Dreams, Dirt & Grace- Business, Homeschooling, Simple Living & Parenting Hacks for Moms

Prioritizing God in the middle of a busy life Does your quiet time with God feel impossible in a busy home? In this episode, we talk about letting go of perfect quiet-time expectations and learning how to invite God into the middle of everyday life—while cooking, homeschooling, working, exercising, or simply moving through your day. Because God isn’t waiting for perfect silence. He’s simply waiting to be invited in.     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Stewarding the Body God Gave You Through Seasons of Womanhood   Our bodies change. Through marriage. Through pregnancy. Through postpartum. Through stress, career shifts, grief, joy, and everything in between. And almost every time our season changes, the critic gets louder. In this episode, we talk honestly about the difference between punishing your body and stewarding it. We unpack why transitions trigger comparison, how social media amplifies insecurity, and why the little girl inside you is still listening to the way you speak about yourself. We’ll also explore what stewardship actually looks like in real life — strength with dignity, rest without guilt, long-term thinking instead of quick fixes, and gentle reframing rooted in Scripture. This isn’t about shrinking. It’s about sustaining. It’s about learning to treat your body like the gift God designed it to be. If you’ve been hard on yourself lately, this episode is a steady reminder: your body is not an afterthought. 🌿     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

How a natural disaster turned into our main homeschool course In this episode, I share how one of the biggest flooding events in our community forced us to put down the workbooks and step into real-time learning — from emergency prep and evacuation plans to tracking river levels and navigating uncertainty as a family. But this episode isn’t just about homeschool. It’s about how real-life disruptions can become powerful classrooms. We talk about: How to pivot instead of panic when plans fall apart Teaching preparation without teaching fear Letting kids participate in problem-solving Modeling faith during uncertainty Learning humility by receiving help Why reflection after hardship builds resilience Sometimes the most important lessons don’t come from a curriculum you planned. They come from moments you didn’t. If you’re a parent navigating interruptions, unexpected stress, or seasons that don’t look like what you imagined — this episode is an invitation to see the classroom hiding in the chaos. Because sometimes, life becomes the lesson.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com    

In Episode 278, we talked about clearing our plates—letting God remove what we were never meant to carry. But once things come off, a new question rises: What do I say yes to now? In this episode, Learning to Serve From Overflow, we talk about how to choose the right yeses without filling our calendars right back up or draining our hearts in the process. We explore: Why “time management” is a myth and what actually needs managing The difference between managing your yeses and protecting your noes How rest and withdrawal are part of faithful service, not a failure of it What it looks like to be busy with God-given purpose instead of pressure How planning with God at the center shapes everyday decisions The power of an “approval pause” for mamas who tend to people-please This conversation is for the mama who wants to serve well without running dry—who’s learning that obedience doesn’t require exhaustion and that overflow comes from alignment, not availability. If God has been asking you to sit first, this episode is an invitation to listen.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

What started as a goal-setting meeting eventually became one of the most grounding rhythms in our marriage. In this episode, my husband and I sit down together to share the end-of-year date we’ve been returning to for over a decade—not because we’re disciplined or perfect, but because life moves fast and marriage needs tending. We talk honestly about: Why this tradition didn’t start as a spiritual practice How chasing goals and achievement left us misaligned What shifted when we invited God not just into our plans, but over our year What this date actually looks like (spoiler: it’s simple, sometimes messy, and never fancy) How reflecting before planning has steadied our marriage through busy, uncertain, and hard seasons This conversation isn’t about productivity or having it all figured out. It’s about pausing long enough to see each other again, listening for God’s voice together, and choosing alignment over achievement. If you’re a mama craving intention, connection, and a marriage rhythm that brings peace instead of pressure, this episode is an invitation to slow down and pull up a chair. Marriage isn’t something you perfect. It’s something you return to.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

In this episode we’ll talk about… Good things can still crowd out God things Discernment over people-pleasing Choosing what’s mine to carry and what isn’t This is for the overwhelmed mamas who feel stretched thin and quietly resentful (like me when I crowded my calendar with toooo much).   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

This isn’t a teaching episode. This is a testimony. 2025 was the year God stripped it away. Not gently. Not quietly. Not one thing at a time. But layer by layer… identity by identity. And for the first time in my entire adult life, I was left standing without the things that told me who I was.     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

I'm kicking off the new year of 2026 with a Season of  episodes called When God Clears the Garden So New Growth Can Come Every episode fits under one gentle truth: God has been stripping, simplifying, strengthening, and re-ordering. This season isn’t about doing more. It’s about seeing clearly.   Make sure you Subscribe to the show so you get notified when the next episode is released.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Have you ever said “yes” to something just because it felt good? Same here. I used to make big life decisions based on that warm, peaceful feeling and call it confirmation. But over time, I learned that following God isn’t always about the feelings—it’s about faith, obedience, and listening for His voice in deeper ways. In this episode, I share a personal story about how I almost said yes to an opportunity that looked perfect on paper—but instead, God took me on a journey of prayer, discernment, surrender, and clarity. I walk you through the steps I’ve learned to take when making big decisions—from praying alone to seeking wise counsel, waiting in stillness, and asking God to search my heart. This one’s for you if you’re in a season of “should I or shouldn’t I?”, if the old ways of “feeling led” aren’t quite working anymore, or if you’re learning to trust God with your yes and your no.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Real-life rhythms, chore strategies, and sanity-saving systems from a homeschooling mama of 5.   Let’s be real—keeping a household running, homeschooling the kids, and keeping everyone fed (without losing your mind) requires more than just a good planner. In this episode, I’m opening up our real-life mama systems: the chore rhythms, life skills training, tech boundaries, and daily routines that have actually helped our family thrive—not just survive. You’ll hear how we’ve: Taught our kids independence (yes, they can do laundry and cook!) Shifted from reward systems to responsibility mindsets Built chore routines that don’t cause daily arguments Managed electronics in a way that honors their growth and our peace Created rhythms that invite rest, structure, and more Jesus into our days Whether you’re overwhelmed by dishes, drowning in socks, or just curious how another mama makes it work—this episode is here to encourage you with practical ideas (and a whole lot of grace). 🔁 Because what works for one family won’t work for all… but sometimes, hearing someone else’s “working messy” helps you find your own.     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Spoiler alert: Some of the best lessons don’t come from a textbook. In this episode, we’re talking about the learning that happens off the page—in the dirt, in the backyard, in the chicken coop, on the trail, at the playground, and in all those beautifully unplanned moments that make homeschool feel alive. From incubating quail eggs to building bike ramps, from visiting small local businesses to crafting DIY Halloween costumes, we discovered that “school” doesn’t always come from a workbook. Sometimes the most meaningful lessons happen when life interrupts the plan. If you’ve ever felt guilty because you couldn’t stick to the schedule… or because your kids learn better in the wild than at the table… this episode will breathe fresh grace into your homeschool. This is your permission slip to embrace the rabbit trails, the muddy boots, the spontaneous field trips, and the joyful chaos that actually counts as learning. Grab your coffee (or your cold reheated one 😉) and let’s talk about all the magic happening outside the lesson plan.     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Feeling behind? Burnt out? Like the stack of curriculum you bought is staring you down with judgmental eyes? Been there, mama. 🙋🏽‍♀️ In this episode of Dreams, Dirt & Grace, we’re talking about the moment when your beautiful, color-coded homeschool plan falls apart—and what to do next. I’m sharing real stories, honest struggles, and what I’ve learned about making curriculum serve us, not the other way around. You’ll walk away with encouragement, practical mindset shifts, and a whole lot of grace for those "we're behind again!" days. ✨ Because curriculum is a tool—not your taskmaster. And you, mama, are the teacher God chose.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

In this episode, we’re diving into the real-life mess and magic of homeschooling. Whether you're knee-deep in lesson plans, wondering if you're "doing it right," or just trying to survive another day without someone crying over math (and it might be you), this one’s for you. We’ll talk about: How to simplify your homeschool rhythm What to do when you feel burnt out Why joy and curiosity matter more than a perfect curriculum How to invite God into your homeschool planning (without needing a seminary degree) And real-life tips from our own family’s homestead-homeschool mash-up By the end, I hope you feel encouraged, grounded, and reminded that your homeschool doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s. Because your family, your story, and your pace is part of God's perfect plan.       If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Ever wonder if all this staying home, pouring out, and homeschooling is really worth it? In this honest episode, I’m sharing a moment where I almost walked away from the calling—and what helped me stay rooted. We’ll talk about the tug-of-war between purpose and pressure, and how God reminded me that this season of motherhood matters deeply. Takeaways: Doubt doesn’t mean you’re not called. Obedience sometimes looks like staying. Your faithfulness at home is kingdom work. For the mama who feels tired, torn, or tempted to chase something else—this one’s for you.    If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Ever notice how your home shifts with your mood? I sure have—and it was a wake-up call. In this episode, we’ll talk about why moms set the atmosphere of their homes, how our emotions, rhythms, and spiritual walk ripple through our families, and how even the smallest self-care moments can shift everything. Mama, you have more influence than you realize—let’s learn how to use it with grace. If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

What if the biggest thing standing in the way of God's plans for your family… is you? In this vulnerable and heart-changing episode, I share the costly and humbling lesson I had to learn about submission—what it really means to walk in biblical order within our homes, and how I unintentionally distracted my husband from hearing God's direction. If you’ve ever wrestled with control, pride, or the desire to “help” steer the ship… this one's for you, sis. We talk about: How a good thing can still be a distraction Why “Happy wife, happy life” isn’t always helpful What God showed me when I finally got quiet How to release the need to lead and allow your husband to hear God clearly Practical ways to grow in submission (without shrinking your strength) And the peace that comes when we trust God’s design for our family This episode is a real, raw invitation to check your heart, pray over your marriage, and remember that submission isn’t weakness—it’s powerful surrender. ✨ Includes a guided prayer and encouragement for every wife trying to walk in God’s will while still learning to let go.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Preparing for Your Homeschool Year (Even If You Don’t Feel Ready) 🌿 With faith, flexibility, and a whole lot of grace Feeling behind before the homeschool year even starts? You’re not alone, friend. Whether your books haven’t arrived, your plans feel scattered, or your confidence is shaky—this episode is a gentle hug and a deep breath for your homeschool mama heart. In today’s episode, I share some of our messiest first days, the years we started late (or not at all), and how God lovingly led me to lay down my hustle and invite Him into the planning. It’s not about perfect charts and tidy shelves—it’s about connection, flexibility, and faith. We’ll chat about what it looks like to: Let go of the pressure to do it all Pray over your year and ask God for vision Start simple, create rhythms, and make space for grace Trust that God equips the called—even when we don’t feel ready Whether you’re planning with a latte in hand or praying in between diaper changes, you are not behind—and you are not alone. 💛 👣 Quick Takeaways from Today’s Episode: You don’t need a perfect start. Messy beginnings are still holy. Pray first. Let God speak vision into your year. Start small. Focus on 2–3 anchor subjects or rhythms. Make it simple. Use what you have. The learning will come. Reflect weekly. Adjust with grace and prayer. You are called. Not because you're ready—but because He is faithful.     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Sometimes hope feels like the hardest thing to hold onto—especially when the ending of your story looks nothing like what you pictured. In this final episode of our Through the Fire series, I’m sharing how God taught me to hold on to hope—not because I had all the answers or could see the whole plan, but because He was still with me in the unknown. If you’re standing in the ashes, wondering what’s next, this one’s for you. If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Who are you when the title is gone? In this raw and reflective episode of Through the Fire, we explore what it means to rediscover your identity in Christ after the role, the dream, or the achievement you clung to has been stripped away. I’m sharing the personal journey of losing the title “Firefighter,” and the deeper work God did to remind me that my worth isn’t in what I do—but in who He says I am. If you've ever felt lost in the in-between, this one’s for you. Let’s uncover what was always true: you are still chosen, still called, and still His.     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

What happens when the dust settles after everything falls apart? In this deeply personal episode, I share how God used the fire—not to destroy me, but to refine me. I open up about the false identities I didn’t know I was still carrying… and how, in the aftermath of a dream that didn’t end how I hoped, God began to rebuild something deeper, stronger, and more honest. If you’ve ever found yourself questioning your worth, wrestling with your identity, or wondering what purpose looks like after a hard detour—this episode will meet you right there. You are not starting over. You’re being rebuilt with grace, grit, and a God who never left. If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

What happens after the disappointment—when the plan falls apart, and you’re left holding questions instead of answers? In this heartfelt episode of Dreams, Dirt & Grace, we step into the vulnerable space that comes after the fire. The space where God feels quiet, the next step isn’t clear, and you’re wondering if you missed something—or if you’re just… stuck. Kawailani shares what it looked like to trust God when there was no clear direction, no “next big thing,” and no plan to follow. Through raw stories, tender reflections, and a moment of unexpected wisdom from her 5-year-old, this episode reminds us: Faith isn’t always a bold leap—it’s often found in the stillness. In the pause. In the surrender that says, “God, I don’t know where this is going… but I’m choosing You anyway.” If you’re in a season of waiting, wrestling, or wondering what comes next—this one’s for you. 📓 Reflection for this week: Where in my life do I feel uncertain or unclear about what’s next? What would it look like to choose rest as a form of faith? How can I trust God’s timing, even when I can’t see it unfolding yet?     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

When the ending isn’t what you prayed for and the heartbreak feels heavy, peace might be the last thing you expect… and yet, somehow, it’s what God offers in the middle of the wreckage. In this tender episode of Through the Fire, I’m sharing what it looked like to find peace after being released from Fire Academy—just weeks before graduation. The kind of peace that doesn’t come because everything worked out… but because God was there, holding me in the heartbreak. If you're walking through a season that feels uncertain, painful, or unfinished—this one’s for you. Because even when the story breaks, God’s presence stays. 📓 Reflection for this week: What does peace feel like to you in this season? Where have you seen glimpses of God’s presence, even in the pain? What would it look like to ask for peace—not as an outcome, but as a daily gift?     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Through the Fire – Part 5 | Dreams, Dirt & Grace What do you do when you obey God, pour your heart into the journey, and the ending still doesn’t look like what you hoped for? In this episode, I’m sharing the heartbreak of being released from Fire Academy just weeks before graduation—and the peace God gave me in the middle of it. This is a real look at unmet expectations, holy redirection, and the truth that even when the dream changes, God’s faithfulness does not. If you’re grieving an outcome you didn’t choose, this one’s for you.       If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Sometimes God doesn’t remove the fire. Sometimes... He just holds you through it. In this episode, I’m sharing how God provided in the middle of my hardest moments—not by making things easy, but by giving me just enough strength, just enough grace, and just enough peace to keep going. Provision didn’t always look like I expected. It wasn’t flashy or instant. But it was exactly what I needed, right when I needed it. If you're walking through a season that feels too heavy, too exhausting, or too uncertain—this episode will remind you that God is still showing up, even in the smallest ways. You’re not forgotten. You’re being carried. Let’s talk about what real provision looks like in the fire.     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Through the Fire – Part 3 | Dreams, Dirt & Grace What do you do when you’re doing everything right—surrendering, obeying, showing up—and still feel like you’re falling apart? In Part 3 of the Through the Fire series, I’m sharing one of the lowest points in my Fire Academy journey. The moment I failed in front of everyone. The moment the whispers got loud—“You’re not strong enough. You don’t belong here. You’re failing.” This episode is a raw look at the heaviness of discouragement, the lies that creep in during the middle of the fire, and the truth that pulled me through. Because even when the outcome doesn’t look how we hoped, God is still present. Still refining. Still carrying us. If you’re feeling tired, stuck, or like you’ve lost your way—this one is for you.     If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Part 2: Obedience – Saying Yes When You Don’t Know the End of the Story  Saying yes to God sounds brave… until you’re walking it out in the middle of exhaustion, uncertainty, and doubt. In Part 2 of Through the Fire, I’m sharing the real and raw moments of what obedience looked like for me—saying yes to Fire Academy without knowing the outcome, trusting God while juggling motherhood, training, and the constant feeling of “Am I doing the right thing?” Obedience isn’t always pretty. It’s rarely easy. But it’s always worth it. Because when we say yes, God doesn’t promise clarity—He promises presence. This episode is for the woman in the messy middle, the one who’s following God but starting to question the path. If that’s you, you’re not alone—and I pray this reminder gives you strength for your next step.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Welcome to a new Series... Through the Fire: Trusting God When the Outcome Breaks Your Heart   This isn’t just a story about Fire Academy. It’s a series about what happens when you say yes to God—and then the story doesn’t go the way you thought it would. Through the Fire is a deeply personal journey of surrender, obedience, disappointment, and the kind of growth that only happens when you’re refined by the hard. Whether you’re walking through uncertainty, facing your own unmet expectations, or just wondering what God is doing in the middle of your mess, this series is here to remind you: You’re not alone. He’s not done. And even when the outcome breaks your heart—God is still writing something beautiful.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Here's a real look into homeschooling—I'm going over what has worked for me, but more importantly what hasn’t, and why it’s okay if it’s not picture-perfect.    We'll talk about how incorporating God in center of your homeschool is crucial. How we (us mamas) could be the problem with our homeschool. Why we may be unintentionally forcing things to happen in our homeschool and that it probably is leading us to more stress. Plus I'll leave you with a few take away action steps to help you keep your Sanity.   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

I did it! I rebirthed the Homeschool Entrepreneur Mom Podcast to Dreams, Dirt & Grace! In this episode we’ll talk about the heart behind Dreams, Dirt, and Grace— How to plant those forgotten dreams, Why the messy, gritty parts of life are where growth truly happens and the importance of giving ourselves Grace through it all. Here’s the link to my friend, Alicia’s podcast   If you want to learn how to embrace the Dirt on your journey, come join me over on Substack at kawailani.substack.com

Whenever you decide to do something new, lean into your purpose, head towards something God is pulling you towards.... Challenges start flying at you! Does the Challenges Slow you Down? Change your Course? Make you Quit?! In this episode, I'm here to encourage you that You are a Superwoman too!    Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com  

YES! Mamas! It's just as Important for YOU to be Socializing (like your kids). Plus it you are now the Example for them.   Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

When your body starts to break down, it's actually telling you that you NEED more than just REST.   In this episode we'll talk about How these things affect your body too: - the Season that you're in - the Relationships you have with the things in your life (& it's more than the relationship you have with people) - things you can DO to help Heal your body       Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie     -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com  

Most of us have been taught or only teach our kids about the Negative effects of Peer Pressure. Did you know that there are Positive Benefits of Peer Pressure too? Teach your kids about BOTH! WHY? because when your kids are socializing and building relationships, they will be faced with BOTH.   Let's talk about it.   Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie     Socialization includes EVERYONE that your child (intentionally & unintentionally) interact with. Which includes Strangers. In this episode, I'll be talking about the difference between Stranger Danger & Tricky Strangers. How Stranger Danger instills Fear and makes EVERYONE look like a Suspect. Versus Tricky Strangers and how it Allows you to Teach your Kids to be AWARE, CAUTIOUS & PREPARED.     -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com  

Sometimes we get caught up in Making a Living that we Forget to Make a Life. Has god been pushing you towards a Purpose & have you NOT taken a Step? Have you (unintentionally) placed your Daydreams into Park instead of just slowing down to take a break?   There have been times in my life where I did the same, but now, I'm living my own Daydreams and I hope to reignite it in you too.   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Is transitioning into Summer easy for you? Do you have it planned or do you just eventually Stop? In this episode I'll teach you how we transition into Summer where Learning still happens, Fun is Included and Starting back up again in the Fall isn't Hard.   Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie     -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

There are quite a bit of benefits to socializing your kids with different age groups! From learning patience, how to teach other kids, to having empathy, to being able to learn from different perspectives and so much more. In this episode we'll talk about it so that you can find ways for your kids to have the opportunity to gain these benefits too.     Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Socialization doesn't have to be a "Hard thing to do". There are Simple ways to integrate it into your daily lifestyle. In this episode I'll tell you how and how to teach your kids how to do it. Building their Life Skills in Communication, Relationship building & their Confidence.     Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie     -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Socialization is one of the TOP Objections that many people have when it comes into jumping into Homeschooling. In this 6-part Series we will dissect Socialization.... 1. How it doesn't happen Only in School 2. How to Integrate it to your Everyday Lives 3. Benefits of Socializing with Different Age Groups 4. Stranger Danger vs Tricky Adults 5. Peer Pressure  6. Making Friends as Adults   Hit the Subscribe button so you'll get notified when the next episode drops!   Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie   This might seem obvious, but think about anytime you have taken advice from someone who never had direct experience, training or an adequate amount of time in that area. Were they REALLY the best Resource for learning about that subject?   In this episode, you'll learn about simple questions to ask someone when you hear advice. That'll help you determine whether or not you should take it.   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Wanted to share Our Top 10 Marriage Tips. Take what speaks to you and your hubby, integrate it into your life and see what happens.   Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com  

I was searching for a "Balanced Life" myself and realized that it wasn't serving me and it probably isn't serving you either.    In this episode you'll learn about how striving for a "Balanced Life" will always leave you feeling like you're at the edge of stress. Instead I'm going to give you a new perspective on what to strive for in your life, so that you can do more and it'll FEEL right.   Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Recently got asked: How will you still Homeschool? Will you be sending your kids to public school?   There is so much Freedom in Making Homeschool Fit INTO Your Life vs Your Life Conforming to your Homeschool Schedule. & YESSSS... Homeschool can fit into your schedule no matter what Life changes (going back to college, new career, new opportunities) come. Listen in to see How....   Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Holidays can be stressful & decorations can be a reminder of that!   Here's why taking down your Holiday Decor will do so much greatness for your New Year goals, homeschool and even for your wellbeing.   Plus you still can Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie       -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website ->http://www.kawaiahquin.com/

  Your Traditional School Beliefs Deschooling yourself Unschooling your kids Where to Start?   Download My gift to you: Unschooling & Deschooling Packet Here: http://www.kawaiahquin.com/freebie       -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website ->http://www.kawaiahquin.com/  

Here's some things to Ask yourself:   Not only What are you achieving How are you incorporating Rest How are you Taking care of your soul What are you Speaking or NOT Are you Pleasing Others, Comparing or Distracted Do you have Boundaries How are you spending your time? Do you just TALK about something, or do you DO something about it     -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com  

Fill in the blank: She is so Good at.... What have you've been told and what you've been trying to Live up to? This image has been molded around the person that people perceive you as. Because you are probably GOOD at those things. But in a society where it's Looked down on or people are Shamed for Sharing their struggles, now You feel like you can't SHARE it. It's going to RUIN that Fake Image. You're Feel like you're Going to LET your Loved ones Down. Disappoint them. So, Now YOU need to be the Good Girl.   But You don't even recognize that person.   It's Hurting you because you become isolated. You close doors, you don't ask for help. YOU CAN FIGURE THIS OUT on your Own.   Let's get rid of the Good Girl....   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Here's the activties!   Let them Bake! (Measurements, Home Ec, Doubling Recipe, Let them Shop for a Gift! (Budget, Taxes, Research, Plan it, Wrap it) Learn & Perform for the Family (song, poem, puppet show, acting) Plan a Family Outing (Scheduling, Planning, Budget, Meals, Drive time) Plan a Game Night (Games, Food, Prizes, Timeline, Group Work, Responsibility)   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com  

Here's a way to continue to share gratitude in your family during this season.   Activity: Give each person enough post-it notes for each member of the family Write down something they're grateful for about each person. If kids can't write, be their recorder (have them talk and write it down for them). Start with One family member at a time and each person shares why they're grateful for that person     Make a keepsake: Grab a blank note book & place all the post-its into it. Add to it each time you do this activity Make a collage out of it keep it in a jar & add to it each time   Variations: Do it over a certain number of days once a week for the month Add it to part of your Kids Journaling   -Kawai     Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com

Do you have a struggling Reader and those "suggested Reading Levels" are causing more confusion rather than clarity?   In this episode you'll learn a way to choose books that will BETTER support your child's reading progress and Tips on what to do for your struggling reader.     -Kawai   Let's be Friends! -> https://www.instagram.com/kawai_ahquin Website -> http://www.kawaiahquin.com