Karaoke Wine Podcast

In Plain Sight: Unmasking the Rape Academy Epidemic & The Dark Web of Consent   In this episode, Jules & Tessa discuss a CNN investigation into an international “rape academy” chat group and content hosted on motherless.com, which they say received 62 million visits in February and includes thousands of videos of unconscious women tagged “passed out” and “eyecheck,” with users exchanging tips on drugging partners and avoiding detection. They connect the story to broader issues of misogyny, the manosphere, and consent, citing statistics including 10–14% of married women being raped by partners, laws in 17 states affecting prosecution when a spouse rapes an incapacitated partner, and low reporting, arrest, and conviction rates. They share personal experiences of sexual assault and abuse, discuss how mainstream media distractions and institutional cover-ups enable harm, reference cases like Gisèle Pelicot and films depicting “nice guy” predators, emphasize teaching consent and confronting systemic behavior, and provide the National Sexual Assault Hotline number (1-800-656-HOPE).  00:00 Cheers And Disclaimer 00:16 Rape Website Shocker 02:21 Married Men Drugging Wives 05:09 Consent And Culture 05:54 Marriage Rape Stats 08:36 Personal Assault Story 11:13 Media Distraction And Desensitization 17:09 Rape Reporting And Convictions 21:21 Trauma And Safety Strategies 24:57 Friend’s Break In Assault 27:00 Silencing Survivors 28:18 Power Abuse Coverups 30:12 Rape Academy Exposed 33:53 Why Prosecution Fails 35:16 Raising Better Men 36:38 Bear vs Man Debate 47:20 Consent Lessons 49:59 Ending With Action Content quoted by: instagram @onyinyechi_blossom Here are trusted organizations offering confidential support, resources, and guidance:  National Sexual Assault Hotline and Chat  www.rainn.org www.crisistextline.org Sexaul Assault Support for the DOD community: www.sapr.mil   Aid to Victims of Domestic Abuse (AVDA) https://www.avdaonline.org/  Help Home Safe https://www.helphomesafe.org/  Women in Distress of Broward County https://widbroward.org/  Families First of Palm Beach County https://familiesfirstpbc.org/  If you are in immediate danger, please contact local emergency services. 

Incels or Influencers? The Truth About the Manosphere (Netflix Review) Incels or Influencers? Let’s talk about it. Jules and Tessa break down Netflix / Louis Theroux’s documentary on the manosphere and nothing is off limits. From rage-bait podcasts to high-ticket “coaching” programs, we unpack the ecosystem built around masculinity, money, and influence  Ask yourself the real question: who is actually benefiting? We dive into key figures like Sneako, Justin Waller, Harrison (HS), Ed Matty, and Myron Gaines, calling out contradictions, occasional truths, and the bigger pattern behind it all. This episode covers: The manosphere as an online ecosystem (incels, influence, and identity) Influencers profiting from courses, referrals, and “financial freedom” promises Podcast culture that sets women up for humiliation The contradiction between “traditional values” and modern behavior Why younger audiences are especially vulnerable to this content The connection between isolation, identity, and online influence We also highlight where we do agree — including self-improvement, discipline, and men creating value — while pushing back on narratives rooted in anger, control, and misinformation. At the end of the day, this isn’t just about content - it’s about who it reaches, and why it works. 00:00 Karaoke Wine Intro 00:25 Why This Documentary 01:29 What Is Manosphere 02:37 Notes Over Rage 03:58 Influencer Money Machine 05:01 Meet The Cast 05:41 Hot Housekeeper Moment 06:55 Miami And Machismo 07:37 Justin Waller Breakdown 08:52 Podcast Women Setup 10:02 Living For The Camera 11:26 Fans And Value Talk 13:33 Wives Shift The Tone 16:40 Nice Guys Dont Win 17:20 HS Crash And Mom 19:14 Followers Are Mostly Kids 20:12 Who Watches Manosphere 21:23 Why Toxic Influencers Rise 23:39 Humiliation Podcast Culture 26:21 Justin And Locker Talk 27:39 Women Invent Nothing Claim 30:40 Traditional Roles Hypocrisy 33:15 Morals Faith And Respect 34:21 Depression And Incel Pipeline 35:49 How Big Is The Subculture 37:40 Raising Better Men 39:20 Therapy And Final Warning 

The 90s Secret We Can’t Stop Talking About  Karaoke Wine kicks off (in the morning, with coffee cheers) by slipping back into the pre-social-media 1990s—when grunge, boy bands, and hip hop all lived on the same radio dial, and nights meant Titanic tears, Jurassic Park obsession, The Matrix hype, dial-up internet, Blockbuster rituals, and Beanie Babies treated like investments. Jules and Tessa reflect on growing up as 90s kids sent outside until dark, trading school clothes for play clothes, reading Goosebumps, and mastering toys like Skip-It while memorizing phone numbers and using landlines. Then they reveal their most formative 90s fixations and icons—while arguing the era’s vibe, fashion, and attitude deserves a comeback.  Go down memory lane with us and drop a comment to who your favorite 90s icons were growing up.  00:00 Morning Coffee Kickoff 00:09 Why the 90s Ruled 01:10 Movies Politics and Dial Up 02:20 90s Kid Life Nostalgia 04:24 Outside All Day Memories 05:45 Pierce Brosnan Crush 07:17 Thomas Crown Style Icons 08:45 Jared Leto Heartthrob 10:52 Buffy and Sarah Michelle 14:34 Sharon Stone and Pfeiffer 16:45 I Know What You Did Summer 17:02 Teen Movie Icons 17:38 Reese Witherspoon Era 18:59 Julia Roberts Crush 20:40 Kate Beckinsale Love 23:31 Heartthrobs Then Now 24:13 Nineties Nostalgia Rant 24:53 Cigarettes Back Again 29:29 Old School Kid Games 30:30 Landlines And Dial Up 32:20 Bring Back The Nineties 34:24 Final Sign Off 

Jules and Tessa reunite with their friend Jamal—former Neurotic November vocalist, actor, and now CEO of Supersonic Soft Washing—sharing how they met in a Miami acting class and recently learned pressure washing with his team. Jamal recounts shattering both Achilles tendons and being told he might never walk again, then getting hit by a car while setting up the business and suffering life changing injuries but through perseverance and faith, prevailed. They break down how he and his wife Desiree built the company through door-knocking, early underpricing, and word-of-mouth, plus hiring standout young workers. The episode highlights his faith-driven, fear-fueled mindset, family support, lessons on resilience, and rapid-fire picks for hype songs and karaoke.  00:00 Welcome and Toast 00:30 Meet Jamal the CEO 02:22 Metal Band to Acting 04:21 Injury and Comeback 08:21 Naming the Business 09:45 Starting with Family Team 11:19 Hiring and Gen Z Workers 14:17 Finding Clients and Growth 17:59 When It Finally Clicked 19:58 Mindset Faith and Resilience 21:43 Early Hustle and Sales Skills 24:28 Growing Up Different in Miami 28:02 Parents Support and Lessons 30:25 Tough Love Parenting Today 32:07 Tough Love Parenting 33:04 Fear Into Excitement 35:04 Leveling Up Like Mario 35:48 Retro Games Nostalgia 38:19 Make Your Bed Mindset 39:51 Small Business Grants 41:34 Services and Service Area 43:40 Gen Z Work Ethic 46:09 Desiree and Partnership 50:46 Acting Warmups and Stretching 55:02 Rapid Fire Music Picks 57:49 Final Mindset and Signoff 

Voyage Mag, Hot Takes, Real Talk & the Episode That Shall Not Air  Jules and Tessa celebrate their Voyage Magazine feature, spill how Karaoke Wine began (brunch + wine + “we should podcast”), and recap Season 1 chaos: dirty glasses, tequila decisions, and one lost episode too wild to post. They talk real behind-the-scenes podcast life—editing in Descript, tech fails, upgrading lighting/cameras, and dialing in audio with their current setup—while shouting out partners (Briosa/Jeff, Flow Haus Media/Ada, Sandra, Rip Print/Jay, Blissful Energy/Hally). They also joke about trolls as “fans,” tease possible live call-ins, and wrap with rapid-fire faves: wines and karaoke staples   00:00 Karaoke Wine Kickoff & Cheers 00:39 Featured in Voyage Magazine: Let’s Expand the Q&A 01:11 How the Podcast Started (Brunch Idea → Mic’d Up) 03:08 Early Episodes Chaos: Double-Recording, Dirty Glasses & Lost Footage 06:11 From Wasted to (Mostly) Sober: Finding the Right On-Camera Vibe 08:19 Behind the Scenes Editing Grind: Descript, Filler Words & Workflow 12:12 Tech & Production Upgrades: Lighting, Cameras, Audio Gear Lessons 14:03 Authentic Over Studio-Perfect + One-Take Recording Style 15:47 Who Gets Credit + Handling Fear, Support, and Troll “Fans” 19:41 Listener Engagement Ideas: Live Call-Ins & Future Formats 20:32 Shoutouts & Sponsor Love: Why Partnerships Matter 21:01 Meet Briza (Bosa) Founder Jeff: How the Collab Started 22:13 Authenticity & Integrity: Only Promoting What We Actually Like 23:05 Ada & Flow House Media: The Swipe-Story Cliffhanger + Season 2 Upgrades 24:41 More Thank-Yous: Sandra, Jay (Rip Print) & the South Florida Network 26:07 Going Beyond South Florida: Scaling Guests, Travel, and Big Plans 27:02 Season 2 Grind: Scheduling Chaos & Putting the Podcast First 28:24 Working With Your Best Friend: Fights, Growth, and Communication Styles 31:53 Business Behind the Scenes: Finally Setting Up the LLC (Without Overspending) 33:18 Rapid Fire Finale: Favorite Wines, Go-To Karaoke Songs & Season 2 Hype  Voyage Articles https://voyagemia.com/interview/life-work-with-karaoke-wine-podcast-with-jules-tessa-of-fort-lauderdale/ https://voyagemia.com/interview/meet-ada-peschanskiy-of-flowhaus-media/ https://voyagemia.com/interview/meet-sandra-valencia-of-leak-and-subsurface-locators/ Collabs:  www.drinkbriosa.com www.ripprint.com www.flowhausmedia.com       

Title: The Speed Dating Diaries: Love, Louboutins, and a Lot of Stella  ---  Join us as we dive into Tessa’s exciting and nerve-wracking experience at a speed dating event! From pre-date jitters and picking out outfits to surprise reunions and heartfelt gifts, we've got all the details. Listen in as Tessa shares her thoughts on the speed dating process, the interesting people she met, and her candid takeaways. It’s a fun-filled episode full of laughter, heartfelt moments, and some surprising turns. Will Tessa find love or at least a good story? Tune in to find out!  00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene 00:06 Speed Dating Event Preparation 00:41 Surprises and Gifts 02:47 Networking and First Impressions 06:14 Speed Dating Experience 10:04 Reflections and Takeaways 13:23 Reflecting on Speed Dating Experience 13:45 Realtor Days and Property Showings 14:02 Memorable Encounters and Doppelgangers 16:07 The After Party and QR Codes 16:56 Debating Relationship Dynamics 20:30 Unrequited Love and Personal Growth 25:48 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans    

Pop, Fizz, Clink: A Dive into Netflix's Members Only, Fashion Faux Pas, and Etiquette Adventures  Welcome to a sparkling new episode of Karaoke Wine! Today, we're popping bottles of Veuve Clicquot champagne and diving into the buzzworthy Netflix reality show 'Members Only' set in the elite circles of South Florida. Expect lots of laughter and opinions as we discuss everything from the show's cast, etiquette faux pas, and jaw-dropping fashion choices, to hot takes on cultural aspects and the reality TV landscape. We even touch on historical immigration and generational wealth, all while enjoying some classy champs. Buckle up for a rollercoaster of fervent and fabulous commentary—cheers to Season Two!  00:00 Welcome to Karaoke Wine 00:06 Introducing Veuve Champagne 00:18 Discussing Netflix's Members Only 00:57 Champagne Etiquette and Preferences 01:29 Reality Show Critique 04:08 Members Only Cast Insights 11:14 Fashion and Etiquette in Palm Beach 21:39 Fashion Highlights and Critiques 24:19 Palm Beach Member Etiquette 25:05 Caviar and Champagne on the Beach 25:39 Donald Trump and Elon Musk Cameos 26:06 Favorite Characters and Their Traits 29:10 Blurred Faces and High-End Donors 33:40 Immigration Stories and the American Dream 35:39 Generational Wealth and Laziness 42:53 Chelsea Handler and 50 Cent 45:23 Season Two Excitement and Future Plans 

Navigating the Rage Bait Era: Insights on Outrage Culture and Social Media  In this episode of 'Karaoke Wine,' Jules and Tessa dive deep into the topic of 'rage bait,' discussing its nomination as Oxford's word(s) of the year for 2025 and its impact on social media and real-world events. They explore how online content is designed to elicit anger and outrage, the spread of misinformation, and the psychological aspects behind people's reactions to rage bait. The conversation touches on various societal issues including the political climate, gender identity debates, and the effects of deep fake technology. The hosts also share personal anecdotes and reflections on how rage bait influences their daily lives and broader society. Additionally, they emphasize the importance of constructive discourse and the need for empathy and understanding in today's polarized world.  Please note that we mentioned a story about a man dressed as a deer that was in a hunting accident.  We researched and found that this was satire (click bait) not factual, which is on theme for this episode.  Enjoy!  00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:29 Morning Show Vibes 01:07 Oxford's Word of the Year: Rage Bait 01:41 The Impact of Rage Bait on Society 02:23 Personal Experiences with Misinformation 05:01 Rage Bait in Media and Politics 09:05 Conspiracy Theories and Social Media 19:34 AI and Deep Fakes 22:16 Rage Bait in Gaming and Relationships 23:40 The Problem with Modern News 24:13 Movie Review: I'm Not Okay 26:05 Social Media and Influencer Culture 27:44 Rage Bait and Its Impact 40:18 The Role of Music in Mental Health 44:44 The Importance of Open Conversations 47:27 Final Thoughts and Reflections 

Building an Unstoppable Business: Sandra's Journey from Medical Assistant to Leak Detection CEO | Karaoke Wine Join us for a fun and insightful episode of Karaoke Wine where we chat with Sandra, the powerhouse behind Leak and Subsurface Locators. Sandra shares her remarkable journey from being a medical assistant to co-founding a successful leak detection and pool inspection business in Florida. We discuss overcoming stereotypes in a male-dominated industry, the challenges and triumphs of starting a business, and the importance of family and faith in her life. Plus, enjoy some light-hearted karaoke, wine tasting, and witty banter along the way!  00:00 Introduction and Welcoming 00:04 Wine Tasting and Preferences 02:26 Discussing Leak Detection Business 05:45 Starting and Growing the Business 09:58 Challenges and Successes 15:58 Family and Business Integration 26:02 Meeting Jeff: A Twist of Fate 27:21 A Chance Encounter at the Mall 28:34 The Car Accident That Changed Everything 33:05 The Proposal on a Cruise Ship 35:58 Building a Business and Life Together 39:27 Overcoming Domestic Violence 43:24 Rapid Fire Questions and Fun  For Domestic Violence Resources: www.avdaonline.orgwww.helphomesafe.orghttps://widbroward.orghttps://familiesfirstpbc.org

One-Year Anniversary Explosive Reveal: Dating Disasters & New Merch! Celebrate our one-year anniversary of Karaoke Wine with an exclusive look at our sizzling new merch! In this special episode, we dive into the provocative world of modern dating, ignited by the Netflix movie 'Oh, Hi.' Brace yourselves for juicy insights on miscommunications, steamy personal dating disasters, and shocking revelations. Plus, get the lowdown on our epic WrestleMania SmackDown moment and how we overcame it. This unfiltered episode is packed with laughs, drama, and everything in between. Don't miss out!  00:00 Introduction and Anniversary Celebration 00:19 New Merch Unveiling 02:02 Reflecting on Friendship and Conflicts 03:34 Modern Dating and Communication 04:04 Movie Discussion: 'O Hi' 07:48 Personal Dating Experiences 16:09 Overheard Conversations and Reflections 21:15 The Art of Loud Talking 22:03 Living in a Fantasy World 23:31 The Rule vs. The Exception 24:53 Navigating Modern Dating 27:32 The Tinder Experiment 33:48 The Importance of Honesty in Relationships 37:58 Reflecting on Past Relationships 41:30 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections 

Welcome back to Karaoke Wine! Grab a glass and join Jules and Tessa on the couch for this week's hot topics. We dive into the intricacies of sharing your relationship on social media, touching on everything from hard launches to the impact on your follower count from the new Hot Off the Press Vogue article. We share personal experiences, discuss societal shifts on relationship dynamics, and bring insights from friends who balance authenticity with influencer life. Expect a mix of laughter, real talk, and a few cheeky moments as we explore the evolving landscape of love and online presence. Cheers!  00:00 Welcome and Introductions 00:44 Switching Roles and Energy 02:35 Throwback Girls Night Plans 03:04 Discussing the Vogue Article 04:58 Social Media and Relationships 08:15 Personal Experiences with Posting Relationships 15:39 Archiving and Moving On 19:15 Navigating Social Media and Relationships 20:00 Soft Launching Your Relationship 21:55 Authenticity and Influence 23:51 The Impact of Posting Partners 28:11 The Me Era and Singlehood 33:07 Dating Dynamics and Social Media 35:34 Balancing Success and Relationships 42:02 Concluding Thoughts on Social Media 

Join Jules and Tessa as they dive into the world of dating apps, exploring their profiles, preferences, and hilarious experiences while sipping on wine and enjoying some karaoke. From the intricacies of matching to the downright bizarre profiles they've encountered, this episode is packed with fun, laughter, and a candid look at modern dating. Perfect for anyone navigating the dating scene or looking for a good laugh!  00:00 Welcome to Karaoke Wine 00:58 Getting Back on the Dating Apps 01:40 Profile Preferences and Deal Breakers 03:54 Dating App Strategies and Experiences 05:38 Filtering Matches and First Date Stories 13:23 The Importance of Career and Compatibility 18:41 Navigating Dating App Filters and Preferences 20:07 Dating Profiles and Frustrations 21:05 Bumble Prompts and Strategies 23:42 Critical Thinking and Communication Boundaries 24:26 Profile Pictures and First Impressions 25:37 Setting Boundaries and Intentions 27:55 Podcast and Personal Boundaries 30:18 Enjoying the Present and Future Plans 36:06 Final Thoughts and Advice  

Ditching Bitch Boys: Tales of Modern Dating Struggles  Welcome to the latest episode where we dive into the trials and tribulations of modern dating! Join us as we share hilarious yet eye-opening stories of dealing with 'bitch boys'—men who lead with disrespect and inflated egos. From absurd date experiences to harsh breakups and the importance of respecting oneself, this episode is packed with relatable situations and life lessons. Plus, we discuss the power of female friendships, setting high standards, and navigating through the world of instant gratification. Cheers to self-love and saying no to toxic relationships!  00:00 Introduction and Catching Up 00:21 Discussing Bria and Drinking Preferences 01:22 Introducing the Episode Topic: Little Bitch Boys 02:20 Breakup Story and New Date 03:24 The Jewish Italian Date 05:04 Third Date Disasters 07:04 Confrontation and Realization 10:27 The Final Straw and Ending It 21:23 High School Memories and Dating Apps 22:12 Rejection and Respectful Responses 22:51 Mental Health and Insults 24:02 Ghosting Etiquette 26:40 Dealing with Rejection 30:57 Modern Dating Challenges 35:13 The Importance of Friendships 41:52 Evolving Gender Roles 44:54 Concluding Thoughts on Dating and Respect 

In this touching episode, Tessa dives deep into the importance of mental health and shares her heartfelt experiences. Despite the long duration, the discussion is heartfelt and sincere, aiming to provide comfort and understanding. Join us as we engage in a conversation that resonates with our listeners, emphasizing the significance of mental well-being.  00:00 Introduction and Greetings 46:53 Discussing the Episode Length 46:57 Feedback and Editing Concerns 47:01 Final Thoughts  

Join Jules and Tessa as they dive into an open and entertaining conversation about women's health issues, especially focusing on vaginal care as they transition into their 40s. They share personal stories about mammograms, UTIs, yeast infections, and how their bodies have changed since their twenties. The episode is filled with laughter and candid moments about the realities of getting older, maintaining vaginal health, and the importance of regular check-ups. Perfect for women of all ages, this chat is both informative and hilariously relatable! 

Join us in this heartfelt episode as we discuss the challenges of setting up our new studio, while diving into profound topics such as mental health journeys, the impact of tragic recent events, and the importance of empathy vs. sympathy. We explore the complexities of political affiliation and differences, the importance of respectful dialogue, and the devastating effects of celebrating the misfortunes of others such as Charlie Kirk and Iryna Zarutska . This episode honors the memory of public figures and discusses the broader societal implications of violence, respect for humanity, and the power of intelligent conversations. We also share personal stories, including Jules' conversion to Judaism and the ongoing need to find light and love in the world.

In this exciting episode of Karaoke Wine, the Jules and Tessa celebrate their move to a new studio space, followed by an unexpected birthday surprise for one of the hosts. The conversation then shifts to an in-depth discussion on polyamory, modern dating, and various forms of non-monogamous relationships. The hosts explore the intricacies of polyamory, the concept of ethical non-monogamy, and share personal insights into monogamy, open marriages, and fluid bonding. They reflect on societal changes, the dynamics of relationship boundaries, and celebrate the beauty of love in its many forms. Don't miss out on this engaging and thought-provoking episode! 00:00 Welcome to Karaoke Wine!00:27 Birthday Surprise for Jules01:55 Cheers with Custom Microphones04:48 Discussing Polyamory07:59 Exploring Open Relationships15:40 Ethically Non-Monogamous18:36 Reflecting on Changing Perspectives19:33 Exploring Modern Relationship Dynamics21:15 Polyamory vs. Polygamy23:04 Monogamy and Personal Space24:03 Honesty and Openness in Relationships30:02 Fluid Bonding and New Relationship Energy32:21 Embracing Love in All Forms36:13 Gratitude and Growth in Relationships38:21 Final Thoughts on Relationship Choices

Boundaries or control? Protection or possession?This week, Jules and Tessa react to a viral podcast clip comparing women to G-Wagons—and it sparks a powerful conversation.They break down:The subtle shift from healthy boundaries to toxic controlWhat real protection looks like in a relationshipHow emotional responsibility is the new sexyWhy women (and men) need to stop romanticizing jealousyFrom stories about girls' night gone wrong to the manipulative tactics of modern dating culture, this episode is real, relatable, and necessary.Follow, share, and DM us your take—where’s your boundary line?

The 5 love languages just got an upgrade. Tessa and Jules explore the 8 modern expressions of love—and how these deeper categories reveal who we are, what we crave, and why some relationships never quite click.In this unfiltered episode, they compare results, share vulnerable truths about touch, emotional safety, thoughtful gestures, and the importance of feeling chosen. From trauma healing to masculine energy, from butt slaps to intellectual foreplay—this is a love language deep dive you didn’t know you needed.Whether you're dating, healing, or discovering yourself, this one hits hard (and funny).Share it with your person—or send it to your therapist.

What’s your biggest ick? In this episode, Tessa and Jules list their top dating icks and relationship non-negotiables—from early pet names and baby talk, to lack of hygiene, no follow-through, and toxic tantrums in public.This is a must-listen for anyone navigating modern dating, dodging red flags, or learning how to hold stronger boundaries.Get ready for:Hygiene deal-breakers (yes, we’re talking teeth, toenails & farting)Men who can’t make a plan (ick)Dreamers vs. doers: what separates fantasy from realityOver-apologizing vs. not apologizing at allReading the room and respecting the vibeUnfiltered, funny, and full of truth bombs.Hit “Follow” to never miss an episode of Karaoke Wine, where we keep it real and occasionally savage.Sponsored by Briosa Wine Seltzer.  Have to be 21 and over.

What’s your breaking point in love? In this vulnerable episode, Tessa and Jules open up about knowing when enough is enough—whether it’s a long-term relationship or a situationship that leaves you drained.Jules shares what it took to walk away from a 13-year relationship, while Tessa reflects on the heartbreak that lasted far longer than the romance. Together, they explore emotional thresholds, triggers, and the courage it takes to finally put yourself first.This one’s for anyone who’s ever lost themselves trying to keep love alive.🎙️ Topics:• Relationship thresholds• Emotional triggers and trauma• Breakup recovery and healing• Self-worth and romantic clarity• Why walking away is sometimes the bravest choiceFollow Karaoke Wine for real talk on modern love, friendship, and growth.

Are women being categorized in dating… and do we do the same to men? In this episode of Karaoke Wine with Jules and Tessa, we explore the unspoken labels — from the “Good Time Girl” to the “Dream Girl” — and what happens when the chemistry is real but the commitment isn’t.We also get into:• How oxytocin can trick your heart• Why “the one” feels more like calm than chaos• The difference between butterflies and true compatibilityWhether you're a hard yes, a friend zone pro, or somewhere in between — you’re not alone.What category have you been put in? DM us or drop your thoughts below.Dating Categories: The Dream Girl, the Desperado & the Situationship Saga

Forget FAFSA - there's a new scholarship in town. Sugar Baby University (SBU) is literally ranking college by how many students are using sugar daddies to pay for school. Yup. Tuition's getting handled -- just not by financial aid. In this episode, we dive into the wild world of sponsored degrees, side hustles turned lifestyles, and the unfiltered economics of higher education. Is it empowerment, exploitation, or just Gen Z doing what they gotta do?#sugarbabyuniversity #collegesidehustle #tuitionpaid #sugarbabyculture #moderndatingeconomy #educationuncensored #studentlife2025 #brokebutbeautiful #sugarbabiesincollege #sponsormydegree #campusconfessions #realtalkontuition #swipeforscholarship

Buckle up for a wild ride through the most disastrous, cringe-worthy, and downright bizarre dating stories you've ever heard. In this episode, we spill all the tea on a toothless Tinder date, a charming guy with major American Psycho vibes, and a golden shower surprise straight out of Paris. From red flags to full-on horror shows, these are the worst dates that make ghosting look like a blessing. Whether you're single, dating, or just love chaos, you won’t want to miss this hilarious and unfiltered storytelling session.

Discover how to handle friendship conflict, emotional boundaries, and loyalty in this powerful episode: Friendships on Fire – Conflict, Loyalty, and Letting Go. We share how we resolved our first fight, offering real talk on communication, trust, and healing after a fallout.  Tune in as we talk about how we navigated tough conversations, rebuilt trust, and decided what was worth holding on to—and what wasn’t. If you’ve ever struggled with conflict in close friendships, this one's for you.  It is packed with relatable insights and practical tips for managing friendship drama.

Jules and Tessa went to LIV Golf Miami with their most popular topics (Does body count really matter, what is the most toxic thing you have ever done, and the exception to the rule).  This episode sheds some light on what other people think and of course we had to add some post commentary.  Find out what people of the streets think.#doesbodycountreallymatter #toxicityinarelationship #moderndating #datinginyour30s #livgolfmiami 

Is it giving boss babe or Stepford wife? On this spicy episode of Feminist or Feminine? Why Modern Dating Has Women Caught in the Middle, Jules and Tessa get real about the dating double bind—be strong, but not too strong; sexy, but still “wife material.” They’re unpacking the chaos of modern romance, calling out contradictions, and asking the question every woman’s thought: can you be both feminist and feminine without losing your damn mind? Grab a glass (or bottle)—it’s smart, sassy, and just a little savage.Sponsored by Briosa

Jules and Tessa sit down and discuss how men can perceive your social media profiles.  Are the good girls staying home and the bad girls out living their best lives?  We asked our followers and share their responses on this episode.  

Jules and Tessa dive into the irresistible allure of dating younger men - the passion, the excitement, and the taboo. From undeniable chemistry to breaking societal norms, they explore why age-gap relationships could be more than just a fling. Is it wild fun or truly worth it? Grab your glass or wine and let's talk.

Jules and Tessa discuss the difference between chemistry and connection.  And just sometimes, the crazy comes out!  

Jules, Tessa, joined by guest James, engage in a lively discussion about dating trends like splitting the bill and the role of economic power in relationships.  

Jules and Tessa sit down with Jules' brother to discuss dating apps, and what it's like dating but from a guy's perspective.  Join us for a rapid fire discussion.

Jules and Tessa share amusing stories about their toxic behaviors while also exploring how such experiences can lead to personal growth and ultimately foster healthier relationships.

Jules and Tessa walk through current dating intentions and discuss how they approach dating life.  The hot topic of how much you should give, trust, and invest during dating.  What timeline is appropriate?

Jules and Tessa share 2 "But Did You Die" stories from their friends.  Just what the title is...listen to what their friends went through and how hilariously they survived!!!

Jules and Tessa take a step back to do a proper introduction.  Both small town girls, turned to the big city life.  They take a walk down memory lane to share a small piece on how they got to be where they are some beliefs they have picked up along the way.

Jules and Tessa have a candid conversation on body count and speaking on sexual history when dating new people.

Jules and Tessa sit down to discuss past relationships that brought them to the dating app life. As we all know, there are trials and tribulations with all things relationships and the girls tell us first-hand how they maneuver through this new part of their life. Grab a bottle of wine (or two) and Carpe Diem, Bitches!