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Episode 28 has one of our favorite guests returning to the show: It's the Love Doctor! She's got the lowdown on WHERE dating couples can go have sex especially when they live with their parents. It's a genuine #ThirdWorldProblem, you know? Even Prem & Rogue have faced it at some point. So, where do you go to get lucky? Depending on where you live, there may be a solution. Listen and find out. Then we follow up on an earlier discussion about momentum: When you stop texting and chatting online, what do say when you finally MEET? We have tips and anecdotes, some do's and don'ts. Bonus: when conversation fails you because you're gobsmacked by your date's chemistry

The LSDcast is never a dull one. On this episode we go from philosophical to bawdy within 30 minutes. Tune in. One of our listeners has had some athletic sex with a partner who wants to be choked and flogged. He's unsure of how to proceed; we're going to whip up some fun here, we hope you're not too tied up as we tickle the subject of BDSM. And then, we muse about whether the quest and the thrill of the chase - can it be addictive? Do people know when to stop and appreciate what they've got rather then continuing to search for something or someone better? Join siblings Prem and Rogue as they weigh in. And tell us - how far would you go to give your partner pleasure when they're begging for pain? Inquiring minds want to know. Send answers and questions to @LSDcast or [email protected]

Is chemistry the most important ingredient between two people, is it enough to see a relationship through ? Or is it just over rated ? Prem & Rogue battle this one out, Whose opinion triumphs? Find out on this episode. Then there's the question of choice. We have a listener who has started going out with someone, waiting for it to become 'something' more. Now she's suddenly met someone new and sparks are flying again. . hmmm tricky? Surprisingly Rogue and Prem reverse roles (is that even possible?) and discuss inherent sexism. Would they give the same advice to a girl and a guy asking? Bonus: identical twins and chemistry. To hear for yourself, tune in to this week's episode. Send questions to @LSDcast or [email protected]

In the latest episode, inimitable hosts Prem & Rogue field questions from left field about dealbreakers and deception. How far would you go before you confess the truth? In one case, the perfect partner in crime suddenly confesses she's married. With kids. And wants good sex. Should he walk away or give it to her? And in our second question, we deal with someone who has used false pretenses to set up a sort of professional relationship with someone he wants to ask out. Predicatably, our hosts disagree on where to draw the line. Where do you fall in? With Prem or with Rogue? Listen and then email us at [email protected] or give us a shout out on twitter @LSDcast or Facebook.

While we're still looking for sexy stories (send us your voice notes), on this episode Prem & Rogue talk about how we judge dating profiles, tips, tricks, and no-no's (filters, anyone?). They also field a question from someone living with his girlfriend who's wondering if it's over because they're not having sex anymore. Is it? Prem and Rogue beg to differ (with each other). Tune in and weigh in, we'd love to know what you think. Plus a bonus: Rogue went on a date and also said goodbye to her dating app, erm, fan club. How did that end? Listen to the show and every episode before, too. Send questions to [email protected]

On this episode, we've got a call to action (send us your sexy stories), a slightly depressing (and cynical) take on whether to move in with someone when you move to a new city and a discussion on waiting for someone to break up with you (because when you break up with them, they won't let you go). Prem and Rogue agree to disagree about one of the questions. Which one? Listen to find out. And both see warning signs for the other. Tune in and tell us whose advice you side with. Bonus: In the aftermath of the India Culture Lab panel on love, sex, and desire, we talk about Rogue's weeklong experience with 3 dating/hook up apps as well! Send us questions, feedback and answers at [email protected]

So we've all been there. We meet someone perfect. They make us laugh, they're smart, and we really, really like them. But they don't like us "that way". Should we stay in the game? Can we persuade them to see our true colors? Prem and Rogue take it on ... On episode 22, they also discuss whether a listener who strayed once, at a conference, should tell his girlfriend that he cheated on her. Surprisingly the siblings concur. What do you think? What do they think? Listen to find out more... plus a bonus: When Prem was cheated on. Kinda. 

Does the three-day rule still exist? How soon do you wait to text someone after meeting them? Who texts first? Is there an optimum waiting period before meeting? Prem and Rogue talk about coming across too eager or, on the other hand, too cool for school and losing momentum. Then they wave a red capote to discuss having sex during Aunty Flow's visit, when the chums are in town, or you're riding the cotton pony. Yes, we're talking about how to fool around when one of you is menstruating. It happens. Every month. Join your hosts as they go on a Sunny Deol digression as well as a bonus personal story on not returning texts from someone you gave your number to. Got something to share? Send your questions to [email protected] or find @LSDcast on twitter.

It's back to the basics in Episode 20 - Prem and Rogue answer the question of WHERE to find love, sex, and dating in India. There are tips (classes? outings? groups?) as well as a restaurant role play and real life analysis. You don't want to miss this one. And if you can add to the conversation, we'd love to hear from you. In the sex bit, we tackle the timeless question of "Does Size Matter?" Does it? The siblings have opinions and hard-core advice. They want the listeners to keep it real. Got something to share? Send your questions to [email protected] or find @LSDcast on twitter.

On #19, Prem and Rogue talk about froggy style sex positions (no, it's not graphic, just a news item), what to do when your partner disengages ... in the bedroom, and a twitter comment that got 250 retweets -- about breaking up, abandonment, closure and whether the break-uper owes the break-upee an explanation. Too hard to unpack? Just listen to the show, already. The siblings have some advice (Viagra, anyone?) possible diagnoses (depression?), lack of sympathy (Abandonment issues? Get over yourself!) And more. Totally on fleek, yo! Plus, a bonus from Prem whose 'friend' met a 'chick' with some really straightforward game. We like it! Send your questions to [email protected] or tweet us at @lsdcast

In this episode, we hear from someone living a Justin Bieber song. He's got a girlfriend (Prem & Rogue call her Sita), BUT 'his mama don't like her and she likes everyone' ... specifically another girl she thinks her darling son should be dating instead (We'll call her Gita). What's a shuddh desi boy to do? Prem and Rogue unpackage that one with aplomb. Question two is about sleeping with a married boss just once to get it out of your system. Is that even possible? Is one scratch enough to deal with the itch? The siblings are cautious in their advice. What's your take on this one? Bonus: When Rogue attended a wedding and was embarassed by the groom's mum

When is it time to let go? How do you know when it's a phase, a 6-year itch or time to pull the plug? A serious question demands a serious answer in the love and dating segment. Prem & Rogue look at it and weigh in with personal experience. Plus what time is it? It's porn time! Well, time to talk about how one listener really has a problem with her man's porn and his habit of watching it around her. She thinks he should keep it for his me-time. Prem and Rogue share the average boy's perspective and, of course, the girl's perspective. What is their advice? You'll have to listen to find out. Bonus: Prem and Rogue swap XXX stories including when Rogue's ex sent her porn, by "accident".

We're talking about The Boys today. Both -- the pair down there and how it changes the situation when you can't grow ... a pair as well as, you know, guys with mummy issues. Our first question is about a reaction to someone with only one testicle. Yes, you heard that right. Our second question is about Mama's Boys who say they don't subscribe to traditional gender roles ... but the jury is out. Do they? What do Prem and Rogue think? Check it out for a he said, she said with a lot of giggling on this episode. Totally rated for a mature audience. Plus: Rogue's ex and his mummy issues. Got some to share? Email lsdcast at sonologue dot com or tweet us @LSDcast

Familiarity, they say, breeds contempt. But what about distance? Is it mind games if you forget to call or text your significant other? Or is forgetting just proof that we're all human? Prem weighs in with the guys' pov to talk about accountability in a relationship; Rogue talks about being stifled by an ex's constant need to be in touch. Plus, on episode 14, we talk about the distance to the loo -- especially after sex, especially when the bathroom is shared with a roommate. Awkward much? Plus bonus personal stories about uncomfortable situations. You don't want to miss this; you could learn a thing or seven!

On episode 14, guest host Priyal offers practical wisdom and navigation tips for using social media as a dating tool. Should you DM someone you think is cute on twitter or snapchat or instagram? Is that kosher? Or is that invasive? Can you date someone you meet on social media? Priyal's an awesome guest, Prem & Rogue at least agree on that one! Next we're talking about sweat. The kind that smells. Especially down there. What's a girl to do if she finds it gross? You can count on Prem for personal stories to back up his opinion and advice.  Finally, when is a sweet DP too much of a good thing? All that and more on the Love, Sex, Dating podcast!

Prem and Rogue are back, discussing pedicures and spa treatments. No, not really. They're actually talking about another part of the anatomy that a certain listener wants his girlfriend to explore. Intrigued? Listen in, you may learn something! And we're also talking about when someone sweeps you off your feet and then blows hot and cold. Another listener has asked if this is normal. Expand you vocabulary, expand your mind, right here on Episode 13 where we neither judge nor give dodgy advice (erm. yeah.) Send us YOUR responses to our advice and, of course, your questions, too. 

It's a special episode with a special guest as Prem & Rogue tackle love, sex and the nitty gritty of dating. In this episode: the shifty realm of bromances - when you're competing with your man's best friend (not in a sexual way) for attention. Prem has more sympathy than Rogue does. But they have some practical advice. And they're joined by the Love Doctor herself to tackle Dating 101 - back to basics. HOW, really, how, do you DO online dating? Do you "live life king size"? Go for long walks on the beach? Do's, don'ts and some laughs. Join us in episode 12 wherever you listen to podcasts. Send us questions at lsdcast at sonologue.com or on twitter/facebook, and you could win free Indian Bean coffee.

Prem & Rogue are back sticking their nose into your business and you love it. This time - is it okay to introduce your current flame to your ex? What are the pros/cons? Are there pros at all? Prem comes up with an astonishing metaphor, check it out. Then we move on to the question of open relationships, exploration, monogamy and love. Would you be open to an open relationship? What if your partner wanted your love but other people's bodies? Are you too conditioned by society?   But, wait, there's more ... Hear about the time when Rogue was set up by a blind date to meet his ex! All this (and every back episode) wherever you listen to podcasts. Subscribe! Download!

On their first double digit episode (10! We made it to 10!) Prem + Rogue get into the problems with exes - first when time has faded the bad and left only the good memories, so you want to meet up and (probably) hook up. Wise? As usual, Prem-Rogue disagree. And calling out Prem is their good friend (and famous Bollywood actor, woohoo!) Shiv Pandit drum roll  What do you think? Should Anil meet his ex or not? Drop us a line and win Indian Bean coffee like Shiv did (for just showing up. Lucky man.) Then the siblings look into the act of swallowing after oral. Someone doesn't want to but her boyfriend likes it. What say? And finally, what does it mean when you keep getting back together with your ex? Find us wherever you listen to podcasts. Send questions on twitter or FB, too.   

Prem & Rogue tackle the politics of the first date: what do you say after you say hello? The innately chatty siblings DO have something to say. No, don't stalk your date, but ... well, listen and learn. Then there's the question of performance anxiety -- what's the definition of being bad in bed? They come to some conclusions and then lay it on the line (see what we did there?) to talk about expectations and how romance novels set girls up for disappointment. Bonus: increase your vocabulary and learn what that's called. 

It's an episode filled to the brim as Prem + Rogue take on the mad, bad world of hooking up and the girl honour code. Was it a set up? Was it something else? Find out as they take on questions about testing interest, integrity, and invisibility. Ok, not invisibility, interference! And they talk about how wingmen seem to always be on the boys' side. When do the blokes help the girls pull? Is it a cockblock when a girl does it? And then there's the question of whether love means the same thing to men and women. If it does, then what's cheating about? All that and more on episode 8.

Prem & Rogue actually agree on something in episode 7. You don't want to miss this.  We start by addressing the algorithm for which date to have sex on -- first date? Third date? Okay, not really, but we do debate whether a quick hookup can actually lead to a relationship or not. And no, Prem & Rogue don't agree.  Things get a little heavier on the issue of being taken for granted and when being a punching bag isn't the same thing as a mutually supportive relationship. What do you think?  Share your opinions (and your questions) and stand to win swag* from our partner @IndianBean.  Prem tells about a hit and run sex stop. *in India only  

Remember when you met each other and every little thing they did was magic? And then it all went horribly wrong? What do you do when you can't stand what they do now? Prem and Rogue put their heads together and come up with some advice...of sorts! And then, in a temporary long-distance relationship, the flummoxed girlfriend turns to us for advice on what to do about phone sex and talking dirty. #AadarshBaalika is confused.  Join irrepressible siblings Prem & Rogue, then share YOUR thoughts.  Subscribe on iTunes/Podcast app, or your favorite Android podcast app. If your question gets featured, you can win some tasty swag, too.   

Can a girl (or guy) find love on an app? Or at least a hook up? That's one of the questions siblings Prem & Rogue take on in Episode 5. Has it worked for you? What do you do if your friend's husband is on it? Listen to their stories.  And, why do men just roll over and snore after sex while women want to cuddle? Who wins? Who loses? And why? There's science AND there's emotion. Plus some ridiculous stereotypes. Check it out and share your thoughts.  Subscribe on iTunes/Podcast app, or your favorite Android podcast app. If your question gets featured, you can win some tasty swag, too.   

Episode 4 is where Prem & Rogue beg Hallmark and Archies to love them back and sponsor them during this Valentine's Day themed episode (yes, a little late, but the discussion is evergreen).   Listen as the siblings talk about come-ons, high heels, entitlement, attitude adjustment all at the gym! And then take on Valentine's on a budget, with a shout out to the local chemist shop, dinner expectations, stuffed toys and feeding them to ... pets.    Plus Prem & Rogue share stories of previous Valentine's Days (un)celebrations. Listen for: Baked beans!

When is a date a date? Or not? In the third episode of the Love, Sex & Dating Podcast, Prem & Rogue talk about mixed messages, asking someone out, rejection, and a bum date!  What do you do when you develop feelings for your friend but s/he says "I like you, but I don't want to ruin our friendship?" Differing responses from the hosts ... could there be tension?  Listen as Prem & Rogue weigh in on friends' and strangers's questions - always with bloody awesome advice. All from a desi perspective for the urban Indian diaspora. We feel you, yo. Bonus: When Prem's date wanted to marry him Rated: PG-17

In the second episode of the Love, Sex & Dating Podcast, Prem & Rogue deal with some touchy subjects: facial fuzz and body hair. And Rogue wants to return to this subject and talk about men, next time. Plus, when is the right time to introduce your new paramour to your besties? Are there drawbacks? And how do you gauge his/her reaction to your wanting to step it up?  Listen as Prem & Rogue weigh in on friends' and strangers's questions - always with bloody awesome advice. All from a desi perspective for the urban Indian diaspora. We feel you, yo. Bonus: When Prem got his armpit waxed. Rated: PG-17

Welcome to the first episode of the Love, Sex & Dating Podcast with your irreverent hosts: Prem & Rogue. They're siblings, separated by time and circumstance and no topic is too taboo. You want to hear them banter, especially about the stuff most people usually don't talk about.   In this episode: the sad truth that is a breakup - and a PSA about 'ghosting' and owning your $h!t. We also have a question from a friend about love without a glove.   Listen as Prem & Rogue weigh in on friends' and strangers's questions - always with bloody awesome advice. All from a desi perspective for the urban Indian diaspora. We feel you at the LSD 'cast, yo.  Rated: PG-17