Who's Narrating My Life

Friendships in your 20s were built on shared eyeliner and the same bar.Friendships in your 40s and 50s? They’re forged in the fires of marriage, divorce, teenagers, grief, career chaos, and at least one ER visit where someone filled out paperwork while crying.In this episode of Who’s Narrating My Life, Daisy and Carole unpack why women’s friendships feel deeper, stronger, and more essential as we age—and why your group chat might be the most emotionally functional system you have.We talk about:✨ Why women’s friendships become literal life-support systems✨ The essential types of gal pals every woman needs (from the Soft Place to Land to the Chaos Cousin)✨ Why women seem to dodge the loneliness epidemic✨ Letting go of friendships that no longer fit—peacefully, quietly, with excellent skincare✨ Why celebrating wins (big or small) hits harder when women do it together✨ The truth about trauma-bonded friendships and the myth of “I just get along better with men”This episode is funny, affirming, and deeply validating—a love letter to the women who show up with snacks, spreadsheets, bail money energy, and unwavering loyalty.Check on your girls. Celebrate your girls. Text your girls.They’re not optional—they’re the village. 💕SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTube

Remember when we tried to keep our kids off screens… and now we panic if Netflix forgets where we left off? Same.In this episode of Who’s Narrating My Life, Daisy and Carole dive headfirst into the modern scroll spiral — algorithms, comparison traps, notification fatigue, and that unsettling moment when you realize your thumb has been working harder than you have all day.Daisy wrestles with an algorithm that thinks she’s in her “coastal-core self-improvement era” (she’s not), while Carole breaks down how she’s muted every notification except the ones that deliver tiny dopamine pellets straight to her brain.Together, they unpack:✨ Why social media hits anxiety, perfectionism, ADHD, and comparison so hard✨ How apps are basically slot machines wearing cozy fonts✨ Notification overload and the stress of being “reachable” 24/7✨ The surprising upsides of scrolling (yes, there are some)✨ Doom-scrolling, nervous system burnout, and pretzel-brain science✨ Realistic boundaries for people who keep saying “just one more scroll”This episode is funny, validating, and gently grounding — a reminder that you don’t need to quit social media… you just need to stop letting it drive the car.Follow people (and dogs) who make you feel like a human — not a product. 🐕✨SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

🎄 Ho Ho Ho-hoopla! Navigating the New Holiday ChaosThe holidays used to feel magical. Now they feel like a group project no one remembered to plan — complete with aging parents, adult kids, shifting traditions, and the emotional Olympics of trying to make everyone happy.In this episode, Daisy and Carole break down how holidays evolve as families grow, spread out, age, and change — and how to create joy without running yourself into the ground.Daisy shares what it’s like navigating the season without elders and embracing a “choose your own holiday adventure,” while Carole dishes on juggling divorced parents, grown-daughter logistics, and a senior dog who believes she isChristmas.Together, they explore:✨ The moment your kids become adults and holidays become negotiations✨ Letting go of traditions that no longer fit (without guilt)✨ The emotional weight of aging parents and shifting family roles✨ Setting boundaries so you’re not triaging chaos all season long✨ Creating “Christmas-ish” celebrations on your timeline✨ New rituals that bring peace instead of pressureThis is your permission slip to evolve, rest, and celebrate the holidays in a way that feels good for the version of you that exists right now.Whatever your holiday looks like this year — big, small, messy, peaceful, or delightfully unconventional — it’s valid. And you’re doing great.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

Money isn’t just math — it’s identity, emotion, survival, comparison, childhood baggage, and a little bit of chaos rolled into a bank statement.In this episode, Daisy and Carole get real about the anxious, broke years, the glow-up years, and the emotional rollercoaster that still shows up every time a bill hits your inbox. This isn't a shame-filled finance lecture — it’s a compassionate, funny, judgment-free conversation about understanding your money habits and taking back a little control without spiraling.Key Takeaway:You’re not bad with money — you’re just running an old script. With awareness, softness, and small steps, you can write a new one. Money gets easier when it stops being a secret.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

Because how do you set goals when you’ve been in survival mode since… forever?In this episode, Daisy and Carole break down why so many of us don’t actually know what we want — we just know we’re tired, overstretched, and saying yes out of habit. This is a practical, funny, and deeply grounding conversation about rebuilding clarity after burnout, people-pleasing, and years of autopilot decision-making.Why burnout, overcommitment, and people-pleasing make it hard to recognize your own desires.Reflective questions to reconnect with who you are now — not who you were before life got chaotic.How to tell the difference between your real goals and other people’s expectations.The “3 F’s Filter” (Fulfillment, Freedom, Fun) to help clarify what’s worth pursuing.No more “New Year, New Me” meltdowns.Practical systems like:Anchored goalsOne-thing-per-quarter focusBreaking goals into simple, doable stepsGoals that fit your real life — not your imaginary “perfectly motivated” self.How to stay consistent without using guilt as your motivator.Gentle accountability tools, flexible systems, and how to course-correct without spiraling.You don’t need a total life overhaul — you just need goals that match who you are now.Clarity, compassion, and small consistent actions are the real glow-up.✨ Key TakeawayYou don’t need a total life overhaul — you just need goals that match who you are now.Clarity, compassion, and small consistent actions are the real glow-up.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

Ever said “yes” to something and immediately felt your soul pack a bag? Same. 😅In this week’s episode, Daisy and Carole break down how to say no without guilt, set limits that actually protect your peace, and remember that self-respect isn’t selfish. From work to relationships, they share real-life scripts, funny boundary fails, and the mindset shifts that turn guilt into growth.💬 You’ll learn:What healthy boundaries really are (spoiler: not walls, just fences with gates)Why it’s so hard to set them — and how guilt and fear sneak inHow to create boundaries that align with your goals, not just your stressSimple, direct ways to say no without overexplainingHow to hold the line without feeling like the bad guy✨ Key takeaway: “Boundaries are how we teach people to treat us — and remind ourselves we’re worth protecting.”So grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and join us for the pep talk your people-pleasing heart didn’t know it needed.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

You ever walk into a networking event and immediately question every life choice that led you there? 😅 Same.In this episode, Daisy and Carole unpack why “networking” feels so fake — and how to make it not awful. Forget business-card collecting and forced small talk — this is about building real, authentic connections that actually matter.💬 What we’re talking about:Why networking has a bad reputation (and how to flip it)How introverts can actually be better at building genuine relationshipsTurning awkward small talk into real connectionWhat makes “productive networking energy” vs “gross networking energy”Easy tips for introverts to network without selling their soul (or their Saturday)Why being visible, not loud, is the secret to staying relevant💡 Big takeaway: You don’t have to “work the room” — just connect with one or two real humans. Authentic beats impressive, every time.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

Hot Mess or High Functioning?” | Who’s Narrating My Life PodcastWe’ve all been there — holding it together with caffeine, color-coded calendars, and emotional duct tape. But are you actually thriving… or just really good at pretending you are?In this episode, Daisy and Carole break down the difference between being high-functioning and barely functioning in disguise. You’ll laugh, wince, and probably text this to your most “together” friend (aka the one secretly on the edge).Check out this workbook "Find Your Freedom" from Stacy Gissal - evolvebeyondlimits.comSpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

How to turn conflict into something useful (instead of a dumpster fire).Ever been in a conversation where someone’s tone shifts and you instantly feel your patience pack its bags? 😤 This week on Who’s Narrating My Life, Daisy and Carole dive into the fine art of keeping your cool when people get petty, passive-aggressive, or just plain exhausting.We’re breaking down how to turn those “I can’t believe they just said that” moments into something actually productive— without losing your calm, your confidence, or your sanity.The six petty personality types — and how to handle each with grace (and boundaries)Why pettiness is a symptom, not the real problemScripts for de-escalating drama like a proEmotional Judo: how to redirect energy instead of absorbing itThe Calm Leader’s Toolkit — your new communication cheat sheetDaisy – corporate escape artist, accounting/coding goddess, pivot queen, master of burnout and bounce-back.Carole – nonprofit unicorn, boardroom truth-teller, self-employed juggler of dreams, and chaos whisperer.Together, they turn real-life messes into meaningful lessons — with humor, honesty, and zero filters.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

This week on Who’s Narrating My Life, Daisy and Carole tackle that fine line between compassion and chaos—aka how not to lose your mind when people are testing your calm. From workplace emails that make you want to throw hands to family conversations that feel like emotional dodgeball, they unpack the real-life triggers that push us over the edge and how to handle them like the emotionally evolved adults we pretend to be.You’ll laugh, nod, and maybe even breathe a little slower as they share stories, practical tools, and a few “scripts that actually work” for staying grounded—whether it’s at work, at home, or mid-traffic meltdown.Because sometimes the goal isn’t to be right…it’s to stay sane.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

The “BER months” are here—September through December—and with them come the best (and worst) of family traditions. In this episode, Daisy and Carole rewind to the holidays that shaped their childhoods—summer vacations, 4th of July fireworks, Halloween chaos, Thanksgiving kitchen circuses, and Christmas traditions that either stuck or spectacularly failed. They also look ahead at what future holidays might hold when the kids take over, quirks and all. Whether your celebrations feel like a Hallmark movie or a pit stop at the liquor store drive-thru, this episode is equal parts nostalgic, raw, and hilariously relatable.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

Episode 14: Leave It to Beaver… or Not: Part 2Daisy and Carole are back for round two of unpacking family legacies—the blessings, the baggage, and the messy patterns that follow us into adulthood. From addiction and money habits to communication styles, gender roles, and holiday traditions, nothing’s off-limits. It’s funny, raw, and a little too relatable for anyone who’s ever caught themselves turning into their parents.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

Leave It to Beaver… or NotThis week, Daisy and Carole unpack the families that shaped them—the quirks, the chaos, and the traditions that still sneak into adulthood. From hippie households and cotillion to therapy-worthy meltdowns and family pets, they explore how childhood patterns influence who we become (and what we choose to rewrite). Equal parts raw, funny, and relatable—this one’s for anyone who’s ever wondered if their “normal” was really normal.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

Being a dog parent isn’t all belly rubs and squeaky toys—it’s also vet bills that make you cry, travel adventures that test your sanity, and enough dog hair to knit a sweater. In this week’s episode of Who’s Narrating My Life, Daisy and Carole spill the tea on the survival guide every dog owner needs.🎙️ In This Episode:Our favorite dog toys & tools (from ChuckIt balls to vacuums that actually keep up with the fur).Road trips with dogs—carsick pups, hammock vs. extender debates, and TSA-worthy drama.Vet visits that make you laugh (and cry when the invoice arrives).The balance between panic-Googling pet symptoms and actually trusting your vet.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL CommunityToys and Tools.ChuckIt large balls - they float! We have 4! And the “kick fetch” ballEquine Shedding Blade (I said curry comb last week)Bissell Pet Hair Eraser®Turbo Rewind Vacuum Cleaner - I wrote these people a love noteDogID waterproof collarsPetFusion Cooling Blankets30 ft retractable leashesBackseat Extender

Puppies, Seniors, and Everything In BetweenFrom first pups to forever companions, Daisy and Carole dive into the wild, funny, and heartfelt world of dogs. They share how their pups shape daily life (and sabotage recording sessions), debate adoption vs. breeders without the judgment, and laugh through “weird dog habits” only true dog parents will understand. Whether you’re team puppy breath or senior dog snuggles, this episode proves every dog writes themselves into our story.SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

What stays, what goes, and what we wish we’d known.Join Daisy and Carole for a bittersweet, grounded, and gently humorous heart-to-heart about the emotional chaos of furniture. From the overwhelming pile of “starter furniture” in your garage to the sentimental $40 nightstand you can’t let go, this episode dives into the lessons learned from furnishing first apartments, launching kids into their own spaces, and redefining “home” as you grow.What to Expect:Furniture Regrets & MVPs: Laugh along as Daisy and Carole confess their biggest furniture flops—like collapsing dressers and unnecessary placemat sets—and share their MVPs (hint: a good lamp trumps all).Launching Kids, Launching Stuff: Practical advice on what kids actually need for dorms vs. apartments, and why you don’t need to haul three couches across town.Emotional Weight: Why we cling to particleboard relics and how to let go with grace.Building Home Piece by Piece: Pro tips for thrifting, patience, and embracing a home that’s never truly “finished.”Spotify Apple PodcastsYouTubeSKOOL Community

Whether your name’s on the deed or just the lease, we all face the same design dilemmas: budget limits, landlord rules, and the constant tug-of-war between “dream home” and “real life.”In this episode, Daisy (accidental maximalist and throw-pillow addict) and Carole (vintage rug whisperer and thrift-store queen) swap stories, tips, and confessions about designing within your limits.✨ In this episode:Renter hacks that won’t risk your deposit (peel-and-stick, rugs, easy swaps).Homeowner spirals: decision overload, splurge regrets, and resale paranoia.Universal design tricks: thrifting like a pro, seasonal refreshes, plants that survive (or don’t), and the magic of decluttering.From cozy corners to full-on homeowner projects, this one’s for anyone who wants a home that looks good and feels like theirs — no matter who owns the walls.

We took three online interior design quizzes and learned that our dream homes look nothing like our real homes. From “coastal in a landlocked state” to “whatever my inherited furniture tells me it is,” we’re breaking down the hilarious gap between Pinterest-perfect spaces and the chaos of actual life.In this episode:🏠 Fantasy styles vs. pet- and kid-proof reality📦 The evolution from milk-crate chic to “I guess I own this now”📸 Social media perfection vs. lived-in mess💡 Design hacks we swear by (hello, microwave drawers)💸 Budgeting, sustainability guilt, and the slow joy of collecting over timeWhether you’re a maximalist, a minimalist, or just trying to keep your curtains wrinkle-free, this one’s for anyone who wants a home that looks good and feels like you live there.QUIZZESDesign Society of America: Interior Design Quiz 👉 https://www.dsasociety.org/resources/interior-design-style-quiz/ HGTV: Find Your Design Style 👉 https://www.hgtv.com/decorating/design-ideas/find-your-design-style-toast-your-good-taste My Stofa: Discover Your Perfect Interior Style 👉 https://mystofa.com/quizes/design-testINFLUENCERS:House of Valentina: https://www.youtube.com/@HouseofValentinaLoneFox: https://www.youtube.com/@lonefoxAD Open Door: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpi4YdMCC439sN_5vIza6IfQm0qc-IqPORV GROUPS:Full Time RV Living: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1786649564917023RV storage ideas and Hacks: https://www.facebook.com/groups/713758696185516

Not all bosses are bad—and some leaders change everything.In this heartwarming follow-up to our burnout episode, Daisy and Carole reflect on the managers, mentors, and magical workplace humans who got it right. From emotional intelligence and psychological safety to mentorship that matters, we’re unpacking the moments—and people—that shaped us and reminded us how powerful leadership can be.You’ll hear:✅ What great leadership actually looks like🌱 How informal leaders (even without titles) shape culture🛠️ Tools and behaviors you can use to lead with compassion and clarity👏 Stories of impact, advocacy, and the people who championed us when it mattered mostWhether you manage a team or just want to show up differently at work, this episode is full of encouragement, practical wisdom, and a reminder: you don’t need a title to lead like a boss.🎧 Available now on all platforms.💬 Tell us: Who’s the best leader you’ve ever had—and how did they make you feel?

Ever had a boss so bad you considered joining a witness protection program just to escape? Same.In this episode, Daisy, Carole, and guest co-host Meaghan dive into the unfiltered world of toxic workplaces, leadership fails, and the not-so-silent killer: burnout. From the red flags we all ignored to the chaotic stories we’ll never forget (beer bribes, anyone?), we unpack what happens when the system breaks—and how to survive it with your sanity (and sarcasm) intact.We’re talking:🚩 Red flags of a broken work culture😬 The worst bosses we’ve ever had—and how they earned the title🧠 Burnout symptoms you’re probably ignoring💡 How we recovered and found our way back to peace and purpose✨ The difference between balance and boundaries—and why you deserve bothIf you’ve ever worked through a vacation, answered an email at your kid’s soccer game, or found yourself rage-Googling “jobs with zero human interaction”… this episode is for you.Listener Prompt:Tell us your bad boss story or burnout moment! Drop it in the comments or tag us @WhosNarratingMyLife with your “WTF work moment.”🎧 Available now on all podcast platforms.👩‍💻 Hosts: Daisy (the burnout bounce-back queen), Carole (nonprofit unicorn), and Meaghan (corporate risk wrangler and chaos survivor).

If your job has ever ghosted you on a raise, gaslit you in a performance review, or left you crying in the office bathroom… this one’s for you.In this episode, Daisy and Carole unpack the chaos of corporate life, nonprofit burnout, and career detours that feel more like escape rooms than ladders. From WTF bosses and career pivots to side hustles, self-reinvention, and that mythical “work-life balance,” they get real about what it means to redefine success—and finally stop mistaking your job for your worth.You’ll laugh, cringe, and maybe finally quit that toxic gig (or at least draft the rage-resignation letter in your notes app).✨ Topics include:Surviving toxic workplacesMidlife pivots & unexpected reinventionsBuilding meaningful work around your real lifeAdvocating for joy, boundaries, and paid vacationWhy “balance” is a myth—but integration isn’t📌 If you’ve ever updated your LinkedIn bio with tears in your eyes—or had a boss who forgot their own instructions mid-meeting—press play

Not every story starts with sunshine—and not every “broken” past means you’re done. In this episode, Daisy and Carole peel back the layers of their own wild, weird, and painfully relatable upbringings to explore what it really takes to break cycles, heal out loud, and reclaim your narrative.We’re diving into:🧬 Backstories that shaped us (hello, emotional avoidance and family secrets)🔁 The unglamorous grind of breaking generational patterns🛋️ Therapy moments, awkward reunions, and healing through humor🔥 The truth about growing up in dysfunction—and learning to rebuild with compassion📝 How we learned to stop shrinking and start narrating our own livesYou’ll hear real talk about parenting differently, laughing at the mess, and realizing that trauma might have bonded us—but humor saved us.If you’ve ever looked back at your past and thought, “No wonder I’m like this”—this episode is your permission slip to be both healing and hilarious.💬 Tag your story or your favorite takeaway using #BrokenNotDone and follow @WhosNarrating for more chaotic truth-telling.

Ever cried in the Target parking lot with a Happy Meal in one hand and a car seat in the other? Same. This week, we’re raising a glass (or a coffee mug—we’re not judging) to the beautiful chaos of single motherhood. Whether you’re in the trenches, out the other side, or just trying to survive without losing your sense of humor, this one’s for you.We’re diving into:🍷 What “balance” really looks like when you’re doing it all (hint: it’s messy)💔 Dating—or intentionally not dating—while raising kids🤝 Building your village from scratch (neighbors, baristas, memes—whatever works)😂 The wildest “you can’t make this up” single mom moments🏡 Redefining what family means on your termsYou’ll laugh. You might cry. You’ll definitely feel seen.✨ Plus: our weekly “Plot Twist of the Week” & a shoutout to YOU—our fellow chaos navigators.📲 Don’t forget to tag your favorite moment @WhosNarrating and use #SingleAndStillStanding so we can laugh (or cry-laugh) with you.

Ever wonder what happens when your kids grow up and start adulting? In this episode, Carole and Daisy dive into the wild, weird, and wonderful world of parenting grown children. From letting go (without disappearing) to navigating unsolicited advice and surprise “boomerang kid” moments, they share honest stories, hard-earned lessons, and plenty of laughs.What You’ll Hear:The emotional tightrope of staying connected without smothering.When to offer advice and when to just listen (hint: it’s harder than it sounds).Hilarious tales of adult kids moving back home or dropping unexpected life updates.Setting boundaries that protect your peace—and your relationship.Reflections on what they wish they’d known when their kids were younger.

Welcome to the very first episode of "Who's Narrating My Life?"! 🎉 Join hosts Daisy and Carole as they set the stage for this exciting journey into personal growth, travel adventures, life coaching, and budgeting tips.In this intro episode, you'll get a glimpse into their story, the inspiration behind the podcast, and what you can expect in future episodes. Whether you're here to gain insights, find motivation, or simply enjoy relatable stories, this podcast is for you.Let’s kick things off and start narrating your best life together! 🌟