Write with Confidence

Will my book be good enough? You've asked yourself this question or others like it. It sounds like a reasonable concern, but what if it’s something else trying to sabotage your dreams?In this episode, we break down exactly what's happening when self-doubt tries to talk you out of finishing your manuscript, and I walk you through the three-step process I use myself and with writers to shut it down. Plus, grab my FREE guide, 7 Simple Shifts to Quiet Your Inner Writing Critic, to keep the momentum going after you listen. Your book deserves to be finished. Let's get you there!You can also download a FREE Writer's Compass assessment at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you dream of.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com.Also mentioned in this podcast:“Don’t Let the Forest In” by C.G. Drews (2024)

If you can't answer this question, you're not alone, but it's foundational to building a writer's identity. And this is a critical component of developing confidence as a writer. Knowing WHY you write won't make the hard days disappear, but it will make them survivable. In this episode, we explore how knowing your purpose as a writer can be your most powerful tool, the thing you return to when you're afraid, burned out, or wondering if it's all worth it. You'll get three life-changing journal prompts to help you figure out your why and use it to gain more focus and a clearer voice in your writing.As a BONUS for listeners, download your FREE Writer's Compass assessment at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you dream of.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com.

What if the secret to unlocking your best writing happens before you ever open your manuscript?In this episode, we're exploring morning pages, the simple practice from Julia Cameron's The Artist's Way (1992) that has transformed the creative lives of writers and other creatives around the world. Whether you've tried them before and drifted away, or you've been curious but weren't sure where to start, this episode will show you how to make them work for you.You'll walk away understanding why morning pages do what they do (it goes deeper than you might think), when they're most powerful, and how to build a version of the practice that fits your life. No rigid rules required!As a bonus for listeners, download your FREE Writer's Compass assessment at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you dream of.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com.Mentioned in this podcast:“The Artist’s Way” by Julia Cameron (1992).Also check out this great article about Morning Pages by Chris Winfield.

In this episode, we dig into the real reason you can’t seem to find time to write, and, spoiler alert, it’s not your schedule. Through a personal story and some honest reflection, you’ll start to see why writing keeps losing out to everything else on your to-do list and what’s actually driving that pattern.You’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of what’s holding you back, along with a simple way to start making writing a real priority in your life, even with everything else on your plate.If you’re tired of figuring out how to fit writing into your schedule and are ready to finally commit to writing, this is the episode you don’t want to miss.And if you want help figuring out where to start, download your FREE Writer's Compass assessment at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you dream of.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com.

Are writing groups the secret to staying consistent or the reason you keep second-guessing your work?In this episode, we take an honest look at the benefits and drawbacks of writing groups, so you can decide if they are helping your writing or holding you back. You’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of what to look for and what to avoid, so you can build a writing community that truly supports your goals, confidence, and momentum. If you’re looking to join a writing group or wondering why your current one is not working, this is an episode you do not want to miss.And if you want to stop second-guessing yourself and show up consistently to the page, download your FREE Writer's Compass assessment at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you dream of.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com.

Are you trying to learn everything you can about writing, but not actually writing with any consistency?In this episode, we dig into the habit of never-ending learning: why it feels productive, why it’s so easy to fall into, and how it can keep you stuck. You’ll start to recognize the subtle ways you might be delaying your writing, and what’s really going on beneath the surface.If you’ve ever felt like you need just one more course, one more book, or one more piece of advice before you begin, this episode will help you shift out of that cycle. You’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of how to balance learning with action so you can write more consistently and finally move your work forward.And if you want to stop second-guessing yourself and show up consistently to the page, download your FREE Writer's Compass assessment at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you dream of.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com.

You keep telling yourself you just need more time to write, but what if that’s not the real issue?In this episode, we take a closer look at why consistency feels so hard and what’s actually getting in the way. You’ll start to see your writing habits through a new lens—one that shifts the focus from time to identity and structure.You’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of why your current approach isn’t working, along with practical changes you can start making right away to build a writing routine that fits your life. If you’re ready to stop starting over and begin showing up for your writing with more clarity and confidence, this episode is just what you need.Stop second-guessing yourself and start showing up consistently on the page by downloading your FREE Writer's Compass assessment at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you dream of.For more information about The Abundant Writer 10-week coaching program, visit www.theabundantwriter.com/programsConnect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com.

Do you have a dream of publishing your book, but you lack the confidence to step into the publishing world? In this episode, you’ll learn some of the language of the industry so you can start seeing yourself as someone who belongs in writing and publishing spaces. I’ll walk you through key terms and acronyms you’re likely to encounter and explain how they fit into the bigger picture of writing and publishing.This episode will help you move from confusion to clarity, so you can make more informed decisions and show up with greater confidence in your writing life. You’ll also learn simple ways to keep building your knowledge without feeling overwhelmed. If you’re ready to feel more grounded, more capable, and more like a writer who knows what they’re doing, this is a great place to start.And if you'd like to stop second-guessing yourself and start showing up consistently on the page, download your FREE Writer's Compass assessment at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you dream of.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.comOther podcasts on writing and publishing:Wish I’d Known Then…for WritersWriting Excuses - be sure to go back to their earlier seasons on their websiteThe Shit No One Tells You About Writing

Have you been telling yourself you’ll write your book when life calms down, after the kids are older, when work slows down, or when you finally have more time? What is this “someday” plan really costing you? This episode will uncover the real ways postponing your writing dream is holding you back, from the excuses that keep you stuck to the emotional weight that builds when you keep putting it off. We go beyond productivity and get to the heart of identity: who you become when you keep waiting, and who you become when you finally start. If you’re ready to stop wondering if you could be a writer and start actually becoming one, this episode is for you.To stop second-guessing yourself and start showing up consistently on the page, download your FREE Writer's Compass assessment at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you dream of.To see if the Abundant Writer Program is right for you, schedule a free consultation call at bit.ly/writerconsult.

Rejection is part of every writer's journey, but it doesn't have to stop you in your tracks. In this episode, you'll learn how to shift your perspective on rejection so it no longer feels like a personal attack on your abilities and instead becomes useful information that moves your writing practice forward.You'll also walk away with four practical strategies to put rejection to work for you. These practices will help you stay consistent, protect your mental well-being, and keep submitting your work until it finds its home.If you're ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start showing up consistently on the page, download your FREE Writer's Compass assessment at: www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful tool takes a clear, honest look at every part of your writing practice and shows you exactly what to focus on so you can build the confidence and consistency you've been working toward.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com

If you've ever read another writer’s work and immediately felt like you didn't measure up, you're not alone. In this episode of the Write with Confidence podcast, we get honest about the comparison spiral that almost every writer falls into, why it happens, and what it's actually telling you about your relationship with your own writing.You'll walk away with five practical strategies to shift your mindset and protect your creative energy so that other writers' success stops feeling like a threat and starts feeling like motivation. Whether you're deep in a comparison spiral right now or just want tools ready for when one hits, this episode will help you get back to the page feeling steadier and more confident in your own voice.To get started on your road to writing with confidence, download the FREE tool, The Writer’s Compass at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful assessment will give you the clarity you need to figure out exactly where to start.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.comLearn more about The Abundant Writer Coaching Program.

Are you a perfectionist who's been told your high standards are holding you back? What if everything you've been taught about perfectionism is wrong, and your so-called "flaw" is actually one of your greatest strengths as a writer?In this episode, writing productivity coach, Kristina Chilian, reframes perfectionism from a creativity killer into a powerful tool you can wield with confidence. You'll discover the five perfectionist traits that can supercharge your writing, learn how to recognize when your standards are helping versus hindering your progress, and walk away with three practical questions that will keep your perfectionism working for you instead of against you. Whether you've been staring at the same paragraph for an hour or haven't started your manuscript because it needs to be "just right," this episode will change the way you see yourself as a writer and give you the confidence to move forward.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.comLearn more about The Abundant Writer Coaching Program.To get started on your road to writing with confidence, download the FREE tool, The Writer’s Compass at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful assessment will give you the clarity you need to figure out exactly where to start.

Is procrastination keeping you from your writing? Do you have a lot of mental drama around the work that you’re avoiding? If so, this episode is for you.I share what procrastination actually means and give you four powerful questions to help you uncover why you're really avoiding your writing. Whether you've been putting off a difficult scene, delaying that query letter, or just can't seem to sit down and start, these questions will help you get to the root of what's holding you back and give you the tools to move through it with clarity and self-compassion. You CAN overcome procrastination, but not through willpower alone.To get started on your road to writing with confidence, download the FREE tool, The Writer’s Compass at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful assessment will give you the clarity you need to figure out exactly where to start.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com.Learn more about The Abundant Writer Coaching Program.

You know the thing you've been putting off? The project you keep meaning to start, the manuscript you're not quite ready to share, the class you'll sign up for when the timing is better?There's always a reason to wait, but waiting has a cost. In this episode, we're talking about one of the most powerful shifts a writer can make: starting before you feel ready. We'll cover what's really behind that feeling of "not yet," what you actually gain by taking action despite the fear, and what it might be costing you to stay where you are. If you've been waiting for a sign to begin, this is it.To get started on your road to writing with confidence, download the FREE tool, The Writer’s Compass at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful assessment will give you the clarity you need to figure out exactly where to start.Connect with Kristina at www.theabundantwriter.com.⁠Learn more about The Abundant Writer Coaching Program.Also mentioned in the episode:  The War of Art by Steven Pressfield.

Are you not finishing your book or writing project because you’re afraid of what might happen if you succeed?In this episode, we unpack the fear of success — the hidden anxiety that can sabotage your writing before you ever hit “publish.” We’ll explore:What fear of success actually isHow it shows up for writersThe deeper beliefs underneath itTwo powerful mindset shifts that help you reclaim control, andThe real benefits of success that fear tries to make you forgetIf you’ve ever slowed yourself down because success felt overwhelming, unsafe, or “too much,” this episode will help you reimagine success in a way that feels achievable.To get started on your road to writing with confidence, download the FREE tool, The Writer’s Compass at www.theabundantwriter.com/compass. This simple but powerful assessment will give you the clarity you need to figure out exactly where to start.⁠Learn more about The Abundant Writer Coaching Program.If you’d like more support, reach out to me at [email protected] mentioned in the episode: Money mindset books: two great books to start with are You are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero and Overcoming Underearning by Barbara Stanny.

Is the fear of failure keeping you from writing to your potential? Are you playing it safe and not putting 100% of yourself into your writing practice?In this episode, we look at the many ways that fear of failure can show up for writers and how it works to keep us stuck. I share a different way of thinking about failure and how to use it to your advantage. If you’ve been holding back because you’re afraid of rejection, ridicule, or any other kind of failure, this episode is just what you need to release those fears and embrace the possibilities for success. It’s time to take fear out of the driver seat and put her in the trunk.If you’d like more support with this mindset, reach out to me at [email protected]⁠Learn more about The Abundant Writer Coaching Program.Visit www.theabundantwriter.com to learn more about me and join my monthly newsletter.Also mentioned in the podcast: Rachel Hollis - @msrachelhollis

Is your academic training getting in the way of your creative writing? In this episode, I explore what it means to still be writing for a grade as an adult writer. We’ll look at the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs of this mindset, why it’s so deeply ingrained, and how it erodes your confidence, creativity, and trust in yourself. If you’ve ever felt frozen without clear instructions, anxious about doing it “wrong,” or dependent on outside validation, this episode is for you.After exploring how this mindset can adversely affect your writing, I offer three practical strategies to help you break free from learned constraints and shift from writing performatively to writing creatively. It’s time to trust in your creative voice and to reclaim your authentic, creative identity. Let’s get started.If you’d like more support with this mindset, reach out to me at [email protected]⁠Learn more about The Abundant Writer Method⁠, my coaching program for writers.Also mentioned in this episode:Morning pages from Julia Cameron’s book, The Artist’s Way (1995). Here’s a great blog post by Chris Winfield explaining morning pages.

Does writing sometimes feel harder, more stressful, or more discouraging than it should? Are there areas of your writing life where you feel off or out of balance? In this episode of Write with Confidence, I share why your writing success depends on much more than skill or discipline and how intentionally designing your writing life can bring clarity, balance, and peace. You’ll learn how small, thoughtful adjustments can reduce stress, increase motivation, and help you feel more grounded and supported as a writer. By the end of this episode, you’ll understand why aiming for balance, even if we never fully get there, is a key to long-term confidence. And you’ll know exactly how to start designing a writing life that truly works for you.Be sure to download the FREE tool that goes with this episode: The Writer’s Compass. This simple assessment will help you take stock of your writing life and identify where to start making small shifts toward balance. You can access it at:⁠www.theabundantwriter.com/compass⁠Learn more about The Abundant Writer Method.For more personalized support, visit ⁠www.theabundantwriter.com⁠

In this episode of Write with Confidence, I challenge the idea that confidence is something writers earn AFTER: after finishing a manuscript, publishing a book, or receiving positive feedback. I define confidence and explain why real confidence doesn’t require certainty, fearlessness, or having everything figured out. Then we explore the three core capabilities you can be confident in right now: your unique voice, your ability to learn, and your ability to handle challenge. These internal anchors create a steady foundation that no rejection, critique, or setback can take away. By the end of this episode, you’ll have more trust in yourself and your abilities.To get started on your road to writing with confidence, download the FREE tool, The Writer’s Compass. This powerful assessment will give you the clarity you need to figure out where to start.Learn more about The Abundant Writer Method.For more personalized support, visit www.theabundantwriter.com

In Episode 2 of Write with Confidence, I challenge three common myths about confidence that fuel self-doubt and keep writers stuck.You’ll learn why confident writers don’t actually have everything figured out, why struggle is not a sign you’re doing it wrong, and why waiting for external validation only disconnects you from your creativity. I'll introduce you to practical mindset shifts and strategies you can use when doubt, procrastination, or overwhelm show up (because they will).This episode is an invitation to stop waiting for permission and start trusting yourself as a writer. Whether you’re just starting out or finding your way back to the page, you’ll walk away feeling supported, encouraged, and reminded that confidence isn’t something you earn; it’s something you practice.To get started on your road to writing with confidence, download the FREE tool, The Writer’s Compass. This powerful assessment will give you the clarity you need to figure out where to start.Learn more about The Abundant Writer Method.For more personalized support, visit www.theabundantwriter.comAlso mentioned in this podcast: Marie Forleo: Everything is Figureoutable

In this first episode of Write with Confidence, I share my story of going from fearful perfectionist to a creator who writes with joy and confidence. For years I questioned if I could write, if I should write. When I did finally allow myself to try, I'd write and rewrite Chapter One over and over before jumping to a new, shinier idea. Rinse, repeat. Then I thought that if I just took more classes and read more books about the craft, I'd finally feel confident enough to write the book I felt called to write. Spoiler alert: that didn't work, either. My lightbulb moment was years in the making, but when it did finally happen, it changed everything.If you've ever felt paralyzed by perfectionism, avoided your writing because you're worried it won't be good enough, or doubted whether your voice even matters, this episode is for you. Find out how a shift in mindset opened the floodgates and gave me the confidence to finally embrace my creative side and write a book. Learn how this podcast series will help you find confidence in your own writing voice.To get started on your journey to writing with confidence, download the FREE tool, The Writer’s Compass. This powerful assessment will give you the clarity you need to take action.Learn more about The Abundant Writer Method.For more personalized support, visit www.theabundantwriter.com