Forever in their Hearts

Did you ever walk through a cemetery and wonder about the tombstones? Who designs, creates, and maintains these permanent memorials to honor our departed loved ones? If you make this kind of investment, you should know what to expect at each stage of the process.A headstone is more than someone’s name with the dates of their birth and death. Would you like to know how to add personal touches to a permanent memorial for a loved one lost?If you want to know more about designing permanent memorials, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about headstone options in Vancouver, BC.A permanent memorial is a place where we can go to pay our respects to those who are no longer of this earth. This episode is your chance to learn more about this funeral tradition.Obtaining a Permanent Memorial in a CemeteryThe episode begins with Valerie sharing what steps you need to take to obtain a permanent memorial for a departed loved one after they are placed in a cemetery.Then Valerie explains how a funeral chapel like Martin Brothers can help when it comes to choosing and designing a gravestone to permanently memorialize your loved one lost.This kind of monument is something a family can design together. Did you know some families design headstones and have them put into place while the recipient is still alive?Different Types of Materials and DesignsNext Valerie shares about the different types of materials and designs of permanent memorials. She goes on to answer questions such as:- How does the type of monument affect its future in the cemetery?- Does a headstone have to retain the traditional geometric shape?- What is the most common material used in permanent memorials?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I want a specific design on my headstone? Do I want to choose something besides a traditional headstone shape? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then Martin Brothers can help you start planning today.Maintaining Gravestones after a FuneralThen Valerie explains about the upkeep that a family might consider when designing permanent memorials.She also points out how the weather and climate in Vancouver might affect the amount of maintenance that a headstone in a cemetery will need.If permanent memorials are ignored, then the elements could erode the letters, which means they’ll need to be redone.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing some final thoughts about designing permanent memorials for a deceased loved one who has been placed in a cemetery.Do You Have a Question about Permanent Memorials?Are you aware of the role a permanent memorial plays within the grieving process? Do you want to plan your headstone now while you still have a say in the matter? After you listen to the podcast, share your questions and comments below so we can talk them over together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever attended a funeral that was different than what you’ve come to expect? Will your service incorporate traditions from your family’s culture? Cultural traditions preserve our family history and shape our personal identity, from the day we are born until time for our funeral.Different cultures have different traditions for creating memorial services for their loved ones lost. Are you aware of the various cultural funeral traditions that exist in Vancouver?If you want to know more about cultural funeral traditions, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about the topic based on her first-hand knowledge.Funerals allow us to pay our respects to a loved one who has passed away. This podcast is an opportunity to learn how different cultures memorialize their departed family and friends.When You Aren’t Sure What to Do Next at a FuneralValerie kicks off the episode by addressing what the best thing to do is if you’re attending a funeral service but do not know about the specific traditions.Next Valerie offers a suggestion for those whose beliefs are compromised by a tradition, or are unsure how to respond to funeral rituals that offer an opportunity to participate in a tradition.When attending a funeral, it is important to remember that you are there to pay your respects to the deceased. Can you see how making this a priority can help at this type of service?Interesting Funeral TraditionsThen Valerie talks about some interesting ways that certain religions or cultures conduct funerals. During this episode she addresses questions like:- Do interesting traditions take place within North America?- What are “grave goods” and does this practice happen in Canada?- Are coffins shaped pretty much the same in all parts of the world?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I plan to request cultural funeral traditions? Am I ready to save my family the hassle of trying to guess what I want at my service? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then it’s time to visit Martin Brothers’ website, listed below.Altering Funeral Traditions from Other CulturesNext you’ll hear Valerie share how funeral traditions might be altered if a family decides they wish to add something that is not customary to the memorial service or funeral.Some traditions have remained the same over generations. Valerie offers a suggestion about how to honor these timeworn traditions while incorporating non-traditional aspects.Martin Brothers has a long history of helping families in the Greater Vancouver area plan funerals that respect a family’s wishes and traditions.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing the one thing she wants to drive home to listeners who may feel unsure about attending a service with cultural funeral traditions.What Customs Have You Experienced at Funerals?Have you ever witnessed interesting funeral or memorial traditions? Do you plan to include your culture’s or family’s traditions in your service? Listen to the entire podcast now and then leave your questions and personal experiences below so we can discuss them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever heard of someone requesting no funeral service? Do you ever consider not having a funeral service yourself? When this happens, loved ones face the challenge of honouring the deceased’s final wishes while allowing themselves a time of mourning.After someone passes away who has requested no funeral, their loved ones truly have no say in the matter. Can you see the benefits of discussing funeral planning sooner than later?If you want to know more about when a loved one requests “no funeral service”, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about the topic.Funerals are a healthy part of the mourning process. This interview is a chance to learn about alternatives for celebrations of life that don’t include planning a memorial or funeral service.Why Do Some People Request “No Service”?The episode begins with Valerie explaining why some people request “no service” when it comes time to commemorate their life.Then Valerie goes on to explain the purpose of a funeral service and what happens to the attendees who attend a service at the funeral chapel in Vancouver.It’s only natural that we want to respect the wishes of a departed relative or friend. Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a way to celebrate their life without going against their last requests?Commemorating a Loved One Lost without a ServiceNext Valerie outlines some funeral or memorial service alternatives. She answers questions such as:- Are there ways to announce someone’s death without planning a funeral?- Is it okay for family to gather together to reminisce about our loved one lost?- What other things can we do at the funeral home without having an actual funeral?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I plan to request “no funeral service”? Am I aware of anyone who plans to request their family skip the process? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then you may be interested in hearing Valerie’s thoughts on the topic..How Can a Family Mourn While Respecting a Person’s Wishes?Then Valerie segues to some ways people can meet their own needs to mourn while honoring a departed loved one’s wishes of “no funeral service”.Valerie draws from her experiences of working at the funeral home in Vancouver to offer suggestions for other ways a family can gather without having an actual funeral.The Greater Vancouver area has a myriad of venues that are perfect for a low-key gathering to remember a loved one lost without having to plan a memorial or funeral service.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing her final thoughts on requests for “no funeral service” and reminding that efficiency does not always mean effectiveness.Are You Considering Not Having a Funeral Service?Have you ever thought that “no funeral service” would be easier than going through all the planning? Have you ever considering planning a funeral so your family won’t have to do it? After the podcast, leave your comments and experiences below. Let’s talk through them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever found yourself mourning someone you do not personally know? Does tragedy in the news upset you, as if you’d lost a loved one? When media alerts citizens about a tragedy in the news, many people share the emotions of the people who experienced it firsthand.Although this is a topic we hope we never have to discuss, tragic events can impact people many miles away. Have you ever grieved for strangers who were victims of a tragedy?If you want to know more about coping with tragedy in the news, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services who defines the term and offers suggestions for coping with it.Tragedies we hear about affect us, even if we weren’t there to experience it in person. This podcast is an opportunity to learn how to cope with grief after hearing of a tragedy in the news.Why Do We Grieve for Those We Don’t Know?Valerie kicks things off by explaining the grieving process, and how we become the bereaved after witnessing a tragic event.Next Valerie segues into some generalizations about things we might see in the news that could cause us to feel grief.Because we’re human, it’s natural for us to have compassion for others. How do you cope when you hear of a tragedy that took place somewhere else around the globe?How to Cope about Tragedy in the NewsThen Valerie discusses ways for coping with tragedy in the news. During the podcast she answers questions like:- What are some ways we can grieve with others?- Is it okay to keep our grief private and to ourselves?- Where are some places in Vancouver we can go to grieve?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I need help with coping with tragedy in the news? Have I ever grieved over a stranger? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then please listen to this podcast, as Valerie shares valuable insight into the topic.What Can We Do for Grieving Children?Next Valerie turns to the topic of children affected by events they see in the news.Valerie explains why we’re compelled to tune in and watch the news during a tragic event, and what power we can use to help shield children from some of the details.You’ll also hear suggestions for discussing grief with a child affected by a newsworthy tragedy.The podcast concludes with Valerie sharing some final thoughts about coping with tragedy in the news, including how to recognize if you need more help with the bereavement process.Where Can I Go for Help with My Grief?Are you having trouble coping with tragedy in the news? Do you need to reach out to someone for advice? Listen to the entire podcast now and then share your questions and comments about this type of grief below. We look forward to talking with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever experienced mourning that you couldn’t discuss? Have you ever had someone close to you die, but found that their death wasn’t acknowledged by those around you? Disenfranchised grief is not just about losing someone, as Valerie explains in this episode.Sometimes when you confide in another about your grief, they interject with a personal tale that seems to be an attempt to one-up your experience. Have you ever had this happen?If you want to know more about disenfranchised grief, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services who defines the term and offers suggestions for coping with it.Disenfranchised grief is just as important as any other type of grief. This episode is your chance to learn more about this type of grief and how to deal with it if you experience it.What Is Disenfranchised Grief?The episode begins with Valerie defining the phrase “disenfranchised grief”.Valerie explains what it is in plain terms and offers an example to help you understand how this type of grief differs from traditional forms of mourning over a loved one lost.Disenfranchised grief is perfectly normal and happens quite frequently. Based on Valerie’s definition, have you ever experienced this type of grief?Is It Okay to Grieve for Someone Who Isn’t in My Life Anymore?Next Valerie discusses grieving people who aren’t a part of our daily lives. She also provides the answers to questions such as:- Is it okay to grieve an ex-spouse who isn’t in my life anymore?- What are some benefits of grieving someone who isn’t in my life?- Is there ever a time when it’s wrong to grieve the loss of someone?Now ask yourself these two things: Have I ever grieved the loss of someone who is no longer a part of my daily life? Have I ever avoided grieving someone because I wasn’t sure it was okay? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then this podcast may help.What Can I Tell Friends about Disenfranchised Grief?Then Valerie explains what you can tell the people around you if you think you’ll be met with criticism for grieving someone who left your life, regardless of the circumstances.When there’s someone in your life that you lose, people know that you’re grieving and show support. When you lose someone who isn’t in your daily life, people may react in a different way.Valerie expresses that it’s important to talk to someone when you experience grief of any kind.Wrapping things up, Valerie shares the one thing she wants you to remember about getting resolution for your disenfranchised grief.Do I Want to Know How to Deal with this Kind of Grief?Are you ready to learn more about disenfranchised grief? Could you use help in having your grief validated? After you listen to the podcast, ask your questions and share your experiences in the comments, where we can talk through them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Has anyone ever asked you about making funeral pre-arrangements? Do you ever think about how you’d like to be remembered by your loved ones after you’re gone? There’s more to making pre-arrangements for a memorial or funeral service than choosing songs, flowers, and a casket.Arranging these things in advance can relieve your loved ones of the burden of guessing at how you might have wanted them to remember you. Doesn’t your family deserve this peace of mind?If you want to know more about making funeral pre-arrangements, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services who shares what you need to know to begin.This is not the first time Erik and Valerie have discussed this topic. This episode, however, is your opportunity to learn fresh insight about the advantages of planning funerals in advance.The Most Important Detail of Funeral Pre-ArrangementsValerie kicks things off by explaining the most important decision you need to make when you decide to pre-arrange your funeral or memorial service.During the podcast, she shares a common sentiment that families at the funeral home tell her once they’ve been through the process.Next Valerie details what you need to begin pre-arrangements for a funeral. Is the thing holding you back from making your arrangements the same one that Valerie reveals in this episode?The First Step in Funeral Pre-ArrangementsThen Valerie outlines the funeral pre-arrangement process. During the podcast, she answers frequently asked questions like:- Is it better to call or walk into the funeral chapel to make pre-arrangements?- How much information do I need to begin funeral pre-arrangements?- Are there any special documents that I need for making funeral pre-arrangements?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I want to relieve my family of the burden of arranging my funeral? Am I ready to plan my memorial now? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then you’ll want to visit Martin Brothers’ website where you can start the process.The Advantage of Pre-Paying for Pre-ArrangementsNext Valerie discloses the advantages of pre-paying for a funeral, even if you are very much alive and in good health at the time that you begin planning at the funeral chapel.The next advantage Valerie talks about is paying the balance upfront or making payments, and the benefits of each option, as well as an advantage for Canadian residents who travel.Valerie addresses a situation when some families might be torn between pre-arranging and spending the final, precious moments with a loved one, and the pro’s and con’s of their decision.The episode wraps up with Valerie offering some final thoughts on the topic and a reminder that there’s no obligation to discuss making funeral pre-arrangements at Martin Brothers.Is Making Funeral Pre-Arrangements Right for You?Are you interested in learning more about pre-planning a funeral? Do you have questions about the process? Listen to the episode now and then share your thoughts below. We look forward to discussing them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you ever wish you had a list of resources to help an elderly person deal with loss? Are you feeling helpless because you have an elderly loved one who isn’t thriving in their golden years? Fortunately there are resources, and they are right here in the Greater Vancouver area.It’s important for seniors to have a place to go for practical tips on health and how to thrive after retirement. Can you see why this is an important resource for the entire community?If you want to know more about practical tips to help seniors, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services who shares how to help the elderly thrive.In the last episode of the podcast, Valerie shared tips to help seniors deal with loss. This episode is your opportunity to hear more and learn how to help them thrive in their golden years.Where to Find Resources for SeniorsThe episode begins with Valerie sharing resources for families and friends who want to help seniors deal with loss and thrive in the golden age of their retirement.Then Valerie goes on to point out the one free resource every neighborhood in Vancouver has for seniors. She also shares resources for seniors who may have mobility issues.The support from a community can be as imperative to an elderly person as help from their biological family. Can you see how the resource Valerie mentions would help connect people?Some Losses Hit Harder than OthersNext Valerie explains what loss hits the hardest for seniors. She goes on to answer frequently asked questions about practical tips to help seniors such as:- Why are losses so hard on our elderly loved ones?- What goes through a senior’s mind when a peer passes away?- How do compounded losses affect grief for seniors?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I want to help a senior adult thrive in the community? Am I an older person facing the loss of my peers? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then you’ll want to check out the resources Valerie mentions in this podcast.Slow vs Significant Changes in a Senior’s LifeThen Valerie segues to the topic of action steps to make changes in the life of an elderly person, especially after a spouse dies and they are the only person left living in a home.Some decisions will require quick, significant changes but, as Valerie cautions, other changes should come about slowly because they require more thought and family-wide discussion.Valerie draws on her experiences working in the funeral chapel in Vancouver to offer sage advice based on actual conversations on the topics discussed in this episode of the podcast.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing the most common resource you can reach out to if you need practical tips to help seniors.Are You Ready to Take Action Steps?Do you need practical tips to help seniors in your family or neighborhood? Are you a senior member of the community in need of resources? After you listen to the podcast, please leave your questions and requests below so we can talk through them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Does a loved one’s passing make you more aware of the time you have left? Can you imagine how distressing this is for an elderly person? The word “retirement” brings to mind images of travel and golfing for many, but the “golden years” come with a definite downside.Loss can come in multiple forms as we grow older. We can lose our peers, our good health, and the ability to keep up with basic, day-to-day tasks. Isn’t the thought alone distressing enough?If you want to know more about helping seniors deal with loss, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services who offers advice on the topic.Senior family members and friends need to find a new normal that respects loss if they’re going to live life to the fullest. This interview is a chance to learn how to help them achieve it.Helping Seniors Adapt to Their “New Normal”Valerie kicks off the episode by sharing how to help seniors who experience multi-dimensional loss, such as the loss of health, loss of job, loss of peers to death, and so forth.Next Valerie goes on to offer specific suggestions for how to be present for a senior family member or other loved one with respects to the other responsibilities we have in our lives.Multi-dimensional loss can affect a person’s mental health, as well. Can you see why helping seniors deal with loss is so important to our families and communities?Multiple Losses and a Dwindling Social NetworkThen you’ll hear Valerie discuss the impact of losing multiple peers on the social network of an elderly person. During the podcast she provides answers for questions such as:- How can we make the elderly feel like a valued part of society?- What can we do to help someone adapt to their new lifestyle?- Do I have to make a grand gesture or can I do something small?Now ask yourself these two things: Is there an elderly person in my life? Am I a senior adult in need of ways to adjust to my “new normal”? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then Valerie’s advice may assist with helping seniors deal with loss.Seniors and the Risk of DepressionNext Valerie touches on the topic of senior adults and depression. She explains why depression, which isn’t limited to the Greater Vancouver area by far, affects so many elderly people.Valerie goes on to explain what signs to look for based on her experiences in working at the funeral chapel. These signs could be part of aging, but they could be a distress call for help.The signs of depressions in elderly adults, as Valerie explains, could exhibit themselves as mental symptoms, physical symptoms, or both mental and physical symptoms.Valerie wraps things up by reminding that these signs are not like normal grief, and outlines how the two differ.Are You Helping Seniors Deal with Loss?Is there an elderly person in your life who has trouble coping with loss? Are you an older person who battles depression while coping with the changes life brings? Listen to the podcast now and then share your questions and comments below where we can discuss them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you ever wonder what family history gets lost when a person passes away? Wouldn’t it be nice to have a way to keep a record of those memories? There are tasteful, heartfelt ways to incorporate these things in funeral and memorial services.Technology makes it easier than ever to record a family’s legacy. Can you see how this information might add a unique, personal touch to the celebration of someone’s life?If you want to know more about using family records in funeral services, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about incorporating the information.All too often, we only see extended family members at major life events, like funerals. This episode is a chance to learn how to use family records to make the service more meaningful.The Importance of Keeping Family RecordsThe episode kicks off with Valerie explaining why it’s important to keep records about a family’s history.Then Valerie goes on to discuss how geographic location can make a difference, not only in gathering your family’s history but also celebrating the life of a loved one lost.Going to the cemetery can give a good idea of a family’s history. Can you imagine how difficult it is to maintain that tradition with families spread to all the corners of a globe?How to Research and Maintain Family RecordsNext Valerie lists some of the ways a family can research and maintain a record of their history. Some of the questions she answers include:- How can the internet help me record my family’s ancestral history?- How can I make a record of a family member who shares their memories?- How can local agencies help me compile records about my family?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I want a way to reconnect with my family before it’s too late? Is family history something I want to pre-plan into my own funeral wishes? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then contact Martin Brothers for assistance.Using Family Records in Funeral ServicesThen Valerie uses her industry knowledge to explain how someone might incorporate family memories into their funeral or memorial service at the funeral chapel or in another venue.Valerie also shares some practical ways to create heartfelt displays that families can use to share their historic records without risking damage to the original documents.These types of displays are not only a wonderful way to connect with family members, but they also make a touching keepsake long after the memorial or funeral service concludes.The episode concludes with Valerie disclosing her final thoughts about using family records in funeral services.Could You Use More Information to Share with Your Loved Ones?Are historic records important to your family? Do you want more information about sharing them with others via a display during a funeral or memorial service? After you listen to the episode, share your comments, questions, and keepsake ideas below. We can’t wait to hear from you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever thought about life from a caregiver’s point of view? Have you or someone you know felt overwhelmed with the emotional and physical exhaustion of caring for another? Caregivers often put their own needs aside to be there for a dying person.Caregivers are essential when someone needs at-home care. Are you aware of what signs to look for if a caregiver starts to feel fatigued from putting someone else’s needs above their own?If you want to know more about meeting the needs of the caregiver, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about caregiver fatigue.Caregivers play such an important role to an ailing loved one. This interview is an opportunity to learn how to meet a caregiver’s needs so they don’t become overwhelmed.Acknowledging Caregiver FatigueValerie begins the episode by addressing something we all need to acknowledge, which is when caregivers give so much to the people they’re caring for that they neglect their own needs.Next Valerie points out why it’s imperative that we recognize caregiver fatigue.Caregivers are not only essential to a single person or family, but also to our society. When we take care of the caregivers, they are better able to take care of us when the time comes.Symptoms of Caregiver FatigueThen Valerie reviews some of the symptoms of caregiver fatigue. During the podcast she also provides answers related questions such as:- Who is most likely to suffer from caregiver fatigue?- What are common symptoms of fatigue in caregivers?- How can I help if I see these signs in a caregiver?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I know someone who may be suffering from caregiver fatigue? Could I be responsible for someone’s care at the end of their life?If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then you should know that Martin Brothers can assist you during this poignant time.How the Funeral Home Can Assist a CaregiverNext Valerie discusses some of the ways that a funeral home can help meet the needs of caregivers in their community.Valerie goes on to offer some specific ways that Martin Brothers can help caregivers in the Greater Vancouver area.There are two important things Valerie points out that must be done before the funeral arrangements can begin. She explains them during this podcast.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing her final thoughts about meeting the needs of the caregiver when they are at risk for suffering from caregiver fatigue.Do You Know a Caregiver Who Needs Help?Have you stepped into a caregiver role? Are you aware of what signs to look for when a caregiver might feel overwhelmed? Listen to the entire podcast now and then share your questions, comments, and personal experiences below so we can discuss them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633

Do you know about some alternatives to traditional burial or interment services in Vancouver? Would your family prefer a unique way to scatter a loved one’s ashes? Scattering ashes at sea is a popular way to celebrate the life of a loved one lost.Summer is the perfect time for this type of funeral or memorial service. Can you imagine celebrating a loved one within the tranquil ambiance of being out on the water?If you want to know more about scattering ashes at sea services, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about this very unique service in Vancouver, BC.Scattering a person’s ashes is just as personal as attending a graveside service. This episode of the podcast is your chance to learn a unique way to scatter ashes while honoring your loved one.A Unique Service for a Lasting MemoryThe episode kicks off with Valerie walking us through what happens at a scattering at sea service, which takes place on a beautiful yacht.Then Valerie details what traditional funeral elements a family may choose to incorporate into this unique way of scattering a loved one’s remains.Scattering ashes at sea services are just as customizable as a service held at the funeral chapel, a church, or any other venue on land.Planning to Scatter Ashes at SeaNext Valerie gives an overview about decisions a family needs to make for scattering ashes at sea services. She also answers questions like:- What traditional elements can my family include in a memorial at sea?- Do I have to schedule the service at sea immediately after cremation?- Who can I invite to a memorial for scattering a loved one’s ashes at sea?- Is there a way to come back to revisit the site at some future time?- Can my family scatter more than one person’s ashes in the same service?Now ask yourself these two things: Would I want scattering ashes at sea services as part of my final wishes? Would this type of service suit someone in my family? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then use the information below to start the pre-planning process.Observations from Families Who Scattered Ashes at SeaThen Valerie shares feedback from families who chose scattering ashes at sea services with Martin Brothers. The unique nature of the service is not lost on them by far.As the only funeral home offering this type of service in Vancouver, Martin Brothers feels strongly about giving families meaningful tributes to their loved ones lost.Valerie explains that Martin Brothers offers more information including a video at the funeral home for families who need more information.The episode concludes with Valerie reminding that the funeral home has a few remaining spots for the Summer 2017 scattering ashes at sea services calendar.Are You Interested in a Service at Sea?Would a service at sea be the perfect tribute to your loved one lost? Do you want to include this in your funeral pre-arrangements? After the podcast, use the space below to share your questions and comments or to inquire about scheduling a service. We look forward to talking with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you talked to your family about your funeral or memorial wishes? Would you like to save them the added burden of trying to guess at how you might have wanted them to celebrate your life after you’re gone? Pre-planning and pre-arranging funeral services offer many benefits. However, the two terms are not interchangeable. Do you know what each means and if it’s necessary to always do them both at the same time? If you want to know more about pre-planning versus pre-arranging funerals, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about this necessary topic. Talking about funeral plans and arrangements can be an upsetting topic for our loved ones. This interview is your opportunity to learn ways to discuss the topic of making final wishes known. Pre-Planning Versus Pre-Arranging Funerals Valerie begins the episode by explaining the difference between pre-planning versus pre-arranging funerals or memorials. Next Valerie shares whether or not the two things have to done at the same time. You’ll hear Valerie use the same phrases and terms in this episode that she uses with families who come into the funeral chapel in Vancouver. Talking to Loved One about Funeral Wishes Then Valerie acknowledges that pre-planning versus pre-arranging funerals is not an easy topic to bring up to your loved ones. During the interview she answers questions like: - When should I talk to my elderly parents about funeral pre-arrangements?- What are some good conversation starters about pre-planning funerals?- How can I bring up the topic of my final wishes to my adult children? Now ask yourself these two things: Could I use more information about pre-arranging a funeral? Do I need help talking with my family about funeral pre-planning? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then use the information below to reach out to Martin Brothers. Valerie can offer publications to help you in this situation as well. Healthy Communication with Families about Funerals Next Valerie points out that not everyone in your family will want to talk about anyone’s final wishes. She offers advice for how to ease into the topic without causing hurt feelings. Gathering information beforehand can be a huge help when it comes time to write an obituary or eulogy that is worthy of celebrating the life of your loved one lost. Valerie goes on to explain what someone should do with the information they gather from a loved one about their funeral wishes and how a complimentary service from Martin Brothers might help. The episode concludes with Valerie sharing some final thoughts about pre-planning versus pre-arranging funerals. Are You Ready to Begin Talking about Your Final Wishes? Do you want more information about the difference between pre-planning versus pre-arranging funerals? Are you ready to share your final wishes? Listen to the whole episode now and then leave your comments and questions below where we can talk with you about them. Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever seen a child attend a funeral or memorial service? Do you know a child who has suffered the loss of a beloved friend or family member? Children do not grieve in the same way that adults mourn the passing of someone they care about. Talking about young children and death is important because life offers no guarantees. Can you imagine what goes through a young child’s mind when they grieve? If you want to know more about young children and death, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about young children and how they grieve. As with adults, no two children will grieve in the same way. This interview is a chance to learn resources and methods to help a child experience grief in a healthy manner. Do Young Children Really Grieve? The episode begins with Valerie pointing out that although the outward signs may differ, a child’s grief is every bit as real as an adult who is in mourning. Then Valerie segues into an explanation about how children learn and how parents can use this knowledge to help their child make healthy progress through the various stages of grief. During the podcast, Valerie draws on her experiences from working in the funeral home to better illustrate the topic of young children and death. Preparing a Child for an Impending Loss Next Valerie discusses how to explain a loved one’s impending death to a child. During the podcast she addresses the following questions: - How much should I tell my child about a loved one’s health?- What can I tell my child so they know this is not their fault?- Is it necessary to answer questions a child asks repeatedly? Now ask yourself these two things: Do I want to know more about young children and death? Could I benefit from advice about how to talk to a grieving child? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then be sure to share your comments below. Signs of Healthy Grief in Young Children Then Valerie shares signs to look for to gauge a child’s well-being during their time of mourning. When it comes to young children and death, they go through the stages of grief differently than adults. It’s important that adults to know what to look for in case a child’s actions are a cry for help. Valerie points out that parents know their child the best. She also shares one thing parents can do to gauge if their grieving child is okay. The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing her final thoughts for people who interact with young children who may be grieving a loss. Could You Use Advice about Young Children and Death? Is there a child in your life who has questions about death? Do you want to know more about how children grieve? Listen to the entire podcast now and then leave your questions, concerns, and personal experiences in the comments where we can discuss them together. Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office. Martin Brothers Funeral Services Vancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1 Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1 

Do you have an emotional support system during times of grief? Have you ever wondered about how someone would manage grieving alone? Maybe there was a time when you mourned someone and either had no one there or felt like nobody understood your situation. Working through the five stages of grief is challenging enough with an emotional support system in place. Can you imagine how much more complicated it is to experience the stages on one’s own? If you want to know more about grieving alone, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who offers grief resources and advice to help. No one has to be isolated with their grief. This interview is your opportunity to learn where you can turn if you ever find yourself in this situation. The Complications from Grieving Alone Valerie kicks off the podcast by explaining what it means to grieve alone and why some people may try to shut others out during their time of mourning. Next Valerie talks through some situations one may face after losing a beloved friend or family member. She explains how isolating your grief may complicate these instances. Also during the podcast, Valerie reveals the biggest complication that can happen if you try to shut others out while in mourning. Help for When You Have to Grieve Alone Then Valerie makes some suggestions for those who grieve alone - which she states is not always a bad thing. During this episode she provides answers to questions such as: - When and for how long is it okay for me to grieve?- How can I privately express my grief in a healthy way?- Is it okay to share a private memory project with others? Now ask yourself these two things: Am I mourning a loved one lost? Do I feel alone with my grief? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then you may benefit from the resources Valerie shares in this episode of the podcast. Resources for Solitary Mourners Next Valerie offers advice about resources for people who grieve alone - especially if they find they want or need an outlet during this sensitive time. The funeral home is a wonderful resource for everyone in the community, even if you did not attend the funeral or your loved one’s memorial service was held at a different venue. Valerie goes on to suggest other grief resources who you might contact in Vancouver and the surrounding area. The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing her final thoughts and advice for anyone who finds themselves grieving alone. Could You Use Advice for Grieving Alone? Do you need grief resources for yourself or someone you know? Have you ever felt isolated in your grief? After listening to the podcast, leave a note in the comments so we can talk with you. You can also contact Martin Brothers in Vancouver directly via the information below. Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office. Martin Brothers Funeral Services Vancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1 Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you ever wonder why people have funeral services? Who benefits when we pay our respects to a loved one lost? Understanding the reasons for memorializing someone can make it less stressful when it comes time to attend a service at the funeral home, church, or another venue.Sometimes details like religious preference or a family’s traditions can get in the way of the funeral planning process. Have you ever been to a funeral made stressful by bickering family members?If you want to know more about reasons why people have funeral services, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services who offers some insight.Regardless of the demographics, people around the world have customs for celebrating a departed loved one’s life. This interview is a chance to learn more about reasons why.Why Do People Have Funeral Services?The episode kicks off with Valerie sharing why families have funeral services after someone they love passes away.Then Valerie explains the reciprocal purpose of a funeral and how it benefits both the loved ones of the deceased and their community.Valerie draws on personal experience as she discusses the topic of this episode of the podcast.What if the Family Is not Religious?Next Valerie stresses that although family tradition is important, it does not have to be an imperative part of planning a funeral service. She also addresses questions like:- What do family members think a funeral should look like?- Are mourners required to follow a certain dress code?- Does the casket have to be open during a memorial service?Now ask yourself these two things: Are you curious about why funerals take place? Do you want to save your family the stress of guessing about your final wishes when your time comes?If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then use the link below to visit Martin Brothers’ website and begin the process of pre-arranging a service in the Greater Vancouver area.The Deceased and Their Funeral or Memorial ServiceThen Valerie discusses ways to respect the deceased’s final wishes while helping their loved ones gain some kind of closure at the service.Some families make one decision while planning and then change their mind when it comes time to hold the funeral.Valerie goes on to share advice for handling the situation of a person who dies but requested or said they didn’t want a service or memorial at the funeral home.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing her final thoughts about why people have funeral services.Do You Have Questions about Honoring a Loved One Lost?Has anyone in your life told you that they don’t want a funeral service? Have you put off pre-planning because you’re afraid your funeral won’t go as you planned? Listen to the entire podcast now and then ask your questions below so we can discuss them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever wondered about the cremation process? When does cremation take place in relation to the death of a loved one lost? It’s important to understand what choices your family has when making arrangements at the funeral chapel.Not knowing what might happen to your loved one after they die can be as heartbreaking as their passing. Can you see where having your questions answered may provide a little closure?If you want to know more about cremation, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about the answers to questions on the topic.The cremation process is a mystery to many outside the funeral home industry. This interview is an opportunity for an inside look from an experienced Vancouver, BC funeral director.The Process of Cremating Human RemainsValerie kicks off the episode by explaining what cremation is and a bit about its history.Next Valerie explains how the cremation process works in North America. It is a bit more involved than you might expect.During the podcast Valerie also gives a quick walk through of what happens during cremation.The Cremation Timeline Following a DeathThen Valerie discusses the timeline for cremation in relation to when a person passes away. During the podcast she answers questions about cremation such as:- What is the law regarding cremation after someone’s death?- Is there a benefit to waiting to cremate a loved one lost?- When is the soonest someone can be cremated after they pass?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I have questions about cremation? Am I interested in adding cremation to my funeral pre-planning wishes?If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then use the link below to visit Martin Brothers’ website and begin the process of pre-arranging a funeral or memorial as well as finding answers to your questions about cremation.The Funeral Service and the Cremation ProcessNext Valerie explains the process of a traditional service followed by a cremation. She also offers a multitude of options to subdue common misconceptions.Martin Brothers in Vancouver, BC has a long history of assisting families with funeral planning after losing a loved one, from an expectation of or sudden death to after care services.When you choose cremation, it’s natural that you might have questions. Fortunately, Valerie and the rest of the staff at the funeral parlor can help put your mind at ease.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing her final thoughts on the cremation process.Do You Have Questions about Cremation?Are you planning your funeral arrangements in advance? Do you have general questions about the cremation process? After you listen to the podcast, share them in the comments below, where we can discuss the answers with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

How can we make the best of the time we have with a loved one who will be passing soon? What can we do to prepare to lose someone who is near and dear to our heart? Knowing what to expect in this situation can be a weight off your shoulders when you’re facing a loved one’s death.When you’re at the bedside of a family member or close friend who is dying, it can be difficult to know what to do. Is this something you’ll have to face with an elderly or very ill loved one?If you want to know more about preparing for the death of a loved one, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds interviews Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about this topic.A loved one’s passing is such a tragic event. This interview is your chance to learn how to prepare when your loved one is expected to pass away soon.How to Begin to Prepare to Lose a Loved OneThis episode kicks off with Valerie discussing the different ways that you might prepare for the loss of a loved one who is expected to pass away soon.Then Valerie defines the term “anticipatory grief”. She goes on to explain why anticipatory grief is an important part of the overall grieving process.During the podcast you’ll hear Valerie share condolences she might use when talking with families who use Martin Brothers services at their funeral chapel in Vancouver.When to Contact the Funeral HomeNext Valerie answers whether or not it is necessary for you to contact the funeral home before a loved one dies. She goes on to answer related questions like:- When is the best time to contact the funeral home to prepare for a loss?- Are there any benefits to contacting the funeral home before someone dies?- What information does the funeral home need during the initial contact?Now ask yourself these two things: Is someone close to me expected to pass away in the near future? Do I want to know more about planning a funeral before someone dies?If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then use the link below to visit Martin Brothers’ website and begin the process of pre-arranging a funeral or memorial service in Vancouver.What Can I Expect When a Loved One Passes?Valerie segues into walking us through what we can expect to happen if we are present at the time that a loved one dies.Then Valerie compares and contrasts between a home death and someone dying in either a nursing home or a hospital.You may be surprised at how much flexibility you have when it comes time to let funeral home staff take a deceased family member from the place of death to the funeral parlor.Valerie wraps things up by sharing her final thoughts on preparing for the death of a loved one including a reminder that grief is an individual thing.Do You Need to Prepare for a Loved One’s Passing?Is someone close to you facing a health crisis that will result in death? Could you or your family benefit from information about preparing for the death of a loved one? Listen to the podcast now and then share your questions and concerns below where we can discuss them.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Did you ever wonder how your family would celebrate your life after you’ve passed away? Have you ever wished you could make your own arrangements to save them the heartache? You may be surprised at all the benefits of pre-arranging funeral arrangements for the living.When people pass away without making their final wishes known, the chore falls upon their loved ones to make those choices. Is this a burden you want to put on your family and close friends?If you want to know more about pre-arranging funeral arrangements, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds interviews Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about the advantages of early funeral planning.Pre-arranging funeral arrangements brings up a lot of frequently asked questions. This is your opportunity to hear the answers from an industry leader.When Do I Pay for a Pre-Arranged Funeral?The episode begins with Valerie addressing when the balance of payment comes due if you do go through the process of pre-arranging your own funeral at Martin Brothers in Vancouver, BC.Next you’ll hear Valerie explain how you might pay for your pre-arranged funeral over various lengths of time. The longest time period she mentions in this episode may surprise you.There is always the chance someone may pass away before paying in full for pre-arranged services at the funeral chapel. This podcast also reviews some options for families in that situation.Why Should I Pre-Arrange My Own Funeral?Then Valerie discusses the many reasons you might choose to pre-arrange a funeral service for either yourself or a loved one. She also provides answers to questions such as:- What could go wrong with leaving my final wishes up to my family?- Who is responsible for paying for my funeral if I do not plan ahead of time?- How can I make sure my final wishes are respected by my family?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I want to save my family the stress of planning my funeral? Am I ready to start pre-arranging funeral arrangements so my final wishes are honored?If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then use the link below to visit Martin Brothers’ website and begin the process of pre-arranging a funeral or memorial service in Vancouver.Do I Have to Pre-Arrange Every Last Detail?Next Valerie addresses how to balance pre-arranging a funeral and letting your family input their wishes for a celebration of your life after your passing.Pre-arranging certain elements can help your family save money while giving them the freedom and the honor of helping make some important decisions during this delicate time.When you arrange your final wishes, it doesn’t have to take anything away from the loved ones you leave behind. In fact, it may do just the opposite.Valerie wraps up the episode by sharing her final thoughts on advanced funeral planning.Are You Ready to Make Funeral Decisions?Do you want to know more about the funeral pre-arrangement process? Do you have a question that wasn’t asked in the podcast? After you listen to the episode, use the comments to relay your thoughts so we can discuss them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever wondered about what goes on behind the scenes of a funeral home? Do you ever wonder what funeral practices are like from the point of view of an employee? This special insight can help us overcome fear of the unknown when it comes to attending funeral services.Embalming helps sanitize and preserve a loved one lost to help the family under certain conditions. Have you ever wondered about the embalming process and its benefits?If you want to know more about a funeral service from an embalmer’s perspective, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds discusses the topic with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services in Vancouver.Law, religion, and the health of the person prior to their death all make a difference in the practice of embalming. This podcast is your chance to learn more about why embalming takes place and if it is a requirement at Vancouver funeral homes like Martin Brothers.What Is Embalming?Valerie kicks off the episode by explaining what embalming is from her perspective as an embalmer at Martin Brothers in Vancouver.Then Valerie offers us a behind-the-scenes look at the embalming practices at a funeral home. She draws from past experiences to offer insightful examples that back up the information.There are many reasons why a family might choose or need embalming services for their loved one lost. You’ll hear several of the reasons during this podcast.Is Embalming an Absolute?Next Valerie discusses if embalming is a necessary requirement before the funeral or memorial service for a loved one lost. During this episode you’ll hear answers to questions like:- How long can a family wait before making a decision about embalming?- In what case would a body absolutely need to be embalmed before a service?- Does the type of service influence the decision whether to embalm or not?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I want to save my family the stress of making these decisions? Am I interested in learning more about whether embalming is necessary? If you answered “Yes” to either or both of these questions, then Martin Brothers can offer advice.What Is the Value in Viewing the Deceased?Valerie then segues into the topic of why people hold a viewing and the value of having the deceased present during a funeral or memorial service at the funeral chapel in Vancouver..Then Valerie goes on to discuss how a viewing at the service might benefit family members who saw their loved one lost go downhill toward the end of their life.When one person is making the funeral planning decisions for a deceased family member, Valerie suggests talking to the rest of the family before making final decisions about things like viewings.Wrapping up the episode, Valerie reveals her final thoughts on funerals from an embalmer’s perspective.Are You Ready to Make Funeral Decisions?Do you have questions about the embalming process? Are you ready to tackle funeral pre-planning now to save your family the stress of making those decisions later? Share your comments, personal experiences, and questions below so we can talk them over with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Are you aware of the grief caregivers feel after a loss? Do you know how to recognize unresolved grief in yourself as a caregiver for someone with a health issue? Caregivers have unique emotional needs, especially when mourning the loss of a patient. Today we will discuss caregiver grief in terminal illness and bereavement.Caregivers have compassionate hearts. Can you imagine the grief they feel after spending time taking care of a long term patient?If you want to know more about grief and loss when you are a caregiver, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds interviews Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, about caregivers and mourning.Many families may not consider the needs of the caregiver who has been closed to a loved one with a long term illness. This episode is an opportunity to learn not only how caregivers experience grief, but also tips to help them mourn in healthy ways.Coping Tools for Grieving CaregiversThe episode kicks off with Valerie acknowledging caregiver grief. At the time of loss, caregiver grief in terminal illness and bereavement is very real and you need to understand they are greiving as well. It’s a very real type of mourning that people experience after losing someone who was in their care.Next the conversation segues to coping tools that caregivers can use to help deal with the grief they feel after someone who was in their care passes away.Even though caregivers often aren’t related to the person they’re looking after, they still experience grief. Fortunately there are things they can do to respectfully mourn a loss.Reinvesting Their Compassion for New ClientsThen Valerie explains how a caregiver can release feelings of grief and reinvest them into compassion for their subsequent patients. She also answer questions such as:- What protects caregivers from getting hurt from so much loss?- Is there anything a caregiver can do to diminish their grief?- Are caregivers limited to caring for long-term patients or clients?Now ask yourself these two things: Am I a caregiver trying to move through grief? Do I want to know more about grief and loss when you are a caregiver? If you are or know of a caregiver who needs help moving through the stages of grief and mourning, then a call to Martin Brothers may be in order.The Risk of Burnout from Unresolved GriefNext Valerie turns to the topic of how a caregiver can recognize if they are experiencing burnout due to unresolved grief.Valerie uses knowledge from working at the funeral chapel in Vancouver to offer concrete signs to look for when trying to determine burnout from unresolved grief. A caregiver sometimes might recognize these signs in themselves.There are similar ways to overcome grief, Valerie reminds listeners, regardless if you are a caregiver or a family member or close friend of the deceased.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing some final thoughts on the topic including ways to interact with others that might help with grief and loss when you are a caregiver.Are You Ready to Recognize Grief in the Caregivers?Do you have a caregiver who is close to your health challenged family member? Are you a caregiver who needs to learn more about self-care to help overcome grief? Listen to the podcast and then share your thoughts below. We look forward to discussing them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever been intrigued at how people with different personalities express their grief? How do caretakers take care of themselves after a loved one with a health crisis passes away? Grief is something that can be as personal and unique as our own DNA.Sometimes, after a family member dies, other loved ones cause relational duress. How are you supposed to settle stressful situations as you work through your own grief?If you want to know more about grief support for different personality types, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds discusses the topic with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services.A person’s unique personality type affects so much of their life - including grief. This interview is a chance to learn how to respect and support others as they work through unique ways of grieving.Understanding the Grieving Styles of OthersValerie kicks off the episode by addressing how to understand the grieving styles of others when it seems like each person needs a different type of support.Then Valerie harkens to her professional experiences working in a funeral home in Vancouver to share examples of different family dynamics to illustrate potential situations which might happen during any stage of the memorial or funeral service.Each person grieves differently, even for the same loss. During this episode you’ll learn what you should keep in mind about what people display when they are grieving a loved one lost.Tips for Dealing with Relational DuressNext Valerie switches gears and offers practical advice for dealing with family-related stress after a death in the family, which may even happen at the funeral chapel. You’ll hear answers to questions like:- What do people really need when they cause upsetting situations?- How long will someone’s grief last after losing a family member?- What is something families can do to help heal this type of grief?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I want to know more about grief support for different personality types? Could I use knowledge about self-care for surviving spouses after caring for someone in a health crisis?If you answered “yes” to either or both of these questions, then listen to the podcast. If you have other questions, then please ask them in the comments area below or call Martin Brothers to speak with someone.Help for Surviving SpousesThen Valerie segues to the topic of self-care surviving spouses. Sometimes after nurturing someone with a health crisis, grief can take over the basic needs of loved ones in mourning.Valerie offers a solution that, she admits, sounds easier than it really is. She shares the immediate emotions we have to work through during the stages of grief as well as what comes later.The spouse left behind may feel like they’re on an emotional roller coaster. This is normal during the transition between caring for someone else and reinvesting in their own existence.The interview concludes with Valerie sharing her final thoughts about some benefits of moving through grief in your own way to keep close the love and memories of the person you’ve lost.What’s Your Unique Way to Grieve?How do you express grief? Do you want to know more about how to help people work through their grief based on their individual personality? Share your questions and experiences about grief support for different personality types in the comments below.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

What happens to all those flowers you receive at the funeral? What are some ways your family can acknowledge those who were extra kind as you mourned your loved one lost? Funerals aren’t an everyday occurrence, so it can be difficult to know what to do afterward.There are so many people who reach out to us after the loss of a loved one. How do we tell them how much that means to us as we naturally work through the various stages of grief?If you want to know more about post funeral etiquette, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who answers questions on this topic.Knowing what to do after a funeral can be as stressful as making arrangements at the funeral chapel. This episode is an opportunity to have your questions answered by an industry leader.What to Do with Flowers after a Funeral ServiceThe episode begins with Valerie explaining some options for what to do with an abundance of flowers received for a funeral or memorial once the service is over.In addition to options for services held at the funeral chapel, Valerie also offers suggestions for when the funeral is held at a different venue in the Vancouver area.Flowers and live plants are a nice gesture. When many remain after a memorial service or funeral, the funeral home director can suggest how to handle the abundance of blossoms.Who Gets a Thank-You Card after the Funeral?Then Valerie segues to the topic of post-funeral correspondence. She answers questions such as:- When is it okay to not write a thank you card after a funeral?- Is there a deadline for sending post-funeral correspondence?- Do I have to write out every thank-you note that I plan to send?Now ask yourself these two things: Is my assumption of what’s expected of me after a funeral overwhelming? Could I use reassurance about proper post funeral etiquette?If you answered “yes” to either or both of these questions, then the information in this episode of the podcast may help ease your mind after celebrating the life of a departed loved one.Additional Tips for Sending AcknowledgementsNext Valerie continues with the topic of acknowledgements, addressing some appropriate alternates to handwritten thank you notes that you might use - including tips for using social media.Valerie uses experiences from working in the funeral home industry to offer conversation starters you can use when reaching out to express gratitude after a funeral.Some people are unable to attend the service, for whatever reason. Valerie reveals a sentimental touch you can share with people in this situation after a funeral service.The episode wraps up with Valerie reminding that this shouldn’t be a stressful situation, and she offers some final tips on the matter.Do You Want to Learn More about Post Funeral Etiquette?Are you ready to hear all of Valerie’s advice about etiquette that extends beyond the funeral service? Do you have questions that may not be answered in this episode? Leave your thoughts and personal experiences below. We look forward to discussing them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

When someone dies, do you find yourself at a loss for words? Are you unsure how to express condolences without sounding awkward or feeling inadequate? Knowing basic decorum for sending condolences before the need arises can help prevent emotional discomfort.Good condolence manners can include the way you reach out, what you say, and when you deliver the message. Could you use a refresher on this aspect of funeral etiquette?If you want to know more about how to express your condolences, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who shares suggestions and tips.Two common reasons why people fail to send condolences is not knowing what to say or how to say it. This discussion is your chance to learn how to express sincere condolences after someone dies.When Is the Right Time to Send a Condolence?Valerie starts things off with suggestions about the appropriate time to send a condolence card to someone who has had a loss.Then Valerie addresses the situation of bringing a personal condolence card to the funeral chapel based on her experiences working at Martin Brothers in Vancouver.A personal condolence offers other benefits to a grieving family besides a name signed in a guestbook on the day of the memorial or funeral service.Is It Ever Too Late to Send a Condolence?Next Valerie goes on to speculate if it can ever be too late to send a condolence. During the podcast she provides the answers to questions such as:- Can I send a condolence some time after the funeral service?- What message does a condolence send to the grieving family?- How is a grieving loved one affected by late arriving condolences?Now ask yourself these two things: Have I ever forgotten to send a card to a grieving family? Did I ever neglect to send a card because I attended a memorial service at the funeral chapel?If you answered “yes” to either or both of these questions, then the information in this episode of the podcast may affect how you express your condolences in the future.Tips for Responding to Condolence Cards from OthersThen Valerie switches perspectives and offers insight on how to respond when you receive condolence cards from others after suffering the loss of a loved one.Valerie gives specific examples of when it is appropriate to reach out to those who send their condolences and where you should focus your energy during that time period.Whether you are sending or receiving condolences, one thing we all can agree on is that it is nice to know we’re not alone while mourning a loved one lost.Wrapping things up, Valerie offers some final thoughts about the various ways we can offer condolences, and the impression it will leave on the recipient.Are You Ready to Learn More?Do you want more tips about how to express your condolences? How do you express your messages of support after someone you know loses a loved one? Share your questions, comments, and personal experiences below where we can talk through them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Are you aware of the challenges facing blended families? Can you imagine how a death in the family might intensify these challenges? Even the most amicable families, blended or not, can be prone to strife when grieving the loss of a loved one.It is possible for a family to come together peacefully when they otherwise do not mix well. Are you aware of the steps the funeral home takes to ensure civil propinquities?If you want to know more about how blended families can honor funerals wishes, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds interviews Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about her experiences.A blended family does not have to mean a divided family. This interview is an opportunity to learn how to honor end-of-life wishes from both sides of the equation.Funeral Challenges for Blended FamiliesValerie kicks off the episode by discussing some of the challenges blended families face when they have a death in the family.Next Valerie explains what she feels is the root of these challenges that blended families face when meeting to honor the end of life wishes of a loved one lost.This situation isn’t easy for anyone, but fortunately the funeral home director is a neutral third-party with the experience to help mediate so both sides can share their concerns.Putting Aside Differences to Make Funeral ArrangementsThen Valerie offers advice on how families can come together to peacefully make funeral arrangements for a common loved one when they typically do not mix well. She also addresses questions like:- Do families always agree to disagree when making funeral arrangements?- How does the funeral home make sure everyone’s needs are met?- What strategies does the funeral home employ to help plan the funeral?Now ask yourself these two things: Am I part of a blended family? Is it possible that my family may need help honoring someone’s end of life wishes? If you answered “yes” to either or both of these questions, then you may wish to contact Martin Brothers for advice.Is It Okay to Skip a Stressful Funeral?Next Valerie discusses whether it is okay to just avoid a memorial or funeral service when you are part of a blended family who is divided on end of life issues for the deceased.She goes on to share the purpose of a funeral and shares what someone might miss if they do not attend the service.Not all blended families come together well at first, but focusing on respect for the deceased can help them overcome the concerns that threaten to divide them.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing her final thoughts on the topic of blended families and funerals.Do You Anticipate Funeral Issues for Your Blended Family?Are you interested in learning how to help make things easier when planning end of life wishes for someone in your family? Do you want a safe zone where you and your family can focus on the wishes of your loved one lost? Let’s discuss your thoughts in the comments section below.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you heard about the fentanyl crisis in Vancouver, BC? Are you aware of how this drug affects the community? In December, 2016, within a 24-hour period, nine residents of Vancouver died from fentanyl overdose.Although the government continues pouring funds into public health emergency responses, people continue to die from overdose. Are you aware of how this may affect the funeral home and its staff?If you want to know more about the fentanyl epidemic in Vancouver, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds interviews Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about what she’s learned about the topic.The opioid crisis is spreading like wildfire throughout North America. This episode of the podcast is your chance to learn how it impacts Vancouver, British Columbia.The Fentanyl Crisis in Vancouver, BCThe episode begins with Valerie explaining an overview of the crisis that is currently occurring in Vancouver.Then Valerie goes on to explain why this is a problem for the community.The fentanyl crisis is affecting so many people throughout Vancouver right now and, as Valerie points out, it is only getting worse.Fentanyl and Drug OverdosesNext Valerie explains how fentanyl is affecting drug overdoses in the city. She answers questions such as:- Who is dying from fentanyl drug overdoses in Vancouver?- How is the fentanyl drug crisis in Vancouver affecting families?- Is it possible to get involved with the fentanyl crisis accidentally?Now ask yourself these two things: Am I concerned about my loved ones? Do I want to know who in the community is helping to deal with this crisis? If you answered “yes” to either or both of these questions, then you do not want to miss the information in this interview.The Role of the Funeral Home in This CrisisThen Valerie segues to what role the funeral home plays in the fentanyl crisis in regards to families who come to the funeral chapel.Valerie explains some of the similarities between families who are grieving the loss of a loved one who died from a fentanyl overdose in Vancouver, BC.Next Valerie goes on to explain risks to the funeral home staff when preparing the body of a drug overdose victim as well as their memorial or funeral serviceValerie wraps up the episode by sharing sharing final thoughts from a funeral director’s perspective.Is This Crisis Something that Affects Your Family?Have you heard about the fentanyl crisis in Vancouver through news sources? Does this crisis affect you or your loved ones? Share your questions and concerns in the comments area below where we can discuss them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever looked at the cost of having a funeral service? Are you at a loss for how to memorialize someone with dignity on your limited budget? Not having enough funds to cover the cost of a funeral for a loved one lost is a real concern in today’s economy.Pre-planning funeral wishes is just one way to help defer the cost of a funeral or memorial service. Are you aware of other benefits to help you plan a funeral without burdening your family’s finances?If you want to know more about having a dignified funeral with limited finances, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds interviews Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about some options to help.Not having enough funds to cover a funeral can add stress to an already difficult time. This interview is your chance to learn some creative ways to plan a dignified funeral with limited funds.When There Aren’t Enough Funds for a FuneralValerie kicks things off by discussing what a family does when there aren’t enough funds to cover a funeral for a loved one.Next Valerie shares what she tells people who call into the funeral home asking about how to have a dignified funeral when they have no funds or limited finances.Valerie points out that calling Martin Brothers does not obligate you to anything, and you shouldn’t let that fear prevent you from calling the funeral chapel in Vancouver with questions.Pre-Planning without Burdening Your FinancesThen Valerie segues to the topic of funeral pre-planning. During the podcast she answers these and other questions:- Does it cost anything to sit down and plan a funeral service?- What type of payments are available for pre-arranged funerals?- What other funeral benefits are available for families with limited funds?Now ask yourself these two things: Am I worried that limited funds would prevent me from planning a dignified funeral for a loved one lost? Could I use information about what options are available to my family?If you answered “yes” to either or both questions, then after the podcast be sure to leave your questions in the comments section below and visit the Martin Brothers website to begin the pre-planning process.Are People Ever Prevented from Having a Funeral?Next Valerie explains that people are never prevented from having a dignified funeral or memorial service for their loved one based on their finances.No matter what your family’s financial status, Martin Brothers welcomes the opportunity to discuss your funeral needs.Knowing someone is there to help you in your family’s time of mourning can be a great relief. Don’t wait until you need Martin Brothers to reach out to them with your questions.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing final thoughts about creative funeral options when finances might be an issue.Are You Worried about Planning a Funeral on a Budget?Does your family work on limited finances? Could you use advice on how to plan a dignified funeral without spending a fortune? Share your questions and comments below where we can talk through them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Don’t loved ones lost deserve to be memorialized in a unique way? Would you know where to begin when planning a special funeral or memorial service? Today’s funeral service might contain unique or traditional elements, or a mixture of both styles.Planning a funeral and trying to make it unique while grieving the loss of a loved one can be a challenge. Would you know where to begin when planning a special service for a departed family member or other loved one?If you want to know more about ideas for making a funeral service unique, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds discusses the topic with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services.Hymns, prayers, and other traditional funeral service elements are well-known. This interview is an opportunity to learn how to plan a service as unique as the loved one you’re mourning.Memorializing a Loved One in a Unique WayThe episode kicks off with Valerie explaining what sparks her imagination when she hears a question asking about unique ways to memorialize departed loved ones.Then Valerie segues into specific examples of some of the different ways to memorialize a loved one at their funeral or memorial service.These types of unique and special services are not only a tribute to the departed loved one, but they can also be a great comfort to the family and friends who are left behind to mourn them.Unique Funeral Elements and Traditional ServicesNext Valerie discusses some of the most unique service elements she’s seen while working at the funeral chapel in Vancouver, BC. She also answers questions like:- Is it okay to incorporate holiday elements with a funeral service?- How can we include hobbies and pastimes in a memorial?- What if my family has well-established funeral service traditions?Now ask yourself these two things: Is there a special way I’d like my family to remember me after I’m gone? Am I ready to plan the final wishes for my memorial?If you answered “yes” to either or both questions, then after the podcast visit Martin Brothers’ website to begin the funeral pre-planning process.Where to Turn When You Aren’t Sure What to DoThen Valerie talks about where you can turn if you are at a loss for ideas for making a funeral service unique.Valerie points out that sometimes it takes an outside ear to ask the questions that spark inspiration for creating a special funeral or memorial service with unique elements.The funeral director is one such person who is there to listen to you and your family when you’re making plans to memorialize a loved one lost.The episode concludes with some final thoughts from Valerie about ideas for making a funeral service unique.Do You Need Help Planning a Special Service?Has the information in this podcast left you wondering about ideas for making a funeral service unique? Do you have a special memory to share about a special memorial service? Leave your questions and thoughts in the comments below where we can discuss them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you wonder what it’s like to work in a funeral chapel? Do you know what education is necessary to work as a funeral director? The funeral profession offers jobs that require skills, education, and experience just like working in any other industry.Traditional careers working bankers’ hours aren’t for everyone. Have you ever wondered what jobs exist outside of the standard Monday through Friday, 9 to 5 working environment?If you have questions about working the funeral profession, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who provides the answers.The activities that take place in a funeral home beyond tasks associated with a memorial or funeral service are a mystery. This interview is your opportunity to get answers to questions about careers available in a growing, dynamic industry in British Columbia.What Is It Like to be a Funeral Director?Valerie kicks off the episode by comparing the reality of being a funeral director against the stereotype people associate with this position at the funeral chapel.Next Valerie talks about where the mystery comes from regarding the funeral home profession and the responsibilities of the people who work there.On days when no service is scheduled, the employees of a funeral home still have tasks that need to be done so they can be ready for the next funeral or memorial that takes place there.Skills and Education for Funeral Home CareersThen Valerie segues to the skills and education required for a job in the funeral home industry. During the podcast she answers questions such as:- Are the education and experience required the same throughout Canada?- How long does it take to complete all the educational requirements?- Is an internship required for taking on a job in the funeral home industry?Now ask yourself these two things: Do you have questions about working in the funeral procession? Would you like answers? If you answered “yes” to either or both, then after the podcast be sure to share your thoughts in the comments area below.The Availability of Funeral Home JobsNext Valerie discusses the possibility of obtaining jobs in the funeral home profession based on their availability.Valerie expands upon the answer to the previous question by pointing out what personality traits the perfect candidate for one of these jobs should have.If you are looking for a career, or looking to switch professions, then you are highly encouraged to listen to this episode and contact Martin Brothers in Vancouver for more information.The episode concludes with some final thoughts from Valerie about working in a funeral home.Do You Want to Know More about Funeral Home Jobs?Are you interested in funeral industry careers? Do you want to know which jobs exist beyond the position of funeral director? Ask your questions about working in the funeral procession below so we can discuss them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you know what probate is? Are you aware of the responsibilities of an executor of an estate? When someone dies, the person in charge of handling the deceased person’s estate - both property and other assets - is called the executor.You can put a person in charge of settling your estate after you pass away. Are you aware of who that person will be or what duties they must carry out on your behalf?If you want to know more about what happens to assets after a person dies, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about the duties of an executor of an estate.There are specific things that need to happen to an estate after someone dies. This interview is a chance to learn the responsibilities of the person assigned to execute those tasks.What Is an Executor’s First Duty?The episode begins with Valerie explaining the first thing an executor of an estate must do after the person who has given them that duty has passed away. She also discusses how an executor may affect arrangements for the memorial or funeral services.Next Valerie talks about which duties go into effect before the will is read as well as which tasks need to wait to be performed until after the reading of the will.Another thing to consider is how insurance protects the property and its contents after the owner passes away. This is another area where Valerie provides insight during the podcast.Additional Duties of the Executor of an EstateThen Valerie discusses additional duties the executor is responsible for regarding an estate. She also answers these questions during the podcast:- How can I protect my funeral arrangements from being changed by the executor?- What kind of timeline can one expect for carrying out executor of an estate duties?- What is probate and do all wills have to be probated after someone dies?Now ask yourself two questions: Do I need to appoint someone to handle my estate after I die? Do I need help understanding what happens to an estate after someone passes away? If you answered “yes” to either or both, then the information Valerie shares in this podcast may help.Where Can an Executor Ask Questions After the Funeral?Next Valerie discusses where someone can go to discuss the duties of an executor of an estate after the memorial or funeral and aftercare services have taken place.Valerie explains the checklist Martin Brothers uses which lists various executor of estate duties, including advice for how to handle the necessary government documents related to an estate.If there’s a chance you may be named the executor of an estate, you do not have to wait until the person passes away to call Martin Brothers in Vancouver for help.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing her final thoughts about the duties of an executor of an estate.Do You Have Questions about Being an Executor?Are there questions you have about how to handle someone’s estate after their death? Do you want to have someone on your side in case problems arise? Share your questions, concerns, and personal experiences, in the area below so we can discuss them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you have aging parents? Does it seem like they’re saying goodbye to more of their peers lately? When you avoid talking with aging parents about death, it’s becomes an elephant in the room - a kind of obvious truth that nobody wants to address.Nobody likes to think about saying goodbye. Did you know that outlining a funeral or memorial service in advance can help relieve some of the stress associated with grieving a loved one lost?If you want to know more about talking with aging parents about death, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about her experiences with the topic.As your parents get older, there are a lot of unavoidable topics that have to be discussed sooner or later. This interview is a chance to learn how to discuss this delicate topic with aging parents.Should My Elderly Parents Attend Funerals?The episode kicks off with Valerie addressing whether aging parents should attend services at the local funeral chapel for their loved ones lost.Next Valerie explains her process for approaching the topic of dying in relation to the other milestones we experience throughout our lives.A funeral is more than an opportunity to gain closure after someone passes away. During the podcast Valerie discusses some of the other emotional benefits of this necessary, social gathering.Helping Aging Parents with GriefThen Valerie goes on to talk about how to help your aging parents with their grief. While on the topic she answers questions such as:- What can I say to my aging parent when talking to them about grief?- How can I help my aging parent realize they aren’t going to live forever?- Are there signs an aging parent displays when they need a break from grief?- Which professionals can help my aging parent work through the stages of grief?Now ask yourself these two things: Are my parents attending funerals more frequently? Do I want tips for talking with aging parents about death? If you answered “yes” to either or both, then the information in this podcast from Martin Brothers could help.When to Talk to Parents about Their Funeral PlansNext Valerie suggests some of the best (and one of the less than ideal) times when you might talk to an aging parent about their funeral pre-arrangements.Valerie also offers talking points you can use to ease into discussing this topic with your aging parents.If your aging parents display any of the social cues Valerie mentions in the podcast, then you may benefit from following the advice she gives about that particular aspect.The episode concludes with an overview of Valerie’s last few tips about talking with aging parents about death.Are You Ready to Talk to Your Aging Parents?Do you need help opening the dialogue about grief with your aging parent? Is your aging parent ready to pre-plan their funeral or memorial service? Please reach out to us in the comments section so we can talk through this topic together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever noticed that teenagers are complex creatures? Can you imagine how grief may intensify their already turbulent emotions? Because death often comes as a shock to the loved ones left behind, helping a teenager through this tumultuous time can be a daunting challenge.Parents and guardians are faced with decisions like keeping a teenager home from school, monitoring their social media usage, or even allowing them to attend the funeral. Can you imagine having to make these decisions in the face of grief?If you want to learn more about how to help a grieving teenager, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about this family-centric topic.Grief can affect every aspect of a teenager’s life. This interview is an opportunity to learn how to help grieving teenagers move through those feelings in healthy ways.How to Discuss Death with TeenagersValerie begins the episode by discussing the various types of death a teen might encounter outside of family and beloved family friends.Then Valerie offers talking points parents might use to help gauge where a teen is before talking to them about death or their grief.Sometimes teens have unrealistic expectations about experiencing life as a young adult. Grief can be a chance for a parent to impart wisdom about mourning to their grieving teenager.How Grief Affects TeenagersNext Valerie discusses how grief affects teenagers. During the podcast she answers questions like:- How does grief manifest itself in my teenager who is mourning a loss?- What appetite changes and other signs could my grieving teen display?- Is it okay for my grieving teenager to stay home alone from school?Now ask yourself these two things: Could I use help communicating with my grieving teeanger? Do I want to encourage my teen to mourn in healthy ways? If you answered “yes” to either or both, then reaching out to Martin Brothers could help you find the necessary information.When to Let a Teen Attend a Funeral of a PeerThen Valerie segues to the topic of teens dealing with the death of a peer and when grieving teens should attend the funeral of a peer.Valerie then offers one essential tip about grieving teens and funerals that that parents will not want to miss.When it comes to allowing grieving teens to spend time with their friends, Valerie supports the idea. She offers tips to prevent to help prevent peers from becoming a substitute for parents.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing her finale thoughts about how to help a grieving teenager.Do You Know a Grieving Teenager?Are you the parent or guardian of a teenager? Do you want sage advice from someone with firsthand experience of helping teens as they grieve? Please ask questions and share your comments or experiences below so we can discuss them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever had questions about planning a funeral? Would you know where to turn to find authentic answers? The funeral director is often the person to best answer these questions.Concepts like embalming, cremation times, and funeral processions are foreign terms to someone not regularly involved in funerals and memorial services. Are there any terms or phrases about the funeral process whose meanings leave you baffled?If you want to learn answers to things like this, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about questions to ask when arranging a funeral.The best time to ask questions about arranging a funeral is before tragedy strikes. This interview is a chance to get some answers so you’ll be ready if you ever need this information.Clothing the Deceased and ViewingsThe episode begins with Valerie answering why you may need to bring fresh clothing for a loved one lost even if you do not plan to hold a viewing.Next Valerie explains why some families may choose not to have a viewing based on her experiences working at the funeral chapel in Vancouver.Valerie goes on to share how Martin Brothers treats your family member with dignity should you opt to not provide clothing when arranging your lost loved one’s final wishes.What Is Embalming and Why Does It Happen?Then Valerie addresses the topic of embalming. Some questions she answers relating to this part of the funeral planning process include:- What are the benefits of embalming a body?- What are the physical effects of embalming?- What is a viewing like without embalming?Now ask yourself these two things: Do I have questions to ask when arranging a funeral? Could I use help finding the answers to my questions? If you answered “yes” to either or both questions, then contacting a funeral home like Martin Brothers in Vancouver might help.Practicing Good Funeral Procession EtiquetteNext Valerie reviews common courtesies people can take when encountering a funeral procession for someone else’s loved one lost in their daily travels.She goes on to explain the symbolic nature of the funeral procession and what respect for the event means to members of the family of the deceased as well as the outside community.A funeral not only affects a departed person’s loved ones, but also strangers who encounter some part of the funeral process. Funerals are a reminder that life offers no guarantees.The episode wraps up with Valerie explaining how long it takes to cremate a body and sharing some final thoughts about questions to ask when arranging a funeral.Do You Have Questions about Funerals?Are you curious about some part of the funeral process? Do you want to ask something about pre-planning your funeral or memorial service? Use the comments section to ask questions, leave comments, or share personal experiences. We look forward to hearing from you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever had questions about planning a funeral? Would you know where to turn to find authentic answers? The funeral director is the best person to answer these questions for you.The first step in planning a funeral or memorial service is knowing where to start. Doesn’t it make sense to know what to ask before you need the services of a funeral chapel?If you want to learn more about funeral planning, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about common questions to ask a funeral director.Grief adds stress to the job of planning a funeral or memorial for a loved one lost. This interview is an opportunity to learn what to ask before a tragic situation occurs.The Timeline for Making Funeral ArrangementsValerie begins the episode by discussing how soon you have to start making arrangements after a loved one has died.Then Valerie goes on to compare what families instinctively want to do after losing a loved one and the advice she urges them to consider.Losing a family member is difficult enough without adding stress. Your best choice of funeral home in Vancouver, BC is one that not only takes care of the deceased, but also the living.Choosing a Cremation or a BurialNext Valerie discusses another of the common questions to ask a funeral director - cremation or burial? During the podcast she answers these follow-up questions regarding the topic:- Is it cheaper to cremate than to bury?- Are there more benefits for cremation or burial?- What resources can I use to help me decide?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I want to do the right thing when planning a funeral? Do I have questions for a funeral director about planning a ceremony? If you answered “yes” to either or both questions, then you should contact a Vancouver funeral home to get answers sooner than later.Preparing for Your Funeral Planning AppointmentThen Valerie explains what you should take to the funeral home when planning a service or memorial.Valerie takes a moment to share what it’s like from the perspective of a grieving family member and shares what she says to someone in that situation.Nobody wants to plan a funeral. Knowing you have the information you need to make the best choices about funeral planning can help your family find peace of mind in a difficult time.Valerie wraps up the episode by sharing final thoughts, including what to look for in a funeral director to help you know you’re in the right place.Do You Have a Question for a Funeral Director?Do you have something not addressed in these common questions to ask a funeral director? Are you unsure where to find answers? Leave your questions, comments, and personal stories in the comments below where we can talk about them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you know a family who has experienced the tragedy of losing an infant? Can you imagine the stress that places on the child’s parents? The trauma of losing a child can impact a couple long after the conclusion of the service at the funeral chapel.Bereaved parents are at higher risk for things like symptoms of depression, anxiety, and prolonged grief. Can you see the relationship between the loss of an infant and the impact on a relationship?If you want to learn more about the loss of an infant, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services who explains how it affects couples and how you can help.Losing a child is one of the most heart-wrenching things a parent can experience. This interview is an opportunity to learn advice to help get through the situation from multiple perspectives.The Timeline for Visual RemindersThe episode begins with Valerie discussing some ways couples can cope when telling friends and community that they have experienced a loss.Next Valerie compares losing a child during pregnancy before telling friends and family to how things may differ to losing a child after sharing the big news with loved ones.The death of a child is incomparable. If you’re grieving this type of loss, reach out to Valerie at Martin Brothers in Vancouver, as she is happy to talk with you over the phone or at the funeral chapel.Understanding What the Bereaved Parents ExperienceThen Valerie explains things parents can expect to experience after losing a child. During the episode she also discusses answers to questions like:- Is it okay to reach out to a grieving parent on social media?- What can a new mom expect to experience after the loss of an infant?- How can the dad grieve while understanding his partner’s feelings?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do you want help knowing how to respond to a couple after the loss of an infant? Do you want to advice for coping if you’re a parent in this situation? If you answered “yes” to either or both questions, then the information in this podcast may help.Suggestions for Recognizing this Life EventNext Valerie gives an overview of how to mark this life event to honor the memory of the littlest loved ones lost.Valerie shares some of the questions she hears from grieving parents at the funeral chapel in Vancouver as well as the answers and advice she offers when responding to them.Losing an unborn child can bring up feelings of grief just as if the baby had passed away after childbirth. It’s important to recognize and work through all types of grief we feel after a loss.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing some final thoughts on the loss of an infant and how it might impact the relationship of the couple.Do You Have Thoughts to Share?Is this a topic that resonates with something your family has experienced? Do you have questions that weren’t answered during the episode? Use the comments below to share your thoughts and we’ll be happy to discuss them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

What happens to someone’s personal belongings after they die? Are there ways besides photos to honor the memory of a loved one lost? The idiom “you can’t take it with you” holds a lot of truth, as when someone passes away their loved ones are left to deal with their belongings.Knowing what options are available to you can help relieve the burden of finding the best way to deal with the belongings of a deceased relative or friend. Could you use some advice?If you want to learn more about dealing with the belongings after a loss, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services who gives information to help.Knowing you’re doing the right thing by your loved one lost is important. This interview is a chance to learn ways to deal with a deceased person’s belongings that honors their memory.The Timeline for Visual RemindersValerie kicks off the episode by discussing when it is okay to pack up visual cues that remind you of your loved ones who are no longer here.Then Valerie reveals one piece of advice she gives clients who come into the funeral chapel about something they can do now to avoid feeling regret later when dealing with the belongings after a loss.How we handle visual cues may differ depend on what stage of grief we’re experiencing at that moment. Taking time to grieve and discuss with family can help set a healthy timeline.Unique Ways to Memorialize a Loved One LostNext Valerie segues into alternatives to photographs for honoring the memory of a deceased family member or other loved one. She also answers questions such as:- How can I memorialize someone without a physical grave site?- What are some examples of a legacy I can begin for my loved one?- Where can I donate someone’s personal items after their funeral?Now ask yourself these two questions: Are you aware of all the ways to honor someone after their death? Do you have a plan for their personal belongings? If you answered “no” to either or both of these questions, then the comments section below is a good place to get started.Tips for Displaying an Urn Within the HomeThen Valerie shares suggestions for appropriate places to put a loved one’s cremated remains inside the home.Not everyone is comfortable putting an urn filled with cremated remains on their fireplace mantle. Valerie offers solutions for a wide range of situations.You don’t have to feel burdened by the idea of handling all of this by yourself. As you’ll hear in the podcast, both Martin Brothers in Vancouver and other organizations are able to help in some way.Valerie wraps things up by sharing her final thoughts on dealing with the belongings after a loss.Could You Use Advice on This Topic?Do you have questions about how to deal with the belongings of a loved one after they pass away? Do you have a situation not covered in this episode of the podcast? Share your thoughts below. We look forward to discussing them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you considered pre-planning your funeral? Are you aware of what information you need to make funeral pre-arrangements based on your preferences? Considering funeral options in advance can relieve your family’s burden when tragedy inevitably strikes.Planning your final wishes offers so many benefits, like financial savings and peace of mind. Have you given any thought to concerning funeral options available to you?If you want to learn more about funeral pre-arrangements based on a person’s preference, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services.The best way to consider your funeral planning options is to know what’s available. This interview provides you with the facts you need to make informed decisions about funeral pre-arrangement.Deciding on Cremation Versus BurialThe episode begins with Valerie offering advice to help listeners choose between cremation or burial. Nobody likes to think about making this decision but it is something we must face eventually.Next Valerie shares some of the benefits of each choice based on influential details such as family traditions and final resting places in the Greater Vancouver area - including the sea.There is no right or wrong answer when it comes to choosing whether you prefer burial or cremation. Talking to a funeral director can help answer your questions and put your mind at ease.Exploring Non-Traditional Funeral OptionsThen Valerie offers information about options besides cremation or burial. She also takes time to provide answers to questions such as:- Can I have a normal service if I donate my body to science?- Are personal mementos allowed with a non-traditional funeral?- What other decisions do I have to make besides burial vs cremation?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do you have questions about your funeral options? Do you need a trusted professional to provide you with information? If you answered “yes” to either or both of these questions, then the comments section below is a good place to get started.Preparing for Your Pre-Arrangement DiscussionNext Valerie explains what happens when you come to the funeral chapel pre-arrange your final wishes for your memorial service or funeral.She goes on to explain specific pieces of information you need and gives an idea of what sorts of things you might have to look up.Valerie takes a few moments to explain how Martin Brothers in Vancouver keeps this personal information safe.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing some final bits of information about funeral pre-arrangements based on a person’s preference.Are You Ready to Make Funeral Decisions?Does funeral pre-planning sound like something that would benefit you and your loved ones? Do you have questions about information in this podcast? Share your comments below where we can discuss them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Has attending a funeral ever made you think about your final wishes? Do you wonder how your family will celebrate your life after you’re gone? Pre-arranging a funeral can take a lot of the stress out of a time when families need to focus on things like healing and grief.Nobody wants to think about death. Do you have arrangements in place to help relieve your loved ones of that burden?If you want to learn more about the single most important reason to pre-plan a funeral, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services.When pre-planning your funeral, it’s important to get your questions answered sooner than later. This interview offers a chance to take the guesswork out planning this essential life event.Why Do I Need to Pre-Plan my Funeral?Valerie kicks things off by sharing the single most important reason to pre-plan a funeral, and how it helps your family in the event that tragedy should strike.Then Valerie reveals some other popular reasons and benefits of contacting a funeral chapel to plan your arrangements.Regardless of your age, health, race, gender, or any other statistic, the advice Valerie shares applies to everyone.When Should I Pre-Arranging My Funeral?Next Valerie discusses when is the best time in a person’s life to pre-arrange a memorial or funeral service. She also answers questions like:- Who do I need to tell that I pre-arranged my funeral or memorial service?- Is it okay for me to wait until I’m in my golden years to pre-plan a funeral?- When do I have to pay for a funeral or memorial that I pre-arrange?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I want to make sure my final wishes are carried out? Do I want to relieve my family of the burden of making hard choices about my memorial or funeral service?If you answered “yes” to either or both of these questions, then you have a reason to pre-plan a funeral.What Happens If I Change My Mind?Then Valerie explains what happens once funeral pre-plans are locked in place and what measures are taken to safeguard the payment for the arrangements.Valerie segues into an overview of the steps necessary to ensure both your original pre-arrangements for a memorial or funeral service and any changes you might make after the initial plans are in place.Valerie also describes what happens if you move to a different residence after pre-planning funeral arrangements, even if it is somewhere outside the Greater Vancouver area.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing some of her final thoughts about the single most important reason to pre-plan a funeral.Have You Made the Decision to Pre-Arrange?Are you ready to contact the funeral chapel for funeral pre-planning? Do you have questions for Martin Brothers before you decide? After the podcast, if you have any questions or comments, share them below so we can discuss them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever attended a funeral that had personalized touches to memorialize the loved one lost? Do you ever wonder how your loved ones will personalize the celebration of your life? A funeral can be as unique as the DNA of the person who passed away.It may be difficult to plan a personalized funeral while grieving the loss of someone you love. Do you know where to turn for help?If you want to learn more about personalizing a funeral service, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who shares ideas for customization.Personalizing a funeral can provide heartfelt memories to the memorial for a deceased family member or friend. This interview explores options available in Vancouver, BC.Why You Aren’t Limited to a Cookie Cutter Funeral PackageThe episode kicks off with Valerie explaining why not all funerals have to look the same or follow the same kind of program.Next Valerie shares what you can expect when personalizing a funeral service or memorial for a loved one lost.Valerie’s suggestions aren’t limited to planning a funeral for someone who has already passed away. You can also use them for pre-planning your own final wishes.Things You Can Do to Personalize a ServiceThen Valerie segues into some of the things you can do to personalize a funeral service. She also tackles questions such as:- What information do I need when making funeral arrangements?- What things from someone’s life can translate into a funeral service?- What can I expect to pay for a service with this level of customization?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I want to personalize the next funeral service I plan? Do I need help finding which personal touches fit my family’s budget? If you answered “yes” to either or both of these questions, then the information in this podcast can help.Funerals for Families Who Are Steeped in TraditionNext Valerie addresses some options for families who are steeped in the traditional memorials and funeral services.She goes on to discuss the various types of tradition - family, cultural, or ethnic, for example - that could be observed during a funeral service or memorial.The funeral chapel is there for you and your family during a mournful time in your life. It’s important to rely on the people who can help you with personalizing a funeral service.Valerie wraps up the episode with some final thoughts for how you can customize a funeral or memorial while respecting traditional aspects of the service.Do You Want a Customized Funeral?Do you want to learn more about personalizing a funeral service? Do you have ideas for your own celebration of life that you’d like in writing before tragedy strikes?Listen to the entire podcast now and then ask your questions or share your comments below, where we can discuss them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever had trouble expressing your grief? Have you ever felt like you weren’t supposed to express grief due to the type of tragedy which happened? This type of grief is called disenfranchised grief, and it’s more common than you might think.Grief is something that should be expressed. Are you aware of the different places you can turn to when you need help working through your grief?If you want to learn more about disenfranchised grief, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who explains and offers advice on the topic.Trouble expressing grief is not uncommon or wrong. This interview is an opportunity to learn where to turn during difficult times such as these.The Most Likely Time to Experience Disenfranchised GriefValerie begins the episode by defining the term disenfranchised grief. She provides specific examples that might relate to a wide range of listeners.Then Valerie goes on to explore how you might feel after one of these situations, should they occur in your life.No two people grieve the same way. Disenfranchised grief, however, is a type of grief that affects many people throughout the world.Grieving When Others Fail to Recognize ItNext Valerie goes into how you can mourn a loss that others don’t recognize. During the podcast she also touches on the answers to questions like:- Are there organizations or groups I can turn to for support?- Who else can help if I’m having trouble expressing grief?- What is the best way to tell others about the grief I feel?Now ask yourself these two questions: Have you experienced a tragedy that’s tough to talk about with others? Are you experiencing grief that interferes with you daily life?If you answered “yes” to either or both of these questions and aren’t sure where to turn, then you might turn to a funeral chapel to ask for recommendations and suggestions.How to Get Support When You Don’t Know How to GrieveThen Valerie suggests things you can tell people when you find yourself experiencing some form of disenfranchised grief.She goes on to explain the same advice she gives people who come to Martin Brothers for support for working through grief.Valerie welcomes anyone experiencing grief to come see her at the funeral home in Vancouver - even if you haven’t used their services before. She can refer you to places for support.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing some final thoughts on the topic of disenfranchised grief.Do You Need Help Working Through Grief?Does disenfranchised grief sound like something you experience? Do you know someone else who might suffer from this type of grief? After you listen to the podcast share your thoughts and questions below. We look forward to discussing them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you know what happens after a funeral? Are you aware of the duties for wrapping up a person’s estate after they pass away? If you find yourself in this situation, then fortunately you are not alone.Wrapping up the estate of a loved one lost can be a real challenge if you don’t know what to expect. Are you aware of all the ways a funeral home might help?If you want to learn more about wrapping up a person’s estate after a funeral, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who provides some insight.The responsibility of wrapping up the estate of a person who died can pose a challenge. This interview is a chance to learn what to expect if you ever find yourself in this position in life.How to Know What to Do After the FuneralThe episode kicks off with Valerie explaining the first thing to do once the funeral is complete.Next Valerie segues to to aftercare, a complimentary service offered by Martin Brothers’ funeral chapel in Vancouver, and how it can help you figure out where to start and what to expect.Some tasks for wrapping up the estate are done by the funeral home while others are done by a designated family member. Knowing who does what can help relieve stress associated with wrapping up an estate.Knowing What Papers Are Required to Wrap up the EstateThen Valerie explains how vital statistics taken during funeral planning can help with wrapping up the estate. She also answers questions like:- How do I know what papers to bring to the funeral home?- What happens if I can’t find one of the papers I need?- Is there a time limit for how long the funeral home will help?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I know what papers are required for wrapping up a person’s estate after a funeral? Have I pre-arranged my funeral to save my family this headache?If you answered “no” to either or both questions then click here to take advantage of Martin Brothers’ funeral pre-planning form at no cost or obligation.The Things People Overlook the MostNext Valerie reveals the things family members most often overlook when wrapping up a person’s estate after a funeral.The things people overlook can depend on where a person died, what prescriptions they were taking, and anything else from a myriad of factors.Wrapping up someone’s estate after their memorial or funeral service is another way to respect them after they die. Not knowing what to do can turn the honor into a headache.Valerie wraps up the episode by sharing her final comments on this topic, including how Martin Brothers can help you on this path after the death of a loved one.Will You Have to Wrap Up an Estate?- Will you be tasked with wrapping up a person’s estate after a funeral?- Do you know who will be responsible for wrapping up your estate in the event of your passing?After listening to this episode, share your questions and concerns below where we can talk through them together.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Are you familiar with funeral etiquette? Do you know the proper behaviors for attending a memorial or funeral service? Being unsure of what to say or do at a funeral can make for an awkward experience, or even prevent some loved ones from attending.When someone passes away, there are so many questions about how we conduct ourselves when attending a service at the funeral chapel. Has this ever happened to you?If you want to learn more about funeral service etiquette, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who shares advice for what to say and do during a service.Knowing what to do at a funeral can be confusing. This interview is an opportunity to learn how to conduct yourself with decorum when honoring the memory of a loved one lost.Should I Attend this Funeral Service?Valerie begins the podcast by addressing how to know if you should attend an upcoming funeral. She uses specific examples that will relate to a wide range of listeners.Then Valerie shares questions she hears while working at the funeral chapel in Vancouver as well as the answers she gives the people who call to ask.The choice of whether to attend a funeral or not can pose a challenge if the deceased is outside your circle of close friends and beloved family members.How Should I Dress for a Funeral or Memorial?Next Valerie dives into funeral service etiquette on the day of the service. Some of the questions she addresses include:- What do I say to the family when I see them at the service?- What happens if I mess up and say the wrong thing at a funeral?- What kind of clothes should I wear to a funeral or memorial service?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I have questions about funeral etiquette? Do I want to know the best ways to show respect at a funeral or memorial for someone who passed away? If you answered “yes” to either or both questions, then the advice in this podcast is for you.Should I Bring a Card, Flowers, or Something Else?Then Valerie touches on the topic of whether it is more appropriate to bring flowers, a card, or something else to help honor the memory of the deceased person.Valerie segues into a family’s request for donations to specific charities and explains why this does not have to affect a person’s decision to attend that memorial or funeral service.Attending a funeral is a way to honor someone who has passed on from this life. It is better to get your questions about funeral service etiquette answered now so you do not live with regret.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing some final thoughts about funeral service etiquette.Do You Have Questions Not Answered Here?Do you have questions that you don’t see addressed here? Do you want to know more about a specific aspect of etiquette for attending a funeral service? Listen to the entire podcast now and then share your thoughts below. We look forward to talking through them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever been to a family event after losing a loved one? Can you see how families might have trouble gathering when someone they love has passed on? Summer is typically a time of family gatherings but some families find this difficult after someone dies.When a loved one passes away, family gatherings bring the person’s memory front and center, even if it’s been some time since the funeral. How would your family cope in this situation?If you want to learn more about family gatherings after the loss of a loved one, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who shares some advice.Family is where many people turn for support after losing a loved one. This interview is an opportunity to learn how to continue gathering as a family after someone passes away.How to Gather Family the First Time after a LossThe episode begins with Valerie talking about how a family first goes about gathering when there has been a loss in the family since their last gathering.Then Valerie discloses the one thing she tells families who contact her at Martin Brothers’ funeral parlor in Vancouver.Gathering with your family after a loss can have benefits to the loved ones who are still on this earth.How to Commemorate a Loved One Lost at Family EventsThen Valerie goes on to share ways you can commemorate lost loved ones at family events, like weddings. She also answers these questions during the episode:- Where can my family find other ways to commemorate loved ones lost?- Does a commemoration have to be something traditional?- Are these commemorative acts limited to formal family events?Now ask yourself these two questions: Has my family had trouble coming together after losing a loved one? Do I want to commemorate a loved one lost at a family event? If you answered “yes” to either or both questions, then Valerie’s advice might come in handy.Where to Turn for Help in Vancouver, BCNext Valerie draws from her career in the funeral industry to share how Martin Brothers can help with family gatherings after the loss of a loved one.Valerie goes on to discuss the different timelines some families follow for coming together after one of their own passes away.The funeral chapel in Martin Brothers is not just for holding a service. You can contact them about digital and tangible keepsakes they offer to help you commemorate your loved ones as well.Wrapping up the episode, Valerie shares some final thoughts about family gatherings after losing a beloved member of their inner circle.Do You Want to Know More about Gathering after Loss?Are you familiar with how difficult it is for families to gather after losing a loved one? Could you use advice for how to commemorate a loved one lost? Listen to the episode then ask your questions or share what helped your family get through this time in the space below.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you noticed an increase in the number of horrific deaths in recent years? Do you feel lost, unsure of how to grieve people you’ve never met? Mourning the loss of someone’s life, even if it is someone you have never met, is a sign of human compassion and completely normal.During a horrific event, like a mass shooting in an elementary school, cinema, or nightclub or terrorist activity that targets a certain group because of their skin color, beliefs, or lifestyle, it can compound the grief we feel for the victims. Is this something you’ve experienced?If you want to learn more about grieving when there is horrific loss, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services, who shares her perspective.Grieving when there is horrific loss is different than grieving over the death of a friend or family member. This interview is a chance to learn about this type of grief and what you can do about it.What Type of Grief Could I Feel with Horrific Loss?Valerie begins the episode by explaining the difference between the grief we feel when losing a loved one and the type we experience after learning about large scale loss of life.Then Valerie talks about why it’s okay to grieve the victims of these senseless acts of violence, even if you don’t personally know any of them.In this day of age, information from around the world is at our fingertips whether we watch television or surf the internet. The instantaneousness exposes us to a wide range of emotions, including grief.Is It Normal to Experience This Type of Grief?Next Valerie discusses whether it’s normal to grieve over this type of loss. During the podcast she answers related questions such as:- Why do we grieve over victims of horrific tragedies who we don’t know?- What are some healthy ways for grieving when there is horrific loss?- Is it okay if I’m grieving a horrific loss when those around me are not?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I mourn victims of senseless acts of violence? Have I ever experienced grief for someone I’ve never met?If you answered “yes” to either or both questions, then the information in this podcast may help provide answers to help you.What Can I Do about This Type of Grief?Then Valerie discloses the two things everyone must do if they are grieving when there is horrific loss.Valerie goes on to share resources you can access regardless of where you live. She also shares some things you can do starting today to begin the healing process.Although Martin Brothers is in Vancouver, the information in this podcast, like grieving after a senseless act of violence, is universal.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing some final thoughts about grief associated with different circumstances.Where Can I Learn More about Dealing with Grief?Could you use a place to turn when grieving after horrific events like the recent shooting in Orlando, Florida? Would it help to have a place to talk about this type of grief? After the podcast let’s discuss your questions and comments in the space below. We’re waiting to hear from you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you dread the end of a funeral because it signifies the final goodbye to a loved one lost? Have you ever regretted being unable to make it to a funeral service? Keepsake that preserve funeral memories serve as reminders of cherished family and friends no longer with us.Preserving funeral memories can help collect comments from guests, provide consolation, and help celebrate the life of a loved one lost. Are you aware of the various options available to help preserve memories from a funeral service or memorial?If you want to learn more about preserving funeral memories, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about the options they offer.A preserved funeral memory can help grieving loved ones get through a difficult time. This interview is an opportunity to learn about services offered by one Vancouver funeral parlor.Where to Start with Preserving Funeral MemoriesThe episode kicks off with Valerie explaining the reasons behind why people might want to preserve memories from a funeral, memorial, or other celebration of a deceased person’s life.Next Valerie explains where to start when you want to preserve memories from the day of a funeral service.The preserved memories of a funeral, memorial, reception, or other type of service can take many forms. Martin Brothers offers a wide range of options to help you remember this day that honors a loved one lost.Sharing the Day with Absent Loved OnesThen Valerie points out different ways you can share funeral memories with friends and relatives who can’t make it to the service. During the podcast she also answers questions such as:- What are the benefits for live streaming a funeral service or memorial?- How many different options can I choose for preserving funeral memories?- What if I don’t want a videotape but still want to preserve the day?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I want lasting memories that preserve the celebration of life for a loved one lost? Do I want to know more about options available to me?If you answered “yes” to either or both questions then you may be interested in visiting the Martin Brothers website or scheduling a time to discuss this with them.Types of Memorial Items and IdeasNext Valerie lists some of the memorial items and ideas that Martin Brothers offers to families who want to preserve a funeral or memorial service.During the Victorian era, preserving funeral memories was a well-respected tradition followed by friends and family during the deceased.Valerie goes on to discuss some of the options available from one casket company who works closely with Martin Brothers.Wrapping up the episode, Valerie shares some final thoughts on the topic of preserving funeral memories.What Memories Would You Like to Preserve?Do you have questions about the different ways to preserve memories from a funeral or memorial service? Would you like to comment on some option mentioned in the podcast? Share your thoughts below and we will be happy to discuss them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever read through the obituaries in the newspaper? Do you ever wonder what you would write - or what people would write about you? An obituary is more than a public announcement of someone’s death.Once the obituary is written, some families want to preserve it to have a lasting memory of their loved one lost. Do you know all the options for how to preserve this type of memory?If you want to learn more about newspaper obituaries, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about writing and preserving them.The process for writing and preserving an obituary is not typically something people know off the tops of their heads. This interview is a chance to learn advice from an industry professional.Are Obituaries Mandatory?Valerie kicks off the episode by discussing if it is necessary to have an obituary in the newspaper when someone dies.Then Valerie draws from her experiences in the funeral industry and shares the advice she gives to people who ask her this question at the Martin Brothers funeral chapel in Vancouver.Obituaries serve several purposes. Without preplanning your funeral services, you leave the choice about whether to have one to the loved ones you leave behind should the unthinkable occur.How to Begin Writing an ObituaryNext Valerie describes the process to begin writing an obituary. She also provides answers to these questions during the podcast:- What information does someone need about the deceased for an obituary?- Is it okay to use information from family stories when writing an obituary?- What are some other ways to get funeral information out to the public?Now ask yourself these two questions:Do I want to know more about writing an obituary for the newspaper?Could I use tips to help me write an obituary?If you answered “yes” to either or both questions then you may be interested in visiting this area of the Martin Brothers website.Preserving an Obituary Beyond the FuneralValerie then discusses how people can preserve an obituary once it is written, including how she has preserved obituaries of her own departed loved ones.Today’s technology allows Martin Brothers in Vancouver to offer families a wide range of options for preserving an obituary.Valerie points out that Martin Brothers is committed to helping families and willing to brainstorm to come up with the best way to pass down an obituary to future generations.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing advice for anyone writing an obituary for the newspaper or any other media outlet.Do You Need Ideas for Writing an Obituary?Would you like to know more about ways to get information out about a funeral? Do you have questions about any part of the obituary writing process? We invite you to share your questions and comments in the area below where we can discuss them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Can you imagine the grief of losing a parent during childhood? Are you curious about the proper way to handle this type of situation? For a child, losing a parent may be their first experience with death.Most of the people who attend funerals are adults. Have you ever attended a funeral service for the parent of younger children? Were the children at the funeral parlor?If you want to learn more about a child’s funeral experience, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about this specific situation.Children are resilient. Losing a parent can have a significant impact on a child’s world view and understanding of death and life. This interview is an opportunity to learn tips and what’s acceptable for this situation.Children and Open Casket FuneralsThe episode begins with Valerie explaining whether a child should view their deceased parent during a funeral.Nobody knows a young child better than their parent. When the parent is gone, it can be difficult to know what will provide healthy closure for their children.Children have huge imaginations. Valerie explains how this might impact their view of death, funerals, and their environment.Is the Funeral a Place for a Child to Invite Friends?Then Valerie discusses whether it is acceptable for a child to invite their friends to the funeral. During the podcast she also addresses the following questions:- Is it okay for older teens to attend funerals without an adult present?- Where can a parent go for questions regarding children and funerals?- What are some tips for knowing if a child is grieving in healthy ways?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I have questions about how grief affects children? Do I want to know more about children and funeral experiences? If you answered “yes” to either or both questions then you may be interested in learning more about a child’s funeral experience.Children, Grief, and Getting on with LifeNext Valerie segues into children and grief. She offers tips for how to know your child is doing the necessary grief work associated with losing a parent.Valerie goes on to discuss some of the things a child going through the stages of grief may or may not need from an adult.Kids can tell when adults are grieving. Valerie talks about things you can do to help a grieving child who asks to go to school or stay home a bit longer after a funeral.Valerie wraps up the episode with final thoughts about a child’s funeral experience and grief.Would You Like to Know More about Children and Grief?Do you want to know how to help a child move forward after a funeral? Are you interested in learning more about how children express grief? Listen to the entire podcast now, and then ask your questions or post your comments below. We look forward to hearing from you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you know what to expect when a loved one dies? Are you aware of what happens if a loved one dies in their place of residence? When you go into the process of planning a funeral service without knowing what to expect, you could end up feeling stressed as well as grieving.When people think of a funeral, they think of a tastefully decorated chapel where they can pay their respects to the deceased. Do you know what role family plays in putting together a service for a loved one lost?If you want to learn more about what to expect the first few days after losing a loved one, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about some practical tips to help.From getting the body of a loved one lost to the funeral parlor to estimating how many will attend their memorial service, a funeral requires a lot of planning. This interview is your chance to learn tips from an industry professional to help you know what to expect when tragedy strikes.What to Expect When a Family Member Dies at HomeValerie kicks off by addressing what you can expect to happen when someone dies in their place of residence. She also reveals the personal touch Martin Brothers offers families in this situation.Then Valerie draws from personal experience in her job as director of a funeral chapel to look at this situation from two different perspectives.Regardless of the reason why a person passes away, there are a lot of emotions surrounding the situation. Knowing what to expect can relieve worry about the unknown.Gathering Paperwork to Meet with a Funeral DirectorNext Valerie outlines what paperwork you need to gather for your initial meeting with a funeral director. She also provides answers to questions such as:What happens if I already have funeral plans at a different funeral chapel?What reason besides the obituary do I need a photo of the deceased?What if I meet with the funeral home director but forget the paperwork?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I know what to expect in the days after a loved one’s death? Do I have arrangements in place to help prepare for the inevitable? If you answered “no” to either or both questions then you may wish to contact Martin Brothers in Vancouver.How to Make Plans for a Funeral or Memorial ServiceThen Valerie explains the process for planning a funeral. As she points out, a funeral isn’t like a wedding which includes invitations and RSVPs.Valerie goes on to share some of the same questions and phrases she uses when having these types of discussions with families who come into their Vancouver funeral parlor.Grieving is a healthy part of the funeral process. Knowing what to expect the first few days after losing a loved one can help relieve some of the stress and allow you to mourn with your family.The episode wraps up the episode with Valerie sharing some final thoughts about this topic.Do You Want to Know More about What to Expect?Are you interested in knowing what happens in the first few days after losing a loved one? Do you want to be prepared in case you ever have to plan a service to celebrate the life of a loved one lost? After the podcast, comment or ask questions below so we can discuss them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you want to send a departed family member out in style? Are you in need of a unique venue to hold a memorial to celebrate the life of a loved one lost? A yacht can provide a private space to hold an intimate gathering to remember and grieve together with family and friends.When people think of holding a memorial service for someone who has passed away, they picture a funeral chapel filled with carefully arranged flowers and meaningful hymns played on an organ. Can you imagine the tranquility offered by a venue on the water?If you want to learn more about Pacific Ceremony services onboard the yacht, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about this unique service.Water has often been associated with healing properties. This interview is a chance to learn how to tap into that aquatic aura of calm aboard the Pacific Ceremony yacht.Do Services at Sea Require Scattering Remains?The episode begins with Valerie answering whether families need to scatter remains to have a funeral service or memorial in Vancouver upon the Pacific Ceremony yacht.Next Valerie explains why going out on the yacht appeals to families who plan a traditional burial for their loved one lost.Planning a funeral or memorial that includes a service at sea offers a unique way to help mourning loved ones find closure for the departed.What to Expect at a Service at Sea on the Pacific CeremonyThen Valerie describes what loved ones of the deceased can expect when attending a service at sea without the scattering of remains. She also answers questions such as:- What elements of a traditional funeral can I have aboard the yacht?- Is a service at sea a formal occasion or can it be something informal?- Does a service at sea have to follow the same timeline as a traditional funeral?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I want to honor a loved one lost in a unique way? Would my family benefit from having a yacht as a memorial venue? If you answered “yes” to either or both questions then a service at sea on the Pacific Ceremony may fit your plans.The Pacific Ceremony vs. Regular Charter BoatsNext Valerie addresses the benefits of using the Pacific Charter from Martin Brothers in Vancouver over regular charter boats.Families mourning a loved one lost may require a special touch during a memorial or funeral service, and Pacific Ceremony services onboard the yacht can provide them.If you’re pre-planning your funeral services, then the yacht offer a serene venue to help your loved ones move through the various stages of grief after your passing.Valerie wraps up the episode with some final thoughts including how you can receive one-on-one advice for your family’s unique situation.Does a Memorial or Service at Sea Appeal to You?Do you want to know more about Pacific Ceremony services onboard the yacht? Does a service at sea sound like the right option for your family? Leave your comments and questions in the space below after you listen to the podcast, so we can discuss them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Do you want to add a unique touch to your funeral pre-arrangements? Are you interested in a different opportunity to scatter the cremated remains of a loved one lost? Scattering at sea services may provide you with a solution.Water is often associated with properties like calmness and clarity. Can you see how celebrating the life of a departed loved one on the water could help mourners feel connected?If you want to learn about scattering at sea services, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about the benefits of this unique opportunity.People have associated water with healing and meditation since ancient times. This interview is a chance to learn how the sea can help you scatter cremated remains in a meaningful way.Scattering at Sea vs. Traditional ServicesValerie kicks off the episode with an overview of the service. She describes the yacht, kept in a central Vancouver location, and what families can expect during the service.If you have trouble picking a location for any reason, then you can still choose this service. The captain and crew are well-versed in local marine surroundings.From the eulogy and prayers to special music and flowers, scattering at sea services includes many of the same elements of a traditional service.Various Options for a Memorial at SeaThen Valerie shares some of the options available for this type of unique funeral service. She answers frequently asked questions during the podcast, which include:- Is scattering cremated remains at sea safe for the environment?- Can Martin Brothers accommodate my family’s special requests?- What if my family wants to serve food during the memorial at sea?Now ask yourself two questions: Does my funeral pre-planning include cremation? Do I feel funerals and memorials should facilitate closure to help the grieving process? If you answered yes to either or both of these questions, then a scattering at sea may be something to consider.The Cost of a Scattering at Sea FuneralNext Valerie discusses the price for scattering at sea services. As with any funeral or memorial the price varies depending on the choices made when planning funeral arrangements.Valerie discloses the base price for this type of service, explains what type of families would best benefit from it, and outlines what it includes. Then she shares things that may raise the price.If you’ve ever considered cremation as part of your funeral pre-planning or are tasked with scattering the remains of a loved one lost, then the sea may offer solutions to help.The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing encouragement for families planning a funeral in the Greater Vancouver area about combining a traditional memorial in a funeral chapel with a scattering at sea service.Is a Scattering at Sea Right for your Family’s Situation?Do you want to know more about this unique type of funeral service? Do you have questions about something that wasn’t addressed during the podcast? Listen to the entire episode now, and then leave your comments below. We look forward to discussing them with you.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to work in a funeral home? Do you know what a typical day is like working in a funeral chapel? Because few truly understand what happens behind the scenes at a funeral parlor, it opens the door to common misconceptions.Many people are familiar with the standard funeral home professionals’ duties which take place during a service or memorial. Have you ever wondered about a misconception you heard relating to someone’s job in a funeral parlor?If you want to learn some common misconceptions about working in the funeral home, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts.In this episode, host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services about which are tall tales, and which hold a nugget of truth..There are a lot of misinformed ideas that surround the funeral home profession. This interview is an opportunity to get exclusive insights from an industry expert.How the Staff Copes in a Place of MourningThe episode begins with Valerie explaining that despite the sad moments which take place in the funeral chapel, working in the funeral home does not mean being sad all the time.Then Valerie shares some of the different emotions that people experience when planning funeral arrangements for a loved one lost, and what types of activities trigger them.Planning or attending a funeral can help provide closure for your grief, but it also means remembering the good times you had with your loved one who has passed away.Why Funeral Homes Aren’t Just Out to Get Your MoneyNext Valerie addresses the misconception about funeral directors being out to get people’s money. She explains about services having fees attached, and answers questions like:- What do funerals cost in relation to a wedding or another big event?- Does the total cost of a funeral matter to the funeral home director?- Why can’t I have a funeral without the assistance of a funeral home?Now ask yourself these two questions: Do I find misconceptions about working in the funeral home interesting? Are there questions I’d like to have answered? If you answered “yes” to either or both questions, then you would be especially interested in hearing this interview.What Kind of People Work in the Funeral Chapel?Then Valerie addresses the misconception about funeral homes being filled with creepy employees. She knows funeral home professionals in other areas and shares the non-creepy trait they all have in common.Valerie explains where the misconception originated in regards to early funerals. She goes on to explain which traditions are still observed out of respect for grieving family members.If you’ve heard misconceptions about working in the funeral home then you can call your local funeral home, like Martin Brothers in the Greater Vancouver area, to get them cleared up.The episode concludes with Valerie sharing her final thoughts about funeral home misconceptions.Do You Have Questions about Funeral Home Misconceptions?Have you heard a misconception about careers in the funeral home? Do you want to satisfy your curiosity and sort the truth from the tall tales? If you have any questions or comments not addressed during the podcast, please mention them below where we can discuss them.Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.Martin Brothers Funeral ServicesVancouver: Funeral Services Centre3398 Dunbar StreetVancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1Telephone Number: 778.330.7799Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901Fax Number: 778.330.7633Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MartinBrothersFuneralChapelsBcLtdTwitter: https://twitter.com/martinbrothers1