WIVES CLUB POD

Niki provides insights into identifying your spouse's behavioral style and meeting their inherent emotional needs. Niki discusses the importance of understanding personality types for a more successful marriage. She emphasizes the impact of these factors on revolutionizing relationships, as it pulls the best out of the people around us.Takeaways:Understanding personality types can revolutionizerelationships. Identifying and fulfilling emotional needs is crucial for asuccessful relationship.When you understand and respond correctly to theinherent needs of those around you, you get better results in relationships.www.nikiwinston.org/wivesclubSources: Personality Plus, Littauer; The Platinum Rule, Alessandro

What does it look like to love your husband “right”? This conversation delves into the concept of selfless love asthe foundation for loving properly, drawing inspiration from the love of Christ. It explores the idea of loving him like a brother as the perspective a wife should have, the profound compassion of Jesus, and practical application of what selfless love in marriage really looks like.Takeaways·       Selfless love is the key to loving your husband properly·       Loving him as a brother in Christ is key·       Emulating the love and compassion of Christ in marriage

So many wives wish their husband would open up more, but is that possible? How do we get him to do it? What does being "open" even mean to a man? Niki talks about specific, guaranteed strategy to get your husband to open up more, and enjoy telling you about his day, his thoughts, and even hisfeelings. This episode explores the challenges of masculine communication and provides a plan for creating a safe and positive conversation experience, ultimately becoming a safe space for your husband for opencommunication.Takeaways:·      Active listening·      Positive communication·      It’s possible to turn things around

Pastor David Winston gives advice about husbands and marriage to wives in this episode. He shares with Niki aboutintimacy, insecurities, and the needs of men in marriage, the importance of valuing and respecting each other, and the dynamics of leading and following. Pastor David also provides insights to understand and support strong women, andsupporting growth for a husband who is a work in progress. They also cover the need for mutual support and covering in a marriage.Chapters·       00:00 Respect and Valuing Your Spouse·       07:46 Navigating Marriage as a Strong Woman·       13:27 Harnessing Strength as a Strategic Advantagewww.nikiwinston.org/wivesclub

Why is respect so important to husbands? And exactly how do we give it as wives when it seems to be a moving target? This episode defines and simplifies men's need for respect, and gives you practical tools on making him feel respected, and exactly what to do when he feels disrespected. We even explore the connection between respect and sexuality, and its impact on a man's emotional health.Chapters·       00:00 Understanding the Need for Respect·       06:13 How to Show Respect·       13:32 Apologizing Effectively and Addressing Disrespectwww.nikiwinston.org/wivesclub

Do you wish your husband walked more passionately in the role of spiritual leader of your family? Niki show how to approach this situation with love and understanding, using your own leadership to inspire him to grow naturally, and desire that role more. Before long, your husband will be SEEKING a deeper relationship with the Lord.Chapters00:00 Approaching the Situation with Love and Selflessness06:12 Motivating and Leading the Husband Towards a Closer Relationship with God14:49 Dealing with Differences in Spirituality and Personality

Dive into the reality of Niki's marriage to Pastor David Winston as she interviews him about what he loves in their marriage, what he doesn't like, and what he wishes she would change. Explore the "personality" of their marriage, and get insights from the husband's perspective.Takeaways:Their version of love is about understanding and supporting one another.Respect and validation are crucial in a marriage.Niki talks a lot. Chapters:00:00 Rating Our Marriage, 1-1007:00 Acts of Service and Consideration12:15 Dealing w/Differences in Marriage18:10 Prioritizing Our Husband (and Wife)23:51 Building a Stronger MarriageYOU’RE INVITED! Wives Club is a supportive community for wives who want to be ministered to in the real stuff—our struggles, our hopes, our dreams, and even our unmet expectations—and learn together what it actuallylooks like to love like Christ.This is a sisterhood of wives who are seeking to heal from ourpast, prepare our hearts for what’s ahead, and dwell with God right where we are.If you want to go deeper, you’re invited to joinWives Club—a community built on connection, discipleship, and growing together in Christ. www.nikiwinston.org/wivesclub

Respect can be elusive and confusing as a wife. You think you’re showing it, but he’s just not feeling it. In this short clip of Wives Club Pod (Episode: “What’s the Deal with Respect?”), Niki shares a few practical ways wives can make their husbands actually feel respected.Full episode (+ a couple others) drops March 31. Follow now so you don’t miss the official launch of WIVES CLUB POD!