What Next?

For many parents, the biggest worry when a relationship ends is not the house or the finances, but the children. In this episode of What Next?, Nick Coffer, Claire Webb and Carlie Norris explore what children experience when parents separate, and what tends to help most at a time of change.Drawing on their experience as family mediators, they discuss the common fear that separation itself will harm children, and why ongoing conflict is often the greater challenge. The conversation looks at how children feel and interpret what is happening around them, the pressure parents place on themselves to get everything right, and the importance of listening, communication and reassurance.They also reflect on the language we use around separation, the value of predictability and routine, and why arrangements for children work best when they are flexible and agreed together. Mediation is discussed as one way families can create space to think, reduce conflict and focus on what children need as their lives continue to change.A thoughtful, reassuring episode for parents navigating separation, and for the professionals who support families through it.Please help us get the word out by leaving a rating or a review here, thank you!---------------------------Nick Coffer is a family mediator and former BBC Broadcaster. He runs Way Forward Mediation in Hertfordshire.Carlie Norris is the founder of Circle Mediation and a family mediator. Her background includes work in children’s services.Claire Webb is a family mediator, solicitor and arbitrator, and is a founder of Family Solutions Now in Portsmouth. ---------------------------Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is intended to offer general information and reflection, based on professional experience. It is not a substitute for advice about individual circumstances, nor should it be taken as personal advice, and listeners are encouraged to seek appropriate professional guidance where needed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The end of a relationship can feel overwhelming, especially when separation becomes real. In this first episode of What Next?, family mediators Nick Coffer, Claire Webb and Carlie Norris talk gently and honestly about that moment, and the feelings of panic, fear and urgency that often come with it.Drawing on their experience with separating families, they talk through why the early days can feel so urgent, how advice from friends, family and online sources can increase pressure, and why it often helps to slow things down rather than try to decide everything at once. The episode touches on mediation as one way families can reduce conflict and think more clearly at the start of separation.A calm place to start for anyone facing separation, and for the professionals who support families through it.Please help us get the word out by leaving a rating or a review here, thank you!---------------------------Nick Coffer is a family mediator and former BBC Broadcaster. He runs Way Forward Mediation in Hertfordshire.Carlie Norris is the founder of Circle Mediation and a family mediator. Her background includes work in children’s services.Claire Webb is a family mediator, solicitor and arbitrator, and is a founder of Family Solutions Now in Portsmouth. ---------------------------Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is intended to offer general information and reflection, based on professional experience. It is not a substitute for advice about individual circumstances, nor should it be taken as personal advice, and listeners are encouraged to seek appropriate professional guidance where needed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Separation can feel overwhelming, especially when children are involved. What Next? is a calm, reassuring podcast where three family mediators talk honestly about what happens when relationships end, how conflict can be reduced, and what really helps families move forward. Drawing on their own experience, and conversations with thoughtful, high-quality guests, the series is for anyone going through separation, as well as for the professionals who support families at times of change. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.