E+A Rawdog

In this episode Evie and Axel discuss the hotwife dynamic and how it differs from cuckolding, both in terms of what drives each arrangement and what it means psychologically for the people involved. They draw on their own relationship and their experience as escorts to explain why the same act can feel completely different depending on the energy and intention behind it. Axel shares how his position on the idea has shifted dramatically over the past five years and what that process actually looked like. Evie reflects on her own conditioning around wanting multiple male partners, and how that complicated her response to something Axel introduced. Together they get into the psychology of permission, what it means to offer versus concede, and why the person who appears to be giving something up often has more power than it looks. TOPICS How the hotwife and cuckold dynamics differ psychologically even when the physical act looks the same Why Axel's response to the idea five years ago was categorically different from his response today What Evie found surprisingly difficult to accept, despite having no shame about her work as a sex worker What Axel means when he describes sharing Evie as an offering rather than a concession How cuckolding can serve a therapeutic function rather than simply being a kink Why some experiences feel possible in a professional context but not a personal one, and vice versa QUOTES Axel: "Five years ago, I would've been like, not in a million years would I be able to identify with hotwife energy at any level." Evie: "I didn't come to you and say, hey babe, I'd really just love some extra dick, please. Could I have some extra dick? It was more like you came to me. Hey babe would you like some extra dick?" Evie: "Thanks for the extra dick." Axel: "Right now 50% of the listeners are probably thinking you're a cuck, mate. But it's like, no, no, haha.." Evie: "I love me a man sandwich. I've been saying that a lot lately." Axel: "I don't mind myself a pussy platter either." ABOUT Evie Elysian and Axel Meridius are a real-life Melbourne couple who work together as escorts under the name Evie + Axel. Rawdog is their unfiltered take on sex, intimacy, and what they've learned from years in the adult industry. This podcast contains explicit sexual content and is intended for adult audiences. Discretion is advised for sensitive listeners. WEBSITES Evie + Axel Evie Elysian Axel Meridius SOCIALS YouTube Instagram TikTok LISTEN Spotify YouTube Apple Podcasts Amazon Music iHeart Radio SoundCloud Podcast Addict Pocket Casts Player FM

In this episode Evie and Axel discuss roleplay and the role it plays in their relationship and their work as escorts. They look at what roleplay can mean beyond the surface level, and why for both of them specific experiences have been connected to healing rather than just sexual variety. Evie shares what it meant to finally feel safe enough to access a more vulnerable part of herself that she had kept protected for a long time. Axel reflects on his early sexual experiences in Sweden and what it was like to revisit that time through roleplay with Evie. They also share what each of them wants to explore next. TOPICS Why fear of judgment or ridicule stops most people from ever asking a partner for roleplay in the first place What Evie had kept protected for years in sexual contexts, and what it took for her to offer it to someone What Axel was trying to reconnect with when Evie put on the blonde wig and changed her whole presence How intuition works in offering someone an experience they need without having to script it in advance What the difference is between surface-level roleplay and the kind that becomes something more significant What Evie and Axel are each looking to explore next QUOTES Evie: "I've found it incredibly edgy and there was a lot of shame, or discomfort attached to role play." Axel: "For me, the fear of being ridiculed for the sort of thing I would ask for from my partner would've stopped me from even exploring that." Evie: "It's like going back and rewriting the script, re-experiencing it — and that is a healing experience." Axel: "I remember afterwards being filled with love and gratitude. You gave me that — it was a gift from you, an offering." Evie: "A lot of role play does tap into our deeper selves and allows us to go back and reconnect, remind ourselves that we are worthy, we are capable, we are safe — whatever the message is that we need." ABOUT Evie Elysian and Axel Meridius are a real-life Melbourne couple who work together as escorts under the name Evie + Axel. Rawdog is their unfiltered take on sex, intimacy, and what they've learned from years in the adult industry. This podcast contains explicit sexual content and is intended for adult audiences. Discretion is advised for sensitive listeners. WEBSITES Evie + Axel Evie Elysian Axel Meridius SOCIALS YouTube Instagram TikTok LISTEN Spotify YouTube Apple Podcasts Amazon Music iHeart Radio SoundCloud Podcast Addict Pocket Casts Player FM