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Live Life Lubricated: Living a Life of Shameless Embodiment.
by Katy Rayne
This is your permission slip to be too much—too sexy, too ambitious, too damn confident.I help women stop shrinking and reconnect to their sensual, expressive self without shame.I’ve lived the tension of wanting to be seen as powerful but not “too much.”Through fashion, identity, and real conversations, I show women how to trust themselves again.This isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about returning to who you’ve always been. Start your transformation today!Join The Naughty Fae Book Club: About Our ClubCHOKEHOLD: kateandamber.com
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The Female Gaze, Was Never Soft — It Was Suppressed
We’ve been told…that the female gaze is soft. Emotional. Romantic.That women don’t really desire the way men do.That we’re not visual.That we’re not hungry.But here’s the truth…that was never real.It was created by men, for men. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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NETFLIX'S MINX: Feminism, Erotica, and Power in Print
In this episode, we explore the seductive power of the Minx TV series — a bold, fictional reimagining of how women’s sexuality and feminist ideals found an unexpected home inside a 1970s erotic magazine. We’ll get into what made Minx so revolutionary, how it challenges the male gaze, and why it still speaks volumes about women’s pleasure, freedom, and visibility today. From glossy centerfolds to glossy websites — we’re breaking down how owning your sensual expression IS business strategy. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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ASTROLOGY EDITION: Aquarius; The Electric Femme
Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, planet of electricity, upheaval, and radical breakthroughs. But in her shadow, she can be misunderstood, emotionally detached, or stuck in her head. So today—we’re mapping the Aquarian Pleasure Blueprint, one rebellious, sensual spark at a time. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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BUSINESS EDITION: Reclaim Your Time, The Anti-Hustle Workflow
In this no-fluff episode, we’re talking about building a business that doesn’t fall apart the second you go on vacation. Specifically: photographers, listen up. Do your clients really need a phone call to book a session—or have we just internalized outdated sales tactics designed for control, not empowerment?I’m breaking down a more liberated approach to client workflows—where your website becomes your best employee, your booking process puts power in the client’s hands, and you stop babysitting your business just to feel successful. Spoiler: you can still make bank without being glued to your inbox. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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ASTROLOGY EDITION: Capricorn: The Powerhouse in Pearls — Turning Discipline Into Desire
You’re not “too intense,” you’re just not wasting time. This episode is for the women who build empires in silence and want permission to feel powerful AND pleasured.Capricorn energy is more than just goals, grit, and spreadsheets. In this episode of Live Life Lubricated: Astrology Edition, we’re mapping your core desires, unearthing your turn-ons, confronting your pleasure blocks, and rewriting the script on what it means to be successful and sensually fulfilled. If you're a Capricorn Sun, Moon, Rising—or if you’ve ever been called “too ambitious,” “too cold,” or “too intimidating”—this one’s your permission slip to be ALL of you.Plus, we’ll guide you through a Cosmic Pleasure Map using your Venus, Mars, and Rising signs to unlock your unique path to luxury, sensuality, and success on your terms. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Rihanna’s Reinvention: From Pop Queen to Billionaire Boss
She went from chart-topping pop icon to a billionaire mogul, not because she bowed to the industry—but because she pivoted like a damn queen. No new albums in years. No tours. But suddenly she’s leading one of the most inclusive, powerful beauty and lingerie brands on the planet.Was this reinvention to prioritize motherhood? To escape toxic executive ties? To build a life that matched her values instead of sacrificing them to the music machine? We may never know for sure—but today, I’m breaking down Rihanna’s power move, what it teaches us about feminine agency, and why you don’t have to stay married to the version of yourself the world got comfortable with.So sit down, pour something sparkly, and let’s dissect how to reinvent your life—Rihanna-style. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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ASTROLOGY EDITION: Sagittarius: The Limitless Temptress Who Won’t Be Tamed
If you’re a Sagittarius Sun, Moon, Rising—or just tired of playing it safe when your soul is craving wild expansion—this episode is your permission slip to live loudly, dress audaciously, and run toward your desires with no seatbelt. We’re mapping your real cravings, unmasking what turns you on, and flipping the script on every lie you’ve ever been told about being ‘too bold,’ ‘too brash,’ or just… too much.Grab your drink, your passport, or your journal—and let’s step into your Lubricated Era, Sag-style. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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ASTROLOGY EDITION: Scorpio; Unleashing Your Inner Temptress & Creating Your Cosmic Pleasure Map
Step aside, beige behavior—Scorpio has entered the chat. In this sultry kickoff to our Astrology Edition of Live Life Lubricated, we’re diving deep into the psyche, power, and pleasure of the zodiac’s fiercest femme fatale. Whether you’re a Scorpio Sun, Moon, Rising—or just craving a little more mystery and magnetism—you’re about to awaken a part of you that’s been dying to take the stage (in leather, of course).We’re mapping your desires, unmasking your turn-ons, and flipping the script on what the world told you was “too much.” From pleasure rituals and seductive style cues to uncovering the cosmic combo that defines your Delicious Era, this episode is your unapologetic permission slip to show up, shine, and seduce on your terms. Bring your velvet, your bold lip, and your shadow self—we’re not playing small anymore.💋 Because “too intense” is code for “undeniably powerful.”Find Your Birth Chart, the key to your pleasure map. Your FREE Birth Chart | The AstroTwins Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Dripping in Decadence: How to Make Your Home Just as Bold & Sexy as You Are
You’ve done the wardrobe glow-up… now it’s time your living space got the same treatment. In this episode, we’re ditching basic and diving into the sensual world of bold, rebellious, and unapologetically sexy home style. From chandelier drama in your bathroom to velvet on your dining chairs and boudoir prints on your gallery wall — this isn’t about impressing guests, it’s about seducing yourself. If your home isn’t flirting with you yet, this episode is your wake-up call.We’ll talk power objects, rebel color palettes, and how to infuse your space with main-character energy. Because your couch deserves a tiara, and your walls deserve to worship you. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Heels, Hips & Hair Whips: Reclaiming Movement in the Age of Ozempic & Thin Culture
Ozempic, calorie guilt, and punishment workouts—welcome to the new “sin culture” revival no one asked for. While the fitness industry preaches body neutrality and self-love with one breath, it’s selling you skinny-as-fast-as-possible with the other. In this episode, we’re ripping apart the lies of male-gaze workouts (burpees, I’m looking at you 👀) and reclaiming movement as something sacred, sensual, and for our damn pleasure.We’ll talk about how to move like foreplay instead of penance, why hip rolls beat HIIT, and where to find femme-first fitness that turns you on instead of wearing you out. Think Naughty Girl Fitness, Turn Up Dance, and Mimi Midnight — real women teaching movement that celebrates power, curves, and confidence.Because the truth? Your body was never meant to be a punishment project. She’s your party. And it’s time to dance like the patriarchy isn’t invited. 💋 Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Reclaimed: From Obedient to Audacious — My Journey Back to Sensual Power
“She was raised to be obedient… now she’s dancing in heels, dripping in color, and giving the patriarchy a full-body middle finger.” What happens when a conservative Christian good girl breaks the rules, burns the beige cardigans, and reclaims her sensual, rebellious self?In this raw and radiant solo episode, I’m pulling back the glittery curtain on my journey — from being groomed to submit and shrink, to dancing in stilettos, creating erotic art, photographing empowered women, and wearing whatever the hell I want.We’re talking: 💋 Religious shame vs real desire 💋 Beige mom syndrome (and how I broke the curse) 💋 The unexpected grief portal that cracked me wide open 💋 Burlesque, boudoir, bold lipstick, and body sovereignty 💋 Why your turn-on is your North Star (and your revolution)This one’s juicy. Personal. Powerful. And if you’ve ever felt the pressure to “be a good girl,” this one’s for you.👠 It’s not just a glow-up. It’s a reclamation.Instagram acounts:@thekateandamber@hipnoticheelsArt Collection Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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From Beige to Bold — A Closet Detox for the People-Pleaser
Today we’re diving into something that every woman has struggled with at some point — the approval closet. You know the one: filled with outfits chosen to keep you likable, palatable, invisible… beige.But not today. Oh no. Today, we’re ripping the shame tags off your wardrobe and giving your closet (and your confidence) a damn glow-up. Let’s get loud, let’s get gaudy, and let’s get you out of that beige-wrapped existential crisis. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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What Your Style Says About Your Current Frequency—And How to Uplevel It
Because your wardrobe? It’s not neutral. It is vibrating at a frequency. And that frequency is either matching your next-level self… or keeping you anchored in an outdated identity.We’re going to unpack:What your current style says about your beliefs, emotions, and energetic stateHow to identify where you’re dressing from: scarcity or expansion?And how to begin curating a wardrobe that speaks your soul’s frequency into every room you walk into.This episode will shift how you get dressed for the rest of your life. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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The History of Women’s Adornment—Symbols of Power, Protection & Rebellion
In this episode, we pull back the velvet curtain on the long-forgotten truth: women’s adornment has always been a language of power.From ancient Egypt to the Viking north, through corseted Victorians to modern-day Met Gala queens, women have used jewelry, clothing, and accessories not just to decorate — but to dominate.You’ll learn:How Egyptian queens like Cleopatra used gold and gemstones as political propaganda (and literal goddess cosplay).Why Viking women rocked brooches and bangles that doubled as currency and protection charms.How Renaissance and Victorian women hid rebellion in pearls, embroidery, and coded lockets.The not-so-subtle ways modern women are still using adornment as resistance, identity, and energetic flex.✨ Spoiler: Adornment has never been “just for show.” It has always been strategy, magic, and resistance wrapped in silk and sparkle.Whether it’s a corset, a crystal pendant, or a Chanel suit — when a woman adorns herself with intention, she becomes unapologetically powerful.This episode is your reminder that your jewelry is not an accessory… it’s armor. And your outfit? It’s a declaration. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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How Companies Profit from Your Insecurities
Aging isn’t the enemy. But the billion-dollar industry that profits from making you think it is? That’s the real villain.In this fiery episode, we’re calling out the toxic, youth-obsessed machine that sells women the lie that sexy has an expiration date — and that your power, worth, and desirability start to fade with your collagen. Spoiler: it’s all B.S.🎙 Here’s what we’re unpacking (with sass, stats, and zero chill):How beauty, fashion, and entertainment industries intentionally fuel your fear of aging to keep you buying, shrinking, and second-guessing yourself.Why women are taught to disappear after 35, while men get celebrated for “aging like fine wine.”The psychological cost of anti-aging marketing — and how it keeps you stuck in a loop of shame, comparison, and expensive creams that can’t save your confidence.The truth about “too much” and how to reclaim sensuality, visibility, and sex appeal at any damn age.💥 Because when a woman stops fearing age? She becomes unf*ckwithable. She stops buying insecurity. And she starts living fully.✨ This episode is your permission slip to unlearn the shame, ditch the beige, and age like a rebel in red lipstick. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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How Dressing is a Daily Ritual of Manifestation
This episode is your official permission slip to stop dressing like a background character in your own life and start showing up like the full-blown fantasy you are.Host Katy (your sensuality strategist and closet sorceress) breaks down the juicy truth that what you wear isn’t just a fashion choice—it’s manifestation magic. Your clothes carry frequency, intention, and identity, and when chosen consciously? They become a spell you cast every single morning.💃 What You’ll Hear:Part 1: Fashion as Frequency Why your outfit literally changes your vibration—and how red, leather, sequins, or even that silky robe can turn you into a walking manifestation magnet.Part 2: The Ritual of Dressing Forget rushing out the door in sweats—this is your morning mood board moment. Learn how to dress like you’re flirting with the universe (with steps like setting the vibe, choosing a mood word, and affirming yourself like the baddie you are).Part 3: Dress Like Your Future Self Stop saving your best self for special occasions. The future you already has the dream job, lover, and lifestyle—and she is not hiding behind faded leggings. Get her vibe into your closet, now.Part 4: Too Much? Never. “Too sexy.” “Too bold.” “Too much.” People say that when you stop shrinking. Katy dismantles the shame and invites you to dress for joy, power, and drama—because too much is just enough for a woman who’s finally being herself.🔮 Manifestation Tip of the Week:Your closet isn’t just a wardrobe—it’s a portal. So why not step into the version of you that gets everything she wants?Take the Temptress Archetype Quiz to discover the magnetic femme energy you’re meant to embody (Muse, Rebel, Siren, or Queen) and start dressing like the powerful temptress you truly are. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Dressing for the Energy You Want to Embody—Not the One You Want to Escape
If you’ve ever found yourself dressing to hide, to blend in, or just to survive the day... this conversation is your permission slip to start dressing for the woman you're becoming — not the one you're trying to escape.Temptress Archetype Quiz Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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How to stop dressing for approval—and start dressing for yourself.
Most of us have spent our entire lives dressing for everyone but ourselves. Parents telling us what's ‘appropriate.’ Partners hinting at what they like or don’t like. Coworkers, friends, random strangers on the street. Even that one aunt who always gave you the side-eye if you wore anything remotely fun, sexy, or bold. And over time, it conditions us. We start asking ourselves, without even realizing it: Is this too much? Will they take me seriously? Will they think I’m attention-seeking? Sound familiar? And listen — it’s not your fault. This world LOVES to control women through shame, especially around our bodies and how we present them. But just because we were taught that... doesn’t mean we have to keep living that way.Temptress Archetype Quiz Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Owning Your Sensuality as a Mom—Without Feeling Like a ‘Bad Example’
Today’s conversation is close to my heart because it's something so many women wrestle with — especially those who are also mothers. It’s this unspoken pressure that the second you have kids, you’re supposed to shrink. You’re supposed to be “appropriate” — whatever that even means.You’re supposed to trade sensuality for practicality.You’re supposed to stop dressing sexy, stop showing skin, stop celebrating your body... All under the heavy, suffocating label of being “a good mom.”So today, we're ripping that label apart — and replacing it with a new standard.A standard where your sensuality, your pleasure, your radiance aren’t just allowed — they are NECESSARY. For you, and for the tiny humans who are watching you live your life.Let’s get into it.Temptress Archetype Quiz Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Dressing Sexy in Business—Without Feeling Unprofessional or ‘Slutty’
For the entrepreneur who wants to embrace her sensuality but fears judgment in her career or business.You’re a powerful businesswoman. You have a vision, a brand, and a mission that deserves to be SEEN.But every time you go to show up in a way that feels bold, sexy, and authentic to who you are… that voice creeps in.❌ “Is this professional enough?” ❌ “Will people take me seriously?” ❌ “Am I doing too much?” ❌ “Will I lose credibility?”And suddenly, you’re playing it safe again. Muted. Dimmed.Why? Because women are still judged differently for how they present themselves.💥 A man in a fitted suit with his chest slightly open? “Powerful.” 💥 A woman in a fitted dress that shows her curves? “Unprofessional.” 💥 A male CEO with a strong, intense presence? “Leader.” 💥 A female CEO with that same energy? “Too much.”Let’s get this clear, This is NOT about clothing. This is about power. And the world is still deeply uncomfortable with a woman who OWNS hers.To get your copy of your reflections and desires journal mentioned in the podcast.The Oracle of Reflection and Desires Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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My POV of "PUSSY,a reclamation," by Mama Gena
I know I'm going to ruffle a lot of feathers, but I have to state that so far I'm not a fan of Mama Gena's PUSSY book.Which I find so weird since I'm such a sex positive, body autonomy, and feminist that I expected to love this book.Now, it very well could be that because I'm listening to the audio version and narrators can easily make or break a book and that could be my issue. But so far it doesn't seem that “new” of a concept for me, I'm not having any orgasmic aha's. Which could be because I've been in the boudoir world for over 3 years now.I'm only 4 chapters in and it's been a rough listen, but I will persevere and finish the book and give my final opinion here after…I promise.HUGS, KatyThank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Thalassara
Inspired by Tinker Bell and Pixie Hollow, Harry Potter series, and mermaids.Early character designs for my upcoming mermaid project. Protagonist: LyriaElder Mermaid: MarinaBestie: KaiQueen Lysara Antagonist: Nereus, sea sorcerer Thank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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My First Pole Dance Class
Thank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Embracing Your Pussy Power
Hey there, gorgeous!Let's dive right into a juicy topic that often gets hushed behind closed doors: a woman's sexuality. It's time to celebrate and embrace the incredible power that lies within this essential aspect of our being. From personal relationships to professional endeavors, a woman's sexuality plays a profound role in shaping her life, and today, we're going to explore why it's so important.First things first, let's debunk a common misconception. When we talk about sexuality, we're not merely referring to physical intimacy or bedroom antics (though those can be absolutely marvelous!). Instead, we're taking a holistic view, encompassing all dimensions of our sensuality—our desires, confidence, self-expression, and connection with our inner selves.Thank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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QUICK & DIRTY with Katy, Reflections & Desires: The Power of Three
In this Quick and Dirty with Katy episode, I'm discussing a section of my journal that focuses on magical action steps that provide accountability and put the law of attraction into motion. By answering each question you are pronouncing to the world this is the juicy life I want and these are the steps I'm going to take to make it happen.The episode that dives deeper into The Oracle journal, is #3 you can click here.To get your very own copy click here.Thank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Art eXposed: Salvador Dali and the real meaning behind his, "The Great Masturbator" painting.
In my very first Art eXposed episode, I talk about how Salvador Dali pushed through his own fears, with the help of his wife, and how he "documented" it through this (and some others) painting.Thank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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BUSINESS EDITION: Give Yourself Permission to Invest in Your Business/Hobby
Hey Queen!In today's episode, I talk about a new mentorship program I'm in with The Mom Project. I discussed one very important aspect of my session with my mentee about how important it is to invest in your hobby/business/yourself so that you can provide a better life for yourself, your children, and your family. Listen to hear the details and my further explanation on this topic. Because everybody deserves to live life lubricated.Thank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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PART 2 Juicy Interview with Lydia Feldez Sex and Pleasure Coach
In this 2 part episode Misstress Lydia, the High Priestess of Sex and Pleasure, and I discuss the magical journey of self-discovery finding out what feels good and what turns you on, in not just your personal sex life, but also in your fashion style, and life in general.We also, discuss the importance of feeling safe to be fully present in the moment so that you can climax, or feel safe to communicate what you are in the mood for and not willing to do for your partner so that you can have a better connection with them.You can find Lydia on Instagram @mrslydiafeldezYou can follow me on Instagram as well @katyrayneThank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Playgirl Magazine: A brief description and history.
I had no freaking clue this magazine even existed for women and queer men!It's the female response to Playboy and Penthouse magazines. It covered issues like abortion and equal rights, interspersed with sensual shots of men, and played a pivotal role in the sexual revolution for women.**New info**The magazine has been given a revamp and now focuses on the more "enlightened feminist" topics splashed with some suggestive male nudes.OMGAAWWWD! Go listen, it's a fun one.History of Playgirl Magazine - How Playgirl Normalized Male Nudity (esquire.com)Playgirl Plus | Iconic. Bold. Timeless.Thank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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PART 1 Juicy Interview with Lydia Feldez Sex and Pleasure Coach
In this 2 part episode Misstress Lydia, the High Priestess of Sex and Pleasure, and I discuss the magical journey of self-discovery finding out what feels good and what turns you on, in not just your personal sex life, but also in your fashion style, and life in general.We also, discuss the importance of feeling safe to be fully present in the moment so that you can climax, or feel safe to communicate what you are in the mood for and not willing to do for your partner so that you can have a better connection with them.You can find Lydia on Instagram @mrslydiafeldezYou can follow me on Instagram as well @katyrayneThank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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New Year reflection & desires vs resolutions, which one is better and why.
In the spirit of the New Year, 2024 to be exact, I decided to go over some reflection prompts that I have in my journal, The Oracle of Reflection & Desires, and answer each question about my journey both personal and professional. I challenge you to answer these same questions yourself and see what comes up for you.If you're interested in getting your very own copy of The Oracle, you can click here.Thank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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What Does it Mean to Live Life Lubricated?
In this episode, I explain what it is to Live your Life Lubricated and how it really encompasses your whole life and not just behind locked doors. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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Getting down and Dirty with Yes, Misstrix creator Karli Petrovic
Join me and Karli, creator of Yes, Misstrix “The Sexiest Newsletter," having an open and honest conversation about sex education, relationships, body autonomy, love languages, dating, and so much more.If you loved this podcast and want to slip into the sheets with Karli, you can follow her here.Thank you for subscribing. Leave a comment or share this episode. Support the showThis channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this. XXX0,Katy
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
This is your permission slip to be too much—too sexy, too ambitious, too damn confident.I help women stop shrinking and reconnect to their sensual, expressive self without shame.I’ve lived the tension of wanting to be seen as powerful but not “too much.”Through fashion, identity, and real conversations, I show women how to trust themselves again.This isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about returning to who you’ve always been. Start your transformation today!Join The Naughty Fae Book Club: About Our ClubCHOKEHOLD: kateandamber.com
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