Laws about Lashon Hara

We’re entering Into the specifics!

28 Tishrei, Day 27 * make sacrifices* May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

27 Tishrei, Day 26 * The Person who Speaks Lashon Hara* May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

Day 25 * The Truth Hurts* May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

Day 24 * finale to the introduction… the unfortunately reality * May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

Days 21-23 * Continuing with the positive commandments we transgress by speaking Lashon Hara * May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

Day 20 * In the Palace of the king* May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

Day 19 *rebuke to save a life and who do you associate with?* May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

Day 18 *favorable judgements or financial harm* May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

Day 17 *Remembrance and love * May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

15-17 Tishrei, Days 14-16 *causing hurt or strife, and what’s the problem with flattery?* May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

14 Tishrei, Day 13 *Don’t follow the crowd * May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

13 Tishrei, Day 12 *revenge * May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

9, 10&11 Tishrei, Days 9-11 *Warning Signs, _corrective measures_ and Disgrace * May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

7&8 Tishrei, Days 7&8 *The History and it’s Practical effects on us* May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

6 Tishrei, Day 6 *The Final Word* May this learning be L’iluy Nishama Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

How is the sefer complied? How is it organized?

Why is it so common?

Why is it SO bad?? What happens if we speak Lashon Hara?

Why is Learning the details of the Laws Lashon Hara so important?

13 Av Day 76 *Start the training young! * May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

12 Av Day 75 *I _HAVE_ to rebuke someone for speaking Loshen Hara?? But it’s so embarrassing!* May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas Join the chat here: https://chat.whatsapp.com/BOO6h7SMjgLERUmbWG17C6

11 Av Day 74 *Can we praise someone??* May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

10 Av Day 73 *Our responsibilities to our families:* May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

8&9 Av Day 71&72 *Can I speak Loshen Hara to a spouse? Is it worse to gossip to a Jew or Non Jew?* May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

7 Av Day 70 *How to determine if someone is just trying to cause discord and strife, and what to do:* May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

6 Av Day 68&69 *Its extremely not good to speak negatively about a Torah scholar, as one might not ask them questions or advice anymore. We can’t speak Lashon Hara about a foolish person either. Technically we can speak Lashon Hara about a heretic who denies G-d and Torah that we have first hand personal evidence of, HOWEVER everyone in this generation that is not observant is considered a tinok she’nishpat- a “stolen infant” _who therefor cannot be blamed for their lack of faith- so not a heretic,_ and cannot say Lashon Hara about them.* May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

5 Av Day 67 *We cannot say anything bad about CHILDREN, as one might think this is regular childlike behavior and is therefore ok to discuss. _We also cannot discipline based on Lashon Hara_.* May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

4 Av Day 66 *We cannot say anything bad about any family members, as one might think this is a “family issue” and needs to be discussed.* May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

3 Av Day 65 *Even in cases of monetary disputes, if there is evidence but NOT firsthand proof, you _cannot_ take sides, believe or take actions against the other person- because it is still Loshen Hara.* May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

2 Av Part 2 (some days have two sections to learn for that day) If there IS a constructive purpose for you to believe/say something, the proof must be STRONG and experienced Firsthand. May this learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

2 Av, Day 63 of Rabbi Yehudah Zev Segal’s daily cycle of The Chofetz Chaim Even if there is EVIDENCE- if it is not for a constructive purpose (תועלת) we cannot say it or listen to it. May this Learning be L’iluy Nishmas Moshe Mordechai Ben Pinchas

1 Av, Day 62