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Send a textWe laugh through a chaotic sound bath, survive hot yoga, and use Wicked to unpack conformity, propaganda, and what it means to be “good.” The talk turns from wellness mishaps to moral complexity, boundaries, and why storytelling sometimes changes minds better than arguments.• awkward sound bath, cacao ritual, salt cave vibes • fueling and dizziness lessons from hot yoga • aging bodies, mobility, sciatica, practical recovery • Glinda vs Elphaba as approval vs conviction • popularity as power and palatability • propaganda, groupthink, and blind authority • no one is a villain in their own story • grace with boundaries, emotional intelligence • storytelling and art as soft power for change

Send a textListen in on the most telling red flags at weddings and how divorce is not just optional, it's probable. After that, let's analyze the toxic dynamic between Dakota and Taylor from Secret Lives of Mormon Wives after Dakota's interview on Nick Viall Files. Lastly, catch some of our wisdom that you just might find embroidered on your grandma's pillows.• Aggressive cake-smashing at weddings is an immediate divorce and deserves jail time• Grooms not crying when the bride walks down the aisle is a major disappointment and calls for a redo• Partners who don't stand up for each other against difficult family members deserve jail• Let's do away with the garter toss tradition, please• Dakota Wright from "Secret Lives of Mormon Wives" fails to take accountability for his actions in his relationship with Taylor• Public scrutiny makes relationship healing significantly more difficult• Past trauma explains behavior but doesn't excuse it, let's get that straight• Standing up for your partner is foundational to a healthy relationshipBe delusional. Reality is for people with no imagination.

Send a textCrys shares her journey to getting a breast reduction, including an awkward consultation with the surgeon and dealing with insurance complications for her 32K cup size. The medical necessity debate highlights the physical toll of large breasts, including back pain and daily discomfort.• Crys and Riss discuss their experiences with skincare treatments like retinol and chemical peels, sharing horror stories of peeling faces and makeup disasters• Both hosts strongly advocate for proper showering habits and criticize trends of infrequent washing• The period disc gets enthusiastic endorsements from both hosts as a life-changing menstrual product that reduces cramps and eliminates leaks• Motherhood struggles get a candid examination, including breastfeeding difficulties, postpartum body changes, and the unequal burden on mothers• Crystal reviews "The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives" reality show, critiquing the manufactured drama and questionable ethics of filming therapy sessionsFollow us on TikTok @therealtsbu, subscribe on YouTube, and let us know what topics you'd like us to cover next!

Send a textWe dive into Taylor Jenkins Reid's captivating novel "The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo," exploring the story of a Hollywood icon who strategically navigates fame, fortune, and forbidden love through seven marriages while hiding her true self.• Evelyn Hugo requests an unknown journalist to write her biography, revealing the calculated nature of her seven marriages• Hollywood in the 1950s-60s required actresses to maintain specific public images, forcing Evelyn to hide her true identity• Evelyn's relationship with actress Celia St. James forms the emotional core of the story as they navigate their forbidden love• The concept of "bearding" and creating fake relationships plays a crucial role in how the characters protect themselves• Harry Cameron becomes Evelyn's closest friend, co-parent, and "husband" while hiding his own sexuality• The novel explores how fame forces people to create elaborate deceptions that ultimately cause deep personal pain• The shocking connection between Evelyn and journalist Monique ties the story together in an unexpected way• Reid's writing beautifully captures the glamour of Old Hollywood while exposing its dangerous demandsCheck out more of our book discussions and other content on all podcast platforms and YouTube at This Stays Between Us, and follow us on TikTok @TheRealTSBU.

Send a textWe confess our embarrassing knowledge gaps, communication mishaps, and haunting childhood memories that keep us up at night.• Frustrations with motion-sensor faucets at Costco and the desperate dance of trying to get them to work• Confusing conversation with mom who said she "wouldn't be here much longer" leading to panic before clarifying she meant moving houses• Confessing to struggles with reading analog clocks, understanding directions, and converting time phrases like "20 till the hour"• Stories of childhood sports traumas, including accidentally touching a soccer ball with hands and breaking a classmate's leg• Acknowledging those knowledge gaps we all have but rarely admit to, from measurements to animal names• How we use excuses like being bilingual to explain away basic knowledge we should probably knowFollow us on all platforms including YouTube and TikTok @TheRealTSBU and remember, these confessions stay between us!

Send a textWe dive into the scandalous side of pop culture and explore bizarre internet mysteries that have captured attention online.• Katie Perry's toilet-themed performance and space debacle highlighting her questionable creative decisions• Blake Lively's PR crisis and how her attempts to redirect criticism have backfired• Why "laying low" might be the best strategy for celebrities facing public criticism • The Caroline Miller Walmart incident where security footage disproved claims about attempted child abduction• False accusations and their damaging impact on innocent people trying to help others• The ethical dilemmas presented in Netflix's medical drama "Pulse" regarding workplace relationships• The mysterious "Menugate" phenomenon about a man living in an apparently empty apartment complex• A TikTok mystery involving a woman who found a suspicious rolled-up rug during fence installationFollow us on TikTok at TheRealTSBU, on all podcast platforms, and YouTube under This Stays Between Us.Spill the tea, sip the secrets, and shut the hell up about it. And don't forget, the stays between us.

Send a textChrys and Riss dive into hilarious confessions and cringe-worthy stories ranging from awkward family revelations to petty workplace revenge. We share personal embarrassing moments alongside anonymous Reddit tales, creating a judgment-free space to laugh at the messy situations we all find ourselves in.• A woman discovers her boyfriend produced adult films featuring her niece• A girlfriend refuses to fund her boyfriend's "bro night" with his friends• Employee locks a bathroom stall from the outside as revenge against their company• Chrys reveals her elaborate bathroom emergency cover-up involving a hidden plunger• Roommate horror stories including the infamous rotting cucumber incident• Stories about questionably hygienic roommates and their boundary-crossing behaviorsFollow us on TikTok at TheRealTSBU and subscribe on YouTube to keep up with all our episodes. We love hearing from you, so please engage with us online—even if you end your criticism with a compliment about our hair!

Send a textChrys and Riss discuss their reactions to celebrity space tourism, analyzing how out of touch the whole spectacle appears when astronauts are actually stuck in space for months with minimal attention.• Blue Origin space flight with celebrities cost approximately $28 million per person for just 11 minutes in space• Katie Perry sang "What a Wonderful World" during the brief journey, making the experience even more theatrical• The celebrities' dramatic reactions and claims of profound transformation sparked widespread mockery online• Chris and Riss explore "The Good American Family" movie controversy about an adoption gone wrong• Brett Fairly's viral paternity scam story reveals how he was manipulated into paying child support for a baby that wasn't his• The hosts reflect on everyday awkward interactions and the energy required to confront uncomfortable situationsJoin us next week as we start our book club discussion on "The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo"!

Send a textTwo friends candidly discuss the latest controversy surrounding Disney's Snow White remake and the questionable production choices that led to its underwhelming reception. From Gal Gadot's widely mocked performance as the Evil Queen to Rachel Zegler's promotional missteps, they explore how quickly public opinion can turn when celebrities fail to connect with beloved source material.The conversation shifts to a troubling teacher-student relationship scandal that recently made headlines, examining society's problematic double standards when it comes to discussing inappropriate relationships. They thoughtfully consider how gender affects public perception in these cases, and why certain harmful narratives persist despite our progress.Chapel Roan's controversial motherhood comments on the Call Her Daddy podcast become a springboard for a deeper discussion about the impossible standards women face. They reflect on how motherhood contains multitudes – simultaneously being the most challenging and most beautiful experience – and why simplified narratives fail to capture this complexity. Whether choosing career, motherhood, or both, women inevitably face criticism, creating an exhausting burden of judgment no matter which path they choose.What emerges is a thoughtful meditation on making confident life choices despite societal pressures. The friends conclude that true freedom comes from making intentional decisions for yourself while developing the ability to tune out criticism. After all, "everyone is so worried about themselves that they don't truly care... you live with your decisions, no one else does." This authentic conversation reminds us that our choices belong to us alone, and finding peace means learning to trust ourselves amidst the noise.How do you handle criticism of your life choices? Join the conversation and remember – being confident in your decisions is the ultimate form of empowerment.

Send a textWe dive into Reddit confessions and share our own embarrassing secrets about lies that spiraled out of control, from faking allergies to epic prank wars with unexpected consequences.• Reading a Reddit confession about someone faking a peanut allergy for six years while secretly eating peanut butter at work• One host's dad faked a nut allergy for years and convinced her she was allergic too• Debating whether to come clean about long-term lies or find a graceful exit strategy• Personal confession about a prank call to a new boyfriend and the ongoing cover-up• Story of a college prank war involving laxative cookies, ramen noodles in bathroom fixtures, and car vandalism• Parents who didn't tell their daughter she was lactose intolerant her entire childhood• Discussion about the ethics of drugging people's food—with laxatives versus marijuana• Healthcare experiences and the inadequate pain management for women after childbirth• Tip: bring your own Tylenol and ibuprofen to the hospital to avoid $90 per pill chargesBring your own pain relievers to the hospital when you have kids! They will charge you up to $90 per pill, and you can negotiate down to maybe $50 per pill. Just bring Tylenol, ibuprofen, and stool softener with you.

Send a textWe dive deep into Part One of "The Housemaid" by Freda McFadden, uncovering the twisted psychology behind a wealthy family's dynamics and the vulnerable maid who becomes entangled in their web.• Exploring how Nina's erratic behavior toward Millie creates a hostile work environment• Analyzing the inappropriate boundaries between Andrew and Millie during late-night encounters• Breaking down the Broadway ticket incident as a manipulation tactic• Discussing the affair between Millie and Andrew that develops after a night out• Examining Nina's mental health history and her attempted drowning of her daughter• Questioning Andrew's true character as he evicts his wife and abandons his stepdaughter• Understanding the power imbalance between wealthy employers and vulnerable employees• Debating whether Nina is truly unstable or if Andrew is masterfully manipulating everyone• Theorizing about the locked attic door and what might happen next• Contemplating how the foundation of relationships built on betrayal are doomed to failRead along with us and finish "The Housemaid" before our next episode where we'll complete our analysis and reveal our next book club selection!

Send a textWelcome back to another brutally honest, hilarious, and slightly unhinged episode of This Stays Between Us! Today we’re diving into the viral TikTok trend that has us howling — people roasting their exes using brand slogans. Think: Gucci, because he wanted everyone's coochie. Yup, it's that kind of day.But wait — it gets more personal.We also spiral into all the things we learned way too late in life: how to use a curling iron without third-degree burns, why fabric softener isn’t laundry detergent, what car registration actually is (surprise! it’s yearly!), and the ongoing lesson that... people kind of suck sometimes (especially in hit-and-run situations).From hilarious ex jokes to real-life oopsie moments, we reflect on how underprepared we were for adulthood — and how we’re surviving anyway. This is the episode you didn’t know you needed. It’s chaotic. It’s nostalgic. And it’s exactly what your group chat sounds like on a Tuesday night.Highlights & Viral Brand Burns:Gucci: Because he wanted everyone’s coochie Hello Kitty: Because he said hello to every kitty Crumbl: Because he had a new one every week IKEA: Came in pieces and expected me to put him back together Lulu: Because I was D-Lulu ChatGPT: Confidently lying about things it doesn’t understand (just like your ex) Key Takeaways:TikTok Trends Are Therapy: Humor really is healing. Roasting exes with brand slogans? 10/10 recommend.We Were Not Prepared for Adulthood: From gas station fails to car registration horror stories, we talk about the basic life skills we learned way too late.Don’t Trust a Guy Who Doesn’t Know Salt: One of us had to teach our man about seasoning food… in 2025. Send help.Some Lessons Hurt (Literally): Curling iron burns, fabric softener laundry cycles, and door-dashed band-aids — adulthood is painful and expensive.Trust = Broken: What happens when someone crashes into your car, gives you a fake number, and disappears? Oh, we’ve got stories.Relatable Quotes You’ll Love:“Netflix… because I shared him with five other girls and I was the only one paying.” “Dollar General, because he didn’t have a dollar. In general.” “I put diesel in a gas car because green means go — it made sense in my head!” “I thought fabric softener was detergent… for like a year. And yes, I smelled great.” “He discovered salt in 2025. SALT. Like, the basic human seasoning.”You’ll love this episode if you:Are addicted to TikTok trends and petty ex dramaWere also thrown into adulthood without a user manualStill call your mom for help with insurance… and laundryWant to laugh at our trauma and share your own in the DMsBelieve exes deserve to be dragged in brand form 💅SEO Keywords: tiktok ex roast trend, brand roast trend, viral tiktok trends 2025, fabric softener mistake, diesel in gas car story, late life lessons, how to register your car, learning adulthood, podcast for women in 20s, chaotic girl podcast, roast your ex using brands, adulting fails funny podcast, true stories bad exes, life skills no one taught meJoin the Inner Circle: This episode of This Stays Between Us is your permission slip to laugh at your past self, drag your ex (gently), and bond over all the weird ways we learned how to be adults. Subscribe, leave us a review if you’ve ever used fabric softener as detergent, and send us your favorite brand roasts on tiktok @therealtsbuWe’ll be back next week with more unfiltered chao

Send a textWe’re back, and this time we're diving headfirst into one of the internet’s favorite rabbit holes — the long-standing drama (or… manufactured narrative?) between Hailey Bieber, Selena Gomez, and Justin Bieber. We unpack the conspiracy theory circulating on TikTok, analyze fan behavior vs. actual stalking, and ask the big question: Is this just a PR stunt?From our own teenage crushes on Zac Efron and the Jonas Brothers to discussions on fame, trauma, and parasocial relationships, we get personal, we get reflective, and (of course) we laugh a lot. What’s too far when you're a fan? Is Hailey guilty of copying or just caught in a social media echo chamber? And why are we still pinning women against each other in 2025?This one's for the tea lovers, the skeptics, the secret conspiracists, and anyone who's ever shown up at a party just because a crush might be there (don’t worry, we’ve all been there).👀 Episode Highlights:0:09 – "I didn’t start this rumor"… but we’re here for the tea.1:28 – The Selena Gomez lookalike moment at an airport. True story.3:32 – Riss explains her conspiracy theory about the viral TikTok series and Selena’s new album drop.5:42 – Why Justin Bieber's marriage deserves peace — and maybe a little more respect.7:58 – Rumors of Justin & Hailey leaving Hollywood… for good?9:08 – A nostalgic deep-dive into our own fangirl behavior and what’s really considered "creepy".13:49 – Is Hailey just guilty of being a fan with access?15:47 – Mob mentality on the internet and how easily we buy into it.18:40 – "I’ve done more for less" — the lengths we go for love (or a crush).20:22 – Wouldn’t you be exhausted hearing about your partner’s ex every day?22:13 – Why women are playing chess while men think they invented checkers. 👑Takeaways:Celebrity Feuds Are Often Fan-Made: Much of the Hailey vs. Selena discourse might not even come from the celebs themselves, but from fans reigniting old flames for clicks and content.Fan Culture Isn’t New — But It’s Evolving: From stalking Justin Bieber concerts to driving to Sundance for a Zac Efron meet cute, the behavior isn’t exclusive to the famous. The difference? Money, access, and a front-row seat.Not Everything Is a Stunt… But Some Things Might Be: The timing of Selena’s album, the resurfacing of drama, and the power of narrative in PR all make this worth a second look.Parasocial Relationships Are Powerful: We think we know celebrities — their exes, relationships, and values — but we’re often projecting our own experiences onto them.Let People Move On: Whether you love or hate Hailey or Selena, they’ve both clearly moved on. Maybe we should too?Justin Bieber Deserves Grace Too: Fame, trauma, and a life under the microscope has lasting effects — and JB might just be trying to build a quiet life out of the spotlight.hailey bieber vs selena gomez, justin bieber drama, viral tik tok hailey bieber, hailey bieber stalker allegations, hailey bieber copying selena, selena gomez benny blanco album, justin bieber marriage, parasocial relationships, celebrity drama podcast, women in pop culture, gen z pop commentary, this stays between us podcastTune In If You:Are obsessed with breaking down celeb gossip and viral conspiraciesThink women’s experiences in media deserve better nuanceLove a mix of humor, hot takes, and heartfelt reflectionWant to join a judgment-free inner circle of millennial/gen-z girlies just figu

Send a textChrys and Riss welcome you into their literary inner circle with the launch of "The Housemaid" discussion in their book club series. The psychological thriller follows Millie, an ex-convict desperate for employment who lands a live-in housemaid position with the wealthy Winchester family. From the very start, warning signs abound – a gardener muttering "perigo" (danger), bedroom locks on the outside, and windows painted shut.The hosts dive into the unsettling dynamics of the Winchester household. Nina, the lady of the house, exhibits extreme mood swings, lavishing praise on Millie one moment and flying into destructive rages the next. Their daughter Cecilia appears manipulative and spoiled, while Andrew Winchester presents as the charming, kind husband who seems suspiciously normal amidst the chaos. With the book's opening revelation that someone ends up murdered, every character becomes both suspect and potential victim.What makes this thriller particularly engaging is how it plays with readers' perceptions. As Chrys and Riss share their wildly entertaining theories – from buried previous housemaids to gaslighting husbands turning wives "crazy" – they demonstrate the book's ability to keep readers guessing at every turn. Their banter reveals how McFadden masterfully constructs each character to seem simultaneously innocent and capable of murder.Ready to join their book club adventure? Grab your copy of "The Housemaid," read up to chapter 30 for next week's discussion, and prepare yourself for more shocking revelations, wild predictions, and the hosts' signature humor as they untangle this web of domestic suspense. Who killed whom? The answer may be hiding in plain sight.

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our tenth podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected] Takeaways:Botox isn’t just for wrinkles—it's a window into your emotional soul (or lack thereof)Brazilian dentists will humble you quickly and permanentlyChildhood embarrassment has no expiration dateDream emotions are real and sometimes make you mad at people who did nothing wrongThe subconscious mind is petty, dramatic, and possibly a teenage internIn today’s episode, we spiral (as usual) from a chaotic classroom flirt fest into Botox, Brazilian dentists, childhood trauma, and why our subconscious minds are out to get us.It starts with one of us accidentally revealing her Botox was wearing off—thanks to an unfiltered judgmental stare. From there, we unpack the science (or TikTok theory?) that Botox can reduce your capacity for empathy… or help cure depression. Depends who you ask.We also talk jaw Botox, nighttime clenching, and the unsettling vibe of getting Botox at the dentist. Speaking of dentists: shoutout to Brazilian dental culture, where a simple appointment can leave you with 3 unsolicited cosmetic suggestions and a mild case of body dysmorphia. (“I came to ask about braces and left wondering if I needed fillers and a new face.”)We swap traumatic dental stories—including how one of us got roasted for her "memorable smile" and the other was told her “bad teeth” gave her “personality.” Cute!Then it gets personal. Like, really personal. We dive into:Confrontation tips from a random TikTok lawyer (and why we’ll never use them)Sibling roast stories that still haunt us (including one about accidentally claiming to have been on The Ellen Show at age five)That weird blurred line between dreams and reality (yes, we’ve apologized for things we only dreamed happened)Subconscious chaos and deadbeat mom nightmares (one of us forgot she had a baby in a dream... his name was Clifford. The trauma.)We finish with a deep dive on vivid dreams, dream control, and whether your subconscious is secretly just… your enemy. We cover dream-checking hacks, shifting realities, asking dream characters what time it is (spoiler: don’t), and the sad realization that Joy from Inside Out may be permanently on vacation.Whether you’ve ever judged someone out loud (or just with your face), had a dream that ruined your day, or gotten roasted by a dentist in two languages—this episode is for you.

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our ninth podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected] you seen Nikki Blonsky’s TikTok? We get into the chaos that is her Hairspray-era confidence, her Zac Efron crush, and the internet’s obsession with dragging her now. It spirals (as usual) into a deep dive on our own Zac Efron stories—like the time we drove to Sundance convinced one of us would marry him. Spoiler: we didn’t, but we did end up at World Market buying throw pillows for the life that never was.We talk about the chaos of getting our driver’s licenses—one of us in Brazil (stick shift and all), one of us getting a free pass from a DMV guy whose ex-wife shared her name. From there, it’s a whole thing about parallel parking pride, the fear of manual cars, and falling off motorcycles while trying to be cool.Then there’s the bike commercial fail: one of us got invited to ride bikes for a date-slash-ad and completely forgot how to ride one. Turns out “it’s just like riding a bike” is a lie. Cue the wobbly struggle, camera crew, and a guy who (rightfully) never texted again.We also dive into skiing and snowboarding date disasters, including that one time we tried to impress someone and ended up abandoned on the bunny hill. D1 athlete dreams? Crushed.And of course, the dating icks: Velcro wallets, guys singing in the car unironically, and Utah boys pulling out guitars at parties thinking they’re the next Ed Sheeran. One of us even fell in love when her biggest ick became endearing—proof that love really does change you.We wrap up with a roast of those chaotic guy-girl guitar jam session parties, our shared history with the same handful of aggressively average men, and a whole lot of memories we probably should’ve blocked out.Key takeaways? Don’t say yes to a bike commercial if it’s been 10+ years Guitars at parties are a red flag Parallel parking is a personality trait Sometimes your biggest ick becomes your biggest green flag And Zac Efron? Always worth the road trip

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our eighth podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected]

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our seventh podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected]

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our sixth podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.This episode discusses the child abuse from Ruby Franke.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected]

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our fifth podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected]

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our fourth podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected]

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our third podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected]

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our second podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected]

Send a textYou didn't hear it from us but this is our first podcast and we are addressing rumors we didn't start but love to hear.TikTok: @therealtsbuYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/[email protected]