We're All Fine

In this episode of 'We're All Fine', hosts Holly and Carley welcome Lynn Harris, the founder of Gold Comedy and co-creator of Breakup Girl. The conversation explores the intersection of comedy, relationships, and empowerment, particularly for women and non-binary individuals in the comedy space. Lynn shares insights on how humor can be a powerful tool for healing and navigating the complexities of relationships. The discussion also touches on the challenges women face in the comedy industry and the importance of community and collaboration in fostering new voices and perspectives.Want to know more about GOLD Comedy?  GOLD Comedy, the comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women and non-binary creators grow their comedy careers, join a powerful community, and make funny stuff. Through our classes, celebrity speaker series, sketch teams, shows, and more, our members build skills, rack up laurels, and nail their showbiz goals. Rachel Dratch is an advisor, and our guests and mentors have included Margaret Cho, Paula Pell, Judy Gold, Janeane Garofalo, Rachel Bloom, Ashley Nicole Black, Patti Harrison, Bridget Everett, and staffers from The Daily Show, SNL, A Black Lady Sketch Show, Broad City, Search Party, Inside Amy Schumer, and more. We are the comedy talent/content/power pipeline for women and other “others.”https://goldcomedy.com/

In this episode of 'We're All Fine', hosts Holly and Carley welcome Tanya Losee, a dynamic burlesque dancer and model. Tanya shares her journey into the world of burlesque, discussing the empowerment she felt from diverse performers and the supportive community she found. The conversation explores the art of burlesque, the challenges of self-consciousness, and the mixed public perceptions of her work. Tanya also touches on her experiences with anxiety and the importance of self-acceptance, all while maintaining a sense of humor and authenticity. In this engaging conversation, she also shares her experiences in the kink community, discussing the intersection of aesthetics and kink, the importance of consent and communication, and how these elements contribute to empowerment and confidence. Check out Tanya as Dulcie Diablo on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/dulcie_diablo?igsh=Zm5lNzZxZmRhZnI4Tanya Losee (she/her)—known on stage as Dulcie DiAblo—is a licensed esthetician, fine art nude model, and burlesque performer crafting beauty, boldness, and body confidence for over a decade. Her creative and personal healing journey began with nude modeling as a way to navigate severe social anxiety—what started as a quiet, intimate act of reclamation soon evolved into a celebration of the body in all its forms, and a portal into the vibrant worlds of burlesque and kink performance.Since 2017, Tanya has performed as Dulcie DiAblo, captivating audiences with her signature blend of dark glamour, vocal prowess, and a deep reverence for the beautiful and the tragic.After nearly a decade as a practicing esthetician, she launched Bliss Esthetics in Colorado Springs in 2019. Here, she merges skincare, education, and a touch of magic. Her knowledge of Tesla high-frequency modalities also electrifies her work in the kink and adult entertainment communities, where she performs live Violet Wand demonstrations—bridging clinical expertise with passion for sensual performance.Whether teasing on stage, empowering clients in the treatment room, or exploring power and play through performance, Tanya’s work is rooted in radical self-expression, body acceptance, and creative alchemy.

Holly and Carley are laying it ALL OUT for the commitment-phobes! They’re breaking down relationship milestones and walking you up the relationship escalator. They’ll get into traditional timelines and some not so traditional highlights of relationships. This one is a “laugh ‘cause you know it’s true” episode!#Curiousminds#ThenewnormalFind us on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube!Email at [email protected]

Today we explore the complexities of sexual expression and the influence of pop culture. From Gym-baiting to performing an Eiffel Tower on stage, Holly and Carley discuss (and bicker) what it means to be a real woman.

Holly and Carley discuss the importance of little acts of rebellion for women in today's society. They explore historical figures who have made significant impacts and provide listeners with practical tools for modern-day feminism. The conversation emphasizes the power of micro acts of rebellion that can empower women in their daily lives, encouraging them to assert themselves and challenge societal norms.

In this episode, hosts Holly and Carley explore themes of self-worth, ambition, and the pressures of busy culture. The conversation culminates in a series of (excruciating) homework assignments aimed at fostering personal growth and self-discovery—something akin to having your teeth pulled.

In this episode, Holly discusses avoiding falling in love with scam artists, drawing lessons from "The Tinder Swindler" and "Sweet Bobby". She explores the tactics used by conmen, such as love bombing and manipulation, and emphasizes the importance of trusting one's instincts and maintaining social connections. Holly provides practical steps to recognize red flags in relationships and the necessity of meeting in person and researching potential partners online.

Hosts Holly and Carley explore the complexities of modern dating, the challenges of finding love without traditional apps, and the unique stories of their guests, Jessica and Amber, who share their unconventional love stories. The discussion delves into the significance of meet-cutes, workplace romances, and unexpected connections that lead to lasting relationships.

In this episode, Holly and Carley delve into the contrasting realms of fictional and real-life sex, mainly through the lens of romance novels. They discuss the dynamics of age in relationships, the language used in erotic literature, and the fantasies women harbor versus their real-life experiences. The conversation highlights the complexities of attraction, the expectations placed on women, and the often humorous yet serious exploration of sexual language and boundaries. Carley and Holly explore the dynamics of confident masculinity and femininity in relationships, emphasizing the importance of leadership and equality.

In this engaging conversation, Holly and Carley welcome Jason Jansen, a psychic medium, who shares his journey into mediumship, the importance of living authentically, and the healing power of connecting with spirits. They discuss common misconceptions about the afterlife, the influence of spirits on our lives, and the challenges of navigating skepticism. Jason emphasizes the significance of therapy in conjunction with mediumship and his work's profound impact on those grieving. Jason shares insights into his work connecting with spirit guides and past lives, revealing fascinating stories and historical connections that emerge during readings. 

In this episode, Holly and Carley dive into the intriguing world of family secrets, sharing personal anecdotes and exploring the complexities of family dynamics. They discuss the impact of genealogy and ancestry on identity, revealing how family history can shape our understanding of ourselves and our relationships. 

Hosts Holly and Carley explore the nuances of apologies, discussing personal experiences, the art of delivering sincere apologies, and the challenges of navigating unaccepted apologies. They share humorous anecdotes and real-life scenarios that highlight the complexities of communication in relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional intelligence and self-awareness.

This is Part 2 of our special Interview with Miriam Roth. What's it like being the parent of a transgender child? And how do you separate the truth from the rhetoric? This week, special guest Miriam Roth shares her story and gives us a window into what is really happening right now in the world of gender-affirming care for adolescents. For those in the know, and especially for those who DON'T know, this episode is for you.Have a thought on what you heard? Let us know! Visit us at:[email protected]/wereallfinepodcasthttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61570266620905Dolly and Pad by⁠Blue Dot Sessions

What's it like being the parent of a transgender child? And how do you separate the truth from the rhetoric? This week, special guest Miriam Roth shares her story and gives us a window into what is really happening right now in the world of gender-affirming care for adolescents. For those in the know, and especially for those who DON'T know, this episode is for you.This is part 1 of 2.Have a thought on what you heard? Let us know! Visit us at:[email protected]/wereallfinepodcasthttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61570266620905Music by Blue Dot SessionsDolly and Pad byBlue Dot Sessions

Today's conversation takes a weird turn into the world of unusual jobs and crazy careers- and not the kind of "crazy" your Aunt Ida was talking about when she found out you wanted to be an actor. We're talking about OUT THERE positions. So just in case you've been locked out of your offices and need new employment, we've got you covered.

Hosts Holly and Carley, along with guest Jenny Maloney, explore the complex and often dark themes surrounding serial killers. They discuss the life lessons that can be learned from these individuals, their behavioral and psychological aspects, and their societal fascination with them. The discussion includes insights into the dichotomy of figures like Ted Bundy, the nature versus nurture debate, and the traits that may link specific individuals to serial killers, including zodiac signs. Ultimately, the conversation serves as a thought-provoking exploration of the human psyche and the lessons that can be drawn from the darkest corners of society.

This week, we tackle everyone's favorite phrase, " I think you're overreacting." We cover our own personal freak-out moments and get to the heart of how men and women process their own "Karen" situations. So, please take a deep breath and join us in some well-deserved raging.

Shelley Crespi is with us this week to discuss working in male-dominated career fields as a woman. We'll review some surprising, unsurprising, and outright shocking tidbits of life in the "Man Lane." And, of course, we'll be laughing all the way. Join us, won't you?! Shelley Crespi worked in aerospace and space systems (I.e. Space exploration, government and commercial satellite programs, and launch systems) for twenty years in business development at Lockheed Martin and United Launch Alliance. Her work has been focused on new business bids and proposals and next-generation advanced technologies. In her personal time, she and her husband are passionate about showing the world to their four-year-old son and expanding their culinary palate.

Welcome to Season 2, friends! We're All Fine is starting the season off right with our plan to turn our podcast into a cult- sort of. Join us as we explore the weird world of strange cults and what makes a better recruiting incentive, sex or cheese. Settle in for a laugh and a window into some crazy. JOIN US! https://www.facebook.com/we'reallfinepodcast

Holly and Carley are thrilled to have wrapped up Season 1 with over episodes of funny, encouraging, and sometimes petty content. They'll be back after the holidays with all new episodes and the same crazy banter. See you in 2025!

In this episode, Holly and special guest Jackie from "Justice For..." explore the themes of revenge through personal anecdotes, historical stories, and psychological insights. They discuss the differences between light and heavy revenge, share personal experiences, and delve into historical figures like Julia Tofana and Boudica. The conversation also touches on the psychology behind revenge and the satisfaction it can bring, as well as the concept of malicious compliance. Check out Justice For... at https://www.justiceforpodcast.com/

In this episode, Holly and Carley explore the quirky rituals and inside jokes that couples develop over time. They share personal anecdotes and discuss the significance of these rituals in fostering intimacy and connection in relationships. The conversation delves into the science behind love, the importance of communication, and how these unique practices can strengthen bonds between partners. TAKEAWAYS Couples often develop unique rituals that may seem odd to outsiders. These rituals can serve as a form of communication and intimacy. Rituals are indicators of commitment and relationship health. Inside jokes evolve into a language unique to the couple. The 'in love' feeling is a chemical reaction that fades over time. Building a strong foundational relationship is crucial for long-term success. Rituals can be creative and driven by intention, unlike routines. Couples' quirks can be a source of joy and laughter. Sharing weird couple stories can strengthen bonds. Understanding the science of love can enhance relationship dynamics.

This week, Holly and Carly dive into the often-taboo topic of guilty pleasures, exploring what they are, why we feel guilty about them, and how they differ between genders. They share personal anecdotes about their own guilty pleasures, discuss the societal pressures that contribute to feelings of guilt and shame, and highlight some unique and whimsical guilty pleasures found on Reddit. 

In this episode, Holly and Carley delve into the complexities of midlife crises, exploring how they manifest differently for men and women, the societal pressures that contribute to these feelings, and the generational challenges faced by Gen X and millennials. They discuss the U-curve of happiness, the impact of identity tied to work and motherhood, and the importance of embracing change and new experiences. The conversation encourages listeners to share their own midlife crisis stories and highlights the notion that despite the challenges, we are all fine.

In this episode, Holly and Carley dive into the fascinating world of kinks and fetishes, exploring various turn-ons and the psychology behind them. They discuss the importance of consent and sexual liberation, while also sharing personal anecdotes and unique preferences. The conversation includes a fun guessing game about different fetishes, insights into the allure of tickling, and the surprising attractions some people have, such as mechanophilia and vampirism. The hosts emphasize that everyone has their own unique desires and that it's essential to embrace them without shame. Check out: https://witanddelight.com/2019/05/women-share-the-unconventional-things-that-turn-them-on/ for More Info!

We're taking a week off so you can enjoy an episode from deep in the vault. An episode that coined the phrase, "The Panty Dropper". Enjoy, Friends, and we'll see you next week!

In this conversation, Holly and Carly reflect on movies from their childhood and how they view them differently now. They touch on problematic themes and content in films like The Breakfast Club, Sixteen Candles, and Labyrinth. They discuss the importance of critically examining media and the impact it can have on our perceptions and beliefs. The conversation explores the problematic themes and content in movies from the past that are no longer acceptable by today's standards. The hosts discuss films like Austin Powers, Mean Girls, Clueless, and The 40-Year-Old Virgin, highlighting instances of sexism, racism, and offensive humor. They also touch on movies like Soul Man and Tropic Thunder, which feature blackface. They reflect on the importance of reevaluating and discussing these films, acknowledging the need to separate the enjoyable aspects from the problematic ones.

In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss unconventional and sometimes bizarre ways people have met their partners. They share their own meet-cute stories and explore the idea that love can be found in unexpected places. The conversation is filled with humor and lightheartedness as they reflect on the quirks and idiosyncrasies of their own relationships.

This SPOOKY SATURDAY episode explores the phenomenon of mass hysteria, focusing on the Dancing Plague of 1518. It discusses the historical context, the theories behind the outbreak, and other instances of mass hysteria throughout history. The conversation highlights the power of stress and psychological factors in manifesting physical symptoms and the role of belief in finding a cure. The hosts also find humor in the idea that a plague that killed hundreds of people may have been sparked by a stubborn wife trying to annoy her husband.

Holly and Carley are delighted to welcome our special guest, Bryan: a true character and social media manager for models on OnlyFans. Bryan shares insights into the world of OnlyFans and the work involved to be successful- including some behind-the-scenes secrets for aspiring exhibitionists. Ever wondered if you could really make a living with some spicy foot photos? We’ve got your answers!

 Holly and Carley discuss the chaos of getting kids ready for school and share funny and heartwarming stories from their experiences as teachers. The conversation covers topics such as the challenges of getting back on schedule, the misconceptions about teachers having summers off, and humorous stories about observations, inappropriate comments from students, and the resilience of teachers in difficult situations.

In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss the concept of the 'ick' in dating, where something small or off-putting about a person immediately turns off the other person's interest. They share their own experiences with getting the 'ick' and discuss some extreme examples from others. The conversation covers weird fetishes, inappropriate behavior, and awkward situations. 

The Circleville Letters is a mysterious case of anonymous letters sent to residents of Circleville, Ohio, starting in 1976 and continuing for nearly 20 years. The letters contained threats, accusations, and personal information about the recipients.

In this conversation, Holly and Carley discuss the importance of putting yourself out there and making the first move in dating and making friends. They share personal stories and experiences, highlighting the fear of rejection and the benefits of being direct. The conversation emphasizes the need for confidence and the potential for finding better matches by taking the initiative.

In this episode, Holly and Carly share funny and cringe-worthy stories, reflecting on their past dating experiences and the lessons they've learned. The conversation covers topics such as breaking up, vulnerability, and the importance of communication in relationships. They share stories of ghosting, playing mind games, and seeking revenge, and reflect on the importance of learning from these experiences and being kind to others. Takeaways Bad dates and relationships are a normal part of life and can provide valuable learning experiences. Being honest and open about your intentions and expectations in dating can help avoid misunderstandings. Communication is key in relationships, and it's important to express your needs and boundaries. Vulnerability can be challenging but is necessary for building deeper connections with others. Reflecting on past dating mistakes can help us grow and make better choices in the future. Being kind to others and not punishing our current partners for the actions of past relationships is important. Experiencing different types of relationships and learning from them can lead to personal growth and healing.

It's our first-ever SPOOKY SATURDAY EPISODE! We hope you like your scary with a little laugh... In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss haunted dolls, ranging from mildly creepy to terrifying. They start with the story of a haunted Elsa doll that kept returning to a family in Houston, Robert the doll, who is allegedly haunted and on display at a museum in Key West, and Letta the doll, found in Australia, who is believed to be haunted and exhibits supernatural behaviors. Join us for our first scary special of the spooky season. Research by Laurilea McDaniel Music by Blue Dot Sessions TODAY article by Scott Stump on the haunted Elsa doll: https://www.today.com/parents/haunted-elsa-doll-returned-after-family-threw-it-out-twice-t171707 East Martello Museum website: www.robertthedoll.org Slate article by Ella Morton: https://slate.com/human-interest/2013/11/robert-the-haunted-doll-creeping-out-floridians-since-1904.html Artist House Key West website: www.artisthousekeywest.com Key West Art and Historical Society website: www.kwahs.org Blog post on Haunted Harold's website: https://hauntedharold.com YouTube video link: https://www.youtube.com/shared?ci=gTVF4GWv63k Smithsonian article by Linda Rodriguez McRobbie: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/creepy-dolls-180952127/

In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss their experiences with social media and offer advice on navigating it. They discuss unfollowing, unfriending, and blocking people and share funny stories of why people have been unfriended. They also emphasize the importance of not engaging with negative or toxic individuals on social media and choosing happiness. Keywords: social media, unfollowing, unfriending, blocking, toxic individuals, happiness Music By Blue Dot Sessions

Holly and Carley share unusual stories ofmissing time and explore children's unusual experiences and beliefs about past lives. The conversation touches on Sedona vortexes, personal encounters with spirits, and haunted dorms. We encourage listeners to share their own stories and affirm that changing one's mind is a strength.

Special guests Sierra Mae McClellan (Bow-Tie Betty) and Laurilea McDaniel (Kitty St. James) join Holly and Carley as they discuss the concept of redefining hot girl summer and embracing oneself. They explore beauty standards, self-expression, and women supporting women. The guests, members of the Rockabilly Vixens, share their experiences and the positive impact of their community. They also discuss the importance of embracing individuality and finding confidence in personal style. The conversation touches on the power of photographs and their transformative effect on self-perception. Hot Girl Summer is about embracing and celebrating oneself, regardless of age or body type. It's about being confident, loving your body, and uplifting other women. Check out The Rockabilly Vixens at https://www.facebook.com/RVNoCoLadies

In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss the topic of aging and the different experiences and perspectives that come with it. They talk about the physical changes that come with aging, such as changes in appearance and health, and share their personal experiences and opinions on plastic surgery. They also touch on the societal expectations and judgments surrounding aging and body image. Let's laugh in the face of death, shall we?

In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss how to navigate and handle anger, specifically anger towards other people. They discuss their experiences with anger, including dealing with irate customers, facing mean people at work, and holding grudges. They also talk about the impact of facial expressions and body language on communication. The conversation touches on topics such as passive-aggressive behavior, resting bitch face, and weaponized incompetence. The hosts share personal anecdotes and provide insights into their own anger triggers and coping mechanisms.

Thanks to a major technical glitch with our recording partner, you get an old episode from the vault—never released due to sound issues. So... you're welcome? This week, we talk about dating exes and dating our parent's exes (that's a big nope). Join us in our cringe-worthy adventure, won't you?

This week we talk about time management and the challenges associated with it. We share some personal experiences, anecdotes, and insights related to procrastination, ADHD, and the impact of hormonal cycles on productivity. We also discuss the influence of distractions, social media, and unexpected interruptions on time management. We provide practical tips for navigating time-related challenges- while also giving you a great excuse to put off that project for another day.

In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss the importance of spreading positivity and kindness in the world. They talk about the impact of positive affirmations and the power of expressing gratitude. The conversation is filled with humor and heartwarming moments, emphasizing the value of spreading joy and kindness in everyday interactions.

It looks like we had some technical difficulties getting this puppy updated- oops! Think of it as a double dose of sass for this week. This week, we delve into the world of the petty with some stories that rank just above the passive-aggressive. We also provide a road map for upping your game in the pursuit of true pettiness. Get on board, all! We're petty and proud.

Holly and Carley get to drop all kinds of opinions this week! They get into the nitty gritty of monogamy or... nonmonogamy and dole out advice for some very confused couples. They also get to play a new game: Cheating or Not Cheating? Do you Agree? We'd love to hear from you! [email protected] Music by Blue Dot Sessions

In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss common courtesy, touch on the topic of southern hospitality and share their thoughts on various etiquette topics. They cover topics such as taking photos in someone else's home, making a strong first impression, respecting the rules of events, and talking on the phone in public. The conversation is filled with humor and personal anecdotes, highlighting the need for kindness and consideration in everyday interactions. Music by Blue Dot Sessions

In this episode, hosts Holly and Carley, as well as special guest @tarabeara87, discuss their love for romance novels and explore some hilariously bad descriptions of intimate moments in romance novels. The conversation also touches on personal experiences with romance novels and the perception of women's bodies in literature. And, of course, they give some interesting advice on questions involving sex and relationships. Let's all bring sexy back-ish.

In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss the different forms of gossip and its impact on relationships. They explore the historical origins of gossip and how it has been used as a tool of control and oppression. They also discuss the positive aspects of gossip, such as sharing information and warning others about potential dangers. Holly and Carley reflect on their own experiences with gossip and the importance of understanding intentions and taking responsibility for one's actions. 

In this episode, Holly and Carley discuss some of the most outrageous and hilarious advice requests they have come across. From a new employee's father taking over a job offer phone call to a person wondering how to tell their children their hamsters are gay, the hosts provide their unique and entertaining take on these bizarre situations. They also touch on the history of advice columns and the evolution of the genre. The episode ends with a series of rapid-fire advice requests, including a roommate putting dead mice in the fridge and a spouse suspecting their partner of poisoning them.