Heart Talk With Ronke

Each family on earth is responsible for the kind of people we have in our society, a child who doesn't have a proper upbringing will misbehave in the society. Families owe the society to ensure their job is done properly, this will really reduce the rate of crime and atrocity committed on a daily basis. We can do better

It's necessary for every parent/guardian to be intentional with how they raise their children, being intentional means we'll be involved, being involved means we'll be available to guide them properly.

The way we communicate love matters a lot

When you inflict pain on a child, that isn't discipline anymore but an abuse. Discipline should be done in love and not anger.

Some parents are comfortable with transferring their responsibilities to their first child, the child isn't allowed to be a child anymore but a compulsory adult

Some parents usually ensures their children don't do any chores at home, they make them totally dependent on domestic staffs which isn't right

Some parents forces their children to get married to a wealthy person because of what they stand to gain

Parents who don't have good value will train their children to be like that, they don't mind pushing their children to do what's wrong just so they get what they want

Parents can deliberately teach their children to work diligently and to do what the kind of job they can be proud of

Spouses don't have to talk down on each other before their children or try to tarnish each others images before their kids

Parents shouldn't use their children as settlement for a loan they are unable to pay back

Parents should try and train their children by themselves, and with what they can afford

Parents should be deliberate about having this conversation with their children

It's really important that parents teaches their children what they ought, we shouldn't leave sex education to schools because they don't usually teach all they should.

Parents who are fond of speaking negative words to their children or calling their children names that isn't right, those words are not healthy at all. They damage instead of repair

The kind of words spoken to children by their parents or guardian can either shape the child's life positively or negatively

Parents should instill discipline in their children early enough, they don't have to sweep things under the carpet but correct immediately.

How you communicate or how you're involved in your children growth matters, someone who has really showed interest will know how best to help when the need arises

Some parents bring up their children to always compete

Some guys grow up to think every woman they come in contact to is inferior to them, this can lead to disrespecting the female

It's important for parents to pass the right kind of message across to their children. Wrong impression can become doctrine of not corrected

Parents should be the practical example of what they teach their children

Some parents feel it's wise to live their dreams through the children. Parents should pay attention to their children, so they know where the child's interest is

Some children get involved in bad things because of peer pressure, the reason will be the kind of people they're surrounded with

Some parents train their children to be competitive, such that they always feel they're in competition with people.

Some people are so quick to complain about what the country isn't doing for them, no one talks of what they can do for the country

Some parents train their children to be materialistic, they set up unnecessary standard just to prove a point

Some parents transfers hatred they inherited from people who witnessed it or who heard it from someone, they train their children to be tribalistic from a tender age. This will form their thought patten when they become an adult

This episode speaks on how parents transfer hatred for a particular tribe to their children. The child will in turn grow up with this knowledge, it's one country we have. We should not try to divide it

Discrimination is something we shouldn't do, but you'll see some parents train their children to do so

When we don't pay attention to what our children go through, it will be difficult to help them.

Some parents specifically tell their children the calibre of people they should mingle with or befriend. Some go as far as frustrate their children to do what they want

What we teach our children goes a long way

Parents who are greedy and not content will teach their children to do the same. This is why they must make deliberate effort to be good example to their children, they'll need to teach them contentment early enough

How we handle conflict is super important, our children are learning from us

Being honest surely doesn't cost anything, it have a lot to do with one's integrity. When a parent finds it so easy to tell lies before their children then they're not setting the right example for them

We definitely cannot determine the outcome of our decisions, when we put the right kind of attention then some things wouldn't pass us by.

We definitely cannot determine the outcome of our decisions, when we put the right kind of attention then some things wouldn't pass us by

We can instill the right kind of values in our children, this takes a deliberate effort.

The way we train our children matters a lot, we should correct them where necessary

When parents train their children well or be worthy of emulation we'll have less crime on the society today

What we don't create time for will come back to haunt us. When we create that time, we will train our children the way that is best

This episode speaks on the fact that parents ought to pay attention to the kind of friends their children have. It goes a long way, because man is a product of influence

When a family does not have a plan on the number of children they intend to have, but rather keep having children when they can't afford to cater for them.

It's important we pay attention to what the kids learn from us, a child who grows up seeing force as the way to get things done, will do the same thing

This episode speaks on how carelessness can cause more harm than good, when we pay attention to our children we can always detect negative things early enough

Fear wouldn't make the children open up to their parents if they have difficulties, because the parent hasn't created that avenue for the children to be friendly with them.

This episode addresses children who are brought up to fight or rain curses, their parent make them see avoiding problem as a sign of weakness

This episode speaks on how parents bring up their children to discriminate, to treat people based on status

What Parents do before their children is really important, they should be conscious of that. When pictures have been engraved in a child's heart, it leads to early Curiosity