Thots with Thots

we’re talking God, timing, baby fever, and why faith shouldn’t feel like a personality disorder.

Join Aubrey and Lauren as they dive deep into their transformative trip to Oahu. From conquering cold plunges to unexpectedly feeling God at a bar, it’s a journey filled with laughter, adventure, and a lot of deep thoughts. If you're into spontaneous adventures, breathwork, horseback rides through Jurassic Park, and philosophical musings about life, love, and whether or not cold plunges are for everyone, then buckle up. We promise plenty of giggles, heartfelt moments, and maybe a side of truffle butter. Chapters: 00:00 Transformative Experiences in Oahu 10:04 Breathwork and Cold Plunge: A Journey of Self-Discovery 23:28 Divine Encounters: Feeling God's Presence 27:01 Exploring Spirituality Beyond Traditional Settings 30:14 Experiencing God's Presence 31:36 The Dynamics of Relationships 32:56 Romantic Love and Spirituality 35:11 Memorable Adventures and Experiences 39:25 The Value of Spontaneity 44:17 Setting Intentions for Life 48:01 Embracing the Unknown 55:36 Exploring Intuition and Divine Guidance 58:34 The Power of Shared Experiences 01:00:19 Manifestation vs. Trust in God 01:04:35 The Balance of Will and Submission 01:12:56 The Journey of Discovery and Learning

In this solo podcast, Aubrey shares her experiences wandering through Ojai, reflecting on the joys of spontaneity in travel, the process of self-discovery through podcasting, and the role of social media in understanding oneself. She discusses her thoughts on turning 30, the complexities of fame, and the beauty of the artistic community in Ojai. Aubrey emphasizes the importance of valuing what truly matters in life and explores the wisdom of the body through breath work, concluding with her aspirations for the future. takeaways Spontaneity in travel leads to unexpected adventures. Self-discovery can be explored through various mediums, including podcasting. Social media can serve as a tool for self-discovery. Turning 30 brings reflections on personal goals and aspirations. Fame can be overwhelming and is often not desired. The artistic community in Ojai offers a calming presence. Valuing what truly matters in life is essential for authenticity. Breath work can help in releasing stagnant energy and gaining clarity. The body has innate wisdom that guides emotional healing. Creating an authentic life involves prioritizing personal values over societal expectations. keywords Ojai, solo podcast, spontaneity, self-discovery, social media, turning 30, fame, artistic community, personal values, breath work

The difference in values between believers and non-believers can impact relationships and friendships. Authenticity and connection to the heart are important in forming meaningful connections. Finding like-minded individuals within the Christian community can be challenging. Religious labels can sometimes create fear and disconnect. The topic of disappointment will be discussed in the next episode.

In this conversation, Aubrey and Lauren discuss the topics of disappointment and the balance between logic and emotions in relationships. They explore the concept of arranged marriages in the past and how people were more content and committed to their partners because the choice was based on logic and benefit. They also discuss the importance of maintaining freedom and individuality within a marriage, and the fear of losing one's zest for life. Overall, they emphasize the need for a balance between logic and following one's heart in building successful relationships. In this conversation, Lauren and Aubrey discuss their perspectives on marriage and relationships. They both agree that marriage is not necessarily what they want, but rather a partnership built on friendship and mutual respect. They also talk about the importance of having space and independence within a relationship, as well as the need for personal responsibility in making decisions. They emphasize the significance of respect in a relationship and how it is earned through character and mutual understanding. They also touch on the challenge of navigating different values and preferences within their communities. 00:00 Introduction and Refreshed Start 00:31 The Contentment of Arranged Marriages in the Past 03:35 Balancing Logic and Emotions in Decision-Making 09:54 The Importance of Freedom and Individuality in Relationships 16:41 Not Settling for Less in Relationships 32:22 Redefining Marriage: Friendship and Partnership 35:30 The Importance of Space in Relationships 38:48 Respect: The Foundation of Successful Relationships 41:18 Navigating Personal Values and Community Influence 45:36 Choosing Happiness: Prioritizing Individual Compatibility 49:25 Building Strong Relationships: Communication and Empathy

In this podcast episode, Aubrey and Lauren discuss their excitement about getting back into podcasting. They talk about the importance of having guardrails in their conversations and the spontaneity that comes with it. Aubrey shares her experience of attending an Acoustic Asana session and the conflicting emotions that came up afterwards. They also discuss the concept of wilderness and how it can be a transformative and necessary part of personal growth. Aubrey shares her experiment with finances and how she has been spending money on things that bring her joy and inspiration. The conversation explores the themes of responsibility, asking for more, and the importance of respect in relationships. It emphasizes the idea of playing to win rather than playing not to lose and the need to take risks and ask for what you want. The conversation also delves into the concept of signs and how they reflect where your heart is at the moment. It concludes with a discussion on the significance of respect in relationships and the lasting impact it has. Chapters Introduction and Excitement (00:00 - 01:12) Spontaneity with Guardrails (01:13 - 08:53) Navigating Thoughts and Emotions (08:54 - 12:28) The Transformative Power of the Wilderness (12:29 - 26:58) Experimenting with Finances for Personal Fulfillment (26:59 - 33:07) Conclusion and Future Goals (33:08 - 33:11) Balancing Responsibility and Enjoyment The Power of Asking for More (36:04 - 50:46) Interpreting Signs and Following Your Heart The Importance of Respect in Relationships (54:09 - 56:32) Takeaways Having guardrails in conversations can provide structure while still allowing for spontaneity. The wilderness can be a transformative and necessary part of personal growth. Experimenting with finances and spending money on things that bring joy and inspiration can lead to personal fulfillment. Expectations can be both motivating and frustrating, and it's important to find a balance. Acknowledging and accepting emotions, such as anger, can lead to personal growth and freedom. Take responsibility for your financial well-being and strive for a balance between responsibility and enjoying life. Don't be afraid to ask for more in life, whether it's in your career or personal relationships. Signs are not necessarily divine messages, but rather reflections of where your heart is at the moment. Respect is a crucial foundation for lasting relationships and can be even more important than love. Playing to win involves taking risks and being willing to face disappointment and discouragement. "Our thoughts are the bowling ball." "Yoga can surface anger and force us to deal with it." "We are so comfortable in our brains, we cannot exist in our bodies for long periods of time." "People lose their 20s in a state of stress. It's good to be responsible, but also have fun." "Asking for more is a challenge, but the worst they can say is no." "Men get paid more because they ask. Women need to ask for big things too." Keywords: podcasting, excitement, guardrails, spontaneity, Acoustic Asana, emotions, wilderness, personal growth, finances, joy, inspiration, responsibility, asking for more, respect, signs, playing to win, taking risks

Ep 14: bilateral stimulation; atheism is a dying art

Ep 13: thots with NO thots pt 2

Ep 12: “stfu” pt 1

dating, beauty & unconditional love pt 2

Ep 10: dating in the wild

depth, play, & romance

divine laws & divine love

striving, rest, & stagnancy

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Lauren and Aubrey talk about going a week without looking in the mirror.

Lauren and Aubrey talk about their personal experiences with Holy Spirit

0:01 nudity 4:38 podcast starts 5:35 dressing sexy in ministry school 12:45 self-expression and cursing 19:20 demonizing sexuality 20:19 masculine sexuality and monogamy 31:55 purity culture: benefits and drawbacks 40:20 demonizing touch 44:30 bumble / tinder phase 51:22 from girlhood to womanhood 54:33 sexuality for the next generation 59:00 final thoughts

Lauren and Aubrey decide to make a podcast and record their little chit-chat on a Wednesday evening. May 3, 2023