THE SE POD

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THE SE POD

This is a podcast on dating, relationships, self care and brokenness. It is for the grown, unapologetic and unhealed individual.I want to help you connect back to your core and eventually date better partners.

  1. 18

    FEMININITY IN RELATIONSHIPS: A MAN'S POV

    In this episode, Tam and I talk about femininity in relationships and how it can play out. We work through some bits of hyper independence and when it requires the man to stay or take a bow.Enjoy!

  2. 17

    MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIPS AND WHY WITH IVIE

    In this episode, Ivie and I get together to discuss why women should choose marriage, qualities to look out for and a bit of how we met.Enjoy!

  3. 16

    THE UNDERSTANDING WIFE

    In this episode, we tell the chilling story of a woman who chose herself and freedom just in time.TRIGGER WARNING: RAPE, ABUSE

  4. 15

    FROM ABUSE TO HEALTHY: A MAN'S PERSPECTIVE

    In this episode, I talk about being in an abusive relationship as a man, healing from it, staying single and the lessons learnt.We dive into him finally getting into a healthy relationship and what parts of him his current relationship has healed.Enjoy!

  5. 14

    BANTS, RANTS, DATING STORY TIME AND LESSONS

    In this episode, I talk about a date I went on a while ago. I give my two cents on the Annie idibia story, highlight a creator on TikTok and say happy new year!

  6. 13

    STOP CHASING: MEN ARE NOT COMPLICATED

    In this episode, I talk about chasing men, stepping out of your feminine into roles that are none of your business and I tell a story of how not believing dating rules exist is keeping you in terrible situations.

  7. 12

    LOVE OR LIMERENCE ?

    In this episode, I define love and limerence. I also challenge you to step into deep introspection questioning which one of these two have kept you bound to situations you should not have been bound to.

  8. 11

    HIGH VALUE: MEN AND WOMEN

    In this highly requested episode, I define what High Value is for both genders as I have been asked a lot. I hope this helps you put both things into perspective.

  9. 10

    TALKING STAGES MAIN

    In this episode, we are talking about talking stages, where the line should be, having the audacity to demand what you should and spotting the red flags that are not so obvious.

  10. 9

    TALKING STAGES INTRO.

    Talking stages, telling men off and paying attention to the seeming little things that are often ignored.

  11. 8

    FOR THE PLOT: THE NARCISSIST

    In this episode, I gist you guys about dating for the plot and ignoring red flags for the story I'll have to tell lmaooooooo

  12. 7

    HYPER-INDEPENDENCE: TRAUMA OR NOT

    In this episode, I talk about hyper-independence and if you are operating out of your trauma or not. Are you tired of trying to prove a point or do you enjoy the dynamics hyper independence has you in.

  13. 6

    UNDERSTANDING GIRLFRIEND

    In this episode, I talk to Loveth about her past relationship and being an understanding babe. We touch lightly about her being emotionally abused and self abandonment. Enjoy!

  14. 5

    A GUIDE TO VETTING: THE FLING

    In this episode, I break down the characteristics of a man who can be classified as a fling and use a TV show as an example.

  15. 4

    EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE

    In this episode, I give a different perspective on choosing emotionally unavailable partners and challenge you to look inwards first. Enjoy!

  16. 3

    ASK SELEMA: Communication tips, Dating and Being Approached

    In this episode, I answer questions and give tips on how to improve your communication with your man if you want the best out of him.

  17. 2

    A GUIDE TO VETTING: THE HUSBAND

    In this 3 part episode, I breakdown why you keep struggling with dating the men who do not offer what you want and how to Vet for the men that are worth being in commitments with. Enjoy!

  18. 1

    ASK SELEMA: Dating, Attraction, Coming of Age

    In this episode, i answer questions from my audience on instagram and drop some coming of age gems. I will make a part 2 for this as the questions were alot. Enjoy!

  19. 0

    GENERATIONS AND TRAUMA

    In this episode, i talk about trauma and how it can affect generations if nothing is done. I share a personal story and experience with trauma and how to begin your journey back to self. Enjoy1

  20. -1

    INTRO

    This is not a podcast for the humble or apologetic. I will give you gold digger advice lol. If you want to Date Better partners? You need to be listening to me. Welcome to THE SE POD

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

This is a podcast on dating, relationships, self care and brokenness. It is for the grown, unapologetic and unhealed individual.I want to help you connect back to your core and eventually date better partners.

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SELEMA

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