We Might Get In Trouble For This

Short DisclaimerIf you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, you are not alone. Help is available. If you are in immediate danger, call 911. You can also contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233) for confidential support and safety planning.🎧 Episode Show NotesWe Might Get in Trouble for This – Part 2: The Christian Girl’s Guide to DivorceIn this deeply personal follow-up episode, Kerri and Suzi continue their conversation on divorce through the lens of faith. With honesty, humor, and vulnerability, they share stories of conflict, codependency, healing, and the moments they felt God clearly guiding them through painful decisions.From lighthearted opening banter to powerful testimonies of provision, community, and courage, this episode is for anyone navigating marriage struggles, separation, or divorce—and wondering where God is in the middle of it.💬 Topics Covered:Apologizing (too much vs. not at all)Conflict in parenting and marriageCodependency and self-abandonmentHearing God in crisis momentsDivorce, faith, and theologyThe role of community and safetySeparation vs. reconciliationLetting go and trusting God with your spousePractical resources for women in difficult marriages🙏 The episode closes with a prayer that Kerri makes Suze pray for listeners walking through hardship.⏱️ Condensed Timestamps0:00 – Intro + Hair & glasses banter Kerri jokes about her “Wednesday hair” vs. weekend glam.0:45 – New segment: “Suzy Apologizes” Suzy introduces a humorous but revealing idea about chronic apologizing.1:20 – Kerri vs. apologizing + parenting conflict Kerri shares an ongoing standoff with her teenager.2:00 – The art of apologizing (and over-apologizing) Suzy reflects on personal tendencies and emotional upbringing.3:30 – Childhood, poverty, and emotional imprinting Discussion of environment, empathy, and money fears.3:50 – Transition: Divorce conversation (Part 2) Lead-in to deeper discussion on marriage and divorce.4:10 – Apologizing in marriage + codependency Suzy shares patterns from her relationship.4:45 – Over-functioning in unhealthy dynamics Example: caretaking a partner after harmful behavior.5:00 – Kerri’s reconciliation story A powerful moment of choosing grace despite hurt.7:00 – Suzy’s “miracle story” begins Packing to leave her marriage, fear, and prayer.8:00 – Marshall’s detour + emotional avoidance humor Light moment amid heavy transition.9:00 – Fear, survival mode, and prayer cycles Repeated moments of overwhelm and seeking God.10:30 – “God, I need to know you love me” Turning point prayer.11:00 – Miraculous affirmations (love, community, confidence) Friends unexpectedly show up with exactly what she prayed for.13:00 – Divorce grief + “divorce brain” Processing loss and identity shift.14:00 – Letting go of decision-making God confirms direction through spouse’s response.15:00 – Kerri: Recognizing when God says “enough” Encouragement for listeners seeking clarity.16:40 – Second miracle story: releasing her ex A dream/vision symbolizing God’s care for him.18:30 – Addiction, survival, and hitting limits Suzy shares struggles with bulimia and emotional survival.20:00 – Realization: marriage was the pain, divorce was relief Kerri reframes divorce as freedom.21:45 – Separation as a healthy step Discussion on when space is necessary.22:30 – Biblical perspective

Divorce and faith—can they coexist? In Part 1 of this honest and unfiltered conversation, Kerri and Suze share their personal experiences navigating marriage, heartbreak, and the pressure of divorce in Christian culture. From counseling fails to defining the moment you know it’s time, this episode is raw, funny, and deeply real.Part 2 coming next.Timestamps00:00 – Intro + chaos in the closet 05:00 – Topic: The Christian Girl’s Guide to Divorce 10:00 – Marriage stories + how we got here 15:00 – Counseling fails + real struggles 20:00 – Guilt, faith, and staying too long 25:00 – Breaking point + support systems 32:00 – “Enough” moment + clarity 35:00 – Pastors vs. real counseling 41:00 – Final thoughts + Part 2 teaserBefore we go, if this conversation brought anything up for you, you’re not alone. Divorce can feel overwhelming—especially when faith is part of your story—but there is support. Here are a few trusted resources if you need help or someone to talk to:Focus on the Family (counseling + faith-based support) - https:www.focusonthefamily.com⁠DivorceCare – https://www.divorcecare.org⁠BetterHelp (online counseling) – https://www.betterhelp.com⁠ National Domestic Violence Hotline – Call or text 988 or visit https://www.thehotline.org⁠You can always reach us at:[email protected] at: https://www.kerripom.com⁠Follow us: Instagram: https://www.kerripom.com⁠https://www.instagram.com/wemightgetintroubleforthispod⁠Facebook: https://www.kerripom.com/https://www.facebook.com/wemightgetintroubleforthispodcast⁠We’re so glad you’re here.Part 2 is coming next.If you want, I can tailor the resource list to be: more faith-based only more therapy/mental health focusedor even add co-parenting + legal resources depending on your audience. 

This episode starts light—antibiotics, diet culture, and a very questionable Fen-Phen story—but quickly turns into something much deeper.Kerri is joined by her mom, Barbara Pomarolli, who shares her extraordinary experience serving as a Red Cross worker on a Navy hospital ship during the Vietnam War. At just 24, she was one of only two women selected for the role.From caring for wounded soldiers and writing their final letters home, to navigating life in an active war zone, Barbara’s story is equal parts heartbreaking, inspiring, and unforgettable—with a few unexpected moments of humor along the way.http://kerripom.com/https://tatcha.com/⏱️ Timestamps00:00 – Intro + near-death stories & antibiotics nostalgia 01:30 – Diet culture throwbacks (SlimFast, Dexatrim) 02:30 – KERRI’s Fen-Phen story + LA pressure 03:30 – Cancer scare update & “celebrating being alive”04:20 – Introducing Barbara Pomeroli 05:00 – Chosen for Vietnam (Red Cross) 07:00 – Decision to go + family reactions09:30 – Arrival in Vietnam + first impressions 12:30 – Life on the USS Repose15:00 – Role on the ship + helping patients 17:00 – Writing letters for wounded soldiers 19:00 – Death, loss & final letters20:30 – Burn unit realities + emotional toll 22:00 – Comforting soldiers + human connection24:00 – Daily life + entertainment shows 26:30 – Faith & church on the ship29:00 – Returning home during anti-war protests 31:00 – Long-term health effects33:00 – Legacy, veterans & reflection34:30 – “We Don’t Hate It” (skincare segment) 36:00 – Wrap-up & where to follow

🎙️ Episode Show NotesTitle: What’s so Funny About Faith? In this deeply honest and vulnerable episode, Kerri and Suze jump from lighthearted life updates into a powerful conversation about faith, trauma, deconstruction, and the tension between personal pain and public expression.From airport flirtations sparked by a bold “Jesus is better” hat to a sobering discussion about a fellow comedian’s journey away from Christianity, this episode explores how life experiences—especially trauma—can shape belief systems.They wrestle with big questions:What happens when someone walks away from faith?Is it rebellion, pain, or something deeper?How should Christians respond—with anger, heartbreak, or compassion?Suze shares a deeply personal story about how harmful church leadership impacted her trust in Christianity, while Kerri reflects on her own perspective shaped by a positive faith upbringing. Together, they model what it looks like to hold truth, emotion, and empathy at the same time.The episode ultimately lands on hope: that faith journeys are rarely linear, God plays the long game, and no one is beyond redemption.Key Takeaways;Pain often shapes belief more than logicTrauma + bad theology can deeply distort faithYou can feel heartbreak, anger, and compassion at onceJesus and people are not the same—don’t confuse themGod’s timeline is longer than our judgmentThe most Christ-like response is prayer, not condemnationAnd as always- be kind. TIMESTAMP00:00 Intro & life updates00:58 Beauty mishaps & Nair story 😂02:42 “Jesus is better” hat & airport moments04:36 Comedian’s faith journey begins06:24 Fame, distance & public deconstruction09:00 The Prodigal Daughter reaction10:28 Faith vs Hollywood pressure12:00 Church trauma & personal story16:30 Why people walk away from faith20:02 How upbringing shapes belief24:48 When faith becomes unsafe26:19 Jesus vs people30:16 Success, comparison & compromise34:13 Comedy, pain & storytelling35:37 God plays the long game36:44 Meaning of “Prodigal Daughter”37:05 Final thoughts on grace38:06 “We Don’t Hate It” segment 😂40:00 Outro

Kerri just got back from Zambia… and let’s just say—she’s changed.(But also… still very much herself.)In this episode, Kerri and Suze go from chaotic mom-life (being late, forgetting shoes, ADHD moments) to a raw, honest conversation about mission trips, poverty, privilege, and what it actually means to be transformed by an experience.Carrie shares what it was like traveling to Zambia with her daughter, working with an incredible school called iDream, and building real relationships with families living in extreme poverty. From delivering mattresses and food to forming friendships over Instagram DMs, the experience left her asking a hard question:How do you come home changed… and stay that way?Meanwhile, Suze reflects on her own trip to Uganda and what it means to raise kids who see the world beyond America.00:00 – Intro + glam vs. didn’t wash hair01:30 – Being late, mom chaos & ADHD moments04:00 – Late-in-life ADHD diagnosis06:15 – Kerri’s Zambia trip begins08:30 – Suze’s Uganda experience10:00 – Culture shock & “how do you stay changed?”11:50 – iDream school + sponsorship impact14:00 – Poverty, food insecurity & real stories17:00 – Consumption, privilege & perspective shift20:30 – Staying connected vs. “magnet kid”23:30 – Raising kids with global awareness25:30 – Mental health: U.S. vs. developing countries30:30 – Faith, purpose & living it out32:30 – Beauty culture vs. natural beauty33:00 – Red light mask + skincare talk35:00 – Lymphatic brush & aging struggles36:30 – Slim cream fail + mom humor37:30 – Outro + follow ushttps://share.google/B77xwq1CPG1lNlmx5

 Show Description / Episode Show Notes:Kerri, a Gen X, conservative comedian and author, and Suze, an elder lefty Millennial Mama who’s totally outnumbered, are two old friends diving into life from opposite sides of the spectrum. From pop culture and botox to divorce, faith , and everything in between, they’re a little unhinged, a little risky, and guaranteed to get in trouble along the way.  In this episode, we talk about:•The latest in pop culture and what actually matters. Aka, who is Erika Kirk anyway. •The joys and chaos of parenting across generations•Faith, friendship, and those moments that make you question everything.• And of course creams and things to make us look as young as possible because - vanity. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Intro00:25 Health spiral + eye situation02:20 Arizona trip chaos02:55 Bed bugs 😳05:00 90s nostalgia + style obsession10:30 Main topic begins13:30 Why people ignore the truth25:30 Why facts don’t change minds32:00 Faith + identity discussion35:45 Beauty segment chaos🎙 Check out some of the people we mentioned. 🔗 Perez Hilton: https://perezhilton.com/🔗 Daily Dose of Dana (podcast): https://www.dailydosepod.com/