Kink Your Way

What if the key to navigating alternative relationship dynamics wasn’t secrecy or guessing—but education, community, and honest conversations? Discover how education, community, and honest dialogue are transforming the landscape of alternative relationship dynamics. Nicole Harlow shares her journey, her platform Swinky Things, and innovative tools like her upcoming app that empower individuals and couples exploring consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and BDSM. This episode emphasizes the importance of safety, communication, and self-awareness in these evolving spaces.Key Topics• The origin story of Swinky Things and Nicole’s personal journey into non-monogamy and BDSM• The significance of self-exploration, boundaries, and ongoing communication for relationship longevity• Differentiating between swinging, non-monogamy, and BDSM, and how they can coexist• Common misconceptions about BDSM and the non-monogamous lifestyle, emphasizing consent and respect• The role of education in reducing shame and misinformation—highlighting community and local resources• The development and features of the Safe Words app for safe, organized exploration of BDSM scenes• Addressing shame and fear: how transparency with family and community fosters acceptance• Incorporating BDSM and non-monogamy into broader conversations about sex education and mental health awareness• Practical tools and subscription boxes designed to facilitate safe exploration• The future of community, education, and collaboration in empowering safe non-monogamous and BDSM practicesTimestamps00:00 Navigating Alternative Relationship Dynamics01:39 The Birth of Swinky Things06:58 Defining the Swinky Lifestyle10:17 Personal Journeys in Kink and BDSM16:27 Exploration Resources21:25 Misconceptions About Non-Monogamy and BDSM27:39 Exploring New Dimensions of Attraction31:14 The Journey of Self-Discovery33:43 Community and Connection 35:37 Breaking Taboos: Education and Empowerment38:49 Normalizing Conversations Around Sexuality40:23 Living Authentically: Sharing Our Truths44:21 Collaboration and Community Support47:09 Innovative Tools for ExplorationEpisode Resources:Guest: Nicole Harlot is the creator behind Swinky Things, a comprehensive lifestyle guide and educational resource for adults exploring consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and BDSM practices. Through Swinky Things, they're building a supportive space where curiosity meets education and judgment-free exploration is celebrated.Connect with Swinky Things:Website: https://swinkythings.com/ Instagram: @swinkythingsApp: Oursafewords.app (pending launch)About your host:Leann Herron is a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast. Connect with Leann Herron:Kink Your WayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ 🆓 FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://kinkyourway.com/discover-the-secretsFinding Resilience with LeannWebsite: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com Podcast: Happiness On Tap https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVch1Dz_wc4GYfCzZrK656eNXpOqBYcm3&si=AQ_vTu-zvwmJCY_F Hashtags:

Dopamine and Desire: Understanding Pleasure PathwaysWhat if pain isn’t just pain—and pleasure isn’t always what we think? In the world of BDSM, the lines between agony and ecstasy blur in ways neuroscience is only beginning to explain. Join us as groundbreaking sex researcher Nishita Rao unpacks the neurobiology of kink, revealing how your brain processes pain, power, and pleasure.In this episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann Herron engages with sex researcher Nishita Rao to explore the complex neurobiology of BDSM, focusing on how the brain processes pain and pleasure. They discuss the role of dopamine in reward pathways, the significance of the amygdala in evaluating stimuli, and how context influences the perception of pain in BDSM. The conversation highlights the intricate relationship between pain and pleasure, emphasizing that BDSM experiences are not merely physical but deeply psychological and contextual.Key Takeaways:Pain and pleasure are not binary; they can overlap.Dopamine plays a crucial role in motivation and reward anticipation.The brain's response to stimuli is context-dependent.The amygdala evaluates the relevance of stimuli based on past experiences.BDSM can transform pain into pleasure through established trust and consent.Understanding the neurobiology of kink can enhance sexual experiences.Anticipation heightens the experience of pleasure in BDSM.Different types of pain (sharp, dull, emotional) affect perception differently.The brain's pathways for pain and pleasure are interconnected.🕛 Timestamps00:00 Introduction to Dopamine and Desire with Nishita Rao02:07 Disclaimers 03:27 Understanding Pleasure Pathways in the Brain11:35 The Role of Dopamine in Reward and Anticipation17:49 The Amygdala: More Than Just Fear24:03 Contextualizing Pain in BDSM34:44 The Neurobiology of Pain and Pleasure in BDSMEpisode Resources:Guest: Nishita RaoNishita Rao is the First and only Indian to become an AASECT Certified Sex Educator. She is also an Interdisciplinary Sex Researcher and a Behavioral Neuroscience Consultant, who hails from a background in Behavioral Neuroendocrinology, Bioengineering, Brain-Computer Interfaces & Sustainable Fragrance Industry.Connect with Nishita RaoWebsite: https://www.pillowtalkwithnixi.com/about Pillow Talk with Nixi https://www.pillowtalkwithnixi.com/ Center for Integrated Human Studieshttps://center-for-integrated-human-studies.notion.site/cihs Neuroscience Consultation https://cal.com/nishita-rao-ptwn Trauma-Informed Care https://cal.com/soul-sync-sanctuary Free Library https://www.pillowtalkwithnixi.com/sexscholarslibrary Eros Coaching: https://www.eroscoaching.com/2025/06/nishita-rao/You can also find her on Bluesky, Instagram, LinkedIn, and YouTubeVideos:Nociceptors - An Introduction to Pain https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUKlpuz2VTsPAIN! Physiology - The Ascending Pathway, Descending Pain Pathway and the Substantia Gelatinosa https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5c8maFAhqIcAbout your host:Leann Herron is a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast. Connect with Leann Herron:Kink Your WayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ Finding Resilience with LeannWebsite: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com 🏷️Keywords: BDSM, neurobiology, pleasure pathways, dopamine, amygdala, pain perception, sex education, kink, neuroscience, pleasure and pain🔎Related Hashtags:#neurobiology #neuralpathways #dopamine #amygdala #painpercept

Handcrafted Pleasure: The Legacy and Lifestyle Behind The Kink ShopIn this episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann Herron and Ben from the Kink Shop discuss the intersection of community, craftsmanship, and kink culture. They explore their personal journeys into kink, the importance of education and consent, and the Kink Shop's philosophy of being 'by kinksters for kinksters.' The conversation highlights the significance of quality in kink products and the role of community in fosteringa safe and enjoyable kink experience.Key Takeaways:The Kink Shop has thrived for over 25 years due to itsstrong community ties.Ben's journey into kink began with his first event atFolsom Street Fair.Leann's introduction to kink came after a long vanillamarriage and self-discovery.Both Ben and Leann emphasize the importance ofexploring kink together with partners.The Kink Shop prioritizes customer service and treatscustomers like family.Education is crucial for safe and enjoyable kinkexperiences.Negotiation and consent are fundamental aspects ofkink play.The Kink Shop aims to provide quality products with alifetime warranty.Ben expresses a desire to expand the Kink Shopinternationally, particularly in Europe.Leann's podcast reaches a global audience, helping toconnect kinksters worldwide.🕛 Timestamps00:00 Handcrafted Pleasure for Over 25 Years00:24 Greetings and Introduction to Ben and The KinkShop01:48 The Kink Shop: Family-Owned, Handcrafted Toys04:02 Ben's Kink Journey07:13 Leann's Path to Kink10:25 Shared Experiences in Kink Relationships13:12 Kinktoberfest and Learning Together17:05 Kink Shop Philosophy: By Kinksters for Kinksters22:23 Quality and Craftsmanship in Kink Toys27:05 Education and Safety in Kink Play31:42 Navigating Safe Words and Scene Endings32:09 Understanding Top and Bottom Headspaces33:17 The Importance of Education in Kink35:31 Exploring Sensuality and Intention in Play37:14 The Role of Education and Resources in Kink39:07 Negotiation and Safety in Kink Dynamics40:24 The Risks and Responsibilities of Kink43:20 Creating a Safe and Educational Kink Environment44:48 Personalizing the Kink Experience50:21 Kink and BDSM Resources and Education forWriters and Readers54:28 Kink and BDSM Coaching55:32 Future Aspirations for the Kink Shop59:47 Connecting with the Kink ShopDon’t forget to like 👍, share 👉, and subscribe!Episode Resources:Guest:Ben, a proud kinkster, seasoned sales pro, and futureco-owner of The Kink Shop—a multi-generation, family-owned company that’s been handcrafting toys for over 25 years. Known for their thuddy impact toys, stingy sensations, and electro delights, The Kink Shop has become a cornerstone ofkink culture across the U.S.Connect with Ben:Website: https://thekinkshop.com/ Email: [email protected]: thekinkshopTwitter x @TheKinkShopFetlife: TheKinkShop About your host:Leann Herron is a Kink-AwareProfessional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast. Connect with Leann Herron:Kink Your WayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ Finding Resilience with Leann Website: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com 🔑 Keyword TagsKink, BDSM, community, craftsmanship, education, consent, intimacy, identity, pleasure, toys📣 Hashtags#education #sexpositive #consentculture #podcastinterview #community #lifetimewarranty #exploration #customerservice

Conscious Kink, Community, and Connection - The Kink CollectiveIn this conversation, host Leann Herron speaks with Cat Ormeand Joshua Rodriguez, co-founders of the Kink Collective, about the transformative power of kink as a path to healing and empowerment. They discuss the importance of community, the philosophy of 'people before kink', and the necessity of education in navigating kink safely. The Kink Collective offersvarious programs aimed at fostering personal exploration, connection, and understanding within the kink community. They emphasize the significance of body mapping and communication in creating safe and fulfilling experiences inkink. In this conversation, Cat and Joshua explore the intersections of BDSM, personal responsibility, communication, and consent within BDSM practices. They emphasize the importance of self-advocacy, negotiation techniques for safer scenes, and the role of mentorship in kink communities. The discussion also delves into the integration of trauma and kink, the redefinition ofmasculinity, and the creation of safe spaces for vulnerability. Theconversation concludes with insights on personal growth and the importance of education in navigating these complex topics.Key Takeaways:BDSM is a valid contribution to somatic healing arts.Personal responsibility is crucial in BDSM practices.Communication is key; partners should not expect mind reading.Negotiation is essential for safety and consent in BDSM.Mentorship is vital for newcomers in kink communities.Trauma can inform one's experience in kink and BDSM.Redefining masculinity is important for personal growth.Creating safe spaces allows for vulnerability and healing.Education is necessary for understanding and navigating kink.🕛 Timestamps00:00 Greetings and Introduction of Cat Orme and JoshuaRodriguez02:37 The Mission of the Kink Collective04:55 Community and Connection in Kink08:29 People Before Kink Philosophy11:10 The Importance of Educational Spaces14:26 Navigating Kink Safely19:07 Healing Through Kink Practices23:35 Finding Your Voice in Kink27:43 Programs Offered by the Kink Collective35:28 The Power of Perspective-Based Learning37:22 Healing Through Kink Program39:15 Body Mapping: Understanding Our Sensations43:57 Navigating Limitations in BDSM46:49 Personal Responsibility in BDSM Relationships01:01:02 The Role of Mentorship in BDSM01:03:09 MITPISA - Negotiation Tools for Safety in BDSM01:17:13 The Importance of Follow-Up and Communication01:19:23 Navigating Grief and Trauma in Kink01:31:38 Redefining Masculinity and Identity01:44:15 Creating Safe Spaces for Men to ShareEpisode Resources: Guests: Cat Orme and Joshua Rodriguez –Co-founders of Kink CollectiveKink Collective is a place where curiosity is met with respect, and every journey is built on honesty and understanding. Find the support and community to explore meaningful connections and profound self-discovery.Connect with Cat Orme and JoshuaRodriguez:Website: https://kinkcollective.net/  About your host:Leann Herron is a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast.  Connect with Leann Herron:Kink Your WayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/  Finding Resilience with LeannWebsite: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com Podcast: Happiness On Tap https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVch1Dz_wc4GYfCzZrK656eNXpOqBYcm3&si=AQ_vTu-zvwmJCY_F  Keywords:Kink, BDSM, Healing, Community, Education, Transformation, Empowerment, Connection, Negotiation, Safety, somatic healing, BDSM, personal responsibility, communication, consent, negotiation, mentorship, trauma, masculinity

Beyond Safe Words: The Psychology of Trust and Power Exchange In this episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann Herron is joined by the dynamic duo—Enchantress Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve Bodansky. Together, they bring a fresh, playful, and deeply insightful perspective to intimacy, love, and personal growth.Shane and Steve share their PARN framework—Play, Attention, Reveal, Notice, a practical and transformative guide to building trust and connection beyond the mechanics of safe words. From the psychology of vulnerability to the importance of humor and play, they explore how power exchange becomes a pathway to authentic relationships that feel alive and nourishing.Whether you’re curious about kink or looking to deepen your current dynamics, this conversation offers wisdom, laughter, and real-world practices to help you create relationships rooted in trust, freedom, and joy.We discussed:0:00 Greetings and Introduction of Enchantress Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve Bodansky1:52 An introduction to their backgrounds, their partnership, and how their shared journey informs their teachings on love, intimacy, and personal growth.15:01 The PARN Framework — Play, Attention, Reveal, Notice: How their unique approach helps couples and individuals cultivate deeper intimacy, self-awareness, and connection.21:44 The Role of Playfulness - curiosity, joy, being childlike. 31:59 Leann shares her story of loving herself, developing her voice, and exploring which eventually led to her discovery of Kink and BDSM.37:28 Mindfulness, self-awareness, and safety are keys to receiving pleasure.39:21 Beyond Safe Words - The power of communication in negotiating.42:12 Noticing - Awareness, breaks, and edging to extend the play.44:01 It's your responsibility to use your safe-word, if needed.45:03 Vulnerability as a strength enhances the experience of power exchange and deepens trust between partners.56:09 Revealing - Check-In's are vital during and after play.59:46 Mindfulness and Intimacy: Dr. Steve shares how meditation and mindful presence build safety, connection, and trust in everyday relationships.1:04:40 Exercises for connecting your mind to your body.1:04:14 Creativity and Emotional Awareness: Shane discusses how creativity, emotional expression, and self-revelation weave into the psychology of intimacy and power dynamics.1:12:18 Navigating Challenges in Trust and Power: Common struggles couples face—like communication breakdowns and fear of surrender—and how to move through them with compassion.1:21:26 First Steps into Power Exchange: Encouragement and guidance for those curious about exploring kink, with a focus on safety, curiosity, and mutual respect.Episode Resources:Guests: Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve BodanskyEnchantress Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve Bodansky, partners in both life and work, guide people through the art of connection using their unique framework of P.A.R.N. - Your Pathway to Real Intimacy Through Play, Attention, Revealing, and Noticing. For more information on Shane Kulman and Dr. Steve Bodansky, please visit:Website: https://www.extendedmassiveorgasm.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EnchantressShane 🆓Free Gift: Coming SoonAbout your host:Leann Herron is a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. She is also the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast. For more information on Leann Herron, please visit:Kink Your WayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ Finding Resilience with LeannWebsite: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com 🆓 FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://kinkyourway.com/discover-the-secrets

Liberation Through Art, Sex, and HealingWhat if kink could be more than play—what if it could also be art, healing, and liberation? In this episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann Herron sits down with Tiffany Hall—visionary filmmaker, performer, Reiki Master, yogi, and holistic wellness practitioner—whose work lives at the sacred crossroads of sexuality, spirituality, and design.With roots in theater, dance, film, yoga, and Reiki, Tiffany brings a multidimensional lens to erotic expression. Her latest projects include Delet3Lola, a custom BDSM wear line, along with a striking new collection of copper jewelry and leather fur gear that merges sensuality, ritual, and craftsmanship. Tiffany’s artistry redefines kink not as taboo, but as a powerful pathway to creativity, empowerment, and whole-body healing.Together, we explore how kink gear can become tools of self-actualization, the artistry of BDSM fashion, and the power of inclusive erotic spaces.Tune in for an illuminating conversation that redefines how we see gear, play, and the role of sexuality in our healing and liberation.We discussed:0:00 Greetings and introduction of Tiffany Hall.2:02 Tiffany’s journey from theater, dance, film, and yoga into BDSM as a sacred practice.5:16 The inspiration behind Delet3Lola and how clothing and gear become extensions of empowerment and erotic identity.7:02 The unique role of copper, leather, and fur in creating sensual and powerful BDSM tools.7:45 How her designs help people embody and express their erotic selves.10:23 Healing power of copper, crystals, and energy.13:12 Tiffany's customizable and infused jewelry and kink gear, including durability.24:03 The problems with selling BDSM gear.30:10 Reframing kink beyond play and taboo into a healing, transformative practice.32:44 The importance of community and inclusivity in creating liberating erotic spaces.33:32 Tiffany shares her story of how this life, this season, was opened up to her through an astrology reading.34:59 How storytelling and visual art as a filmmaker influence her BDSM gear and performances.37:56 Misrepresentations in porn, safety concerns in porn and kink and BDSM spaces.40:57 Purchasing quality kink and bdsm gear.41:47 Practical ways to bring more artistry, ritual, and sacredness into your own BDSM practice.Tiffany shows us that kink is not only play—it’s a canvas for healing, self-expression, and empowerment.Tiffany is redefining what it means to embody sexuality as art and medicine. If this conversation opened your mind, share it with a friend who’s ready to explore kink beyond the surface. And remember: stay curious, stay playful, and keep finding the ways you can Kink Your Way.🔽🔽🔽 SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE 🔽🔽🔽Episode Resources:Tiffany HallWebsite: https://www.sexiestpocbrands.store/Other Social Media: Sexiest_POC on InstagramKi-fi Crowdfunding Campaign https://ko-fi.com/sexiestpocbrandsLeann HerronKink Your WayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourwayLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ 🆓Self-Care First Kink Play Prep Checklist - FREE PDF https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/digital-products/ols/products/mental-health-first-kink-play-prep-checklist📲 You can access the audio version on your favorite podcast platforms: IHeart, Spotify, Amazon Music, Podchaser, and Audible (just search Kink Your Way)#somatichealing #lifestylecommunity #empowerment #copperjewelry #kinkfashion #healing

Navigating Kinky, Non-Monogamous, and Lifestyle RelationshipsWhat does it really take to build healthy, shame-free, and joy-filled relationships in kink, non-monogamy, and lifestyle spaces? In this episode of Kink Your Way, I’m joined by Dr. Ashley—Sexologist, Relationship Coach, and proud member of the kink and swinging lifestyle communities. With nearly two decades of experience and a “no-nonsense, don’t f*** around” approach, Dr. Ashley helps individuals and couples break free from shame, guilt, and unhealthy control to create relationships rooted in authenticity and joy.We explore what it really takes to navigate kinky and non-monogamous dynamics, how to deconstruct sex-negative narratives, and why communication and self-knowledge are at the heart of every healthy relationship. Dr. Ashley also shares how her own journey of sexual liberation, survivorship, and mental health advocacy informs her coaching practice.If you’ve ever wondered how to move through stigma, set boundaries, and build thriving relationships in lifestyle communities, this conversation is for you.Key Moments We DiscussedDr. Ashley shares how her journey of sexual liberation, survivorship, and healing informs her coaching.I reflect on my own journey within the kink lifestyle and how those experiences shape my coaching approach.We talk about how it’s absolutely possible to have children and balance lifestyle relationships.Dr. Ashley unpacks how shame and guilt often show up in kinky and non-monogamous relationships, holding people back from full self-expression.She offers her best advice for newcomers to lifestyle dynamics—emphasizing communication, education, exploring proactively instead of reactively, clear boundaries, and pacing yourself.I share my experiences with my introduction to kink, finding community, and exploring different roles.We explore how power dynamics shift across all types of relationships.Together, we discuss the unique challenges kinky and non-monogamous couples face compared to traditional monogamous ones, including jealousy, multiple desires, and agreements—while showing how communication is key.We highlight the importance of realizing you don’t need to be everything for your partner.Dr. Ashley outlines supportive tools for trauma survivors such as coaching, therapy, education, community, and self-awareness practices.I share my own healing as a trauma survivor and how kink gave me empowerment through choice and control.Dr. Ashley challenges the myth that kink or non-monogamy leads to unstable relationships, stressing that intentionality and honesty build success.She speaks openly about living with Bipolar and ADHD, and how her transparency helps clients see that thriving relationships are possible.We close with a discussion on how stigma, slut-shaming, and sex-negative narratives continue to impact lifestyle communities—and how breaking them down creates true freedom.Episode Resources:Dr. Ashley:Website: https://www.relationshipandsexualhealthcoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-ashley-81680b309/overlay/contact-info/ “Just The Tip” Blog https://www.relationshipandsexualhealthcoaching.com/blogLeann HerronKink Your Way:Subscribe for more great content: @kinkyourwayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourwayLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/🆓 FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://kinkyourway.com/discover-the-secrets#nonmonogamy #relationshipcoach #traumahealing #polyamory

Healing Codependence Through Conscious KinkCheryl Fidelman, the Conscious Codependence Coach, joins the show to discuss how trauma can influence behaviors in kink, including people-pleasing and power dynamics. Learn about codependency in relationships and how understanding these patterns can lead to deeper healing and self-awareness. Discover how to set boundaries and prioritize self love in your power exchange.Cheryl shares her journey into this work and introduces us to her Conscious Codependence™ methodology—a powerful blend of somatic experiencing, cognitive behavioral therapy, and intersubjective meditation. “The practice of true intimacy & sovereignty is to expose our open heart and broken heart at the exact same time. As we move through the process of returning back to ourselves, we find that the safety to do so lies within.” – C. FidelmanWe discussed:✅ Cheryl's mission, passion, and purpose to help people come back into their body.✅ Codependency versus conscious choice.✅ Cheryl's journey into this work, her traumatic identity.✅ Conscious choice for healing and in relationships.✅ Developing a self, a voice, an identity, after codependency.✅ What Conscious Codependence™ really means and how it differs from traditional definitions.✅Being in our emotions and sensations, where we can surrender and receive.✅ Conscious choice in kink and BDSM.✅ The 3 Codes to Clear Codependency (see free gift) - the framework of the conscious codependency process for codependency in general and in the kink world.✅ How codependent patterns often play out in kink dynamics. Kink can be the access to so much healing and personal evolution.✅ The difference between trauma bonding and authentic connection (especially to self).✅ Healing the nervous system through a somatic experiencing practice called the TSE Practice: Thoughts, Sensations, Emotions. ✅ Through the conscious codependency process your thoughts are: past tripping, future tripping, or about somebody else. Notice your thoughts and your feelings.✅ Creating your inner navigator to heal your nervous system and connect with your body.✅ How intersubjective meditation (TSE practice) supports healing, self-trust and embodiment.✅ The practice of identifying thoughts (past, future, or about someone else) and shifting into feelings and emotions.✅ Boundaries as a form of expansion—learning to trust and hold them with clarity and strength.✅ Learning how to "feel".✅ Cheryl's offerings for individuals, couples, and groups (virtual only), includes a free consultation.✅ Decreasing your "return to self" time.✅ No statute of limitations on consent and communication in kink.This conversation is about reclaiming sovereignty, learning to listen to the wisdom of your body, and building kink relationships from a place of empowered authenticity.🔽🔽🔽 SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE 🔽🔽🔽Episode Resources:Cheryl Fidelman:Website: https://cherylfidelman.com/ (free offerings, videos, audios)Podcast: The Conscious Codependence Podcast https://cherylfidelman.com/podcast/ (250 videos on YouTube)🆓Get your FREE PDF on:The 3 Codes to Clear Codependency https://cherylfidelman.com/ Leann Herron:Kink Your WayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleann LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ 🆓 FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://kinkyourway.com/discover-the-secrets📲 You can access the audio version on your favorite podcast platforms: IHeart, Spotify, Amazon Music, Podchaser, and Audible (just search Kink Your Way)#traumahealing #somatichealing #codependencyrecovery

Kink, Community, & Conference Life: The World of Smut LoversIn this fiery and inspiring return episode, host Leann welcomes back USA Today Best-Selling Romance Author Nikki Rome to discuss how she transformed her passion for steamy, kink-positive romance into a thriving, inclusive empire: Smut Lovers.Nikki shares the journey behind Smut Lovers: The Community, The Podcast, and The Conference, revealing how her frustration with the lack of accurate kink information for writers sparked a movement. Smut Lovers has become a vibrant hub where authors and readers can learn, explore, and celebrate the intersection of kink, romance, and storytelling.We discussed:The evolution of Smut Lovers from idea to full-blown brand.What sets the Smut Lovers community apart from typical romance reader groups.Surprising lessons Nikki has learned while expanding her brand.Behind-the-scenes insights into Smut Lovers: The Conference—who it's for and why it matters.Demo dungeon experience.Representation gaps in the genre and what readers are craving now.The role of kink-aware communities in normalizing sexual exploration.A major myth about smutty romance Nikki is ready to debunk.What’s next for Nikki and the Smut Lovers universe.This episode is a celebration of storytelling, sex-positivity, and the power of building spaces where kink, curiosity, and community thrive.🔽🔽🔽 SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE 🔽🔽🔽Nikki Rome:Websites: https://smutlovers.org/ https://smutsource.com/ https://nikkirome.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SmutLovers Smut Lovers: The Podcast on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/475F4uepDq05D3kUF9Kcvf?si=6b24670a07af4e99 Leann Herron:Kink Your WayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway🆓 FREE Kink Play Safety Checklist - FREE PDF https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/digital-products/ols/products/kink-play-safety-checklist📲 You can access the audio version on your favorite podcast platforms: IHeart, Spotify, Amazon Music, Podchaser, and Audible (just search Kink Your Way)#romancereader #bookcommunity #romanceauthor #womenwhowrite #authorinterview #smutlovers

Living Authentically Kinky: The Journey of HiThereCatsuit What happens when a lifetime of hidden desires meets a microphone, a spandex suit, and 35 years of broadcasting experience? In this powerful episode of Kink Your Way, host Leann welcomes Jon—known in the kink world as HiThereCatsuit—for an inspiring and deeply human conversation about kink awakening, vulnerability, and the power of authentic storytelling.Jon is the creator and host of Authentically Kinky (formerly What Women—and Other Wonderful Humans—Want), a podcast with nearly 300 episodes that has become a cornerstone in the kink community. With seven Emmy Awards and a TEDx talk to his name, Jon brings professional polish and heartfelt curiosity to every conversation he hosts—but this time, he’s the one opening up.We discussed:Breaking down perceptions and stigmas through TEDx education.How his background in media shaped the respectful, nuanced tone of Authentically Kinky.His childhood fascination with Catwoman and how it hinted at deeper desires.The challenges of navigating kink while in a long-term vanilla marriage.The power of words.The beginning of HiThereCatsuit.No doubts, 100% in his personal truth, after a lifetime journey to self.Kindness classes at relationship conferences - Are you ready to be seen?Leann's story of starting over, finding her identity, and finding kink and BDSM.The emotional journey of stepping into his kink identity publicly—with a spandex suit and a mic.Who do you see when you look in the mirror?Nice guys do finish last.Teaching kindness.What it means to “reclaim your desires” later in life, and his message to others feeling unsure or afraid to explore their own. "Don't dream it, Be it. Give yourself the permission to be the person you always wanted to be" - HiThereCatsuitAbove all, Jon's story is a celebration of self-acceptance, transformation, and the courage to live your truth—no matter when you start.🖤 Listen to this episode to hear how one man turned personal liberation into a platform for community connection, one respectful, real conversation at a time.Episode Resources:🔽🔽🔽 SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE 🔽🔽🔽Jon aka HiThereCatsuit:Podcast: Authentically Kinky https://authenticallykinky.wordpress.com/the-show/ Authentically Kinky on YouTube: YouTube.com/@authenticallykinkypodcast Email: [email protected] FetLife, X, Bluesky, Instagram - HiThereCatsuitKink Your Way:Subscribe for more great content: @kinkyourwayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourwayLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannherron/ 🆓 FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://kinkyourway.com/discover-the-secrets📲 You can access the audio version on your favorite podcast platforms: IHeart, Spotify, Amazon Music, Podchaser, and Audible (just search Kink Your Way)

Unlocking Sexual Enlightenment: Intimacy, Power & Tantra In this transformative episode of Kink Your Way, we explore how your intimacy can be a gateway not just to better sex, but to your creativity, confidence, and deepest personal power. I was joined by the renowned Tantra teachers Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver, co-founders of the TantraNova Institute, authors of Sexual Enlightenment, and the visionaries behind National Intimacy Day.Together, they unpack how ancient Tantric wisdom fused with modern neuroscience can awaken your sexual energy and direct it into all aspects of life. Their journey as a couple, both personally and professionally, offers a moving example of how intimacy and healing intersect.We discussed:Greetings and Introduction of Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental WeaverHow Freddy and Elsbeth came to share their life and their sexual enlightenment message, their story is beautifulThe power of self-love as the foundation for receiving loveWhat happens during altered sexual states, and how energy is circulatedThe role of Tantra in balancing physical, emotional, and mental well-being through energy centers (chakras)Circulated energyHow sexual energy relates to creativity, technology, innovation, and even leadership Masculine/feminine dynamics in Tantric intimacy and rituals of giver/receiverThe sacred Yoni ritual as a path to reconnecting with feminine energyEnergetic connection exampleLeann's journey into BDSM and finding safe, empowering spaces for sexual educationBreaking down misconceptions of Tantra as purely sexual, and reframing it as a spiritual and embodied path Whether you're new to Tantra or curious about deepening your relationship with your body, this episode is a heart-centered, enlightening guide to reclaiming your sensual energy as a source of transformation and empowerment.🔽🔽🔽 SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE 🔽🔽🔽Dr. Elsbeth Meuth & Freddy Zental Weaver:Website: https://www.tantranova.com/Relationship Mastery: https://www.tantranova.com/global/humanrelationshipmastery/ TantraNova on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKincrF-VHfsabcIvsbQEhQ/videos Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TantraNova/ Book:Sexual Enlightenment: How to Create Lasting Fulfillment in Life, Love and Intimacy https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Enlightenment-Lasting-Fulfillment-Intimacy/dp/B09N5JTC2L/ 🎁 FREE GIFT: Heart-to-Heart Connection Practice Video Deepen your connection, create harmony and shift the way you feel about yourself and each other in nano-seconds https://keap.page/pn194/heart-to-heart-connection.html Kink Your Way:Subscribe for more great content: @kinkyourwayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway🎁 FREE GIFT: Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://kinkyourway.com/discover-the-secrets📲 You can access the audio version on your favorite podcast platforms: IHeart, Spotify, Amazon Music, Podchaser, and Audible (just search Kink Your Way)🧡 Share if you enjoyed this episode!

Safe, Sane, Consensual: Safety in Play Starts HereToday’s bonus episode is a foundational one. We’re talking about something that is absolutely essential in every corner of the kink world—Safety in Play.This isn’t just about avoiding physical harm—although we’ll talk about that, too—it’s also about protecting your emotional and psychological safety. Because let’s be real: kink has the potential to be deeply healing or deeply harmful, depending on how we handle it.So whether you’re brand new to this space or have decades of leather under your belt, I invite you to settle in and maybe even take some notes. Because today we’re talking about how to play smart, safe, and sexy.In this bonus episode, I discuss:Quick Book Recs for the Curious KinksterTrigger WarningSafety 101 – The EssentialsRed Flags to Watch ForKink isn’t just about domination, submission, or power. It’s about trust. Vulnerability. Intimacy. Transformation.But none of that can happen without safety.So here are a few journal prompts to reflect on after today:What does safety feel like in your body?What are your current boundaries—and do your play partners know them?What’s your plan for emotional safety—during and after a scene?Grab my FREE ⁠Kink Play Safety Checklist⁠Website: ⁠Kink Your Way

Benefits of Regular Check-In's Regular check-ins are an essential practice within BDSM relationships that offer numerous benefits. Regular check-ins provide an opportunity to assess and address emotional well-being. Partners can openly discuss their feelings, concerns, and any emotional challenges they may be experiencing, fostering a supportive and nurturing environment.In this bonus episode, I discuss:Key Benefits of Incorporating Regular Check-Ins into your BDSM DynamicsFREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM RelationshipsEvery relationship is unique, and it's important to find rituals and routines that work best for you and your partner. The key is to prioritize and consistently invest in nurturing the D/s and intimacy in your relationship.✅ Grab your FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships✅ Check out my FREE Resources including 2 free BDSM Tests, Videos, Education, Links to Quality Educators, Recommended BooksWebsite: Kink Your Way😈 Are you looking for quality seductive, sensual, and mind-blowing toys? Check out my partner MyJoyToys, your one-stop destination for pleasure and well-being.As a MyJoyToys Affiliate and Collaboration Partner, I earn commissions if you purchase from my affiliate link at no cost to you.Shop Now and Let the Fun Begin.

Risk, Kink, and BDSM: Embracing the Thrill While Staying Safe Risk-taking plays a unique role in kink and BDSM. For many, the allure of exploring power dynamics, pain, and taboo activities comes with a thrilling sense of adventure. However, unlike reckless or impulsive risk-taking in other areas of life, BDSM encourages participants to approach risk with intentionality, communication, and care.In this bonus episode, I discuss:What Role Does Risk Play in BDSM?Understanding Risk in BDSM: Key ConceptsExamples of Risks in BDSM ActivitiesHow to Navigate Risk in BDSMBalancing Risk and Reward in BDSMRisk is an inherent part of BDSM, but it doesn’t have to be dangerous or reckless. By embracing risk mindfully, you can enjoy the thrill of BDSM while ensuring safety and respect for all involved. Remember: risk-taking in kink isn’t about abandoning caution—it’s about navigating your desires with care and responsibility.If you have any questions or need further guidance, feel free to reach out! Don't forget to check out the FREE and low-cost digital products available on my websites. Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way.#risk #kink #bdsm #aftercare #trust #communication #safety

AVAIYA University is advertising a free, seven-day online series, "Embracing Shame-Free Sex & Healthy Intimacy," featuring 30+ experts. The series offers instruction on various topics, including overcoming sexual shame, improving communication, reigniting passion in relationships, and exploring diverse sexual expressions. The program aims to help participants achieve greater sexual confidence and fulfillment. It emphasizes practical strategies and tools applicable to improving one's sex life and building healthier intimacy. Life-Changing Solutions To Help You Overcome Your Shame And Experience The Pleasure, Passion & Intimacy You Deserve!The event is accessible online from any device. December 10 - December 18. Save Your Seat Now!AVAIYA's next free online series, Embracing Shame Free Sex & Healthy Intimacy begins soon.  If You're Looking To Increase Your Sense Of Self-Love, Confidence & Creativity, We Invite You To Join Us For This Free Series! I, Leann Herron, am teaching on Overcoming Barriers to Health IntimacyYou can grab my Masterclass Resource Overcoming Barriers to Healthy Intimacy GuideYou can grab my Masterclass FREE Resource - Discover The Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships

The documentary Touch Kink, directed by Todd “Max” Carey, explores the nuanced worlds of kink, BDSM, and fetishism, inviting audiences to see these communities through an intimate, authentic lens. Carey, a first-time director with global travel experience across 137 countries, brings a unique perspective to the film. His focus is on breaking down societal misconceptions and showcasing how consensual kink fosters trust, communication, and empowerment, especially for women reclaiming their desires and boundaries. In Touch Kink, viewers get an insider’s view into kink communities, where practices center on consent, safety, and personal agency. This conversation highlights values such as body positivity, acceptance across age and body types, and the celebration of intimacy without shame. The documentary emphasizes that kink environments aren’t necessarily sexual but instead prioritize trust and openness, often involving structured practices like negotiation, play, and aftercare. In an exclusive interview, Carey shared the challenges he faced in making this documentary, from connecting with communities to navigating sensitive topics as a first-time filmmaker. He also discussed how his travels influenced his vision and how the four featured participants illustrate the power of alternative lifestyles. Carey hopes Touch Kink will inspire audiences to view intimacy and sexual practices more openly, reshaping global conversations around kink. The interview also covers his advice for those curious about exploring kink themselves, underscoring a safe, informed approach to this world. For those interested, an On-Demand Screening Event that's just around the corner is available via a link in the show notes below. Consider it my sizzling holiday gift to you!🔥 Episode Resources: Todd “Max” Carey tOuch Kink @ https://tuchkink.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddmaxcarey/ https://www.instagram.com/seven_journeys/ https://x.com/seven_journeys https://kinema.com/films/touch-kink-vwykek On-Demand Touch Kink Screening 🎟️ Grab your ticket now, only 150 tickets are available, while supplies last. https://kinkyourway.com/events 🔽🔽🔽 SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE 🔽🔽🔽 Kink Your Way: Subscribe for more great content: @kinkyourway Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway 🆓 FREE Discover the Secrets of Healthy BDSM Relationships https://findingresiliencewithleann.co... 🧡 Share if you enjoyed this episode! *= affiliate link Want EVEN MORE BDSM Education? Check Out Dom Sub Living* Dom Sub Training: https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/dst/ FREE Resource Library: https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/dst/61c68e8071c52/ 🔽🔽🔽 RELATED VIDEOS 🔽🔽🔽 Love Danger & Kink with Nikki Rome (Smut Lovers) I accidentally referred to the Smut Lovers Conference as Smut Source https://youtu.be/Plr3nQFyGjM Embracing Kink with Alesandra Madison of Dom Sub Living  https://youtu.be/PkBjz45M36U How to Talk About Kinks With Your Partner https://youtu.be/9XIZxBqWyhc 10 Reasons Why People Love BDSM https://youtu.be/IqjCMMWw4XQ 13 Secrets to an Awesome BDSM Lifestyle https://youtu.be/5xlJTjZpMRM

Unveiling the Art of Bondage Today we're embarking on an exciting journey into the art of bondage. Are you ready to dive into the alluring world of bondage? Today, we're uncovering the different types of bondage techniques and the essential gear that can take your intimate experiences to new heights. Let's explore the art of restraint and submission with confidence and curiosity.In this bonus episode, I discuss: Different Types of Bondage in BDSM Benefits of Bondage in a Consensual RelationshipRemember, safety, consent, and mutual respect are paramount in any BDSM practice. Embrace this journey of discovery and enjoy the pleasures that bondage can bring to your relationship. Thank you for tuning in to The Kink Your Way Podcast. Until next time, explore confidently and indulge in the beauty of intimate connections.#bondage #consent #vulnerability #communication

Understanding Sub Frenzy: Risks and Tips for Newbies in the Kink and BDSM Lifestyle Today, we’re diving into an important topic for those exploring the kink and BDSM lifestyle—especially for new submissives. We’re talking about "Sub Frenzy," a phenomenon that can be both exhilarating and risky. So, let’s unpack what Sub Frenzy is, the potential pitfalls, and how you can navigate this exciting journey safely.In this bonus episode, I discuss: What exactly Sub Frenzy is Risks associated with Sub Frenzy How you can avoid the pitfalls of Sub FrenzySub Frenzy can be a thrilling phase for newbies in the kink and BDSM lifestyle, but it’s important to navigate it wisely. By educating yourself, establishing boundaries, and prioritizing self-care, you can ensure that your journey is safe and fulfilling.Remember, this is a journey, not a race. Embrace the excitement, but don’t forget to tread carefully. Thank you for joining me today on The Kink Your Way podcast. If you have any questions or want to share your experiences, feel free to reach out! Until next time, stay safe and enjoy your exploration!#risks #pitfalls #BDSM #communication #limits #boundaries #self-care

Did you know that couples who prioritize emotional intimacy report higher levels of satisfaction in their relationships? It turns out, sharing feelings and vulnerabilities can make a huge difference!Discover the secret to a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your partner! In this episode, I'm diving into the type of intimacy that's essential for building a strong, healthy relationship. From emotional vulnerability to physical connection, I'll explore the different forms of intimacy that can bring you and your partner closer together. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your current relationship or build a stronger foundation for a new one, this video will give you the tools you need to cultivate a deeper, more meaningful connection. So, what are you waiting for? So, listen up and start building the relationship of your dreams!If you know me, you know that I am not only a certified life and health coach, but I am also a https://kinkyourway.com, educator, and collared submissive to my husband and Sir. I won’t go too far down that rabbit hole, but I will say that the key principles of communication, trust, consent, and safety have created the most amazing intimacy, vulnerability, and emotional connection that I have ever experienced with a partner.When we think of intimacy, we often think of romantic getaways, candlelit dinners, and whispered sweet nothings in the dead of night. But true intimacy goes far beyond these superficial gestures. It's the foundation upon which healthy connections between partners are built, and it's what allows us to truly connect with each other on a deeper level.Join me as I dive deep into the world of healthy relationships and explore the most essential type of intimacy that we often overlook!#emotionalintimacy #intimacy #emotionalconnection #connection #relationships #lifecoach #healthcoach #kinkcoach #consent #safety #trust #vulnerability

Exploring BDSM Later in Life Exploring kink and BDSM later in life can bring a range of benefits and opportunities for personal growth and fulfillment. It's important to approach kink and BDSM with respect, communication, and consent. If you're new to these practices, take the time to educate yourself, communicate openly with partners, and prioritize safety and mutual enjoyment.In this episode, I discuss: • Potential advantages • Exploring BDSM at 50+ • Common physical limitations that individuals exploring BDSM at an older age may encounter • Inclusivity and DiversityExploring BDSM later in life can be a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and connection. Celebrate the diversity that each individual brings to the BDSM community and embrace the richness of experiences that come with age, identity, and background.As a Kink-Aware Professional, BDSM Coach, Kink Coach, and Educator, I provide a safe and inclusive space for individuals, whether they are new to or experienced in the lifestyle, to openly discuss their most intimate concerns.Book a 60-minute consultation with me for free and let's start the journey towards achieving your goals together.  https://kinkyourway.com/coaching.Keep exploring and creating those beautiful moments.Kink Your Way:Website: https://kinkyourway.comFinding Resilience with Leann:👍Subscribe for more content on personal development and achieving your dreams!Website: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleannGET MORE SUPPORT👉Grab My 10 Daily Habits for a Life You Love FREE Checklisthttps://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services/ols/products/10-daily-habits-for-a-life-you-love#self-discovery #empowerment #sexualexploration #community #lifestyle #limitations #health #safety #communication #inclusivity #diversity #consent

Embracing Vulnerability in BDSM RelationshipsIn the realm of BDSM relationships, vulnerability plays a pivotal role in shaping the dynamics between partners. Contrary to popular belief, vulnerability is not a sign of weakness but rather a profound display of courage and trust. When individuals in BDSM dynamics embrace vulnerability, they open themselves up to a deeper level of intimacy, connection, and authenticity. In this episode, I discuss: Understanding Vulnerability in BDSM Deeping Intimacy Through Vulnerability The Power of Receiving in VulnerabilityEmbracing vulnerability in BDSM relationships is a transformative journey that can lead to profound growth, intimacy, and connection between partners. By allowing oneself to be vulnerable, individuals create a space for authenticity, trust, and emotional depth to flourish. Through the act of receiving, individuals can explore new dimensions of pleasure, intimacy, and connection that can enrich their BDSM experiences and strengthen their bond with their partner. Embracing vulnerability is not always easy, but the rewards of deeper intimacy, connection, and fulfillment make it a journey worth embarking on in the realm of BDSM relationships.Keep exploring and creating those beautiful moments.Kink Your WayWebsite: ⁠https://kinkyourway.com⁠Finding Resilience with Leann:👍Subscribe for more content on personal development and achieving your dreams!Website: ⁠⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com⁠⁠ Linktree: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleann⁠⁠GET MORE SUPPORT👉Grab My 10 Daily Habits for a Life You Love FREE Checklist⁠⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services/ols/products/10-daily-habits-for-a-life-you-love⁠#vulnerability #trust #intimacy #connection

Join me as I take on some of the toughest challenges I’ve faced in my life and show you how I found my inner strength and resilience! In this powerful and inspiring video, I share my personal journey of overcoming life's toughest challenges and discovering the inner strength and resilience that lies within us all. Join me as I recount the obstacles I've faced, the lessons I've learned, and the moments that tested my willpower. This story is not just about survival; it's about thriving against all odds. Whether you’re facing your own struggles or seeking motivation to push through difficult times, I hope my experiences will inspire you to tap into your own reservoir of strength. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more uplifting content that can help you navigate life's challenges with courage and determination. Together, we can build a community of resilience and support! Chapters in this video: 0:00 Intro 0:06 The thoughts that woke me at 3:00 am 0:30 Ruminating thoughts regarding my business 2:05 Used my tools to stop the ruminating thoughts (breath, mindfulness, meditation) 3:57 Shared my struggles, thoughts, and success with my husband 4:23 Sharing my story with you 4:49 2019-2020 Drowning in "Trauma Soup" (brain fog, memory loss, panic, anxiety, overwhelm) 5:17 I QUIT 6:00 Time to heal, my journey 7:02 My quest to find tools that could help me feel control, when everything was out of control 7:12 The tools I found (meditation, hypnotherapy, EFT, kinesiology, herbalism, bodywork, breathing techniques, therapy) and new skills that brought me joy and happiness 9:12 Releasing things that no longer serve me 11:25 Why I'm here, right now, sharing my story with you (my inner strength and resilience) 12:05 My greatest challenge became my greatest strength 14:08 How I can utilize my challenges and strength to help you, and others 14:52 Today in 2024, not worried about 2025 16:42 I showed up, and I keep showing up every day 18:09 I reframed my negative thoughts (anger and resentment) and experiences to walk through the door of opportunity, I let go, I healed from my trauma 19:54 My words for you..You can do it too, and I believe in you, keep showing up every day, help is available. I encourage you to share your story. Finding Resilience with Leann: 👍Like, share, and subscribe for more content on personal development and achieving your dreams! @findingresiliencewithleann Website: ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com ⁠ Linktree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleann⁠ GET MORE SUPPORT 👉Grab My FREE 10 Ways to Build Resilience FREE Checklist⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services/ols/products/10-ways-to-build-resilience-free-checklist ⁠ 👉 Check out my Health & Wellness Series and see all of the incredible people who helped me get out of my darkness ⁠https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVch1Dz_wc4HMcBSpSvO1cpSU5QZoKOaR&si=7hzrRF7w_f0wpJM8 ⁠ 👉 Check out If You Wake Up Between 3AM and 5AM...Do These 3 Things from Joe Dispenza ⁠https://youtu.be/LLfVv3LQuuQ?si=Ux2ItLl_pkZyQaCE

Ever wondered how you can deepen the emotional and sensory experiences in your BDSM practices? The secret lies in the art of mindfulness. Discover how being present can transform your kink journey into something truly extraordinary.Welcome to a journey where passion, connection, and authenticity intersect. In the realm of Kink and BDSM, the art of being present and practicing mindfulness opens the door to profound experiences, deepening trust, and creating meaningful relationships. Let's dive into why integrating mindfulness into your BDSM practices can elevate your experiences to new heights.In this episode, I discuss: Enhancing Emotional Connectivity Heightened Sensory Awareness Deepening Trust and Communication Enhanced Control and Submission Dynamics Managing Stress and Emotions Creative ExplorationIntegrating mindfulness into your BDSM practices is not just about enhancing pleasure; it's about cultivating a deep connection with your partner, fostering trust, and exploring your desires in a safe and consensual way. So, embrace the moment, be present, and let mindfulness guide you to a richer, more fulfilling experience in your kink and BDSM journey.Remember, the essence of these practices lies in the mutual respect and understanding shared with your partner. Stay connected, stay present, and enjoy the beautiful dance of connection and pleasure.Keep exploring and creating those beautiful moments.Kink Your WayWebsite: https://kinkyourway.comFinding Resilience with Leann:👍Subscribe for more content on personal development and achieving your dreams!Website: ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com⁠ Linktree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleann⁠GET MORE SUPPORT👉Grab My 10 Daily Habits for a Life You Love FREE Checklist⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services/ols/products/10-daily-habits-for-a-life-you-love⁠

Today, let's dive into an important and often discussed aspect of BDSM—aftercare. Whether you're an experienced participant or just beginning to explore this world, understanding and implementing aftercare is crucial for building strong, respectful, and positive relationships. In this video, I discuss: What is Aftercare? Why is Aftercare Important? Suggestions for Effective AftercareAftercare is more than just a follow-up—it's an integral part of the BDSM experience that ensures all participants feel respected, understood, and cared for. Implementing effective aftercare practices can profoundly enhance trust and emotional connection, making future scenes even more fulfilling and enjoyable.Remember to always prioritize aftercare in your BDSM practices. It's a beautiful way to show love, respect, and consideration for your partners and yourself.Until next time, take care and continue living your passion!Kink Your Way:Website: https://kinkyourway.comFinding Resilience with Leann:👍Subscribe for more content on personal development and achieving your dreams!Website: ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com⁠ Linktree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleann⁠GET MORE SUPPORT👉Grab My 10 Daily Habits for a Life You Love FREE Checklist⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services/ols/products/10-daily-habits-for-a-life-you-love⁠

Did you know that 57% of people have kinks they want to explore but never do? It's a staggering statistic, and it's probably because talking about kinks with our partners can be super intimidating. In this video, I’ll cover the importance of discussing kinks with your partner, common fears and misconceptions, and practical tips for initiating the conversation. The Importance of Discussing Kinks with Your Partner Healthy communication about sexual desires, including kinks, is fundamental to building a trusting and fulfilling relationship. It's essential for mutual understanding, consent, and emotional intimacy. By discussing your kinks, you foster openness and honesty in your relationship, paving the way for a more satisfying sexual experience for both partners. Discussing kinks with your partner is a crucial part of any healthy relationship. It's essential to create a safe space where you both feel comfortable sharing your desires, no matter how unusual they may seem. But why is it so important? Well, for starters, it allows you to connect on a deeper level, build trust, and even spice up your sex life. Common Fears and Misconceptions We've all been there - we want to talk about our kinks, but we're held back by fear. Fear of judgment, fear of rejection, or fear of being seen as weird or abnormal. We worry that our partner will think we're perverted or that they'll never look at us the same way again. And then there's the misconception that kinks are only for people in the BDSM community or those who are into extreme stuff. But the truth is, kinks are a natural part of human sexuality, and everyone has them, whether they realize it or not. So, how do you initiate the conversation? First, choose a comfortable and private setting where you both feel safe and relaxed. It could be during a romantic dinner, a quiet evening at home, or even during a walk in nature. The key is to find a place where you both feel connected and comfortable. Next, start with an open-ended question like "What do you find most arousing?" or "What's something you've always wanted to try?" This allows your partner to open up and share their desires without feeling judged or pressured. Another great tip is to share your own desires first. This shows your partner that you're vulnerable and willing to take the first step. It's essential to be honest and authentic in your approach, and to create a safe space where your partner feels comfortable sharing their desires. Remember, this is a conversation, not an interrogation, so make sure to listen actively and respond with empathy. Practical Tips for Initiating the Conversation: Choose the Right Time and Place Use Positive Language Be Honest and Clear Be Respectful and Understanding Seek Mutual Consent Educate and Share Resources Take it Slow Initiating a conversation about kinks can be empowering and bring you closer to your partner. Honesty and vulnerability are key components of any successful relationship, and discussing kinks is no exception. When you're willing to be open and honest about your desires, you create a deeper level of intimacy and trust with your partner. It's about being willing to take the leap of faith and being vulnerable, even if it feels uncomfortable. This is where the magic happens, and you can build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Stay kinky, my friends, and explore your way! Kink Your Way: Subscribe for more great content: @kinkyourway Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway Sign up for my newsletter Kink Without Shame: https://kinkyourway.com/newsletter Listen to podcast on the go! Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkyourway Audible: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Kink-Your-Way/B0CCPNMXKF?action_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/77551d32-0667-47a5-8732-79913a9f0be4/kink-your-way iHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-kink-your-way-128068865/

When negotiating boundaries in a power exchange dynamic, how do you ensure that your personal limits are respected and honored? I'll be exploring the importance of 4 practices in creating a safe and consensual BDSM experience. 1. Understanding Negotiations in Power Exchange 2. Establishing Limits: Safety and Well-being 3. The Role of Safewords 4. Ensuring Safety in Power Exchange 1. Understanding Negotiations in Power Exchange Negotiation is the cornerstone of any power exchange dynamic—whether you’re engaged in BDSM, dominance and submission (D/s), or any other form of consensual power exchange. Negotiations should always be thorough, open, and honest, allowing both parties to express their needs, desires, and boundaries clearly. During the negotiation process, it’s crucial to cover the following: Roles and Expectations Activities and Interests Limits and Limitations 2. Establishing Limits: Safety and Well-being Setting clear limits and boundaries before engaging in BDSM activities is vital. It allows partners to understand each other's desires, limitations, and fears, creating a safe and consensual environment. By establishing boundaries, partners can avoid activities that might cause harm or discomfort, ensuring a positive and enjoyable experience. Hard Limits Soft Limits Always communicate openly about your limits and take the time to understand your partner’s. Respect and empathy are crucial in ensuring that both parties feel safe and valued. 3. The Role of Safewords A safeword is a powerful tool that allows partners to stop a scene immediately, ensuring their safety and comfort. It's a word or phrase that, when spoken, signals to the other partner that they need to stop the activity or adjust their approach. A safeword can be a lifesaver in situations where a partner feels overwhelmed, uncomfortable, or even scared. Choosing a Safeword: Select a word that's easy to remember and doesn't blend into the natural dialogue of a scene. Common choices include “red” for stop and “yellow” for slow down or check-in. In addition to the primary safeword, some dynamics also use a secondary safeword or signals (verbal and non-verbal) for different levels of discomfort or to communicate when verbal communication isn't possible. 4. Ensuring Safety in Power Exchange The foundation of a successful power exchange relationship is built on mutual trust, respect, and the commitment to each other’s well-being. Here are some additional tips to ensure safety: Communication Education Physical and Emotional Care Environment. Equipment Safety By adhering to these guidelines, you can create a power exchange dynamic that is not only thrilling and fulfilling but also safe and respectful for both parties involved. Make sure you head over to my Kink Your Way Resources page for free resources, links to quality education, and videos on How to Stay Safe While Exploring BDSM. For even more make sure you check out my Our-Partners page for links to more education and quality sex toys from my amazing affiliate partners. With any of “Our Partners”, I am an Affiliate Partner so if you purchase anything from any of these partners using my link I will receive a commission at no cost to you. Here is the link to the Dom Sub Training Sir and I purchased from Dom Sub Living https://domsubtraining.com/?affiliate=findingresilience Kink Your Way: Subscribe for more great content: @kinkyourway Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway Sign up for my newsletter Kink Without Shame: https://kinkyourway.com/newsletter Listen to podcast on the go! Audible: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Kink-Your-Way/B0CCPNMXKF?action_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/77551d32-0667-47a5-8732-79913a9f0be4/kink-your-way iHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-kink-your-way-128068865/

10 Reasons Why People Love BDSM Today, we're exploring the ten compelling reasons why people are drawn to the world of BDSM. Get ready to unmask the desires, benefits, and beautiful community dynamics that make BDSM a fascinating and fulfilling lifestyle. Whether you're a seasoned player or a curious newbie, these insights will illuminate the allure and the advantages of diving into this diverse and dynamic world. 1. Exploration of Deep Desires One of the primary reasons people are attracted to BDSM is the freedom to explore their deepest desires and fantasies. Unlike vanilla relationships, BDSM encourages you to acknowledge and act on these desires in a safe and consensual environment. 2. Enhanced Emotional Connection Engaging in BDSM dynamics often requires a high level of communication, trust, and emotional vulnerability, leading to deeper connections. These relationships frequently foster an unparalleled sense of intimacy and understanding. 3. Increased Self-Awareness BDSM can be a journey of self-discovery. By experimenting with different roles and scenarios, individuals learn more about their boundaries, preferences, and needs. This process can be incredibly empowering, contributing to greater self-awareness and confidence. 4. Stress Relief and Catharsis For many, BDSM serves as a powerful form of stress relief. The physical and emotional intensity can provide a cathartic release, akin to the effects of a highly intense workout or meditation session, leaving participants feeling rejuvenated and at peace. 5. Community and Belonging The BDSM community is often tight-knit, supportive, and welcoming. For many, being part of this community provides a sense of belonging and acceptance. It's a space where you can be open about your interests without judgment. 6. Learning and Growth BDSM often involves continuous learning and personal growth. Skills such as negotiation, patience, empathy, and problem-solving are frequently developed and honed within these dynamics. This ongoing learning can be deeply satisfying and beneficial in other areas of life. 7. Enhanced Pleasure and Sensation Let's not forget the enhanced sensory experiences. From the sting of a flogger to the constriction of ropes, BDSM can heighten physical pleasure, leading to intense and memorable experiences that push the boundaries of conventional intimacy. 8. Role Play and Escapism For those who love to indulge in role play, BDSM provides an excellent outlet for imagination and escapism. Adopting different personas and scenarios can be incredibly exciting and liberating, offering a break from the day-to-day routine. 9. Power Exchange Dynamics The power exchange between Dominant and submissive can be highly fulfilling. Whether you're an Alpha who enjoys taking control or a Beta who finds release in submission, these dynamics can satisfy profound psychological needs. 10. Validation and Acceptance Many find validation and acceptance within the BDSM lifestyle. Being seen and appreciated for your true self, including your kinks and fetishes, can be immensely validating and lead to a healthier self-image and greater life satisfaction. The world of BDSM offers a plethora of reasons for its allure, stretching far beyond the surface. From deeper connections and emotional growth to enhanced pleasure and stress relief, BDSM is a multifaceted lifestyle that can bring profound benefits to those who embrace it. Kink Your Way: Subscribe for more great content: @kinkyourway Website: https://kinkyourway.com Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway Sign up for my newsletter Kink Without Shame: https://kinkyourway.com/newsletter Listen to the podcast on the go! Audible: https://www.audible.com/podcast/Kink-Your-Way/B0CCPNMXKF?action_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/77551d32-0667-47a5-8732-79913a9f0be4/kink-your-way iHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-kink-your-way-128068865/

5 BDSM Rewards for Submissives Have you ever wondered about the rewards that submissives can enjoy in BDSM? Let's dive into the world of BDSM and explore 5 rewarding experiences for submissives! Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned player, this video will provide valuable insights and ideas to enhance your experience. Watch now to discover how to incorporate these rewards into your own dynamic and take your BDSM relationships to the next level. In the world of BDSM, there are two primary roles: Dominants and Submissives. Dominants take on an authority figure, guiding and directing their partners, while Submissives surrender control, trusting their Dominants to lead them through a journey of pleasure and intimacy. In this video, I discuss: Primary Roles, Common misconceptions about BDSM, Rewards as a powerful motivator, Praise and acknowledgment, Sensual pleasures, Material rewards, Prioritizing a submissives desires and boundaries, Personal growth and self-awareness, Emotional connection and intimacy. Rewards are a vital part of the BDSM experience, and they can take many forms. Whether it's praise, sensual pleasures, material rewards, or personal growth, each reward has the potential to deepen our connections and create a more fulfilling experience. Website: https://kinkyourway.com

13 Secrets to an Awesome BDSM Lifestyle Join me as I take on the challenge of uncovering and sharing 13 Secrets to Living Your Best BDSM Lifestyle! Are you ready to unlock the secrets to an exhilarating BDSM lifestyle? So, what is BDSM? BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism. It's an umbrella term that encompasses a wide range of practices, from sensual bondage to intense sensation play. At its core, BDSM is about exploring power dynamics, intimacy, and human connection. It's a journey of self-discovery, growth, and evolution. BDSM is a consensual, ethical, and mutually beneficial practice that can bring immense joy, empowerment, and fulfillment to those who embrace it. BDSM is about exploring trust, communication, and emotional connection. It's about pushing boundaries, exploring desires, and finding empowerment through vulnerability. When it comes to BDSM dynamics, communication, trust, and consent are essential. It's crucial to discuss boundaries, desires, and limits with your partner. You need to establish a safe, respectful, and empathetic environment where both parties feel heard, seen, and valued. This means exploring different roles, activities, and safety measures that work for you and your partner. In BDSM, communication is key. It's not just about negotiating scenes or activities; it's about creating a deeper understanding of each other's needs, desires, and boundaries. It's about fostering a sense of trust, respect, and empathy. When you communicate effectively, you can build a strong foundation for your relationship, and that's when the magic happens. One of the most transformative aspects of BDSM is the sense of personal growth and self-discovery. As you explore your desires, needs, and boundaries, you'll uncover new aspects of yourself. You'll develop a deeper understanding of your values, beliefs, and passions. You'll become more confident, more self-assured, and more empowered. So, what are the 13 secrets to an awesome BDSM lifestyle? First, communicate openly and honestly with your partner. Second, establish trust, respect, and empathy. Third, prioritize consent and boundaries. Fourth, explore your desires, needs, and limits. Fifth, create a safe, respectful, and empathetic environment. Sixth, foster a sense of community and connection. Seventh, embrace your authenticity and individuality. Eighth, prioritize personal growth and self-discovery. Ninth, explore different roles, activities, and safety measures. Tenth, negotiate scenes and activities effectively. Eleventh, prioritize aftercare and self-care. Twelfth, create a sense of ritual and ceremony. Thirteenth, keep learning, growing, and evolving. Embracing a BDSM lifestyle can be a transformative, empowering, and fulfilling experience. It's not about the practices themselves; it's about the connections you make, the growth you experience, and the freedom you discover. Remember, your choices, desires, and needs are valid. Keep exploring, keep learning, and keep growing. Website: https://kinkyourway.com Available on YouTube, YouTube Music, Audible, Amazon Music, and IHeartRadio.

Have you ever felt stuck striving for perfection in your entrepreneurial journey? Like, you're trying to launch a product or service, but you just can't seem to get it quite right? Yeah, I've been there too. Today we're diving into a topic that many of us struggle with overcoming perfectionism as an entrepreneur. Join me on this journey as I share my challenges in overcoming perfectionism and embracing imperfection as an entrepreneur! In this video, I want to talk about 4 things. 1. What is perfectionism, really? 2. How perfectionism can hinder progress and innovation in business, leading to missed opportunities. 3. Practical strategies and mindset shifts to overcome perfectionism 4. How I learned to embrace imperfection as an entrepreneur In this video, we explore the challenges of perfectionism faced by entrepreneurs and discuss strategies for overcoming this mindset. Perfectionism can hinder progress and innovation in the entrepreneurial journey, so learning how to strike a balance between high standards and practicality is crucial for success. Join us as we delve into the effects of perfectionism on entrepreneurship and ways to navigate this common obstacle in the business world. Don’t let perfectionism hold you back from achieving your entrepreneurial dreams. Embrace imperfection, take action, and see what happens. Remember, entrepreneurship is all about experimentation, innovation, and iteration. It's not about achieving perfection; it's about making progress, learning from our mistakes, and moving forward. Finding Resilience with Leann: website: ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com⁠Linktree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleann⁠ #entrepreneurialadvice #entrepreneurmindset #goalsettingstrategies #mindsetshift

Letting Go of Expectation and Reframing Disappointment Have you ever been crushed by unmet expectations or felt like the weight of disappointment was too much to bear? Today we're uncovering powerful strategies to let go of those expectations and transform disappointment into personal growth. Imagine turning every setback into a stepping stone for resilience—sounds empowering, right? In this video, we discuss the importance of letting go and reframing disappointment. Learn key strategies from a resilience and growth mindset coach to help you overcome setbacks and achieve your goals. Join our community for more personal development tips and networking opportunities! Stay tuned, because this episode might just change the way you see life's challenges. Letting Go of Expectations: Let's talk about expectations. We all have them – whether it's about our careers, relationships, or even everyday events. But sometimes, holding too tightly onto these expectations can set us up for disappointment. So, how do we start letting go? Recognize and Acknowledge Embrace Flexibility Focus on the Present Moment Learn to Accept Uncertainty Reframing Disappointment: Now, what happens when things don’t go as expected? Here's where reframing disappointment comes in. How can we turn a setback into an opportunity for growth? Shift Your Perspective Practice Gratitude Set Realistic Goals Use Positive Affirmations I share my story about my expectations, frustrations, and disappointments on my journey as an entrepreneur as well as how I am working on reframing my expectations and disappointments into personal growth. Remember, letting go of expectations and reframing disappointment isn’t about lowering your standards or ignoring your feelings. It’s about finding balance and learning to flow with life’s ebbs and flows. By recognizing and adjusting our expectations and viewing disappointments through a lens of growth, we can cultivate a more resilient mindset. Website: ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com⁠

Celebrating Your Wins is the Key to Success Join me in a challenge to celebrate every win, big or small, and discover how it can unlock the path to success in your life! In this video, we delve into the power of celebrating your wins and how it can be the key to your success. Learn why acknowledging your achievements, no matter how big or small, plays a crucial role in boosting your motivation, confidence, and overall productivity. Join us as we explore the benefits of embracing a positive mindset and rewarding yourself for your accomplishments. Watch now and discover how celebrating your wins can propel you towards reaching your goals and living a more fulfilling life. Do you often overlook your achievements? Today, we're diving into the powerful concept of celebrating your wins and how it can truly pave the way for personal growth and success. Celebrating your wins is crucial for your personal and professional growth. It helps you acknowledge your achievements, no matter how big or small, and boosts your confidence and motivation. Celebrating your wins reinforces positive behavior and creates a sense of accomplishment. This positive reinforcement can lead to increased productivity, creativity, and overall well-being. Moreover, celebrating your wins allows you to reflect on your progress and appreciate the effort you have put into reaching your goals. It helps you stay focused on your journey and reminds you of your capabilities and strengths. Recognizing and celebrating your wins also helps you build resilience and a positive mindset, which are essential for overcoming challenges and setbacks. In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's easy to get caught up in the never-ending cycle of chasing goals and striving for success. We often forget to pause, take a step back, and celebrate our wins, no matter how big or small they may be. But did you know that taking the time to acknowledge and celebrate your achievements can profoundly impact your well-being and overall success? It's common to fixate on our failures rather than basking in our achievements. This mindset can easily lead to feelings of demotivation and hinder our progress. But here's the kicker – taking the time to acknowledge and celebrate even the smallest victories can have a profound impact on our mental well-being. By recognizing our successes, we boost our self-esteem, motivation, and overall happiness. Let's dive into 8 incredible benefits of celebrating your wins: 1. Acknowledging Your Progress 2. Cultivating a Positive Mindset 3. Motivating Yourself to Keep Going 4. Builds Confidence 5. Reinforces Positive Behavior 6. Enhances Team Morale and Cohesion 7. Provides a Sense of Clarity and Perspective 8. Embracing Joy and Fulfillment Celebrating your wins is not just a frivolous act of self-indulgence; it is a powerful tool for personal growth and transformation. So, the next time you achieve a goal, no matter how small, take a moment to celebrate. Acknowledge your progress, cultivate a positive mindset, motivate yourself to keep going, and embrace the joy and fulfillment that comes with celebrating your wins. You deserve it! So, let's make a pact to embrace our victories, big and small, and watch how it transforms our mindset and propels us towards our goals. Finding Resilience with Leann: YouTube Channel Subscribe @findingresiliencewithleann website: ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com⁠ Linktree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleann

Entrepreneur Advice: Boss Yourself Get ready to kickstart your day with me as I challenge you to wake up, take charge, and boss yourself like never before! Designed for entrepreneurs and business owners, this video will inspire you to take control of your life, set ambitious goals, and conquer your dreams. The action steps I will be discussing in this video aren’t just for entrepreneurs and business owners, they can help anyone ready to take control of their life. It's time to wake up, take charge, and boss yourself to success. Are you ready to unleash your full potential and dominate your future? Entrepreneur motivation – watch now and let the motivation flow. Are you ready to take control of your life and become your own boss? Are you tired of feeling like life is just happening to you? Ready to grab the reins and take control of your own destiny? Well, you're in the right place because today we're going to talk about how you can wake up and boss yourself! Let's face it, we all face obstacles that hold us back from truly owning our lives. Whether it's fear, self-doubt, or external pressures, these challenges can make us feel like we're not in control. But here's the thing - overcoming these obstacles is possible. By shifting our mindset and adopting empowering strategies, we can start bossing ourselves. It's all about taking small steps every day toward our goals and believing in our ability to make things happen. It's time to stop being a passenger in your own life and start being the boss. Here are 7 actionable steps to help you wake up and turn yourself into the boss of your own life: 1. Set Clear Goals 2. Create a Morning Routine 3. Prioritize Your Tasks 4. Develop Self-Discipline 5. Stay Positive and Optimistic 6. Reflect and Adapt 7. Learn Continuously Implementing these steps can gradually transform your mindset and habits, leading you to take control of your own destiny. It's crucial to remember that self-motivation and determination are key ingredients in the recipe for success. By bossing yourself, you're not only taking control of your life but also paving the way for a brighter future. Website: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com

Are you ready to take control of your time, reduce stress, and achieve work-life harmony? Join us as we explore the transformative benefits of hybrid coaching and how it can empower you to succeed in both your business and personal life. Today, we're diving into the crucial topics of work-life balance and time management for entrepreneurs and business owners. These are common pain points that many of us face, but the good news is that there are effective solutions available. At Kink Your Way/Finding Resilience with Leann, I offer Hybrid Life and Business Coaching. You can't always separate yourself from your business, or career. I can work with you to help you achieve personal development while also focusing on professional growth, self-care, reducing stress, and honoring your calendar. Imagine a life where you can excel in your business endeavors while also nurturing your personal growth and well-being. This is not just a dream – it's a reality that can be achieved through the power of hybrid coaching. Finding work-life balance and managing your time effectively are essential for sustainable success in both your professional and personal life. A business coach specializing in hybrid coaching can provide you with the tools, strategies, and support needed to thrive in all areas of your life. Hybrid coaching combines elements of life coaching and business coaching to create a holistic approach that addresses your professional goals, personal development, self-care, stress management, and time management. In this video, we discussed how hybrid coaching can help you: 1. Achieve Professional Growth 2. Prioritize Self-Care 3. Optimize Time Management And I’m going to provide you with 5 strategies for each and insights on how hybrid coaching can help you succeed. Achieve Professional Growth Goal Setting and Clarity Strategic Planning and Execution Personal Development and Self-Care Time Management and Productivity Adaptability and Resilience Prioritize Self Care Establish Healthy Boundaries Practice Mindfulness and Stress Management Prioritize Physical Health and Well-Being Invest in Personal Development Celebrate Achievements and Practice Gratitude Optimize Time Management Set Clear Goals and Priorities Create a Structured Schedule Implement Time-blocking and Focus Sessions Delegate and Outsource Tasks Practice Time Management Strategies Remember, your success is within reach – all you need is the right guidance and support. Stay tuned for more valuable insights and tips on achieving your business and personal goals. See you in the next video! With a 20-year background in accounting, experience in both for-profit and non-profit sectors, and 13 years as a Legal Assistant and Paralegal, I offer a unique blend of expertise and experience to help entrepreneurs and small businesses develop a vision or establish company growth goals. My experience as an entrepreneur provides unique skills, education, and knowledge needed for business formation (start-up roadmap and checklist), developing a comprehensive business plan that outlines business goals and strategies for achieving these goals, and the resources required, marketing and advertising, developing a social media presence, networking, branding, and website optimization. I am committed to leveraging my diverse skills and experiences to help you achieve your business goals. Let's work together to create a thriving, successful business. Schedule a 30-minute consultation with me to discuss your goals, and if my services will match your needs. ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/coaching-packages⁠ Website: https://kinkyourway.com.com Linktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway Kink Your Way podcast - Entrepreneur Series: ⁠https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMDqcNmgdpvHjlx5A5-c_RKBQ9XD6vov0&si=IXKRpCMMmYHB2tpp Check out more from my YouTube Channel Business Series here ⁠https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMDqcNmgdpvGwJxclK6hB3ftK034VYVCj&si=XRc5YUzIjvb-axKS

How I Increased My Passive Income with Digital Products Today, I’m excited to showcase our range of digital products designed to support your journey toward self-discovery and personal growth. In a few of my previous “business series” videos, I talked about passive income as an avenue for entrepreneurs and everyday people to create streams of revenue that generate money for you with minimal effort on your part. Passive income requires upfront effort to create the products or systems, but once set up, they can generate income with minimal ongoing work. Passive income opportunities can be a great way to supplement your income and create more financial stability. In this video, I will share one of my passive income revenue streams. Creating and Selling Digital Products. Make sure you go back and check out my 5 Passive Income Strategies for Entrepreneurs video. This presentation will not include all my digital products but will include my best sellers and my favorites. I have invested a lot of time into creating these products, with a focus on providing education and information to help people live a happy, healthy, fulfilling life. Today, I finally created a business Pinterest account to pin my digital products, one more place to bring people to my website. Free Products: 1. 10 Daily Habits for a Life You Love Checklist 2. 10 Ways to Build Resilience Checklist Paid Planners: 1. Self Love Planner 2. Self Care Planner 3. Medical Planner Paid Journals: 1. Find Your Passion Journal 2. My Flow Daily Manifestation Journal Thank you for joining us on this journey of self-discovery and resilience. Explore our range of digital products to support your growth and transformation. Visit our website today to access these resources and start building a life you love. Remember, resilience begins with you. Embrace it, nurture it, and thrive. Until next time, stay resilient! All of these planners and journals, plus others are available on my ⁠website⁠ and ⁠linktree

Are you ready to transform your mid-career skills into a thriving entrepreneurial venture? Imagine the endless possibilities that await as you leverage your expertise to create a successful business that aligns with your passions and goals. Let's embark on this exciting journey together and unlock the full potential of your skills in the world of entrepreneurship. Today, I'm going to talk about how you can leverage your mid-career skills to transition into entrepreneurship and create a successful business. In this video, I want to talk about 3 things. 1. Common Career Skills that can give you a competitive edge in the entrepreneurial world 2. How to Monetize those skills 3. Some steps to help you effectively turn your skills into a profitable business venture 1. Common Career Skills: Many professionals in mid-career have developed a wide range of valuable skills such as leadership, communication, problem-solving, and project management. These skills are essential for running a successful business and can give you a competitive edge in the entrepreneurial world. 2. How to Monetize: So, how can you monetize your mid-career skills? One way is to identify a niche market that aligns with your expertise and experience. You can offer consulting services, online courses, coaching programs, or digital products based on your unique skill set. Another option is to start a service-based business where you can offer your skills to clients on a freelance or contract basis. This allows you to leverage your expertise while maintaining flexibility and autonomy. 3. Here are some steps to help you effectively turn your skills into a profitable business venture: Identify Your Unique Selling Proposition (USP) Validate Your Business Idea Create a Business Plan Build Your Online Presence Offer Value-Based Services Diversify Your Revenue Streams Network and Collaborate Continuous Learning and Adaptation By following these steps and leveraging your mid-career skills effectively, you can successfully monetize your expertise and build a thriving business that aligns with your passions and goals. Remember to stay focused, persistent, and customer-centric in your entrepreneurial endeavors. Transitioning from a mid-career professional to an entrepreneur is an exciting journey that requires courage, determination, and a willingness to learn and adapt. By leveraging your skills and experience, you can create a fulfilling and successful business that aligns with your passions and goals. Thank you for watching! Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more tips on entrepreneurship and personal development. See you in the next video! Check out my Linktree's below for tons of FREE downloadable products and checklists, resources, and videos for your health and wellness. Happiness On Tap podcast and Kink Your Way podcast are also available on YouTube, iHeartRadio, Audible, and Amazon Music. Listen to my podcasts and business series here: Happiness On Tap podcast: https://linktr.ee/findingresiliencewithleann Kink Your Way podcast https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway Websites: https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/ https://kinkyourway.com/ YouTube Channels: www.youtube.com/@findingresiliencewithleann www.youtube.com/@KinkYourWay.

Ready to Elevate Your Business to New Heights? Discover the Game-Changing Strategies in Our Exclusive YouTube Video! Leveling Up Your Business 1. Strategies and benefits for leveling up your business 2. The benefits of working with a Life Coach and/or Business Coach to accelerate your path to success In this video, I discuss: Strategies and benefits for leveling up your business Continual education Set Clear Goals Develop a Strong Brand Embrace Technology Focus on Customer Experience Diversify Revenue Streams Build a Strong Team Monitor Performance Stay Agile The benefits of working with a Life Coach and/or Business Coach to accelerate your path to success: Clarity and Focus Accountability Personalized Strategies Overcoming Limiting Beliefs Enhanced Self-Awareness Improved Communication Skills Work-Life Balance Accelerated Growth 1. Strategies and benefits for leveling up your business Continual education is a powerful tool for leveling up your business in many ways. Here are some key benefits: Stay Relevant Enhance Skills Expand Network Boost Confidence Adapt to Change Increase Innovation Build Credibility Overall, continual education is a strategic investment in yourself and your business that can lead to long-term success and fulfillment. Keep learning, growing, and evolving to unlock your full potential! In addition to continual education, there are several other strategies you can implement to level up your business and achieve greater success. Other strategies for leveling up your business and achieving greater success: Set Clear Goals Develop a Strong Brand Embrace Technology Focus on Customer Experience Diversify Revenue Streams Build a Strong Team Monitor Performance Stay Agile By combining these strategies with continual education, you can create a solid foundation for leveling up your business, achieving your goals, and realizing your full potential. Keep evolving, iterating, and pushing boundaries to drive sustainable growth and success! 2. Working with a Life Coach and/or Business Coach to accelerate your path to success. Working with a Life Coach can be a transformative experience that accelerates your path to success in business. I offer a Hybrid – of Life Coaching and Business Coaching. Here are some key benefits of partnering with a Life Coach to achieve greater success faster: Clarity and Focus Accountability Personalized Strategies Overcoming Limiting Beliefs Enhanced Self-Awareness Improved Communication Skills Work-Life Balance Accelerated Growth Working with a Life Coach can be a valuable investment in yourself and your business, enabling you to navigate challenges, seize opportunities, and realize your aspirations with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Subscribe ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/home⁠ Subscribe ⁠https://kinkyourway.com/⁠ Check out the following Business Series videos: What Is Affiliate Marketing? What Happens When You Pivot Major Business Decisions By A Small Business Entrepreneur Coaching is offered through Finding Resilience with Leann, schedule a FREE 30-minute consultation with me ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/coaching-services⁠ Check out my printable digital products ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services

Are you a new entrepreneur looking to unlock the secrets to financial freedom? Imagine earning money while you sleep, simply by leveraging your expertise. In this YouTube video, I reveal five powerful passive income strategies to help people just like you. Get ready to transform your knowledge or side hustle into additional income for your small business and pave the way to a more prosperous future. Stay tuned to discover how to turn your passion into profit with these game-changing strategies! In this video, I will talk about 4 things. 1. What exactly is passive income 2. The benefits of passive income 3. Passive income opportunities 4. How I benefit from having multiple passive income streams In this video, I discussed: • What exactly is passive income • The benefits of passive income • Break free from the traditional 9-5 work model • Sense of financial security by diversifying your income streams • Potential for scalability • Freedom to design your ideal lifestyle • A powerful tool for personal growth and self-improvement • Passive income opportunities • Creating and selling digital products • Affiliate Marketing • Creating a YouTube Channel or Podcast • Dropshipping or E-commerce • Automated Online Business • How I benefit from having multiple passive income streams Today, we're diving into the exciting world of passive income and exploring how it can unlock the door to financial freedom. Join me as we explore different passive income strategies, uncover insider tips for success, and embark on a journey toward a brighter, more prosperous tomorrow. Together, we'll unlock the secrets to financial freedom and pave the way for a life of limitless possibilities. If you want to learn more about: Major Decision by a Small Business Entrepreneur What Happens When You Pivot What is Affiliate Marketing Leveling Up Your Business make sure you check out my ⁠business series ⁠ Say goodbye to the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle and hello to a future filled with abundance and opportunity. I'm Leann Herron, a full-time Certified Personal Development Coach and the proud owner of ⁠Finding Resilience with Leann⁠ and ⁠Kink Your Way⁠. I'm also the creator and host of the ⁠Happiness On Tap podcast⁠ and ⁠Kink Your Way podcast⁠. My passion lies in advocating for personal growth, empowerment, and living life to its fullest potential. I'm dedicated to helping individuals unlock their true potential and create a life they love. Check out: My printable digital products ⁠https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services ⁠ ⁠https://kinkyourway.com/digital-products⁠ Affiliate Partners ⁠https://kinkyourway.com/our-partners⁠

How I Increased My Passive Income with Affiliate Marketing What Is Affiliate Marketing? Affiliate marketing is an advertising model in which a company compensates third-party publishers to generate traffic or leads to the company’s products and services. The third-party publishers are affiliates, and the commission fee incentivizes them to find ways to promote the company. Affiliate marketing predates the Internet, but in the world of digital marketing, analytics, and cookies made it a billion-dollar industry. A company running an affiliate marketing program can track the links that bring in leads and, through internal analytics, see how many convert to sales. Visitors who click the ads or links are redirected to the e-commerce site. If they purchase the product or service, the e-commerce merchant credits the affiliate’s account with the agreed-upon commission, which could be 5% to 10% of the sales price. Types of Affiliate Marketing There are three main types of affiliate marketing: unattached affiliate marketing, related affiliate marketing, and involved affiliate marketing. 1. Unattached Affiliate Marketing 2. Related Affiliate Marketing 3. Involved Affiliate Marketing Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way will only do Related and Involved Affiliate Marketing. Currently, all of my Affiliate Marketing Partners are related to my Kink Your Way business. Here is a partial list and links to our Affiliate Partners: OUR AFFILIATE PARTNER - Dom Sub Living BDSM Education No matter where you are in your journey, Dom Sub Living was created to help people explore real BDSM Dom Sub Living wants to help you get the knowledge and support you need to get the most out of BDSM and to practice it safely. As an Affiliate Partner of Dom Sub Living, if you purchase anything from my links I will receive a commission at no cost to you. • If you want to dip your toes into Alesandra’s resources for Doms and subs, you can sign up for her free library here. https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/find-partner/61c68d004c16b/ • If you want to find the perfect partner for your BDSM lifestyle, watch Alesandra’s workshop here. Watch Alesandra’s workshop 4 Steps to Finally Find Your Perfect Partner here https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/find-partner/ • If you want help working with your current partner, watch this workshop! 5 Ways to Help Your Partner Be More Dominant, Submissive, or Kinky. https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/5-ways-to-help-your-partner-1/ • If you want a more cohesive deep dive into the world of BDSM, learn more about this training! Dom Sub Training https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/dst/ OUR AFFILIATE PARTNER - Hot Octopuss Sex Toys They are in the business of making people feel good. They design and build sex toys with scientific innovation and cutting-edge technology. They create unique toys that celebrate every body. So whether you’re cis, trans, non-binary, have limited mobility or are older, you’ll find a Hot Octopuss sex toy that’s perfect for you. Sex toys for females, males, couples, sex toy bundles, sex toys for all. Also, amazing articles. https://www.hotoctopuss.com/ Our Affiliate Partner - The Stockroom You want to explore your kinky side and not go broke. The Stockroom is for you. That's what they have been doing since 1988: creating, producing, and sourcing quality toys, tools, and apparel to everyone with an itch to scratch and not a lot of scratch. https://www.stockroom.com/ Our Affiliate Partner - Adam & Eve Adam and Eve is the nation's largest marketer of adult products with millions of satisfied customers worldwide. https://www.adameve.com/ You can check out all of my affiliate partners on my Kink Your Way website “Our Partners” https://kinkyourway.com/our-partners Subscribe  @KinkYourWay.  Subscribe  @findingresiliencewithleann 

What Happened When I Pivoted My Business Plan Discover the transformative journey that unfolds when you embrace the pivot in your business. Join me at kinkyourway.com! I made a major business decision for my small business, and I'm here to share what happened with you. 1. The Aftermath of My Decision 2. Now What? 3. Then what… About Me I'm Leann Herron, a full-time Certified Personal Development Coach and the proud owner of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way. I'm also the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap podcast and Kink Your Way podcast. My passion lies in advocating for personal growth, empowerment, and living life to its fullest potential. I believe in the transformative power of mindset and self-discovery, and I'm dedicated to helping individuals unlock their true potential and create a life they love. My areas of expertise include mindset mastery, self-love, goal setting, and creating a life of purpose and fulfillment. Through my coaching programs, workshops, and podcasts, I guide individuals on a transformative journey of self-discovery, helping them tap into their strengths, passions, and unique gifts. Chapters in the video: 0:00 - Intro 1:36 - The Aftermath of My Decision 6:44 - Now What? 23:48 - Then what? 1. The Aftermath of My Decision? (see Major Business Decisions by a Small Business Entrepreneur video) What was my decision? FARM THE LAND I OWN Reduce my Social Media distractions (scrolling) Focus on only posting value that brings people to my websites and YouTube Channels 2. Now What? a. I went to work on my website. I looked at each page, I considered my keywords, I deleted sections, I removed my social media links and any pages that were specific to Facebook pages (Private Groups) b. Newsletters My weekly newsletter is Health Harmony: Your Weekly Wellness Guide. Make sure you subscribe to my website Finding Resilience with Leann so you can receive a weekly dose of resilience straight to your inbox. What’s included? Health & Wellness Tips: Success Stories: Ask the Coach: Mindful Moment: Book or Podcast Recommendations c. SEO Google Business Profile 3. Then What? Here is the gold. Just like that, I Pivoted and picked up 2 new clients. Where did they find me…Google.

Unveiling the Significant Business Choice Made by a Budding Entrepreneur. Explore the major decisions made by successful entrepreneurs. Get started on kinkyourway.com now! In this episode, I will talk about: 1. About Me and My Business 2. Why This Business Decision 3. The Major Business Decision 1. About Me and My Business I started my Finding Resilience with Leann Coaching Business in June 2022. I'm Leann Herron a full-time Certified Personal Development Coach and the proud owner of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way. I'm also the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap podcast and Kink Your Way podcast. 1:49 20 Months of Self Education Self-education is everything. I focused on acquiring quality FREE or Low-Cost education from quality sources. Marketing SEO Email List Social Media Branding Content Creation Mindset Storytelling Confidence Canva – media design Zoom – meetings and interviews AI 5:41 I created and developed: 2 websites 6 Social Media pages (Facebook and Instagram) 2 personal, 4 business Host a thriving women’s circle Created a YouTube Channel with over 100 videos and shorts Created and Host 2 podcasts (Happiness On Tap and Kink Your Way) - over 140 subscribers, launched on YouTube, Spotify, Audible, Amazon Music, and iHeartRadio Positive Impact Community of entrepreneurs and small business owners 2 Blogs Business After Hours events and Gallery shows for local artists 11 Digital Printable Products and Lead Magnets and tons of FREE products and resources 2 Email Lists, both with over 600 subscribers 2 Linktrees 8 Affiliate Partnerships for passive income Created multiple resource links to other educators and referral partners 7:44 Coaching & Summits Coached amazing clients (men & women) in person and virtually. Presenter at multiple Summits 8:34 Podcasts Guest on other podcasts Show Up Everyday – Consistency is key Do the Work – It’s hard but so fulfilling Lead with my Heart 9:47 2. Why This Business Decision 9:55 The best advice I received – “Tend to the land you own” What do you own? Websites (including blogs) Email Lists Podcasts – yes they are hosted on platforms I don’t own, but they are mine. 11:35 Email List: I recently launched a weekly health newsletter to provide valuable resources for better health and a more balanced life. “Health Harmony: Your Weekly Wellness Guide” which includes: Health & Wellness Tips Success Stories Ask The Coach Mindful Moments Book & Podcast Recommendations 12:27 Focusing on a Content Calendar including: Blogs – including improving my open rate Newsletters – including improving my open rate Podcasts episodes – quality guests who bring tons of value to my listeners and grow my YouTube channel subscribers Events – more educational Networking – meet more amazing people and potential podcast guests, increase clients Updating my LinkedIn and Google Business Pages and other pages that feature my content. 13:45 Too much time on Social Media – I don’t own Facebook, Instagram, or Threads On March 5th Facebook, Instagram and Threads were down for up to 2 hours – people were losing their minds. What would you do if these platforms were gone tomorrow? Do you have a way to continue connecting with people? EMAIL LIST is your #1 way to continue connecting. Terrible analytics – 5-7% of your followers actually see your content. Content not being shared even though I have no violations of community standards Focus on bringing people to my website by providing quality value, building my Know, Like, and Trust, and converting subscribers and followers into clients. 15:42 3. The Major Business Decision FARM THE LAND I OWN Reduce my Social Media distractions (scrolling) Focus on only posting value that brings people to my websites and YouTube Channels Episode Resources: Websites: www.findingresiliencewithleann.com www.kinkyourway.com Podcasts: Happiness On Tap Kink Your Way

Step into a world of passion, desire, and unbreakable bonds as we sit down with Red Phoenix, the award-winning romance author who has captivated readers with her tantalizing tales of love and BDSM. Join us as we explore the secrets behind her irresistible characters, the art of crafting sizzling scenes, and the enduring power of love that permeates every page of her bestselling novels. Red Phoenix is an award-winning romance author who became known for her series about Brie's introduction to the sensual world of BDSM. As Brie's story illustrates, Red is a big believer in the idea that love can truly conquer all, and her over 30 years of a happy marriage proves that she speaks from experience. It's that very experience she uses to write relatable characters we can't help but cheer on, pit them against trials and challenges that leave our hearts in our throats, and reward her characters and readers alike with wonderfully stimulating scenes of sensual pleasure. Red is also a submissive in real life and wrote the series because she wanted readers to know how much fun it can be! When Red is not writing, she can be found online interacting with her readers. We discussed: 3:12 About Red Phoenix and how writing the Brie’s Submission series has impacted her marriage. 7:46 How I found Red Phoenix - The very first book I read by Red Phoenix was Blissfully Undone. On page 4 of Chapter 1: Blissfully Snowbound, Dan and Jenny were killing time waiting for their partners to arrive at Dan’s cabin for a nice vacation, enjoying a nice fire, munching, and listening to music. “Both of them were Blue October fans, so she decided to indulge in the emotionally potent lyrics as they munched”…OMG that was it, that was the moment I fell in love with Red Phoenix. Those of you who know me, know Blue October is my favorite band. After that moment, reading this story…I was hooked and now own 40 books by Red Phoenix, and have a small shrine to Brie’s Submission. Huge fan, huge! 12:51 Red’s inspiration behind her series about Brie's introduction to the sensual world of BDSM. School\eduction, 40 ish after kids, experimenting, personal development, self-exploration. 19:33 Love conquering all is a recurring theme in her books. How she infused this belief into her characters and their journeys. Personal experience (All of Us and Experience True Love), the joy of BDSM, life lessons. Her muses provided each character. Sir Thane Davis, The Russian, Lea, Mary, Tono.31:13 Communication is the cornerstone of BDSM and it will change your entire life. 34:14 Her books often feature trials and challenges that keep readers on the edge of their seats, how she approached creating these obstacles for her characters, and what she hoped readers would take away from them. Muse inspired and created, and the intersection of personal experiences in her life. We are all going to have difficult situations but how we get through it and you can help others. 40:23 Sensual pleasure plays a significant role in her stories. BDSM takes simple things and makes them sensually erotic. 51:57 Tips or advice for aspiring romance authors who want to explore themes of love, sensuality, and BDSM in their writing. Go to the source, do your research, be educated, self-experience, respect, safety protocols, the tools, the dynamic. 59:52 How she handles misconceptions about the genre she writes in. Episode Resources: Author Red Phoenix: Website: https://redphoenixauthor.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorRedPhoenix Email: [email protected] Kink Your Way: Subscribe for more like this: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Tuk2Pyc3XYM58yIVYYN7Q Website and to subscribe to my newsletter: https://www.kinkyourway.com Kink Your Way podcast is available on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, Audible, and iHeartRadio.

Discover the fascinating journey of The Twisted Monk, a business that started as a personal passion and grew into a renowned provider of handcrafted rope for rope bondage enthusiasts worldwide. This episode is part of our Entrepreneur Series. 1:09:04 The Twisted Monk was originally founded in 2004 when Monk began experimenting with rope bondage and made a batch of rope for his own use. The response was so positive that he started making more for others, eventually forming a business and processing hemp in his backyard. In the spring of 2005, after outgrowing the capacity of his garage-based workshop, Monk moved the operation into its current home. "The Abbey" is the workshop where Monk and his growing team of dedicated artisans cut and finish every order by hand. During my healing and growth journey, I wanted to learn how to tie rope bondage on myself and my mannequins Nikko and Marsha. Sir and I attended Rope Bondage for Beginners Sensual Restraint Play and Rope Bondage Intensive at Self-Serve, a local sex-positive alternative to the old-school adult store. I had been following The Twisted Monk, watching their amazing tutorial videos and wanted to purchase quality rope. We purchased my favorite Raspberry Hemp and love it. We discussed: 5:21 1:09:04 The story behind how The Twisted Monk came to be (right place at the right time 1:10:00) 7:10 54:58 Mentors (Midori, James Mogal, Lee Herrington) 9:27 Education/Mechanics of rope tying (Midori 40:00 1:30:35) 6:37 54:45 1:03:57 Evolution of the rope bondage community over the last 20 years (communication and education) 17:09 Rope - There is no wrong way to do it 22:46 Reality vs. perception in photos 24:03 Demystifying kink - Make it yours 4:21 Seattle kink community and small business opportunities 6:03 12:17 1:02:53 1:14:55 1:29:34 Conventions and Conferences 25:42 Dungeons 27:34 47:18 52:50 1:30:35 Language and communication 31:09 Soft skills (negotiations, green flags, mental health, physical health, limitations, disabilities 31:57 Safety - Cut the rope 33:44 Best Advice for someone starting out in rope bondage 35:21 Casting and Receiving 26:26 40:53 45:30 Intent and Desire (Why) 47:18 Negotiations and planning for a scene 53:38 1:48:55 Who buys rope 1:21:56 Sexual shame 1:37:42 Be your true and authentic self 1:40:14 Gatekeeping vs sharing education and knowledge (YouTube) 1:42:06 Inclusion and Representation 1:52:14 1:54:10 Advice for Entrepreneurs 1:49:42 Measure of a business success 2:05:53 Business struggles and successes Episode Resources: The Twisted Monk: Website: https://www.twistedmonk.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/twistedmonkstudios Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thetwistedmonk Curious about getting started? twistedmonk.com/pages/where-should-i-start Want to buy the best rope? twistedmonk.com/collections/rope-kits Books and DVD instruction? twistedmonk.com/collections/books-and-more Learn more about Twisted Monk twistedmonk.com/pages/about-us Kink Your Way: YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Tuk2Pyc3XYM58yIVYYN7Q Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway Website: https://www.kinkyourway.com Mentions: 19:54 Smut Lovers: The Conference (Nikki Rome) 1:37:53 Sunny Megatron 1:0023 Books and education resources and recommendations Kink Your Way podcast is available on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, Audible, iHeart, and Google Podcasts. Be sure to subscribe to our email tribe to receive exclusive promotions, new product or service announcements, blog notifications, and upcoming events. You can also find me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn.

Discover the extraordinary journey of Nikki, from a retired Mistress to a Spiritual Advisor, as she empowers others to live authentically and align with their soul's purpose. I’m talking with Nicole “Nikki” Brunton-Phillips. Nikki, is a Spiritual Advisor/Psychic Medium, Mother, Author, Business Owner, and Retired Mistress. It took her years to come out of the spaces society once deemed taboo, dark, and built on the foundations of ill or traumatized minds. After retiring her leathers over a decade ago and a whole lot of rebirthing to fall madly in love with herself she now uses all of her life's experiences and wisdom in conjunction with her many divine gifts to help her clients align with their soul's purpose to live authentically. She has discovered a strong connection between the work she once did with what she does now as she fulfills her own soul's purpose. Whether it was being a Dominant in the bedroom or owning who she is as a Spiritual Advisor, Nikki is here to be a guardian for the sacred spaces that allow the seeker to connect with their truth. We discussed: 2:54 Nikki’s journey of being a retired Mistress, Spiritual Advisor and Psychic Medium. How she helps your clients align with their soul's purpose and live authentically, How she discovered and rediscovered her voice Having a supportive community Spiritual peaking 1:03:27 The role self-love and self-acceptance plays in the process of aligning with one's soul's purpose. Boundaries - They are for you, about you. Need/Want Safe Space Resentment 1:06:48 How she combines her life experiences, wisdom, and divine gifts to support her clients in their spiritual growth. 1:19:19 Need/Want Who are you? Who do you want to be? (Women in their 40's) Dream, Purpose, and Adventure Getting Real (Women at/around 45) 1:52:07 Advice for individuals who are seeking to discover their own soul's purpose and live a more authentic life. Know when you are not living in your purpose 2:03:47 Practices or techniques that she recommends for listeners who want to deepen their spiritual connection and alignment with their soul's purpose: 1. Write down 3-5 things that bring you joy (know your value and worth), 2. Write down 1-5 things that bring you peace, 3. Write down 3-5 things that you are grateful for. Episode Resources: Website: https://www.yourconnectedcompass.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ConnectedCompassLtd Company Phone: Office: (505)226-8353 Book: Nikki is a Co-Author of the book Voices Book I: Women Braving It All To Live Their Purpose (available on Amazon) Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and sexual liberation? Join Kink Your Way today and unlock a world of possibilities. website: https://www.kinkyourway.com If you enjoyed this interview, subscribe and share my YouTube Channel – Kink Your Way here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Tuk2Pyc3XYM58yIVYYN7Q Kink Your Way podcast is available on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, Audible, and Google Podcasts.

Join us as we dive into the captivating world of romance writing with USA Today Best-Selling Author Nikki Rome. Discover her passion for storytelling, her love for all things smut, and the community she has built around it. USA Today Best-Selling Romance Author Nikki Rome has been a romance junky since a young age. As a girl she reached for book after book, looking for that happily ever after she always believed in. She loves all forms of romance, and you can find her latest read not far from her reach. Nikki writes contemporary romance with a touch of danger and kink. Her love of realistic characters who face real problems provides a story that touches the hearts of many. As a writer, reader, and lover of words, it only made sense that she publish her stories. Now years later she owns and manages Smut Lovers: The Community. A group of like-minded individuals that come together to talk about their love of all things smut. You can find her hosting Smut Lovers: The Podcast or running Smut Lovers: The Conference. Either way, you know she’ll always be talking about her love of books. We discussed: 2:43 - A little about Nikki and what she does. 4:45 - Nikki's journey of becoming a romance author? What inspired her to write in the genre. 6:55 - Your books are known for their contemporary romance with a touch of danger and kink. What draws her to the elements of danger and kink, and how she incorporates them into your storytelling 10:20 - Smut Lovers: The Community. How did it come to be, and what role does it play in connecting romance enthusiasts. 19:13 - Smut Lovers: The Conference. Some highlights or memorable moments from these endeavors. 21:05 – Impact Scene, 22:40 – Shibari Scene 30:18 - How she approaches the writing process. 34:22 - Advice to aspiring romance authors who are looking to make their mark in the industry. 38:37 - How she balances incorporating steamy and intimate scenes in her books while still maintaining a strong emotional connection between the characters. 45:03 - The importance of representation of inclusivity and diversity in romance novels, and how she strives to incorporate these elements. 1:02:33 - Exciting projects, upcoming releases, and other exciting things happening for Smut Lovers. Mastermind retreats, more releases in series. Episode Resources: Website: https://smutlovers.org/ https://nikkirome.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SmutLovers If you enjoyed this interview, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – Kink Your Way here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Tuk2Pyc3XYM58yIVYYN7Q For more information from me, please check out my website: website: https://www.kinkyourway.com Subscribe to Kink Your Way and embark on a journey of self-discovery and sexual liberation. Join us to unlock a world of possibilities.

Step into the world of kink with us as we embark on a thought-provoking journey alongside Alesandra Madison, a passionate advocate and educator in the realm of alternative lifestyles. Join us as we explore Alesandra's personal path of self-discovery, acceptance, and empowerment within the world of kink. In this episode, we'll delve into the importance of education, consent, and destigmatization, and how Alesandra is breaking barriers to create a more inclusive and understanding society. Alesandra Madison is a renowned BDSM educator and kink advocate, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra helps new and experienced kinksters overcome vanilla frustrations by creating a thrilling Dom/sub dynamic that makes BDSM a way of life. She is a 24/7 submissive and has over a decade of experience in the lifestyle. She is OBSESSED with teaching new and experienced Doms and subs how to make their lives more fulfilling through BDSM, and over 7,000 students have taken her online courses and trainings. We discussed: 3:23 About Alesandra and why she created Dom Sub Living. 7:27 How she got started in the BDSM lifestyle and what drew her to become an educator and advocate for it. 12:29 Community (munches, dungeons, events) 16:11 How she identified the need for BDSM education and what motivated her to fill that gap. 22:29 Some of the most rewarding experiences she’s had as an educator, and how she’s seen BDSM positively impact people's lives. 29:23 Strategies she has found most effective in reaching and connecting with "her people". - Meet people where they are, self-acceptance, authentic. 38:09 What role technology plays in her business, and how she leverages it to reach a wider audience. 44:26 Circle (Community platform, virtual events, and courses) 51:49 Challenges she faced when starting her business in the BDSM education industry, and how she overcame them. 58:14 Advice for aspiring entrepreneurs who are interested in starting a business in adult education. - Long game, be authentic, show up, keep going, celebrate your wins. 1:04:36 Dom Sub Living News – Podcast launch of the Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast. In February 2023, I was invited to participate as a student of Dom Sub Living, as a Kink & BDSM Educator, and as a Kink Aware Professional Certified Life, Relationship, and Health Coach in Dom Sub Living's Dom Sub Dynamics Summit. Episode Resources: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/domsubliving Instagram: domsubliving Website: https://www.domsubliving.com Having a Morning Routine to Wake Up in a Submissive Mindset Workbook https://findingresiliencewithleann.com/products-%26-services/ols/products/having-a-morning-routine-for-waking-up-in-a-submissive-mindset-workbook Overcoming Mindset Hurdles in Your D/s Journey https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkyourway/episodes/Overcoming-Mindset-Hurdles-in-Your-Ds-Journey-e26ahmg Affiliate Resources (if you purchase from my links below I will earn a commission at no cost to you): If you want to find the perfect partner for your BDSM lifestyle, watch Alesandra’s workshop here. 4 Steps to Finally Find Your Perfect Partner here https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/find-partner/ 5 Ways to Help Your Partner Be More Dominant, Submissive, or Kinky. https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/5-ways-to-help-your-partner-1/  If you want a more cohesive deep dive into the world of BDSM, learn more about this training! Dom Sub Training https://findingresilience--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/dst/ Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and sexual liberation? Join Kink Your Way today and unlock a world of possibilities. website: https://www.kinkyourway.com If you enjoyed this interview, subscribe and share my YouTube Channel – Kink Your Way here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Tuk2Pyc3XYM58yIVYYN7Q

Join us on a captivating journey behind the scenes as we dive deep into the making of a groundbreaking Showtime Original Series on Sex Education. In this exclusive podcast episode, we sit down with the incredible Sunny Megatron, the visionary force behind the series, as she shares her insights, challenges, and triumphs in bringing this bold and empowering story to life. Get ready to explore the uncharted waters of sex education like never before! Sunny Megatron is an award-winning Clinical Sexologist, BDSM & Certified Sexuality Educator, and media personality. She’s the host & executive producer of the Showtime original series, Sex with Sunny Megatron, co-hosts AASECT Award-winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast, and was 2021's XBIZ Sexpert of the Year. Currently, she’s the Editor-in-Chief of kink-focused Zipper Magazine. Sunny coined the BDSM community catch-phrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous teaching style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping others overcome shame and find their power through play and pleasure. She’s also working on her first book, “Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Adult Play.” My Sir and I first found Sunny Megatron on the Showtime original series, Sex with Sunny Megatron, probably back in 2018 or 2019. If you haven’t seen it, it’s a must-watch. I found the BDSM and the Kink Lifestyle in 2016, in my 40's. This series and years of following Sunny has helped me grow as a submissive, helped me when I struggled with self-doubt or perfectionism about how a “good submissive” should be, when I struggled with impostor syndrome when I decided I could have a Health and Life Coaching Practice AND be a Kink Aware Professional Coach. We discussed: 4:00 How she does it, all of it. 11:10 Her journey into becoming an executive producer of a TV series focused on sex education. 19:03 The vision behind "Sex with Sunny Megatron. 22:57 The numerous challenges she faced as an executive producer, in bringing a sex education series to a mainstream platform like Showtime. 25:58 Her approach to the selection of topics and guests for each episode. 35:12 What role does a show like "Sex with Sunny Megatron" plays in destigmatizing and normalizing conversations around sex and sexuality. 39:52 Not my kink (NMK) but I will not shame you. 40:56 Shame and its impact on everything, the collective experience we all have. 45:20 Future plans or aspirations for more TV series/episodes. 50:38 Advice for aspiring executive producers who are interested in creating content related to sex education or other sensitive topics. 49:45 Know the business you will be working with, and have as much creative control as possible. 51:55 Not everyone will see your vision. 57:58 Holding space for people to speak their truth. 1:02:10 Sunny's FREE Kink Negotiation Workbook Episode Resources: Direct.me All-Links Page Sunny Megatron's Website American Sex Podcast Open Deeply Podcast If you enjoyed this interview, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – Kink Your Way here: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMDqcNmgdpvGeOVSOgr0lmZwFVsm30UYv&si=WBSn_fLgvWseCJs5 For more information from me, please check out my website: website: https://www.kinkyourway.com Be sure to subscribe to our email tribe.

Thank you for joining us for Heartstrings and F-Bombs: Unveiling the Artistry of Raven Lass. Raven is a member of Unicorn Productions. This social media seductress began burlesque in 2016 and loves, loves, loves to.... play with your heartstrings. With a flair for performance arts, she established a name for herself as a local and published model in Albuquerque, New Mexico. Raven Lass has a knack for making friends, grotesquely overusing the F-word, and giving the best "F-ing hugs." We discussed: 1:44 A little about Raven and what she does. 3:30 How she first discovered her passion for burlesque and performance arts. Background in theater and choir. 5:28 What it means to be a part of a creative collective – Unicorn Productions. 8:49 How modeling influenced her approach to burlesque and performing. 11:09 Memorable experiences or performances that have had a significant impact on her personally or professionally. Captivating the audience. 11:43 Phantom of the Opera act. 15:06 Challenges and stereotypes that come with being a performer in the burlesque industry. Working in the legal field, being a parent. 17:12 Not your people 20:16 Advice for aspiring performers who are looking to explore burlesque or performance arts. Community 22:43 Unicorn University 24:34 – Abq. Mystic Masquerade – Saturday, October 21, 2023 25:55 Her future goals and aspirations as a performer. 26:57 How burlesque has empowered and transformed her as an artist and as an individual. 27:00 Creativity without limits. Episode Resources: Website: https://www.unicornburlesquenm.com/ Instagram: @unicornburlesque Facebook: facebook.com/UnicornPros/ Email: [email protected] Kink Your Way is a shame-free educational podcast made for information and education purposes only. If you enjoyed this interview, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – Kink Your Way here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Tuk2Pyc3XYM58yIVYYN7Q Kink Your Way podcast is available on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, Audible, and Google Podcasts. For more information from me, please check out my website: website: https://www.kinkyourway.com Be sure to subscribe to our email tribe to receive exclusive promotions, new product or service announcements, blog notifications, and upcoming events. You can also find me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100086585479930

Thank you for joining us for Creating Burlesque Magic: Insights from Venus MorningStar. Burlesque performer, producer and professional flow artist Venus MorningStar is the Land of Enchantment’s premiere hooptress, having traveled to various states showcasing her skills. Though she primarily focuses on her passion of planning dazzling shows for audiences these days, if you’re lucky, you might just catch one of her acclaimed and hypnotic hoop acts. A co-producer with Unicorn Productions, Venus works with the team throughout the year to bring burlesque magic to Albuquerque. My Sir and I started attending Unicorn Productions burlesque events early in our relationship. We both enjoy the shows, the skills and passions of the entertainers, and the pure joy that is felt throughout each venue. Unicorn Productions events are truly unique events. We discussed: 3:10 How Venus first discovered her passion for burlesque and flow arts? 9:40 Resources 10:09 Her creative process when planning and choreographing hoop acts? 12:54 Some of her most memorable shows or performances. 18:12 Challenges – advertising and social media 20:03 What Venus loves most about performing and producing burlesque shows. 22:07 Advice for aspiring burlesque performers or flow artists. 25:43 Venus’s future goals and aspirations as a performer and producer. 30:03 Burlesque history in Albuquerque. 32:32 What burlesque means to Venus, and how it empowered and transformed her as an artist and as an individual. 30:56 Blue laws. FYI - NEW MEXICO STAT. ANN. § 30-9-14 et seq. What is Prohibited? Indecent exposure: Knowingly and intentionally exposing one's genitals to the public. Indecent dancing: Knowingly and intentionally exposing one's intimate parts to the public while dancing or performing in a licensed liquor establishment or allowing such to happen to the owner or agent of the licensed liquor establishment. Episode Resources: Website: https://www.unicornburlesquenm.com/ Instagram: @unicornburlesque Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/UnicornPros/ Email: [email protected] If you enjoyed this interview, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – Kink Your Way here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Tuk2Pyc3XYM58yIVYYN7Q For more information from me, please check out my website: website: https://www.kinkyourway.com Be sure to subscribe to our email tribe to receive exclusive promotions, new product or service announcements, blog notifications, You can also find me on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100086585479930 #burlesqueperformer #flowarts #hoops #hoopflow #performer #newmexico #albuquerque #albuquerquenm #personaljourney #confidence

Welcome to the Kink Your Way podcast where guests share stories, experiences, education, and information regarding all things Kink and BDSM. I’m Leann Herron, Kink Aware Professional Certified Health and Life Coach, Kink and BDSM Practitioner, Educator, honored as a collared submissive to my husband and Sir, and creator, and host of this podcast. This episode is part of our Lifestyle & Entrepreneur Series. Thank you for joining us for Behind the Scenes: Insights from a Male Entrepreneur in the Sex Industry with Nate “Diggz”. Nate “Lil Daddy Diggz” is a 50-year-old, engaged hardworking man. He works as a full-time collision repair technician, entrepreneur, hobbyist model, actor, and retired fitness competitor. Originally from Boston Massachusetts, Nate has been in the Lifestyle for 15 years, having dabbled in kink most of his adult life, and in the Sex Worker industry for 9 years.   So let’s get behind the scenes with Nate: 1:51 8:37 His journey of how he got started in the sex industry and how it has evolved over time. 3:30 Acting/films and misconceptions 12:36 What inspired him to become an entrepreneur in the sex industry. 12:55 How he navigates the unique challenges and opportunities that come with it. 15:19 41:43 Mentoring and educating (no faking it) 18:54 Mindset 20:52 22:13 45:02 Read the room 21:33 Competition vs. referral partners 23:09 Money is money 24:09 It’s a business, make sure the client is having fun and getting what they paid for. 24:30 38:46 1:08:30 Don’t limit yourself or your business 27:23 33:05 How he balances his personal life with his professional life in the sex industry and what strategies he uses to maintain boundaries and protect his well-being. 28:15 32:15 Advice for someone considering entering the sex industry as an entrepreneur, entertainer, model, or actor. – Keep it professional 40:17 Consent in everything 43:18 Common misconceptions about the sex industry. 52:12 Communication in Kink 52.50 55:10 You customize your Kink 59:40 Misconceptions people may have about kink and BDSM? 51:07 52:12 How he balances the kinky lifestyle with other aspects of your life, such as work, family, and social circles. 58:08 Lessons learned 1:14:32 Tips and suggestions (Boundaries and limits, Communication, Consent, Promote yourself aggressively)   Resources: Talent Testing/STD testing status (48:08) New Mexico Strippers (1:32:45) John Maez You can find Nate here: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nate.diggz.5 Phone: 808-315-2866   Kink Your Way podcast is available on YouTube, Spotify, Amazon Music, Audible, and Google Podcasts. Kink Your Way is a shame-free educational podcast made for information and education purposes only. Our mission is to provide value to our listeners by providing education, and information from Kink and BDSM Educators for people who are curious, new to the lifestyle, or living it.   Subscribe to my YouTube Channel – Kink Your Way here:   https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Tuk2Pyc3XYM58yIVYYN7Q For easy links to everything Kink Your Way - https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway Subscribe to our website (www.kinkyourway.com) email tribe to receive exclusive promotions, new product or service announcements, blog notifications, and upcoming events. #lifestyle #education #entrepreneur #mentor #dancing #entertainment #acting #trust #communication #honesty #supportlocal #misconceptions #boundaries #balance