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Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Asia get into what it actually means to be a girl's girl and the world of just being one. True female friendships are the most difficult to form, the most worth protecting and the trickiest to maneuver. This is just how we feel about them.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest's Instagram: @blkasia🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Jennifer get into the perks of keeping your life private but not a secret. They focus on boundaries, keeping relationships private, girl code, and more.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetJennifer's Treat Business: @_sweetspotlk🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

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Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Maria chat about the pros and cons of living on your own in NY. They both moved out of their childhood homes in their early 20s and have certainly been hit with the crazy life/prices/nonsense that comes with maneuvering that city that never sleeps as a young adult.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @odd.phenomenon🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Blair get into what it feels like to lose yourself and the many meanings behind that sentiment. The short answer for getting out of that funk is finding your community and giving yourself grace.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @parishiltonskid🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Terrance get into what may be uncomfy territory for some as they chat about the spectrum of masculinity and the different ways affection is given and received between men.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @turtle.on.acid🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Jennifer Roman-Matito talk warming up to entrepreneurship. It's more than the glitz and glam you see on social media. It's hard work and knowing how to take being told 'no' ... a lot!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @jennylismMother's Milk Instagram: @drinkmothersmilk🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Austin Chan give you some tough love on why you're not hitting your fitness goals.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @austinchanfitness🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Joel get into emotional regulation, dark life moments and what it's like being right smack in the middle of a lifelong healing journey.Guest Instagram: @canelasthenicsPodcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetHost TikTok: @missingthesunset13🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailWomen are difficult, but you love us anyway. That's it. That's the description.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunset🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Naya talk about the life of a flight attendant. Naya gets into the stereotypes, strange passenger stories and how she creates some form of work/life balance. Long story short, you don't want a flight attendant to actually have to their job.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram:  @nayaa.bayaa🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Taylor get into the horror story that is her cheating ex. In the Valentine's Day spirit they do talk about what it's like dating after a traumatic long term relationship and what it feels like finally being on the other side.Guest Instagram: @taylor.coleyPodcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetHost TikTok: @missingthesunset13🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Gabby get deep into self awareness and the many situations where people have proven to lack. It matters everywhere. You need it at work, in friend groups, in public spaces, in friendships, relationships, everywhere!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @gabby.tbh🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello everyone!In this episode, Erica Star gets you out of your birthday funk! Birthdays make you reflect, second guess your accomplishments and become overly aware of time but that's no reason to be SAD! You make your day special and you need to want it bad enough so hopefully this alters your brain chemistry just a little bit.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunset🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Ixchel chat about body insecurities, body dysmorphia and the unhealthy habits that can come out of it. Stories about being "too thick," getting bullied for gaining weight and panic attacks before going to the gym bring light to how much the world can influence women's view of their body AND WHY THAT'S GOT TO STOP :)Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @loveixchelguerraa🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Irving have a VERY honest chat about finances in your 20s. They talk credit cards, building credit, money in social situations, what makes a person cheap, what financial freedom means to them and more. You'll relate, you'll laugh and you might just learn!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @irx_ingg🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyap00:00 Sneak peek00:20 Intro00:57 First phones: Sidekick, Sprint flip phone03:13 Flip-phone nostalgia & the mystery antenna04:09 Parents checking phones07:19 One gets punished, all get punished07:49 Dad checks my Sidekick 12:29 Privacy vs trust: How we’ll parent15:17 Ringtone era (T-Pain, Seth Rogen laugh)18:16 Favorite emojis & what they mean19:58 Emojis that annoy us22:48 Single-emoji replies & message reactions31:49 The time I did shrooms40:00 “Dry texter” debate41:35 When to text vs call vs voice note vs FaceTime45:13 Group chat roles & etiquette52:32 Voicemails56:26 Old social media (TBH, shout-outs, Vine, Video Star)1:00:08 Social media persona1:04:55 Birthdays & performative “thanks”1:10:02 Be present IRL: put the phone down1:11:30 Shoutouts to friends & staying yourself online1:16:14 Touch grass1:17:34 Closing outSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Justin Santos teach you about NYC transit. Long story short, there's so much more bad than good but as New Yorkers, they've got a love/hate relationship with the hunk of metal and sketchy tunnels. If you've never been to New York, they give you a pretty decent feel for what to expect.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @jussofrito🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyap00:00 Sneak peek00:20 Intro00:57 First phones: Sidekick, Sprint flip phone03:13 Flip-phone nostalgia & the mystery antenna04:09 Parents checking phones07:19 One gets punished, all get punished07:49 Dad checks my Sidekick 12:29 Privacy vs trust: How we’ll parent15:17 Ringtone era (T-Pain, Seth Rogen laugh)18:16 Favorite emojis & what they mean19:58 Emojis that annoy us22:48 Single-emoji replies & message reactions31:49 The time I did shrooms40:00 “Dry texter” debate41:35 When to text vs call vs voice note vs FaceTime45:13 Group chat roles & etiquette52:32 Voicemails56:26 Old social media (TBH, shout-outs, Vine, Video Star)1:00:08 Social media persona1:04:55 Birthdays & performative “thanks”1:10:02 Be present IRL: put the phone down1:11:30 Shoutouts to friends & staying yourself online1:16:14 Touch grass1:17:34 Closing outSupport the show

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Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Nisha get into confidence and what that has looked like for them over the years. Bottom line, confidence isn't linear. You'll have bad days, but you'll also have good days. Root yourself in your worth and for as long as you understand the great things that make you whole and work to improve the less-than-great things about yourself, you're golden.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @n.ishaa🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Jury give you church for creators! It's inspiration, motivation, tough love, the works! Have a listen and get inspired.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @j_jury🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star gets some things off her chest on the topic of religion. No, this is not a religion-bashing episode. All religions are respected here on Yip To My Yap, but those who use their faith to treat others poorly is where we draw the line.Enjoy!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunset🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Sima rate Thanksgiving dishes and get into all the Thanksgiving drama. Happy holidays!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @sima.nyc🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Ashley Wang get into polyamory and everything that comes with it. whether that be inevitable jealousy or some intense scheduling. If you've ever been curious about what a polyamorous lifestyle is like and you've never felt comfortable asking the sometimes uncomfy questions, this episode is for you!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @ash.wang🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Maxiel chat about their journeys as women who strength train and all that comes with it. They talk insecurities and stigmas, but they also get into the confidence boost and opportunities the gym made available to them.If you take anything away from this episode, let it be to not let a stupid guy tell you you're "too bulky" or 'manly" for their taste. Do what makes you happy.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @maxbethename🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!If you've stumbled upon this video, you're pretty special because this episode got no push on other social media platforms for the sake of this landing on feeds of who it's meant for. In this episode, you're seeing Erica Star fresh off the wake up and she's just saying what's on her mind as it comes. She manifests her ideal morning routine, quite poorly if we're being honest, and hopes it inspires you to start working toward a better version of yourself.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunset🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Herlene talk about code switching and masks we tend to put on, sometimes on a daily basis. They talk about masks worn as children and as adults at work as well as just how frustrating the need to can be.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @whoisher_lean🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Kailah talk about vacationing and why you need to be careful who you do it with. They get into trips gone wrong, trips that broke friend groups and others that made them. Stick around for travel tils and habits that keep our traveling just a bit more organized.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: ​⁠ 🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Nisha look back on their own lives in strict households. Though very different, the parallels are THERE. Erica's takes come from a Puerto Rican household under a mix of her mother and grandmother's rules and Nisha's come from a Bengali muslim home with immigrant parents. No matter which way you slice it, these homes were STRESSFUL.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @n.ishaa🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star talks reflects on the last year with Yip To My Yap. She gets into the stresses and lessons but more importantly the wins and joys of doing something you're proud of and sticking to it. Thank you for being here for the past year if you've been a loyal listener and welcome to the club if you're new!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystar🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Taylor talk about the thing most people in their 20s don't want to think about -- their parents getting older. Cry and grieve with them as they reminisce about good memories with their parents and what they fear most about the inevitable.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @missingthesunsetGuest Instagram: @taylor.coley🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Justin Santos go down memory lane talking about their first cell phones, group chat etiquette and early social media platforms like Myspace. Reminisce with them in a conversation full of nostalgia laughs.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @jussofrito🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Raimi Reyes have a very honest conversation about how close is too close. They get into topics of boyfriends, female friendships and situationships (or "lovers" as Raimi likes to call them). If you wanted to listen in on a conversation between two lifelong friends who might just be what you consider "too close," this is the place for you!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram:  ⁨@raimireyes⁩  🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star talks about her biggest pet peeve — people who cant read a room. She goes over the two kinds of confrontational people, frustrating happenings she’s exprienced or heard and the benefit of being assertive.Thanks for listening!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystar🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Jenasis get into what their college experience was like, being two NYC students who decided to commute to school and got hit with a pandemic for most of their time there.They talk about the stresses that come with college including pressure to succeed, burnout and doing your best to maintain all the other parts of your life.Get ready to hear about the good, bad and uncomfortable memories they associate with the college experience.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @jena.sis🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

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Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star self reflects with cards from the We're Not Really Strangers self-reflection pack because she felt like self reflecting that night. That's literally it.She got a little deeper than she thought she would, so enjoy watching her figure herself out in real time. Don't forget to live laugh love!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystar🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Herlene talk about what it means to actually be ready for a relationship.If you think you might be ready, but aren't 100% sure if you're willing to put in the work, or maybe you didn't even know there would be more work to come, this episode is for you.Hopefully you learn from some of our mistakes and come out a better person :)Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @whoisher_lean🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Jess get into the brutally honest truths of trauma bonds. They talk about the difference between real friendship and trauma bonds disguised as true friendship.The two bring up stories about when they feel they may have actually been the toxic one in the situation, but also what legitimate friendships look and feel like to them now.Bottom line: Don't feel guilty for being sucked into a trauma bond and don't villainize the person you had/have a trauma bond with. The lines are extremely blurry.The goal is always to grow, learn and use your experiences to help you understand yourself and others. Hope you learned something!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @taylor.coley🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star recounts some ridiculous stories from her elementary school years growing up in New York City.She talks about the time she met Spongebob in kindergaten, first grade crushes, 2nd grade leprachauns, getting let down by teachers in 3rd grade, more crushes in 4th grade and the reality of 5th grade Google searches.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystar🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailWe're baaaaaaaaack!In this episode Erica Star and Amadou get into the nitty gritty of being in healthy relationships, the definition of a "high value man," managing expectations in relationships and all about nurturing a fulfilling relationship.If you want to see the difference between pre-relationship us and the lover girl and lover boy brought before you, watch this one first! → https://youtu.be/-CeCqQGiYGE?si=j0eIBDZQ7TSfRYkhPodcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @thelasttoptimist🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Taylor let you in on some of their most crash out worthy moments. The crash outs range from friends following your ex on Instagram to obnoxiously loud cars and children who can't walk straight on a sidewalk. Disclaimer: The two are very much aware that some of these scenarios are ridiculous while others are beyond valid.Have a laugh and relate!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @taylor.coley🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Twiggy Versatile talk about their practices for staying positive in dark times, things they've learned about resisting negative self-talk and what owning their femininity looks like.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @twiggyversatile🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star talks about low maintenance friendships and just how sweet and amazing they are. On the flip side, she also touches on instances where the low maintenance mentality is one-sided and is actually just a "friend" neglecting another. The realization sucks (trust me).She talks you through the topic with her own personal stories of true friendship and lack of. This one's a relatable one.Did this episode remind you of anyone?Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystar🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode Erica Star and Melz get into the details of her breakup with someone who she spent a big chunk of her youth with.The two get into how the end of a long relationship is more than just a breakup. It's lost friends, lost family and lost time that you can't get back.Listen to them chat about how to bounce back from those dark moments.Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @melelyse_🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Joshua De La Cruz get REAL about the things people are too uncomfortable to talk about. They get into their sex lives, discoveries and hypotheticals about dating outside of your sexuality.If you're an open-minded person, if you've ever wondered something and was too afraid to ask, or just down right nosey, this episode is for you.Happy Pride my loves!And if you didn't catch Part 1, you should start there. Thnx!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @jaysuenosJoshua's Hair Styling Instagram: @suenoshair🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star and Joshua De La Cruz have a candid conversation about coming out, the road to self acceptance and how perceptions of different genders and sexuality shape our beliefs. They also get into the differences in experiences between heterosexual women and gay men with nothing but curiosity and respect.Happy Pride my loves!Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystarGuest Instagram: @jaysuenosJoshua's Hair Styling Instagram: @suenoshair🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show

Send us Fan MailHello hello darlings!In this episode, Erica Star talks about the emotional rollercoaster that was her first pilates class. She talks about it from her POV of being strictly a weightlifter and how that means nothing when you're in that room full of reformers.Halfway through, it becomes a lesson to put yourself in uncomfortable situations in the name of growth. When was the last time you did something for the first time?Podcast Instagram: @yiptomyyapHost Instagram: @momentsbystar🎧 Listen on:APPLE: https://open.spotify.com/show/5lao3ApDG6tLWli6VpyXCj?si=42b59f891dd243fbSPOTIFY: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yip-to-my-yap/id1771573370If you want to support even further (no pressure): https://buymeacoffee.com/yiptomyyapSupport the show