Extra Lagom

Dating in Sweden sounds great in theory. In practice… no one makes a move.In this episode, we get into the weird limbo of modern dating, where everyone is equal, no one wants to lead, and you’re left wondering if this is a date or just two people politely existing near each other.We go from US dating culture, where things are clearer (and yes, sometimes transactional), to Sweden, where it’s all signals, hesitation and going Dutch. Then we zoom out into the bigger picture: safety, race, work culture, and what it actually feels like to build a life here when you’re not from here.

Some of history’s worst people were also… annoyingly charismatic. Sometimes stylish. Occasionally even hot.In this episode we go through a list of dictators, revolutionaries, and political wives whose looks, swagger, or sheer force of personality helped them rise to power. To be clear: these people did some of the worst things in human history. But unfortunately for the rest of us, charisma, aesthetics, and absolute power have always had a weird little relationship.

An unfiltered conversation about the part of female friendship no one posts on Instagram. Groupthink, hierarchy, jealousy, aesthetic currency, and the subtle ways women push each other out.We talk about heartbreak that didn’t come from men, why honesty can cost you, and whether making new friends in your thirties is brave or completely delusional.

An unfiltered conversation about fairness, fragility, and what happens when you move from a culture that says “life isn’t fair” to one that swears it should be. We talk immigration gauntlets, the Swedish “no,” tall poppy syndrome, internet comment spirals, and why some men think their romantic lives need government intervention.

Our unfiltered convo about desire, money, and power. Who gets to stop aging, who doesn’t, and why being rich in the face has become the ultimate status symbol.

We’re Erin and Amaris, two Americans from LA and New York, figuring out life in Stockholm. Different paths, same cultural whiplash.This first episode is our unfiltered introduction. How we got here, who we are now, and what happens when big personalities meet a lagom culture.