Guess Who Died?!

Send us Fan MailGuess who died?! Well Walker, Texas Ranger walked his last walk as we lost Chuck Norris this month. Plus Jesse Jackson, Nicholas Brendan (RIP Xander!), Robert Carradine, Eric Dane, and we touch back on the loss of Rob and Michelle Reiner. Then, guest Heidi Mease joins us in The Pod (that Heidi helped make happen!) to share her story of losing her husband Craig in a car accident when she had two young children to raise. Heidi openly talks about the fear she felt for her family’s safety, and how support from friends and family helped her move forward in courage and eventually love.This week we’re talking about the best age to start watching Buffy, crab feeds and beer, and finding love again after loss! Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! and keep finding out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailGuess who died?! We lost some big names this month, including producer K.C.’s childhood icon James Van Der Beek and the screen legend herself, Catherine O’Hara (RIP Moira Rose!). Then, guest Chuck Levine joins us in studio to share his story of losing his wife Susan almost two decades ago, and what it was like to raise three young girls as a bereaved father. Chuck shares how working through the eight-week grief support program (held at Olivia’s House, where this very podcast is recorded!) guided his way during the most uncertain time of his life. This week we’re talking about the shock of changing social circles after your wife dies, using a brilliant line when asking someone to breakfast, and allowing grief to remain part of your life as a way to honor your loved one. Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! and keep finding out. . .who died! Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailGuess who died?! Luckily, not many people this month, however playwright Tom Stoppard left this world after leaving his great mark on the world of the stage. Then, guest Jane Snyder joins us in studio to share her story of losing her 21-year-old son Justin in a car accident. Jane talks about the unique role of being a bereaved bonus parent, walks us through watching her younger son hit milestones of grief, and she tells a story about a couch that will hit close to home for anyone who has been affected by loss.This week we pay respects to our dear friend Jean, introduce our BRAND-NEW POD, and we get an important reminder to “love life.” Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! and keep finding out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailGuess who died?! Well, no one that host Julia has heard of, but Rest in Peace former NFL commissioner Mike Tagliabue. Then, guest and Licensed Professional Counselor Patti Schlough joins us in The Pod to enlighten us about the incredible work she does as a renowned equine therapist. And at the same time that Patti shares about her role in the helping field, she also speaks candidly about her lived experience with cancer and loss. This is an episode you won’t want to miss.If you would like to find out more about equine therapy, please visit www.eagala.org. To learn more about Patti and the work that she is doing, please visit www.peacellc.org.Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! and keep finding out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailGuess who died. . . Season Two?! We kick off the new season remembering a TON of people, including actress Diane Keaton, D’Angelo, Robert Redford,  Ace Frehely, Jane Goodall, and Terrence Stamp. Then, guest Mikey Sharp joins us in The Pod to honor some heroes. As a First Lieutenant in Operation Desert Storm, Mikey was in charge of a platoon of soldiers. . . three of whom he still feels guilt about “leaving behind.” This month we’re talking “having your 6,” forgiving ourselves as a way of honoring our loved ones, and the meaning of brotherhood and community. Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! and keep finding out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailGuess who died? Well, author Graham Greene (in 1991) for one! But our hosts also mourn the loss of designer Georgio Armani. Then, guest Kimmie joins us in The Pod to talk about how loss has repeatedly touched her world and how faith has carried her through her bereavement journey. Plus, we get into Kimmie’s unique family dynamics . . . including adopting her nephew after the loss of her sister to Huntingdon’s Disease.  This week we’re talking big Catholic families, Dances with Wolves, and Kimmie’s connection to the mission of Olivia’s House. That’s a wrap on Season One of the podcast, but subscribe today to find us in Season Two of Guess Who Died?! and keep finding out . . . who died! Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailGuess who died? Our hosts fight tooth and nail about whether Hulk Hogan died this month, but sadly. . .he did. We chat Hulkamania and Apollo 13 before welcoming Jamie onto the pod to tell her story of losing not one, but both of her moms. Jamie takes us back to 2004, when a weird rash discovered on vacation led to a weeks-long hospital stay ending in tragedy. This tragedy led to an entirely new chapter in Jamie’s life with her dad and stepmom who, years later, faced a similarly tragic outcome. And yet Jamie has found ways throughout her life to ritualize and remember these two important women who shaped her, and it will inspire you to hear her story. Plus, Jamie is part of the reason Guess Who Died even exists!! This week we’re talking wedding dress shopping, having a PhD in grief, and just a smidge of sports. Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! today and find out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailWho died this month? Our hosts mourn the recent loss of Malcolm-Jamal Warner, Michael Madsen, and Sophia Hutchins. Then, guest Whitney joins the pod to share the story of Matthew, her first-grade student who taught Whitney more through his sudden death than she ever could have taught him as his teacher. Listen as Whitney describes navigating this tragic loss, which happened not only in her second year of teaching, but also the day before 9/11/2001. Now, as a veteran teacher of 25 years, Whitney looks back at what she did right, what she wishes she knew, and how teachers in a similar situation can find hope and healing even in the face of tragedy.This week we’re talking the Tarantino films, the importance of forming relationships, and – BREAKING NEWS – we get information on a major loss while in studio. Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! today and find out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailWho died this month? A ton of people, apparently! Our hosts say goodbye to Brian Wilson, Dave Shapiro, Jonathon Joss, George Wendt, and Anne Burrell as they compare notes on how these public figures have touched their lives. Then, guest Adam joins the pod to candidly share his experience coping with the death of his brother, Lance (yes, THAT Lance from The Bon Ton), at the age of 19. Grief almost NEVER looks how we expect it to, and Adam beautifully highlights the intense feelings of numbness that can confuse us (and even cause us to “fake it”) when we’re navigating the murky waters of bereavement. Negative coping skills are an easy distraction, but the real healing comes from turning inward and facing your grief – and Adam is a prime example of finding that out for yourself.This week we’re talking the “82 Club,” pay-phones, and enjoying the finer things in life. Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! today and find out. . .who died! Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailWho Died?? Well, this month we lost not only a game show host, a director, and movie star alligator, but also Pope Francis. . .and we chat about the ritual and nostalgia wrapped up in all of these losses. Then, future chemist and guest Hunter joins The Pod crew to tell a few hilarious stories about his dad Bert, who died from lung cancer over eight years ago, when Hunter was only 10. Hunter’s resilience, maturity, and positive outlook is a great reminder that loss in childhood does not mean someone is broken – rather, it can be where their greatest strengths come from. Oh, and you simply MUST hear the “pin story” on this episode. Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! today and find out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailWho Died this week? Well, host Julia learns about both the life and death of one Mr. Wink Martindale (what a name!) and we pay homage to the late Val Kilmer. Then, our hosts welcome guest Kate Harmon and her “Bob shirt” to the pod. Kate’s dad Bob (of the aforementioned shirt) was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease over 15 years ago, which kickstarted their family into teaming up with the Michael J. Fox foundation and helping to find a cure. From flying up and down the east coast, to taking charge and making semi-threatening phone calls, Kate has been “on” since her dad’s diagnosis, riding the adrenaline of anticipatory grief. By being given the “gift of goodbye,” Kate found ways to cope throughout her dad’s illness – skills that are still serving her since his death six months ago. But let’s not forget that a big part of healing is finding time to slow down, turn inward, and face your pain. Go Team Fox!This week we have a brand-new text thread, we talk about post-mortem CGI, the comorbidity of Parkinson’s and dementia, embracing the awkward, the science behind smelling Parkinson’s, and how the glitter of grief can stay on our pants forever. Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! today and find out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.   

Send us Fan MailCan you Guess Who Died this week? The question hits a little closer to home this episode, as Jeff shares that since we last recorded, his mom and “biggest fan”, Brenda Miley, died. Jeff was ready to take to the mic – in more ways than one – knowing that healing comes from talking about loss, especially with the “Guess Who Died?!” crew. Then, hosts Jeff, Julia, and producer K.C. welcome guest Paige to talk about her own experience with losing her mom at the age of nine. Now in her 20’s, Paige has navigated most of her life with grief by her side, using different therapies (shoutout to art therapy!) and coping skills along the way. Find out what it was like for Paige to live in a blended family while also keeping her mom’s memory alive at every turn, and let it inspire you to connect in new and unique ways to those who aren’t with us anymore. This week we’re talking about saving text messages, saying “Night Night” instead of goodbye, and chocolate milk on garlic bread (don’t knock it ‘til you try it!). We reference the book “Dead Mom’s Club” by Kate Spencer, and toast to our loved ones at the end of each episode in reference to a story that Casey Wilson tells in her book, “The Wreckage of my Presence.” Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! today and find out. . .who died! Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailCan you Guess Who Died this month? Non-athlete Gene Hackman, beloved 90’s actress Michelle Trachtenberg, grill-master George Foreman, and friend-of-the-pod Judy Wolfman all left our earthly plane this episode. Remember to check on your loved ones! Plus, hosts Jeff, Julia, and producer K.C. surprise guest Cari Lauer with the name of the podcast as Cari recalls, for the first time in a while, the day she had to tell her two young sons that their father had been murdered by a stranger. Cari shares the impact of her family’s loss being so public, how that conversation might be continued with her sons today, and Cari tells a magical story near the end of her interview that will show you the power that love has in healing!This week we’re talking cremation, boxing, negative coping skills (and how tricky they are!), and using our lived experience to help others. Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! today and find out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailJeff, Julia, and producer K.C. ask the question, “Who Died?!” and learn that the answer this week is Bob Uecker (Julia also learns who Bob Uecker is!). Guest and bright light Connie Wolfe joins our hosts to give us the privilege of learning about her “life of the party” son, Josh Mottin, who died suddenly in a car accident at the tragically young age of 19. And in the face of this tragedy, with another teenager at home and the uncertainty of how to move forward, Connie found healing. Today we’re talking mother’s intuition, dream visits, the presence of butterflies, Jimmy Carter’s connection to Hospice care, how loss can trigger childhood memories, and so much more! Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! today and find out . . . who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.

Send us Fan MailCan you Guess Who Died this week? Well, if you spun the wheel and it landed on Chuck Woolery, you’d be right! Plus, hosts Jeff, Julia, and producer K.C. welcome guest Lauren Blanar on to talk about the impact of losing two important women in her life: first her best friend to brain cancer and then soon after, her mom to COVID-19. We’ll hear some hilariously lovely stories about Lauren’s Mom “Nunee” (including how she got that nickname!), dive into the layers of loss that go along with losing your closest support system, and hear all about how Lauren reached out for help when she needed it most, becoming a “Grief Ambassador!” Lauren shows us the “best way EVER!” to continue her loved ones’ legacies, embodying her Mom’s favorite mantra: “Just be kind.”This week we’re talking postage stamps, game shows (has anyone actually heard of “Just Men?”), Cow Tails, “Evergreen” by Pentatonix , and you’ll hear us reference Kate Spencer’s book, “Dead Mom’s Club,” in case you want to check that one out for yourself! Subscribe to Guess Who Died?! today and find out. . .who died!Guess Who Died is an Olivia’s House Production.