The Soul'd Out Show with Chris & Tam

Everybody says communication is the key to a healthy relationship…but what if the real issue is that you and your partner are wired completely differently?In this episode, we’re breaking down DISC in a real, relatable way, and showing how personality styles impact the way we communicate, handle conflict, make decisions, and show up for each other in love and in business.We’re sharing our actual DISC results and what they revealed about us, where we naturally align, where we clash, and how understanding each other’s wiring has changed the way we communicate and connect.Because the truth is…it’s not always about what’s being said. It’s also about how it’s being received.In this episode, we discuss:How different DISC styles show up in relationshipsWhat you’ve had to learn about each other to communicate and connect more effectivelyHow understanding each other’s style has improved your patience, communication, and expectationsThe shift from taking things personally to understanding how your partner is wiredIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "Are Relationships Hard Work?" Are we overcomplicating relationships or are we unequally yoked?______Chris and Tamara are both certified John Maxwell speakers, trainers and coaches. If you and your partner or executive board/team are interested in learning DISC can help you learn and improve your communication, contact Chris Hill to schedule a time to discuss.Chris Hill, Your Intentional Leadership [email protected]______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

What happens when the job you thought was secure… suddenly isn’t?In this episode, we’re having a real conversation about getting fired, navigating career transitions, and what it looks like when life forces you to stop, reflect, and figure out what’s next.Chris and Tam share personal experiences about losing a job, what it felt like in the moment, the emotions no one really talks about, and how it can impact confidence, identity, and direction. From shock and frustration to clarity and purpose, this episode isn’t just about losing a job, it's about finding alignment.They talk about how they supported each other through that season, the conversations that mattered, and how that transition ultimately pushed them deeper into their business, purpose and new opportunities. Because sometimes…what feels like a setback is actually a setup.In this episode, we discuss:The emotional reality of getting firedHow career loss impacts identity and confidenceNavigating uncertainty and the fear of “what’s next”Supporting your partner through transitionHow setbacks can lead to clarity, purpose, and new directionIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "Do men and women prioritize their careers the same way, or differently?" Is your career part of who you are… or just what you do?______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Life gets heavy sometimes. Work pressures, family responsibilities, business demands, and everyday challenges can all show up at once. In this episode, Chris and Tam talk about what it really looks like to support each other when life is life-ing, without trying to fix everything or carry the weight alone. And why understanding how your partner experiences pressure can make a big difference in how you show up for each other.You’ll hear real talk about:• How each of them reacts under pressure• How stress in one area spills into others across life, love, and business• Knowing when to lean in, and when to give space• Learning how to support without always trying to fix thingsIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "Should your partner be your only source of emotional support?" Does having a support system outside the relationship strengthen or hurt a relationship?______**SPECIAL NOTE**Listen to the end of the episode to hear the "Song for Chill." that Tam wrote for Chris.______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Money conversations can bring up a lot: beliefs, expectations, pressure, and sometimes even tension. In this episode, Chris and Tam dive into how our upbringing, values, and personal experiences shape the way we think about money and responsibility in relationships.From traditional roles to modern partnerships, they explore how mindset often matters more than income and why alignment around money is one of the most important foundations in life, love and business. The conversation touches on how financial expectations evolve over time and why healthy conversations about money build trust, respect, and long-term partnership.You’ll hear real talk about:• How upbringing shapes expectations around roles and responsibility• Roles and expectations around money• How do modern relationships redefine roles• How financial conversations influence trust and respect in a relationshipIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "Should the man pay for everything in a relationship?" Is paying about money or values?______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Everyone says they want honesty, but what does that really mean in a relationship?In this episode, Chris and Tam unpack the difference between being truthful, open, and brutally honest. From relationships and friendships to business and public life, they explore how honesty builds trust, and how discernment protects peace.This is a real, grounded conversation about communication, maturity, and knowing when to speak and when to pause.You’ll hear real talk about:The difference between honesty and transparencyWhen full transparency is necessaryHow honesty shows up differently in love, friendships, and businessIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "How much of your relationship should be shared online?" Does privacy protect or hide a relationship?______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

As the year comes to a close, Chris and Tam slow things down and reflect on what this season has taught them — individually, as a couple, and as partners in life and business.In this episode, they talk honestly about growth, lessons learned, what they’re proud of, and what they’re intentionally leaving behind. From love and communication to building CLEAR and planning for 2026, this conversation is about closing the year with clarity and stepping into what’s next with intention.You’ll hear real talk about:What this year revealed about love and partnershipLessons learned while building life and business togetherHow reflection creates clarity for what’s nextWhy intention matters more than resolutionsIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam explore the big question: "Is growth in a relationship about change or acceptance?" Can you grow with someone without trying to change them?This episode is thoughtful, grounding, and full of perspective, the perfect conversation to help you close the year with intention and move forward aligned.______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Dreams look different when you’re building a life and a business with your soulmate. In this episode, Chris and Tam unpack what it really means to dream together, set goals together, support each other’s growth, and stay aligned while navigating love, work, and purpose.You’ll hear real talk about:How to blend two visions without losing identityThe power of shared goalsHow you keep each other motivated and accountableHow to support each other’s individual AND shared dreamsIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam tackle the big question:“Should couples share all assets or only what they built together?” At what point should finances become "ours" instead of "Mine" and "Yours"?______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Your past doesn’t disappear when you enter a new relationship, but it can be healed, rewritten, and transformed. In this episode, Chris and Tam open up about how past relationships, heartbreaks, and experiences shaped who they are today, and how they created space for something healthy and new.You’ll hear real talk about:Healing old emotional wounds before (and during) a new relationshipLetting go of fear, walls, and old patternsHow past experiences shape trust and communicationThe POWER of therapy and doing the workTaking responsibility in your relationships, even the ones that didn't work outIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: Should you tell your partner everything about your past? Is it disrespectful? Is it complicated? Who sets the boundaries?This episode is real, vulnerable, honest, and full of the kind of grown love that makes healing possible.______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Navigating love as a blended couple is beautiful…and sometimes it can be a little complicated. In this episode, Chris and Tam get real about what it’s like merging two worlds, adult children, grandkids, families, traditions, expectations, and all the holiday energy that comes with it.From balancing traditions to setting boundaries with extended family and managing old relationships, they share how they stay connected while honoring the people they love.You’ll hear honest conversations about:The reality of blending adult children and grandchildrenCreating new traditions without disrespecting old onesSetting boundaries with exes and extended familyIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam dive into a debate most couples avoid:How do you manage new relationships when your family still has relationships with your ex? Is it disrespectful? Is it complicated? Who sets the boundaries?As always, this episode is full of truth, laughter, and, of course, LOVE!______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

Friendships shift when your relationship gets serious — and nobody talks about it enough. In this episode, Chris and Tam go deep on how to balance friendships, protect your relationship energy, and set respectful boundaries without losing yourself (or your people).They break down the real dynamics that show up once you’re committed, including changing friend groups, how much access people should have to your relationship, and how to tell when outside energy is starting to disrupt the vibe between you and your partner.You’ll hear real talk about:How friendships evolve once you're truly building with someoneThe difference between control and healthy boundariesOpposite-sex friendships and what respect really looks likeProtecting the peace inside your relationshipIn this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam tackle the big question:What happens when a breakup happens in your friendship group? Are you still hanging out with both people? Which one are you inviting to your party?This episode is full of truth, laughter and of course, a whole lot of LOVE!_______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Subscribe and share this episode with others!

They live together. They love together. And yes… they work together too!In this first full episode, Chris and Tam dive into what it really takes to build a healthy relationship and a thriving business as a couple.From clashing communication styles to early growing pains, they get honest about the challenges, the surprises, and the beautiful lessons they’ve learned along the way. They also open up about their DISC personalities, how those differences show up in their day-to-day life, and the systems they’ve created to stay connected while getting things done.You’ll laugh, nod your head, and probably see your own relationship somewhere in this conversation. Love and business can coexist, but not without intention, patience, and a whole lot of grace.Tune in for the real talk, the relatable moments, and their first “He Said / She Said” debate of the season: Do couples have to have the same circle of friends?______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!

In this Introduction Episode, meet Chris and Tam, soulmates in life, love, and business, who are inviting you into their world. Learn how they met, how a wrong text message sparked the connection, and why they decided to open their conversations to the world.What does grown, intentional love sound like? Real conversations about love, life, partnership, purpose, and building something meaningful together, with honesty, a little humor, and a lot of love and laughter. This episode sets the tone for everything to come.Each week they share their story, their chemistry, their business, their expertise, and the heart behind The Soul’d Out Show.Watch the "Meet Chris & Tam" video on our IG https://www.instagram.com/reel/DRQLBlICUkU/?igsh=Z3JtYms4dnpha3lz______Follow Chris and Tam on Instagram @SouldOutExperience.Make sure you subscribe and share this podcast with others!