Heart Versus Head

At the core of how we each operate in our relationships is the guiding concept of Heart and Head. As people are learning about Heart and Head, they see some similarities between it and other relationship models. In this episode, Randy and Beverly explain how Heart and Head is different and, yet, intertwined to the concepts of feminine, masculine, Mars, Venus and even attachment styles. Understanding Heart and Head will unlock your understanding of your relationship and also all of the other relationships in your life. We're diving into the operating system in this episode of Heart Versus Head. #HeartVersusHead #RelationshipStyles #MenAreFromMars #feminineenergy #attachedSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Judging. You know you're doing it. It's natural. It's the comparison nature of having a human brain. You compare yourself to others and that very human action comes with judgement. In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore a better way to judge a partner. Whether you're dating someone and wondering if they're a fit or you're married and trying to understand your partner, you'll see the benefit of judging based on your partner's values, instead of your own. That sounds complex (even for me, as I was typing it in the episode description) but we explain it better in the episode. Jump in as we explore exes, ex-pets, and the eternal relationship question: why didn't you text me back? #HeartVersusHead #YoureJudgingWrongSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Are you frustrated by the amount of 'pushback' in your relationship? Does it seem like every little thing is analyzed and critiqued? Or does your partner constantly jump in with 'fixes' you didn't ask for? While all relationships experience these kinds of friction points, why are these differences important in building a strong relationship. (And please excuse Randy in this episode, he 'geeks out' a bit when talking about polarity.)  #HeartVersusHead #HeartAndHeadCoaching #relationshipadvice #relationshipsPlease help us grow! If you're loving the free relationship help, consider giving us a share on your socials, a like or a subscribe. Thanks!Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly explain why Hearts and Heads need to "get a life!" Finding your individual interests and outside support networks can make a ton of difference in a relationship. Also in this episode, you'll meet the annoying rooster that lives outside the office (naming suggestions can be emailed to [email protected]). When we rely on solely our partner to fill all of our needs, we're headed for a letdown - not because they don't love or care about us enough - because no one can carry us and themselves effectively. It's time to get a life! And see how great it is for your relationship. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Randy's head is about to explode. In this episode, Randy has reached a level of exasperation with Heart clients who think their Head partners are just supposed to somehow know what the Heart needs. Dive deeper as we explore why most Hearts have an expectation that their partner just somehow magically knows the right thing to do. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Do you and your partner have the same definition of love? Are you sure? We've found that the Heart partner and the Head partner see love in very different ways. Hearts are feeling it. Heads are managing it. Find out why that matters so much as Randy and Beverly talk about how love is defined. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly explain why Heart/Heart relationships and Head/Head relationships don't work like you think they might. Listen and consider how all relationships seek the balance of Heart and Head. The secret isn't finding someone who has a relationship style just like yours, it's about finding the person who can balance your style, create polarity, and slide the correct direction to support you when you're struggling. When you can do that... everything else works better. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Why do we seem drawn to the bad relationships of the past? Have you ever been in a good relationship but felt like you were craving an old partner - even if the old relationship was horrible? Or maybe you keep dating the same kind of problem. What's wrong with us? What's wrong with our brains? Why do trauma bonds have such a strong draw. In this episode of Heart Versus Head, Randy and Beverly dig deeper into what goes on when we get hurt and why we seem to gravitate back to that familiar, previous damage. #HeartVersusHead Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly explain why fighting deeper is so important, especially when it comes to those arguments that seem to repeat themselves for years on end. If you've been fighting about the same thing over and over and over and over and over... this episode will show you an easier way. It's time to really get under the hood and fix this relationship for good. Vroom! Vroom!Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Humans generally know it. When we're in a disagreement, we're slinging hurt. So why is it so hard to slow down with our partner and see that they're hurting. In this episode of Heart Versus Head, Randy and Beverly explain how hurt disguises itself as anger, defensiveness, withdrawal and a whole bunch of other tricky emotions when hurt shows up in a relationship. When you learn to recognize hurt and respond to it appropriately, everything - every thing - gets easier. Here's a great episode to share with your partner and your friends... Unmasking the Hidden Hurt. #UnmaskingTheHiddenHurt #HeartVersusHeadSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly explain why the honeymoon phase can't last forever. And why trying to get it back is actually the wrong approach - relationally and scientifically. And they'll explain how you can learn to communicate in a way that helps you finally achieve something much better than the honeymoon phase - something you've always wanted. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Is your relationship getting heated? Are you feeling more angry these days? In this episode of Heart Versus Head, Randy and Beverly dive into why anger shows up in relationships and how you can navigate the angry moments with more compassion. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

On the one year anniversary of the Heart Versus Head podcast, Randy and Beverly discuss how the podcast almost killed them, explain why they argued about the title of this episode, and finally tell the story of how they met. Plus, they've got some practical insight into how the small, often unnoticed things couples have in common can make a big difference in a relationship. #HeartVersusHead Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

What do you do that triggers your partner? What do you that causes them to blow up like a landmine? For Randy, it's criticism. For Beverly, it's looking over her shoulder. But how do you handle those things as a couple? How do you avoid the landmines to keep from triggering each other? Then, how do you defuse those things so you aren't always walking through a minefield? In this episode, we'll show you how to learn to laugh at yourselves a bit while growing together into more stable humans. #HeartVersusHead #AvoidTheLandmines Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly help couples explore why we put so much pressure on our partners and ourselves when it comes to happiness. When it is someone's responsibility to make you happy... they're going to let you down. Not because they don't love you but because they're human too. How can couples break the cycle and find their happiness again?   Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore why relationships tend to experience less "fun" over time. Many couples talk about how things 'used to be' exciting and fun but now they're stuck in a world of sitting on the couch at the end of the day without the connection they used to share. Relationships will all experience a dip in the fun factor - for lots of reasons - and this episode offers some ideas to get the fun back. If you're ready to have some fun, grab your partner and listen to the podcast. #HeartVersusHead Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Let's fight about money. Doesn't everyone? Probably - at some level and some point. In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore the deeper issues that need to be part of your relationship's money arguments. When it's just about the money, then you're missing the point. When you dig a little deeper, this is all about values and trust. If you're ready to have more useful talks about money with your partner, this episode is for you. #HeartVersusHead #MoneyMoneyMoney #MoneyFightsSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In the first episode of Season 2, hosts Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock explain how Hearts and Heads talk differently about what they want and what they need. Join them as they discuss a couple who struggled with the kids always sleeping in mom and dad's bed. Get ready to change the conversation, speak the same language and get what you NEED from your partner (and maybe what you WANT too.)  #HeartVersusHead Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Well, put a big bow on Season One of the Heart Versus Head podcast. In this episode, Randy and Beverly recap their favorite episodes from the 2025 season and look forward to Season 2 - with all new episodes diving even deeper into why Heart partners and Head partners have so much trouble communicating in relationships. #HeartVersusHeadSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Just 'cuz you're sitting together... doesn't mean you're connected. The Head partner often has the feeling that being in the same space is 'good enough' as a means of connection. Watching TV together is not bad but it's not real connection. You've got to dig a little deeper and really connect to keep a relationship growing. In this episode of Heart Versus Head, Randy and Beverly give some examples of ways couples can connect again. #HeartVersusHead #RelationshipGoals #ProximityIsNotConnectionSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Have you heard about "gray divorce" or "silver splits"? These are the terms that social scientists, therapists and divorce attorneys are using to describe the growing trend of older couples getting divorced after 50. In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore the reasons why divorces are rising among older people . They'll also offer some tips to keep your relationship on track, especially when it feels like you'll never be able to make your partner happy. #SilverSplits #GrayDivorce #HeartVersusHeadSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

If you've ever felt like your partner put other things ahead of you... then you're going to want to listen to this episode of Heart Versus Head. Randy and Beverly talk about how to make your partner a priority, especially when human chaos breaks out - like it often does around the holidays. Prioritizing your relationship is the key to its survival but it isn't as hard as it seems. This is yet another area where Hearts are a bit crazy and Heads can seem like narcissists. Get ready to prioritize!  And if this one connects with you, remember to like, subscribe, follow, comment and tell a friend or 18.   #HeartVersusHead #TheCoupleRulebook #RelationshipPrioritiesSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

We're busting some ghosts on this episode. If you've been ghosted or are a "ghoster"... let's talk about a better way. It's time to be honest, even when it sucks. In just 20 minutes, you'll hear Randy and Beverly explain how Heads and Hearts should be dealing with breaking up in the modern world. #HeartVersusHead #ghostbusting #BreakingDownBreakingUp Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Are you a princess waiting for a prince to rescue you? In this episode, Randy and Beverly talk about grand, romantic gestures and why too many Hollywood stereotypes about love have actually made relationships harder. Even if you achieve great romantic gestures and win the princess... you're setting your relationship up for future failure. It's time to focus on teamwork and kick some dragon butt together. Tune in this time around as Randy and Beverly take a lighthearted look at why Randy sucks at being the prince and why Beverly isn't much of a "sit and wait to be rescued" kind of princess. #HeartVersusHead #SlayYourOwnDragons #couplesgoalsSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, we're diving into why Hearts are toughest on other Hearts and Heads are more critical of other Heads. If you've ever been judgmental of your children's dating choices or of a co-worker's screw up, then this one is for you. Even though we're hard on our opposite-style relationship partner, why do we seem to be most harsh to those around us who are probably more like us? Like always, hosts Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock explain it through real life examples that are sometimes funny and always thought provoking. Grab your partner and see if you can understand the times in your life where Birds of a Feather Clash Together. #HeartVersusHeadSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Have you ever had a disagreement because your partner was upset about something else and then they got mad at you for not listening, not understanding or not being supportive... when you thought you were trying to help? Or are you the partner that just wants your disconnected partner to listen like your friends do? The 10 Minute Vent Protocol helps you set some rules around venting and guides resolution instead of just more "stuck". In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore why constant complaining - even about non-relationship stuff - can damage a couple's communication. If you're ready to solve the actual problem - instead of trying to fix every problem - give Heart Versus Head a few minutes of your time. #HeartVersusHead  Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Is Halloween a relationship holiday? In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore the horrors of relationships, including the topic of attachment styles. If you've got ghosts of exes past, skeletons in the closet, or a mask you wear, this one is for you... because after Valentine's Day, Halloween might just be the 2nd best holiday to think about your relationship. 3lh3KoUcuKFvXKRMqza4Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly dive into Rule #13 from The Couples Rulebook - Fight by the Rules. Are you ready to learn how you can use disagreements to create stronger connection in your relationship? Do you know how to de-escalate by starting with love? Listeners will learn how to use curiosity to replace defensiveness. Plus, Randy and Beverly explain how the rules in The Couples Rulebook are structured for everyone - no matter how you like to learn new things. There's also some big discounts on The Couples Rulebook right now on Amazon - whether you like the Kindle version or an old school paperback. #HeartVersusHead #FightByTheRules Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, the hosts explore how more and more people are turning to AI for relationship advice. But is that advice any good or can it do more harm than good? Can a chatbot be useful in solving relationship communication issues? Randy and Beverly explain why AI might have a place in relationships but that place probably isn't serving as a low-budget, on-demand source of therapeutic wisdom. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Head-led partners focus a lot of energy on being factually correct but that can seem harsh and uncaring to their Heart partner. Listen as Randy and Beverly discuss an argument they had about something that should not have been an argument. How do the little moments break connection and how can being aware of it change it? Find out on this episode of Heart Versus Head. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Heart partners, does your Head partner roll their eyes or give you an exasperated look when your emotions start running strong? There is usually much more to "the look" than disdain, disgust, or disinterest. Maybe, they just don't understand your feelings. In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore why Heads make that face and why it makes Hearts so upset. Plus, they offer some tips to get through the situations when THE LOOK appears. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Is everything their fault? Even if it is, if you focus on fixing your partner, you'll end up wasting a lot of your energy. In this episode, Beverly and Randy explore why focusing on yourself will generally yield better relationship results. #HeartVersusHead #FixYouFirstSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Heart partners, have you ever gotten mad at your Head partner for something they did IN A DREAM? This is an example of "What you said... in my head."  This week we're talking about how easy it is to make up a story that leads to an argument, even if the story hasn't happened. Why are we so quick to assume what our partner is thinking and why they're thinking it? But we're so darn wrong most of the time. If your relationship suffers from "What you said, in my head" Syndrome, you might want to listen to this episode. #HeartVersusHead Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Have you ever felt like your Head partner was hard to love? Not because they didn't deserve it but because they couldn't seem to accept it... no matter how hard you try? In this episode, Beverly and Randy examine the critical inner voice that Heads have and how it impacts relationships. If you love a Head... but they suck at letting you love them, this one is for you... and them... (and all your friends). Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore the dangerous waters of broken trust. From infidelity to addiction, there are a million ways to mess up the trust in your relationship. But how do you get it back? If you and your partner have encountered a loss of trust - or just want to make sure your relationship is bulletproof - listen to Trust Me... Again. You'll see that it can be better. Not just better than it is now but even better than it was before. As long as you're both willing to dig a little deeper and be vulnerable. Trust us... you don't want to miss this one. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Are you the Heart partner or the Head partner in your relationship? This is the episode that will give you the communication clues to discover your role. Hearts lead with everyone's feelings and Heads lead with logic and facts. It doesn't means Heads don't have feelings and it doesn't mean that Hearts can't be logical... it just means that in your relationship, you prefer to do it one way. Listen as Randy and Beverly break it down a bit.  #relationshipgoals #HeartVersusHeadSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly discuss how to handle the touchy subject of interactions with ex-partners, especially when kids are involved. You can't just block 'em and walk away. Whether it's scheduling custody handoffs or providing details about an important event, you're going to have to communicate with your ex and then you're going to want to communicate about that communication with your current partner. How everyone reacts in these situations will impact your current relationship. From anger to jealousy, there can be a lot of emotions involved when our mate's former mate is prowling around.  Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Randy and Beverly talk about men checking out other women -  from a glance at the cute girl at the mall to the bit too long look at the girls on the beach. Sexual attraction may be biological but it's a dangerous minefield in a committed relationship. If you've ever asked your man, "are you checking her out?" ... then this one is for you. Can your relationship handle the difficult conversation of when a look goes from simple biological response to inappropriate? Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode Randy and Beverly explore the ways that Hearts and Heads use conversations for different purposes and how that can lead to trouble in a relationship, especially when you both think you're right. So grab your partner - nicely - and learn another way that Hearts and Heads end up messing up communication. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Remember that episode about The Moment a few weeks ago? Well, Beverly had a moment too. This time around, you'll see why Beverly told Randy that he was a better boyfriend than a husband... and figure out how that happens in a relationship. If you ever felt like the amazing person you dated, became the less than stellar person you got stuck with... this one is for you. #HeartVersusHeadSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

Randy and Beverly jump into some reasons why people - even single people - can benefit from listening to a relationship podcast. Building your relationship skills - like learning to understand Heart and Head styles - isn't just positively life changing with a partner. It can help you navigate work relationships, parenting or finally understanding your weird neighbor. If you've wondered what a relationship podcast like Heart Versus Head can add to your life, give this short 10 minute bonus episode a listen. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In the words of the great philosopher, Dr. Gregory House, "Everybody lies." In relationships lies can erode away trust or create conflicts in values that do more harm than telling the truth. But is it okay to lie? Maybe just a white lie? Or to tell them their new shirt looks great? Or to fake it in bed? In this episode, Randy and Beverly explain why Hearts and Heads lie for different reasons. They also discuss how the values each partner builds when they're growing up determine how comfortable they are with dishonesty in their relationships. #lietome #housemd #HeartVersusHead #everybodyliesSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

There are some defining moments in every relationship. There's the moment you fall in love. There's the moment you realize they love you. And there's THE MOMENT your partner screws it up and lets you down. In this episode, Randy and Beverly talk through the moment Beverly let Randy down... because he ain't no Nicholas Sparks. Listen with your partner and talk about the moments in your relationship. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

It's the peak of the summer season and that means ice cream. I scream... you scream... we all scream for ... dating to be easier. Why can't I find my person? In this episode, Beverly and Randy discuss how picking a different flavor might serve you well - in ice cream and dating. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode, Beverly tells the story of the time she reacted out of anger and frustration and did something terrible. The story leads to a discussion about addiction, disappointment, anger and hope. Is there a murderous twist to the story? What do you do when you reach the end of your rope? Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

What's the key ingredient that will predict success in repairing or improving your relationship? In this episode, Randy and Beverly explain why both partners having a willingness to learn makes all the difference in the world. And they go on a crazy aside about how infidelity isn't what sinks most relationships. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

In this episode Beverly has a concept for how to be less controlling in all of your relationships. Basically, think of your partner as a space alien. Listen and learn why thinking this way could really, positively change your relationship with your partner, your kids and even your best friends. Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

While Heads will often focus on the emotional chaos of being in a relationship with a Heart partner, there's something important that can get missed beneath all that. In this episode, Randy tells the story of the moment he knew that Beverly was the perfect partner... at least, perfect for him. It's a short episode since Beverly is off island for the day but it's an important message about the real value of Hearts.Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

What are the things that you brought to your relationship? Do you have specific beliefs about what it means to be loved? Are there things your partner should "just know" that they should do to show that they love you? In this episode, Randy and Beverly discuss how our individual definitions of love are formed and why humans naturally (and wrongly) assume that everyone does it the same way. This time on Heart Versus Head, it's backpack cleaning time!Send us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. 

One of the biggest challenges in relationship communication is when you try to make your partner happy and they're trying to make you happy. It can end up with frustration and NOBODY being happy. In this episode, Randy and Beverly take on why focusing on your partner's happiness only works if you actually know what they want and need - and most partners get that wildly wrong. #HeartVersusHead #relationships #relationshippodcastSend us Fan MailHeart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again.