Enigmanarium

Do your special words match your partners? Mine apparently never did

A general ramble and personal processing update of my own trauma

My daughter's birthday is coming and my ex is making it all about them

Buying a new house has a lot of issues, but this felt like a bit much...

I have had a hell of a life lately. I think I may be back now tho...

The titles say it all.

Sick husband, busy mom, many things coming up. Plus our building may face an unplanned rent increase.

The Try Guys, Women, Politics and more. It's all about respect.

In laws, Mother's Day, Matriarchal society and what I want of the world my son grows into.

My 1st with Dax here to celebrate....so I feel "official" now. 

He really is growing up too fast for my tastes....

America isn't about hatred and seperation. Please don't elect a defacto klan member as our president.

Long post, but includes a call from the time suck I call Ruth.

Been gone awhile...sorry. Here's the update.

The people I'm thankful for and why. Also why I find many ironies in this season.

The holiday season madness and my birthday.....

You RE-learn things about yourself every day once you become a parent.

The news has taken on a new dimension of sadness and I now feel obligations I didn't before....

He's on thin ice as it is, but will he finally plummet through to the depths of "I'm done with this."??

You can love each other all you want, but one of you is a better parent to a newborn. It's easy to get snarky....

The genius of Rodenberry and the way I've showed my love for my first born and sci-fi.

He came almost 5 days earlier than expected and it turns out he was a he...

I sent Sam off on his annual beach day with the boys and a big cooler full of food to share. I'm enjoying the air conditioning and the cute of my pets.

Another historic day in the advancement of true equality.

The reason Babies-R-Us has lost my money, why Ruth can be a pain, and a close relative who is being a complete and total asshat for no reason.

8 months pregnant. The pets are bonding even more. I also have a serious rule for any relatives dumb enough to make the baby's gender their priority.

An ambush visit from my sister, that never came to pass....and the 8 days of stress that must go along with it.

A long post, covering my first Mother's Day, why cut flowers suck, how my dad handles having grand kids, and our upcoming babymoon.

I'm the freak who isn't panicked about being a new mom, so I answer Sam's questions. Also, my mom's home made stuffing is like CRACK!!

The question of will they or won't they move...has been answered. It opens up a different kettle of fish though.

A general update on the busy life I lead and thoughts on religion, faith, tatoos, and teaching equality.

Pregnancy (weel 24), moving house, and the ways I've started informing people that they annoy the hell out of me.

The ways in which this doesn't scare me and how Sam seems to be dealing with it.

Farewell to Leonard Nimoy from a fan and "honorary" grandchild.

The holiday came and went in a blur of food. SNL40 was both good and bad in certain ways. The big plug here is please go to youcaring.com and search #KOKOtheDog to help out our guy Rizzo's best friend in the world, Ms. Koko

These may take a while to cover...

Some of it is unwanted. Most of it is unsolicited. Almost none of it is useful.

I have a lot to cover, so I hope you've got a while to listen....

I'm no conspiracy theorist, but you know Sony was playing you all, right?

Thanksgiving came and went. Now the next major to do is upon us.

Thanksgiving is coming!

It was a busy, food filled week......

I've been cat called more than once and it pisses me off every single time.

This wasn't one of my better mornings. Here are my resulting thoughts on the matter.

Still having laptop issues. Sorry for the roughness of this post. I'm working on having it fixed soon.