Well Since We're Here!

In "Celebrity Standards: The Kelly Rowland Dressing Room Debate," viewers are taken behind the scenes of a contentious incident involving singer Kelly Rowland and her alleged departure from the Today Show. As rumors swirl about the reasons for her abrupt exit, ranging from diva behavior to pregnancy concerns, the episode explores the broader issues of celebrity treatment and fairness in the entertainment industry. With conflicting reports and opinions from various sources, the narrative delves into the complexities of fame, discrimination, and the challenges faced by artists of color. Through candid discussions and analysis, the episode sheds light on the importance of equality and respect in the treatment of all individuals, regardless of their status or celebrity.

host Gucci reflects on personal growth, navigating difficult family dynamics, and the importance of mental health. He shares his journey of quitting smoking, rejoining counseling, and confronting unresolved issues with his father. Through candid storytelling, Gucci explores the concept that "two things can be true at the same time," drawing parallels between personal experiences and societal reactions. He discusses themes of forgiveness, self-discovery, and the complexities of human relationships, offering listeners insights into his own struggles and triumphs. With a mix of humor, introspection, and raw honesty, Gucci encourages listeners to prioritize their well-being and embrace the complexities of life.

Get comfortable and prepare for an uncensored deep-dive into the untouched topic of natural sex and personal hygiene. With our special guest Zaire, we peel back the layers on body hair preferences, body odors, and their role in our sexual encounters. Is there a place for real body smells in the bedroom? What does natural sex truly mean to you? Let's bust the taboos and get real about the nitty-gritty of personal hygiene and the impact it can have on our intimate relationships.In our pursuit to reveal the raw truths, we also tackle the crucial significance of hygiene when it comes to sexual activity. Spontaneity might be the spice of life, but how does it balance with the need for cleanliness? What happens when you throw unprotected sex into the mix? With Zaire adding his unfiltered insights, we navigate through these questions and discuss the importance of communication, trust, and the right preparations for those intimate moments. So buckle up and get ready for a candid, educational, and potentially hilarious exploration of the less-glamorous aspects of natural sex and personal hygiene.Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

Would you dare to redefine the traditional relationship practices you've grown accustomed to? Brace yourself for an enlightening discourse on polyamory, with our guest Zaire, an experienced practitioner, who generously shares his explorations and journey. We wander through the meandering paths of multiple romantic relationships, probing the discreet layers of love, openness, and the possibility of maintaining equilibrium within it all. As we unpack my own apprehensions about this unorthodox relationship framework, we inevitably touch upon the risk of feeling sidelined and the paramount importance of honesty.As we progress in our conversation, Zaire and I delve into the intersection of non-monogamy and personal happiness. We pose crucial questions on the association of joy with monogamy and the potential of finding happiness within oneself, rather than relying solely on another. We debate the conventional wisdom surrounding monogamy and make a case for open discussions on non-monogamy. In essence, our dialogue elucidates that polyamory isn't merely about the sexual elements but embraces deeper bonds with numerous partners, free of deception. So, brace yourself for this riveting discussion about shattering societal norms and welcoming diverse forms of love.Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

Get ready for some truth bombs as we tackle the divisive issue of LGBTQ+ identity and stigma, spotlighting the contrasting reactions towards Dwight Howard, accused of being part of the LGBTQ+ community, and an anti-LGBTQ+ pastor-mayor. We're taking a hard look at the necessity for proactive advocacy for marginalized communities, honing in on respect and understanding for those bold enough to own their identity publicly. The controversy around these public figures serves as a mirror, reflecting the deep-seated prejudices and biases that we, as a society, need to address urgently.Switching gears, we're bringing our attention to a pop culture incident that sends a crucial message about online safety. Drawing lessons from a personal encounter that spiraled into a dangerous situation, we underline the importance of treading with caution in the virtual world. Wrapping up, we delve into the realities and complexities of 'DL' individuals within the LGBTQ+ community, breaking down the stigma and secrecy that often shroud their identities. So, buckle up as we navigate these sensitive topics with unflinching honesty, aiming for a deeper understanding and acceptance of our diverse communities.Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

You know how it feels when you struggle to put a jigsaw puzzle together, but the final piece just doesn't fit, no matter how hard you try? That's often how it feels for parents trying to understand and support their LGBTQ children. We often wonder – what's the right way to handle these situations? Well, fear not, because we are armed with insights and advice from a mother who's been there and done that. My mother, Lucy, joins me as we navigate the often-tricky terrain of supporting LGBTQ children, tackling tough issues like acceptance, love, and understanding in the face of adversity.Unconditional love and support – that's the mantra my mother Lucy lived by as she journeyed through accepting my identity. We share personal anecdotes, reflecting on the power of acceptance and the role of a supportive family. I open up about my own experiences, the pushback I received, and how self-love became my lifesaver. Lucy, with her warmth and wisdom, shines a light on the path she took as a parent, offering comfort and guidance for others embarking on a similar journey.From the importance of nurturing relationships to overcoming challenges, we explore the impact of a loving and accepting parent. Lucy's formidable patience and understanding serve as a beacon for all parents navigating through their child's journey. We delve into the need for mentors and role models within the community, acknowledge the sacrifices a parent makes, and discuss the importance of respecting others' beliefs. But one thing stands above all - the love for ourselves. Join us as we unravel the puzzle of parenthood and understand that the pieces might not always fit as we expect, but they create a beautiful picture nonetheless.Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

Ever wondered how labels and toxic masculinity impact the gay community? We'll unpack this complex issue and examine the implications of identifying as 'strict top' or 'bottom'. We're taking an honest look at the challenges and pressures these labels introduce, and the effect it can have on relationships. From inadvertently missing potential partners to suppressing genuine desires for the sake of mainstream culture, we'll explore it all.In our second segment, we champion the need for support, love, and understanding within the LGBTQ+ community. Navigating assumptions about sexuality can be damaging especially when individuals are still confronting their truth. Let's debunk the myths around masculinity, sexuality, and labels together. We end on a strong note, vehemently opposing any form of shaming or degrading on the basis of sexuality. We believe in the power of grace and understanding. So join us, as we dissect the often overlooked aspects of the LGBTQ+ community.Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

Does the approval of others truly define our worth? Does it shape our identity or limit our potential? Join me, Gucci, your host, as we dive headfirst into a riveting conversation about acceptance, identity, and the power of self-worth. Drawing from personal experiences of growing up in a Southern Baptist and Native American household, I offer an intimate insight into the challenges faced by the LGBTQI community and the struggle for acceptance in a world conditioned by stereotypes and prejudices.This discussion isn't merely about my journey, but it serves as a larger narrative on societal slurs, stereotypes, and the detrimental impacts they have on individuals from the LGBTQI community. We puncture the harmful narratives surrounding sexual orientation and preference, digging into their critical differences, and how they shape our understanding of sexuality. This episode is an honest look into the distinction between acceptance and approval, urging listeners to demand respect rather than settle for tolerance. It's a conversation about self-acceptance and the realization that the approval of others isn't needed to celebrate one's identity. This is the raw truth, the unfiltered conversation that you've been waiting for. Don't miss out!Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

In the relentless pursuit of the elusive 50-50 relationship, are we losing sight of what truly matters? Join me, Gucci, as we untangle the intricacies of relationships, taking a deep dive into the realities of shared responsibilities and income imbalances. We explore how striving for an equal exchange between different income levels can often lead to overextension, and why it's crucial to recognize and respect our limits. The conversation even ventures into the somewhat taboo topic of artificially boosting our wealth to impress a partner, and the dangerous pitfalls that can accompany such actions.As we continue, we shift gears to the importance of self-love, and how the quest for external validation can trip us up. I'll share my personal insights into why it's essential to put yourself first, asserting the powerful role you play in shaping your own outcomes. As a nod to our listeners, we wrap up with a call to action encouraging you to rate, review, and follow us, and express our sincere gratitude for your loyal listenership. This episode promises to challenge widely accepted norms and inspire authenticity in your relationships.Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

From the depths of self-hatred to the peaks of self-love, let's journey across the rugged terrain of my personal transformation. You'll witness how I battled with internalizing my differences initially as a tool of self-torture, only to later wield it as a weapon of strength. Drawn from my experiences, we'll unravel the complexities of our behaviors and how awareness of such can ignite growth and personal development. Join me, your host Gucci, as we delve into an honest examination of the past, present and the ever-evolving future.In the last segment of our episode, we'll pause to thank you, our dear listeners, for accompanying us on this journey. We'll explore the sense of empowerment that comes with embracing our differences, viewing them not as faults, but as tools to combat hatred and vehicles to drive positive change. We will also earmark the struggles of the LGBTQIA community, my personal bouts with internalized homophobia, and the critical role of understanding and empathy in challenging these issues. Prepare yourself for a profound discussion on self-awareness, personal growth, and self-love. And remember, in the grand scheme of life, everyone should be afforded grace.Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

Because we screw, that doesn’t mean I do! TFYM?Just because we had a great time sexually and the vibe was high, I’m now sober and realize it was just a one time thing! How do I severe ties with someone who I don’t see in my future plans without being disrespectful and rude? It was just great sex but what’s next ?Don’t let lustful actions make you bite off more than you can chewGreat sex doesn’t equate to being a great partner  2. Being upfront about your true intentions!NSA, FWB, or just Dates be honest with yourself and the person of interest that will save a lot of trouble and headaches Don’t exchange information or plan to meet until you’re sure   3. Being completely honest about where things stand with you and potential dating partner!Be realistic about your wish list and don’t settleIf you lower your expectations blame yourselfSupport the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

Are you religious meaning you congregate with your perspective religious choice and freedom? Or do you have a relationship with GOD outside of a religious organization? Do you congregate or fellowship within your chosen religion or have a separate relationship with GOD?Do you attend church ?Fondest and darkest memories attending religious services Aunt S, L Sunday morning routine   2. Are there any reasons why you chose that particular path?The truth is I’m tired Being used for their glory and profit I no longer feel ashamed or condemned Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

They say opposites attract! But how far is too far adjacent!In regard to compatibility how much do you prefer to have in common with potential life partner?Why being opposite may work in relationshipsThe adventure of always guessing the next moveSometimes having your own identity outside of us is helping to remaining you at the core When we both think or act the same it gets boring   2. The competitive nature of men and some women( cooking story)When you share similar interests or hobbies it can become competitiveWhen friendly competition can lead to resentment Now things are getting personal leave my mother out of thisKey Take Aways  3. Finding a happy middle ground in your relationshipLearning to accept that someone will be better and thats ok (we together?)Allowing spouse to take the lead in shared interests in which they excel despite your efforts Realizing that what you do good separately can be great together Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

Welcome to well since we’re here and in todays episode we discuss; Who do I believe I mean versus who I really meant to someone else?  Understanding your value and worth as it pertains to interconnected people interactions! Am I a place holder? Accepting your position or role in someone else’s lifeHaving realistic expectations of the role you play in other people lives across all aspects!Expectations on the role you play in other people livesSetting and receiving boundaries from other people Categories you should be careful of  2. After realizing your role(either by asking, summarizes by actions or inactions) if you get hurt who’s the blame?Once you are certain your position in someone life if it’d not for you let it go you will thank me laterOnce you are placed in one of those aforementioned categories you will regret sticking around especially if you have ulterior motivesYou can pretend its ok for now but someday you will face the musicSupport the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

What you heard is not what I meant!When you internalize your partners truth and wish they lied to coddle you and your feelingsEasy on that salt and pepper shaker bitch Sometimes the truth is painful so be prepared if you seek answers   2.Learn to not only listen but to hear! Don’t listen to respond.When you become defensive and listen to rebuttal but not actually to learn what the real issues areThis perpetuates a never ending cycle of resentment that may lead to passive aggressiveness and sometimes abuse  3. I stand by what I said I just wish I communicated it more effectiveNever apologize for what you mean However you can apologize by the message delivery or toneIf you apologize and its not sincere you are being an enabler to pacify your partners feelings and this complicates the situation “Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would”Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

Having expectations that aren’t merited in our personal relationships!Wanting the lions share of the harvest and haven’t sowed a seedSteak and lobster on my dime ? Can I get a number Double standards in our community   2. If you was a ain’t shit family member don’t expect shit parents included Absenteeism in my life but present for the rewards and benefitsIm financially stable because of my work ethics inspire of you! You inspired me indirectlyNow that your health is failing you want to forge a healthy relationship with me?  3. It’s okay to be selfish you should try it sometime!Self sacrifice isn’t the holy grail (if I’m not good we ain’t good)Tired of being on the back burner on standby for everyone else needsTreat yourself well cause Cleary they aren’t Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

                               ***Sweetest Day Special and Podcast Sneak Peek***Ways to show your spouse you love them with non monetary gifts! Budget friendly gifts that shows thought and consideration. Saying I love and appreciate you usually works! “Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would”Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");

Welcome to well since we’re here and in todays episode we discuss; The Ways ,I as a Gay POC may have to navigate the world in,“This is not a test!”Ways I have to minimize who I am in order to remain respected Pretending to  be straight or overly masculine Overly feminine or a like a caricature of oneself (think Wanda, sheneneh, madea, quite the opposite of Vera because other variety or skits shows like Seinfeld for example).Recall hearing the story about family matters Heyyyyy bitch, Im not your girlfriend !It's important to be authentic and true to yourself. Pretending to be someone you're not in order to gain respect can be emotionally taxing. It's better to find a balance between staying true to your identity and earning respect from others who appreciate you for who you are. Embracing diversity and individuality is essential for a more inclusive society.  2. Being uncomfortable situations and they are obliviousBarber shops, locker rooms, or men in generalHaving an outer body experience, Being a fly on the wall Some extra flamboyant or obviously gay appearing because there are some feminine straight men out here and that kinda coined the metro sexual and the fellas roast him and expect you to laugh not knowing that’s your bro or sis or whatever pronoun they prefer!Support the show“Always remember to love yourself like no one else Would” !function(c,h,i,m,p){m=c.createElement(h),p=c.getElementsByTagName(h)[0],m.async=1,m.src=i,p.parentNode.insertBefore(m,p)}(document,"script","https://chimpstatic.com/mcjs-connected/js/users/6834a89417547136ae20cf381/e19dc0424faf4376910e219b1.js");