I Love You So Much - ILYSM

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Dave Merheje (Ramy) joins us  joins us to talk CPAPs, aging, and the slow unraveling of masculinity. We get into depression, germophobia, the alcoholism pipeline, and the complicated relationships we have with our fathers.  As we get older, may we all begin to master the art of caring less. Follow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod  Today we're joined by the talented and insightful Actress Michaela Watkins!! We discuss how we can normalize kindness, we go over tips for training your brain to deal with angering situations, and how hard it can be to have the bandwidth to keep up with relationships. Plus, Tyler has some new news about his caffeine intake.MORE MICHAELA:https://www.instagram.com/michaelawat/ Follow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/ https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/ https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/ Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcast   Support the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodPaul Walter Hauser joins us this week to talk about growth, faith, and becoming better. We get into the quieter addictions and what it really takes to walk away from them. Paul unpacks how faith challenges the rise of the manosphere, offering gentleness, and humility. Redefining strength in a world that gets it wrong. The work isn’t flashy; but it’s important.Paul’s new comedy Balls Up, starring Mark Wahlberg, Sacha Baron Cohen, Eric André, and a stacked cast of killers, is out TODAY on Amazon Prime. Follow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodWe’re welcoming America’s Favorite Stepmom to the ILYSM stage; Ryan Keely! Tune in for an absolute time as we dive into stepmom fetishes (are they even real?!), Ryan’s obsessions with D&D, Magic the Gathering, and so much more! More Ryan!https://www.instagram.com/ryankeelytm/?hl=enhttps://americasfavoritestepmom.com/Follow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod You know that it’s her time. This week, we welcome comedian and Vanderpump Rules reality star, Billie Lee. From her time on VPR, to navigating mistreatment, Billie gets candid about her journey toward becoming the successful comedian we know her as today. Follow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/ https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/ https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/ Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcast Support the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Legacy, identity, and purpose take center stage as Clifton Collins Jr. (Star Trek, Capote) joins ILYSM to reflect on honoring your roots and lifting others along the way. Clifton shares the enduring influence of family, offering heartfelt insight into his relationship with his grandfather, Pedro Gonzalez Gonzalez: a pioneer for Latinos in the Western film era. He also recounts memorable moments from his career, including encounters with Samuel L. Jackson, and speaks on the importance of community through his work with Homeboy Industries and the support system they provide.Follow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/ https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/ https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/ Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcast Support the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod It’s not every day you meet someone truly magical. Actress Claire Holt (H2O: Just Add Water, The Vampire Diaries) joins us for a heartfelt conversation as we dive into nostalgia, the realities of parenting in 2026, newfound joys in life, and so much more.Follow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/ https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodAlan Ruck (Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, Succession, Spin City) joins us to talk about life after the cameras stopped rolling. Scraping by between jobs, raising his kids while his wife pursued her career, reconnecting with Matthew Broderick, surviving a near-death experience, and working with Michael J. Fox.  We learn about patience, sacrifice, and the persistence it takes to stay in the industry long enough for Success(ion) to happen.Follow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodThis week on ILYSM, we’re joined by Clayton Farris (Weapons, Maxxine)! We’re discussing loving yourself in your 40s, dating, and the vulnerability of hair loss and everything it brings up. Cheers to this generation of men as we strive for deeper connection, accountability, and real friendship.Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/ Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodWe’re joined by actress, comedian, and writer Natalie Palamides to talk all things Nate, Jackass, voice acting, and clowning with Hillary Clinton. Reed and Tyler step into the women’s shoes for an improv of their own. Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPod Eric Lange is in the building! You may know him as Sikowitz from Victorious or Lyle from Escape at Dannemora, but today you meet Eric at his most vulnerable. We talk about living with ADHD, avoiding hard conversations, body dysmorphia, and life before sobriety. Eric and Tyler share the uncomfortable work of becoming healthier, learning to speak up against racism and misogyny, and why “softness” can be a real strength: especially when standing up for someone without a voice.More Eric!https://www.instagram.com/mrericlange/?hl=enCheck Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodWe’re joined by the hilarious Maxx Eddy, and things spiral immediately (in the best way). We get into Maxx’s comedic roots, why we’re all secretly desperate for validation, and have a very honest conversation about bisexuality and our evolving relationships with masculinity.Plus A Valentine's Treat, The ILYSM Guide to Online Dating; breaking down real dating app messages and walking you through exactly what not to do. Consider it a public service. Maxx, we love you so much. Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodSamantha Mack takes the stage for an honest exploration of grief, survival, and identity. She opens up about her life, the reality of paving the way in the adult industry, and how beauty and desire are often dictated by the men in the room. MORE SAM!https://www.instagram.com/thesamanthamackCheck Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodWE. ARE. SO. BACK. It’s the Tucker & Dale reunion you’ve all been waiting for. We’re welcoming THE Tucker to Tyler’s Dale: Alan Tudyk! We get into it all: impostor syndrome, unforgettable Tucker & Dale vs. Evil stories from set, and behind-the-scenes moments you’ve truly never heard before, and why a sequel never happened.Happy 15 Years to Tucker & Dale!Follow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodTyler is flying solo again and welcoming Jessica Graham (author of Good S* x: Getting Off Without Checking Out) for an honest, nuanced conversation about s* x, connection, and everything we get wrong. Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodTyler welcomes Jason Ritter to the ILYSM stage for a heavy, raw, and deeply human conversation. We go deep on Gravity Falls, alcoholism, relationships, and John Ritter. What unfolds is an honest reminder that everyone carries a story we rarely see.Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodTyler is BACK & flying solo this week and welcoming the incredible Hana Mae Lee (Pitch Perfect) to the ILYSM stage; and boy, do we get into some sh*t. Hana and Tyler dive into the emotional, physical, and neurological healing power of music. This episode is a full-on love letter to music and the ways music has helped keep us grounded, inspired, and alive.Check Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Reed goes solo this week with therapist Amber Robinson for a grounded conversation about loneliness, connection, and the complicated ways we seek love. Amber breaks down insecure attachment, love-bombing, and the quiet cruelty of “I’m sorry you feel that way.” They also dive into the emotional burnout of entrepreneurship and why building real connection has to be treated like a job if we want to thrive.Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodCheck Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Reed sits down with Dan Parziale of Mesa Farm and Jeff Gaddess of DignityMoves; two men who do real work at the heart of the homelessness crisis. Jeff opens up about his journey through mental illness and homelessness, and how it called him to a life of service. Together, he and Dan share what it really means to rebuild: not just homes, but community.Learn More about Mesa! https://www.mesafarm.org/Learn more about DignityMoves! https://dignitymoves.org/Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodCheck Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

We're excited to be joined by Logan Miller (I’m in the Band, Ultimate Spider-Man) for a raw talk about identity, recovery, and the unpredictable world of Hollywood.From nicotine to caffeine, we dive into how quickly habits become vices. Logan gets real about his Disney past, carving out a new path, and what it’s really like to hustle as a working actor. The guys also trade stories about coming of age in Hollywood, and a few unforgettable nights out. Support The Show on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/ILYSMPodCheck Out The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coFollow Us On Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/ilysmpod/https://www.instagram.com/tlabine/https://www.instagram.com/reedfishlysm/Follow Us on TikTok!https://www.tiktok.com/@ilysmpodcastSupport the show

Reed’s flying solo with the brilliant Nicole Sachs (Mind Your Body, The Cure for Chronic Pain). Nicole shares her own insight on how to actually reprogram your brain. Together, Nicole and Reed dive into radical acceptance, why we’re built to remember pain, and how to break the cycle of self-loathing. If you’ve been struggling; in your body, in your mind, or in your heart, this episode’s for youSupport the show

This week on ILYSM, we welcome the incredible Chris Sullivan; Emmy-nominated actor you know from Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2, This Is Us, and Hadestown.Together, we dive into;  selfishness, self-pity, and patience; and what it really takes to grow through pain instead of getting stuck in it. The guys get honest about complaining, perspective, and the possibility that maybe… we never fully “find” ourselves; and that’s okay.Check out our Patreon! www.patreon.com/ilysmpodThank you The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off your order!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coSupport the show

This week on ILYSM, we’re joined by actor, comedian, and Vine star Manon Mathews! Tyler comes clean about a childhood lie, and Reed admits to ghosting someone. Manon opens up about her experience being cheated on, and Tyler shares his own perspective from the other side; a raw, vulnerable conversation about infidelity, trust, and the messy human side of love. It’s funny, honest, and deeply real... just how we like it on ILYSMCheck out our Patreon! www.patreon.com/ilysmpodThank you The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off your order!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coSupport the show

This week on ILSYM, the legendary Will Sasso (MADtv, The Three Stooges, Happy Gilmore) joins Reed & Tyler to discuss health, self-care, and what it really means to show up as a man. We discuss taking antidepressants, CPAPs, mouth guards, and why taking care of yourself isn’t weak; it’s how you show up for the people who love you.Cheers to the men who inspire us; may we all know them, may we all be them.Check out our Patreon! www.patreon.com/ilysmpodThank you The Bearded Brotherhood! Use our code ILYSM15 for 15% off your order!https://thebeardedbrotherhood.coSupport the show

This week on ILYSM, Reed & Tyler welcome Mel Rodriguez to the table. You’ve seen him in Better Call Saul, Getting On, and The Last Man on Earth, but here you’ll meet the man behind the roles. Together, we talk about the hard stuff; battling addiction, weight struggles, and the pressure men feel to stay silent about their emotions. Stay tuned for timeless advice from men on what truly leads to happiness. | Support the show

Rage, acceptance, and tolerance; we’re diving into it all this week on ILYSM. Steph Barkley joins us to unpack the emotional tug-of-war between doing the work that pays the bills and chasing passion projects that sometimes leave us resentful. There's laughter, there's vulnerability… and yes, we may or may not be booking a rage room by the end of it. Tune in to see how it all unfolds!Support the show

We take a look back at some of our favorite conversations from ILYSM so far.    Did we miss any? Which ones did you like best? Let us know down in the comments!Featuring  Nik Dodani, Fiona Dourif, Ethan Suplee, Mireille Enos, Devon Sawa, Gina Minardi, Will Forte, Eliza Coupe, Judy Greer, and Ian Fidance.Support the show

On this episode of ILYSM, we welcome the incredible Proof of Life author and TED Talk speaker, Jen Pastiloff, for a conversation about resilience, honesty, and belonging. We talk about what it feels like to have your last words to a loved one be the wrong ones, the pressure to hide sobriety, and how self-doubt can take root in our daily lives. Jen shares openly about living with deafness, how abandonment shaped her, and the difficulty of not always being able to express what’s inside. Reed admits he hasn’t read a book all year, Tyler opens up about pretending to be sober to keep the peace, and together we reflect on the idea of “factory default settings,” our shortening attention spans, and how to take self-doubt out of our lexicon.Above all else, always remember: "You belong here."Support the show

On this week’s ILYSM: Nik Dodani (Tyler’s Escape Room co-star) stops by. We cover why silence in politics is never innocent, the anxiety of raising children, and yes… we admit we’re kinda okay with g*ns. We talk about the optimism we all felt 2016. And Tyler? He leaves us with an extra DEEP confession that further reinforces the safe space that is ILYSM.Support the show

The brilliant comedian Ian Fidance stopped by for a full-on love sesh on ILSYM this week. We laughed! Reed cried! The dudes talked grief, addiction, wild childhood stuff, and coping with those brutal, inescapable moments of self-doubt - the worst. There are so many reasons to love Ian, but more than anything, it’s his commitment to being unapologetically himself always in all ways <3 . Go listen/watch for yourself! Support the show

We’re breaking the fourth wall this week with Gina Minardi — Tyler’s former EMDR therapist and a licensed mental health professional <3. We get into imposter syndrome, self-sabotage, the EMDR experience, psych meds, and more. An honest, insightful, and low-key hilarious episode - go watch/listen now!! Support the show

Judy Greer stopped by the ILYSM studio to talk likability as a superpower, the female urge to punch down with the boys, working the program, and being the ultimate funny girl — all while charming Reed & Tyler into oblivion.Support the show

This week we’re joined by our producer Stella Young to dig deep into daddy issues, depression, the humor in grief, intellectual gender fluidity, and why it always feels like the nice guy finishes last.Let’s. Get. Vulnerable. 🥲🎙️Support the show

This week, forever heartthrob Devon Sawa joins us for a wholesome (and hilarious) dude sesh 🇨🇦🥊 We get into the big stuff: hockey fights, growing up Canadian, Hollywood’s chaos, and the legendary “I’m proud of you” moment from your pops. Devon’s the best—tune in for a laugh, some feels, and classic bro energy but make it emo🤝Support the show

This week, the boys get meta — reacting to the podcast’s reactions. From family texts to fears of oversharing, we dive into anxiety, vulnerability, and whether putting ourselves out there was a huge mistake. We said you’re coming on this ride with us… so here 👏🏻we👏🏻go.Support the show

Eliza Coupe (Happy Endings, Future Man) and her wonderful husband Billy visited us from their peaceful life in the desert, and we couldn’t be more grateful. Our conversation with Eliza focuses heavily on body shaming and online criticism—issues she’s recently faced firsthand on the red carpet. We also dive into Tyler’s road rage, Reed’s skepticism about a higher power, and much much more. we love eliza and we love you sm! Support the show

Mireille Enos (The Killing, World War Z) is our guest today and charmed us all with her ability to be so tiny yet so powerful like her character Sarah Lindon from the beloved TV Series, The Killing. Tyler, Reed and Mireille discuss the pain of going to the gym, Mireille’s blackbelt, putting your kids in therapy & the devastating but relatable thought every artist has whether true or not —> “I am not part of the conversation.“Support the show

It’s Will Forte day on the ILYSM pod. what a friggen treat. The hilarious actor joins Reed and Tyler to talk about injuries & going to the doctor, kid life & getting older, marriage & Will’s v real addiction to ice cream that’s left us all craving —> chocolate chip. But not chips. Chipped chocolate. Support the show

Ethan Suplee—best known for My Name Is Earl and Remember the Titans—joins us in the studio this week for a deeply personal and wide-ranging conversation on male body image, diet culture, Ozempic, and the often misunderstood world of fitfluencers.In a space where these topics are still taboo for men, Ethan, Reed, and Tyler open up about growing up as bigger kids, navigating toxic diet trends, and the silent burden of being cast as the “fat, funny sidekick” in Hollywood.This episode meant a lot to us—we hope it resonates just as much with you.Support the show

Fiona Dourif aka Dr. Cassie McKay from The Pitt is swooping in as ILYSM’s first official guest! While we <3 diving deep into the male experience, it is equally beneficial to learn about the female one. Enter Tyler’s bestie, the hella self actualized & talented— Fiona Dourif. Reed, Tyler, and Fiona talk grief, vulnerability, lying to your therapist, dating in LA, Fiona’s controversial take on free will, her relatable character on The Pitt and much more! Listen, Watch, Subscribe! Yay —> this one was special, we love you all sm for listening in :)Support the show

Welcome to Ilysm’s very first episode! Meet Reed Fish & Tyler Labine 2 divorced Dads from Ojai, California trying to get better. Today the hosts introduce themselves, the thesis of the show & what to expect in the weeks to come.  We’ll introduce a segment called “Confessions” where Tyler & Reed own up to a tough moment they had this week. The guys talk vulnerability! Shame! Infidelity! Peacocking! Ping Pong! Sobriety! Hydrocortisone! Rashes! And much more. This has  been a wild, cathartic, terrifying ride. We thank you so much for joining us and please don’t ever forget - we love you so much ❤️If you like the show and want to support us please subscribe to Youtube, Apple, and Hit that bell. Thank you!!Support the show