Is It Just Me?

In this episode, Christy and Lucas dive into the significance of friendship and how meaningful connections shape our lives. Their personal stories and valuable insights highlight the transformative power of strong, supportive friendships. Whether you’re looking to strengthen existing bonds or forge new ones, this episode offers practical advice for building friendships that last.

In this episode, Christy and Lucas dive deep into the practice of sleep hygiene and its crucial role in promoting better sleep and overall health. From the environment you create to the routines you follow before bedtime, they explore practical strategies to enhance your quality of rest. Whether you struggle with falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up refreshed, this episode equips you with evidence-backed tips and tools to improve your nightly rituals and make restful sleep an achievable goal. 

In this episode of the Is It Just Me? podcast, hosts Lucas and Christy explore the complexities of setting boundaries in various relationships—whether with family, friends, or colleagues. They explore why boundaries can be so challenging to establish, the importance of identifying the value and meaning of your relationships first, and how to prepare for different emotional responses. Christy emphasizes that building self-confidence and identity are crucial starting points for healthy boundary setting. Tune in for insightful discussions, practical tips, and encouragement on creating space that respects your mental and emotional well-being.

In this episode of Is It Just Me?, hosts Christy and Lucas explore the complexities of self-esteem, acknowledging how difficult it can be to truly like ourselves sometimes. They discuss practical strategies for improving self-worth, including the power of just taking action and exposing yourself to things that might scare you. The conversation also touches on the impact of social media on our perceptions and self-confidence. Throughout the episode, listeners are encouraged to embrace their unique journeys, ask crucial questions about their experiences, and reach out for support when needed.

In this episode of "Is It Just Me?" hosts Lucas and Christy explore the complexities of living with chronic pain and its impact on mental health. They discuss the daily challenges faced by those impacted, the importance of communication with employers and loved ones, and breaking down stigma associated with chronic pain. Drawing from personal experiences and supportive insights, this episode aims to provide education, diminish myths, and encourage listeners to seek validation and support in managing their chronic pain journeys.

In this episode of Is It Just Me?, hosts Lucas and Christy dive into the complex and often misunderstood nature of grief. Moving beyond the traditional five stages, they discuss how grief is a fluid, non-linear experience with emotions that can quickly flip back and forth. Listeners will gain insight into why grief is so difficult and be encouraged to accept the unpredictable energy that comes with loss. The hosts also emphasize the importance of breaking life patterns that no longer serve us to heal and grow through grief.

In this episode of the Is It Just Me? podcast, Lucas and Christy delve into the challenging realm of conflict resolution from a mental health perspective. They share personal experiences, expert advice, and practical tips to navigate conflicts effectively and improve relationships. Join them on this insightful journey as they tackle the discomfort, myths, and stigmas surrounding conflicts, aiming to empower listeners with strategies for healthier communication and resolution.

In this insightful episode of "Is It Just Me?", the hosts delve into the intricate world of psychological testing alongside special guest Dr. Megan Spencer. From debunking myths to shedding light on its importance, they discuss the nuances of assessments, reports, and the impact on mental health services. Join them as they navigate through the complexities of psychological testing in a candid and informative conversation.

Join hosts Lucas and Christy as they dive deep into the world of borderline personality disorder (BPD) in this enlightening podcast episode. From discussing common misconceptions to providing insights on managing symptoms, this episode aims to educate, reduce stigma, and dispel myths surrounding personality disorders. Through personal anecdotes and expert advice, listeners will gain a better understanding of BPD and learn valuable strategies for improving mental health.

In this episode of "Is It Just Me?," Christy and Lucas delve into the complex and challenging world of parenting, talking through different parenting types, styles, and approaches. Offering insights and discussions that aim to reduce the stigma around mental health, they provide invaluable guidance for parents, caregivers, and anyone involved in the journey of raising children. From the difficulties of disruption and life routines to the necessity of a united parental front, no topic is left unexplored in this candid and informative episode.

In this episode of "Is it Just Me?" join host Christy and Lucas as they talk about fear! Everyone experiences fear at some point in their lives. Sometimes this fear can become problematic, limiting your ability to live a full life. Christy and Lucas cover some of the science behind fear, define "phobia," talk about how they treat dysfunctional fear in therapy, and provide tips for what you can do at home to help yourself or your child with their fear.

Exploring the complex topic of narcissism, this podcast delves deep into the traits, behaviors, and impacts of narcissistic individuals on relationships and society. Through expert advice, relatable stories, and therapeutic insights, listeners will gain a better understanding of narcissism and learn tools to navigate interactions with narcissists more effectively.

In this new episode of "Is It Just Me?" Lucas Mitzel and Christy Wilkie examine the intersection of sports and mental health, offering insightful conversations and expert advice to help young athletes, parents, and coaches navigate the emotional and psychological aspects of athletic performance. From discussing the impact of pressure and anxiety in sports to exploring the connection between mental well-being and athletic success, Christy and Lucas provide valuable perspectives and practical strategies for managing the mental game of sports.

In this podcast episode of “Is It Just Me?” Lucas Mitzel and Christy Wilkie delve deep into the prevalent stigma and myths surrounding mental health. Through personal stories and insightful discussions, they aim to challenge misconceptions, break down barriers, and promote greater understanding and empathy towards people dealing with mental health challenges.

In this special additional episode of “Is It Just Me” join therapist Lucas Mitzel as he gives listeners a transformative journey within their own body and mind. In this episode, Lucas guides listeners through a soothing body scan to promote calm, mindfulness, and inner peace. This episode offers a unique mixdown of gentle narration, and relaxation techniques, leaving you feeling refreshed, rejuvenated, and more connected to yourself.

In this episode of “Is It Just Me?”, Lucas and Christy delve into the world of mindfulness and relaxation techniques. From body scans to mindfulness exercises, they provide a soothing experience to help you unwind and distress. Discover practical tips and advice on incorporating mindfulness into your daily routine and learn how to prioritize mental well-being in today's fast-paced world. 

In this month’s episode the "Is It Just Me?" podcast, Lucas Mitzel and Christy Wilkie, Dakota Family Services, dive into the complexities of trauma and its therapy. The episode sheds light on Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (T-F-C-B-T) and the importance of creating a trauma narrative as a cornerstone of healing. The thoughtful discussions aim to educate listeners on the intricacies of trauma, the innovative methods used in therapy, and the role of caregivers in the recovery process. Through expert insights and compassionate storytelling, Lucas and Christy provide practical advice and real-world examples for individuals who have experienced trauma.

In this episode of "Is It Just Me," Lucas and Christy talk about what it's like to begin therapy.  Feeling apprehensive about starting therapy is normal, but surmountable. Together, Lucas and Christy unravel common myths about therapy and emphasize the role of therapy in disrupting negative life patterns and routines that are no longer serving you.

In the latest episode of “Is It Just Me?” Christy and Lucas tackle the transition from leisurely summer days to structured school schedules with warmth and wisdom. This episode is a must-listen for parents seeking guidance and strategies to help navigate the shift with confidence. Learn how to handle changes in routine, the importance of communication, and strategies to help the entire family adjust to and embrace the new normal. Listening to this episode can be your first step toward making back-to-school a season of growth and positive change for all.

In this episode of "Is It Just Me?", Christy and Lucas discuss how common it is for people to see themselves differently from others. Using their own personal triumphs and challenges as examples, they outline the things that shape our self-esteem. Additionally, they share simple daily practices to help listeners recognize and celebrate their own personal victories. This episode is filled with tips and engaging stories aimed at encouraging listeners to undertake challenges that foster self-growth and personal confidence.

In this episode of "Is It Just Me?" Lucas and Christy discuss ADHD, shedding light on its prevalence and impact on daily life. Learn practical strategies for managing symptoms and understand why your friend or loved one with ADHD does the things they do.

In this episode of "Is It Just Me?", join our hosts Christy and Lucas as they delve into the complex relationship between the internet and mental health. The digital age brings information and social connections to our fingertips, but it also presents unique challenges and opportunities for our safety and psychological well-being.

Join Lucas and Christy as they explore the power of spending time outdoors on mental and emotional well-being. Discover practical tips, personal anecdotes, and expert insights on the benefits of getting outside and reconnecting with nature.

In this episode of "Is It Just Me," Christy and Lucas discuss the very important topic of suicide. Listen to learn about risk factors, warning signs, and what you can do to help a loved one who is struggling. Remember, you are not alone. If you need immediate assistance, call 911. If you need to talk to someone, call the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988.

Join Christy and Lucas as they explore and discuss change—both big and small life changes that are inevitable in life. Learn why change can be so hard and discover ways to manage it effectively. 

In this episode, Christy and Lucas explore depression. Join them as they discuss the signs and symptoms of Major Depressive Disorder, what you can do to help yourself feel better, and what you can do to help your loved ones. They will talk about coping strategies, therapy interventions, and ways to help you identify when your child might need extra help.

In this episode, Christy and Lucas explore anxiety. Join them as they discuss the signs and symptoms of an anxiety disorder, what you can do to decrease your anxiety, and how to best help loved ones struggling with anxiety.

In this episode, Christy and Lucas explore why relationships can be so hard. Join them as they discuss the characteristics of both healthy and toxic relationships, talk about the difference between normal conflict and abuse, and help you discover your love languages so you and your partner can best express your love to each other. 

Join Christy and Lucas, therapists at Dakota Family Services, as they share practical tips for building confidence when trying new things. From managing self-doubt to building resilience, this episode will empower you to approach new experiences with a positive mindset.