Wife Approved with Shane & Caroline Whatley

This week we’re flipping the conversation from last episode and talking about marriage from the woman’s side — or at least trying to figure out what’s going on in Caroline’s head. Good luck to Shane.We get into what women think marriage will feel like, why some women lose themselves after getting married, the pressure of keeping peace in the home, emotional security, financial stability, and why “just tell me what’s wrong” is somehow both good advice and also extremely annoying.Caroline breaks down the mental load women carry, why appreciation matters more than men probably realize, and why women don’t always want men to fix everything — sometimes they just want to be heard. Shane, naturally, tries to fix the conversation anyway.We also talk about red flags, choosing the right partner, “happy wife, happy life,” why marriage should actually feel like a partnership, and the very romantic importance of still acting like you like your wife.We might not know everything, but we’ve been married 13 years, together almost 20, and somehow we’re still here.💬Send us your questions (anonymous if you want) and we might cover them in a future episode.https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcasthttps://instagram.com/shanecreateshttps://instagram.com/mzwhatley⏱️ TIMESTAMPS00:00 — Preview00:51 — Welcome to Wife Approved02:38 — Flipping Last Week’s Episode: What Women ThinkAbout Marriage04:38 — Fairy Tales, Divorce, and Marriage Expectations10:32 — The Fear That Marriage Would Change Everything13:23 — Do Women Talk Honestly About Marriage?14:50 — What Women Lose After Marriage18:12 — Managing the Peace of the Home24:38 — What Makes Women Feel Secure?32:29 — Are Women More Emotionally Responsible?33:38 — Why Women “Overexplain” Their Feelings43:44 — Stop Trying to Fix Everything47:31 — Is Staying Married Actually Hard?51:04 — Picking the Right Person and Knowing Red Flags57:51 — Women Want a Partner, Not Another Child59:21 — Appreciation, Dinner, and the Mental Load1:00:41 — Wife Stereotypes and “The Ball and Chain”1:05:38 — Why Shane Hates “Happy Wife, Happy Life”1:07:12 — Advice for Single Women1:09:21 — Marriage Should Actually Be Worth It1:14:04 — Date Your Wife and Don’t Get Lazy1:15:22 — Final Thoughts and Listener Questions

Ever wondered how men really feel about marriage? We’re diving deep into the male perspective to uncover what men truly need in a healthy relationship.In this episode of the Wife Approved podcast, Shane and Caroline peel back the curtain on the complexities of marriage from a husband's point of view. We move past the tired 'ball and chain' stereotypes to have a real, raw conversation about what keeps a marriage strong, why peace at home is non-negotiable, and how men navigate emotional hurdles. Whether you are searching for advice on strengthening your own partnership, wanting to understand your spouse better, or curious about the building blocks of a lasting, happy marriage, this discussion offers actionable insights. We explore the importance of appreciation, respect, and mutual support in a modern relationship. From our own experiences with growth in marriage to addressing the subtle emotional needs of husbands, this episode provides a unique, honest look at the dynamics between men and women. If you want to build a deeper connection and learn what contributes to a fulfilling life together, join us as we get open, honest, and maybe just a little bit vulnerable about what makes marriage truly work.💬Send us your questions (anonymous if you want) and we might cover them in a future episode.https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcasthttps://instagram.com/shanecreateshttps://instagram.com/mzwhatleyTIMESTAMPS00:00 - Intro01:00 - Sharing More of Ourselves on the Podcast05:45 - Working From Home Feels Weird10:20 - Embarrassing Gym Story12:50 - Do most men actually enjoy being married?15:45 - What changes for men after tying the knot?19:35 - Why peace at home is the best thing a woman can provide24:05 - Being "grounded" in marriage (& sex)26:47 - The marriage "routine"29:00 - Missing the single life?31:10 - The male perspective on emotional needs34:40 - What men actually want (but rarely say)47:55 - Handling pressure & what changes after marriage54:45 - Common marriage stereotypes and what is actually true57:20 - What do you like about being married?01:00:00 - Discussing men's mental health & pressure01:05:15 - Final thoughts on marriage and growth

This week marks 13 years of marriage… which feels both very long and somehow like five minutes ago.We’re talking about what actually surprised us after all this time together — the rough seasons we almost didn’t make it through, the money stress when the kids were little, and the stuff nobody really tells you about living together for the first time.Marriage isn’t perfect. Ours definitely isn’t. But if you’re in it for the long haul, some things actually get easier.And some things just get louder at 5am. (Looking at you, birds and smart lamps.)💬Send us your questions (anonymous if you want) and we might cover them in a future episode.https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcasthttps://instagram.com/shanecreateshttps://instagram.com/mzwhatleyCHAPTERS0:00 – Smart Home Sleep Wars5:48 – 13 Years of Marriage… How Does That Feel?15:18 – What Surprised Us Most About Staying Married This Long22:42 – Fear of Marriage, Divorce History & Wanting Independence30:18 – The Hardest Seasons We Didn’t Expect32:04 – Things We Used to Worry About (Money, Survival Years)39:12 – Something We Take More Seriously Now46:01 – Find Your Best Friend48:08 – Why Counseling Helped Us More Than We Expected52:04 – Protecting Your Spouse

This episode started with a sunburn argument… and somehow turned into a full conversation about what we’d actually look for if we were dating again at 40.We talk about the red flags that matter more now than they did when we were younger — insecurity, jealousy, laziness, drinking too much, hygiene (yes, really), and the stuff nobody warns you about like step-parenting dynamics and mental load in relationships.Also:apparently Pokémon tournaments might be a dealbreaker.Send us your questions (anonymous if you want) and we might cover them in a future episode.https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyCHAPTERS0:00 – Intro2:20 – Pain Tolerance, Complaining & “Man Flu” Energy7:18 – What Happened on the Beach Trip8:52 – If We Were Single Today… What Are Red Flags?11:40 – Shane’s First Red Flag: Laziness13:46 – Caroline’s #1 Red Flag: Insecurity & Jealousy21:19 – “Crazy” Behavior, Love Bombing & Personal Space26:43 – Drinking, Weed, Gaming & Lifestyle Compatibility29:38 – Can You Compromise on Cooking? (Probably Not)35:13 – Mental Load, Meals & Everyday Marriage Friction39:07 – Dating With Kids at 40: Dealbreaker or Not?46:02 – Hygiene, STD Testing & Honesty as Non-Negotiables

This week we’re talking about why trips are so stressful to plan, who actually does the planning in most marriages, and whether traveling with kids even counts as a vacation in the first place. We also get into how we managed to take trips when we definitely didn’t have the money, what finally made travel easier for us, and why some people relax on vacation while others absolutely cannot.Plus:– the “planner vs spontaneous” personality clash– working out on vacation (yes or no?)-- Budget Travel Tips– travel credit cards that actually helped us– PTO struggles when your kids are little– and the time an airline lost Shane’s entire suitcase in Key WestIf you’ve ever argued about where to stay, how much to spend, or whether you even need a vacation… this one’s for you. ---💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyCHAPTERS0:00 — Intro2:10 — Traveling with Kids vs. Traveling Alone7:00 — “You’ve Gotten Bougie”12:20 — Vacation Personality Types: Chill vs. Go-Go-Go15:40 — Working Out (and Drinking Less) on Vacation17:00 — Why Mornings Are a Battlefield23:05 — Why It’s Hard for Families to Take Vacations26:10 — How We Afforded Trips When Money Was Tight31:50 — Traveling With Friends (and Different Expectations)34:10 — Can You Actually Relax on Vacation?37:15 — Do You Need Vacation or Just Want One?40:45 — Travel Credit Cards: What Actually Worked for Us45:15 — The Stress Before Leaving Town48:15 — Airline Lost My Entire Suitcase in Key West

Marriage, technology, parenting teens, and the little things that secretly matter more than the big ones.We ran through a bunch of “Would you rather” questions couples are probably NOT supposed to answer out loud — thermostat control, flirty texts to exes, sharing toothbrushes (??), awkward PDA at family dinner, and whether sarcasm should be banned.Some answers matched. Some absolutely did not.We also talked about:smart home chaos if Shane disappeared tomorrowwhy kids don’t even want to drive anymoreTikTok discovering our childhood music (and ruining it)and the ongoing thermostat situation in this houseLet us know which question would start a fight at your house 👀---💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyCHAPTERS0:00 — Finger Injury Chaos & Pre-Vacation Stress3:00 — The Bread Knife Incident (and Panic Mode)5:59 — Introducing the “Would You Rather” Marriage Game8:11 — Bathroom Habits, Snoring & Gross Couple Realities13:49 — Thermostat Wars & Smart Home Control Struggles17:03 — Romance Questions Couples Don’t Usually Ask Out Loud20:12 — Flirty Texts, Jealousy & Public PDA Debate25:37 — Awkward Romance vs No Romance at All28:32 — Party Behavior That Would Ruin Your Reputation31:02 — Irish Goodbyes & Hosting Expectations32:04 — Leftovers, Laundry & Everyday Marriage Annoyances34:52 — Posting Private Stuff Online (Where’s the Line?)35:32 — Luxury Hotel vs Tiny Camper Marriage Test36:23 — Sarcasm in Relationships (Love It or Hate It?)38:32 — Sending the Wrong Text to the Wrong Person 😬40:00 — Mind-Reading in Marriage: Helpful or Dangerous?42:02 — If the Smart Home Died Tomorrow…43:33 — TikTok Ruining Our Childhood Music?47:34 — Why Kids Today Don’t Want to Drive49:47 — Social Anxiety, Phones & Growing Up Different Now

Ever wonder if your home security is actually keeping you safe? Join us as we dissect a recent porch pirate incident and the tech that failed us (any why).In this episode of the Wife Approved podcast, we dive into home security after a bold porch pirate targeted our home despite our multi-camera setup. We break down the crucial difference between cloud-based and local recording storage, and why relying on event-based cameras might be leaving your security blind spots wide open. From the importance of 24/7 video recording to the best practices for setting up your smart home cameras, we share our real-world lessons learned. We also laugh through the absurdity of tech failures, discuss sleep-tracking bedroom technology, and share some hilarious, unscripted footage of family mishaps caught on camera. Whether you are a tech enthusiast or just want a good laugh at life's unexpected moments, this episode is packed with personal insights and actionable advice. We discuss the risks of third-party delivery services, how to handle home automation privacy, and the reality of living with smart home devices. 🔑 KEY TAKEAWAYSUnderstand the critical security advantages of 24/7 local recording versus event-based cloud storageLearn why subscription-based cameras might fail during motion-based events and how to avoid these security blind spots.Hear our personal experience with porch pirates and how to improve your home situational awareness.Explore the latest bedroom tech and sleep-tracking innovations that can actually improve your health.💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatley⏱️ CHAPTERS0:00 – Intro2:40 – Snoring, Sleep Scores & Sleep Tech9:45 – Our First Porch Pirate (And Why It Was Creepy)12:36 – Are Delivery Drivers Working With Thieves?16:24 – Why Local Camera Storage Actually Matters20:06 – When Doorbell Cameras Fail You24:16 – Event Recording vs. 24/726:50 – The Real Reason Security Cameras Are Worth It 😂39:15 – Jump Scares, Scorpions, Possums, & Moles47:12 – Camera Tips50:40 – Should We Get a Package Lock Box Now?53:48 – Trying on Bathing Suits in March Is a Mistake55:09 – Why Women Never Think They Look As Good As They Do56:29 – Leave a Review & Ask Us Anything!

Caroline officially quit her corporate job… and the first week might be off to a rocky start.Instead of celebrating freedom, she ended up stuck at home with brutal back pain, drowning in health insurance research, and they're already getting on each others' nerves.In this episode we talk about:What the first week after quitting a job actually feels likeWhy health insurance outside corporate America is so confusingThe weird mental shift of not having a boss anymore• Working together as a married couple (and our first argument)Why negative people can mess with your head more than you thinkAnd the unexpected encouragement that reminded us there are still good people out thereIt’s a mix of real life, marriage, work, and figuring things out as we go.Also… Shane plans a visit to another Apple Store...💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyCHAPTERS00:00 Intro00:45 You Look Different04:30 First Week After Quitting… and a Brutal Back Injury08:45 The Weird Mental Shift of Leaving a 9-to-511:00 The Health Insurance Panic22:15 What Caroline Actually Does for the Business24:45 The Compliment Problem26:00 The Phone Calls That Meant Everything30:00 Recovering From Toxic People33:00 Social Media Is Melting Our Brains37:00 Why Real Human Interaction Matters45:10 Working Together as a Married Couple47:00 Process vs. Chaos52:00 Will People Expect More Now That She Quit?54:00 Breadwinner Dynamics in Marriage59:00 What’s Next for the Channel and the Podcast1:02:00 Shane’s Real Motivation: The Apple Store

BIG announcement this week!Caroline officially quit her job after 11 years. And we're nervous...In this episode, we’re talking about what pushed her to finally do it, how bad the stress had gotten, what the last two weeks were really like, and why this felt like the right time to bet on ourselves.We also get into the reality of corporate burnout, working together as a married couple, the fear of walking away from a steady paycheck, and why so many people stay stuck even when they know they’re miserable.💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyCHAPTERS0:00 — Intro0:56 — Why This Was a Huge Week for Us2:34 — The Stress That Pushed Caroline to Her Limit5:05 — How Helping the YouTube Business Changed Everything9:41 — The Moment We Knew This Couldn’t Keep Going14:19 — The Reality of Giving Two Weeks Notice18:15 — The Fear, Relief, and “What Now?” Feeling19:24 — Why So Many People Feel Stuck at Work22:10 — School, Safety, and the Fear of Risk24:23 — Shane on College, Creativity, and Building Your Own Path32:04 — Betting on Yourself vs. Building Someone Else’s Dream35:53 — The Weirdness of the First Days After Quitting39:33 — Can We Actually Work Together Full-Time?40:44 — Replacing a Paycheck and Making the Leap Make Sense43:28 — Life Is Short. That’s the Point.47:13 — Everybody Thinks You’re Crazy Until It Works54:16 — What Freedom Actually Feels Like58:35 — So… What Do We Even Call Ourselves Now?1:06:26 — A New Chapter for the Podcast and Our Family

Last week got a little heavy… so this week? We’re airing out the petty stuff 😅Snoring. Hair in the sink. Tupperware avalanches. Dishwasher wars. Chewing too loud...These are the little things in marriage that drive us absolutely insane… but aren’t dealbreakers. This one gets real, a little heated, and honestly hilarious.If you’re married (or have ever lived with another human), you’re going to feel seen.Stick around to the end — we make up and actually say what we love about each other. Because despite the chaos… it’s all love.Drop your biggest pet peeve in the comments. We need to know we’re not alone. 👀💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyCHAPTERS0:00 Intro0:55 Why We’re Keeping It Light This Week1:25 The Pet Peeves Episode Begins3:40 Snoring, Sleep Talking & Sleepwalking Stories7:55 The Bathtub Incident & Drunk Night Confessions15:40 Beard Hair, Bathroom Battles & Cleanliness Fights18:30 Clutter, Tupperware & Amazon Box Wars23:05 Closet Takeover & Living With Opposites28:20 Doors, Stomping & Being Loud30:25 Phones at Dinner & Being Present32:25 Being Late (And Who’s to Blame)33:30 Where Is It? & Expiration Date Drama35:45 Coffee Cups, Counters & Dishwasher Fights39:30 Hoarding vs. Sentimental Keepsakes43:30 Phone Habit that Drives Shane Crazy45:05 Night Sweats48:15 Drinks Near Computers & Control Issues53:30 Chewing Loud (Even With Mouth Closed)55:15 Ending on a Positive Note: What We Love About Each Other1:01:30 Share Your Pet Peeve

Marriage is beautiful… and it can also be hard as hell.This week we’re talking about the stuff nobody really says out loud: how raising kids (especially teenagers) can push your marriage into survival mode, and how trauma doesn’t just hurt you — it spills into everything. Grief, loss, acting out, shutting down, resentment… all while you’re still trying to keep the house running and be a parent.This is the difficult side of marriage no one warned us about. We open up about the year that nearly broke us, what it felt like in the middle of it, and why we think we made it through when a lot of couples don’t.If you’re in the thick of it right now — you’re not alone. And if things feel easy right now, don’t skip this one. This is the stuff we wish someone had told us earlier.💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyCHAPTERS0:00 Marriage Is Hard (And Nobody Talks About It)0:50 The Hard Drive Crash + Shane’s Tech Meltdown5:44 The Dream About Shane Moving On11:15 Would You Want Me to Remarry?15:52 What No One Prepares You For in Marriage20:57 The Year Everything Fell Apart (Loss & Trauma)25:47 Grief, Depression & Just Surviving33:35 Teenagers Are Harder Than Anyone Admits40:59 Parenting Fights & Protecting Your Kids49:01 Letting Go of Control as a Parent55:05 Our Worst Marriage Fights (Parenting Differences)1:02:51 Why We Didn’t Quit1:07:04 What Trauma Taught Us About What Really Matters

This week we played “Who’s More Likely” and let’s just say… feelings were felt. 😅 Who overreacts? Who impulse buys? Who avoids conflict? Who caves to the kids? Somehow this episode turned into a real conversation about conflict, parenting teens, money stress, smart home rage, and that time our daughter fell and we learned how differently we handle emergencies.It’s funny. It’s honest. It’s slightly unhinged. If you’re married (or thinking about it), play along with us and see how you compare.💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyChapters:0:00 – This Is a Setup0:50 – Intro + What We’re Doing Today4:06 – Valentine’s Day Backlash & Comment Section Drama7:24 – Who’s More Likely? (Marriage Edition Begins)12:08 – Conflict Styles: Avoiding vs Confronting17:41 – Grudges, Apologies & Emotional Growth19:06 – Why We Tried Couples Therapy (And What Actually Helped)27:27 – Money Fights: Impulse Buys, Panic & “We Deserve This”33:11 – Parenting Teens: Caving, Overreacting & Big Feelings40:50 – Raising Confident Kids (Especially Daughters)41:59 – Overthinking, Procrastinating & Personality Differences46:57 – Closet Wars, Tupperware & Pet Peeves51:11 – Tech Fights: Siri Rage & Smart Home Chaos53:50 – Who Gets Canceled First? (Rapid Fire Hypotheticals)55:19 – Movies, Grief & Why Some Shows Are Too Much57:40 – Emergency Mode: Freezing vs Taking Action1:02:57 – Hot Takes, Cancellation Fears & Wrapping Up

This week on the Wife Approved Podcast, Shane and Caroline talk about the pressure and expectations around Valentine’s Day, why it never quite goes as planned, and how good intentions can still turn into frustration.Along the way, they dive into their recent trips to Ikea and Apple Stores, smart homes, privacy concerns, yelling at HomePods, and the weird moment when your spouse becomes “the tech guy” on the internet.It’s honest, sarcastic, a little tired, and very real — just two married people trying to keep up with life, work, and each other.💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyChapters:00:00:00 - Introduction00:03:50 - Ikea & Apple Store Charlotte Trip00:23:25 - Our First Valentine's Day00:26:23 - Valentine's Day Expectations00:31:50 - Valentine's Day Planning & Pressure00:35:55 - Valentine's Day Traditions00:50:15 - Restaurant Experiences00:53:05 - Listener Questions - PDA, Cheating & Swinger Dynamics01:01:56 - Security Cameras In The Home?01:07:30 - Smart Home Security: Privacy Concerns and Solutions01:15:00 - Wrap Up & Final Thoughts

Public displays of affection. Cute? Cringe? Or a straight-up red flag? 🚩This week, Shane and Caroline go deep (and very honest) about PDA — If you’ve ever cringed at PDA… or wondered if you are the cringey ones… this one’s for you.💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyChapters:00:00 – Zero Fs & Instant Banter02:20 – Teasing, PDA, and “Us vs the World”05:10 – Why PDA Is a Rabbit Hole08:00 – Cute vs Cringe: Where the Line Is12:30 – The Cringiest PDA We’ve Ever Done17:50 – How PDA Changes as You Get Older22:45 – Love Languages, Personal Space, and Affection28:30 – Why Guys Actually Like PDA33:45 – When PDA Feels Insecure or Controlling38:10 – Watching a Miserable Couple in Public45:30 – Pain, Grace, and Carrying Yourself Well51:30 – PDA Rules, Judgment, and Final Thoughts54:15 – Listener Questions: Fear of Being Judged

In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, Shane and Caroline talk about camera anxiety in YouTube videos, doing hard things (and when you’re just over it), the pressure of goals vs protecting your peace, and why January always seems to bring stress into their business and marriage.What starts with an awkward YouTube moment turns into a full-on conversation about burnout, running a business together, micromanaging accusations, and whether fewer goals might actually mean more happiness. Plus, a completely unexpected (and hilarious) detour into public displays of affection, people-watching, and what really gives you “the ick.”This one’s messy, honest, funny, and very real — just like marriage.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, questioned your goals, or wanted to call HR on your spouse… this episode is for you.💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyChapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to the Wife Approved Podcast00:00:59 - Camera Anxiety, CES, and Being Awkward on YouTube00:15:00 - Setting Boundaries and Saying No00:15:24 - “Less Is More” and Why Fewer Goals Might Be Better00:16:59 - Protecting Your Peace (Especially in January)00:17:33 - Goals, Ambition, and Very Different Mindsets00:19:21 - Why Doing Hard Things Actually Changes You00:27:02 - Burnout, Overstimulation, and Mental Overload00:31:00 - When Work Stress Turns Into Micromanaging00:31:39 - Running a Business Together Without Killing Each Other00:46:50 - PDA, Affection, and What Gives Us the Ick00:49:08 - Teasing Future Podcast Topics (PDA Incoming)00:54:09 - January Stress, Marriage Tension, and Wrapping It Up

We’re back from CES in Las Vegas — and wow… what a week 😅In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, we’re recapping everything that happened behind the scenes at CES: late nights, travel chaos, getting sick (or barely avoiding it), meeting creators, awkward moments, and why this trip always leaves us exhausted but inspired.💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday📺 Watch on YouTube or listen wherever you get podcastshttps://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatleyCHAPTERS:00:00 – We’re Back: Podcast Updates, New Years, Pre-CES Madness08:00 – Vegas Nights, The Sphere & Missing Flights18:40 – Surviving CES: Work, Travel & Exhaustion27:25 – Balancing Business, Fun & Life at CES30:55 – Collaboration, Embarrassing Stories & Laughs40:25 – Being Recognized & Awkward CES Encounters45:10 – Late Nights, Drinks & CES Traditions50:30 – Friendships Formed at CES (And Why They Matter)1:03:00 – The Reality of CES Tech (Robots, AI & Repetition)1:09:15 – Final Thoughts & Looking Ahead

As the year comes to a close, we’re reflecting on everything that truly mattered in 2025 — not the numbers, the goals, or the gear... but the real stuff: marriage, parenting, burnout, therapy, and the small wins that meant the most.In this episode, we talk about the unexpected lessons we learned this year and years pas — what tested us, what helped us grow, and what we’re grateful for looking back. From parenting chaos and communication struggles to smart home wins (and fails), this is our honest take on a wild year.Whether you're married, raising kids, building a career, or just trying to keep it all together — we hope this conversation feels like sitting down with friends at the end of a long year.🧡 Thanks for being part of this journey.🔗 Watch full episodes + subscribe:https://www.youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast🎧 Listen on:Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Amazon | Google Podcasts📲 Follow us on Instagram:@wifeapprovedpodcast@shanecreates@mzwhatley💬 Submit questions or hot takes anonymously:https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/📅 New episode every Tuesday!⭐ If you're enjoying the podcast, leave us a 5-star review – it helps us a lot! Thanks for listening.CHAPTERS0:00 - Intro3:20 - Reflecting on 20 Episodes & Season 2 Goals6:42 - 2025 Highs: Granddaughter & Turning 4010:50 - Family Trip to Key West13:46 - Best Friend's Cancer Journey14:43 - First Trip To Berlin16:50 - What We've Learned This Year22:00 - The Hardships of Raising Teenagers26:00 - How Counseling Changed Our Relationship33:33 - The Truth About Corporate America & The Rat Race47:22 - Top Wife-Approved Tech Upgrades of 202549:45 - Q&A: YouTube Advice for New Creators1:00:00 - Outro: Holiday Wishes & Future Plans

Is the holiday magic turning into holiday madness? 🎄 From overwhelming to-do lists to family traditions that feel more like hostage situations, we're getting real about the chaos of Christmas.Caroline opens up about the immense pressure and burnout that comes with making Christmas perfect for everyone. Is it just her, or does one person in every family do it all? We're diving into some spicy holiday hot takes that might just have you nodding in agreement (or fuming in the comments!):- Are inflatable decorations tacky or terrific?- How many Christmas trees are TOO many?- Do we buy too many gifts out of guilt?- The hilarious, unfiltered truth behind those "perfect" family Christmas cards.Plus, we answer a viewer's question about our recent car-buying experiences. Find out why Caroline chose her Lexus, what Shane drives, and our honest thoughts on Tesla, full self-driving, and the future of electric vehicles.What are YOUR holiday hot takes? Do you love or hate smart home automation? Drop your stories, traditions, and opinions in the comments below! We'd love to hear from you.🔗 Links Mentioned in this Episode:Aqara Water Sensors (saved the day again!)https://geni.us/ccrs4OC---💬 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Chapters:00:00 - Intro00:59 - Automating Christmas02:39 - Water Sensors Saved The Day (Again)06:18 - The Great Smart Home Debate09:54 - Holiday Burnout & Overwhelm15:15 - Holiday Hot Takes: Traditions & Decorations28:04 - Hot Take: Multiple Christmas Trees31:36 - Hot Take: Gifting Out of Guilt39:48 - Hot Take: Family Photos49:06 - Holiday Burnout & Unplanned Memories56:47 - Christmas Morning Wake-Up Battle58:16 - Q&A: Car Buying, Teslas & Self-Driving1:09:40 - Outro: Share Your Traditions!NOTE: This description contains affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Is finding true balance in life even possible? In this episode, we dive deep into the chaotic juggling act of modern life, exploring the constant struggle to balance marriage, parenting, work, health, and personal happiness . We kick things off with some tech mishaps, including a run-in with a robot lawnmower and some smart lights, before getting real about the pressures of life . We share our personal journeys with financial stress, taking on side-hustles to provide for the family, and the different ways men and women experience the pressure to balance it all . The conversation then shifts to health and discipline, tackling how to show up even when you're not motivated . Answering a listener's question about encouraging a spouse with body image issues, we get vulnerable about our own past insecurities and how they affected our intimacy . We also discuss our financial past, from racking up credit card debt to teaching our kids how to build credit responsibly . Finally, we touch on the importance of authenticity for content creators to avoid burnout, emphasizing that staying true to yourself is more important than chasing views .Is finding true balance in life even possible? In this episode, we dive deep into the chaotic juggling act of modern life, exploring the constant struggle to balance marriage, parenting, work, health, and personal happiness . We kick things off with some tech mishaps, including a run-in with a robot lawnmower and some smart lights, before getting real about the pressures of life . We share our personal journeys with financial stress, taking on side-hustles to provide for the family, and the different ways men and women experience the pressure to balance it all . The conversation then shifts to health and discipline, tackling how to show up even when you're not motivated . Answering a listener's question about encouraging a spouse with body image issues, we get vulnerable about our own past insecurities and how they affected our intimacy . We also discuss our financial past, from racking up credit card debt to teaching our kids how to build credit responsibly . Finally, we touch on the importance of authenticity for content creators to avoid burnout, emphasizing that staying true to yourself is more important than chasing views .---🔗 Links Mentioned in this Episode:Plaud AI Note Pinhttps://amzn.to/4iJRBxuBambu Labs AI Mini 3D Printerhttps://amzn.to/3MLOqJO---💬 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Chapters:0:00 Intro: The AI "Butt Plug"3:50 The Robot Lawnmower Massacre 7:25 Is Balance Even Possible? 10:30 When Did You Start Thinking About Balance? 14:05 Juggling Kids, Work & Marriage17:45 The Pressure to Provide & Side Hustles 21:30 The Overwhelm & Brain Fog 26:15 Discipline over Motivation 36:40 Financial Balance: Saving vs. Spending 39:30 Living Within Your Means 43:30 Teaching Kids About Credit 47:26 Q&A: Scaring Boys (Girl Dad Stuff)50:45 Q&A: 3D Printer Recommendations 52:00 Q&A: Encouraging Your Spouse to Go to the Gym 58:20 A Vulnerable Confession 1:02:00 Getting Fit For Each Other 1:06:20 The 80/20 Rule: Cleaning Up Your Diet 1:07:30 Staying True to Yourself (Creator Burnout) 1:11:02 People Crave Authenticity 1:13:48 Balance & HappinessNOTE: This description contains affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, we dive deep into what it’s really like being a full-time content creator — not just the gear and editing, but the impact it has on marriage, family life, mental health, and burnout.Caroline asks the real questions about time, guilt, balance, and whether Shane ever thought about quitting. We talk about how being a YouTuber has tested our marriage, how we handle trolls, why burnout hits hard, and what it takes to build something sustainable while still showing up for your family.If you’re a content creator, married to one, or just curious about what really happens behind the scenes — this is the raw side no one shows on camera.💬 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Chapters:00:00 - Intro4:35 - YouTube Process10:27 - Tools & Software14:20 - What Videos To Make?21:00 - Dealing With Trolls34:07 - Testing Products35:35 - Ever Thought About Quitting?37:35 - Marriage, Family & Balance53:05 - Always Working?58:20 - Battling Burnout1:05:18 - Looking Ahead - Future of YouTube

Ever wonder what it’s actually like to be a full-time YouTuber? In this episode, Caroline flips the script and interviews Shane about his journey from hobbyist to full-time content creator. We’re pulling back the curtain on how YouTubers make money, the truth about brand deals, quitting the 9–5, LLCs, sponsorship drama, and what most people get completely wrong about being a YouTuber.Whether you're a fellow creator, thinking of starting your own channel, or just curious about how this all works — we hope you enjoy this honest and transparent behind-the-scenes look into life as a YouTube content creator.💬 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/--Sponsored by Aqara – Check out all their Black Friday/Cyber Monday Deals!https://amzn.to/3VSmrK3Show Notes:The book Shane references - High Performance Habitshttps://amzn.to/4ilcTkRThe High Performance Planner:https://amzn.to/4reDAfb🕚 Chapters:00:00 Intro2:35 Starting For The Right Reasons4:11 About Shane's YouTube Channel5:10 How Do YouTubers Make Money?10:28 When To Quit Your Day Job?16:00 What Are Caroline's Roles In The Business?19:00 Should You Start an LLC?20:50 In-House vs. Hiring Out Help25:35 Don't Get Overwhelmed 27:55 Working with Sponsors33:30 Aqara Smart Home Deals34:30 Being Honest & Sponsorships37:20 Misconceptions About YouTubers38:00 Using Management Companies?42:33 People's Reactions To Content Creators43:05 Biggest Challenges & Future Goals56:25 Part 2 Teaser57:28 Bonus Question - Task Management1:04:55 Wrapping It UpNOTE: This description contains affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

In this episode we’re diving into something wild we both experienced this week — and no, it’s not just us sleeping in separate bedrooms and we may have been wrong about that. Shane found a company (that he likes) using an AI influencer in their ads.. So we’re asking: is AI coming for creators’ jobs next? And what does this mean for real-life, real-people content?IN THIS EPISODE:• Why we suddenly understand why some couples sleep apart• The creator economy shifting under our feet• AI voice cloning, deepfakes, and why the future is about to get messy• How brands are already using AI influencers (and why it gave us the ick)• The importance of authenticity online• Tattoo stories, marriage honesty, and a whole lot of chaos• Drop your questions for a full behind-the-scenes “content creator episode” coming soon.--Sponsored by Aqara – Check out all their smart home products!https://amzn.to/3VSmrK3TimeCodes:00:00 Sleeping in Separate Rooms (We Were Wrong?)10:55 Caroline Might Have Sleep Apnea...13:58 AI Influencers (Taking Our Jobs?)44:35 Aqara Smart Home Sponsor46:22 AI Avatars & Voice Clones55:45 Customized Social Media Feeds59:43 Supporting Real Creators1:01:05 Listener Question: Tattoo Talk1:11:05 Christmas Before Thanksgiving?

In this episode, we share a personal story about a friend's cancer treatment experience and why we regret not speaking up sooner when witnessing poor treatment of patients and staff. We discuss the importance of standing up for what's right, even when it's uncomfortable.We also celebrate some incredible news: Caroline's best friend is officially cancer-free and in complete remission!Plus, we talk about Shane experience with 72-hour water fasting, dealing with being sick, our ongoing water leak problems, and some exciting plans for future podcast episodes.IN THIS EPISODE:• Oncology experience and advocacy lessons• The importance of speaking up for yourself and others• Cancer-free celebration and what's nex• Extended fasting: Shane's 72-hour water fast experience• Smart home lif• Content creator life and future podcast plans--Sponsored by Aqara – Check out all their smart home products!https://amzn.to/3VSmrK3TimeCodes:00:00 Intro & Weekly Recap06:40 Cancer/Oncology Experience24:25 Standing Up for What's Right29:00 Cancer-Free Celebration!30:45 Fasting Discussion44:00 Sponsor: Aqara45:15 Home Projects & Plans49:25 Q&A: Favorite Apparel & T-Shirt Brands55:05 YouTube Content Creator Life59:39 Future Plans for Vegas CES01:01:30 Submit Questions For A Future Episode

In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, Caroline breaks down EXACTLY why women get so stressed during the holidays (spoiler: it's because we do literally everything). We debate whether gift cards are lazy or genius, discuss our family holiday traditions (including smart Christmas lights), and get real about the pressure of making Christmas magical.Topics we cover:• Why holiday planning falls on moms (and why that's exhausting)• Gift cards: lazy or smart?• Our daughter's Halloween plans with boys 👀• Smart Christmas lights for the tree (wife approved?)• That viral magic wand everyone's trying to get• DIY magic wand using the smart home tech• New music is trash (fight us)• Matching family pajamas debate👉 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Show Notes:Thanks to Aqara for supporting the show. https://amzn.to/3VSmrK3NOTE: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video at no cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you’re enjoying the podcast, please leave us a review!▶️ Subscribe on YouTubehttps://youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcastTimestamps0:00 - Intro & Getting Sick at Cheer Competitions5:55 - Music Rant (RIP Good Hip Hop)8:45 - Music Rant (RIP Good Rap Music)11:52 - Tips When You Can't Sleep13:40 - Why Do Women Stress During Holidays (But LOVE Them)22:55 - The Gift Giving Debate28:40 - Holiday Traditions & Family Dynamics33:44 - Sponsor Aqara Smart Home35:55 - 5 Star Review36:40 - Men Cannot Read Minds38:00 - Holiday Hot Takes - Matching PJs, Gift Cards, & Teacher Gifts43:03 - Smart Christmas Lights - Wife Approved?49:00 - Target's Viral Magic Wand (+ DIY Version!)53:33 - Do Men Care About The Holidays?55:48 - Submit YOUR Questions & Topics!

It’s Halloween week, and things get wild. 🎃From trampoline builds and jiu-jitsu at 40, to Caroline’s worst hangover ever and Shane’s haunted garage stories, this episode is equal parts hilarious and heartfelt. We also open up about the terrifying car crash that changed how we drive forever, share some spicy Halloween hot takes (like whether parents deserve 40% of the candy), and end with a wife-approved debate over 3D printers and smart bed warmers.Grab your candy, pour a glass (maybe not three tumblers of wine), and join us for another Wife Approved episode you won’t forget.👉 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Show Notes:Thanks to Aqara for supporting the show. https://amzn.to/3VSmrK3NOTE: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video at no cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you’re enjoying the podcast, please leave us a review!▶️ Subscribe on YouTubehttps://youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcast

Emotions are high this week. We get vulnerable about Caroline's best friend finishing chemo, why it's so hard to cry when you feel like you need to be strong, and our answer to your question about faith and believing in a higher power.We also talk about toxic people who drain your energy, why advocating for yourself medically matters, Shane's 3am water leak adventure, and whether motion sensors are wife approved (spoiler: they're not).Topics:Friend's cancer journey & emotional supportFaith, church & near-death experiencesClean living & product safetyWhy some people are exhaustingWife Approved Tech roundupThanks to Aqara for sponsoring!https://amzn.to/3VSmrK3👉 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Show Notes:Aqara Water Sensors https://geni.us/ccrs4OCYuka App for scanning productshttps://yuka.io/en/NOTE: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video at no cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you’re enjoying the podcast, please leave us a review!▶️ Subscribe on YouTubehttps://youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcast

Episode 10We cover a lot this week—starting with Caroline’s new iPhone 17 Pro Max. Then it’s off to the State Fair (why Shane dreads it, why Caroline loves it, and teen-years ride horror stories).From there we dive into real-talk marriage hot takes:Do date nights fix problems—or prevent new ones?Is sleeping in separate rooms “healthy”… or just toxic?“Too tired” for intimacy: logistics vs. libido (and why daytime sometimes wins).On the smart-home front, the Bedroom Automation Saga continues: smart bulbs vs. smart switches, why Apple TV is “wife-approved,” and the few automations Caroline actually loves. Plus a sweet throwback to Shane’s lunchbox note drawings for the kids—and a listener review shout-out.👉 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Show Notes:Thanks to Aqara for supporting the show. We talk doorbell cams (G410’s wider FOV), hubs, sensors, water-valve control, and why reliable basics still matter.https://geni.us/k6gW2iNOTE: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video at no cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you’re enjoying the podcast, please leave us a review!▶️ Subscribe on YouTubehttps://youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcastChapters:00:00:00 - Introduction00:01:58 - Caroline's New iPhone00:06:35 - AI and Privacy Concerns00:12:05 - Buying Underwear00:17:24 - Five-Star Review Shoutout00:19:00 - State Fairs & Roller Coasters00:30:13 - Lunchbox Notes & Connecting with Your Kids00:36:51 - Aqara Sponsor Shoutout00:38:06 - Discussing Internet Hot Takes00:41:22 - Sleeping in Different Rooms?00:44:30 - Discussing Intimacy and Logistics00:50:28 - Wife Approved Smart Home Tech00:50:44 - Discussing Smart Light Bulbs & Switches00:55:48 - Apple TV00:59:15 - Top Wife-Approve Smart Home Automations01:03:45 - Bedroom Automations Debate

Episode 9In this episode, we dive into the chaos of our week, from sore backs and new MMA class adventures to Caroline’s ongoing battle with bedroom smart home automations. We chat about raising older kids, our thoughts on modern movies and TV, and how Hollywood handles family and marriage. Plus, we answer a listener question about being young with almost-grown kids and kick off our new “Wife Approved or Not” segment.👉 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here: https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Show Notes:Big thanks to Aqara for sponsoring this episode. Check out their Fall Prime Day deals on smart locks, cameras, sensors, and more up to 38% off — running through October 12. https://geni.us/k6gW2iNOTE: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video at no cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you’re enjoying the podcast, please leave us a review!▶️ Subscribe on YouTubehttps://youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcast

This week, we’re sharing some naked truths about marriage. From pride that almost broke us, to the silent treatment years, to the lessons we wish we knew earlier—this one goes deep.We also:Laugh about iPhone drops and “scratchgate”Share a wild clothing-optional beach story 😳Answer your anonymous questions about love and marriageGive our honest advice for newlyweds after 15+ years togetherReal talk, hard lessons, and a few laughs along the way.Thanks for listening — we appreciate you. 👉 Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here:https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Show Notes:Big thanks to Aqara for sponsoring this episode. Check out their products here and discount codes below: https://amzn.to/42kBkbDLAMPSHANE for 5% off on Light Strip T1, LED bulb and Ceiling Light T1MAQARALOCK for 5% off on any Aqara lock productG5PROSHANE for 5% off on Camera Hub G5 ProAQARADOOR for 5% off on the door and window sensor.Which Govee Outdoor Lights Should You Buy in 2025?https://youtu.be/nO5C_84OcssNOTE: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video at no cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you’re enjoying the podcast, please leave us a review!▶️ Subscribe on YouTubehttps://youtube.com/@wifeapprovedpodcast📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcastChapters00:00 – Welcome Back & Why Shane Looks Rough05:22 – Listener Feedback & Reviews12:08 – Wellness Check & Crying on the Internet12:35 – iPhone 17 Pro Drops (No Case!)14:35 – Sponsor: Aqara Smart Home15:20 – Shane’s Best YouTube Video Ever?18:20 – Post-It Note Challenge Question21:55 – Naked Truths: Clothing-Optional Story26:38 – Best Newlywed Advice After 15 Years29:30 – Respect, Trust & Communication34:00 – Marriage Fights & Pride Lessons38:50 – Breaking the Silent Treatment Cycle43:33 – Counseling & The Most Important Decision46:35 – Date Nights & Pursuing Your Spouse50:22 – Tech of the Week: Smart Locks + Lights53:11 – Can Outdoor Lights Replace Christmas Lights?58:07 – Wrap-Up & Anonymous Questions

This week Shane and Caroline get raw about emotional labor, family pressure, and the moment everything finally spilled out. We talk about carrying other people’s problems, sleep, boundaries, and the small things that actually matter — plus a little smart-home tech talk and a sweet homecoming story.If this episode resonates, please leave a rating or review — it helps others find the show. Want to ask a question for the podcast? Submit anonymously here:https://wifeapprovedpodcast.comPodcast Sponsor: AqaraG410 Video Doorbell https://amzn.to/3Ibg1CzNOTE: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video at no cost to you. As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases. 📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you’re enjoying the podcast, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe.▶️ Subscribe on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@WifeApprovedPodcast📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcastShane's Smart Shades Videos:Our New Smart Shades!https://youtu.be/uB1wvbVz-IQOutdoor Shades:https://youtu.be/GwevLaTZUf8Our Smart Backyard Makeover:https://youtu.be/oiLEOeGOSKE

In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, Shane is back from Germany—and Caroline has a LOT to share about what went down while he was gone. From dog poop disasters and broken appliances, to cheer chaos and smart home fails, things got wild at home.We also open up about the #1 rule that’s kept our marriage strong all these years. Why it matters, how we’ve built it into our relationship, and what happens when it’s missing.Other highlights this week:Shane’s IFA 2025 trip (and the weirdest robot he saw)Parenting through sports, school, and late-night chaosShane's not-so-“wife approved” tech of the week + your listener questionsNew episodes every Tuesday. Submit your anonymous questions or topics at https://wifeapprovedpodcast.com_________________Thanks to Aqara for sponsoring this episode! Here are some discount codes just for you (available thru Sep 21)!Door and window sensor：" AQARADOOR " for 10% off.Link: https://amzn.to/3VlQzx3Motion and light sensor P2: " AQARAMOTION" for 10% off. Link: https://amzn.to/4pvyEC2Climate Sensor W100: "AQARACLI" for 10% off. Link: https://amzn.to/46oP5anPresence sensor FP2: " AQARAFP2" for 5% off.Link: https://amzn.to/3K2U09wPresence sensor FP1E: " AQARAFP1E" for 10% off.Link: https://amzn.to/4goXIq9NOTE: This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video at no cost to you. As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases.

In this episode, Caroline is sick… and not happy. 😅 We dive into what really happens when mom goes down and nobody steps up — from missed soup deliveries to sleeping on the couch, forgotten meals, and the great "who's more nurturing?" debate.We also answer a listener question about how we met and share some wild early relationship stories (spoiler: MySpace, Hooters, lifeguard stand, and back porch cigars all make an appearance). Plus, Caroline breaks down her Bingo Loco girls' night and they both share their favorite "tech of the week" (new segment).📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you enjoy the laughs, rants, and real-life conversations, don’t forget to subscribe and turn on notifications.⁉️ Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here:https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Thanks to our sponsor Aqara for supporting this episode! Check out their affordable and reliable smart home products:• Doorbell Camera G410 https://amzn.to/3Jzu9py• Camera G100 Indoor/Outdoor https://amzn.to/47Ow0R7• LED Strip T1 https://amzn.to/4lP5Tx5• Ceiling Light T1M https://amzn.to/4oTKbKQ• Camera G5 Pro https://amzn.to/47Ox1Zr📝 Show NotesEve Flare Portable LED Light https://geni.us/EveFlareHomePod mini https://geni.us/HPminiNote: Affiliate links help support the channel at no additional cost to you. Thanks for your support!📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcast⏱️ Timestamps:00:00 – Intro01:06 – Nobody Takes Care of Mom17:20 – Caroline’s Bingo Loco Girls’ Night26:18 – Sponsor Shoutout - Aqara28:00 – Smart Home Displays30:54 – Submit YOUR Questions Anonymously! 32:35 – Our Real Origin Story (MySpace, Hooters & Lifeguarding)50:57 – Why Shane Started a YouTube Channel57:10 – Tech of the Week + Apple Rumors1:04:15 – S**t Sandwhich#marriedlife #newpodcast #wifeapproved #smarthometechnology

This week Shane and Caroline are all over the place — from neglected smart home automations that make Caroline’s eye twitch 😬, to DIY “repairs” that never quite get finished, Hobby Lobby plant hauls, and even foam party flashbacks (yes, really).We also answer your questions about:• The infamous “lockout” story with smart locks• Which automations Caroline actually hates (spoiler: most of them)•How the family really feels about constant tech changes in the house• Why Shane neglects the smart home while chasing new gadgets• Robot vacuums & mops that finally actually clean📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you enjoy the laughs, rants, and real-life conversations, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe.Submit YOUR questions or topics (anonymously) for a future podcast here:https://shanewhatley.com/wife-approved-podcast/Thanks to our sponsor Aqara for supporting this episode! Check out their affordable and reliable smart home products:• Doorbell Camera G410 https://amzn.to/3Jzu9py• Camera G100 Indoor/Outdoor https://amzn.to/47Ow0R7• LED Strip T1 https://amzn.to/4lP5Tx5• Ceiling Light T1M https://amzn.to/4oTKbKQ• Camera G5 Pro https://amzn.to/47Ox1Zr📝 Show Notes:Narwal Flow Robot Vacuum Mophttps://tidd.ly/3HhUJT9Note: Affiliate links help support the channel at no additional cost to you. Thanks for your support!📸 Follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes + extras:https://www.instagram.com/wifeapprovedpodcast⏱️ Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction01:02 – Caroline’s Eye Twitch Returns04:20 – Chemo Support & Family Stress10:08 – Hobby Lobby Plants & Christmas Plans15:26 – Shane’s Mustache & Foam Party Flashback21:42 – Neglected Smart Home Automations28:54 – Sponsor Shoutout: Aqara32:10 – Smart Lock Lockout Story38:36 – How the Family Handles New Tech45:55 – Robot Vacuums & Tech of the Week53:12 – Listener Questions

This week Shane and Caroline are diving into everything from back-to-school chaos and smart home automations (that may or may not drive Caroline insane 😅), to hair-day rules, new iPhones, exploding heads of lettuce, and the infamous network rack disaster that left holes in the wall and one very traumatized dog.Thanks to our sponsor Aqara for supporting this episode! Check out their affordable and reliable smart home products:Doorbell Camera G410"G410SHANE" for 20% off from August 26-31Camera G100 Indoor/Outdoor Camera "G100SHANE" for 20% off from August 26-31LED Strip T1"EC2LHRLU" for 10% off from August 26-31Ceiling Light T1M"55B96QCM" for 10% off from August 26-31Camera G5 Pro: currently 11% off limited time deal on Amazon📝 Other Show Notes:Shane's Smart Nursery YouTube VideoCradlewise Smart Crib📅 New episodes every Tuesday!If you enjoy the laughs, rants, and real-life conversations, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe.

Tech Stress & Smart Home Fails (But Also Some Wins)“I can’t imagine tinkering with technology. That sounds like hell on earth!”If you feel the same way — you’re not alone.In this episode of the Wife Approved Podcast, Shane and Caroline dive into the wild ride of building a smart home while juggling real life, marriage, and back-to-school chaos.Shane reveals his latest smart home projects (including a new bedroom lighting setup), while Caroline shares her honest thoughts on the not-so-wife-approved tech fails that drive her crazy. They also answer listener questions (new regular segment) about balancing hobbies with family time and navigating marriage when one of you is deep in the tech rabbit hole.Whether you’re a smart home enthusiast or someone who just wants the lights to work without yelling at Siri — this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and some actually useful tips.

Welcome to the Wife Approved Podcast! We're super excited to kick off this journey and share a behind-the-scenes look at our lives, marriage, and our adventures in building a smart home. In this first episode, we dive into our motivations for starting this podcast, the challenges we face, and the laughter that comes with it. We want to create a space where we can be real, share our experiences, and hopefully connect with you on a deeper level. Whether you're a tech enthusiast or just someone looking for relatable conversations about family life, we’ve got something for you. Join us as we explore the ups and downs of marriage, parenting, and everything in between. We promise to keep it honest, fun, and maybe even a little chaotic. So grab your headphones, tune in, and let’s embark on this exciting journey together!New Episodes every Tuesday!

Welcome to the Wife Approved Podcast — a behind-the-scenes look at marriage, parenting, tech, and real life from Shane and Caroline Whatley.Shane’s a smart home YouTuber. Caroline’s the one who has to live with all the gadgets.Together, they’re pulling back the curtain on what life is really like — the chaos, the laughs, and the tech that sometimes works (and sometimes doesn’t).Hit follow and get ready for honest convos, relatable stories, and a whole lot of “Did you seriously automate that?”New episodes drop every Tuesday.