Enter the Grayzone

It's hard to keep up with the changing terms and trends of sexual identities. Even hard is trying to maintain a compassionate yet Biblically faithful approach to loving people who experience challenges in their sexual identities. Dr. Julia Sadusky, co-author of the book Emerging Sexual Identities, gives us compassionate frameworks to navigate this complex topic. This should prove to be a hope-filled and helpful conversation. https://www.juliasadusky.com/about

In this episode we focus on Men's physical and spiritual health all through the transformative power of sharing a cup of coffee after a workout. We chat w/ Lance Rogers of SOLiD Men Australia. The informal discussions following grueling workouts allow men to open up about their lives, struggles, and triumphs. Lance explains that the physical exertion helps break down walls, making participants more receptive to discussing personal challenges. The ‘metaphorical ball’ is passed around, giving each man the opportunity to share as much or as little as they feel comfortable, fostering an environment of trust and support.#Men #mental #healthhttps://www.solidmen.com.au/

In the ever-evolving landscape of publishing, aspiring authors often find themselves at a crossroads between traditional and indie publishing. In a different type of episode of Enter the Grayzone, Robby talks with two authors, Marissa Franks Burt and Samantha Rae Ortiz, as they share their unique journeys in the literary world. They talk industry secrets and challenges as well as explore the unique perspective of being Christians who write non-fiction, not necessarily to be evangelists. https://www.instagram.com/samantha.rae.ortiz.books/https://www.marissaburt.com/about

Kyla became a trans-man, then transitioned back. Her story, however, is more about the loving power of God and the compassionate response of a local church. Her new book, Transformed, tells her story and provides a new narrative for this vulnerable population of people. https://kylagillespie.com/Transformed on Amazon

Tim Stewart from Impact Nations discusses the organization's mission to rescue lives through the power of the gospel. He emphasizes the importance of local partnerships, emergency relief, and community empowerment. The conversation explores the adventure of faith, the transformative stories of individuals impacted by their work, and the holistic nature of the gospel that addresses both spiritual and practical needs. Tim shares insights on their work in Gaza and the importance of belonging before believing in community service.https://www.impactnations.com/

In this conversation we explore the mission of the Union Movement, a ministry dedicated to helping people find wholeness in sexuality, identity, and relationships through a Christ-centered lens. The founders, Bryan & Bonnie share personal stories, cultural insights, and practical approaches to addressing sexual brokenness with patience, grace, and truth.DETAILS on the upcoming CALLED CONFERNCE (April 10-11) can be found at the website: https://www.theunionmovement.com/https://kylagillespie.com/

In this conversation, Eric Scalise discusses the importance of faith and biblical principles in navigating relationships and difficult times. He emphasizes the need for practical understanding of trust and faith, especially when facing challenges, and the necessity of walking through hardships rather than trying to escape them.Website: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopeforthehearthttps://www.facebook.com/eric.scalise.1X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/HopeForTheHeartInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopefortheheart/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeForTheHeartLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/hope-for-the-hearthttps://www.linkedin.com/in/eric-scalise-42768743/Radio/Pod: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/explore/shows

In this conversation, Jonathan Tepper shares insights from his memoir 'Shooting Up,' which delves into his experiences growing up as a missionary kid in Spain, the impact of addiction and loss, and the lessons learned from a life dedicated to service and compassion. He discusses the complexities of identity, the importance of love in the face of suffering, and the art of storytelling in memoir writing.https://jonathan-tepper.com/publications/

Do you love someone with autism? That love comes with so many challenges and questions. While we know we should be raising them to know and love God, the script for discipleship of neurodivergent kids is a moving target. Larah Roberts joins Robby and discusses her passion for encouraging families and churches to love their autistic children and teaching them about the love of Christ. Trauma, fear, questions, shame, and all the other things that come with neurodivergence. Larah's Instagram @raisingautisticdisciplesLarah's PodcastLarah's Book

In this convo Robby and Steve explore the distinction between false needs and real needs. They also talk about the neglected relationship with ourselves and the need to seek growth for the sake of the people you lead.Steve's organization, Capable Life, leads intensives of self-reflection and healing. They also consult leaders in faith organizations and the marketplace.Steve's Book: Managing Leadership Anxietyhttps://www.stevecusswords.com/

How do you convince someone that God is real when they don't think the Bible can be trusted? Do you have a good answer for WHY you are a Christian? We talk #apologetics w/ Tim Barnett from Stand to Reason / Red Pen Logic tyo answer such questions.Tim discusses the importance of apologetics in defending the Christian faith, particularly in secular contexts. He emphasizes the need for Christians to engage thoughtfully with challenges to their beliefs, especially in the digital age where misinformation is prevalent. The discussion also delves into the concept of #deconstruction differentiating between healthy and unhealthy forms, and encourages a reforming approach to faith that aligns with scripture. Tim highlights the importance of asking critical questions about truth and offers hope for those struggling with doubts.Stand to ReasonRed Pen LogicThe Deconstruction of Christianity

Does our body matter if we just go to heaven in the end? Do health and fitness effect my evangelism?Robby explores these questions and more with Lainey Greer while discussing her book 'Embodied Holiness: A Biblical Call for Bodily Care.' They look at the intersection of faith and physical health, emphasizing the importance of caring for our bodies as a reflection of our beliefs. Lainey shares insights on the theological implications of body stewardship, the dangers of neo-Gnosticism, and the need for self-control in our physical lives. The conversation highlights the church's silence on body care and the historical perspectives on life preservation, ultimately encouraging listeners to honor God through their physical well-being.https://yourbodymatters.org/

In this conversation, Robby and Haley Scully explore the intersection of faith, counseling, and personal experiences with disappointment and hope. Haley shares her journey with the ministry Hope for the Heart, discussing the importance of addressing real-life issues through a biblical lens. They delve into the challenges of navigating singleness within church culture, the expectations versus reality of life, and the empowerment found in trusting God's goodness. The conversation emphasizes the need for community support and practical resources for those struggling with various life challenges.Hope for the HeartHaley's Scully

This conversation delves into the experiences of transgender individuals, focusing on their personal journeys, struggles with gender dysphoria, and the intersection of faith and identity. The guests share their coming out stories, the challenges faced within church communities, and the importance of understanding and compassion in navigating these complex topics. They emphasize the need for acceptance and the hope that exists within their journeys, encouraging listeners to engage with curiosity and love.Recommended Resources:Posture ShiftEquip your community Emerging Gender Identities

Founder/CEO of Foundation Worldview, Elizabeth Urbanowicz discusses the importance of teaching children to think critically and biblically, especially regarding sensitive topics like sexuality and gender. Her new book is called Helping Your Kids Know God's Good Design: 40 Questions and Answers on Sexuality and Gender. This resource is pragmatic, orthodox, and full of hope and wisdom. Elizabeth shares insights from her work with Foundation Worldview, emphasizing the need for early conversations about these subjects to equip children with a strong understanding of God's design. Robby and Elizabeth explore the role of grace in discussions about sexual faithfulness, the importance of creating a safe space for questions, and the necessity of building a spiritual immune system to navigate today's cultural challenges. Website: https://foundationworldview.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/foundationworldviewInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/foundation_worldview/Threads: https://www.threads.com/@foundation_worldviewPodcast: https://foundationworldview.com/podcast

In Part-2 of this convo, Tim shares the a new approach to church planting that emphasizes community, relationships, and generosity. Tim shares insights from his own experiences and the vision for a church that prioritizes genuine relationships and spiritual growth over traditional metrics of success. Is this just a return to something we lost long ago?Tim's new church PLANT

In Part-1 of the conversation, I get personal with my friend Tim Michael, we explore the emotional journey of leaving a lifelong church amidst a scandal, not being awkward, and seeking God's timing.Tim's new church PLANT

WARNING: this episode will talk about death by suicide and mental health. In this heartfelt, Robby speaks candidly with Dean Sikes; a passionate advocate for eradicating hopelessness among teenagers. Dean shares his journey of speaking at over 4,000 events, spreading a message of hope and purpose. From his personal testimony of overcoming adversity to his mission of addressing teenage suicide, Dean's story is a powerful reminder that every life matters. His new book, You Matter, is the legacy of his ministry which he gives away to hundreds of teens everyday. #Hope #TeenSupport #FaithDean's Website

In this bonus episode I am joined by Dr. Matthew Boedy to discuss his book: The 7 Mountains Mandate: Exposing the Dangerous Plan to Christianize America and Destroy DemocracyMatthew and I delve into the multi-decade plan by a minority of Christian leaders to gain control and influence over key cultural and political institutions in America. Boedy provides his expertise on Turning Point USA and Charlie Kirk and their role in promoting this philosophy. We break down the dangers and risks of this particular branch of Christian Nationalism and its contrariness to the Biblical Gospel. Buckle up!

Do ALL Christians think climate change is a hoax? Should they? What does care for God's creation look like in the age of conspiracy theories and dispensationalism? We GO THERE. Paul McGhie is former Hillsong Bible College trainer, w/ his masters in Biblical Studies, and now works as a Sustainability advisor and consultant in city Infrastructure in Mebourne, Australia. https://biologos.org/ for faith and science resourceshttps://www.katharinehayhoe.com/ and https://billmckibben.substack.com/ for faith friendly voiceshttps://www.bbcearth.com/shows/planet-earth and https://www.abc.net.au/education/digibooks/fight-for-planet-a-our-climate-change-challenge/ for some inspiration and podcasts on climate change https://www.outrageandoptimism.org/

Immigration is complicated, but for Bri Stensrud, it doesn't have to be. Bri discusses the need for compassion and love for immigrants as well as safe secure borders. As the founder of Women of Welcome, Bri engages with women on a regular basis to challenge their immigration assertions and build compassionate communities of understanding. Women of Welcome is a community dedicated to diving into the whole of scripture to understand God’s heart for the immigrant and refugee.Women of Welcome Website

Were you SPANKED for discipline as a child? This conversation is probably for you. Robby and Melissa dive into myths that were and ARE prevalent in Christian evangelicalism related to good parenting. Alongside co-author Kelsey Kramer McGinnis, Marissa wrote The Myth of Good Christian Parenting. This good faith reading of resources and testimonies from the 'Dobson' era provides criticism and reflection that hopefully helps people deconstruct in a healthy way. We don't have to make the same mistakes nor do we have to point fingers and blame others ad abandon our faith altogether. What's a good way forward? Pre-Order BONUSESLink to download of the introduction and first chapter of he Myth of Good Christian Parenting: How false promises betrayed a generation of evangelical families.Find the book on AmazonOrder from Baker for guaranteed release day deliveryBookshop book link Audible linkMarissa Franks Burt (MA in Theological Studies, Columbia International University) is a novelist, editor, teacher, and cohost of the At Home with the Lectionary and In the Church Library podcasts. She lives in a small town in Washington's Snoqualmie Valley with her husband, six children, and heaps of books.Kelsey Kramer McGinnis (PhD, University of Iowa) is a musicologist, educator, and correspondent for Christianity Today, writing on worship practices and Christian subculture. She is an adjunct professor at Grand View University in Des Moines and previously worked at the University of Iowa Center for Human Rights.The book is available for pre-order across platforms:

Amber Albee Swenson shares her journey of faith, the importance of confidence in God, and how media can be a powerful tool for ministry. She discusses her book, 'Key to Confidence,' emphasizing that true confidence comes from understanding our identity in Christ. The discussion also touches on the challenges of greed, the significance of stewardship, and the impact of small acts of kindness in our communities. Amber encourages listeners to embrace their unique callings and to trust in God's plan for their lives.Amber's BookAmber's WebsiteAmber's Podcast

In this conversation, Robby speaks with Natalie Runion, author of 'I Don't Even Like Women,' about the complexities of women's relationships within the church and with each other. Natalie does NOT hold back and calls on women to step up and take ownership of their choices and responses. They explore themes of competition, trauma, and the need for sacred sisterhood, emphasizing the importance of creating safe spaces for women to connect and grow. Natalie shares her personal journey and insights on how women can empower each other and navigate the challenges they face in ministry and beyond. Get the Book HERE In the episode, we mention this book by Beth Allison Barr

Robby and Miles Gloetzner explore the complex and sensitive topic of euthanasia and medical assistance in dying (MAID). They discuss the mission of Inhora Home, a hospice home providing free care and housing to those at the end of their lives, and how faith and compassion drive their work. The conversation delves into the dignity of life, the cultural perspectives on death, and the importance of community support during the dying process. They emphasize the need for compassion and understanding in the face of suffering, and the significance of allowing loved ones to share in the journey of dying.Inhora HomeWounded by Love - St PorphyriosRobby's Patreon

In this conversation, Robby Ortiz explores the complex issue of restoring pastors who have faced moral failures. He discusses the biblical standards for pastoral leadership, the dangers of charismatic leadership, and the need for accountability and humility within the church. Robby emphasizes that restoration should focus on community and personal growth rather than returning to positions of power. He calls for a reevaluation of how the church handles fallen leaders and advocates for a more humble approach to ministry.

In this enlightening conversation, Robby and Dr. William West explore the intricate relationship between faith and science. They discuss how these two realms can complement each other rather than exist in opposition; emphasizing the importance of understanding divine creation through the lens of scientific discovery. Dr. West shares his insights on the Big Bang, evolution, and the nature of consciousness, while also addressing the limitations of science in providing moral guidance. The discussion culminates in a hopeful vision for the future, where science and faith work together to reveal the mysteries of existence.William West, M.D. Buy Sacred Science

In this conversation, Robby and writing coach Laura Burge explore the intersection of neurodivergence and writing. Laura shares her experiences working with neurodivergent writers, discussing the unique challenges they face and the misconceptions surrounding neurodivergence. They delve into the importance of flexibility, curiosity, and compassion in both writing and understanding neurodivergent individuals. The discussion also touches on the evolving publishing industry, the impact of shame, and the need for diverse voices in storytelling.Laura's website

In this conversation, Robby and Bill Henson discuss the mission of Posture Shift, a ministry dedicated to creating safe spaces for LGBTQ+ individuals within the church. They explore the importance of understanding the difference between POSTURE and POSITION in ministry, emphasizing the need for compassion and proximity in engaging marginalized communities. The discussion also addresses the challenges PARENTS face when their children COME OUT, the evolving nature of Posture Shift's curriculum, and the critical issues surrounding homelessness and vulnerability in LGBTQ+ youth. Throughout the conversation, they highlight the necessity of maintaining a loving posture while holding traditional beliefs, and the importance of building trust and understanding within families and faith communities.https://postureshift.com/Guiding Families Resource Guide

In this conversation, Robby and Greg explore the complexities of leadership within the church, discussing the balance between spiritual reliance and effective leadership, the challenges of measuring success, and the emotional journey of leaving a church. They also delve into the importance of leadership development, the shift from growth to fruitfulness, and the unique challenges faced by multi-site churches. Young leaders are highlighted as a source of hope, learning from past mistakes and seeking authenticity in their leadership.https://www.gregbasch.com/

In this conversation, Pastor Nirup Alphonse shares his journey from growing up in a faith-filled family to leading a vibrant church in Denver. He emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility in faith, the role of community in healing CHURCH HURT, and the necessity of embracing suffering as part of the Christian experience. Nirup challenges the consumeristic tendencies in modern church culture and advocates for a consecrated life that reflects Christ's teachings. He expresses hope for the younger generations and their potential to bring revival, while also highlighting the need for humility and accountability in pastoral leadership.Lifegate Church DenverFollow Nirup

In this conversation, Robby and Stephen Presley explore the themes of cultural sanctification, the relationship between church and state, and how Christians can engage with a society that is increasingly secular. They discuss the importance of active citizenship, the role of discipleship in a changing world, and the need for cooperation among different Christian denominations. Stephen emphasizes the significance of hope and the Bible in shaping the church's mission and identity, while also addressing the challenges posed by Christian nationalism and cultural loss.Buy Cultural Sanctification HEREhttps://stephenpresley.com/The Letter to Diognetus#Cultural #Sanctification #ChurchandState #EarlyChurch #ChristianNationalism #Discipleship

In this episode we enter the grayzone and ask about the difference between art created for God's glory versus our own gratification. We break down the artistic process and the act of worship that artistic creation really is. We also explore the confining stereotypes of masculinity in relation to artistic expression and even talk about rites of passage. My guest, Jake Weidmann is a professional artist and certified as one of nine Master Penman in the world. Jake is self-taught in each of his disciplines (calligraphy, painting, drawing, woodworking, and engraving).His new book, Old Soul, New Creation features ten of Jake's creations, along with in-progress photographs and stories of the artistic and spiritual struggle behind each. Thisstunning book is ultimately a story of God's goodness, His faithfulness, and His loving calling--all of which you can experience when you embrace the talentsGod gives you.Old Soul, New Creation Website:         https://www.jakeweidmann.com/                        https://www.artistandmasterpenman.com/Facebook:       https://www.facebook.com/jakeweidmannInstagram:      https://www.instagram.com/jakeweidmannYouTube:        https://www.youtube.com/@JakeWeidmannArtistPodcast:          https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-to-last/id1793476400

In this conversation, Robby and Pieter discuss the significance of Pride Month, the historical context of the church's response to LGBTQ+ individuals, and how Christians can engage compassionately and biblically with the LGBTQ+ community. They explore the complexities of language, identity, and allyship, emphasizing the need for churches to create welcoming spaces for LGBTQ+ individuals while maintaining biblical truths. The Engel ScaleEquip Your Community Pieter's websiteRobby's Website #Pride Month #LGBTQ+ #Christian #allyship #churchhistory #identity #language

TRIGGER WARNING - this episode does discuss abortion and unexpected pregnancy. There are NO graphic details, however out of respect and sensitivity I am flagging the topic for your discretion. A graduate of Princeton University and the Wharton School of Business at the University of Pennsylvania, Roland is an inspirational servant leader with a heart for Christ and a mind for business. After 20 years in the corporate world (with IBM, Pepsi, and Goldman Sachs), Roland spent 11 years as president of National Fatherhood Initiative before joining Care Net in 2012 as president and CEO.Roland's WebsiteHis Latest BookCare NetROLAND & Yvette's Story

In this conversation, Robby and Sally Taylor explore the complexities of faith, suffering, and healing through Sally's personal journey with cancer. They discuss the challenges of maintaining faith during illness, the impact of public life on personal struggles, and the importance of vulnerability in relationships. Sally shares her insights on how suffering can lead to a deeper understanding of God's goodness and the lessons learned through her experiences. The conversation emphasizes the need for honest communication (especially with children) and offers encouragement for those facing difficult health challenges.Sally's Discipleship CourseNewsoul Church#faith #cancer #healing #suffering #discipleship #publiclife #encouragement #marriage #parenting

Don't you wish you could be joyful about life just as much as when you were first saved? You're not alone! We discuss this and many related topics with today's guest.Walter Hill is a bi-vocational pastor who also serves as a Hospice Chaplain. He is musician and songwriter, veteran of the US Navy, and an author. In his book, AMAZED AGAIN he tells stories of his over 25 years of ministry experience navigating the trials and triumphs of faith. Through his thoughtful storytelling, Walter invites readers to rediscover hope, deepen their faith and embrace the abundant life Christ offers.Connect with Walt: walterhill.net Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Amazed-Again-Reclaiming-Christs-Fading/dp/1612063365

In this conversation we hear about the need for pastors to be humble, life-long learners, to talk about taboo issue in church, and the hope we see in the next generation of Jesus seekers. Pastor Mike Novotny has served God’s people in full-time ministry since 2007 as a pastor in Madison and now Appleton, Wisconsin. He also serves as a host and speaker for the Time of Grace television program and contributes to the written resources of Time of Grace Ministry. Pastor Mike is married to Kim and has two daughters.Mike's book: https://www.amazon.com/Taboo-Topics-Christians-Should-Talking/dp/1957616555Hear more from Mike: https://timeofgrace.org/

Pieter L. Valk is the Founder and Director of Equip your Community, a ministry that that trains and helps churches tobecome places where LGBT+ people are embraced and thrive according to historic sexual ethics. He is also a founding member of the Nashville Family of Brothers; a modern monastery of men committed to celibacy and leveraging their singleness for service to the Church and their community. He is also a licensed professional counselor. In this conversation, we talk about his story. We cover the things churches miss out on when they don't empower and elevate singles in church. We also consider the need to present celibacy as an option for people just as much as we present marriage.You can connect Pieter and his work at the following websites: https://www.pieterlvalk.com/https://equipyourcommunity.org/https://www.familyofbrothers.org/#LGBTQ+ #Celibacy #Singleinchurch #monastery #leadership

How do we love without affirming choices we can't Biblically agree with? Robby offers some perspectives.

In this episode, Robby discusses the difference of Salvation and Sanctification and how they effect the way we engage people who are curious about our faith. If we understand that becoming more like Jesus is a life long process, then shouldn't we treat people with compassion and above all patience?

In this episode, Robby explains some of the foundational ideas that will guide conversations of the podcast. What is meant by Grayzone? What is NOT meant by a Grayzone? What Biblical guides can we use to navigate faith and culture conversations in loving ways?

Ever wish your pastor, leader, or friends would just "Go There" when discussing complex, raw topics in culture and faith? In the Grayzone, we GO THERE. Black and white answers are usually lazy and underdeveloped. To get to Truth, we have to put in a lot of work while remaining kind, compassionate, and loving. Is it possible to stay faithful to Biblical Truth and wisdom while also being Christlike and loving? We think think so.