Tres Leches

It’s Christmas at Tres Leches HQ and we have FOUND HIM: Hallmark’s very own Robbie Simpson from Finding Mr. Christmas Season 2. Ian and Juan sit down with Robbie to talk about being the only gay cast member on Hallmark’s breakout holiday reality hit, what it really takes to be a “Hallmark leading man,” and why earnest, ooey-gooey Christmas movies might actually be emotional support cinema for the broken-hearted.Robbie also spills about:• Going from full-frontal off-Broadway in Afterglow to the Hallmark cinematic universe• His decade-long friendship with Mary Kate Morrissey and watching her soar as Elphaba in Wicked• Running a musical theatre program at Stella Adler/NYU and why who you are as a human is the work• Getting eliminated right after winning immunity (justice for Episode 4!) and what the edit didn’t showIn Spilled Milk, the leches answer a holiday letter from a listener who feels like a confident success everywhere but at home, where they’re suddenly back to being the insecure queer kid at the table. How do you reconcile those two versions of yourself—especially at Christmas?Pour some coquito, hit play, and come feel all the feelings with us.

It’s our Favorite Things holiday episode, baby!Ian and Juan are back in the studio with their third leche for the week, the one and only Joseph Haro, to ring in Christmas, talk aging gracefully, and share the little things getting them through the season.Then we dive into our 2025 Favorite Things:• Ian’s perfect grey sweatpants era, Aesop candle obsession, and kiwi renaissance• Juan’s glow-up beauty picks, New York Times Cooking love letter, and the tiny camera that makes life feel like a movie• Joey’s “health first” gifts: daily mineral ritual, scent oils instead of cologne, iPad sketching must-haves, and his beloved ice maskWe also get into:• Why Rent is secretly a Christmas musical• Counting life in “Christmases” instead of years• Botox vs. letting your face tell the story of your life• Biohacking, testosterone, and trying to feel good without losing your mind.Link for Joey's Function app Code: https://my.functionhealth.com/signup?code=JHARO10&_saasquatch=JHARO10Listen to Tres Leches wherever you get your podcasts.IG:@ianpaget@juan_torres_falcon@treslechespod@iamjosephharoHashtags:#IanPaget #JuanTorresFalcon #TresLechesPodcast #Podcast #ComedyPodcast #LGBTQPodcast #LatinoPodcast #GayPodcast #QueerPodcast #QueerVoices #LatinoVoices #PopCulturePodcast #SpilledMilk #TresLeches #PopDivas #GayIcons #MusicTalk #CultureChat #christmas #myfavoritethings #xmas

Wicked kids, assemble! Ian and Juan are joined by Donnell James Foreman and Joseph Haro for a full spoiler-heavy DEEP DIVE on Wicked: Part Two—the music (yes, As Long As Your Mine gets dicsussed), Michelle Yeoh's Morrible, and why Ari and Cynthia still make this movie feel like chicken soup for the queer soul. If you grew up blasting the cast album, crying to “For Good,” or dreaming of winning the Wicked lottery, this one’s going to hit you right in the Shiz. #ianpaget #JuanTorresFalcon #TresLechesPodcast #Podcast #ComedyPodcast #LGBTQPodcast #latinopodcast #gaypodcaster #queerpodcast #queervoices #latinovoices #PopCulturePodcast #TresLeches #PopDivas #GayIcons #movie #film #culturechat Follow us on Instagram: @ianpaget @juantorresfalcon @treslechespodcast @thedjf_ @iamjosephharo

It’s cuffing season, and the boys are at their most raw, real, and ready for the relationship rollercoaster. Johnny, Ian, and Juan dive into the chaos of early dating with Daddy Yes or Daddy No, a takedown of “throning,” and a rapid-fire tour through ghosting, drawers-too-soon energy, and men who share their location before they share a kiss.Johnny wants warmth without the drama, Ian questions whether he wants love or just the gold star, and Juan reminds us that tiny gestures matter more than any trend.Dating in New York is wild.Cuffing season is wilder.

The boys warm up the vocal cords and the feels. Ian claims his Will Arnett era, Johnny side-eyes, and we all pick our 16–32 bars: “When the Children Are Asleep,” “Joanna,” and “Ilona” make an appearance. From there we get into Election Day hope, why musicals always eat, and how the internet’s rage cycle is starving real community. We unpack soft girl/soft wife life vs trad wife grit, talk SNAP cuts and actual neighbor-to-neighbor kindness, and remember what cheering at the marathon (or just running errands with friends) can do for a soul. Less cop, more community; put down the phone, pick up your people. Plus: checking bags as self-care, executive dysfunction confessions, and a teaser for next week’s return to mess—love, sex, friendship, and a little Lily Allen discourse. Tune in, breathe out, and let the ball keep boop-boop-bouncing!

It’s the witching hour at Tres Leches and the boys are wigged out …literally. Johnny, Ian, and Juan record late at night in full Nicole Kidman drag to honor the patron saint of wigs and chaos herself. From Stepford Wives to The Undoing, they talk all things spooky: horror movies that actually slap, real-life scares (aging, empathy, back pain, the economy), and the haunting realization that Gen Z thinks Sex and the City is vintage?!?! They also talk spooky dating tricks & treats, bad habits that creep back in, and how to be the ghost in your own attic…with a few blood-curdling screams for good measure.

Two years of leche, laughter, and a whole lot of growth — honey, the growth! The ladies who leche are celebrating our podcastiversary with heart, humor, and just the right amount of chaos. We’re looking back at our favorite moments, the controversial ones, and the magic of keeping a friendship (and a podcast) alive this long. Here’s to two years of cake, cariño, and conversation that still hits just right.

The gals of Tres Leches are finally back in the same room — one mic, two swivel chairs, and a questionable amount of velour. Recorded live from East Harlem (aka the Gay Panic Room™), Johnny, Ian, and Juan celebrate two years of milk the only way they know how: by oversharing and intellectualizing pop culture until it cries.We cover it all — from Buena Vista Social Club and why Cuba is basically the Willy Wonka Factory of trauma, to Diane Keaton’s heavenly ascension and the gay grief it unleashed. We talk queer media that actually slaps (Boots, Wayward, Ho Church) and why supporting queer art matters more than subtweeting it. There’s fresh-towel discourse, Wicked-themed cleaning products, and a hard-hitting debate on fabric softener no one asked for but everyone needs.Somewhere between Broadway talkbacks, Blockbuster nostalgia, and debating how often you should wash your sheets, we stumble into something real: why New York’s friction makes you feel alive, why queer friendship is holy, and why Diane Keaton is forever the patron saint of beige chaos.It’s kooky. It’s meaningful. It smells like Le Labo and chisme.

This week the ladies who leche get into the chaos of wanting it all but never feeling like it’s enough—money! men! food! prosperity! They get into TikTok Shop scams, New York rent & how 5,000 ads a day are priming us for the more is more complex. All while unpacking open relationships, and the art of picking up the dinner check! Johnny, Ian, and Juan break down the culture of “more, more, more… how do we like it?” Sometimes abundance feels empty, but at least there’s wine… and Tres Leches. 

Ian, Juan, and Johnny settle in (Juan’s feet finally supported) and find religion in Cardi B’s new album—an old-school rollout, no-skip opener, and the People’s Princess doing press like it’s 2003. “Shoes? $500. Glasses? $700. Outfit? $20. Get your money up, bitch. "We get into why art hits different in dark times (from Singin’ in the Rain to Wicked), the diva-as-lifeline pipeline, Megan Thee Stallion’s happiness arc, and a Kinky Boots runway tale with a bedazzled heel and a prayer.

The LECHE is overflowing this week - no guest - just Johnny, Ian, and Juan going back to basics (cue Christina Aguilera) with a supersized spilled milk! From cool girl dating dilemmas, to shower hook ups with straight besties, from toxic work environments, to manifesting cozy fall energy, (maybe with a bae, maybe not) we’re pouring a whole gallon of unfiltered spilled milk and sharp advice. Strap and get comfy because we’re coming at you fast ….(cue Demi Lovato).

The call is coming from inside the house, milkers! 🚨 This week, we dive deep into Netflix’s Unknown Caller—the catfish doc that proves sometimes the real stalker is closer than you think (hi, Mom 👀). From deranged texts to diabolical parenting, Johnny, Ian, and Juan unpack the drama, drag Sid the Sloth’s doppelgänger, and confess their own lurkiest stalker moments. Plus, we get real about muting, blocking, and whether deleting the app is actually helping… or just hiding the chips in the cupboard. Tune in, and tell us: what’s the stalkeriest thing YOU’VE ever done?

This week, we’re getting cozy and talking home — the spaces we dream about, the ones we build, and the ones that live rent-free in our heads. Johnny shares how creating his perfect nook in Austin (and his childhood Hollywood-inspired bedroom, rope lights and all) became a full-circle moment. Ian takes us on a tour of his favorite movie and TV homes, from You’ve Got Mail to Nancy Meyers kitchens, while Juan spills on design inspo, nostalgia, and why finding “your place” matters more than ever.From Architectural Digest deep dives to $300 mattresses, RuPaul-level opulence to Anthony Porowski coziness, we unpack how our homes reflect who we are — and who we’re becoming. Plus, it’s Johnny’s birthday (!!), so expect peak Virgo energy and plenty of laughs along the way.Hit play, get comfy, and maybe start reimagining your own nook. 🛋️✨

💍 Taylor’s ring, Thomas Kinkade paintings, and…Lil Nas X’s arrest?? This week the girls go IN. Ian, Johnny, and Juan unpack the engagement of Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce (pear-shaped or cushion cut? we have thoughts), then tumble down a rabbit hole of Thomas Kinkade, gay genes we don’t have, and why tacky can also be gorgeous.But the heart of the episode? A deep conversation about Lil Nas X, public scandal, and the double standards queer people—especially Black queer people—face when they “behave badly.” From George Michael to Jussie Smollett to Britney Spears, we talk grace, redemption, and why queer mess so often becomes a cautionary tale instead of a comeback story.And of course, we bring our own raw receipts— waking up in the wrong house, VIP shopping gone sideways, and listener submissions that had us SCREAMING. (Shoutout to the dad/son mix-up 👀).Listen, laugh, judge us a little, but mostly—offer grace.#TresLechesPodcast #LilNasX #TaylorSwift #GayPodcast #MessyStories

The Tres Leches crew is cracking open Netflix’s Fit for TV and the chaos of The Biggest Loser era — where fatphobia was the main character and diet culture ruled reality TV. We’re talking Hunger Games-level weigh-ins, caffeine pills, and producers who cared more about drama than health.But we’re also getting personal: the shady comments that stuck, the Grindr hookups gone wrong, and why even “hot” gays spiral about abs, carbs, and Equinox memberships. From Ozempic to body positivity to living in a world where you’re somehow hypervisible and invisible at the same time… we’re asking the messy, juicy question: what does it actually mean to love your body when everyone else has an opinion about it?

This final round of Cosmos is on us…Just like our favorite girls, the Tres Leches crew takes one last stroll down memory lane—sorry, I mean, Fifth Avenue—to celebrate and eulogize the end of And Just Like That. From the OG Sex and the City, to the movies, to the HBO Max reboot, Ian, Johnny, and Juan give the franchise a proper send-off, reminiscing about iconic fashion moments, the New York that was, the New York that is, and why these fictional friendships have felt so real for so long. We get candid about the show's missteps (yes, we clocked Lisa Wexley’s plotline), the absence of Samantha, and what Carrie's final chapter says about love, loneliness, and self-reinvention. Plus, listener reflections, fashion favorites, and one last toast to our day-one divas.

Ian’s back from Madrid and baby, he brought back more than Jamon Iberico. In this jam(on)-packed episode, the Leches unpack directionless orbiting, male vulnerability (or lack thereof), and the real reason no one's texting back—hint: it’s not you, it’s the algorithm. Johnny shares about his expectations in friendship, Juan gives a crash course in digital dating fatigue, and Ian cries in a garden, obviously. Also, Ian compliments himself more than 17 times. So, there’s that. Plus, a Brazil-Ian love story ( see what we did there? ;), a margarita meltdown, and Ian’s strong opinion on circuit music.Is connection dead? Or are we just tired, horny, and too online? Send this to someone who needs to stop watching your stories and start texting back. And don’t forget to rate, like, subscribe, and share with someone who gets it—or really needs to. 💋

Hola Milkers! Que tal!? Vale! It's a Tres Leches solo episode! The dolls are back together—no guests, just vibes. This week, Ian, Johnny, and Juan reflect on post-Pride energy, romantic misfires, healing through hobbies, and why we don’t have to earn joy to feel it. Ian shares a vulnerable moment about getting stood up at 4am (with a $65 Uber receipt to prove it), Johnny reveals how a pottery class cracked open something deeper, and Juan talks about working too much and sleeping too little—even while being deeply loved. “At what point is enough enough?”We talk about play, pride, body image, childhood joy, and how sometimes, healing looks like biking to a party in short shorts. Also: Do not ghost your hookups, and remember—being in your prime isn’t about being perfect.Rate, review, and share with a fellow milker. 💋

Hi Milkers!! Happy Pride!!! This week, we’re joined by the one and only Marti Gould Cummings! Not only are they a walking International drag artist institution, they are a political powerhouse, and this year’s 2025 NYC Pride Grand Marshal. Claps for Marti !!! We talk about the full-circle magic of marching in your first Pride at the age of 17… and then leading it 20 years later. Marti opens up about their journey from nightlife icon to political organizer, how drag became a tool for visibility and advocacy, and the mentors who helped shape their path — from Patina Miller gifting them their first drag wardrobe, to Gavin Creel offering the encouragement that would change their everything. We miss you Gav...We talk chosen family, and why joy is a radical act- especially now! This one’s a love letter to QUEER resilience, showing up for your community, and becoming the person you needed when you were younger. We loved this conversation and we know you will too. 

This week the ultimate comedy duo baby angels Tim Murray and Michael Henry, viral comedians and creators join us to talk about their OUTtv series Wish You Were Queer — The series follows Michael and Tim, who — for the first time — perform stand-up on the road across North America together, with help from executive producer Trixie Mattel. It’s giving road trip, it’s giving dick jokes, it’s giving gay missionary work (but backwards). We cover stand-up horror stories, peacocking through small towns, the fine line between heckling and foreplay, and why the girls who grew up on Rosie and Ragtime are built different. 

Hi Milkers! It’s Pride Month, and what better way to kick it off than with New York Times–bestselling bisexual author and podcaster Amanda Montell? Author of Cultish, Wordslut, and The Age of Magical Overthinking—one of the many questions she poses is: Why, despite living in the information age, does life only seem to make less sense?We cover the psychology behind fandom, social media, cults, cognitive biases, crushes (or in Ian’s case, Gods) that live rent-free in your head, why Captain Hook might be the ultimate gay icon, and how overthinking is BOTH a glitch and a feature.This one’s for the girls, the gays, and the theys who Google their feelings.

Milkers! This week, the boys sit down with the one and only Mario Cantone — aka Anthony Marentino from Sex and the City and And Just Like That — Join us for a wildly candid convo. We talk everything from his role in And Just Like That, his time with Sondheim, his sourdough side hustle, and the divas that raised him. Mario shares with us getting “the call” to come back to the Sex and the City franchise, filming love scenes in his 60s, his DMs post-premiere, and how therapy helps (but won’t fix your hole). Come for the Judy Garland impressions, stay for the Kathleen Turner vodka story. We know you’re gonna love it.  

This week, Ian, Juan, and Johnny are back with a chaotic, hilarious catch-up and a return to their beloved Spilled Milk. Ian’s in his main character era as he steps into rehearsals for Prosperous Fools by Taylor Mac, Johnny spills all about hosting the red carpet for the opening of the Tryst Hotel in Puerto Vallarta (yes, with Julia Fox), and Juan does what he does best — gently drags us toward emotional clarity.We get into the art of ghosting (and why you shouldn’t come crawling back just because your ex is thriving), reflect on the ex-texts that live rent-free in our brains, and offer some lovingly blunt advice to the heartbroken “love girls” out there.It’s juicy, it’s unhinged, it’s Tres Leches. Drink up.

This week on Tres Leches, join Johnny, Ian, and Juan as they take you on a whirlwind tour of this year’s Coachella—no desert heat required! Juan is a Coachella virgin, but Coachella veterans/mayors Johnny and Ian are ready to share all their insider tips and memorable moments. 🎡 👑 Dive into the vibrant festival vibes as the trio debates the best and worst of Coachella fashion (aging out of flower crowns???), and relive Lady Gaga’s legendary performance through their eyes.What’s on the agenda?🥵🫦Benson Boone sightings: Spotting stars in the VIP area.🤬🎤The Great Whitney Houston Vocal Hypothetical: A spirited debate that had Ian and Juan in a scream-fest at Soho House. 🎤🎫Tres Leches’ Dream Lineup: Fantasy picks for Coachella’s stage, featuring powerhouses like JLo and Gloria Estefan. Who would you add to the list?🌟 Whether you’re a festival newbie like Juan or a seasoned pro like Johnny and Ian, this episode packs laughs, debates, and a whole lot of festival culture.FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAMWATCH ON YOUTUBE With you hosts....@JohnnySibilly // @IanPaget // @JuanTF

Mark Indelicato may become the Fourth Leche. He slid right in! Strap in, milkers, because this week on Tres Leches, we’re rolling out the red carpet for a riotous chat with Mark about his 18-year reign in Hollywood, from stealing hearts as Justin Suarez on Ugly Betty to his scene-stealing role as Damien in Hacks Season 4 (which just debuted). Mark has literally been famous for longer than Katy Kerry.What's on the Agenda?👗 Fashion rants: NO MORE MALE STUNTS ON THE RED CARPET.👑 Housewives hierarchy: Nene Leakes vs. Teresa Giudice vs. Kyle Richards (“She can’t take the smoke!”)🎬 Queen Latifah’s “Last Holiday.” (That’s it. That’s the tweet)✨Everything "HACKS" Mark also reveals why he’d never share a Coachella house with influencers. 

The dolls are in LA, the leche is flowing, and your favorite trio is nominated for a GLAAD Award, baby! In this special in-person episode of Tres Leches, Ian, Johnny, and Juan reunite under the Hollywood sign to talk all things travel trauma: baggage claim brawls, first-class curtain scandals, the war on checked luggage, and the audacity of parents asking for seat swaps. Plus, they get White Lotus-level deep dissecting friendship dynamics, Latine identity, and what it really means to be seen. It's milk. It's chaos. It's joy. Welcome back to the multi-camera moment, chicas.

Frankie Grande is in the building, and he’s spilling it all! From his Broadway days (Mamma Mia!, Rock of Ages) to Big Brother fame and now stepping into his pop star era, Frankie gets real about finding his sound, getting sober, and embracing his most fearless self. The Tres Leches crew dives into his new single Rhythm of Love, his love for 80s icons like Bowie & George Michael, and the wildest moments from his career. Plus, we get into ghosting on dating apps, surviving the club scene sober, and why he wants to be on The Traitors.Get ready for glam, grit, and a whole lot of giggles—press play and let the rhythm take over!

Nothing shakes up a friend group like a new boyfriend entering the chat! This week on the GLAAD MEDIA AWARD-NOMINATED Tres Leches podcast, Ian, Johnny, and Juan dive deep into the etiquette, drama, and unspoken rules of welcoming (or side-eyeing) your best friend's new boo.How do you handle it when your ride-or-die suddenly has less time for late-night FaceTimes? What if their partner’s “audition” for the friend group doesn’t exactly earn a callback? And how do you balance being a supportive friend without compromising your own feelings?Ian gets vulnerable about the shock of learning about Juan’s new relationship in real time (oops!), Juan defends falling fast and furious (again), and Johnny keeps everyone honest with his no-BS takes. Plus, we break down the right way to introduce a partner to your inner circle—and the moments that make us clutch our pearls.Get ready for some real talk, plenty of shade, and maybe a few lessons on friendship evolution. Because honey, when love enters the chat, friendships get tested.

Happy Valentine’s Month, babies! On this episode of the GLAAD MEDIA AWARD NOMINATED TRES LECHES...did we mention we're not nominated for a GLAAD MEDIA AWARD? LOLWhat says romance like questionable relationship choices, friendship breakups, and debating whether to ask your situationship to be your Valentine? Nothing! This week, Ian, Johnny, and Juan unwrap the tangled web of love, lust, and cheat-ation (yes, we said cheat-ation—don’t ask).Listen in as Ian contemplates hosting a birthday bash without the existential dread of no-shows, Juan reminds everyone (again) that he works in television and has a boyfriend, and Ian contemplates if Whoopi Goldberg’s solo lifestyle is the blueprint.Tune in for laughs, feels, and the ultimate question: Is there such a thing as reaching out of your ballpark, or is love just a well-timed croissant with a Post-it note? Find out on this week’s heart-filled (and slightly unhinged) episode of Tres Leches!

The milk has returned! After a little break (miss us?), the boys are back—and with some big news! Tres Leches is now a GLAAD Media Award-nominated podcast! WEPA!! Huge thanks to GLAAD for the honor.This week, Juan spills on his new beau and his quest for balance, Johnny reflects on career shifts and staying offline, and Ian shares his experience with the LA wildfires and how being in LA has reignited his creativity. Plus, a deep dive into the TikTok blackout, the importance of real-life hobbies, and—of course—pop culture hot takes.Hope you're thirsty, because we’re serving it all up fresh!

The leches love Wicked! Tres Leches is now a GLAAD Media Award-nominated podcast! Fresh from the theater (and still emotional), your hosts dive deep into Jon M. Chu's spectacular film adaptation. From Ariana Grande's masterful take on Glinda to Cynthia Erivo's transformative Elphaba, we're celebrating every magical moment - and yes, we attempt the Defying Gravity battle cry multiple times. Plus, passionate debates about Jonathan Bailey's Fiyero, Michelle Yeoh's scene-stealing Madame Morrible, and why this beloved musical hits different on the big screen. Whether you've already seen it three times or are about to experience the magic, come celebrate with us.Warning: Contains excessive amounts of musical theater feelings, spontaneous singing, and critical analysis.

Was Martha Stewart born Wicked, or was wickedness thrust upon her?Tres Leches is now a GLAAD Media Award-nominated podcast!The leches dive into Martha's new Netflix documentary and unpack what makes America's first influencer tick (spoiler: it's pure, unfiltered confidence). Juan explains why he admires Martha's knife-specific kitchen rules, while Johnny defends her right to critique anyone's culinary choices. Then, these three Latinos get real about how and why their community voted the way they did in this election - and why no one should be surprised. Plus, the trio breaks down Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo's emotional "Wicked" press tour and debates whether we really needed to hear that "Defying Gravity" riff before opening night. Come get your weekly serving of the gayest, most delicious Latin cake on the internet!*Recorded before Wicked premiere, but the milk remains scalding hot

Recorded before last week's election as a much-needed palette cleanser...The leches serve up three spicy helpings of Spilled Milk advice this week! What do you do when your ex tells you they "lowered their standards" (THE AUDACITY!)? How do you handle mismatched libidos? And should you join a throuple with famous adult film stars when you're not even sure if you're poly? Plus, the trio dives deep into failed talking stages, why you should stop worrying about sharks when you're not even in the water, and a heated debate about whether deleting Grindr just means sliding into Instagram DMs instead. Come get your weekly serving of the gayest, most delicious Latin cake on the internet.

🎃 Welcome to Tres Leches’ Spooktacular Halloween Special! This week, dive into a bubbling cauldron of laughter and LOL moments as we dissect niche gay Halloween costumes. From meme-inspired ensembles to pop culture phenomena, get ready to giggle at the outrageous and admire the inventive.Juan gets personal, sharing why Halloween and holidays have sometimes been tough the last couple of year. He opens up about not wanting to become a ‘bitter old bitch’, and learning to enjoy life’s pleasures, even without a significant other. Although, if he had a boyfriend he would have insisted they go as José and Kitty Menendez—now that’s a couple’s costume missed!Meanwhile, Ian escapes the Halloween frenzy for a serene retreat upstate, seeking peace before the pre-election chaos. And Johnny? He’s here with his nuggets of wisdom that somehow make everything better.Strap in for a ‘Spooky Dooky Halloween’ that’s part ADHD fever dream, part heartfelt journey through the specters of our lives. It’s weird, it’s wild, and it’s exactly the distraction you need. 🧙‍♂️👻

Celebrate one fabulous year with Tres Leches! 🎉 On this special anniversary episode, we dive into a sparkling retrospective of the moments that shaped us—from the iconic Cher vs. Tina debate to the birth of 27PLUS. It’s been a year of blessed friendships, profound reflections on love and loss, and embracing our unabashed gayness, all wrapped in the spirit of the First Wives Club.Join us as we revisit these highlights, fueled by the stories and support you’ve shared. Your messages and encounters have enriched this journey, and we’re thrilled to step into another year of adventures with you. Pour a glass of your favorite indulgence and toast to the resilience of friendship, the joy of being, and the promise of more unforgettable moments. Here’s to love, laughter, and another year of Tres Leches magic—because the best is yet to come! With love, from your three milks. 🍰❤️

Join us on Tres Leches for an episode that’s truly one-of-a-kind! Latino Heritage Month ended yesterday, so we’re featuring two Latinos we’re not so proud of. We delve into the gripping Netflix series ‘Monsters,’ which explores the tumultuous lives of the Menendez brothers. In a bizarre twist of programming, we segue from the dark tale of the Menendez siblings into the colorful and often hilarious tales of our own Latino upbringings.From tales of overprotective mothers to the festive chaos of family gatherings, we share the poignant and often hilarious moments that shaped us. It’s an exploration of the quirks and charms that define Latino families, ensuring you that—unlike the Menendez narrative—ours are full of warmth, laughter, and life.This episode isn’t just about looking back; it’s about celebrating the rich tapestry of stories that we carry with us, proving that while our heritage may be complex, it’s also incredibly colorful and filled with love. Tune in as we trace the lines from our past, understand our present, and laugh about it all.btw Judalon - is not invited to Noche Buena!

Hold on to your gowns, folks—Johnny Sibilly is here, and he’s brought Emmy gold with him! This week on Tres Leches, we’re bursting with joy straight from the 76th Emmy Awards, celebrating ‘Hacks’ as it clinches the top comedy prize.Join us as Johnny spills the tea on what it’s like to be part of TV’s favorite comedy this year. From Liza Colón-Zayas’ historic win to John Leguizamo’s powerful call for better Latino representation, this Emmy night was truly unforgettable. Plus, we’ll dive into Jean Smart’s hilarious acceptance, Anna Sawai’s impactful victory, and the delightful ‘Schitt’s Creek’ reunion that had us all cheering.But the real magic happened with Johnny and the ‘Hacks’ team, who reminded us why laughter is the best medicine. Hear directly from Johnny about the thrill of being at the center of Hollywood’s biggest night.So, put on your sparkliest attire and tune in for an episode filled with stars, stories, and unmatched style. We’re celebrating all things Emmys and all things ‘Hacks,’ proving once again that nobody does it quite like Tres Leches and Johnny Sibilly.

As three gay men who cut our teeth on the romantic revolution at the beginning of this new millennium, we’ve seen our share of love’s evolutions. This week on Tres Leches, we delve into the world of polyamory. We’re tuning into psychotherapist Esther Perel’s fascinating discussion, "The Arc of Love: The Poly Dinner Party," from her acclaimed podcast *Where Should We Begin?*Esther invites poly couples to lay it all out on the table, and we’re here to dissect each moment—from the highs of abundant love to the challenges of jealousy and everything in between. Expect to hear snippets from the episode that sparked our curiosity and provoked plenty of debates among us. Can jealousy be a tool to grow a relationship? That’s one of the questions we explore.We’re unpacking the good, the bad, and the complicated with our usual flair. This isn’t just about understanding polyamory; it’s about exploring what it can teach all of us about love, relationships, and ourselves. Get ready for a titillating conversation that dives into the heart of modern romance. It’s spicy, it’s insightful, and it’s unabashedly Tres Leches.

This week on Tres Leches, we’re celebrating the sensational Jools Lebron, a trans-Latina content creator who has captured our hearts and has the internet’s algorithm in a demure chokehold. An we’ve got something to to say those that tired of the trend! 👊🏾 just you wait, Henry Higgins! You might justifiably be tired of our chats about gay vacations and Fire Island, but bear with us—we’ve got a bit more to share today, all in the pursuit of discussing something truly important.We dive deep into the productivity complex, exploring how we tie our worth to our output. From vacation guilt to daily to-dos, we unravel the pressure to earn our leisure and joy. Ian shares his personal battle with balancing work and downtime, offering insights that resonate on a universal level.In our ‘Spilled Milk’ segment, we tackle a Brooklyn couple’s clash between living large and saving smart—a perfect showdown of ‘brat’ vs. ‘demure’ lifestyles. Roar!

We’re really trying to be demure - but we’re just three brazen broads. This week on Tres Leches, join Juan as he embarks on his first trip of the year to Fire Island, bringing you a special episode straight from this iconic homosexual hotspot. Amidst the sandy shores and summer vibes, Juan engages in a profound exploration of self-discovery, confronting his longstanding reliance on men’s attention as his primary, if not sole, source of self-worth. This isn’t just a vacation; it’s a transformative unpacking of deep-seated validation habits.In a candid reflection reminiscent of Carrie Bradshaw’s introspective escapades, your Tres Leches explore what it means to truly romanticize your life, making your relationship with yourself the most cherished one. As we unwrap this heartfelt theme, we each share personal tips on how we add a touch of romance to our everyday lives. And, Johnny gives us a sneak peek into his new project shooting in Palm Springs, adding a dash of his own sun-soaked insights.From self-love realizations to celebrating solo joys, this episode of Tres Leches is about embracing the beauty of being your own best company. Tune in as we bring you tales of personal growth and self-love from Fire Island to Palm Springs—because sometimes, the best love story is the one you write with yourself.

Today’s episode is completely rotted, a direct reflection of our brains. Our grey matter took a vacation and decided to never come back. …but we kick things off with a heartfelt discussion about grief and recovery from the traumatic events in our lives. How long is too long to dwell in our sorrows, and when is it time to embrace a stiff upper lip? It’s a delicate balance, and we’re unpacking it today.As we wrap up our Olympic watch, we dive into some of the Games’ great moments and tackle the controversies, including the right’s attack on trans athletes that have marked this year’s events. Yay sports, indeed.In our ‘Spilled Milk’ segment, one of our gay boy listeners writes in about his new bisexual identity. He’s saying “bye-bye-bye” to his old self because he’s now “bi-bi-bi.” Another listener asks for permission to cheat. This is her Meadowlark moment—will she risk it all for a new romance?This episode might be all over the place, but our love for you is exactly where it should be—in our hearts.

Strap in for a golden episode of Tres Leches as we dive into the dazzling world of the Olympics, including the awe-inspiring opening ceremony and Celine Dion’s triumphant return to the stage. We’re not just talking about her performance but also the masterful media blitz that heralded her comeback. It’s all about the spectacle, the strategy, and the sparkle!Then, we discuss the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleadrs and their Netflix documentary experience: ‘America’s Sweethearts.’ We’re still not over the behind-the-scenes drama and dazzle it unveiled. In our “Spilled Milk” segment, we turn to a different kind of partnership: Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor. Sarah shared that living apart is their relationship’s secret sauce. Could this be a magic formula for long-term love, or...? We’re breaking down the pros and cons.And for our final splash, we tackle a listener’s thought-provoking question inspired by Oprah’s “Things I Know for Sure.” What’s one thing each of us knows for certain? Get ready for some surprising revelations, including why Pinesol makes the list.

We’re thrilled to be back with you after our quick summer sojourn! In today’s episode of Tres Leches, we’re diving headfirst into a monumental moment in American politics. With Kamala Harris stepping up as the presidential candidate after Joe Biden’s exit from the race, we’re unpacking the seismic shift and what it means for the future. We share our thoughts, hopes, and reflections on this pivotal and potentially wild chapter in American history.And don’t miss out—Johnny breaks down how to properly pronounce ‘Kamala,’ ensuring we all get it right as she steps into the presidential spotlight.But that’s just the first half! The second part of our episode gets personal as we navigate the scary world of first dates. Ian’s not holding back—after being left on read, he’s ready to read the bitch who did it. Meanwhile, Juan is branching out, trying to expand his dating horizons by mingling with new friend groups. And Johnny? Our wise Mama Odie, comfortably in a relationship, shares her sage realtionship advice like an old woman THAT lives in a tree.

No, really, we need saving! Because after recording this episode, it’s clear we need help.We’re starting with a brief toast to Broadway’s best at the Tony Awards, then crossing the Atlantic to dive into Ian’s beginnings in the UK, and exploring why he never read “The Outsiders.”Ian isn’t the only British thing we love—we are also head over heels for “Love Island UK” and its American sister show, which just kicked off a new season. Johnny and Juan are on a campaign to get Ian addicted to the island antics—why not join the madness and watch along with us?But there’s more! Today’s ‘Spilled Milk’ segment is fermenting with juicy gossip—so tantalizing it’s almost rotten. Leave it out any longer, and we might just have sour cream on our hands! We're tackling a man grappling with a significant age gap in his new relationship, celebrating the wild adventures of a recent college grad, and debating bedroom laziness—because someone’s got to do the work, right?

Our witch’s brew is piping hot this week. Ian is practically levitating with excitement over the buzz that Sandra Bullock and Nicole Kidman might reunite for a “Practical Magic” reboot. Yes, you heard it right. This is Ian’s rapture. He has seen the face of God and it’s this potential cinematic revival.But that’s not all we’ve got stirring in our cauldron. We talk gay etiquette, why you should just say ‘hi’—always.Juan explains why you might want to think twice before claiming you’re ‘nauseous’—and Ian shares a musical ordeal that left him nauseated. And for our grand finale? We’re dissecting Johnny’s legendary “XXX” Spotify playlist, track by track. Dubbed the single greatest playlist for making whoopie, even Wendy Williams would nod and declare, “It’s good.” IG: @TresLechesThePodYouTube: Full Episodes here!Follow us:@IanPaget@JohnnySibilly@JuanTF

Welcome back, mis amores! Today, we’re throwing out the agenda and just “comiendo mierda” (and yes, while that might translate to eating sh*…, around here, it means talking sh*…). You know when you talk to your best friend about the same thing you’ve talked about 5,676 times but you bring it up again because you’ve found another way to think about the same situation?—yep, that’s our vibe today. What’s on the docket? It’s Pride month, and we’re mixing celebration with a side-eye at all the gay couples hoarding the fun. Juan might’ve bailed on his 75 hard challenge, but trust, he’s picked up some wisdom along the way. Johnny? Oh, he’s got a boyfriend now, and we’re all about getting the deets. And let’s not forget Ian, reminding us why we’re blessed to live in a world where Fire Island is just a ferry ride away. We’re also talking Billie Eilish and her latest single, “Birds of a Feather.”So, grab your café cubano, find your favorite spot, and let’s dive into another heart-to-heart, Tres Leches style—no filters, all sass, and a generous helping of best-friending.

As the season shifts, emotions are blooming just as much as the flowers around us. Johnny's stepping into a new relationship, while Juan and Ian are single, taking this time to delve deep into what intimacy and romance mean to them at this point in their lives. We're also exploring the nuances of platonic intimacy. Can these non-romantic relationships truly satisfy our yearnings for closeness and connection? For Ian, they might just be the answer. Later in the episode, in our "Spilled Milk" segment, the phone call is coming form inside the house–Juan has a burning question for Johnny and Ian about setting expectations in relationships, especially when it comes to communication styles and how often we should be in touch. Johnny warns Juan that saying “No worries if not” and being overly accommodating to the whims of potential suitors, lets the colonizers win. Follow us! IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@TresLechesThePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@TresLechesThePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@JuanTF⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@JohnnySibilly ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@IanPaget Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/treslechesthepod/message

It’s the second installment of our series, “Be Good to You” -  exploring the things that truly make us feel good, inside and out. You wanna be on top? Me neither! This week, we're joined by the dynamic Alex Hall, creator of "The Bottom’s Digest," who spices up our discussion with his expert blend of culinary and sexual wisdom. Alex's mission to promote a healthier, joy-filled sexual lifestyle shines through as he tackles common myths about diet and bottoming, offering practical advice for enhancing your sexual well-being. Did you know the timing of your fiber supplement could be the secret sauce to a perfect evening? Get the scoop on that and more, including a glimpse into what makes us purr.  Follow us! IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@TresLechesThePod⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@TresLechesThePod⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠@JuanTF⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠@JohnnySibilly⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠@IanPaget Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/treslechesthepod/message

Hi sweethearts! Welcome to the first installment of our four-part series, “Be Good to You.” Over the next four weeks, we're diving deep into a journey of self-care and personal growth, exploring the things that truly make us feel good, inside and out.   This week, we’re honored to have licensed therapist Omar Torres (@haveyoutriedtherapy) join us to unlock the healing power of therapy. 😍 In this episode, Omar shares his professional perspective on making therapy accessible, overcoming stigma, and how to take the first step towards finding the right therapist for you. And we promise this session wont end in a fight with Dr. Leslie Rosen. (Played by Marcia Gay Harden, of course) Follow us! IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@TresLechesThePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@TresLechesThePod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@JuanTF⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@JohnnySibilly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@IanPaget Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/treslechesthepod/message

Yeehaw, y'all! This week on Tres Leches, we're swapping salsa for barbecue sauce and diving boots-first into Beyoncé's country revolution with "Cowboy Carter." With Donell James Foreman (@TheDJF_) joining us as our star-studded co-host, we're saddling up for a rollicking ride through the album that's got everyone talking. "Cowboy Carter" marks a significant moment in music history, with Beyoncé's single "Texas Hold 'Em" becoming the first No. 1 country hit by a Black woman. This album is not just a foray into country music; it's Beyoncé's exploration of America itself, digging deep into the genre's roots and paying homage to the unsung Black musicians who helped shape it.  It's an episode packed with laughs, insights, and maybe a surprise yodel or two. So, grab your hat, pour yourself some sweet tea, and join us for a knee-slapping good time as Tres Leches goes country with Beyoncé's "Cowboy Carter." Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/treslechesthepod/message