slowing down, tuning into personal desires, and focusing on enjoyment rather than performance. Jess and Lisa offer tips for building comfort and confidence, aiming to empower listeners to feel liberated in their intimate practices._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess sets the stage for an intimate and educational quickie episode.[00:02:00] - Lisa’s Oral Journey: From “getting it over with” to finding empowerment and joy in oral intimacy.[00:09:00] - Soft Cock Play: Lisa discusses the joys of oral intimacy with soft cocks, challenging the stigma around arousal and masculinity.[00:18:00] - Tease & Anticipation: Lisa shares techniques for building anticipation, like licking the V-shaped crease between the thigh and pelvis.[00:25:00] - Body Worship Erotica: Lisa reads her short piece, "Lie Back: This is For Me," illustrating her playful and self-focused approach to oral intimacy.[00:33:00] - Slowing Down: The group emphasizes the transformative power of slowing down to fully enjoy every sensation.[00:40:00] - Empowering Vulnerability: Jess and Lisa discuss how oral intimacy fosters trust, connection, and healing for both partners._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• One Taste and Orgasmic Meditation: A reference for techniques that focus on mutual pleasure and connection.• Book on Blowjob Techniques: A Kindle Unlimited book with tips for enhancing oral pleasure.• The Playful Podcast Website: For additional resources, community access, and after-hours content.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) explore prostate play in depth, with Jess’s partner Josh joining to share his experiences. They discuss techniques, toys, and the benefits of prostate massage for men’s pleasure and health. Jess shares detailed tips on easing into prostate play, ensuring comfort and consent, and experimenting with different positions and tools. The hosts break down myths and reservations around prostate play, aiming to make it more approachable for listeners. This episode provides a safe space to learn about and understand prostate play, emphasizing open communication, preparation, and emotional awareness._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess introduces the episode, emphasizing the importance of consent and mature audiences.[00:02:00] - Lisa’s Reflections on Partner Etiquette: A discussion on respecting boundaries and creating space for intimacy in poly relationships.[00:09:00] - The Magic of Kukui Nut Oil: Jess shares her morning ritual with Josh using the Hawaiian oil for sensual massages.[00:14:00] - Josh’s Prostate Play Journey: Josh recounts his four-year journey with prostate toys and the transformative experiences they brought.[00:25:00] - Prostate Massage Techniques: Jess breaks down the anatomy of the prostate and demonstrates techniques like the “come-hither” stroke and tapping.[00:40:00] - Navigating New Sensations: The group discusses how to ease into prostate play with communication, consent, and relaxation techniques.[01:00:00] - The Health Benefits: The role of prostate massage in reducing the risk of prostate issues and enhancing male health.[01:15:00] - Final Thoughts on Pleasure and Connection: Jess and Josh reflect on the deep intimacy created through prostate play._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• Wheel of Consent: A framework for setting personal boundaries and understanding consent.• Slippery Stuff Lubricant: A water-based, paraben-free lubricant recommended for prostate and anal play.• Alba Botanica Kukui Nut Oil: A massage oil that Jess uses in bodywork sessions, available on Amazon.• The Playful Podcast Website: Recommended for additional resources, community access, and after-hours content.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, "The Poly Wife with Meta Amy," Jess (The Playful Domme) and Lisa (The Poly Wife) welcome Amy, Lisa’s “meta” (the partner of Lisa’s partner, Orion). They discuss the supportive dynamics of polyamory and explore the concept of metamours. Amy shares insights on building trust, communication, and respecting boundaries in polyamorous relationships. The hosts emphasize the importance of transparency and open communication to maintain harmony, particularly during special occasions, such as anniversaries, where partners support one another’s relationships. They also share personal anecdotes that demonstrate the benefits of mutual respect and clear agreements in maintaining a successful poly relationship._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess sets the stage, sharing that this episode is about real-life polyamory experiences.[00:02:00] - Amy’s 20th Anniversary Story: Lisa orchestrates a salsa dancing surprise for Amy and Orion, fulfilling a long-held wish.[00:06:00] - Trust and Transparency in Polyamory: How clear communication led to a fulfilling anniversary for everyone involved.[00:18:00] - Boundaries vs. Rules: Jess and Amy discuss the importance of setting boundaries for oneself, rather than imposing rules on others.[00:33:00] - Jealousy and Compassion: Navigating jealousy with empathy and clear boundaries to ensure all partners feel valued and secure.[00:50:00] - Celebrating Love Without Limits: Reflections on creating joy in relationships by focusing on authenticity and transparency._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• More Than Two: A foundational book on polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.• The Playful Podcast Website: Offers resources, access to community discussions, workshops, and booking sessions.• Wheel of Consent: Referenced as a framework for consent and setting personal boundaries.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme) shares her experience meeting Josh, an unexpected connection that led to a fulfilling relationship, while Lisa (The Poly Wife) introduces her new partner, Orion. The hosts discuss the importance of honesty, boundary-setting, and the courage it takes to communicate desires in polyamorous relationships. They reflect on how polyamory can expand personal growth, enhance intimacy, and create meaningful relationships outside conventional frameworks. Through open conversations, they emphasize that polyamory is about authenticity, mutual respect, and finding support within a community._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess introduces the episode and emphasizes the power of storytelling for normalizing polyamory.[00:02:00] - Jess Meets Josh: Jess shares her candid, humorous, and sensual story of meeting Josh at a bar, highlighting the serendipity of their connection and his incredible touch skills.[00:18:00] - Lisa Introduces Orion: Lisa recounts her journey with Orion, discussing their connection via a polyamorous dating app and how trust played a pivotal role in their relationship.[00:27:00] - Polyamory Foundations: The hosts explore key principles like honesty, consent, and mutual respect, emphasizing their role in creating fulfilling relationships.[00:40:00] - The Business of Marriage: A discussion on maintaining the "business side" of marriage while embracing polyamorous dynamics.[01:02:00] - Navigating Judgment: Jess and Lisa share strategies for overcoming societal stigma and staying grounded in authenticity._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• More Than Two: A recommended book on ethical non-monogamy and polyamory.• Wheel of Consent: A consent and boundary-setting framework.• The Playful Podcast Website: Visit for additional resources, community access, workshops, and booking sessions.• The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures• Monogamish: The new rules of marriage | Jessica O'Reilly | TEDxVancouverSupport the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) explore a range of intimate topics, including age-gap dynamics, exploring BDSM toys, and prostate play techniques. Lisa introduces her younger partner, or "cub," sharing the dynamics and excitement of this relationship. Jess delves into the benefits of prostate massage for male pleasure, discussing techniques and tools to enhance the experience. The episode is filled with candid stories, insights into sensual techniques, and practical tips on incorporating BDSM elements for deeper connection and exploration._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess introduces the themes of the episode and emphasizes the importance of consent and safety.[00:02:00] - Meet the Cub: Lisa shares the joys and challenges of her playful dynamic with a significantly younger partner.[00:09:00] - Exploring Prostate Play: Jess explains techniques for safely and pleasurably exploring the prostate, offering practical tips for partners.[00:18:00] - Toys, Tools, & Techniques: A discussion on incorporating toys like pinwheels and silk scarves to heighten sensation.[00:27:00] - Lisa’s Body Worship Experience: Lisa recounts her empowering journey of giving a sensual massage, applying Jess’s techniques.[00:40:00] - The Power of Connection: The hosts reflect on how slowing down and creating intentional touch can transform relationships.[00:50:00] - Final Thoughts: Jess offers closing words on the possibilities of intimacy and connection when we release shame and embrace curiosity._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• Wheel of Consent: A consent framework referenced for setting boundaries and enhancing intimacy.• J Lube: A recommended lubricant for anal play, available at feed stores.• The Playful Podcast Website: Listeners are invited to join for resources, after-hours content, and workshops.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, the hosts Jess The Playful Domme, Lisa The Poly Wife, and Ella The Virgin discuss navigating relationships in polyamory, focusing on the emotional challenges that come with managing expectations, jealousy, and the desire for deeper connections. Lisa shares her experience of redefining marriage expectations and embracing "relationship fluidity," where partners fulfill different roles without a singular expectation. Jess and Ella contribute insights on personal growth, setting boundaries, and the importance of self-respect. They explore the empowering nature of open communication and boundary-setting in building a fulfilling life that aligns with individual desires and relationships._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome & Disclaimer: Jess introduces the theme of the episode and outlines the importance of consent and clear communication in intimate relationships.[00:02:00] - Lisa’s Marriage Reflections: Lisa recounts a challenging period in her marriage and the emotional work involved in letting go of expectations.[00:10:00] - Redefining Relationship Roles: A discussion on how relationships can evolve from traditional roles into something more fluid and fulfilling.[00:18:00] - Jealousy and Boundaries: The group discusses managing jealousy through boundary-setting and self-reflection.[00:25:00] - Marriage Fluidity: Lisa coins the term to describe how relationships can adapt and grow beyond rigid societal constructs.[00:35:00] - The Power of Sisterhood: Jess shares how support from close friends helped her navigate a difficult time, underscoring the importance of community.[00:45:00] - Turning Pain Into Growth: The group reflects on how difficult experiences can lead to transformative personal and relationship growth._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• More Than Two: A recommended book on polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.• The Playful Podcast Website: Listeners are invited to visit for additional resources, community discussions, and booking sessions.• Wheel of Consent: A framework for understanding boundaries and mutual agreements in relationships.- https://bettymartin.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/final-Wheel-A4.pdfSupport the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, titled "Getting Into Body Work," the hosts Jess The Playful Domme, Lisa The Poly Wife, and Ella The Virgin discuss the power of sensual and therapeutic bodywork as a pathway to healing, self-awareness, and empowerment. Jess shares personal experiences of transitioning from corporate life to bodywork and the profound impact it had on her physical and mental well-being. The hosts delve into the techniques and practices involved in sensual massages, emphasizing the importance of consent, personal boundaries, and open communication. They also explore the role of mentorship and guidance in discovering confidence and authenticity within intimate and therapeutic spaces._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome and Disclaimer: Jess introduces the episode and outlines its focus on bodywork and intimacy.[00:02:00] - Jess’s Transition to Bodywork: A raw account of leaving corporate life and stepping into the world of dominatrix and bodywork.[00:10:00] - Lisa’s Bodywork Aspirations: Lisa shares her dreams of creating spaces for women to feel adored and nurtured.[00:18:00] - Healing Through Sensual Massage: Jess and Lisa discuss the emotional and physical benefits of bodywork, including stress relief and self-awareness.[00:25:00] - Breaking Taboo: The group explores how touch is often stigmatized, and the need for more openness in discussing sensuality.[00:40:00] - Jess’s Signature Techniques: A detailed walk-through of Jess’s sensual massage practices, including her famous “Johnny Twist” move.[00:50:00] - Empowering Through Touch: Jess reflects on how bodywork can help people reclaim their confidence and feel seen and valued._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• More Than Two: A foundational book on polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.• Wheel of Consent: A consent and boundary-setting framework.- https://bettymartin.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/final-Wheel-A4.pdf• The Playful Podcast Website: Recommended for additional resources, discussions, and booking sessions.• Bodywork Resources: Mentions of learning experiences, such as sensual massage techniques and workshops.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts

In this episode, the hosts Jess The Playful Domme, Lisa The Poly Wife, and Ella The Virgin discuss the dynamics of metamour relationships in polyamory—exploring the complex emotions that can arise when partners have other partners. They address the importance of handling one’s emotions, setting boundaries, and fostering open communication within these relationships. Through personal anecdotes, they emphasize the need for self-reflection, emotional responsibility, and understanding as essential skills for managing jealousy, insecurity, and expectations. The hosts also touch on concepts like ethical non-monogamy, the difference between kinky and swinger relationships, and how exploring these connections can lead to personal growth and stronger bonds._____________________________________________________🔥SHOW NOTES🔥[00:00:00] - Welcome and Disclaimer: Jess introduces the episode and sets the stage for an open, mature discussion on intimacy and relationships.[00:02:00] - What is a Metamour?: Lisa explains the concept of metamours and how these relationships impact poly dynamics.[00:05:00] - Handling Your Feelings: A discussion on jealousy, ownership of emotions, and maintaining healthy boundaries in poly relationships.[00:14:00] - Ethics in Polyamory: The hosts discuss the importance of ethical practices, respecting boundaries, and avoiding veto dynamics.[00:18:00] - Managing Jealousy: Lisa shares personal anecdotes about shifting from resentment to sisterhood with metamours.[00:25:00] - Communication Tips: Strategies for clear, honest communication to strengthen relationships and avoid misunderstandings.[00:33:00] - Emotional Accountability: A deep dive into how taking responsibility for personal emotions can lead to stronger connections._____________________________________________________🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥• More Than Two: A foundational book for polyamorous relationships that covers ethical practices and managing complex dynamics.• Wheel of Consent: A framework for establishing boundaries and understanding consent, valuable for intimate and metamour relationships.- https://bettymartin.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/final-Wheel-A4.pdf• The Playful Podcast Website: Listeners are invited to visit for more resources, community discussions, workshops, and booking sessions.Support the show_____________________________________________________Want more?😏Head over to theplayfulpodcast.com for all the juicy things we have to offer. From there you can join our community where you can get access to after hours, attend upcoming workshops and events, and even book a session._____________________________________________________ #ThePlayfulPodcast #PlayfulPodcast #JessThePlayfulDomme #LisaThePolyWife #ThePolyWife #ThePlayfulDomme #TheVirgin #EllaTheVirgin #SexPositive #RealTalk #BreakingBarriers #UnfilteredConversations #Relationships #RawTruths #LaughAndLearn #CuriosityUnleashed #AuthenticLiving #PodcastCommunity #RedefiningNorms #PolyTalk #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #BDSM #ConsentCulture #RelationshipBoundaries #EmpoweredWomen #OpenRelationships #LoveAndIntimacy #Podcast #Podcasts