The Unfiltered Spot

Send us Fan MailIn Episode 97, we’re unfollowing the script on relationships and life expectations. From married couples choosing to live separately, to the debate around keeping a last name after divorce, we unpack the emotions and opinions behind unconventional choices. We also talk GLP-1 “shock” and the latest outrage shaking the music world. Real talk, real opinions—no script.

Send us Fan MailIn Episode 96, we’re calling out the things people secretly pretend to enjoy and asking the uncomfortable questions out loud.We talk about what it really looks like to date your spouse after the honeymoon phase fades, the complicated and sometimes manipulative dynamics that can happen when children are used to control their mother, and the debate that always gets people talking… can men truly have platonic friendships with women?This episode is honest, spicy, and definitely unfiltered. Tune in and ask yourself… are we being real, or just playing along? 🔥

Send us Fan MailIn Episode 95 of The Unfiltered Spot, Jack shares a moment from a recent school field trip that left her unsettled. What started as a routine outing quickly turned into a conversation about micro-aggressions in the classroom after she witnessed a troubling exchange between a student and a teacher.Jack and Dray unpack what happened, discuss how seemingly small comments can carry deeper meaning, and explore the impact these moments can have on students. The conversation opens the door to broader questions about awareness, accountability, and how educators and communities can better support every student.Tune in as they break it down—unfiltered.

Send us Fan MailIn Episode 94 of The Unfiltered Spot, Jack and Dray discuss the recent release of a local pastor from prison and the conversations it has sparked in the community. They dive into the complex topics of accountability, forgiveness, and what true restoration looks like after someone has served their time.Through an honest and unfiltered conversation, they explore different perspectives on redemption, leadership, and whether communities are willing—or ready—to embrace second chances. This episode isn’t about judgment, but about unpacking the realities of grace, consequences, and rebuilding trust.

Send us Fan MailThis episode goes THERE. From punishing kids and generational parenting clashes to Joe’s road trip self-reflection, we break it all down. Then it’s T.I. vs 50 Cent — legacy, impact, and receipts. And we unpack the D9 denouncing organizations conversation shaking timelines. Unfiltered means unfiltered.

Send us Fan MailEpisode 92 is where faith, finances, and freedom collide.From a Florida pastor facing serious allegations to the tipping debate over a $1,700 bill… and the ultimate choice — 20 days behind bars or 2 years on probation.And yes, we’re talking Dortches and Valentine’s Day too 👀

Send us Fan MailThis week, we’re starting with the Seat at the Table QOTD 👀 — and it sets the tone for the entire conversation.From there, we dive into the complex and controversial topic of AI-generated adult content — where innovation meets ethics and hard questions about consent.Then we unpack what it really means to “make it.” When you finally get on… are you obligated to put your family on too? Is it loyalty, pressure, or both?It’s layered. It’s real. It’s unfiltered. 

Send us Fan MailThis week on Unfiltered Spot, we’re talking about:Valentine’s Day plans that should come with a warning label — because if love ever leads you to Dortches, just know… that’s not romance, that’s a test.Words kids are absolutely NOT allowed to say — and why they somehow save those words for the most public, church-adjacent, grandparent-present moments.If your idea of love includes cow sightings and your kids have selective amnesia about “inside voices,” this episode is for YOU.🎧 Listen to Episode 90 now before Valentine’s Day takes a hard left into farm life.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode we dive into the Druski vs. mega church conversation, unpacking the tension between what’s kept private and what becomes scandal. We talk about the rise of the “sexy church” image, and how certain leaders seem to get away with anything. The episode questions power, perception, and why some institutions feel completely untouchable—until they aren’t.

Send us Fan MailWe explore relationship dynamics by asking what truly matters most in a marriage, along with a conversation on social awareness and discernment in everyday interactions. The episode takes a turn as we unpack “missionary only” mindsets, questionable leadership in faith spaces, and ongoing controversy. We wrap up with a complex family discussion around parenting decisions that raise emotional and cultural questions. As always, expect honest opinions, tough questions, and unfiltered dialogue.

Send us Fan MailEpisode 87 is all about the uncomfortable conversations nobody wants to have—but everybody needs to. From stank breath to body odor, we talk about how and when to address hygiene issues without hurting feelings or blowing up relationships. Are you being honest… or just being nice?Plus, Jack makes a bold declaration that has us all raising eyebrows: the Carolina Panthers are Super Bowl bound. Is it confidence, delusion, or prophetic insight? Tune in for the laughs, the side-eyes, and the real talk. 🎙️

Send us Fan MailIn Episode 86, we unpack the idea of the “undateable woman” and question whether the label is fair, earned, or just another way to avoid accountability. The conversation then takes a turn as we flirt with the idea of Temptations Cancun and what freedom, curiosity, and boundaries really look like in adulthood.We also tackle the age-old question: how long is too long for a “session”.  And to wrap it all up, we ask a question many people are thinking but few say out loud: where are men actually getting their sexual advice from?As always, it’s honest, unfiltered, and sure to spark debate. 🎙️

Send us Fan MailThis week on Unfiltered Spot, we’re diving into marriage — the beauty, the challenges, and the moments when it can start to feel transactional. Let’s talk transparency, partnership, and the real work behind building a lasting union.

Send us Fan MailEpisode 84 brings the heat! 🔥 We’re talking dealbreakers at a man’s house, a swinging couple surprise pregnancy, what “Find a man whose best friend is Jesus” really means, and a NY woman who took heartbreak too far. Tune in — it’s a ride! 🎙 #UnfilteredSpotPodcast

Send us Fan MailIn Episode 83 of The Unfiltered Spot, the hosts dive deep into some of the most real and raw relationship topics yet. From debating whether the “hoe phase” is a necessary part of self-discovery, to unpacking what happens when a spouse is living a double life with a secret family—no topic is off limits. The conversation also takes a heartfelt turn as we discuss the unique experiences of parents raising autistic children and we take an honest look in the mirror: are you really a good partner?This episode blends humor, honesty, and healing in true Unfiltered Spot style—reminding listeners that growth often starts with uncomfortable conversations.

Send us Fan MailThis week on The Unfiltered Spot, we’re putting ourselves in the hot seat with a round of hilarious (and slightly painful) “Would You Rather” questions. From choosing between a kid who’s wide awake at 5 AM or one who won’t sleep until 2 AM, to deciding whether we’d pause or rewind life, the answers get real.Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a little wisdom — Unfiltered Spot style.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Unfiltered Spot, we dive into the gray areas of relationships, choices, and shifting boundaries. Our Question of the Day challenges listeners to reflect: What’s something you would consider now that used to be a hard no?We also explore the tough reality many women face—what advice would you give to someone who decides to stay after catching her man cheating? The conversation gets raw and layered as we weigh personal values, forgiveness, and self-worth.The episode closes with a deep dive into the hit TV series Reasonable Doubt, unpacking the complicated Season 3 storyline of Jax, Lewis, and Toni. Toni offers to end her legal battles if Lewis agrees to spend one night with her, seeking closure after the loss of their infant son. We ask: Is this fair? Is it manipulation, healing, or both?Tune in for a mix of reflection, real talk, and unfiltered opinions.

Send us Fan MailIn this unfiltered conversation, we dive headfirst into the world of desire, imagination, and intimacy. From exploring what it means to keep things vanilla, and even the controversial subject of bodily fluids in the bedroom, no topic is off-limits. Whether playful, taboo, or thought-provoking, we’re breaking it all down with honesty and humor.Tap in—you won’t want to miss this one.

Send us Fan MailThis week we’re checking in on everything from smoke alarms and the Vegas heat to birthday trip highlights and an HD update. Our Question of the Day dives into Ari Lennox’s remarks on The Martin Show, setting the stage for a candid conversation. We unpack the realities of bitter baby mommas and the damage caused when children are turned against their fathers, the struggles of single motherhood, and the lessons learned from letting the right person slip away in pursuit of the player lifestyle. To close, we share practical advice on how to pick a partner wisely.

Send us Fan MailIn Episode 78 of The Unfiltered Spot, we’re diving into everything from privacy to parenting. Would you be okay with your significant other having an OnlyFans account? We’ve got thoughts. Plus, we unpack Carnival Cruise Line’s latest ban and the chilling reality of a break-in while children were home. During our advice segment, we tackle a few tough but relatable situations: a mom who doesn’t mind co-sleeping (because… marriage struggles), and a woman grappling with the embarrassment of having five kids with a man who still won’t marry her. It’s real. It’s raw. It’s unfiltered. Tap in!

Send us Fan MailIn this week’s episode we dive into the dynamics of healthy conflict, parenting styles, and whether you should actually be friends with your kids. Plus, we’re talking about the unwritten rules of neighborhood kids eating at your house — are you feeding the block or locking the fridge? And finally, we touch on the hot topic of retirement age and why some folks are clocking in well past 65. Tune in for laughs, perspective, and just the right dose of unfiltered truth.

Send us Fan MailIn this unfiltered and unforgettable episode, we honor Juneteenth while diving into some wild and unexpected conversations. We reflect on the meaning of freedom, then take a sharp turn into true crime with the case of a man who killed his mistress. Things get even spicier as we reveal the bizarre origin of Kellogg’s Corn Flakes—yes, it really was meant to suppress sexual urges! And just when you thought it couldn’t get more unhinged, we break down the chaos at Synergy Auto and why it might just be diabolical.🔥 This episode is part history, part scandal, and fully unfiltered.

Send us Fan Mail🎙️ Episode 75: “Thirst Trap” is LIVE! 🎙️We’re back with another unfiltered conversation! This week’s episode covers it all:✅ Weekly check-in & a special belated Father’s Day shoutout✅ Meal prep struggles (or victories 😅)✅ My baby graduated… but whose graduation really takes priority? (POLL INSIDE 👀)QOTD: Would you remarry after your spouse passes? Let’s talk about it.Plus, we weigh in on Carter 6 — did Lil Wayne deliver?And of course…👉 Women after losing their husbands👉 A DM gone wrong — when a “thirst trap” causes drama👉 Taking time off without PTO (from the airport no less!)🎧 Tap in, join the convo, and don’t forget to vote in the polls!#TheUnfilteredSpot #PodcastEpisode75 #ThirstTrap #Carter6 #RealTalk #PollsOpen #TuneInNow

Send us Fan MailWe turned up the heat and got real about spicing things up in the bedroom! From exploring kink to deepening intimacy, we dove into ways to keep passion alive and love on your partner—mind, body, and soul. 💋 Whether you’re curious, committed, or somewhere in between, this episode is your permission slip to explore pleasure, connection, and fun without shame.

Send us Fan MailThis week Jack picks Dray’s brain with a couple of questions of the day. 

Send us Fan MailThis week Jack and Dray are coming to you live from the Carnival Jubilee with their weekly check in.

Send us Fan MailWelcome back to another episode of The Unfiltered Spot! This week, Dray and Jack are holding it down with a lively conversation you won’t want to miss. They dive into the story behind ‘Club Sha Sha’ and tackle some late-night dilemmas — including the hilarious and thought-provoking question, ‘What’s a man to do at 3am?’ Tune in for laughs, real talk, and of course, that signature unfiltered vibe. Let’s get into it!”https://linktr.ee/unfilteredspot

Send us Fan MailJack sits with a sick Dray this week to discuss queso at the swinger party and pastors who say anything on the mic.

Send us Fan MailDray & Jack dive deep into the concept of intimacy beyond the physical. With candid conversation and real-life perspectives, they explore how emotional connection, vulnerability, and meaningful communication can create powerful bonds.The duo shares practical tips for opening the floor to honest dialogue in relationships and discusses how understanding the Five Love Languages can transform the way we connect with our partners. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode will challenge you to rethink what true intimacy really means.

Send us Fan MailThis week Dray & Jack sit to discuss choices, whether it be to sit through TSA when you have Precheck or to keep the tough guy mentality even when it’s not in your best interest.

Send us Fan MailDray and Jack sit down this week to discuss our rude neighbors, birth control, and zodiac compatibility.We also did a BIG thing….we’re live on YouTube!!! So now you have the opportunity to see us in person.https://youtube.com/@unfilteredspotpodcast?si=viusHvzNG9mjfbYg

Send us Fan MailThis week Dray & Jack discuss hazing in organizations and the concept of Black people themselves can be racist.

Send us Fan MailDray and Jack catch up this week and discuss love names, more 2025 dating woes, and their thoughts of living at home as an adult. 

Send us Fan MailDray and Jack explore the “freak party fantasy” and predict how each other would react. In addition they discuss two relationship issues and how they would tackle them.

Send us Fan MailHappy Black History Month ❤️💚🖤💛 Dray and Jack sit to share some Black History stories that have been passed down and how the concept of “instant gratification” is running wild.

Send us Fan MailFor Dray and Jack it’s all about love. On this episode we define love and lay out some characteristics of love. ❤️ We also discuss Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl performance.

Send us Fan MailApproaching their 40s Jack and Dray discuss some weird symptoms and how they’re adjusting. They also discuss how false tears and fears can be dangerous for the Black community.

Send us Fan MailMisguided youth is the topic this week.

Send us Fan MailThis week Dray and Jack discuss why our kids won’t be sleeping over at their friends house and teen pregnancy.

Send us Fan MailHappy New Year from Dray and Jack. This week we recap 2024, discuss 2025 resolutions and challenge all parents to find a alternative way for disciplining their children.

Send us Fan MailHappy Holidays from Dray & Jack!!! This week they sit to discuss the state of marriage because it appears that we’re down real bad.

Send us Fan MailThis week Dray and Jack weigh in on the “Listen and Judge” trend. - TikTok birthday hotel decorations- Women using Men for financial gain- Baby shower and mall proposals 

Send us Fan MailThis week Dray & Jack recap the holiday season, how it feels to be married and media madness.

Send us Fan MailThis week Dray and Jack discuss the different standards of raising the next generation and the secret that some women are carrying.

Send us Fan MailJack is back from vacation and ready to discuss all things family lineage. This week Jack and Dray discuss travel etiquette, missing flights and blue bracelets.

Send us Fan MailThis week, Jack and Dray discuss the recent events happening on various HBCU campuses. It seems like we’re losing pieces of our culture and the art of having a good time all at the same time. 

Send us Fan MailThis week, Dray and Jack explore navigating major life changes such as career shifts, health challenges, or significant losses during the holiday season. 

Send us Fan MailThis week Dray and Jack discuss:NC State fairTHS 20th reunion NCCU homecoming Growing up in the 90’s

Send us Fan MailDray and Jack are back after a short hiatus with a midweek catch up.

Send us Fan MailThis week Dray discusses the journey of his brain tumor. From diagnosis, to treatments, and life after remission.Interested in purchasing Dray’s book “Troubling Waters” by Hiram Dancy Jr? It can be found on Amazon or by clicking the following link.  https://a.co/d/iHLkzJz